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Komentáře • 251

  • @emilychisholm8124
    @emilychisholm8124 Před 5 lety +247

    I cant say enough good things about you. You are articulate. funny, intelligent, empathetic, and brutally honest.... but then you are also so incredibly hilarious and sometimes downright nasty (in a good way) Your delivery is on point and the way you tell your stories, whether fact or fiction, always has me completely intrigued and focused. Damn, girl...you're the whole package!!! You deserve millions and zillions of subscibers... Victoria for president!!! Lol love u so maccchhhh

    • @emilychisholm8124
      @emilychisholm8124 Před 5 lety +4

      And also I feel like this whole video can be applied for anything important or life changing you might want to tell someone close to you. I love when you said to communicate with emotion and articulation. I would hope that my two kids will be able to tell me anything as they get older. I'd much rather them be true to themselves and find happiness than them hiding and being resentful.... I truly have an open mind and as long as they arent hurting anyone else or doing anything illegal.... they can be anything they want.

    • @jibrijibri4548
      @jibrijibri4548 Před 5 lety

      Emily Chisholm PREACH!

    • @raysand2557
      @raysand2557 Před 5 lety +1

      She needs to make a career as a stand-up comedian. She is soooo good, better than many professional comedians. In fact, she is as good as anyone on Saturday Night Live!

  • @nancysmith-paz4538
    @nancysmith-paz4538 Před 5 lety +197

    This 55 year old mother of a 20 yr old and a 13 yr old love your channel. Hey wait am I your oldest fan....damn I just may be! Love your sense of humor!

  • @Nolacarsillo
    @Nolacarsillo Před 5 lety +44

    I’m not Trans nor a member of lgbtq but I appreciate your struggle and love that you tell it on camera ❤️

  • @DejahMonae
    @DejahMonae Před 5 lety +73

    Victoria the only thing I could think about while watching this is "damn she's been gripping onto that juul for dear life the entire video" 😂😂

    • @VictoriaWiggins
      @VictoriaWiggins  Před 5 lety +9

      Dejah Monae I literally fall asleep with it in my hand 😂😂😂😂

  • @0MGitsRayRay
    @0MGitsRayRay Před 5 lety +36

    i am FTM, i've been out to my mom for 3 years now and it was very very difficult for her to come around, it still is, but the other day she called me _handsome._
    unexpectedly. she has never acknowledged me in that way, she even tries to avoid using female pronouns. she says they/them (we aren't at the he/him stage yet)
    but i was in shock that i had to leave the kitchen and cry in my room.

    • @NTonks-xn4tv
      @NTonks-xn4tv Před 5 lety +3

      ratlad omg aw that’s great for you that’s she’s finally trying xx

    • @0MGitsRayRay
      @0MGitsRayRay Před 5 lety +1

      @@NTonks-xn4tv 💜💜💜💜 thank you

    • @wes4439
      @wes4439 Před 5 lety

  • @zeemew1010
    @zeemew1010 Před 5 lety +53

    "I don't like men! What!?" *enemas, buss in the air*

  • @bramblemoth1418
    @bramblemoth1418 Před 5 lety +41

    When i told my mother i was a female i did it horribly. I said i was gonna go for a walk, i asked her to lock the door behind me, as she closed the door i told her to look up gender dysphoria and i ran, like fucking ran fast, until i stopped at a church garden where i cried for a good 20 minutes. I wish this video was around that time. I love you buss queen!

    • @bussyoperator5042
      @bussyoperator5042 Před 5 lety +5

      Im sorry but this is fucking hilarious

    • @andreavelez4968
      @andreavelez4968 Před 5 lety

      This was so funny and poetic 😂 hope you're doing well after that

  • @JessicaHelena1227
    @JessicaHelena1227 Před 5 lety +53

    Yasss we love an Early Bird Christian soccer mom

  • @nikaylacannady1639
    @nikaylacannady1639 Před 5 lety +47

    Only CZcamsr I will sit through an entire ad for. Love you Victoria ❤️

    • @fenzirulfr
      @fenzirulfr Před 5 lety

      get adblocker...no one should have to watch youtube ads.

  • @AllieRamirez
    @AllieRamirez Před 5 lety +69

    Your humor kinda reminds me of drew monson 👀👀👀 love you girl

  • @SonnisLove
    @SonnisLove Před 5 lety +55

    I love you so much 😂 hands down my favorite youtuber!

  • @alexisjanelle
    @alexisjanelle Před 5 lety +49

    me as a 12 year old: “i don’t like cocks”
    present me: “i was lying” lmao

    • @TylerJMua
      @TylerJMua Před 5 lety

      alexinctrl fucking mood lol

    • @helenvoss
      @helenvoss Před 5 lety

      Why is this relatable lmao

  • @poppyyyjonesss5990
    @poppyyyjonesss5990 Před 5 lety +13

    “smooth little hotdogs” i’m dead😂

  • @jjhatch5697
    @jjhatch5697 Před 5 lety +27

    This is a really beautiful and well-articulated video Victoria

  • @ree3197
    @ree3197 Před 5 lety +30

    🎵What my Bussy Bussy wants, My Bussy Bussy gets🎵

  • @paulhegarty8380
    @paulhegarty8380 Před 5 lety +14

    55 year old guy from UK and I love this gal.

  • @Dr3Mc3Ninja
    @Dr3Mc3Ninja Před 5 lety +4

    I really loved how you applied so much humour to a serious topic but relayed some very important information.

  • @coveholdenmehostage3287
    @coveholdenmehostage3287 Před 5 lety +24

    I came out on October 8th because I couldn't wait till national coming out day, and it didn't do anything. My mom said "I don't care, but I'm gonna still call you (dead name) and use the wrong pronouns." I haven't told my dad cause he will beat me with a 2x4. I need to move out. If you're coming out good luck I'm praying for you

  • @meganstark5544
    @meganstark5544 Před 5 lety +6

    everytime i open your new video in morning you make me laugh and i feel like im not alone.i feel like we are friends and making jokes and i feel so nice,being trans is beautiful

  • @capucine6689
    @capucine6689 Před 5 lety +1

    Every video just puts a smile on my face, I'm just on my computer and I'm literally dying

  • @winryl5625
    @winryl5625 Před 5 lety

    I recently came out as trans and found your channel on my search and it’s probably one of my favorites. Your personality is one of the most like, down to earth out of everyone I’ve seen. You’re real and I love that.

  • @affionge
    @affionge Před 5 lety +3

    Love this video! So refreshing to hear someone do a coming out video on a light hearted note makes it seems like it's a normal part of life :)

  • @grimmsus1469
    @grimmsus1469 Před 5 lety +6

    love you mom. it feels like I just climbed out of your bussy yesterday

  • @stagename1031
    @stagename1031 Před 5 lety +2

    I’m not trans nor do I know anyone personally that is, but I’ve been lurking around here for a while. I have to say I love the way you are understanding of BOTH sides. There are so many people on both sides that get so angry that the other doesn’t see their point or their lifestyle immediately. It’s not that one side is just a bigot. There are other forces at work here and we ALL need to cut down on the anger and demands and try understanding and patience ❤️

  • @777newworldlove
    @777newworldlove Před 5 lety +16

    You rock, your videos make my day.

  • @noahb8730
    @noahb8730 Před 5 lety +4

    Thank you for sharing this. I am a trans guy and I came out to my family in February. It's been frustrating to say the least, but my mom specifically is really coming around. We're really close and I am so grateful for her. The things you are saying correlate SO closely to my coming out experience and the way my mom reacted and has started to change her mind as she sees me become happier.
    My dad however is just ignoring it. I've been on testosterone for 7 months now and it's obvious, but him and my step mother dead name me, misgender me, and pretend like I never came out to them. And I have a 10 year old sister over there who I haven't come out to yet. It makes me want to avoid their house at all costs even though I love seeing my baby sister. I don't know what to do about this and I've been stuck for months, so if anyone has any advice I'd be very appreciative!

    • @EvadoCouto
      @EvadoCouto Před 5 lety +1

      Noah Bowser that’s so rough but I’m so glad you’ve got your mom. Hopefully your dad and step mom will eventually follow suit so you can feel comfortable being around them and seeing your little sis. Best of luck dude

  • @adultarado
    @adultarado Před 5 lety +8

    WE LOVE A LGBTQ KIDS SUPPORTER KWEEN 😭😭

  • @moonlightbaby6569
    @moonlightbaby6569 Před 5 lety +3

    is ThaT MaHkeHup?!
    .
    .
    “What? What do you mean makeup?“
    Literally me 😂😂😭

  • @jamiegoldsmith2150
    @jamiegoldsmith2150 Před 5 lety +2

    Such a mature and reasonable voice for young people! love this

  • @rogelimaiko
    @rogelimaiko Před 5 lety +3

    My day alway gets better when i get your post notification

  • @melonyrichfield8932
    @melonyrichfield8932 Před 5 lety +4

    *12 year old Victoria:* WHaT I dONn'T lIkE mEn, gEt aWaY fRoM Me, tHAt's gRoSs

  • @pockies7446
    @pockies7446 Před 5 lety +25

    Just here commenting about how pissed I am you don't have millions of subs. I'll be back to comment this again on every video until you have millions.

  • @ANGEL102698
    @ANGEL102698 Před 5 lety +3

    This video touched my heart and bussy like no other thanks mom

  • @jailyns.5394
    @jailyns.5394 Před 5 lety +5

    Now any balding can be helped. Finasteride helps with balding, helps retain hair and even fill in spots sometimes. So try that, and you are too funny. I do love your channel.

  • @cassandra2088
    @cassandra2088 Před 5 lety

    you're seriously looking more beautiful than ever because your soul is shining through

  • @brittbritt5242
    @brittbritt5242 Před 5 lety +1

    You're so tall! I would've never guessed. We stan a beautiful tall queen

    • @7531monkey
      @7531monkey Před 5 lety +2

      Brittany Ferreira Shes only 76 inches! You can barely see her!

  • @zoielevana
    @zoielevana Před 5 lety +3

    "look at these smooth little hot dogs" lmfaooo

  • @emstanley4675
    @emstanley4675 Před 5 lety

    I have already come out to my mother and this is the best coming out advice i have ever seen. I wish i could have seen it back then because i would have gone about the process differently. I have a hard time articulating myself as well so when my mom would scrutinize me and argue with me, i had a hard time explaining what i was feeling. All of my words were coming from my head and not my heart. I have given up on her and I’m pursuing getting testosterone and fully transitioning without her, but this video gave me hope that maybe some day i can include her in all of this. Thank you for being the way you are. This is the most original, honest, and helpful advice ever. And I’ve watched nearly all “tips on coming out” videos. Again, thank you :).

  • @pammetje1
    @pammetje1 Před 5 lety +1

    gosh.....i need an extra friend like you. you are amazing!

  • @caramelcow7720
    @caramelcow7720 Před 5 lety

    Your honesty realness and down to Earth nature 💕

  • @KateCarew
    @KateCarew Před 5 lety

    You’re absolutely the best,such wonderful advice and somehow you encompass all these wonderful attributes, not a lot of us are humble and wise and kind and hilarious.
    You are blessed and a blessing and all that JAZZ

  • @PalisBee
    @PalisBee Před 5 lety +2

    Thanks for sharing. It's really cool u and ur parents kept working on it and got to where ur at now.

  • @melibunny
    @melibunny Před 5 lety

    I didn’t know It was possible to have a friend crush on someone but your videos are so warm and genuine I just imagine you as my friend already and we’re just sitting here having a chat while I’m drinking my coffee ☕️ keep it up sis, you’re doing great 💕

  • @sendneutrals
    @sendneutrals Před 5 lety

    We love you Victoria you are so down to earth. We love you girl.

  • @regionaldonaldson3546
    @regionaldonaldson3546 Před 5 lety

    Dont be fooled by this ladies humor , she comes off as a comedian but this lady is full of wisdom and deserves to share her intelligence because she is truly a woman beyond her years in wisdom, real talk. Shes the real deal.

  • @christophercunningham9436

    I am so impressed with you. I love your videos and enjoy your personality. I look forward to seeing more of your stuff. You are just so wonderful!

  • @carliefumerelle4353
    @carliefumerelle4353 Před 5 lety

    Wow I love how real this is. How you show the real part of how things can be and that it’s not just an immediate easy change! And your sense of humor in it! I absolutely love you

  • @tisza4187
    @tisza4187 Před 5 lety

    OMG VICTORIA YOU MAKE ME SO HAPPY GIRL I JUST CANT.

  • @alexisjanelle
    @alexisjanelle Před 5 lety +6

    if I were to be reborn, i would want to be birthed from your wondrous bussy ! love you internet mom 💜

  • @marlenaluna2792
    @marlenaluna2792 Před 5 lety +5

    What do you mean makeup? I'm losing my shit 🤣🤣🤣

  • @AndromedaChace
    @AndromedaChace Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful dimples and eyebrows while blessing us with your story.

  • @michellefury12345
    @michellefury12345 Před 5 lety +3

    BRAVO!! Great video!! Sending love!! I'd be proud if you were my daughter!! So much class!! Wise beyond your years!!

  • @vnuiee
    @vnuiee Před 5 lety

    you’re soo funny omfg I haven’t watched your videos in a few months i forgot how hilarious you are

  • @theariley9940
    @theariley9940 Před 5 lety

    I loved this video! so relatable in a lot of ways & I'm glad things turned out well for you xoxo

  • @crisc6958
    @crisc6958 Před 5 lety

    -I adore you, you deserve SO MUCH MORE MAMMA!-
    -I adore you, you deserve SO MUCH MORE MAMMA!-
    Wow, I wrote that first thing while I was cackling with your jokes, but now I've come to the final part of the video and all I can say is that you are a marvelous person, I felt your good vibes and your sincerity, you are a wonder, I love you. You truly deserve so much more.

  • @clarity_clearest
    @clarity_clearest Před 5 lety

    I’ve been binging your videos and honestly you’re so funny and I can’t stop thinking about how you look like Lana del Rey like wow

  • @KaylaJoySmith
    @KaylaJoySmith Před 5 lety

    I am loving your videos lately!! Please keep them coming 😭

  • @xernue
    @xernue Před 5 lety +11

    5 am upload queen

  • @aen9321
    @aen9321 Před 5 lety

    I'm so glad I'm not the only one who does the full body shave ritual.

  • @bridgetlarson1662
    @bridgetlarson1662 Před 5 lety +2

    You said my name and I laughed. I’ll be your best friend 😂☺️

  • @britneleddy4572
    @britneleddy4572 Před 5 lety

    You are very truthful and I respect that

  • @iLove2Laugh76
    @iLove2Laugh76 Před 5 lety

    LOLOL “FINGERS CROSSED” I love you 😂

  • @mdlagos
    @mdlagos Před 5 lety +2

    Thanks for sharing your story❤️.. ps your humour.. love it. You should consider doing stand up🙋🏻

  • @pattycastellanos138
    @pattycastellanos138 Před 5 lety

    the way u carry yourself makes me happy

  • @TeganES
    @TeganES Před 5 lety

    You’re so relatable. I love your humor.

  • @ItsPalice
    @ItsPalice Před 5 lety

    I love your videos, they're so funny. You're the person that inspired me to start a channel

  • @jazzdavina387
    @jazzdavina387 Před 5 lety

    Oml I watched a whole ad for this and sis I busted my buss...and it was worth it lmao 💛💛

  • @chelseyyLove
    @chelseyyLove Před 5 lety

    You are awesome! such a beauty

  • @annsturtevant1684
    @annsturtevant1684 Před 5 lety +2

    18:05 is actually the most important part of this video...

  • @laurah2113
    @laurah2113 Před 5 lety +1

    "YOU ARE A BEAST!!!" LMAO

  • @David-rp5mi
    @David-rp5mi Před 5 lety

    I just found your channel and I have one thing to say... I STAN

  • @alphafenrir.
    @alphafenrir. Před 5 lety

    I'm loving ur vids a bit to much! You're hilarious.

  • @psychodessa3411
    @psychodessa3411 Před 5 lety

    victoria fucking wiggins. Girl, youre fucking amazing. You deserve so many more subs ita ridiculous how your channel doesnt have that much recognition.

  • @frances9975
    @frances9975 Před 5 lety

    I shaved today (also a process) and now I have that great feeling of sheets against freshly shaved legs

  • @Schoolofrockfan172
    @Schoolofrockfan172 Před 5 lety

    Teach them sis!! Love this!

  • @justaddwater5311
    @justaddwater5311 Před 5 lety

    your brows look really good

  • @taytayqueen7024
    @taytayqueen7024 Před 5 lety

    It's impossible not to like you. Your personality is infectious 😂😂😂

  • @sablevonfoxx9996
    @sablevonfoxx9996 Před 5 lety

    Yas queen I am preeing that league background. Akali is lit!

  • @lidiainna
    @lidiainna Před 5 lety

    YOUR SKIN IS SUPER DUPER CLEAR 👏🏼 what is that skincare routine?

  • @masked6701
    @masked6701 Před 5 lety

    Love your personality ❤️

  • @adamtravis9380
    @adamtravis9380 Před 5 lety

    This is the nicest I have ever seen you be hahahah I love it

  • @kaydegiobbi1165
    @kaydegiobbi1165 Před 5 lety

    If you do a quick shave every day, it takes less time and you stay smooth always!

  • @anastasialowe319
    @anastasialowe319 Před 5 lety

    Look I literally can’t stop watching your videos ily adopt me

  • @jimmines1342
    @jimmines1342 Před 5 lety

    I’m heterosexual to a fault BUT I appreciate you and support your journey. You are a truly amazing person and if I was younger I would want to date you. Keep up the good work you are doing know there are viewers who support you

  • @christina.harrison1494
    @christina.harrison1494 Před 4 lety +1

    I feel u girl. Shaveing the bod..2 hrs min.

  • @brainwashboi123
    @brainwashboi123 Před 5 lety +2

    I love you. You remind me of when Chris Crocker was more true to herself. ;p

  • @arianakiim
    @arianakiim Před 5 lety

    i fucking love victoria 🤣😭

  • @iLove2Laugh76
    @iLove2Laugh76 Před 5 lety +1

    My favorite soccer mom.

  • @rubberdog1993
    @rubberdog1993 Před 5 lety

    Honestly I love you so fucking much Victoria

  • @junipereastwood5895
    @junipereastwood5895 Před 5 lety

    This sounds very similar to my coming out - of course my two coming outs were at 18 and 19 when I was already in college (I’m 21 now💅🏻). My mom followed the same pattern as your parents - my dad not so much 😐. Great video for those who haven’t come out yet!

  • @zrae4389
    @zrae4389 Před 5 lety +1

    You're fucking hilarious, I laughed out loud. I never do that watching CZcams.. other than Shane dawson.

  • @iLove2Laugh76
    @iLove2Laugh76 Před 5 lety

    I’m only 2 min in and I’m ROLLING!!! 😂😂👌🏻

  • @salemmustdiee
    @salemmustdiee Před 5 lety

    YOU ARE MY MOM AND I LOVE U

  • @raphaelvargas5001
    @raphaelvargas5001 Před 5 lety

    1:48 mama Victoria got us !! 💪🏼😍❤️🔥

  • @VisionaryTribe
    @VisionaryTribe Před 4 lety

    You are one of my favourite youtubers...just saying

  • @flowercandy8039
    @flowercandy8039 Před 5 lety

    I LOVE YOU QUEEN 😍😍😍

  • @jordynarielle8812
    @jordynarielle8812 Před 5 lety +2

    What flavor of juul pods do you like sister? Im curious

  • @Kirby3585
    @Kirby3585 Před 5 lety

    Beautiful Vid, Tori.

  • @freshlybakedbaglescrunchyp3275

    OMGGGGGGG I LOVE YOUUUUUUU

  • @halahailley6299
    @halahailley6299 Před 5 lety

    love the intro 😂💘💘💘