He doesn’t make 12,000 a month. He makes a lot more $280k a year. The judge is doing the math based on 12k which is the maximum. Still absurd though. SMH
@@ayannagb8587 they are talking about what he gets personally(if he did take more he would get taxed alot more, so its less cost effective), just because the business makes that doesnt mean he does, he still has business costs, employee's and keeping the power on and phones running for the business(not to mention insurance and things like public liability and so on), which really adds up, my father runs his own company over in utah which probobly makes about 2-5mil a year but he still has staff that have to be paid and so on.
That wasn’t dignity. That was indifference. He was not going to admit the cheating. The marriage is two years they have two children and he’s cheating on her? How is that her fault in anyway? And he probably didn’t pay her for the part-time work she did for his business. Notice he said how he worked very hard to grow the business. He did not include her as helping to grow the business.
@@mrss4328 He’s literally explained how he’s not cheating. She’s imagining things because of the insecurity she got reading his PRIVATE messages, and now she expects him to pay for everything after she let her imagination ruin the marriage. How is it his fault she can never talk with him about this and let him explain. God women will believe any woman who claims cheating
@@mrss4328and also when your primary job is staying at home with the kids, why would I mention her in helping grow the business, especially since he said it was already built before the marriage. Why would he mention part time work as a secretary in a business that was built before she was ever in his life as a key growth partner
@@mrss4328funny how you point out that “he didn’t mention anything about her helping the growth”…. Sincerely I say - she worked PART TIME - how is this helping? Listening to him describe it, he has a crew and a $280k business…. I cannot believe that he didn’t try to put her underwater to shut her voice down….
That lip smacking would drive me alone. And for Pete's sake, you have a nanny, and you work part time...take some care of yourself. She doesn't have to cook, either?
Toyota still owns the majority of the homes that they bought their employees when they moved to Plano in 2014. Toyota employees sold their $1.5mil houses in California, then bought 2 or 3 more houses in the DFW metroplex, and rented them out, causing prices to surge for a time. It’s only recently started to come down. A simple family home 1970’s “fixer-upper” is roughly $340k+ in North Dallas. After Toyota, a bunch of other companies did the exact same thing. JP Morgan Chase, Samsung, Siemens, Huawei and more every year. Foreign and West Coast money buying up properties, driving up the cost and value, which ensures locals are unable to purchase.
I agree with you. We are a married couple living in a house in San Francisco, our mortgage is $4,200 a month but our home is valued in 2,1 million. We plan to sell our home once we retired and moved out to another state like Texas buy a home cash in 700K and life comfortable the rest our lives.
Agree 100%. This is the only one I completely disagree with Judge on. This man brings home about $9k a month and he is left with about $3K after the court ordered payments. Judge says she is on the side of the kids but he will have to move into a smaller house so he can afford to pay his ex-wife. Disagree totally on this one and this is because of his insecure and gold digging soon to be ex-wife.
The fact that she always said "I want him to maintain the lifestyle FOR ME and for the kids.". Never did her kids come first in a sentence. Poor dude...
And this is WHY marriage is a full of shit institution. ZE-RO benefit to the man and ALLLLLLLL the validation and reward for lazy ungrateful bored women.
This woman needs a freaking wake up call. Spousal support is not just given any more either. They have only been married 2 years. If we all lived in her fantasy world ....
@@ladyjaz6817 I think she will not pull any man at all, not even a broken one, some women overestimate their potential, they become self-entitled and over-selective, but guess what, there is no selection pool (I'm using the word on purpose) at all for ger left.
“I’m proud to say I got a GED” … and that’s it? Lmao when she said that, that is what did it for me I have my GED and I still went to college afterwards but I just realized college wasn’t for me and got my career in a different way (through experience sure it takes a little longer but it’s what worked for me) but anybody that just gets their GED and then makes it a point to find a man with lots of money clearly doesnt want to work they don’t want to put forth the effort to be a productive member of society they just want to do the bare minimum and reap the benefits of somebody who works like this man does.. she is disgusting. He was way too polite and put together to be cheating like cheaters you can spot them a mile away and he did not make my cheatdar go off😂😂😂
@@lynzblk You can tell a man is a cheater just by looking at him? Jeez, the FBI need to hire you ASAP because we can't even know someone is serial killer by looking at them.
unfortunately the cheating is irrelevant. she could just be leaving him coz she feels like it and she would be awarded the same amount. I still think its wrong that he doesnt get the kids and still needs to maintain the nanny but everything is basically rules as written.
you're probably right. She wants to punish him with the idea that he's cheating, and even if he isn't cheating, he's obviously going to have a better time finding someone else than she will, and I think she knows that. So she's trying to leverage the situation with the accusations of cheating. She probably does believe that he was cheating though. Whether he is or not.
well now she does, cause now shes gotta find a job while taking care of the kids, this is the best case scenario for the husband tbh, specially if nanny stays in his home
@@purplegirl8036 Walmart McDonald’s, hospitals/nursing homes cna’s, janitors Any construction work Anywhere there’s a f*** help wanted sign She’s not a felon And doesn’t have a history of theft
If I were the judge and she said that to me, I would have put a clear time limit on everything. Me: "You are right ma'am, I should address this... Ok, here is what we are going to do. You have 3 months to find a job, if you do not, your husband's payments to you for support, will be cut in half... Then if in 6 months from this date, you again do not have a job, your support payments will end completely, and your husband will be awarded full custody of the children. At that point, then you will have to pay him child support in the amount of $600 per month to cover half the cost of a nanny for while he is working." LoL
And he has to pay the nanny and Private school still along with the child support insurance and spousal support. That's just insane to me. Unless I misunderstood and the spouse support is to pay for the nanny and Private school but it sounded like he had to pay her all of that plus still pay the school and nanny. That saying it's cheaper to keep her definitely applies in this situation 🤦.
They definitely need to change the laws. The way woman fought for their rights, men need to start fighting this. There is no reason he should have to give her anything other than child support after only 2 years.
@@kaylajenkins8822 You do realize that half of that is what he’s already been doing. It doesn’t seem like he wants to get rid of the nanny or stop his kids from going to the school so he has no choice but to KEEP paying because it’s not like she can. And the judge did a great job and reassured the guy that this is only a temporary thing and if she doesn’t find a job in a timely manner it’s all gone.
That's why Judge Vonda B said that if he thinks she's not actively looking for a job that he can come back down the road. It shouldn't take her more than 6 months to find a job. Denny's and McDonald's are always hiring. Or she can take a training course for 3 months to learn how to type and become a typist. It shouldn't take long. If I were him, I'd be taping her at every turn and cancel her memberships anywhere she goes. No more spa, excuse me therapy, no more country club.
Right!! I was a SAHM for 13 years and didn’t have a nanny, a cook, housekeeper or takeout, nightly. Later, I was a single mom of four, drove trucks and still didn’t have that sh!t. The kids did, though.😂😂
@@matthewhummel1572 I agree. The best way to raised ur child is as if they were in poverty. He should've check her financial stance instead of being obvious to her spending habits to look rich just to impress.
Man...You'd think he would know better. She really needs a nanny? I had a 4yr old, 2yr old and 6 month old and magically I did it without a nanny and without a half million dollar home. People make me sick lol typical Karen
This is disgusting!! He LITERALLY pays for EVERYTHING and she's living the lavish lifestyle while he's working. SHE wants to leave him because she has a suspicion that he's cheating. He should pay for the children and nothing else!!! The system is disgusting!
Probably because anything over $250,000 /year is considered the top tier of economic status below the 1% billionaires. So he's considered rich and the judge isn't giving him any breaks, just applying the required guidelines.
@@yungghost1913she doesn't work. The kids would suffer waiting on her to pay. He shouldn't have to pay more than he already was.. the kids are going to see this vid and see how crazy mommy was
he got screwed. she's was married to him for 2 years. I'd like to know what type of lifestyle she had prior to him marrying her, and why should he have to pay for her
*Who else thinks she hurriedly married and had children from him, for her, “Lifestyle?” He seems like a nice guy that doesn’t care much about what she does and spends.*
@@allin181 😂🤣 You’re absolutely right she does look older and he does too. She , “Hooked,” “Lined,” and “Sunk” him for sure. I don’t think she should not have been able to keep a nanny though. She’s not employed and I think daycare would give her plenty of time to socialize with her friends.
@Helen Saghy There's no evidence of him "running around" on her. What are you TALKING about.... She's talking a bunch of nonsense just to get him to continue to pay for her CRAZY spend spend spend lifestyle. That whole "he's cheating" garbage is a show.
I hate cases like this whenever she’s unhappy she can take her ball and go home and take half like mannn smh 🤦🏾♂️ and just because dad works he can’t get the kids??
So adjusted gross income was $8000. Pay this leach $6800, leaving him $1200. Based on the court records. Men do not get involved with women. The court activity are against you. This women had zero proof of anything. She just wasn't happy anymore. Ridiculous
@@jarredminns9798yes, please do not get involved 😂 research shows that while single women are happier, healthier and better educated, single men are lonelier, more depressed, and suffering. Please leave us out of your bitterness
@@sandeetorres6005Or she may just be crazy... ever thought that. We don't know. But what we do know is she's lazy, she's enjoyed the lifestyle of doing nothing and letting someone else take care of her kids so she can continue doing nothing and having fun with friends. She clearly doesn't want to work... he clearly is a bad judge of character and likely was cheating. He chose the wrong women, she chose the wrong man. The kids are all that matter and clearly she's not doing much to take care of them while he does all the work to support them. it's bad al round!
@@bigjay123 exactly. I don’t feel sorry for him and sheeeew no wonder he looks at younger women. Come on lady take care of yourself. She looks dusty ASF
If he's already paying the nanny, school, as well as child support, he shouldn't owe her alimony. Especially for only two years. And tbh, the nanny and tuition are technically child support, so he's paying more than he should.
Yea its rediculous she has set people child support based on the kids tuition and everything before. But in this case she makes it seem like two different things. So he basically paying double for no reason
There is no legal reason or leg to stand on for her to order him to continue to pay the nannie or for private school, and is the judge thinks its better the kids live with a deadbeat parent who lets a nannie raise her kids while she is not working instead of the what seems to be sole provider is nuts. If She was working full time as well then I support the use of a nannie or family member helping out but if she is not working at all and expects others to raise her kids while he pays for everything even her buying a house that is wrong.
I work in the pool business. Customers use to call me at all hours and I was only the pool boy. Not the owner. I believe this guy 100%. The pool industry has those type of customers that don't care about the hour. And then you got customers that don't want to be bothered for any repairs under $1k. It's a crazy field to work in.
guy comes home a 6 takes a dip in his pool finds a problem that night so he gives the guy a ring. Owned a A/C business for 20 years my phone never stopped ringing when cell phones arrived I could shut it off a 9
Ya it's pretty messed up because the judge doesn't understand how pool business works. Pools do not care about the hour. You literally have emergency calls. Pools cost tens of thousands of dollars to place and repair. It's very important to resolve issues before they become too bad. For example, a clogged skimmer due to an object blocking a pipe can cause the pool motor to stop pulling water and potentially burn out the motor. Instant 1500$ for the motor and $1200 for the labor (that's why he makes so much. Repairs.) Do you have $2700 in your pocket? Then, if the person has low/ no income, the pool can turn green without a functioning motor and this will cause huge fines and health risks to the surrounding area because the water will stagnate and cause mosquitoes and bugs to reproduce rapidly. Costs upwards of $10k. Not to mention the dramatic drop in house value by having a cesspool in the backyard. There was no evidence really indicating that lewd acts had been performed, or if it even mattered. Clients telling you they are laying out probably mean it as a warning because it can surprise the tech walking in.
Yes. I believe him because I do call them at night time when I use it and it is not working. Is the pool isn't warm up , I do want it fix the right away..
This is ridiculous!! His net was 8000 and she gets 6200?! Hell I didn’t get child support for 4 children when he makes double me! Let alone spousal support. 11 years later still no support for the two children at home.
Let me get this straight: This guy built his business before he met her, he works long hours - like most business owners HAVE to do - he pays all the bills, provides a nice house and lifestyle. And her major contribution is going to lunch, spa days, and therapy, while working part time and shipping the 2 yr. old off to "school", while a nanny basically does everything else for her. I think she's right about one thing - with her GED and attitude, it probably WILL take a very long time for her to find another job.
While they were teaching us to divide 32 muffins among 13 students, they instead should've been teaching us that marriage has little to do with Love. It is a business agreement.
Finally someone not interrupting each other all the time or singing or doing all sort of stuff. It was so much more professional and enjoyable. It felt like court, for once
@@blackqueenmelanin1449 she just wants to live off his money for as long as she can. I mean private school at 6 months and 2 years? AND a nanny? why should he pay for the whole thing.
Another classic case of a woman filing for divorce because she “thinks” he’s cheating. “I saw my husband having a conversation with a woman, and he was smiling, therefore he must be sleeping with her. Now I want a divorce and all of his money.”
Could write a book about this case or any similar, including the idea that women are most likely taught, trained and brought up to believe that men are simply another item to use like their make up and toiletries. In the end, just another case for avoiding marriage and most relationships.
Man, the fact this dude stayed straight dead pan while this woman spouts this garbage off shows just how used to her insanity he is. He shouldn’t have married her in the first place.
I love the judge telling the woman: "Don't get a job, keep the kids in private school, and don't fire the nanny -- or your gravy train will come to an end"
I don’t get what you’re missing. People generally don’t need a reason for divorce. Moreover, he’s maintaining the school and nanny for 3,000. Meaning he’s paying a temporary payment of 3,800 to his wife. If the wife has the kids (because the judge prioritizes time spent with the kids more than money spent ON the kids) then she’ll need something so they won’t starve. Plus the judge stated multiple times that this is only temporary and if she doesn’t find a job soon then she’ll lose it. I don’t like the woman either but the judge made a fair decision.
Yea, The judge is wrong on this case, The man makes good money and is getting punished for it. If I was the guy, I would fire the Nanny and make the woman learn to cook
@@MajorJim69 Spousal support is temporary. The rest? No. If the kids are going to an expensive private school, it was because their current situation allowed it. Now, do they really have to go to a private school? Absolutely not. Public school would have to do and it's only the mother's fault for taking away this opportunity from her children. And it's obviously the nanny who's doing all the work. But, we should not forget that there are many single parents out there who can manage to work and don't need a nanny. Some have to rely on family or friends when their finances and workload get in the way. That woman clearly got some wild ideas in mind like not needing to be committed to one man in her life, but still wants his money. So she came up with an impossible scenario about the man cheating. She couldn't even show that famous picture of him in someone else's pool to back up her claims. True, the man is clearly rich, but he still got screwed by the system. And you can be sure that the mother will steal her children's money.
@@MajorJim69 And this is what you're missing...if she cant afford to maintain the kids lifestyle by herself, then she should have custody of them! If the judge truly cared about the welfare and wellbeing of the kids she should have allowed him to have custody....This shows once again that family court could give a damn about kids much less men!
Right, she wasn’t planning on getting a job. She wanted him to keep footing her lifestyle. She look lazy. She kept saying how she wanted to remain in the same neighborhood and him pay the bills. Sad
Works part time for the business, and still has a full time nanny? Pretty obvious she doesn't raise either child at all, and the nanny is the one doing all parenting
This is hilarious. The guy can probably get a 20-30 year old easily while the woman looks like she flew to the courthouse on a broomstick. She's a clear Karen!
@@nikeyahenderson7285 exactly, they should be in day care, not a private school plus, how much better can a private school be than a day care when it comes to teaching a 2 year old?
Probably a montesorri school, most of those schools also provide early childhood education, there’s nothing wrong with giving the kid a better education that sometimes public education does not provide..
@@BradleyCaban if the parents are really caring about early childhood education then, the parents themselves would teach them or if not that pick a public school that provides that but, 1800 a month for a 2 year old that can't stay focused on one thing yet, waste of money that could be going towards doing more for the child and money that could be put away for college or anything else the child would want to do after high school
I don’t understand how he has to pay her $6500.00 with 2,300 of that being child support if HE is also paying a nanny to take care of the children and insurance AND private school. They’re still in the same house hold (even then her spousal support is $4500 by itself) and she doesn’t even have proof he’s actually doing what she’s alleging. That’s ridiculous lol
I think is not effective until after their divorce gets finalized and she's out of the house they both shared right now and still have to provide all sources of income for the judgement to take effect or even be modified depending on what has changed during the divorce proceedings...so even thought this was her judgment is still not set in stone but at least this Karen knows what's out in the horizons for her because hubby can too request full custody of the kids during the divorce.
I think the judge is more than fair in this case, as she always is. Real life judges are more biased towards women. I'd only hope more judges in real life are like her.
@@jackxthexreaper736 That's the funny part; She tries to talk about the kids like they're her property, yet when it comes to the thing that makes her money, despite not really doing much work for her ex, she's talking about it like she owns part of the job. When she really doesn't.
@@mistahjenkins4826 yeah, she’s still disgusting, don’t get me wrong. That’s why we men have to be extremely careful with who we lay down with and marry. I got lucky. Very lucky. I hope you’re doing well, sir.
This is why I tell my son to get a prenupt. A man can work hard to get financially secure and bring a woman in and she can absolutely destroy all he's done. If they built the business together then I could see her asking for reimbursement. But for him to buy her a house and support her for however long it takes for her to find the job she likes is ridiculous.
Last month my daughter got 16 cents from her father. Yet in the past he would ask me for money n say since I'm running two businesses I should be able to help him out. O I helped him I gave hime names n numbers to shelters n meal sites. After I put him out. He wanted me to end my pregnancy cause our baby could've been born with special needs I sent his a packing. My daughter is autistic n has other stuff going on however the brightest n happiest heart. I got full custody. If I decide to get married I want a prenup
A prenuptial agreement is unrelated to this situation. It serves to safeguard the assets acquired by an individual before marriage. Her intention wasn't to claim ownership of the business; rather, it seemed like she was seeking financial support post-divorce. It's advisable to counsel your son to seek a loving and compatible partner, ensuring he doesn't seek affection elsewhere. Given her behavior, it appears this may have been a contributing factor in this particular case.
Her face when she was told to work was priceless. And of course her only question what basically if she had to work. I like that she made sure to let her know that the payments were just temporary because she wasn't working and that if it stays like that for too long she'll get nothing.
This is the perfect example of a man getting screwed in court!!! She had 2 kids so quick to cement getting support with the intentions of divorcing him..... She's lying and doesn't do anything. This was wrong, all wrong...... I feel bad for him....
Gotta say, I disagree with this one. Currently, the wife is employed, and she should have to bare some of the financial responsibility as she has the resources to do so. If she so chooses to become unemployed, the case can be revisited at that time. But allowing her to not have to share the financial responsibilities will only encourage her to leave her job, and life off of his dime.
If you get married, you agree and want to be fleeced. Marriage is outdated. There's nothing but liability for men and money and assets for women. Only a sucker signs on to that deal..
I never understood the reasoning behind “Spousal Support.” You’re telling me that you can’t provide for yourself and you need to rely on someone who you’re not married to to provide for you? Ridiculous. This man deserves better.
It's a remnant of the era when women weren't allowed to really work. Basically, it's from the era of "women belong at home and in the kitchen" and Divorce was a societal death sentence for women. Women like to keep elements of the "patriarchy" that benefit them, obviously.
Fr that never made sense to me. Your a grown adult, so you have to take care of yourself. Simple as that. Even crazier is the argument of „maintaining the same lifestyle“, the only reason you ever had this „lifestyle“ is your partner. And than you decide to leave him, but want him to maintain the lifestyle you only had because of him? How does he owe her a lifestyle ? Can’t get my head around that
Yeah it makes sense if your dealing with people with a lot of money but then it also doesn't because they would already have the money. Think it should only exist in the cases of domestic abuse but I think that sounds like something the state should help with as it's not your fault if your being abused
Had a friend who became disabled and couldn't work, her husband left her and got remarried. In sickness and in health my ass. She had been a lawyer for a hospital and made way too much money before becoming disabled, to the point her disability check was over 7k a month. That man still paid her spousal support till the day she died, and child support. She didn't spend a penny of his money either, saved every dime so her children would have enough money for collage. She knew she most likely wouldn't live long enough to see her children grow up, and she was right, but she fought tooth and nail to make sure her children would be provided for. Even put her house in her eldest son's name, so none of her relatives could try and sell it out from under the kids after she passed.
Dude makes $23K a month. He has to give $9K of that to the government, and $9.5K of it to his ex wife. He gets to keep $4500 a month, or 20% of what he earns. Amazing.
@@uk9383 When you are an independent contractor like he is, you get a 1099 not a W-2, so he gets shafted with taxes at the end of every year. Trust me.
In New Zealand there is no spousal support- there is only child support which is based on income but it is capped. In our country that lazy cow would have to support her own life style.
“I’m going through therapy due to all he’s putting me through. But I still WANT him to buy me a home, pay for nanny, private school, piggy bank fund bc I won’t work for a year” Ok lady, if your sooo distressed and hurt, then just leave without taking half of what he earns.
I’m a woman and find that so unreasonable!! I didn’t even ask for spousal support because I was capable of working. My kids and I moved from a beautiful home to a 2 bedroom apartment. They adjusted very well to the change. What is the husband supposed to live off of now? He got screwed!!
She signed up for a lifelong contract of marriage. He cheated maybe multiple times. He and you expect her to just go on with the marriage, take care of the children in the house, and she works for his business, as if nothing happened? I mean like that is a loser in more ways than one.
@@mrss4328 I got child support. I could have gotten spousal support but chose not to because I was capable of working. My husband cheated on me numerous times and has a child with another woman that was conceived during our marriage. I just didn’t think that he should continue to be responsible for me after I divorced him. The children, absolutely! Me, no. That’s just me. You are entitled to your own opinion.
What did she ruin? She's getting over $6,000 a month to live. Her kids won't see that. They will have the basics, the nanny will take care of them and she will keep spending on herself. He shouldn't have to pay so much in support if he's paying for the nanny and school. What other money do they need?
He should not have had to pay her that much in child support because he still has his bills as well. She should’ve been ordered to get a FULL time job and not a PART time job like stated to the judge, especially if she’s going to keep the nanny. This screams lazy as hell with working and raising her own kids. Truly disgusted with this ruling.
"I'm very proud to say I got my GED." Lady, I was expelled from high school. Got my GED before any of my classmates graduated. Then got expelled from college. Went back and got a physics degree with a 3.8 GPA. Getting a GED is not an accomplishment. That's like saying being able to tie your shoelaces is an accomplishment.
That’s dope you were able to accomplish so much! Getting a GED is indeed an accomplishment though. It’s something when some people didn’t get anything at all. Everyone’s situation is different, as you know, and being able to rise up and do something when you have nothing is an accomplishment.
He pays for everything, and she is upset about buying her own home?!?! This is what is wrong with the child care system. He should only pay for the services for the kids. Not her life style
The child support he’s paying does include the services for the children. It’s the SPOUSAL SUPPORT that will temporarily give her funds. I wish he didn’t have to pay any in spousal but she didn’t look too happy in the end, either, so I don’t think she’ll be able to maintain what she wanted to.
I could understand if he actually was cheating for some of these things, not all. This is why you need to have proof of infidelity before you have a court case smh
This is crazy on the mother and the judge. She obviously used him for his money. Call it sexist or whatever, this is why women can't keep a man and men dog women. Bc when you have a good guy like him, and he still takes care of everything for all of his family including the wife; and she still want to go at a homies neck so she doesn't have to work and keep her lifestyle?
Judge calculated the guy's net resources as $8,800 per month and ordered him to pay the ex-wife $6,800 per month. So, she gets 6,800 and he gets $2,000.
HE pays the bills HE works HE pays for the nanny HE pays for school, SHE spends HIS money on her self WHAT DOES SHE DO?! this was unfair
Welcome to the world of being a man in the courts eyes
You can definitely tell she's trying to live off of him
Don’t get married men!
She even said she wasn’t going to work for awhile after the divorce
@@Chavezmelonie04 judge should have said get a job and i will make a judgement.
As a stay at home mom. I’m confused about her needing a nanny.
She doesn’t actually “stay at home” she is a shopping mom
It's called LAZY !
This mom needs a reality check.
Thank You!!! Exactly what i was thinking
She doesn't, and she just doesn't want to want to work
If she's a stay-at-home mom, why are they hiring a nanny? She wants the nanny to raise the kids
$6,800 of child support, she's not going to work!!
i recieve that much per month for free, (its 80k a year), its way enough to stay at home all life 🤣
She works part time as a secretary for their company.
Still part time is about like 25 hours a week max@@elenasosa7416
And the kids are in a private school already? So the Nanny is for afterwards.
@@elenasosa7416Elena use ur brain darling
He makes $12,000 a month and this nut case gets $6,800 of it? What a freaking joke!!!
He doesn’t make 12,000 a month. He makes a lot more $280k a year. The judge is doing the math based on 12k which is the maximum. Still absurd though. SMH
@@ayannagb8587 they are talking about what he gets personally(if he did take more he would get taxed alot more, so its less cost effective), just because the business makes that doesnt mean he does, he still has business costs, employee's and keeping the power on and phones running for the business(not to mention insurance and things like public liability and so on), which really adds up, my father runs his own company over in utah which probobly makes about 2-5mil a year but he still has staff that have to be paid and so on.
Factssssss
Hold up if he makes 280000 a year, that divided by 12 comes to 23k a month no?
In text you cap at 92000
I really appreciate how despite her with all her little side remarks and huffs and noises, he maintained his dignity. Props to him.
He's used to her pathetic pettiness. Good riddance to her.
That wasn’t dignity. That was indifference. He was not going to admit the cheating. The marriage is two years they have two children and he’s cheating on her? How is that her fault in anyway? And he probably didn’t pay her for the part-time work she did for his business. Notice he said how he worked very hard to grow the business. He did not include her as helping to grow the business.
@@mrss4328 He’s literally explained how he’s not cheating. She’s imagining things because of the insecurity she got reading his PRIVATE messages, and now she expects him to pay for everything after she let her imagination ruin the marriage. How is it his fault she can never talk with him about this and let him explain. God women will believe any woman who claims cheating
@@mrss4328and also when your primary job is staying at home with the kids, why would I mention her in helping grow the business, especially since he said it was already built before the marriage. Why would he mention part time work as a secretary in a business that was built before she was ever in his life as a key growth partner
@@mrss4328funny how you point out that “he didn’t mention anything about her helping the growth”….
Sincerely I say - she worked PART TIME - how is this helping? Listening to him describe it, he has a crew and a $280k business….
I cannot believe that he didn’t try to put her underwater to shut her voice down….
Her voice alone would have me in therapy 😂😂😂
It would of kept me from a second date!! 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂u got right
That lip smacking would drive me alone. And for Pete's sake, you have a nanny, and you work part time...take some care of yourself. She doesn't have to cook, either?
Haha I came here for this comment exactly 😂😂
I was so glad the judge hushed her… because I was so annoyed listening to her…whinny @$$
A $3000 mortgage in Texas is insane… she’s a prime example of what’s wrong with the system.
Toyota still owns the majority of the homes that they bought their employees when they moved to Plano in 2014.
Toyota employees sold their $1.5mil houses in California, then bought 2 or 3 more houses in the DFW metroplex, and rented them out, causing prices to surge for a time. It’s only recently started to come down.
A simple family home 1970’s “fixer-upper” is roughly $340k+ in North Dallas.
After Toyota, a bunch of other companies did the exact same thing.
JP Morgan Chase, Samsung, Siemens, Huawei and more every year.
Foreign and West Coast money buying up properties, driving up the cost and value, which ensures locals are unable to purchase.
I agree with you. We are a married couple living in a house in San Francisco, our mortgage is $4,200 a month but our home is valued in 2,1 million. We plan to sell our home once we retired and moved out to another state like Texas buy a home cash in 700K and life comfortable the rest our lives.
Usually this judge doesn’t get it wrong but she did this time
Glad I read the comments first. I'm refuse to watch!
Yes. Geez. She actually sided with her
Agree 100%. This is the only one I completely disagree with Judge on. This man brings home about $9k a month and he is left with about $3K after the court ordered payments. Judge says she is on the side of the kids but he will have to move into a smaller house so he can afford to pay his ex-wife. Disagree totally on this one and this is because of his insecure and gold digging soon to be ex-wife.
She knows he’s not cheating, she’s just lazy 😭 if he’s smart, he’ll get a lawyer and bring her to court to split the tuition and nanny
She has to much time to imagine stuff.
@@philippe2715 exactly what im saying. if you have a wife you need to put her to work. no nannies
No he probably is but she took his cheating as her payday lol
Point blank she's probably ready to leave but still wants him to take care of her so she made this up to justify asking for all this
Definitely agree. He should’ve came in there with a lawyer
The fact that she always said "I want him to maintain the lifestyle FOR ME and for the kids.". Never did her kids come first in a sentence. Poor dude...
Well said.
That was legit my first thought when she said that.
Bruh.. she basically meant for herself. She just added "and for the kids" so the judge don't dismiss her claims
Don't feel sorry for the dude. He's the one who decided to marry his wife...
And this is WHY marriage is a full of shit institution.
ZE-RO benefit to the man and ALLLLLLLL the validation and reward for lazy ungrateful bored women.
A nanny and they're in private school. So when does she actually have to raise the children?
She doesn't even cook!I don't calls that a mother or a wife,she married him cause he was making money.
I don't know why they need private school at 2 yrs. old????
This woman needs a freaking wake up call. Spousal support is not just given any more either. They have only been married 2 years. If we all lived in her fantasy world ....
Nah, she is entitled to it. She married well to a turd. He should have prenupped it.
This "keeping up the same lifestyle", while also being the one DECIDING to leave is CRAZY
Sounds similar to the Kevin Costner/Christine Baumgartner situation.
One kid is 3 so why school plus a nanny !
@@BlackStump172because school doesn’t keep 24/7 lol nanny helps after hours
@@amandawilson6543 Nanny? Why can't she watch her own kid/s?
Exactly!!!
Her face when she was told she had to work is priceless 🤣. She is probably regretting divorcing him.
She should. She’s not pulling no other 6 figure man…
@@ladyjaz6817 I think she will not pull any man at all, not even a broken one, some women overestimate their potential, they become self-entitled and over-selective, but guess what, there is no selection pool (I'm using the word on purpose) at all for ger left.
She might try to get back with him. At the time of the recording she hadn't divorced him yet.
“I’m proud to say I got a GED” … and that’s it? Lmao when she said that, that is what did it for me I have my GED and I still went to college afterwards but I just realized college wasn’t for me and got my career in a different way (through experience sure it takes a little longer but it’s what worked for me) but anybody that just gets their GED and then makes it a point to find a man with lots of money clearly doesnt want to work they don’t want to put forth the effort to be a productive member of society they just want to do the bare minimum and reap the benefits of somebody who works like this man does.. she is disgusting. He was way too polite and put together to be cheating like cheaters you can spot them a mile away and he did not make my cheatdar go off😂😂😂
@@lynzblk You can tell a man is a cheater just by looking at him? Jeez, the FBI need to hire you ASAP because we can't even know someone is serial killer by looking at them.
This is so WRONG for the husband! The Wife has NO PROOF of him cheating, she just thinks he is. WTF
That's all it takes.
unfortunately the cheating is irrelevant. she could just be leaving him coz she feels like it and she would be awarded the same amount. I still think its wrong that he doesnt get the kids and still needs to maintain the nanny but everything is basically rules as written.
you're probably right. She wants to punish him with the idea that he's cheating, and even if he isn't cheating, he's obviously going to have a better time finding someone else than she will, and I think she knows that. So she's trying to leverage the situation with the accusations of cheating. She probably does believe that he was cheating though. Whether he is or not.
She shouldn't need a nanny if she can't afford one
well now she does, cause now shes gotta find a job while taking care of the kids, this is the best case scenario for the husband tbh, specially if nanny stays in his home
I think that if she HAD A JOB, keeping the Nanny makes more sense.
“What happens if i don’t find a job after a year?” That should’ve been the key indicator she just wants to live off him for as long as possible
Yeah but she only has a Ged and at her age whose hiring.
@@purplegirl8036 Walmart
McDonald’s, hospitals/nursing homes cna’s, janitors
Any construction work
Anywhere there’s a f*** help wanted sign
She’s not a felon
And doesn’t have a history of theft
@@walsh9354 Not to mention job experience as a secretary.
@@purplegirl8036 I know women in their 50's that work construction. They make $2,600 per Week. All she has to do is put in an application.
If I were the judge and she said that to me, I would have put a clear time limit on everything.
Me: "You are right ma'am, I should address this... Ok, here is what we are going to do. You have 3 months to find a job, if you do not, your husband's payments to you for support, will be cut in half... Then if in 6 months from this date, you again do not have a job, your support payments will end completely, and your husband will be awarded full custody of the children. At that point, then you will have to pay him child support in the amount of $600 per month to cover half the cost of a nanny for while he is working." LoL
When judge said $6,800 a month I died for him 💀💀💀 and she still wanted more. The entitlement Jesus.
Yeah...
Unfortunately this is 'fair'
And he has to pay the nanny and Private school still along with the child support insurance and spousal support. That's just insane to me. Unless I misunderstood and the spouse support is to pay for the nanny and Private school but it sounded like he had to pay her all of that plus still pay the school and nanny. That saying it's cheaper to keep her definitely applies in this situation 🤦.
Sonds like a gold digger who found a honey
They definitely need to change the laws. The way woman fought for their rights, men need to start fighting this. There is no reason he should have to give her anything other than child support after only 2 years.
@@kaylajenkins8822 You do realize that half of that is what he’s already been doing. It doesn’t seem like he wants to get rid of the nanny or stop his kids from going to the school so he has no choice but to KEEP paying because it’s not like she can. And the judge did a great job and reassured the guy that this is only a temporary thing and if she doesn’t find a job in a timely manner it’s all gone.
She won't get a job... This is a horrible verdict
That's why Judge Vonda B said that if he thinks she's not actively looking for a job that he can come back down the road. It shouldn't take her more than 6 months to find a job. Denny's and McDonald's are always hiring. Or she can take a training course for 3 months to learn how to type and become a typist. It shouldn't take long. If I were him, I'd be taping her at every turn and cancel her memberships anywhere she goes. No more spa, excuse me therapy, no more country club.
The support she gets is temporary
@@dennishunter5552HA!! How naive are you??
@@Roguewarrior37
Because?
Why is the judge allowing her to account for a nanny? This woman is not working! She can take care of the kids on her own!
Sounds like the nanny is the one who should get child support 😂
🤣🤣🤣
Agree.
Right!! I was a SAHM for 13 years and didn’t have a nanny, a cook, housekeeper or takeout, nightly.
Later, I was a single mom of four, drove trucks and still didn’t have that sh!t. The kids did, though.😂😂
@@truckertrash1245Sounds like your problem.
@@minxymoo2325 😂😂 You take care.
“I wanna keep these kids in their current life style” they’re little babies they won’t remember if they switched now. Man got cleaned.
These individuals would do anything to spoil their children
I really hate to say it, but this man is old enough to know better. He should not have married this money-grubbing shit heel. He did this to himself.
@@matthewhummel1572 I agree. The best way to raised ur child is as if they were in poverty. He should've check her financial stance instead of being obvious to her spending habits to look rich just to impress.
Man...You'd think he would know better. She really needs a nanny? I had a 4yr old, 2yr old and 6 month old and magically I did it without a nanny and without a half million dollar home. People make me sick lol typical Karen
The system really fucks us men bul
This is disgusting!! He LITERALLY pays for EVERYTHING and she's living the lavish lifestyle while he's working. SHE wants to leave him because she has a suspicion that he's cheating. He should pay for the children and nothing else!!! The system is disgusting!
He should get custody of the kids. He can afford a nanny and she cannot
How is the nanny payment and the tuition not a factor in reducing his child support?
Tbh I thought that they both should pay for the nanny each and the same for the school because that should be equal
Probably because anything over $250,000 /year is considered the top tier of economic status below the 1% billionaires. So he's considered rich and the judge isn't giving him any breaks, just applying the required guidelines.
@@Brendawallingbear The judge is doing a great job upholding the law, it's just the law is positively dystopian
@@yungghost1913she doesn't work. The kids would suffer waiting on her to pay. He shouldn't have to pay more than he already was.. the kids are going to see this vid and see how crazy mommy was
Frankly payment of the nanny AND private school should be split! Furthermore spousal support shouldn't have been awarded
Agreed there should be a cap period regardless of what he makes lost a lifetime over two years
Only married two years and she needs a lifestyle please
Why they got private school payments at 2 years and 6 months old anyway?
he got screwed. she's was married to him for 2 years. I'd like to know what type of lifestyle she had prior to him marrying her, and why should he have to pay for her
@@Jerseybytes2 i questioned that too
*Who else thinks she hurriedly married and had children from him, for her, “Lifestyle?” He seems like a nice guy that doesn’t care much about what she does and spends.*
Totally agree because she looks about 50. Why did she wait until now to have. Kids?
@@allin181 😂🤣 You’re absolutely right she does look older and he does too. She , “Hooked,” “Lined,” and “Sunk” him for sure. I don’t think she should not have been able to keep a nanny though. She’s not employed and I think daycare would give her plenty of time to socialize with her friends.
100%
Yep. I think she got pregnant on purpose and thought "jackpot".
@@TheSlong123 Yes ma’am! She saw dollar signs and she doesn’t even want to parent.
I like that Judge Vonda comes back and explained the case. It clears up any confusion in the case.
He doged a bullet. I think he was like „6‘800 is cheap, for not having her around anymore“😂😂😂
With her GED, she expects to live the lifestyle of the Rich & Famous 😅.
That's assuming she's truthful about having a GED.
Yeah that’s what it means to marry rich. She’s a gold digger.
GOLD DIGGER
JUST TWO YEARS IN.
Rich and famous barley go to school but I agree she’s a bum
She wants a wholesome family but dont take care of her own kids their nanny does. Find that funny.
She only made kids to collect her adult support and pension by the children later on.
Wants to have meals together but doesn’t cook.
@Helen Saghy There's no evidence of him "running around" on her. What are you TALKING about.... She's talking a bunch of nonsense just to get him to continue to pay for her CRAZY spend spend spend lifestyle. That whole "he's cheating" garbage is a show.
There’s no way this gremlin should’ve gotten $4,500.
OMG - K A R E N ! I've never heard of spousal support being a thing here in Australia.
This is sickening. It's obvious that he can keep the children's lifestyle the same FAR better than she ever could. Wow.
Whew! It could have been worse
It’s more her lifestyle… kids are babies, they don’t know about lifestyles.
I hate cases like this whenever she’s unhappy she can take her ball and go home and take half like mannn smh 🤦🏾♂️ and just because dad works he can’t get the kids??
So adjusted gross income was $8000. Pay this leach $6800, leaving him $1200. Based on the court records. Men do not get involved with women. The court activity are against you. This women had zero proof of anything. She just wasn't happy anymore. Ridiculous
@@jarredminns9798yes, please do not get involved 😂 research shows that while single women are happier, healthier and better educated, single men are lonelier, more depressed, and suffering. Please leave us out of your bitterness
A prime example of what happens when you decide to marry your part-time secretary. She becomes a full-time dependent.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 💀 ☠️ 💀 ☠️
Most accurate statement I've read in quite a while.
………For the rest of your life, even if you’re divorced.
Maybe he shouldn’t be entertaining women and give that attention to his wife…then this wouldn’t have happened
@@sandeetorres6005Or she may just be crazy... ever thought that. We don't know. But what we do know is she's lazy, she's enjoyed the lifestyle of doing nothing and letting someone else take care of her kids so she can continue doing nothing and having fun with friends. She clearly doesn't want to work... he clearly is a bad judge of character and likely was cheating. He chose the wrong women, she chose the wrong man. The kids are all that matter and clearly she's not doing much to take care of them while he does all the work to support them. it's bad al round!
"What is ur educational background IF ANY?" UNINTENTIONAL KAREN ROASTING 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This poor guy is getting cleaned more than the pools he works on
Get rid of the nanny take the kids out of private school. Watch the money come come back to him
i feel soryy for the guy getting cleaned out she seems entitled !!
I couldn’t watch it bc her voice is annoying
PRE-NUP
If he already had the business... PRE-NUP
@@bigjay123 exactly. I don’t feel sorry for him and sheeeew no wonder he looks at younger women. Come on lady take care of yourself. She looks dusty ASF
If he's already paying the nanny, school, as well as child support, he shouldn't owe her alimony. Especially for only two years. And tbh, the nanny and tuition are technically child support, so he's paying more than he should.
Yea its rediculous she has set people child support based on the kids tuition and everything before. But in this case she makes it seem like two different things. So he basically paying double for no reason
exactly
Facts
There is no legal reason or leg to stand on for her to order him to continue to pay the nannie or for private school, and is the judge thinks its better the kids live with a deadbeat parent who lets a nannie raise her kids while she is not working instead of the what seems to be sole provider is nuts. If She was working full time as well then I support the use of a nannie or family member helping out but if she is not working at all and expects others to raise her kids while he pays for everything even her buying a house that is wrong.
@@hexuz2863 which of the babies goes to private school?
"What were you doing in the pool? checking the depth?"
It’s been 2 years and this is still one of the most unjustified ruling.
if mom isn’t working why do they need a nanny?
Because she is wants to go to SPAs and enjoy Saturday Nights with the gals
My thoughts exactly. She should just stay where she is
That’s what I was thinking. She’s not cooking either. I pray for those kids well-being
Because she is a bad woman and a bad mom.
Her lifestyle out side of the children
I work in the pool business. Customers use to call me at all hours and I was only the pool boy. Not the owner. I believe this guy 100%. The pool industry has those type of customers that don't care about the hour. And then you got customers that don't want to be bothered for any repairs under $1k. It's a crazy field to work in.
guy comes home a 6 takes a dip in his pool finds a problem that night so he gives the guy a ring. Owned a A/C business for 20 years my phone never stopped ringing when cell phones arrived I could shut it off a 9
Ya it's pretty messed up because the judge doesn't understand how pool business works. Pools do not care about the hour. You literally have emergency calls. Pools cost tens of thousands of dollars to place and repair. It's very important to resolve issues before they become too bad.
For example, a clogged skimmer due to an object blocking a pipe can cause the pool motor to stop pulling water and potentially burn out the motor. Instant 1500$ for the motor and $1200 for the labor (that's why he makes so much. Repairs.) Do you have $2700 in your pocket?
Then, if the person has low/ no income, the pool can turn green without a functioning motor and this will cause huge fines and health risks to the surrounding area because the water will stagnate and cause mosquitoes and bugs to reproduce rapidly. Costs upwards of $10k. Not to mention the dramatic drop in house value by having a cesspool in the backyard.
There was no evidence really indicating that lewd acts had been performed, or if it even mattered. Clients telling you they are laying out probably mean it as a warning because it can surprise the tech walking in.
I feel like any type of construction business people are calling at most hours
What if there's some sort of leak, of course a good pool guy would run over and take care of the problem.
Yes. I believe him because I do call them at night time when I use it and it is not working. Is the pool isn't warm up , I do want it fix the right away..
This is ridiculous!! His net was 8000 and she gets 6200?! Hell I didn’t get child support for 4 children when he makes double me! Let alone spousal support. 11 years later still no support for the two children at home.
Where are you getting net $8,000 from when he said his annual is $280,000? Pay the smallest bit of attention omfg
He shouldn’t be paying all of that! Ridiculous!!!
He got SCREWED!!! As a contractor I completely understand after hours contacts with clients, and for that to be held over him is BS.
This woman is a nut. She needs a job. And why does she need a a nanny
She is a loser trying to steal from the guy
This guy got ripped off by the judge
If he was in a different state he would of really got the big shaft
Let me get this straight: This guy built his business before he met her, he works long hours - like most business owners HAVE to do - he pays all the bills, provides a nice house and lifestyle. And her major contribution is going to lunch, spa days, and therapy, while working part time and shipping the 2 yr. old off to "school", while a nanny basically does everything else for her. I think she's right about one thing - with her GED and attitude, it probably WILL take a very long time for her to find another job.
😂
I don't know why he even married her. She has an attitude. Can't cook. And is not a looker
Why would amyone ever marry that woman??? A GED!! Lolols!
While they were teaching us to divide 32 muffins among 13 students, they instead should've been teaching us that marriage has little to do with Love. It is a business agreement.
I am lost for words, this is the most unfair judgement in my open. She needs to get a job and maintain her lifestyle.
Finally someone not interrupting each other all the time or singing or doing all sort of stuff. It was so much more professional and enjoyable. It felt like court, for once
What the kids are USED TO...
The kids are 2y & 6m all they used to is 'Inside or Outside', Asleep & Awake.
Exactly. On top of that, she has a whole nanny so she isn't really doing too much. She's a disgrace.
@@blackqueenmelanin1449 she just wants to live off his money for as long as she can. I mean private school at 6 months and 2 years? AND a nanny? why should he pay for the whole thing.
If you made at least a quarter of a million a year, would you want your kids living in squalor because you don’t get along with their mom???
@@thomasreedy4751 squalor? they aren't going to the crack house
Shell.need some support cause she cant do SHT.
And she'd be getting an Apt.
Another classic case of a woman filing for divorce because she “thinks” he’s cheating. “I saw my husband having a conversation with a woman, and he was smiling, therefore he must be sleeping with her. Now I want a divorce and all of his money.”
Then now she has to buy a cat and die alone
I think she is a crazy you can see it pouring out of her.
@@MozD When the child support system is THIS fucked up, I'm sure even mentally challenged women can manage to win, it's certainly no accomplishment
He may be but honestly would you not the lady is a leech and doesn’t do anything for him or the kids how sad
Could write a book about this case or any similar, including the idea that women are most likely taught, trained and brought up to believe that men are simply another item to use like their make up and toiletries. In the end, just another case for avoiding marriage and most relationships.
Child support should never be lazy ex-wife support.
He built this business before he married her. Now, she thinks she is entitled to all he worked for
Man, the fact this dude stayed straight dead pan while this woman spouts this garbage off shows just how used to her insanity he is. He shouldn’t have married her in the first place.
Simps gonna simp
Yoooooo 🎯🎯
She married him just so it could end like this. Her practically set from his money without him.
I bet that $6000+ is still cheaper than what he’s spending to maintain her lifestyle, living with him. He’s like I’ll pay that out for peace.
She must have some tricks in the bedroom, I don’t see anything else she brings to the table🤷🏽♀️
"I'm proud to say I got my GED" 🙄
Reaching for the stars there 😂😂😂😂
Ambitious woman there 😅😂
OMG! GED
GED Good-Enough-Degree
@@highschoolmanure3265 except it’s not..
Nah! She said she is" very proud she got her GED. Yes, yes." Holy shit!
I love the judge telling the woman: "Don't get a job, keep the kids in private school, and don't fire the nanny -- or your gravy train will come to an end"
THIS WAS ALL WRONG WITH THE JUDGEMENT.... COMPLETELY!
She lost me on this one. Just cause she wants to leave him cause she “thinks” he cheating and he has to pay all that is shocking
Also they aren't even divorced yet
I don’t get what you’re missing. People generally don’t need a reason for divorce. Moreover, he’s maintaining the school and nanny for 3,000. Meaning he’s paying a temporary payment of 3,800 to his wife. If the wife has the kids (because the judge prioritizes time spent with the kids more than money spent ON the kids) then she’ll need something so they won’t starve. Plus the judge stated multiple times that this is only temporary and if she doesn’t find a job soon then she’ll lose it. I don’t like the woman either but the judge made a fair decision.
Yea, The judge is wrong on this case, The man makes good money and is getting punished for it. If I was the guy, I would fire the Nanny and make the woman learn to cook
@@MajorJim69 Spousal support is temporary. The rest? No. If the kids are going to an expensive private school, it was because their current situation allowed it. Now, do they really have to go to a private school? Absolutely not. Public school would have to do and it's only the mother's fault for taking away this opportunity from her children. And it's obviously the nanny who's doing all the work. But, we should not forget that there are many single parents out there who can manage to work and don't need a nanny. Some have to rely on family or friends when their finances and workload get in the way.
That woman clearly got some wild ideas in mind like not needing to be committed to one man in her life, but still wants his money. So she came up with an impossible scenario about the man cheating. She couldn't even show that famous picture of him in someone else's pool to back up her claims.
True, the man is clearly rich, but he still got screwed by the system. And you can be sure that the mother will steal her children's money.
@@MajorJim69 And this is what you're missing...if she cant afford to maintain the kids lifestyle by herself, then she should have custody of them! If the judge truly cared about the welfare and wellbeing of the kids she should have allowed him to have custody....This shows once again that family court could give a damn about kids much less men!
"What if it takes me a year to get a job?"
"It'll probably take her longer than that."
That's hilarious!
Right, she wasn’t planning on getting a job. She wanted him to keep footing her lifestyle. She look lazy. She kept saying how she wanted to remain in the same neighborhood and him pay the bills. Sad
She needs to take care of her own kids ; no nanny unless she gets a full time JOB!
I mean it's worthless, the nanny is the parent, she is simply a leech.
Works part time for the business, and still has a full time nanny? Pretty obvious she doesn't raise either child at all, and the nanny is the one doing all parenting
They were married 2 years. It seems he has to pay a lot of spousal support for such a short marriage.
Private school for a two year old? Nanny? What does she do as a mother?
These kids are not going to see that money at all lmao
If she doesn't work. There is absolutely no reason he should be paying for a nanny.
Right, she doesn’t cook, probably doesn’t clean, and one of the kids goes to school.
This is hilarious. The guy can probably get a 20-30 year old easily while the woman looks like she flew to the courthouse on a broomstick. She's a clear Karen!
I thought the same thing. How do you lay in bed with THAT??????
Haha lol
Maybe as a sugar daddy lmao.
he’s literally hideous
@@warrenbfeagins she probably looked better in her younger days. I'm surprised she started having babies in her 40s
It seems like she wants everything she currently has, except for the husband.
It’s so good to wait till the end of these videos because saying she had to get a job and the look on that woman’s face was priceless!
What kind of 2 year old need to be in a damn private school? That's a huge waste of money, I don't get that
I totally agree with you …. Ain’t a 2 yr old should be in daycare 🤔
@@nikeyahenderson7285 exactly, they should be in day care, not a private school plus, how much better can a private school be than a day care when it comes to teaching a 2 year old?
1st world problems. Public schools are free and they should take advantage of that money saving opportunity.
Probably a montesorri school, most of those schools also provide early childhood education, there’s nothing wrong with giving the kid a better education that sometimes public education does not provide..
@@BradleyCaban if the parents are really caring about early childhood education then, the parents themselves would teach them or if not that pick a public school that provides that but, 1800 a month for a 2 year old that can't stay focused on one thing yet, waste of money that could be going towards doing more for the child and money that could be put away for college or anything else the child would want to do after high school
This woman has probably asked to speak to the manager in every single restaurant she has ever set foot in
Basically, I want a divorce and I don’t want to have to work 😂
The judge incentivised this woman not to look for work
I like how when he heard the spousal support payments he took it on the chin
I don’t understand how he has to pay her $6500.00 with 2,300 of that being child support if HE is also paying a nanny to take care of the children and insurance AND private school. They’re still in the same house hold (even then her spousal support is $4500 by itself) and she doesn’t even have proof he’s actually doing what she’s alleging. That’s ridiculous lol
I think the child support includes the nanny and school and insurance. I don't think it's in addition to it.
Yeah, she gets more money than the children, it's pretty unfair especially for the children.
yeah he got screwed prperly here
I think is not effective until after their divorce gets finalized and she's out of the house they both shared right now and still have to provide all sources of income for the judgement to take effect or even be modified depending on what has changed during the divorce proceedings...so even thought this was her judgment is still not set in stone but at least this Karen knows what's out in the horizons for her because hubby can too request full custody of the kids during the divorce.
If you watch the video to the end, the judge explains the difference between spousal and child support, that was super helpful for me to understand
Vonda B lost me on this one, she let this woman walk all over this man saying these very young kids need to keep their lifestyle😂😂😂
I agree, seems like the judge got emotionally connected to this case.
Same
I think the judge is more than fair in this case, as she always is. Real life judges are more biased towards women. I'd only hope more judges in real life are like her.
The kids would not know what a lifestyle is
Me too bad decision she's a money grabber
They claimed Texas. They gotta be married at least 10 years. So confused.
She just took that mans kids away from him because she didnt like him anymore
She said "our" business like she's a part of it. Kick rocks!!
MY kids, OUR business lol
Well... technically... they’re married... so everything is OUR...
@@jackxthexreaper736 That's the funny part; She tries to talk about the kids like they're her property, yet when it comes to the thing that makes her money, despite not really doing much work for her ex, she's talking about it like she owns part of the job. When she really doesn't.
@@mistahjenkins4826 yeah, she’s still disgusting, don’t get me wrong. That’s why we men have to be extremely careful with who we lay down with and marry. I got lucky. Very lucky. I hope you’re doing well, sir.
@@jackxthexreaper736 He's still speaking as if he loves her to be fair. He wouldn't say OUR if he meant something different.
This is why I tell my son to get a prenupt. A man can work hard to get financially secure and bring a woman in and she can absolutely destroy all he's done. If they built the business together then I could see her asking for reimbursement. But for him to buy her a house and support her for however long it takes for her to find the job she likes is ridiculous.
prenupt are easily broken in court. They usually never hold up.
Omg me to because some women not all are so ignorant.
Last month my daughter got 16 cents from her father. Yet in the past he would ask me for money n say since I'm running two businesses I should be able to help him out. O I helped him I gave hime names n numbers to shelters n meal sites. After I put him out. He wanted me to end my pregnancy cause our baby could've been born with special needs I sent his a packing. My daughter is autistic n has other stuff going on however the brightest n happiest heart. I got full custody. If I decide to get married I want a prenup
Tell your son not to get married. Instead have him focus on building wealth when he’s 35-40 he can look into have gf that lives at her place.
A prenuptial agreement is unrelated to this situation. It serves to safeguard the assets acquired by an individual before marriage. Her intention wasn't to claim ownership of the business; rather, it seemed like she was seeking financial support post-divorce. It's advisable to counsel your son to seek a loving and compatible partner, ensuring he doesn't seek affection elsewhere. Given her behavior, it appears this may have been a contributing factor in this particular case.
What on earth is wrong with this judge? This is a sham the wife left with no evidence of unfaithfulness. This was a sham aweful ruling.
Her face when she was told to work was priceless. And of course her only question what basically if she had to work. I like that she made sure to let her know that the payments were just temporary because she wasn't working and that if it stays like that for too long she'll get nothing.
listening to her voice is a cause for divorce.
Her voice make me remember that reel where the guy get frustrated by the coffee shop waitress speaking with the same voice.... 😂
This is the perfect example of a man getting screwed in court!!! She had 2 kids so quick to cement getting support with the intentions of divorcing him..... She's lying and doesn't do anything. This was wrong, all wrong...... I feel bad for him....
I think you’re right on this one.
She thought she was gonna get a 500k house for free LOL "It's less disruptive for the kids" 😂
As if a 6month old and a 2 yr old will even notice anything. FFS lol
He needs to hire a lawyer. This is outrageous
Gotta say, I disagree with this one. Currently, the wife is employed, and she should have to bare some of the financial responsibility as she has the resources to do so. If she so chooses to become unemployed, the case can be revisited at that time. But allowing her to not have to share the financial responsibilities will only encourage her to leave her job, and life off of his dime.
Yeah, I have to disagree too.
I think this ruling was straight trash
I agree with you on this. She admitted that she refuses to continue to work with the guy. At that point the spousal support shuld end
If you get married, you agree and want to be fleeced. Marriage is outdated. There's nothing but liability for men and money and assets for women. Only a sucker signs on to that deal..
@@CeeTeeUSA red pill 😂
I never understood the reasoning behind “Spousal Support.” You’re telling me that you can’t provide for yourself and you need to rely on someone who you’re not married to to provide for you? Ridiculous. This man deserves better.
It's a remnant of the era when women weren't allowed to really work. Basically, it's from the era of "women belong at home and in the kitchen" and Divorce was a societal death sentence for women. Women like to keep elements of the "patriarchy" that benefit them, obviously.
Fr that never made sense to me. Your a grown adult, so you have to take care of yourself. Simple as that. Even crazier is the argument of „maintaining the same lifestyle“, the only reason you ever had this „lifestyle“ is your partner. And than you decide to leave him, but want him to maintain the lifestyle you only had because of him? How does he owe her a lifestyle ? Can’t get my head around that
Yeah it makes sense if your dealing with people with a lot of money but then it also doesn't because they would already have the money. Think it should only exist in the cases of domestic abuse but I think that sounds like something the state should help with as it's not your fault if your being abused
Had a friend who became disabled and couldn't work, her husband left her and got remarried. In sickness and in health my ass. She had been a lawyer for a hospital and made way too much money before becoming disabled, to the point her disability check was over 7k a month. That man still paid her spousal support till the day she died, and child support. She didn't spend a penny of his money either, saved every dime so her children would have enough money for collage. She knew she most likely wouldn't live long enough to see her children grow up, and she was right, but she fought tooth and nail to make sure her children would be provided for. Even put her house in her eldest son's name, so none of her relatives could try and sell it out from under the kids after she passed.
Why the hell is she leaving with all this she’s getting I wouldn’t go anywhere 😂😢
She is a total predator. The state enables predators on so many levels.
I've been watching you for a while now and I think you're a wise woman and a very fair judge who doesn't fall for these poor women..... Thank you.
A great educational video for aspiring husbands and fathers in the western world.
Do not marry an American woman.
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He looks tired & broken
Yeah wear condoms or practice abstinence
Yea never get married
Dude makes $23K a month. He has to give $9K of that to the government, and $9.5K of it to his ex wife. He gets to keep $4500 a month, or 20% of what he earns. Amazing.
in texaast there is no state income tax so all is his
He has to pay the federal government, it isn’t all his.
@@uk9383 When you are an independent contractor like he is, you get a 1099 not a W-2, so he gets shafted with taxes at the end of every year. Trust me.
In New Zealand there is no spousal support- there is only child support which is based on income but it is capped.
In our country that lazy cow would have to support her own life style.
They are his kids, so he should pay some of it, but clearly this is absolutely insane.
Truly this judge lady is the most prettiest lady on earth.
I watch his videos just to watch her only.
I love that he's sitting there quiet knowing she sounds crazy
“I’m going through therapy due to all he’s putting me through. But I still WANT him to buy me a home, pay for nanny, private school, piggy bank fund bc I won’t work for a year”
Ok lady, if your sooo distressed and hurt, then just leave without taking half of what he earns.
If she’s that messed up in the head she shouldn’t have any contact with the kids
Her therapist is probably suggesting this so she can afford more therapy.
I’m a woman and find that so unreasonable!! I didn’t even ask for spousal support because I was capable of working. My kids and I moved from a beautiful home to a 2 bedroom apartment. They adjusted very well to the change. What is the husband supposed to live off of now? He got screwed!!
In more ways than one.
She signed up for a lifelong contract of marriage. He cheated maybe multiple times. He and you expect her to just go on with the marriage, take care of the children in the house, and she works for his business, as if nothing happened? I mean like that is a loser in more ways than one.
@@mrss4328 I got child support. I could have gotten spousal support but chose not to because I was capable of working. My husband cheated on me numerous times and has a child with another woman that was conceived during our marriage. I just didn’t think that he should continue to be responsible for me after I divorced him. The children, absolutely! Me, no. That’s just me. You are entitled to your own opinion.
she provided no proof he cheated
@@MrBobby8069 I was talking about my ex.
She is giving Moms who actually take care of their kids and don’t use their Spouses for all their money, a very bad name ! That’s a shame.
He should've won the custody of the kids. Surely she couldn't offer any kind of support to the kids, neither financialy neither emotionally.
She was living comfortable asf and now she ruined it herself haha 😂
What did she ruin? She's getting over $6,000 a month to live. Her kids won't see that. They will have the basics, the nanny will take care of them and she will keep spending on herself. He shouldn't have to pay so much in support if he's paying for the nanny and school. What other money do they need?
I wish I can do what she is doing but I have to work two jobs
He should not have had to pay her that much in child support because he still has his bills as well. She should’ve been ordered to get a FULL time job and not a PART time job like stated to the judge, especially if she’s going to keep the nanny. This screams lazy as hell with working and raising her own kids. Truly disgusted with this ruling.
This was very disturbing to watch,seems very unfair to do this guy dirty like that
"I'm very proud to say I got my GED."
Lady, I was expelled from high school. Got my GED before any of my classmates graduated. Then got expelled from college. Went back and got a physics degree with a 3.8 GPA. Getting a GED is not an accomplishment. That's like saying being able to tie your shoelaces is an accomplishment.
That’s dope you were able to accomplish so much! Getting a GED is indeed an accomplishment though. It’s something when some people didn’t get anything at all. Everyone’s situation is different, as you know, and being able to rise up and do something when you have nothing is an accomplishment.
Looking at her, it probably took all she had to get that GED, God knows.
Lol
It’s an accomplishment for some people I agree with what ur saying about her but don’t downgrade it for others
40% of high school seniors cant pass the GED. That is an accomplishment and im proud of you
He pays for everything, and she is upset about buying her own home?!?! This is what is wrong with the child care system. He should only pay for the services for the kids. Not her life style
The child support he’s paying does include the services for the children. It’s the SPOUSAL SUPPORT that will temporarily give her funds. I wish he didn’t have to pay any in spousal but she didn’t look too happy in the end, either, so I don’t think she’ll be able to maintain what she wanted to.
A 2 year old and a 6 month old don’t have any idea about a lifestyle !!! She wants to continue her lifestyle!
my head flew after hearing that she is looking to work PART TIME then be a stay at home mom but have a nanny? what?
This is absolutely unbelievable. The entitlement. I can only imagine how this is going to end.
I could understand if he actually was cheating for some of these things, not all. This is why you need to have proof of infidelity before you have a court case smh
Definitely look like death may be her near future. That is ridiculous!
This is crazy on the mother and the judge. She obviously used him for his money. Call it sexist or whatever, this is why women can't keep a man and men dog women. Bc when you have a good guy like him, and he still takes care of everything for all of his family including the wife; and she still want to go at a homies neck so she doesn't have to work and keep her lifestyle?
Yea he calling OJ😂
Judge calculated the guy's net resources as $8,800 per month and ordered him to pay the ex-wife $6,800 per month. So, she gets 6,800 and he gets $2,000.