I Used Heroin While Pregnant (How Do I Tell My Daughter?)
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- I Used Heroin While Pregnant (How Do I Tell My Daughter?)
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My respect to a parent who overcomes and loves their kids
Thank you for saying you don't have to share everything about your childhood and life with your children. My experience is they want to know and you over share and then they use it against you. Every story is not meant to be told.
If the child grows up to be healthy, why share? You don’t have to reveal everything in your past. Maybe as she gets older, mom can share her experience as a warning, but no need to go into detail. Just continue to be sober, loving and work on your demons from childhood. That’s all she needs!!!!
She explained why, if you were listening. Questions are going to come up.
There are a couple of reasons, but one is that if the mother was using opioids during pregnancy, then that's part of the daughter's medical history and could be relevant to her someday. Although that's unlikely to be something she'd need to know as a child.
Oh man. This one made me sob. So much love to you, Taylor. If you lived through that, you can do anything. What an amazing mother.
Get out of here. If a man punches a pregnant woman in the stomach you'd admonish him. That's what this woman was doing by taking heroin while pregnant.
amazing mothers don’t do heroin while they are pregnant
@@Mral236d Hopefully you will never be addicted to a drug (including alcohol)!! Shame on you for say something so cruel.
You willingly try the drug in the first place in order to get addicted. People love to not take accountability 🥳
I went to rehab when I was pregnant too. Got to let go of that shame. Did the best I could with what I had. 5 years in recovery with a lifetime to go. The way others look at me is irrelevant to me or my family.
Is your kid OK?
This caller is a super hero! Wishing her all the absolute best!
Don't tell her. She does not need to know and this information can do alot of damage. Keep it to yourself and be proud of yourself that you have become better.
No actually you are wrong cuz I guarantee you that child probably was born addicted to those drugs and may have issues because of it. When her Daughter is old enuf then she should know but only when she is mature enough to handle it.
My dad told me he used to hot box me in my uncle's van when they were smoking marijuana and he had to watch me as a baby/toddler. WTF. I wish he had never said anything. I've been diagnosed with adhd. I will always wonder if I have it because of his early actions in my life.
It's cheating on your kid... Telling them only addresses your guilt/conscious and not the burden it places on them now knowing.
Im sorry and as a mom I send you a big hug.
Would you rather not know why you have ADHD?
ADHD is just another reality almost everyone deals with but the Drs needed a name so the government and pharmacuticals can make money. I don't do drugs, but I know weed won't do that. Add crap is just that BS.
@@PorkyPigsfedup Are you specifically trained in critical thinking? In any medical field ? Have you studied how the brain develops? How old are you, with what knowledge? Are you aware of life and how it develops?... most brain development/neuron connectivity and development that sets littles up for their sensory perception of the world occurs up to the age of 3y/o and much less thereafter. The learning we do as we get older is nothing compared to what is going on before the age of 3. I'm not talking ADHD-like behavior that everyone must learn to deal with which is life. While there is no blood test specifically for ADHD, there are clinical signs which blood work and gut microbiome do signal brain conditions and diseases.
The brain is an organ also. Yes everyone this day and age struggles with blood sugar issues. It's something we all have to deal with in the food environment we as a society have created. Would you tell a diabetic, a type 1 diabetic (auto immune/nothing to do with being obese) they don't have insulin impairment? Just address your behaviors! No more type 1 diabetes! Ta da! LOL. Put in your critical thinking brain - why would any other cellular level condition be different? Asthma because your parents smoked around you, come on it's all in your head, everyone deals with not breathing on a regular basis. 🙃🙄
@@razmiddle9410 sometimes ignorance is bliss. Who's to say this was really the cause. Most likely was contributing. But now my relationship with my father, which has always been strained, is done. Any respect I had to try to get along with him, I just no longer feel. That's sad to lose a relationship for a mistake in the past that he certainly feels bad about. But he told me when he was drunk and high because he felt guilty, while also trying to get me to smoke with him (I feel in a passive aggressive manner, making it all seem okay). He wanted to unburden himself versus the hard work to change and stop.
I'm proud of this women.
Boy John doesn't let anyone slide by with the details. How when what. Before they get the question out. " Lean into the light" a great piece of advice applicable vto to any life circumstance.
Wishing you and your little girl all the best. You are lucky to have her but she is super lucky to have you as a mother!! The fact that you are trying to figure out how to raise her and what to tell her is amazing. The fact that you kept her and overcame so much is also amazing.
My thing is you don't have to share everything with people, including your family and children. If it's something that is a matter of urgency then by all means, share, but my kids don't need to know all of my wrongdoing. Sometimes, to move forward, is letting your past stay in the past
U trash too 😂😂😂
It’s not fair to that little girl to keep medical information from her. She was exposed to toxic substances in utero that will absolutely impact her in some way. She deserves to know what happened to her when she’s old enough to process it.
I think its wonderful that you're coping ahead here. I think that alone speaks volumes.❤
Its soooo important to answer the questions that are actually asked, without the shame... Look at you! You're clean, clear and definitely thinking ahead.
Emotions are valid. Validate her every feeling. Your trauma is significant, hers is an entirely different expression. Don't belittle it if she feels shame or anger or sadness or fear or even disgust- show her what to do with those things in a healthy way, how to honour and validate herself.
You're a good mom. You've got this.❤
Youte becoming on of my faves thank you
This was great advised
Not sure why she is even asking these questions about her ex and her sister? If they are the kind of people who would say things to the daughter to hurt her or mom, then they arent in daughters life. Never again. Not once. How can Mom let these toxic people around them? Be free.
She's ashame of what she did. And she can't take it back. This is when you go to God because that's the only forgiveness you need. Give it to God and trust he will guide you.
Please tell me the song of the day after this was I'm Still Standing
It seems to me that there was more going on in that household than what Taylor was telling us. Think about it she wants to feel rightfully angry at her mother for basically exposing her to his toxicity for the majority of her top childhood but doesn't want to lose her mother out right and still has to genuine love for her. Think about it her mother failed her and her siblings and as a result Taylor turned to two vices to cope with her pain and trauma that she went through after her father's passing to alcoholism. In addition and let's be real here the sister and the father of the baby could potentially say something to the daughter makes me think that either they see her trying to live her life better for her child and they're still using well the father still is at least. I definitely think that Taylor needs to get some counseling and therapy to work through the trauma because she's definitely been through way more than what she's telling us. In addition I strongly recommend that she gets family therapy for her and her mother to work through their issues because there's those issues there. Think about it this woman was a drug addict for nearly ten years from 16 to 25 and then from birth all the way up to 16 she's been exposed to toxicity in her life for nearly eighty percent of it. Meaning she's only had 20% of her life where there was no toxicity where she's Maxwell's to it. This is one of those situations where if she has full legal and physical custody of her daughter she may need to get the courts involved too basically say hey he's still using he doesn't want to get him or get sober I would like to have his parental rights terminated. That's the only way that he'll change and if I were her I would start getting family counseling for your daughter and I'd also talk to your sister and tell her look we may have some bad blood but don't bring my daughter into our personal mess. one thing that. The johnsons is snoring went to let go and forgive yourself... I think when it comes to Taylor I don't think she's ever going to forgive herself on let go she just going to basically learn to live with it and just basically learn not to let it beat her down.
Keep it to yourself.
No ,it shows her daughter that nothing is impossible if you really want to!
Just cuz her child has not shown signs yet, doesnt mean she wont coming up..
If you are not on good terms with people that would want to tell your daughter info to hurt HER and her momma, you cut those people out COMPLETELY
Well kids no matter if their parents hate each other, the kids should still have an opportunity with their parents even if it's supervised. Children shouldn't suffer because of their parents bad decisions
Funny story about *not* sharing. My dad died in 2013. I found out this year I have a sister lol I have no idea if my dad knew or what but he was a dawg 🤣
Get back up again
John loves to kiss up to female callers.
She deserves mad respect for choosing to turn her life around, same goes for men who do the same.
why is he talking at her instead of letting her get the question out. Obnoxious.