Pal ... you ain't wrong. Her fairness, her intelligent resonses and her reasonable approach to all these cases is what attracted me initially to these posts. But, yes ... she IS an attractive woman.
Everything she says makes it worse 😂😂😂 "I pay for their college"... Na it's a scholarship. "he lives rent free in my $350,000 house"... You have a $350,000 house?! " I look after my sisters kids"... You look after someone else's kids when you can't look after your own?? 👀 😂 😂 Absolute weapon
Honestly I feel like Judge Vonda was being unfair. It doesn't matter if she's the bio mom or not. If she's the guardian that should be taken into account. And if I were her I'd start charging the dad rent or evict his ass. He can find his own place now that he's got an extra $1400/month.
@@jessicaarmstrong5035 In your logic, You are saying the father must take the kids money and use it in his expenses while they can live in their moms house while the mother has no issue with that?, 2. I don't think its her job to decide if the guy needs to be evicted or not. 3. With that kind of money, assets and affordability to take herself and kids into vacations whenever she's back from her other vacations the child support is still going to be high.
He seems a little jealous and maybe a tad entitled. Rent free in her house and still wants her to pay child support? Did you notice how he was when he talked about how she’s able to do things with their kids and he isn’t? She worked to get a better job so why doesn’t he as well? Dude is lucky in my opinion.
Thats fine. Then he will tack that on as his additional bills and she can be found in contempt of the court. Elle you are one of those women that aren't very intelligent are you? Pretty sure if he's living in the house she owns, there is no rental agreement hence no obligation to pay rent. He can literally squat there and she'd need an eviction order which would be denied the moment they find out its the father of the children who has half custody
Duvalle Lindsey 😂🤣 I don’t know where the fuck your love but ain’t no men letting their baby mother I’ve with them and pay no bills foh we not talking bout mf that are in a relationship we talking bout mf that are co-parenting so stop the bullshit he isn’t her man they ain’t together she is helping him by allowing him to stay somewhere he doesn’t have to worry about bills so where tf is his checks going since he don’t have to pay bills
@@downbad2874 If a bitch this ignorant is clocking 150k a year my guess is they're living in a higher cost of living area. Also, if I made 35 k last year, guess what that means this year? Nothing He's had them 7 straight weeks. Let's say he makes a standard 35k a year that's only 17.50 an hour, single rate with 1 or 2 dependents comes out to around 12.5 13 an hour take home. But logic makes vindictive people angry.
It's so funny how we as people become grow our arrogance's when we have/ making money. He became beneath her after she started her position. I'm all for it but when mom/dad starts to act like the kid(s) don't matter, then who's making more should pay
Nah 1500 is too much imo. Just because she can afford it doesn't mean it should be taken from her. Work should be done to see exactly what the expenses are for the children and go from there.
@@treacherousjslither6920 I guess you didn't pay any mind to this video now did you? SHE as in the mother GAVE the kids that fancy lifestyle so its not fair to them when they go to dads house they can't keep the lifestyle going. She is the only one to blame for this not DAD. the courts are there for the KIDS not the parents. GROW up and act like adults or the courts will do the job for you.
@@cr1m203 There's nothing wrong with children experiencing a more humble lifestyle. Your thinking supports dirty female, although females have this coming, big time
I love it when you wear your hair natural. This reaffirms that women in high places who are natural can wear natural hair with hopefully no negative impacts from supervisors, clients, coworkers.
If he was in service for less than 20 years than he doesn't get a check for that. You have to have served a certain amount of time to get full benefits for the rest of your life. I know a lot of ppl who served but don't have any continued benefits because of how long they served
If he is living in her house rent free and she pays all of the bills that should be taken into consideration, he may only make 35K a year but if he doesnt have to pay rent or any off the bills he is doing pretty good than.
Agreed. I don’t think either of them should b paying child support tbh. He pays no bills for them so why doesn’t he have money to take care of them n do things with them while they’re in his custody? She don’t need to pay for HIM to b able to take them to 6 flags when she’s payin for the roof over their heads n their education.
That's actually not what happens in a court of law. No judge would ever tell a person that because the point of a judge is to be the fact-finder. That means finding out the facts. Which means they're supposed to let the person talk. If they find that what is said is irrelevant that means it's okay to disregard it but you can't just tell a person to shut up in court unless you have a gag order. That was highly unprofessional of her.
I love this “Take no BS” attitude you’re rocking. If I ever get caught up in any sort of issue like this, I would want to have you as my judge, because even if I lose, I know it would be a fair trial.
Cares that the dad can't take them places supposedly when he probably just has the opportunity to have money but doesn't! U just saying that Cuz your a man
I loved this! The mom has such a bad attitude , rolling her eyes, flipping her head like a teenager. How dare she think he owes her money for someone else's kids!
@@geraldjohnson3216 She thought that he was just supposed to pay even though she makes 5-7 times more than he does. Brought up all the extra mess for no reason at all.
@Junior Reaves If they have shared custody, no one should have been paying child support. That brother got railroaded. Now I'm wondering what the hell was his lawyer doing at the custody hearing? Looks like he wasn't doing a damn thing.
Did she not provide them with a house? Free food? Wi-Fi? Water?power? Dad is t paying any bills but his own car. He is living in her house rent free, bill free, with groceries. And she’s taking care of 3 other kids.
@@samareahines6366literally a house, roof, power etc… are literally apart of the bare minimum any parent can provide. If he doesn’t pay any bills and she still allows it that is on her.
@@Enteryourssnthe bare minimum isn’t taking them to Paris and exotic trips though now is it. The bare minimum ain’t letting her bd stay in her house rent free
Now I despise child support aka title IV-D, but this judge is in violation of her oath of office because title IV-D jurisdiction is EXECUTIVE in nature not judicial which mean this judge is more of an administrative hear officer than a judge and administrative officers has no judicial authority to rule in any case, since title IV-D is federal and not state judiciary this case needs to be heard in federal court to avoid violating the constitution.
@@iancarisi8342 What about alimony, you can marry at 18 divorce at 28yrs old and have to support the Ex for the next 50 years. PLUS child support usually given to women OVERCALCULATED.
I've seen CS cases go a lot worse. A fair shake for both parents is all one can ask for. I'm glad things are changing all around to be equal because a childs default best interest, circumstances allowed, should be with both parents as equally as possible. Well done to dad for stepping up and I can only imagine what he has to deal with when she is copping that much attitude IN COURT. The just absolute AUDACITY
It is extremely rare, but it's about time a man left child support court with his head up. If it were ever asked "where are most men raped?", most would say prison; it's actually child support court.
@@Talk2Me7 it's pretty much self explanatory! She makes more than him and he has them! She should be paying not him! Once again she got what she deserved
This is a cut and dry case. The judge not ghetto, she was controlling her court room. If she reported $150k, she actually making close to $175k. The courts generally dgaf about the men and what bills they pay
He doesn't pay any bills. He lives in her property rent free. So..... Now she need stop charge him $1400 rent to recoup her child support obligation. How bout that
wish martinez although not explained in the video, she likely either had to let him love there, or she would have to pay him cash for 50% the value When they split.
Equal rights were meant for the work place, not domestic situations, us men normally have greater incomes than women therefore we don’t see these types of scenarios on average.
@@authoranon3684 I don't know where you get that. Equal rights for women was established for every aspect of their lives. Read the Amendment. But unfortunately, they're are some women that want it both ways. They want equal rights but also want special considerations that are in direct contrast to equality.
The ironic thing is that he may end up having less now because if he was living in that house rent free, he was getting way more than 1800 a month in value. Of course the other part of it is control. She could have dictated whatever she wanted in regards to that house. Now he can get his own place.
Yes that’s right I agree with this decision they’re mostly with the dad so it’s only right the woman pay child support she makes $150,000year+ she owns a $350,000 house 🏡 yup that’s about right she supposed to pay child support because if it was a man making that they’d be ripping the hell out of him
ramir The Black king this is 100 % true but I don’t care who pays for child support man or women!! Child support is child supporting ONLY not Disneyland for manwhores that live of women. that’s not right weather if is a man or woman the world should be equally???
The father is clearly living rent free in her $350,000 home! Father sounds like a bum to me... I bet he only has those kids because she allows him to live rent free
@@pagingdoctoradderley yeah i agree, not only rent free, but also free food, free tv, free wifi, etc i dont agree with the judge, she made her decision based in the woman ´s attitude and not in the real facts she should consider...it wasn´t an objective verdict
As a dad who had to fight for his kids tooth and nail in a state that treats dads like a second class parent I approve of this whole heartedly. Real or Fake this needs to happen more often, in what world should any parent regardless of gender be put to the brink of sanity and financial ruin just to be in their child's life or keep them safe. My ex had been arrested 34 times in less than 4 years with charges ranging from cdv, grand larceny, possession, distribution, stalking, violating restraint order to escape and manufacturing methamphetamine....(how she isn't still in prison is beyond me)...and STILL even with all this and her being arrested IN COURT.... twice, and failing 9 of an 11 panel drug screening...I had to jump through hoops and spend thousands just to get my kids away from a bad parent/situation simply because she's a woman. Currently she is almost $10,000.00 in arrears on child support and the court could care less...... I assure you I was never afforded such leniency with support by the courts.....again because she is a woman. I have nothing against women, and some day I hope my daughters grow into strong, independent, and intelligent women....and while I can't have any more children....they can....hopefully if they have sons things will have changed for the better by then.
you might of had to hire a top notch attorney. Also teaching them to be strong and independent is not a good idea- as it wasn't their fault their mother couldn't control her actions.
Women do get off easier in court with child support. I have been in the court rooms and seen it myself. My ex husband is $50,000 behind right now and is still getting off easy really. However a man who had paid more in child support than he had made that year came in because his stay at home ex wife wanted more money. The judge gave him a 15% bump in payment. She didn't need the money she just wanted it and got it. Another woman was $100,000 behind had no excuse for not paying and nothing happened to her. She walked out of that court room like it was just another day. The court systems are way too lenient on women for sure, but they tend to be too lenient period on most of these deadbeat cases. I feel for men in the system way more than women sometimes though, cause I have seen the BS of both first hand.
😳😳 This whole time I'm watching and loving this show and thinking this can't be real. They have to be actors because I just can't believe these parents are this delusional. I sometimes listen to her explain the case but usually skip to get to the next one.. today I finally watch to the end just to find out 😂🤣 this a courtroom based telivision drama.. still watching 🤣😂🤣
I understand the law is the law, and that's that. So everything else I type is just mild ranting. I don't follow the argument that since the kids "can't do x, y and z activities" with one parent, the other parent should pay more child support. Activities are voluntary and not necessary. Food, shelter, clothing, utilities, transportation, necessary school expenses, health related items and emergency items are a different thing. Those are necessities, and I think necessities should be the only things that factor into child support. I believe the parent who is taking care of the kids the most, should bring all verifiable expenses to court to show the actual monthly expenses to the judge. Then the judge should make the other parent pay half plus a very reasonable "cushion". This goes for men and women.
I agree for the most part however there does need to be some kind of quality of life for them as well. With the astounding difference in income one can literally pay more to give them that quality.
I think this judge is miraculous and just what ppl need to see and hear in today’s society. Keep it up! Keep it coming! Wonderfully produced and very educative.
@@bugattirari9916 only in family court do they use real judges. Most people only go to child support court. And those aren't real judges usually. They just work with the government to collect debt. It's a collection agency that can lock u up.
Courts look at it two ways, one is if this couple was still living together raising their kids, what is the percentage each of them would contribute to support the children. If one parent makes a good amount more then the other then on paper they provide more for the children. When I went court, they saw that I was 100% the contributor in our relationship because my ex didn't work, so guess who got screwed? ME. Second, the court looks at the percentage of financial burdens. Like, does one parent pay for health insurance, then they deserve some compensation for taking on that burden for children they both share equally.
O...my...gosh...lol I choked up laughing right now when you said "excuse me" to the guy 2:48 . It was like you were, "I got this, I know what you're about to say, let me do my job". And then he's like mmmmhhhmmm when you say everything he was going to say lol. Just great and funny. Love your videos
She’s just gotta start charging him rent and he’ll have to return her child support right back, and probably then some!! If he’s living in her house rent-free how much could his bills be?? This is the only one I have disagreed with. She wasn’t neglecting her kids... she was out of town for training on her job. I also think rent should be deducted from her child support payments. She should pay something, but damn!! I guess she’s lucky she can afford it!!
Right, what financial responsibility does the father have to the children if the mother is already paying for the roof over their heads, insurance and tuition? I mean I would think the father could aleast handle the cost of food, clothes and activities. The tuition and insurance alone for two children is already over a thousand dollars a month. Plus paying the mortgage on a 350,000 home if the home is not paid off.
I wish I had this judge when I did my case my judge did not care after she got locked up again then the judge decided to grant me custody. The state stole 22 thousand from me and I'm still not receiving any child support from the mother they didn't even have my amount right they had a different social security number that was not me. I ask for a income review and they still didn't do one the courts are a big joke.. to all the real fathers out there keep pushing like I am today! God bless the real men!!!!!!
Unfortunately, the courts and lawyers know this and use the system to punish men mostly so women are equal. If your a dead beat mom you don't get punished as severely as a man. I suggest get a lawyer and see how quickly you get your money back...
You should really run the whole system.. I wish my son had you for a judge blk men don't have a voice I thank you for your service sis.. we need more like you
I love this judge! She is awesome! I could watch her all day. Thanks for have common sense. Not like that Lawyer in Detroit who made that poor man pay child support for a kid he didn't knew existed or was not even his kid. We need more like Judge Vonda!
I’m pro dad but this lady is paying for his house... you can bet she is going to stop doing that and now rent is going to be an expense was it worth it? Humm.
She most surely should. That's called greed. She should charge him exactly the child support amount. No one should be paying child support in this situation.
@@aliciamobley6961 you might need to watch the video again or read my comment. If she pays for private school, the house he lives in, the bulls for said house and all that. If she simply now said ok fine I’ll pay the 1100 child support she can evict him now between bills and rent he will be paying so much more more then what ever child support he was paying likely even with the new influx of child support. I’d agree as long as she does all that for the kids no one should pay child support. My point is in this case the dad likely lost out by trying to get child support.
ENVY DRAMATIK if he living rent free in a 350,000 house then she should just stop making him pay child support either that or she need to pay him pay rent at her house then she’ll get her 1500 back
Equality is equality. Ppl saying the father should get a better job should also say the same thing when it's the other way around. He's not on welfare. He works a legitimate job. Just doesn't make as much as she does
@@jackiecarrillo1447 He may pay his mother rent. But like I said, keep the same energy when the shoe is on the other foot. I keep my position. Men get all kinds of railroaded In these courts all day everyday. From he got her use to living a certain lifestyle to she needs 30k a month to take care of 2 children. BS. And the courts enable this foolishness. Smh
I am dying and rolling right now when the judge said do you see this man right here man you two put a commercial where Steph Curry was coming out at perfect time 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love she is so fair and shows that ALLLLL parents should be held responsible for their children. not just dads can be deadbeats, contrary to what many people think. There are some deadbeat mommas out there too, amd some daddy's holding it down for their children.
Yes, child support is for the children. She should pay her money and find ways to make more. After all she will have the time since the children are with the father.
This judge needs to be in charge of all child support in the USA!! She is more then fair man or woman!!!
Yep
I agree. She is good.
I wish she would be appointed to an actual child support court here in texas
Speaking just for myself take care of my kids but it is nice to be treated Fair
I AGREEEEE
I like the fairness of this Judge!!
Me too.
Yeah that's the job of a judge. To be fair
Y’all know this is fake right 😂😂
@@anthgras3105 I think only you and I know and watch to the end.
@@bev_ovchic76 I didn’t even watch to the end. I was like this is so fake. Checked out the channels page and it says it right on their CZcams page
TikTok brought us here 😩🏃🏾♂️😂
TIK TOK most definitely brought us here😂😩 and I’m loving her
Facts 😂😂
@@Youngjay604 big ole facts
😂 yesssss
🤣🤣🤣yes it did
We need more judges like her. She deserves to be in the supreme court. Totally fair and no bs, straight to the point.
With all due respect, this judge is beautiful. You have to love an intelligent and vocal woman.
EXACTLY!! A powerful and educated women are more than 10 times attractive 🦋🥰
Beware of child support
She be so stanky!
Usually 'with all due respect' is followed by a passive aggressive insult.
Pal ... you ain't wrong. Her fairness, her intelligent resonses and her reasonable approach to all these cases is what attracted me initially to these posts. But, yes ... she IS an attractive woman.
Everything she says makes it worse 😂😂😂 "I pay for their college"... Na it's a scholarship. "he lives rent free in my $350,000 house"... You have a $350,000 house?! " I look after my sisters kids"... You look after someone else's kids when you can't look after your own?? 👀 😂 😂 Absolute weapon
Other kids was the best. She makes money but is so dumb in other things
@@pliniopaolinellias he said "she lucked out with her job"
Honestly I feel like Judge Vonda was being unfair. It doesn't matter if she's the bio mom or not. If she's the guardian that should be taken into account. And if I were her I'd start charging the dad rent or evict his ass. He can find his own place now that he's got an extra $1400/month.
@@jessicaarmstrong5035 In your logic, You are saying the father must take the kids money and use it in his expenses while they can live in their moms house while the mother has no issue with that?, 2. I don't think its her job to decide if the guy needs to be evicted or not. 3. With that kind of money, assets and affordability to take herself and kids into vacations whenever she's back from her other vacations the child support is still going to be high.
He seems a little jealous and maybe a tad entitled. Rent free in her house and still wants her to pay child support? Did you notice how he was when he talked about how she’s able to do things with their kids and he isn’t? She worked to get a better job so why doesn’t he as well? Dude is lucky in my opinion.
" excuse me ya honor ☝🏽 my boys are on scholarship" 🤣🤣 that cracked me tf up
" See you're playing games " 😂😭
I'm sure she is going to start making him pay rent now.
Elle Bailey that would be smart
@Sean Tottenham agreed.
Yep she is. She is going to make him suffer now for real
she legally can to
Thats fine. Then he will tack that on as his additional bills and she can be found in contempt of the court. Elle you are one of those women that aren't very intelligent are you? Pretty sure if he's living in the house she owns, there is no rental agreement hence no obligation to pay rent. He can literally squat there and she'd need an eviction order which would be denied the moment they find out its the father of the children who has half custody
He living rent free.... And now he gets 1450 a month. O snap. That a reverse haha.
but he doing all the work and that's RAISING the kids.
It's a beautiful thing! He gets free housing in a nice home, and money for his kids!
cr1m203 and? He still got to pay for the kids
Couldn't live in my 🏠
He getting put out that house tonight
I was sent a 2min fb clip and I'm now well over an hr in on this marathon. I'm hooked! I wish all judges were as fair as Judge Vonda B
I can't stop binge watching these
Now this is justice being served. Many of ya'll calling the judge Ghetto but this man is raising his children unlike many other man.
Copper Aboriginies but he lives in her house and pays no bills
Duvalle Lindsey 😂🤣 I don’t know where the fuck your love but ain’t no men letting their baby mother I’ve with them and pay no bills foh we not talking bout mf that are in a relationship we talking bout mf that are co-parenting so stop the bullshit he isn’t her man they ain’t together she is helping him by allowing him to stay somewhere he doesn’t have to worry about bills so where tf is his checks going since he don’t have to pay bills
@@downbad2874
If a bitch this ignorant is clocking 150k a year my guess is they're living in a higher cost of living area.
Also, if I made 35 k last year, guess what that means this year? Nothing
He's had them 7 straight weeks.
Let's say he makes a standard 35k a year that's only 17.50 an hour, single rate with 1 or 2 dependents comes out to around 12.5 13 an hour take home.
But logic makes vindictive people angry.
@Duvalle Lindsey because they were born with a cake and not a slim jim
Great Judge
Damn it went from he pay to she pay him $1500 a month. You won dad.
Jazzma Palmer damn !
It's so funny how we as people become grow our arrogance's when we have/ making money. He became beneath her after she started her position. I'm all for it but when mom/dad starts to act like the kid(s) don't matter, then who's making more should pay
Nah 1500 is too much imo. Just because she can afford it doesn't mean it should be taken from her. Work should be done to see exactly what the expenses are for the children and go from there.
@@treacherousjslither6920 I guess you didn't pay any mind to this video now did you? SHE as in the mother GAVE the kids that fancy lifestyle so its not fair to them when they go to dads house they can't keep the lifestyle going. She is the only one to blame for this not DAD. the courts are there for the KIDS not the parents. GROW up and act like adults or the courts will do the job for you.
@@cr1m203 There's nothing wrong with children experiencing a more humble lifestyle. Your thinking supports dirty female, although females have this coming, big time
Then she needs to charge him rent for living in that $350k home he lives is free of charge.
Nope!!! As long as he's taking care of the kids then he shouldn't have to. Kids are expensive.
@@shandajames5444she already financially taking care of them. He most definitely needs to pay rent now
I don't know why I'm binge watching every episode, but this is both funny and sad at the same time.
I love it when you wear your hair natural. This reaffirms that women in high places who are natural can wear natural hair with hopefully no negative impacts from supervisors, clients, coworkers.
Thank you so much!
He is retired military so he getting a check for that, he not paying rent, and he making 35 a year. Now she is going to start charging him rent.
That’s what I was saying.
@@GrizzyVids she bought a 350k house yet can't be with her kids smfh
Exactly and how big is that check probably not a fortune.
If he was in service for less than 20 years than he doesn't get a check for that. You have to have served a certain amount of time to get full benefits for the rest of your life. I know a lot of ppl who served but don't have any continued benefits because of how long they served
He didn’t say he was retired. He just stated that he was a Vet! Maybe he gets VA disability, that’s why he says he makes 36,000 a year.
Wow probably the best child support judge ive ever seen , thank you for being great
If he is living in her house rent free and she pays all of the bills that should be taken into consideration, he may only make 35K a year but if he doesnt have to pay rent or any off the bills he is doing pretty good than.
Agreed. I don’t think either of them should b paying child support tbh. He pays no bills for them so why doesn’t he have money to take care of them n do things with them while they’re in his custody? She don’t need to pay for HIM to b able to take them to 6 flags when she’s payin for the roof over their heads n their education.
@@Tabby112 he most definitely probably has the money but it doesn't make any sense that he's on child support when he's active absolutely none
@@kevantereese5109 it doesn’t make sense when she’s on child support either when technically they all live with her sense they in her house.
Nah, she hardly sees those kids and he lucked out on that house. Which is still her property. Pay up on those kids.
Most women live rent free when the man on child support. And yet the man still has to pay
This judge is awesome. Best I've seen yet. Very fair and 0 tolerance for BS
Judge cracks me up saying " I don't need to know what your letting me know"😆😆😆😆 I'm done!😆😆😆
😂😂😂
That's actually not what happens in a court of law. No judge would ever tell a person that because the point of a judge is to be the fact-finder. That means finding out the facts. Which means they're supposed to let the person talk. If they find that what is said is irrelevant that means it's okay to disregard it but you can't just tell a person to shut up in court unless you have a gag order. That was highly unprofessional of her.
She is AMAZING! Very Fair! She need to train all child support judges
I love this “Take no BS” attitude you’re rocking. If I ever get caught up in any sort of issue like this, I would want to have you as my judge, because even if I lose, I know it would be a fair trial.
good for him!!!!!! most judges ALWAYS side with the woman, even if the child is living him.
True
Yolanda Johnson dummies it’s a fake court room show duhh
Guy from two and a half men has to pay 11,000 a month and has full custody
Not when custody is sold.
@Donald Strickland Jon Cryer, he played Allen
wow a smart and honest judge, that actualy cares about the kids, wish there was more like her
This is fake .i have been in child support court .this is fake
This judge is a blessing. Thank you thank you. You ever come to Maryland let me know
@Donald Strickland Texas is one of those states were even if you're not the father you still pay child support.a. totally unfair law
Cares that the dad can't take them places supposedly when he probably just has the opportunity to have money but doesn't! U just saying that Cuz your a man
That's most American judges
Love this show. If he gotta pay rent now then he gotta pay rent. At least he not giving her money for kids he has most of the time
I loved this! The mom has such a bad attitude , rolling her eyes, flipping her head like a teenager.
How dare she think he owes her money for someone else's kids!
She mad because she got to pay child support.
Junior Reaves get in her ass broham
@@geraldjohnson3216 She thought that he was just supposed to pay even though she makes 5-7 times more than he does. Brought up all the extra mess for no reason at all.
@Junior Reaves
If they have shared custody, no one should have been paying child support. That brother got railroaded.
Now I'm wondering what the hell was his lawyer doing at the custody hearing? Looks like he wasn't doing a damn thing.
He gonna be mad when he get that eviction notice. Lol
@@Que772 he can fight it or start paying rent
This was an excellent show, not because Mom was ordered to pay child support, but it was because of your teaching and fairness
Did she just admit to doing the bare minimum for HER kids but also supporting her sisters 3 KIDS?!!! I simply can NOT
Did she not provide them with a house? Free food? Wi-Fi? Water?power? Dad is t paying any bills but his own car. He is living in her house rent free, bill free, with groceries. And she’s taking care of 3 other kids.
@@samareahines6366literally a house, roof, power etc… are literally apart of the bare minimum any parent can provide. If he doesn’t pay any bills and she still allows it that is on her.
@@Enteryourssnthe bare minimum isn’t taking them to Paris and exotic trips though now is it. The bare minimum ain’t letting her bd stay in her house rent free
Bruh I’m enjoying 2 year old videos lol thank you TikTok 🥴😩
I love this judge. She is very fair and stern.
ALL FATHERS FIGHTING FOR THEIR CHILDREN! MOVE TO TEXAS AND GET THIS WOMEM AS YOUR JUDGE LOL
Now I despise child support aka title IV-D, but this judge is in violation of her oath of office because title IV-D jurisdiction is EXECUTIVE in nature not judicial which mean this judge is more of an administrative hear officer than a judge and administrative officers has no judicial authority to rule in any case, since title IV-D is federal and not state judiciary this case needs to be heard in federal court to avoid violating the constitution.
She is an excellent judge, I am amazed he was even paying to begin with.
@@mohammadwasilliterate8037 do you know if this was real she would be in violation of her oath of office.
California has also fair laws. I am still the primary parent of my child post-divorce.
@@iancarisi8342 What about alimony, you can marry at 18 divorce at 28yrs old and have to support the Ex for the next 50 years. PLUS child support usually given to women OVERCALCULATED.
I love the way she keeps it straight no messing just the truth and the way the law says it is.
I've seen CS cases go a lot worse. A fair shake for both parents is all one can ask for. I'm glad things are changing all around to be equal because a childs default best interest, circumstances allowed, should be with both parents as equally as possible. Well done to dad for stepping up and I can only imagine what he has to deal with when she is copping that much attitude IN COURT. The just absolute AUDACITY
It is extremely rare, but it's about time a man left child support court with his head up. If it were ever asked "where are most men raped?", most would say prison; it's actually child support court.
That mom got exactly what he deserved!!
Please explain further
@@Talk2Me7 it's pretty much self explanatory! She makes more than him and he has them! She should be paying not him! Once again she got what she deserved
my sweetness of course she should. He did right by taking her to court.
@@Talk2Me7 my hats off to him
She’s so awesome 👏🏽!!!! We need judges like her! It’s only fair!!!
Good job judge.... If more judges were like this things would be fair ..
This is a truthful judge we need more people like her she always does a great job
This is a cut and dry case. The judge not ghetto, she was controlling her court room. If she reported $150k, she actually making close to $175k. The courts generally dgaf about the men and what bills they pay
10:22
It’s acting.
He doesn't pay any bills. He lives in her property rent free. So..... Now she need stop charge him $1400 rent to recoup her child support obligation. How bout that
@@brianaloves1242 Well its her fault she married and had kids with him.
@@jojacko it's both of their fault. It takes two
Oh my goodness this judge knows how to ask the right questions and get results. Plus she really listens to people. Awesome 😆😊.
If I'd seen more judges like you I wouldn't have quit family law.
We need more judges like her. The system is so rigged and unfair against single fathers in this country!!
"Momma" not confused, just bitter and entitled.
How? She is allowing him to live free in her home, He pays no bills. That's not bitter.
wish martinez although not explained in the video, she likely either had to let him love there, or she would have to pay him cash for 50% the value When they split.
This heffa tried to get him to pay for her sister's kids. Wow!
Good call.
No...you need to slowly rematch the pretend situation that is for educational purposes only. Lol
Right!!! She tried to throw them in right when she realized she was about to pay! But i wanna know why she has them but not her own?!?
James McBurse it’s a fake dude. Watch after 10 mins and you will see it’s not even real
That's not what she said. She was explaining her financial situation on what she pays not for him to pay for the other kids. Dumb statement
She was raising her sister's children but not her own? Huh???
This baby mama's facial expressions would have my hands flying so fast.
He lives in her house and pays no bills? That crap would change real fast! Dude would now be paying his own power, water and rent!
I am a woman. Women can't have it both ways.
Well women wanted equal rights. And now they have it. How sweet it is.
Equal rights were meant for the work place, not domestic situations, us men normally have greater incomes than women therefore we don’t see these types of scenarios on average.
@@authoranon3684 I don't know where you get that. Equal rights for women was established for every aspect of their lives. Read the Amendment. But unfortunately, they're are some women that want it both ways. They want equal rights but also want special considerations that are in direct contrast to equality.
Loooove it...
@@johnnelson8956 women still do not get equal pay. Do your research. However, this situation is off the charts..lol...he needs to get paid!
@@johnnelson8956 Well said
Lmaooo she really tried to justify her case by saying she take care of 3 other kids 🤣
But not her own 😅
The ironic thing is that he may end up having less now because if he was living in that house rent free, he was getting way more than 1800 a month in value. Of course the other part of it is control. She could have dictated whatever she wanted in regards to that house. Now he can get his own place.
Yes that’s right I agree with this decision they’re mostly with the dad so it’s only right the woman pay child support she makes $150,000year+ she owns a $350,000 house 🏡 yup that’s about right she supposed to pay child support because if it was a man making that they’d be ripping the hell out of him
ramir The Black king verrry true!
ramir The Black king this is 100 % true but I don’t care who pays for child support man or women!! Child support is child supporting ONLY not Disneyland for manwhores that live of women. that’s not right weather if is a man or woman the world should be equally???
John Arch I will give u one million stars for this! You give the kids what they need to live off of only!!
The father is clearly living rent free in her $350,000 home! Father sounds like a bum to me... I bet he only has those kids because she allows him to live rent free
@@pagingdoctoradderley yeah i agree, not only rent free, but also free food, free tv, free wifi, etc i dont agree with the judge, she made her decision based in the woman ´s attitude and not in the real facts she should consider...it wasn´t an objective verdict
Judge Vonda B. Where the cases are "fake", but the people are real.
I feel like we need to have more judges like her.
The dad has the kids more time than her, she’s making more money and he still needs to pay child support? Glad the judge ruled on his favor.
As a dad who had to fight for his kids tooth and nail in a state that treats dads like a second class parent I approve of this whole heartedly. Real or Fake this needs to happen more often, in what world should any parent regardless of gender be put to the brink of sanity and financial ruin just to be in their child's life or keep them safe. My ex had been arrested 34 times in less than 4 years with charges ranging from cdv, grand larceny, possession, distribution, stalking, violating restraint order to escape and manufacturing methamphetamine....(how she isn't still in prison is beyond me)...and STILL even with all this and her being arrested IN COURT.... twice, and failing 9 of an 11 panel drug screening...I had to jump through hoops and spend thousands just to get my kids away from a bad parent/situation simply because she's a woman. Currently she is almost $10,000.00 in arrears on child support and the court could care less...... I assure you I was never afforded such leniency with support by the courts.....again because she is a woman. I have nothing against women, and some day I hope my daughters grow into strong, independent, and intelligent women....and while I can't have any more children....they can....hopefully if they have sons things will have changed for the better by then.
you might of had to hire a top notch attorney. Also teaching them to be strong and independent is not a good idea- as it wasn't their fault their mother couldn't control her actions.
You need a friend or a therapist not a youtube comment section
@@mojolarryjoe You volunteering?
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Women do get off easier in court with child support. I have been in the court rooms and seen it myself. My ex husband is $50,000 behind right now and is still getting off easy really. However a man who had paid more in child support than he had made that year came in because his stay at home ex wife wanted more money. The judge gave him a 15% bump in payment. She didn't need the money she just wanted it and got it. Another woman was $100,000 behind had no excuse for not paying and nothing happened to her. She walked out of that court room like it was just another day. The court systems are way too lenient on women for sure, but they tend to be too lenient period on most of these deadbeat cases. I feel for men in the system way more than women sometimes though, cause I have seen the BS of both first hand.
Wow, if judges would do more for the fathers just imagine how better these kids would be
I can't say enough about this judge, she's perfect!
😳😳 This whole time I'm watching and loving this show and thinking this can't be real. They have to be actors because I just can't believe these parents are this delusional. I sometimes listen to her explain the case but usually skip to get to the next one.. today I finally watch to the end just to find out 😂🤣 this a courtroom based telivision drama.. still watching 🤣😂🤣
Oh this is beautiful, justice is being serve.
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Enjoy it bc fuck is it rare
Hell yeah
I understand the law is the law, and that's that. So everything else I type is just mild ranting. I don't follow the argument that since the kids "can't do x, y and z activities" with one parent, the other parent should pay more child support. Activities are voluntary and not necessary. Food, shelter, clothing, utilities, transportation, necessary school expenses, health related items and emergency items are a different thing. Those are necessities, and I think necessities should be the only things that factor into child support. I believe the parent who is taking care of the kids the most, should bring all verifiable expenses to court to show the actual monthly expenses to the judge. Then the judge should make the other parent pay half plus a very reasonable "cushion".
This goes for men and women.
I agree for the most part however there does need to be some kind of quality of life for them as well. With the astounding difference in income one can literally pay more to give them that quality.
I was looking for this comment. Can't agree more.
POV: you found the video from tiktok
She is so great at setting healthy boundaries and not getting hooked into the drama of those wanting to argue and talk over her.
I think this judge is miraculous and just what ppl need to see and hear in today’s society. Keep it up! Keep it coming! Wonderfully produced and very educative.
If custody is shared, why child support?
Hmm.
Most judges want to be judges but don't want to actually review the case and make the right decision.
@@bugattirari9916 only in family court do they use real judges. Most people only go to child support court. And those aren't real judges usually. They just work with the government to collect debt. It's a collection agency that can lock u up.
Notfor Theclout so the state gets paid to line the pockets of the judge and child suppoort attorneys and the department of social services.
Courts look at it two ways, one is if this couple was still living together raising their kids, what is the percentage each of them would contribute to support the children. If one parent makes a good amount more then the other then on paper they provide more for the children. When I went court, they saw that I was 100% the contributor in our relationship because my ex didn't work, so guess who got screwed? ME. Second, the court looks at the percentage of financial burdens. Like, does one parent pay for health insurance, then they deserve some compensation for taking on that burden for children they both share equally.
Notfor Theclout because those children are a bond and someone gotta pay the tax. It’s all about the green in America
O...my...gosh...lol I choked up laughing right now when you said "excuse me" to the guy 2:48 . It was like you were, "I got this, I know what you're about to say, let me do my job". And then he's like mmmmhhhmmm when you say everything he was going to say lol. Just great and funny. Love your videos
Truth hurts. She's just going to charge that money for rent.
Hi Judge, you dealt with her just right you made my day!
I love you! Thank you for being fair and explaining things. I wish we had someone like you in Indiana!
He knew to stay quiet 😂 JUDGE GOT IT 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She’s just gotta start charging him rent and he’ll have to return her child support right back, and probably then some!! If he’s living in her house rent-free how much could his bills be?? This is the only one I have disagreed with. She wasn’t neglecting her kids... she was out of town for training on her job. I also think rent should be deducted from her child support payments. She should pay something, but damn!! I guess she’s lucky she can afford it!!
I would charge him
Right, what financial responsibility does the father have to the children if the mother is already paying for the roof over their heads, insurance and tuition? I mean I would think the father could aleast handle the cost of food, clothes and activities. The tuition and insurance alone for two children is already over a thousand dollars a month. Plus paying the mortgage on a 350,000 home if the home is not paid off.
As a man, I agree with you. This judgement was not fair for the mom. This type of in unfairness happens to men very very often.
This judge did this for views not fairness. Hope she evicts his sorry ass.
uhhh no that would just require a different court and judge to dispute that not a judge who deals with custody and child support y'all crazy 🤣😂
I wish I had this judge when I did my case my judge did not care after she got locked up again then the judge decided to grant me custody. The state stole 22 thousand from me and I'm still not receiving any child support from the mother they didn't even have my amount right they had a different social security number that was not me. I ask for a income review and they still didn't do one the courts are a big joke.. to all the real fathers out there keep pushing like I am today! God bless the real men!!!!!!
Unfortunately, the courts and lawyers know this and use the system to punish men mostly so women are equal. If your a dead beat mom you don't get punished as severely as a man. I suggest get a lawyer and see how quickly you get your money back...
She put dad on child support abd he put her on child support
I LOVE the 3 simultaneous camera angles lol it's makes everything so much more entertaining.
What I found really sad and appalling was her disdain twords the bailiff when the judge threatened to have him remove her. Did anyone else see it?
Finally a fair judge that doesn't just side with the woman
😍we need more judges like you. God sent
Whatever she has to pay him, she will be charging him for rent.
Everyone go to 10:22 of the video and read what it says.
LMAO I said it was fake as I was watching it
I never watched til the end. LOL. I kind if thought it was a show. Now I know... 😉✨✨ Have a blessed Day!
had a jerry springer feel to it from the get go. thanks for saving me an additional 9 minutes of bs D Block!!!
Lmao
Thank you D block
It'd be nice to get a real child support show on TV with this same structure. I wish Ms. Bailey was a real judge!
You should really run the whole system.. I wish my son had you for a judge blk men don't have a voice I thank you for your service sis.. we need more like you
I love this Lady! She needs a show y’all!
I love this judge! She is awesome! I could watch her all day. Thanks for have common sense. Not like that Lawyer in Detroit who made that poor man pay child support for a kid he didn't knew existed or was not even his kid. We need more like Judge Vonda!
how have I missed this judge show🤷🏽♀️ I love her!
“Excuse me , that’s my job thanks”
I’m pro dad but this lady is paying for his house... you can bet she is going to stop doing that and now rent is going to be an expense was it worth it? Humm.
She most surely should. That's called greed. She should charge him exactly the child support amount. No one should be paying child support in this situation.
@@aliciamobley6961 you might need to watch the video again or read my comment. If she pays for private school, the house he lives in, the bulls for said house and all that. If she simply now said ok fine I’ll pay the 1100 child support she can evict him now between bills and rent he will be paying so much more more then what ever child support he was paying likely even with the new influx of child support. I’d agree as long as she does all that for the kids no one should pay child support. My point is in this case the dad likely lost out by trying to get child support.
She can't charge rent now. It would be considered retaliation
He's living in her house paying no bills. Bad call judge
ENVY DRAMATIK if he living rent free in a 350,000 house then she should just stop making him pay child support either that or she need to pay him pay rent at her house then she’ll get her 1500 back
IF I was making that kind of money I would not ask him to pay..especially if he has the kids most of the time.
That’s because you’re a good person.
Now kick him out of your home. See how much he pays in rent. 😂
Equality is equality. Ppl saying the father should get a better job should also say the same thing when it's the other way around. He's not on welfare. He works a legitimate job. Just doesn't make as much as she does
But he also doesn't any rent or any bills living moms house. She should pay him but she should also cut off the help she gives him.
@@jackiecarrillo1447 He may pay his mother rent. But like I said, keep the same energy when the shoe is on the other foot. I keep my position. Men get all kinds of railroaded In these courts all day everyday. From he got her use to living a certain lifestyle to she needs 30k a month to take care of 2 children. BS. And the courts enable this foolishness. Smh
complete equality I still think she should have paid more money she should have spent half of her paycheck
I need this judge. I'm going through this right now
This is awesome judgement. Love your wisdom
I am dying and rolling right now when the judge said do you see this man right here man you two put a commercial where Steph Curry was coming out at perfect time 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Great clip, well executed, solid and personally to the point, look forward to seeing more!
It's not fun when the shoe is on the other foot" lol.....
The moment the judge pulls the calculator , somebody’s paying 😅😅
I love she is so fair and shows that ALLLLL parents should be held responsible for their children. not just dads can be deadbeats, contrary to what many people think. There are some deadbeat mommas out there too, amd some daddy's holding it down for their children.
After all MOM; child support is strictly for the kids, right?!
Ah no, not really. It started as a good thing. But because of greed and societies hatred of men. Have made a " good thing" into an extortion racket
Yes, child support is for the children. She should pay her money and find ways to make more. After all she will have the time since the children are with the father.
BLKCOBRA/NINJA 5 no, child support is for WEAVE and expensive bullshit
So they say! Lol
She made SO much more though, plus living in her “big” expensive house, I’m sure it cost more in general. She was just hateful. She was mad too.