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My dearest darling Victoria..... I'm a 54 yr old straight granny. I grew up during a time that shaving legs started around the age of 10. So....I was cursed by that misery for many, many years!!!! About three years ago, thanks to old age and menopause, my body hair just stopped growing. Now, I have a grand total of 3 on one leg and 4 on the other. Virtually no arm pit hair. Maybe 2 on my nether region. Maybe too much info there!! Lol!!! I guess I'm telling you all of this because....when you get older none of the things we thought were so important don't seem so special anymore. I'm so glad that you're finding these things that make you a little happier. Shave, don't shave. Wear makeup or don't. Fix your hair or don't. Just be the best version of you that you can be. I really love you sweetheart and wish nothing more than for you to be happy!!!!💙💙💙💙💛💛💛💜💜💜💜
she really has the unique and rare ability to communicate such intelligent ideas and genuine feelings without ever being isolating or condescending or fake. she’s the best!
I'm a trans guy and I shave my legs! I used to want to not shave because it made me feel like a girl, and I did the same, I grew my leg hair out to feel masculine and didn't really like it. I feel more 'me' without leg hair~
I'm a transgirl and I'm not sure if I want to shave my armpits after transitioning or not. Like I don't like hair anywhere else for sure, but I'm growing more comfortable with my armpit hair. Idk.
@@alexisisanarieka4311 after shaving my armpits since I was 13, I gave it up at 22 because I realized my hair doesn't bother me. I was just afraid of other people's oppinions. I've had it for two summers now and I guess nobody noticed. If you don't do it for yourself, don't do it at all. It's your body.
Growing up my mother always gave me "rules" about being a woman. I can't wear open toed shoes without painting my toenails. I shouldn't wear my hair in a ponytail all the time. I should get regular manicures and pedicures and facials. I gotta shave every so often. I shouldn't say unladylike things or belch at the dinner table and I should pluck my eyebrows and trim my nose hair and count calories and on and on and on. First of all: she belched all the time at the dinner table and peed with the bathroom door open. Second of all: I literally never did anything she told me about being feminine and ive grown in a happy hairy unmanicured woman with a great boyfriend and a house. It doesnt matteeeeeeer. Just be happyyyyyyyy.
It’s so beautiful to see you turning things you hated about yourself and saw as ‘masculine’ when you were younger, into positive things that you embrace and love about yourself now. Go girl! Also interesting point you made about doing ‘feminine’ things because you like it vs because you think it’s what’s expected of you, or ‘right.’ I tend to do a fully beat face of makeup every day and constantly tell myself I just ‘love the process’ and the ‘the art’ but I have to wonder if I give makeup too much power in validating the way I present, etc. As for shaving I just love feeling clean clothes on smooth skin (plus love the juxtaposition of a guy’s hairy body against my smooth skin when getting down and dirty) so I don’t think I could give up shaving, lul, but perhaps I’ll have to reconsider the makeup bit... Either way I’m glad you’ve found what works for you, and glad you seem so happy and glowy these days!! Always a treat to see a Wiggins upload in my sub box xox
OMG this video really made me so calm I mean I've seen some videos here on CZcams. They were talking about how to be more beautiful by doing plastic surgeries and this and that and I was kind of feeling really gross even though I knew it wasn't right but I really needed someone to tell me that you don't have to do anything with yourself you just have to be comfortable with yourself and love yourself ... I really missed you Victoria I'm so glad that you came back .love you so much.
Im a pretty femme cis gal and I don’t really enjoy shaving my legs. I have super sensitive skin so I’m like if a little leg hair bothers you, I would say... maybe focus ur energy on something like peace in the Middle East, saving the environment, or helping animals in need. Something of that nature.
Victoria, I never comment, but felt I needed to. This video spoke to me way more than I expected it to. I have struggled with my gender my whole life, but I opted not to transition in my 20s (a long time ago), and many of my reasons were echoed by you here! All the shaving, makeup, hair, etc trying to look "like a woman" was so much work, and I grew to hate it. I feel like had I pursued transition, I would have had a similar journey as you. Thanks for showing me that it is possible to transition without having to be a total girly girl all the time.
The longest I have gone without shaving my legs was probably around 3 months. That's just because I don't feel like doing it in the winter when nobody sees them
Total boy over here who loves to shave his legs... body hair.. doesnt really grow much on me and so for me personally.. thats my happy place... no hair ANYWHERE! lol
I’m so happy that you feel comfortable and happy doing whatever you want with your own body!! I’ve been thinking about this topic a lot lately too, and as a woman who works traditionally masculine and “dirty” jobs i have often felt unfeminine and kinda unhappy because of it. But lately I’ve been reminding myself that being feminine isn’t about being pretty and completely hairless (I HATE hair removal), but it’s more so about being kind, thoughtful, nurturing, and compassionate, or at least for me it is. Keep doing whatever you feel is right for you! When you’re comfortable, you are confident and other people can tell. Lots of love!! Xo
Omg Victoria this is such a well thought out video because, although I’m cisgender I found myself nodding and thinking, wow, this reminds me of those awkward years after MY puberty, and how it’s not so different from the years following someone’s transition where they settle into a more comfortable version of whoever it is they are :-) I wore a lot of awkward makeup, clothing, “trends” during peak puberty and it made me uncomfortable but I also “fit in” and avoided social ostracism as well, so in the end I continued to do it until I left high school and went to college. So really, cis women and trans women really do have some similar experiences coming of age, you just have to open your mind to listen to each other’s experiences ❤️
i find shaving my legs to be fairly theraputic for me. i shave every saturday morning and i look forward to it every time. everyone is unique in there own way and im glad youre happy the way you are
THANK YOU for this video! I don't shave or wear makeup often, but even then I still feel the stigma around it. She doesn't take care of herself. She's depressed. She's not credible or trustworthy. It can be painful to put my body first sometimes.
So awesome ,this acceptance of self and the power in simply being yourself without guilt... regardless of so called standard opinion. Best message yet. Much love
It personally only takes me 10 mins to shave my legs and im a trans woman of European origin so I grow LOTS of dark and thick hair all over. I have to shave my elbows, back of arms, arms, hands, knuckles, legs, feet, stomach, chest etc. like it’s crazy how much hair I can grow but at the same time I feel so free whenever it’s off my body. It just makes me feel disgusting and masculine and I hate having hair anywhere but my head lol. But I respect your choices, this is a very personal decision and more power to you for not giving a fuck !
yes!!!! I don‘t feel like I‘m less feminine when I don‘t shave. It just makes me feel less connected to child me and since that has been the best time of my life I simply feel better mentally when I don‘t shave my arms and legs. And I only put a little amount of makeup just for fun every now and then for the same reason. I‘m not here to look sexy for men, I‘m here for myself.
I am a cis woman who has always shaved my legs since about 12-13 years old. Once I turned roughly 22-23, I stopped shaving my legs and haven’t turned back. I’m very happy not having to do it. I do still feel embarrassed to show it in public because other people look at you like you’re a monster. But at home, I’m just happy being me.
Cis woman who doesn’t really shave because I prefer not to, have bad skin which shaving exacerbates and honestly can’t be bothered to do something to conform to society when it’s not what makes me happy. It’s your body, you have to live in it so it should make YOU happy. 💜
I’m a not trans but I remember growing up and my mom would tell me at like age 10-12 that I need to shave my legs because that’s part of being a women and it’s disgusting if I didn’t and guys won’t like it if I don’t shave She always acted like my leg hair was four feet long lol But you don’t need to shave or wear makeup to feel feminine or like that’s what defines you as a being a woman Even to this day if she sees me with hairy legs she’ll rub my legs 😖 and tell me it’s gross and that I need to shave ASAP
I just chopped all of my hair off today and I'm letting it grow in and be my natural color, which includes grays, and I'm so happy about my choice. It was so damaged and gross from heat and dye and now it's going to grow out healthy and soft. I feel you. More importantly, I'm feeling myself.
I stopped shaving about a year ago or so....and I don't even care about that stuff anymore. I wasn't that keen on it in the first place and didn't keep up that well on it, and then eventually I just figured fuck it and I stopped. I've never been a fan of makeup either! I'm going through menopause hell right now with hot flashes from hell so that's enough to deal with. And I feel the same way about hair! I used to blow it dry and straighten it, and a few years ago I just quit. I throw it in a hair tie after I wash it and that's it.
My friends daughter walked in on me getting out of the shower and she goes, "what's that?". I start to explain a bit and she goes, "no, that.", And points to my leg hair. 😅😅 To be fair, I'm hairy af. But damn. Haha
1:21 maybe it's just me but you kinda look like Lana Del Rey (hope I spelled that correctly). Super pretty. I love that disclaimer too and this video was very insightful x
Scared....of what people think. I still have to put on the eye makeup at least because I feel like my eyes are too small. Since I turned 30 the leg hair has slowed down. Usually would shave solely for the benefit of my partner...which I don't have at the moment, so nope.
Look this video as a "no trans woman" - to learn from you to free myself. Hate shaving ("waste of time" SO truth), bad to my skin years over years. Thanks for sharing the look of your legs. For me it's very important to change my view to get realistic in what is "normal". Lol, have a lot more hairs 🙃. Hope I won't struggle in spring and summer - it will be a big challenge.
I can't relate fully because I am a did woman but I don't shave and it's nice to not waste my time with shaving!! It's kinda fun. :) love you and your videos. 💖💖
I've stopped shaving for weeks & months at a time before. I wouldn't stop shaving permanently but I can understand not giving a fuck or forgetting to shave. As far as makeup, I already don't wear too much makeup that often and when I do it's still more or less a "simple" look, nothing too outrageous. Again, I wouldn't stop wearing makeup permanently but I get why someone would quit giving a fuck to wear it anymore. Point is, it's your life do you. 😉💋
It’s so funny that you talk about this because I am a cis female and I consider myself extremely girly. But I’ve reached the age (26) That I have become comfortable with myself without make up and learn to appreciate natural beauty. A couple years ago and especially when I was growing up in high school I would’ve never been caught dead without make up even though people insisted that I look beautiful without it. When you reach the age that you’re comfortable with yourself as your true self that something any woman can relate to
Hey girl, I’ve been following you for a while. I’m a trans woman in the New Orleans area! Here letting you know I love and support you 100% and you are so beautiful!!!
I'm trans masc but used to be SO ANXIOUS if my legs weren't perfectly shaved. When I thought I was a girl, body hair made me uncomfortable because it was drilled in my head it's supposed to be. When I started accepting myself and went on hormones, and started growing out my leg hair and my happy trail - I feel happy because it feels like me. Every few months I'll shave my legs just to kinda see how much hair is there ( since it's pretty thin ) but only because I may happen to be bored in the shower, not because of what anyone expects out of me.
I quit wearing makeup a few years ago, I rarely wear it now. Might do it once or twice a year if I’m going out or something (I never go out either😂) and I’m way too pregnant to give a fuck about shaving my legs. My man doesn’t mind it and it’s honestly the last thing on my mind anyway. Not a priority for me at all. It’s honestly so much easier now that I don’t give a shit what people think and I can be comfortable without having to wear makeup and do my hair before going anywhere. Fuck doing all of that and spending hours getting ready just to go shopping. Let someone say something to me about my hairy ass legs or my imperfect makeup free face, wish somebody would 😂
Its so empowering when we can accept ourselves as we are. When we get rid of these guidelines and constraints that society tries to force upon us. But the choice is ours! And when we finally realize that and experiment with our thoughts, so liberating! Also get that pizza! Food is not the enemy its the amount of food you eat. Learn to control how much you eat and you can eat anything you want. Its about balance. A little bit of this a little bit of that and limiting yourself. Some ppl (like myself) do not like limits, rules, authority so it doesn’t come naturally but its totally doable and you can still enjoy all the things you used to. Just in balanced amounts.
I have an issue with hair myself, 🙄. I am Sicilian so to hairy for me yet I hate to shave. I figured out I prefer other people to do it, 😊. Problem solved, I go get it done every three months. No fuss, no muss and everyone is happy. Take care and glad you are happy.
I haven't even listened to this all the way through, and I'm here to say that being a woman can mean anything to anyone. For me, it does involve things like not shaving or wearing makeup for as long as I fucking want to! There's no wrong or right way to look like or be a woman. Women come in all shapes and sizes. As you know, in your heart is the place where it starts. Feminine energy comes from a place within, so, whether cis, non-binary, transitioning, etc., as long as we listen to what our feminine energy wants, we are doing it right.
So glad to see your face in my sub feed again! I'm a cis woman who hasn't shaved in almost a decade. Biannually shave my pits and that's it. I wear dresses and makeup and do my nails, but shaving was just a hassle. Takes up too much time, water, and $!
Yes yes yesss my friend i absolutely hear what youre saying about people who go against the stereotype have that view that they are WOKE and superior to other people. People like what they like. And people are allowed to change what they like! Goshhhh
I would wear makeup but I don't want to spend huge amounts of money. Even if I only buy one makeup product it's still super expensive, I could be buying food instead. I also don't feel the need to look perfect all the time anymore.
That intro though, preach! Body hair is not a feminist statement most of the time, and when it is it's a really fucking lazy one, because it literally just grows there. It's just hair, it's not going to bite off anyone's dick and demand equal pay. What you're talking about is super relevant to all young women, but I think for cis women the pressure quite rapidly declines as you age, and not just as a result of individual women rising above it. I would attribute some of it to benevolent ageism. I don't know if that extends to transwomen. I'm glad you can see through the bullshit though, I would want this realisation for all trans ladies out there! You shouldn't have to go around feeling like there might be a pop-quiz on your womanhood at any moment.
I remember as a young girl I would see pop stars wearing crop tops and bearing midriff. I was a girl with a lot of baby chub and I literally dreamed of having a body where I could wear clothes like that. When I got a bit older I thinned out a little and I would rock short booty shorts, crop tops, hair and make up always done. As an adult who actually is smaller than my teenage self I prefer to be comfortable and warm now but I remember how badly I wanted and idolized that ideal picture of what I thought femininity was. Getting to the point where I loved myself regardless of my make up, hair, clothes was such a freeing point. I love the fact that I can actually roll out of bed brush my hair and teeth and go out without feeling self conscious.
On the eating healthy part at the end: my friends who have had to drastically change what they eat, all say it's really important to eat fat in order to feel satiated
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My dearest darling Victoria..... I'm a 54 yr old straight granny. I grew up during a time that shaving legs started around the age of 10. So....I was cursed by that misery for many, many years!!!! About three years ago, thanks to old age and menopause, my body hair just stopped growing. Now, I have a grand total of 3 on one leg and 4 on the other. Virtually no arm pit hair. Maybe 2 on my nether region. Maybe too much info there!! Lol!!! I guess I'm telling you all of this because....when you get older none of the things we thought were so important don't seem so special anymore. I'm so glad that you're finding these things that make you a little happier. Shave, don't shave. Wear makeup or don't. Fix your hair or don't. Just be the best version of you that you can be. I really love you sweetheart and wish nothing more than for you to be happy!!!!💙💙💙💙💛💛💛💜💜💜💜
Thats so sweet!
what a sweet comment!! have a good day
this is so wholesome, you sound like an amazing grandma
Thank you Tina I love you!!! 🤍💙🤎🤍🤍
@@VictoriaWiggins you're so welcome my darling!!! I love you more!!
she really has the unique and rare ability to communicate such intelligent ideas and genuine feelings without ever being isolating or condescending or fake. she’s the best!
When you lose your dollar shave club sponsorship..
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Omg
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I'm a trans guy and I shave my legs! I used to want to not shave because it made me feel like a girl, and I did the same, I grew my leg hair out to feel masculine and didn't really like it. I feel more 'me' without leg hair~
I'm a transgirl and I'm not sure if I want to shave my armpits after transitioning or not. Like I don't like hair anywhere else for sure, but I'm growing more comfortable with my armpit hair. Idk.
@@alexisisanarieka4311 after shaving my armpits since I was 13, I gave it up at 22 because I realized my hair doesn't bother me. I was just afraid of other people's oppinions. I've had it for two summers now and I guess nobody noticed. If you don't do it for yourself, don't do it at all. It's your body.
@@veve7349 thank you :) and I'm a huge advocate for girls being natural
I'm a cis woman 25 years of age and I dont shave anything... a lil tmi but you know what people need to hear it.
4 minutes and 20 seconds in and you already made me feel inspired and made me realize why i admire and adore you so much
@WESLEY JORDAN Ahahaha I ain't gonna lie, it took me a FAT minute to understand the reference lmao xd
This video is like, god-tier trans-liberation content
Growing up my mother always gave me "rules" about being a woman. I can't wear open toed shoes without painting my toenails. I shouldn't wear my hair in a ponytail all the time. I should get regular manicures and pedicures and facials. I gotta shave every so often. I shouldn't say unladylike things or belch at the dinner table and I should pluck my eyebrows and trim my nose hair and count calories and on and on and on.
First of all: she belched all the time at the dinner table and peed with the bathroom door open.
Second of all: I literally never did anything she told me about being feminine and ive grown in a happy hairy unmanicured woman with a great boyfriend and a house.
It doesnt matteeeeeeer. Just be happyyyyyyyy.
It’s so beautiful to see you turning things you hated about yourself and saw as ‘masculine’ when you were younger, into positive things that you embrace and love about yourself now. Go girl!
Also interesting point you made about doing ‘feminine’ things because you like it vs because you think it’s what’s expected of you, or ‘right.’ I tend to do a fully beat face of makeup every day and constantly tell myself I just ‘love the process’ and the ‘the art’ but I have to wonder if I give makeup too much power in validating the way I present, etc. As for shaving I just love feeling clean clothes on smooth skin (plus love the juxtaposition of a guy’s hairy body against my smooth skin when getting down and dirty) so I don’t think I could give up shaving, lul, but perhaps I’ll have to reconsider the makeup bit...
Either way I’m glad you’ve found what works for you, and glad you seem so happy and glowy these days!! Always a treat to see a Wiggins upload in my sub box xox
OMG this video really made me so calm I mean I've seen some videos here on CZcams. They were talking about how to be more beautiful by doing plastic surgeries and this and that and I was kind of feeling really gross even though I knew it wasn't right but I really needed someone to tell me that you don't have to do anything with yourself you just have to be comfortable with yourself and love yourself ... I really missed you Victoria I'm so glad that you came back .love you so much.
I’m happy to help :)
when she talked about how she liked her arms 🥺 my heart
Im a pretty femme cis gal and I don’t really enjoy shaving my legs. I have super sensitive skin so I’m like if a little leg hair bothers you, I would say... maybe focus ur energy on something like peace in the Middle East, saving the environment, or helping animals in need. Something of that nature.
I’m a straight lady and I don’t shave my legs cuz I don’t care. No one is touching my legs anyway lol
mood
I'm a trans girl too...and omg, let me tell you, this is so relatable!
Welcome back Victoria, I missed your videos so much!! It's awesome to see you again, and you are rocking some fabulous leg hair I might add!
CURLY GIRL METHOD for your hair babe! that frizz might wave 🌊
Victoria, I never comment, but felt I needed to. This video spoke to me way more than I expected it to. I have struggled with my gender my whole life, but I opted not to transition in my 20s (a long time ago), and many of my reasons were echoed by you here! All the shaving, makeup, hair, etc trying to look "like a woman" was so much work, and I grew to hate it. I feel like had I pursued transition, I would have had a similar journey as you. Thanks for showing me that it is possible to transition without having to be a total girly girl all the time.
The longest I have gone without shaving my legs was probably around 3 months. That's just because I don't feel like doing it in the winter when nobody sees them
Wow sweet girl, missed you so much while you were gone! It's so great to have you back!!
In this time that you have been away you have grown up so much! I love to see you comfortable with yourself. You deserve it! This gramma loves you
Love ya girl. You are awesome! ❤
Thanks :D
Total boy over here who loves to shave his legs... body hair.. doesnt really grow much on me and so for me personally.. thats my happy place... no hair ANYWHERE! lol
I’m so happy that you feel comfortable and happy doing whatever you want with your own body!! I’ve been thinking about this topic a lot lately too, and as a woman who works traditionally masculine and “dirty” jobs i have often felt unfeminine and kinda unhappy because of it. But lately I’ve been reminding myself that being feminine isn’t about being pretty and completely hairless (I HATE hair removal), but it’s more so about being kind, thoughtful, nurturing, and compassionate, or at least for me it is. Keep doing whatever you feel is right for you! When you’re comfortable, you are confident and other people can tell. Lots of love!! Xo
Omg Victoria this is such a well thought out video because, although I’m cisgender I found myself nodding and thinking, wow, this reminds me of those awkward years after MY puberty, and how it’s not so different from the years following someone’s transition where they settle into a more comfortable version of whoever it is they are :-) I wore a lot of awkward makeup, clothing, “trends” during peak puberty and it made me uncomfortable but I also “fit in” and avoided social ostracism as well, so in the end I continued to do it until I left high school and went to college. So really, cis women and trans women really do have some similar experiences coming of age, you just have to open your mind to listen to each other’s experiences ❤️
i find shaving my legs to be fairly theraputic for me. i shave every saturday morning and i look forward to it every time. everyone is unique in there own way and im glad youre happy the way you are
Haha, I thought I was the only one! I find shaving very relaxing 😄
Love your authenticity. You radiate beauty
so glad you're happy and back on youtube
Thanks so much! :)
THANK YOU for this video! I don't shave or wear makeup often, but even then I still feel the stigma around it. She doesn't take care of herself. She's depressed. She's not credible or trustworthy. It can be painful to put my body first sometimes.
The intro for this video was so relaxing
Wow this video is so important! In a word full of people too afraid to stray from the norm, this is some raw ass SELF LOVE. Go you! ❤️🙌🏼✨
So awesome ,this acceptance of self and the power in simply being yourself without guilt... regardless of so called standard opinion. Best message yet. Much love
It personally only takes me 10 mins to shave my legs and im a trans woman of European origin so I grow LOTS of dark and thick hair all over. I have to shave my elbows, back of arms, arms, hands, knuckles, legs, feet, stomach, chest etc. like it’s crazy how much hair I can grow but at the same time I feel so free whenever it’s off my body. It just makes me feel disgusting and masculine and I hate having hair anywhere but my head lol. But I respect your choices, this is a very personal decision and more power to you for not giving a fuck !
I. LOVE. THIS. OHMYGOD!!! I’m a cisgender woman but I’ve always loved your confidence and just the way you are so awesome just being yourself.
You are so beautiful because you are so authentic ❤️ I really admire you Victoria! Keep being yourself!
yes!!!! I don‘t feel like I‘m less feminine when I don‘t shave. It just makes me feel less connected to child me and since that has been the best time of my life I simply feel better mentally when I don‘t shave my arms and legs. And I only put a little amount of makeup just for fun every now and then for the same reason. I‘m not here to look sexy for men, I‘m here for myself.
seeing u back & showing so much growth is amazing & it rly inspires me
Well spoken as always. 🤗🤗
you speak in such a beautiful way, im happy for you
I am a cis woman who has always shaved my legs since about 12-13 years old. Once I turned roughly 22-23, I stopped shaving my legs and haven’t turned back. I’m very happy not having to do it. I do still feel embarrassed to show it in public because other people look at you like you’re a monster. But at home, I’m just happy being me.
It makes me so happy, to see you happy, Victoria - because you deserve happiness so much, never forget that ❤️
i love this new content so thought provoking and interesting ! ily victoria :) 💞
Cis woman who doesn’t really shave because I prefer not to, have bad skin which shaving exacerbates and honestly can’t be bothered to do something to conform to society when it’s not what makes me happy.
It’s your body, you have to live in it so it should make YOU happy.
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Victoria 💕💕💕 we love you
I’m a not trans but I remember growing up and my mom would tell me at like age 10-12 that I need to shave my legs because that’s part of being a women and it’s disgusting if I didn’t and guys won’t like it if I don’t shave
She always acted like my leg hair was four feet long lol
But you don’t need to shave or wear makeup to feel feminine or like that’s what defines you as a being a woman
Even to this day if she sees me with hairy legs she’ll rub my legs 😖 and tell me it’s gross and that I need to shave ASAP
I just chopped all of my hair off today and I'm letting it grow in and be my natural color, which includes grays, and I'm so happy about my choice. It was so damaged and gross from heat and dye and now it's going to grow out healthy and soft. I feel you. More importantly, I'm feeling myself.
This lowkey a spoken word
You've grown so much Victoria, you amaze me
I stopped shaving about a year ago or so....and I don't even care about that stuff anymore. I wasn't that keen on it in the first place and didn't keep up that well on it, and then eventually I just figured fuck it and I stopped. I've never been a fan of makeup either! I'm going through menopause hell right now with hot flashes from hell so that's enough to deal with. And I feel the same way about hair! I used to blow it dry and straighten it, and a few years ago I just quit. I throw it in a hair tie after I wash it and that's it.
My friends daughter walked in on me getting out of the shower and she goes, "what's that?". I start to explain a bit and she goes, "no, that.", And points to my leg hair. 😅😅
To be fair, I'm hairy af.
But damn. Haha
1:21 maybe it's just me but you kinda look like Lana Del Rey (hope I spelled that correctly). Super pretty. I love that disclaimer too and this video was very insightful x
Scared....of what people think. I still have to put on the eye makeup at least because I feel like my eyes are too small. Since I turned 30 the leg hair has slowed down. Usually would shave solely for the benefit of my partner...which I don't have at the moment, so nope.
This is one of my favorite videos of yours'. You seem lit from inside. Whatever you're doing, keep doing it.
Look this video as a "no trans woman" - to learn from you to free myself. Hate shaving ("waste of time" SO truth), bad to my skin years over years.
Thanks for sharing the look of your legs. For me it's very important to change my view to get realistic in what is "normal". Lol, have a lot more hairs 🙃. Hope I won't struggle in spring and summer - it will be a big challenge.
I'm so glad you're back. I missed your videos. 💕
I can't relate fully because I am a did woman but I don't shave and it's nice to not waste my time with shaving!! It's kinda fun. :) love you and your videos. 💖💖
I've stopped shaving for weeks & months at a time before. I wouldn't stop shaving permanently but I can understand not giving a fuck or forgetting to shave. As far as makeup, I already don't wear too much makeup that often and when I do it's still more or less a "simple" look, nothing too outrageous. Again, I wouldn't stop wearing makeup permanently but I get why someone would quit giving a fuck to wear it anymore. Point is, it's your life do you. 😉💋
It’s so funny that you talk about this because I am a cis female and I consider myself extremely girly. But I’ve reached the age (26) That I have become comfortable with myself without make up and learn to appreciate natural beauty. A couple years ago and especially when I was growing up in high school I would’ve never been caught dead without make up even though people insisted that I look beautiful without it. When you reach the age that you’re comfortable with yourself as your true self that something any woman can relate to
You’re so fucking inspirational Victoria 💕💕
Hey girl, I’ve been following you for a while. I’m a trans woman in the New Orleans area! Here letting you know I love and support you 100% and you are so beautiful!!!
I'm trans masc but used to be SO ANXIOUS if my legs weren't perfectly shaved. When I thought I was a girl, body hair made me uncomfortable because it was drilled in my head it's supposed to be. When I started accepting myself and went on hormones, and started growing out my leg hair and my happy trail - I feel happy because it feels like me.
Every few months I'll shave my legs just to kinda see how much hair is there ( since it's pretty thin ) but only because I may happen to be bored in the shower, not because of what anyone expects out of me.
Happyness is so hard to find. Just do what make u happy.
Youre so genuine and i love that! Do you still stream on twitch?
I totally missed your videos - also do some more storytime-mukbangs! Lol 😆 ❤️
I shave like once a month when I wanna feel like I really ~tried~ hahaha
Lol. Truth
100%. I need a fuckin gatorade once I'm done
plz never stop making videos 🥺
You are so on. How’d you get to be so smart? So nice to see you back on CZcams ❤️
I can see you are on your journey of enlightenment, congratulations
This is such an important and well expressed message for everyone ! Thank you, Victoria !
Any time :D thanks for the feedback!
I like watching your videos no matter what Victoria but I *really* appreciated this serious take!
Yes 💗 do you and what makes you happy 🥰 much love
I quit wearing makeup a few years ago, I rarely wear it now. Might do it once or twice a year if I’m going out or something (I never go out either😂) and I’m way too pregnant to give a fuck about shaving my legs. My man doesn’t mind it and it’s honestly the last thing on my mind anyway. Not a priority for me at all. It’s honestly so much easier now that I don’t give a shit what people think and I can be comfortable without having to wear makeup and do my hair before going anywhere. Fuck doing all of that and spending hours getting ready just to go shopping. Let someone say something to me about my hairy ass legs or my imperfect makeup free face, wish somebody would 😂
Its so empowering when we can accept ourselves as we are. When we get rid of these guidelines and constraints that society tries to force upon us. But the choice is ours! And when we finally realize that and experiment with our thoughts, so liberating! Also get that pizza! Food is not the enemy its the amount of food you eat. Learn to control how much you eat and you can eat anything you want. Its about balance. A little bit of this a little bit of that and limiting yourself. Some ppl (like myself) do not like limits, rules, authority so it doesn’t come naturally but its totally doable and you can still enjoy all the things you used to. Just in balanced amounts.
Glad to have a Victoria vid uploaded today, on my birthday:)
Happy birthday!
Happy birthday! 🎂🎉🎈
Glad you back
I thought the background was french fries 🤪
I have an issue with hair myself, 🙄. I am Sicilian so to hairy for me yet I hate to shave. I figured out I prefer other people to do it, 😊. Problem solved, I go get it done every three months. No fuss, no muss and everyone is happy. Take care and glad you are happy.
I haven't even listened to this all the way through, and I'm here to say that being a woman can mean anything to anyone. For me, it does involve things like not shaving or wearing makeup for as long as I fucking want to! There's no wrong or right way to look like or be a woman. Women come in all shapes and sizes. As you know, in your heart is the place where it starts. Feminine energy comes from a place within, so, whether cis, non-binary, transitioning, etc., as long as we listen to what our feminine energy wants, we are doing it right.
I 100% agree Bonnie. This is exactly how I feel and I think you phrased it so well! Miss u xo
@@VictoriaWiggins love you, miss you xoxo
This is so relatable as a fellow trans girl. I feel so understood, thank you ❤️
So glad to see your face in my sub feed again! I'm a cis woman who hasn't shaved in almost a decade. Biannually shave my pits and that's it. I wear dresses and makeup and do my nails, but shaving was just a hassle. Takes up too much time, water, and $!
I LOVE YOU!❤❤❤
Fucking preach girlllll! I love you so much Victoria
Yes yes yesss my friend i absolutely hear what youre saying about people who go against the stereotype have that view that they are WOKE and superior to other people. People like what they like. And people are allowed to change what they like! Goshhhh
Also, babe, get that pizza! Get some vegan cheese on it. ALL the veggies. And then make that shit at home. Its wicked healthy. Much love
I’m afab and this video hits home! I’ve been shaving my toe hair for so long and why??? Who am I trying to impress? It’s just hair
Glad your back!!!
love you victoria!!
I'm a trans guy & I kinda want to shave but because I'm not on testosterone yet it would make me feel wayy too fem
I would wear makeup but I don't want to spend huge amounts of money. Even if I only buy one makeup product it's still super expensive, I could be buying food instead. I also don't feel the need to look perfect all the time anymore.
That intro though, preach! Body hair is not a feminist statement most of the time, and when it is it's a really fucking lazy one, because it literally just grows there. It's just hair, it's not going to bite off anyone's dick and demand equal pay.
What you're talking about is super relevant to all young women, but I think for cis women the pressure quite rapidly declines as you age, and not just as a result of individual women rising above it. I would attribute some of it to benevolent ageism.
I don't know if that extends to transwomen. I'm glad you can see through the bullshit though, I would want this realisation for all trans ladies out there! You shouldn't have to go around feeling like there might be a pop-quiz on your womanhood at any moment.
No shave jan.
ILYYYYY VICTORIA
the fact that you uploaded while I'm shaving my legs
Femininity comes in all different forms, it's not long nails, long hair, and pretty dresses. That is what society portrays it to be.
Why don’t people use hair clippers to shave their legs it seems like it would be way faster
I remember as a young girl I would see pop stars wearing crop tops and bearing midriff. I was a girl with a lot of baby chub and I literally dreamed of having a body where I could wear clothes like that. When I got a bit older I thinned out a little and I would rock short booty shorts, crop tops, hair and make up always done. As an adult who actually is smaller than my teenage self I prefer to be comfortable and warm now but I remember how badly I wanted and idolized that ideal picture of what I thought femininity was. Getting to the point where I loved myself regardless of my make up, hair, clothes was such a freeing point. I love the fact that I can actually roll out of bed brush my hair and teeth and go out without feeling self conscious.
You're such a cool person
You're so cool, thanks for this xx
On the eating healthy part at the end: my friends who have had to drastically change what they eat, all say it's really important to eat fat in order to feel satiated
The hair on my legs has always been so fine and light that it is hard to see. I haven't shaved my legs for years.
My name in a Victoria Wiggins video?? I can die a happy girl!!! 💋
I think your perfect just the way you are. ❤️