Are Looks Really All That Matter? | Reacting To Black Pill Dating Advice....
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"Everyone says that looks don't matter, age doesn't matter, money doesn't matter. But I never met a girl yet who has fallen in love with an old ugly man who's broke." - Rodney Dangerfield
“If you live your life by broad generalized quotes made up by 70’s comedians, you may as well give up now.” - Me
lol
@@JR-iy7pb "Lighten up Francis." - Sgt. Hulka
@@JR-iy7pb He’s not wrong though. Which IS the point. And I mean this quote was from 40 or 50 years ago and it rings more true now than it ever did.
@@lockyp204 “A stupid man's report of what a clever man says can never be accurate, because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand.” - Bertrand Russell
"Looks don't matter. My boyfriend just happens to be 6'2 and goodlooking".
nevER believe a 304
Teehee
Never believe their words Always believe their actions
Funny AH
@@jiminycricket5798 also reminds me of a woman I used to know who gave a short guy a "chance" then revealed that he made $300k/year LOL
Going to a woman to discuss the blackpill is like going to a billionaire to discuss clipping coupons
I mean, your not wrong. But for a woman I think Courtney is pretty realistic and really represents the exception to a lot of these rules. I'm not a simp btw lmao I'm very black pilled. But I do think Courtney typically gives good advice and Is genuine. She's a very good representation of what a high quality women is. Her boyfriend is objectively less attractive than her (though he's not bad looking by any means), and she makes more money than him. She's mostly on our side is all I'm saying. She's a good content creator and a good person.
@@jameswelch82 lmao her bf is white, tall, Chad. Surprise of the century. Yet this ho over here telling us looks mean nothing. Yeah sweetheart it’s just coincidence your bf is Chad LOL
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@@jameswelch82 whats the bdy count?
Lmfao seriously bro, you NEVER ask women their advice when it comes to dating, because #1 they’re (for the most part) all different in what they want in men, and #3, they won’t really be honest with you when it comes to a lot of factors. Guys just have to keep working on themselves, aka looksmax, financemax and statusmax. Too many guys nowadays put too much focus into trying to get a woman, and it hurts them as well as their potential future
Courtney should do a video where she creates a dating profile with an average looking man. Just to see for herself how hopeless dating is for most men today.
@@JH-bb8in thats exactly what I noticed as well.
But will the average looking man be looking for 10s and not average girls? Blackpillers want a super model.
@@kaym7704 sorry but the data has been analyzed already from dating apps. how men chose/rated women followed a proper bell curve.
all the data and statistics are showing the same. theres nothing to argue about.
@@kaym7704 most men take whatever they can get
@@kaym7704 that’s absolutely 🧢 lmfao. The average man finds the average woman attractive, while the average woman finds 80% of men unattractive. From what I’ve seen, most men just want a “fit” woman, even if they themselves aren’t fit. Me personally, I’m in no way hard to please AT ALL. I take pride in my appearance and make sure to hit the gym often. I like to keep looking like I’m sculpted by the gods themselves, so my preference is also a “fit woman”. She doesn’t have to have the fattest arse or the biggest tibbies on earth, I’d just like a woman who is fit like me, loyal, and down to earth. That’s literally all lmao. Can’t speak for other men, but I feel like most would agree with me on that
Dating for women is shopping. Dating for men is a job interview.
Exactly
100%
and men pay for women to go shopping or for the interview too😂
a job interview for a second-rate company that still has a strict list of requirements and experience
Except for chads
Courtney, if you are reading this, stop hiding behind your ivory tower. Go online dating as an average looking guy friend. Put up pics, profile, and send the messages YOU think women want to hear. Do it with girls who aren’t out of his league. Do that for 2 weeks straight and post a video about it. You know nothing at all until you do.
I agree. Courtney try it^^^^^
I usually say "Why do we care about being an average man on online dating? Just leave it. No high quality person, men or women, uses online dating", but I agree with you this time, since I've seen Courtney refusing to just say "Don't use online dating".
If average men didn't do okay on dating sites, they would have gone out of business... Have someone like a sister or female coworker look at your profile and listen to her criticism
@@diegodonjuan This is horrible advice bro. They have done studies on this and it's clear: 80% of women on these sites prefer the top 20% of guys. The bottom 80% of men are invisible to women.
@@diegodonjuan that isn't true, they make their money on people who are desperate, the average person does not stay on online dating, they eventually see it as a waste of time, but they continuously get a new batch of desperate people.
"I have friends who are 7's who don't struggle with online dating at all." Given that 80% of men are "below average" to women, those "7's" she knows are likely 9's in reality
She’s just trying to build her audience sadly.
@@MrDrummerLive from the comments, it doesn't look like its working
@@concretesandals4501 I was meaning by her saying that she has 7’s that are successful on dating apps.
@@MrDrummerLiveah I see
Even if they were real 7 it would still be 2 points above average.
"Its all about attitude, but my bf happens to be tall, handsome and a millionaire lol"
🤣 sucks for all these unattractive simps.
Right
Never listen to a woman's words, watch their actions.
She never said looks don't matter
I don't think females genuinely understand how difficult it is to be a man. To be a 'high quality' man in this new dating era of internet and social media, a man must have a solid career built up, finances in check, a body, looks, status, be interesting and spontaneous, have stories to tell, and have a network.
All of this takes years of blood, sweat and tears and is not even guaranteed. Every man is competing for the same woman, it's a constant competition. All a woman has to do is put a bit of make up on, post afew pictures online and will get more attention than the average man ever will in his lifetime. Average men are invisible.
It's usually the unattractive guys who need to have career/money. Good looking alphas can be broke and still get any girl.
It’s very unfair and if your ugly in face short balding and or ethnic and still do those things all you’ll get is a gold digging long term pro who doesn’t really like you the guys who succeed in that stuff who aren’t goodlooking and getting women it’s cause she only likes his money and status
It sucks man. I just wish I can have a woman to keep me company, have sex with, and show me love and affection. I don’t even want their money, house, or car but nowadays they expect men to have those materials.
You are absolutely right about that!! I tried being the best version of me always showed women kindness but all I got was the shaft.. And I feel looks matter, a good job matters, nice house and body matters.. But I think social media ruined women
Do you know that this is actually kinda false and just a red pill talking point?
When you trivialize what women are doing to be attractive, you're missing like fifty steps in between "just throw some make up on" and "post some pics"
Do you know what a fat, unstylish girl gets on social media when she posts in make up? No boyfriends.
You're actually just describing how unfair it is that you want women who demand the same of you that you do of them. Take great photos like them. Groom and adhere to hygiene like them. Understand colour temperature, rule of thirds, composition, like they often do in photos, wear tailored or fitted clothes and outfits like they do.
They don't "throw some make up on," they sit there for hours, and hours, and hours practicing how to put make up on, how to tie their hair in all these ways and then men get out of bed and don't even look at their hair and then get upset that women get attention
Idk Courtney. There are a lot of men who work hard, dress well, and otherwise take care of themselves , yet still have a lifetime full of "black pill" experiences like these (e.g., can't even get their foot in the door)
Agree. Most of my friends have status, making good money, confident etc but still struggling for date cause their LOOKS not attractive to the girl at first.
I can even speak for my own experience. After I huge improve my looks the way women talk to me and treat me are completely different. BP is telling the truth.
I mean bro lol just look at Courtney bf. Very attractive looking, rich business watch man, 5 feet 11 tall so pretty much 6 feet tall lol
I disagree. I think at best 2-5 percent of men put in maximum effort. All those guys who take care of themselves, are they at 10-12% bodyfat? Are those guys making over 6 figures? If not, they haven’t tried hard enough
@@nightrider9596 so you have to be at 10-12% body fat to consider yourself “trying”? Ok
well suck it up I guess
@@nightrider9596 So you're saying you need to be at 10% body fat and making $100,000 to get a girlfriend?
Using the example of “I know someone” “I have a friend” is a horrible argument for any objective data based study.
Info about me:
1. Work in sales and make a nice 6-figure income
2. Dress well and keep a clean appearance
3. Speak with confidence and show respect
4. Have a sense of humor
I have had zero, and I mean zero luck with women my entire life. Why?
I’m also disabled with 9 surgical scars, a bad limp and I’m blind in one eye. Looks matter. Call it red pill/black pill, whatever. It’s reality.
@lgbtq_hitlеr dude works in sales, he kinda talk to a lot of ppl
@AtheJbaka are you adding to the misandry? because he didnt say that hes an incel. the very condescending word that toxic females use is "incel" and they misuse it and call males "incels" when they arent. they only use it when it suits them.
@lgbtq_hitlеr being condescending I see. but you wouldnt do that to female thats been raped? quit being a hypocrite and actually go ahead and mock a female thats been raped so you can atone for your sins of hypocrisy. I know you definitely mocked a guy for being raped. so go ahead and do me a favor leftist bigot,
Yes...it is. Live a great a life as possible, my friend.
I am in the same boat,, I am a multimillionaire now and feel like trying to approach women without mentioning my income level is beyond pointless. The same women who would give me a dirty look and laugh when I leave, would date me if they knew how much I am worth
Yes, real life is like a dating app. I have seen women look at men who approach them with disgust and all these men did was say hello.
Facts
Yes, I have seen this too. But not the reason you think… it’s because they were either looking in the floor like an omega male or putting their chest up with too much fake. Women FEEL the true amount of energy we have in our bodies, this cannot be faked. If we don’t have natural high energy, it’s like a Ferrari car with no engine. How far does such a car get although it’s a Ferrari? Right, you answered the question for yourself now. Great 👍
But to have natural high energy, we need permission from our subconscious mind first. And this only comes from finding our greatest strength (doesn’t matter if it’s soccer, basketball, cooking, collection of stamps, teaching, or even cleaning as long as we have a unique role in our business)… after we find that strength we need to lead our men to success also. And while we have success in our leadership, we invite ladies too. And THEN they will approach us AUTOMATICALLY
Tinder is real life.
It's the only honest rating u .can get
@@jcransome5616 but what if that handsome guy is highly learning disabled and would never be able to support her when she cannot support herself ? Even men with extremely awesome skulls can be learning disabled. How should she know based only on a fuckin pic ?!?!?
Yes, but I consider it a nice filter. Tinder didn't changed the innate character of those women, it just made it more obvious. Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone like that?
I love when attractive people try to tell unattractive people how they can be successful at dating.
she's not attractive, she's average
Here's a good one. Guys, just be yourself, even if you are unattractive.
@@spidermanlift4527 knock knock, it's the cope police, you have been arrested for being a turd.
@@mikebingham9700 Wow, next level, original, wise advice.
@@mikebingham9700 Don't be yourself if you're a weak beta, change and you will succeed.
There are two filters, filter 1 is looks & filter 2 is personality.
You can’t get to filter 2 if you haven’t passed through filter one.
That's a simple way of looking at it but it's true
Unless you are forced to spend time together. But that is very rare these days
If the looks are good enough you dont need filter 2
That's it. I have many girls at the gym just randomly smile at me. Why? You got it. I'm quite good looking. Girls are no different than guy when it comes to looks.
Exactly
Stacies and Chads that act like they understand black pill philosophy is hilarious to me. They know this is the truth, but they have to virtue signal in order to not feel like the bad guy.
Women know the blackpill the best.
Have you tried leaving your house?
Bro go outside and touch grass
It's easier for them not to. It's easier for them because it doesn't affect them directly.
It's like food you don't want to eat and put at the back of the cupboard so you don't see it.
On top of that unconsciously they want these black pill men to keep producing for them. which they do.. with no dog in the fight other than a carrot dangling. There's no hope for these guys. Not going to beat nature out.
And you can tell that she's not convinced of what she's saying because she knows.
@@Account-vx1gf Cope
Are looks really all that matter? Truth: For most people, yes. Majority of people desire looks first over heart and character
If a guy is not that attractive the only way to get into relationships with decent women is to be thrown in the situation where the woman has to spend time with you. Take some art classes, or other activities where there are more women than men. Join some volunteer charities. Join a political party and volunteer. Of course you still need to work on yourself to make the best version of yourself.
@@HateDietPepsi All of those points are true, but here’s the problem.....Looks get your foot in the door. So, how do you get your foot in the door?
@@TheDashingStallion The more you hang out with people the more attractive they become. If you are unattractive you have to work on becoming physically fit and have to get into situations where you are hanging around women. As I mentioned, get involved in volunteer groups and other groups with high percentages of women. The best relationships with women are the ones in which you are thrown into a situation where you have to work together to complete a task.
@@HateDietPepsi I get that, and in theory that should work. But if you’re not “cute” to the girl, she won’t bother.
The first filter is looks. Then as they get to know each other they decide whether or not they wanna build a relationship.
Any female saying the black pill is not real has truly never considered the male perspective!
And what of men who say it’s not real?
they know they just don't care. Every woman who falls hard for a man is due to his overall looks
@@martifrey3357 disagree...
@@tivasthegamer9817 lol you will learn the hard way
@@martifrey3357 Do you think you are talking to a rookie? If so, then definitely it's you who will eventually learn the hard way.
It just seems to me like, everything is so easy for her, so she just tells people that are sad “lmao just be happy” it’s like telling a homeless person to just buy a house. She’s not helping anyone some people just win the genetic lottery…like me lmao
The Homeless guy: How do I buy a house? Can I trade in my shopping cart for one? I can't wait to get my new house.
she is not even on the dating market why would people listen to someone who is not in the trenches and never had hard time dating. If she wanted to look or sound credible she should show pictures of her ex boyfriends from back when she was 18 to now. Lets see what kind of men she gave herself too
"IT'S ALL ABOUT YOUR ATTITUDE ". LOL 😆 😂
"Just be positive, bro"
Just be confident bro
Just Buy Her Flowers Bro
biggest lie ever told. Everyone knows that bully kid from school got a new girl every week, meanwhile you who studied like a robot were made fun of and tried by the same females that give themselves up for the bullies
💀
Dating is like auditioning for a movie. How you look gets you the audition. How you act gets you the part.
The same as getting a job. Your resume gets you in the door( or sometimes connections)
Haha that sounds like something a girl thinks about because she is the center of her own universe lol no bro, Disney lied to you, life is not like a movie but we still have your back when hell arrives
@@JackedStacked21 well dating should be more like practice for marriage so to speak especially because without people skills and a strong mental frame, it's never going to go anywhere or it won't last so yes looks we'll get you in the door but you still have to develop people skills and of course be funny like Courtney always reminds us
@@drip369 yea that is the overall theme of my channel LOOKS matter. But only to a certain extent. Sometimes you’ll meet women who you will just do it for them for whatever reason and she may come easy. But that doesn’t mean looks ONLY matter in most situations
Yet without the looks you never get the audition
Another point I would like to add is that when Courtney says about 'looks will not keep her around', yes that may be true, but if you do not have the looks then you will not have her around in the first place. If a man is hideous looking (and I do not mean with things he can change such as grooming or losing weight) I mean genetically just unattractive looking, then even if he has a great personality, he will still face a plethora of rejection, way more rejection than success. On the other hand a man who is extremely physically attractive with only an average personality will face a plethora of success and hardly any rejection
I’m just making a point. At the end of the day, the chads will always catch a woman’s attention over any average or below average looking man, no matter how good their personality is
@@Aaron722076 the point is, looks matter no matter how much people deny it. It's the ugly truth.
@@Aaron722076 nobody tells them what to do my boy. Calm the hell down, dude is just stating facts about how picky women are. That's OK. We should embrace reality whether we like it or not. If some of us haven't won the genetic lottery, we have to just suck it up and move one. Period.
It will keep majority of women around
@@Aaron722076 most men are not attractive these days dude doesn’t matter they won’t settle even for the average guys anymore. That’s the point
Our society is built on fundamental lies. Growing up we are told "you are unique and special" and also "everybody is equal." We are told to "be nice" but also told that "life is a competition." Once you start to actually think about it you realize that a certain level of delusion is required in order to keep society running. This is the function of meaningless platitudes like "money cant buy happiness". and "looks arent everything". Observe reality and learn to think for yourself.
really? money cant buy happiness........BUT GOLD CAN! unst unst unst~! yeah I will think for myself. the "incels" so those men that call themself incel are only incel. and feminists who use the same principles of calling themself feminists. neither has helped me its weird to think but hating females and then being with men who are over reaching with their hatred of women make me feel drained. hearing women hate on men is also so draining. i can kinda turn hate into the energy i want. and because i myself dont really have a good life i choose hate but im going to conciously be more open and not hateful as its really wasteful of my resources im not greedy no i just want to stay away that which drains me of my life force and thats malevolence.
Life is all about competition though. Especially in the west
Best comment ever 👏👍
and the lies fall apart when you give one gender special rights and privileges. Repel the 19 th'
There are many very wealthy movie star who are unhappy
As a 5'5" man, the height thing is absolutely a thing.
I spent my early 20's in the Army as an infantryman, so I spent a lot of time working out and taking care of my body. I would've classified myself as a 6~7/10 (I'm baby-faced, so being clean shaven at 23 meant that I constantly looked 15 or 16); I'm well read, good sense of humor, can live life without the validation of other people, and I had a life and hobbies outside of the Army.
Can't begin to tell you how many woman rejected me solely based on my height. I literally have had three or four women say so, to my face, at the end of our first date (after I paid for everything, of course).
What did you pay for when you went on dates with them?
Same bro, I know it's the only reason I am still single with only one long-term relationship under my belt . I am 43, stay in great shape ( people think I'm still in my 20s ), I have all the material things, ( new car, nice place, nice clothes, I clean up well, good jobs ) but I get no looks because of my height . I have pretty good game when it comes to talking to woman; I did everything The Red Pills said to do and still can't pull anything, to test my theory I changed my height, just to see if I was right and wouldn't you know ? Yep that's right I started to get responses . Shit's funny to me lol .
@@zachbowman9396because u lack confident.
A women can see wheater ur insecure about urself or not
I have seen guys who're 5'5 pull girls in club or have a girlfriend.
Usually they date a girls who is 5'1 so yeah
Dating will be harder but atleast blaming ur height is false
If u got never a girl
U seek out wrong women
No i believe its your looks. Some guys overestimate there looks
And u lack confidence
@oldmindyoungbody3068
I was never in the army, but had the same statistics in my 20s and was 180 cm (5'11") and I guarantee you I hate my height more than you do, and probably got shit on just as often, if not more (because I probably talked to more women than you; I used to badly want a wife and kids in my 20s.)
I didn't become red-pilled overnight, and I promise you, if you're not at least 184-185 (6'0"-6'1"), it's all exactly the same to women; they just see you as "inferior/defective." I'm not MGTOW, but women are no longer a priority in my life, and I couldn't care less about dating anymore.
"Looks are not everything"
-Stacy
Based. Stacy has the self awareness of a cat fighting it's refelction on the mirror.
The last thing I want is a Stacy telling me that looks are not everything.
@@j.d.s.1837 cats have higher iq. It mogs me.
lol.....so true.
"Just be confident bro"
-Chads
We're raised from birth to believe, "Looks aren't Everything" and that "Men are al *_SO_* Superficial" (when it comes to choosing a partner/date). But after 50+ years I've come to observe that this has been nothing more than 'projection'... Women are the gatekeepers to _Sex_ and Men are the gatekeepers to _Relationships_ ... But that, in the end, it doesn't matter, because women will, in an instant, decide to leave a Man. Just last night I read the subject line of a thread on Facebook from May 14th 2022; *_What actions does a Man do that is an instant turn-off_* with *_99,999_* comments on it... Women will find *_ANY_* of a hundred reasons to lose sexual/romantic interest in a Man, whereas a Man's reasoning are far-less onerous!
Yup thats why the blackpill needs to be spread. Men are conditioned to believe girls care about personality more than looks but its the opposite. Women care more about looks than men do. They are the selectors
Always the man's fault!! We must always "Man up" Why aren't they ever told to "woman" up???...
Over 50 years on earth and sharing wisdom. Thank you. I've been here 30+ and I'm noticing same thing. Women make their own money, so don't need a man to provide as much as they did in past. And they're encouraged "I don't need no man," so women will leave whenever, often looking for reasons, even if a dude is doing his best for her. Perhaps monogamy goes against nature. Magnified today because of the internet 24/7 in a woman's pocket. 🤷♂️ All you can ask for is a good run.
It's because they are trying to find a cover to dump them cus they were NEVER attracted to them in the first place and want to leave the relationship.
@@MikeyDunksMusic Your status, money, personality etc are only matter once she is attractive to you by your LOOKS at first.
I feel like most men just don’t get it like they still think nowadays in 2022 women care about men money and status(Yes some do but most don’t). Women can make their own money too nowadays and most school/college young girls don’t give a damn about ur status at all they care about your looks way way more than ur money.
Data: "shows 5% of matches go to bottom 95% of men which shows looks is mostly objective"
Women: "Hmm don't know about that" and provide unsubstantiated opinions or presents examples from her few friends.
🤣
that may or may not even exist
Try to go outside and meet girls in real life or through your social circle . That is the best option for us normies .
Ironic how an attractive person tells us just to try harder. How would you know what we go through.
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Uglassssss lookin boi 💀
I mean majority of guys don't even try and just make excuses
@@pavasite4278 I tried but I only attract not so attractive girls . I trying to meet more girls .
@@pavasite4278 you clearly don’t understand bone structure 😊
People aren't giving up because they watched a video like this. People are giving up because of their life experiences, then seeking out others who have similar stories. Giving up ON DATING, btw. NOT giving up on self improvement or life in general. That's a small portion of the community and they have the right to do so.
This is why its pointless to aruge the blackpill to people. they ALL think we watched one youtube video and became blackpilled while we actually became blackpilled because we had bad expierinces in life and the was the only logical conclusion
@@thisisntevenmyfinalform2025 exactly. It's our life experiences that brought us to the blackpill
@@oaklandsoldier8520 exactly. I didn’t discover a black pill video and decide to join in on it. I discovered a black pill video and realized I’d been black pilled my whole life.
@@greatest599 bingo 👍🏿
people are giving up because females are way to entitled, privileged and just rotten
I went on a date with a really attractive girl once… She asked me what I did for a living??? Told her I install HVAC units.. She looked at me in a rude way and goes “do you really call that a job?” I wanted to say my peace with this chick but didn’t want to look like an ass in the restaurant.. She went on telling me her parents have PHD Degrees and they want the best for her.. Seems like some women don’t like blue collar jobs.. She told me her parents got a nice beach house in Florida.. 1. She sounds like she was born with a silver spoon in her mouth 2. I don’t give a damn what your parents have 3. I may not have a college education but I can build things with my bare hands.. I excused myself from the table like if I was going to the restroom paid for my share and left her sitting… I never criticize someone on what they do for a living.. I wanted to really throw my food on her don’t disrespect someone’s job.. I bust my ass for what I own.. She made me out like to be a dumb bum or something it hurt no lie!?
I work in an office for a company that regulates the pension for electricians, and trust me, on average, those guys make more money than most who have white collar jobs. Unfortunately trade jobs are looked down upon, even though they pay better than most office jobs.
Lots of love to you brother. You did the right thing in that situation. I really hate when people judge you by what profession you follow. The modern world is so full of shite. I wished i lived in medieval ages and would have loved to die for loyalty, love and friendship.
@@colinh9294 they definitely are looked down on!!
@@WolfManThoughts I agree, I’m lost for words about this world.. I just take care of me ride my motorcycle, go to the gym, take care of my health, play basketball..
What woman is gonna wanna settle for a blue collar loser? If you're gonna work blue collar, just do it for 2 years and save money to start a business. Trust me, being an owner of your growing company is exciting and thrilling as it grows!
If you're born poor, it is not your fault. If you die poor, it is your fault.
- Bill Gates
Look, I appreciate what Courtney is trying to do. But her content is based almost entirely on opinion. Wheat Waffles, on the other hand, bases his content primarily on data. We all know what they say about people with opinions . . . I'll take data over opinions any day.
Not all of his opinions are facts though.. A lot are assumptions.. I also think he sounds like an idiot a lot of the time personally. Regardless, if the woman isn't fully sexually attracted to the guy, she is going to be with him for money/resource reasons, and she won't feel guilty about leaving him when he stops giving her what she wants etc because there was no real relationship... It was transactional... The guy was paying for her time...... This is the 100% truth. When you consider how many options women have these days it should be obvious
datas are useless and pointless when you do a lot of crazy extrapolation and making jump conclution
RT
@@michaelangst6078 it dose not matter tho his arguments are still better than her - i know this dude (without even providing evidence that this dude really has success with females or that he even exists )
Trying not to be black pilled is very difficult when You're under 5' 5". Especially when you get told in person by women that they wouldn't date you because of your height. Which never seems to be addressed with anti-black pill videos.
Men don't date 5'10+ women either
@DrPandaman2525
Dating is very difficult for a man if you're under six feet (183 cm), period. I'm not as short as you; I'm 180 cm, but I've developed BDD and LOATHE my height due to how many women have rejected me for being too short. If I was 6'2" (188 cm), I'd be married by now. Not necessarily "happy," but married. So at least there's that silver lining, us sub-six-footers have probably dodged a lot of bullets.
@@xypaisb8026
Bullshit. Utter utter bullshit. This is one of those "trying to apply female standards onto men, assuming we both think the same" lies, the same way women think men care about how much money women make or what high paying jobs they have. I'd somewhat agree with you if you said "Men don't date overweight women" and even that isn't true (mostly just white men who don't like curvy/thick women.) But men do not give a flying f*ck about women's height, unless they're a literal dwarf (Little Person) or tall enough to be a WNBA player (6'5"/195 cm or more.)
@@xypaisb8026 i would, and i'm not alone. Faceandlms got rejected by a girl who was i think 6'3 (his height). n 2 wrongs don't make a right or change the blk pill. quit ignoring reality n making up lies
Notice how whenever a woman talks about dating a shorter guy, it's ALWAYS in the past.
"Yeah, see incels? You're so wrong. I USED to date a 5'5" guy. Ha!" JFL.
Exactly
It's lies JFL
Every lie told is a debt owed to the truth. Men NEED the truth
lol the jokes write themselves
She only dated him. Probably rejected him on the date.
Facts Lmaooo
I think Courtney doesn’t understand why guys give up because for a lot of guys, you can do everything and still get no girls
I disagree with this.. I am financially successful and I would rate my self slightly above average.. Maybe some women would even give me a 6.5/10 while being 100% honest, but I don't meet the minimum 7.5/10 for a woman to be fully sexually attracted to me. I am black pilled because I know women will only want to be with me for my money, and they will leave the day I stop giving into their wants and needs etc. Successful men can get women very easily if they broadcast their wealth.. The thing is though, They will just be in transactional relationships, which aren't real
@@michaelangst6078 that's beta bux territory
@@oaklandsoldier8520 anybody who isn't in the top 5% in looks is in beta bux territory.. All these so called ''high value males'' are all betas if they are paying to be with the women.. They are nothing nothing but transactional relationships
@@michaelangst6078 Yhh at least your not delusional and know what’s going on unlike some men with money be like “ she likes me for me” 😂😂😂
then why are you subscribed to her
A lot of women don’t know what this feels like, because men are told to approach and the women just simply rejects the guy because she doesn’t feel attraction
Yep. Looks are what matters. Online dating proved that a long time ago. Women sleep with who they want. Men sleep with WHO THEY CAN.
@Fabian Kirchgessner They do, but women are only fully sexually attracted to around 5% of men...if a woman is a legit 8/10 in looks, she probably only want to settle with a top 1% or less guy, no exceptions.... If women settled for a top 20% dude, even average looking women with nasty personalities would be able to be in a long term relationship with a loyal guy... They only want men who have dating options which is like 5% of guys at best
@Fabian Kirchgessner There is no way a woman can be sexually attracted long term to just a top 20% looking guy, so you're wrong.. If you're a 6/10 at best, they liked you for your personality enough to have sex with you, but they would leave you in 2 seconds for someone better looking/ offering her more, and the chances of her leaving randomly one day even if she doesn't have a better offer are still very high. I do agree with you that you have a better chance with women if they live more remote simply because there options are limited
@Fabian Kirchgessner However, just because their options are limited based on their location and they decided to date you because of this, that doesn't mean they are going to be happy with you, and it certainly does not mean they are fully sexually attracted to you... Bottom line is they can leave whenever they feel like it and not think twice about it because you simply don't look good enough for them to care
@Fabian Kirchgessner So, what is your point?? She obviously wasn't sexually attractive, or you wouldn't turn her down
@Fabian Kirchgessner Yep, I agree with losing some attraction to a woman no matter her looks. I never said I was a virgin.. I have been in transactional relationships with good looking women who have left me when I stopped just giving into their wants
When I was obese I could not even get my foot in the door. Been laughed at for trying to hit on women during that time. After I lost weight and got more attractive, I started getting more looks my way. My dating life became a LOT better. To my personal experience, I simply cannot deny the blackpill, because nothing else changed about me besides my looks.
Are you sure your confidence didn’t increase by even a little bit? Plus yes I can attest to the idea that most very attractive women aren’t going to want someone who is obese but that’s not to say women won’t date anybody who is a little overweight. There’s a difference between overweight and obese. I lost the weight and gained confidence as well as becoming a better version of myself and now I am confident enough to talk to very attractive girls with the intent of having a relationship
Thats completely not true.
Just by virtue of loosing weight, you became a goal setter, ambitious & many other things.
@@mylespoun9709 at the end it was his body that changed,
@@abbasarshad7689 Bud really? let's not be fucking stupid. Women are not gonna see him being fit and assume he used to be fat. Or even really care about the work that went into getting where is.
@@mylespoun9709 confidence isn’t the factor. I’m a very confident obese guy. I am outcome independent. Women won’t date fat guys. It’s just fact. Doesn’t stop me shooting shots but confidence has been the same as me being a jock in high school.
Looks aren't everything, but looks are what gets you started. Very rarely will any of your other attributes matter if you are immediately dismissed/disqualified based on looks.
Looks are the most important thing by far and have the heaviest influence on your personality. So looks are actually everything
@@surge7320that delusional thinking is very naive
you are naive, the statistics are largely in favor of looks being very important. the burden of proof is on you, not us. you have to prove the numbers wrong, not us. but i suppose you arent a well educated person@@SmashSetK
@@porkpork2169 I’m not educated? Oh I’m sorry that guys who aren’t gifted to have the looks get treated like creatures. 2 looks isn’t the be all end all cuz I’ve seen dudes who wouldnt be with women who are 10’s be with them irl. Love doesn’t go on demand cuz you actually need to get know someone not be superficial. Being superficial is pretty naive cuz a lot of these serial killers were attractive and they are shitty. You can get the stats all you want but I guarantee you looks aren’t everything cuz many ppl are in love cuz they actually got to know someone regardless of looks or not. So before you call me uneducated go outside more cuz I can tell you are terminally online.
@@porkpork2169 2 as i say again love doesn’t always go on what you want from your wishlist so you can go off your “statistics” but I guarantee you some those ppl are single still cuz of them being overly superficial. They don’t go outside and actually get to know ppl that’s how shit works same with how guys have to get to know you it’s the same vice versa.
Why is this lady feeding me lies? Why my reality is the opposite of the one she is describing? Why is my experience the same way wheat waffles is describing. Why is she telling me these lies??
cause she is a woman
because it's profitable, incels and men who loathe themselves are going to eat it up
@@voluntarism335 😂
partially to make herself feel better and partially to get that youtube cash $$&
Because she doesn't want to lose her simp audience by telling the truth. All Women know the black pill and they have always picked the top alpha males from the group since the beginning of time. Nowdays younger women prefer those Korean pop stars or the justin Bieber types or those guys from the stranger things cast where they look like pretty boys
major COPE
If your short or severely facially disadvantaged (i.e. ugly), it's over for you, buddy boyos.
Keep coping.
As a pretty good looking guy, I can attest to this. All except for 1 of the relationships I had only began because she liked me first, and all of them said they were most interested because they thought I was cute. I think that being good looking makes things initially easier for guys, and that's by far the area where most guys struggle the most. Meeting women and getting them interested is the biggest obstacle for men, and being good looking helps the most here. It makes sense that a community of guys that are overall unsuccessful with dating would put a huge emphasis on the one thing that makes things easier in the most difficult area of dating.
Spot on!
Women are way more forgiving about looks...
BUT THEY STILL WILL ALWAYS CARE!
It's not that important, but how tall are you?
I consider my self to be an average looking guy with an atheletic physique and whenever I go out looking like whatever i dont get any attention from women. (Not that I want it i have a girlfriend it's just what I noticed) but when I look sharp and wear clothes that accentuates my physique i notice a lot more women looking at me on the train, on the street and a lot more smiles and much more polite women when im dealing with them say at a store or something. It's easy to notice the difference in treatment. It sucks that it is this way to be honest but it is what it is.
@@seanflowers2149 wrong on that first part
Looks are everything, not just in dating but every other interraction that you have with people
True. People are more receptive and openly friendly to strangers if they are attractive.
Correction: looks matter just somewhat in non-romantic interactions. Sure, if you are incredibly unkempt like yellow teeth or unwashed hair then it will bother people, but most people would not care about how perfect your cheekbones are when it's irrelevant for the reason why you are talking to them.
@@Leonhart_93 It's not just somewhat. All else being equal, looks are a tiebreaker. Often you run into situations where you are competing with only a few people (dating, work, social situations) and the looks are often the tiebreaker. This is usually not something our conscious minds are responsible for.
@@AroundTheBest "All else being equal" just means looks aren't "everything" in those situations, like you claimed. I was disproving that specifically.
While you can blame looks for lack of romantic relationships, don't blame them for your lack of friendships or professional success.
I would argue that smell is more important than looks
Wheat waffles: facts
Courtney: personal anecdotes
Women can’t handle data
Certainly not if it doesn’t fit their narrative.
We (men) don’t go by misleading and contradictive opinions but by their choices and behavior.
@@gspcro9047 they(women) just want to hold higher moral ground. Sometimes they will say mens are dogs and pigs and sometimes they will say they want to be equal to men.
Right it's always mysticism
Amen
She really was speechless lol but kudos to her for not being delusional. She quietly considered the facts and was trying to be encouraging which is nice.
Exactly what I expected. Courtney Ryan would never give the average looking man the time of day. You can't expect women to be honest about this. And Courtney is no exception.
Lol mad
She literally said she dated a 5'5" dude
BS... I have seen women attractive like Courtney date whales and phuglies.... it is possible... oh.... did I mention that these whales and phulgies are millionaires? That's probably why...
nevER believe a 304
@@ebenade1 he made it up somewhere and she never considered an LTR.....it could have been one date.
Women’s Logic
20’s=I wanna Have Fun/Hot Girl Summer
30’s=Im looking for something Serious/like a Relationship
40’s=where’s all the Good men/Please to Talk Me
50’s=here Kitty Kitty
60’s=I’m going to die alone
Final words in their death bed=I blame Men 🤣🤣🤣
Lol If you look at this Courtney Ryan bf. Her bf is rich business selling watch men, very attractive looks and he is 5’11 which is pretty much 6 feet tall.
@@yyysamuel3215 this further proves the blackpill
@@yyysamuel3215 her boyfriend is a millionaire lolz she's beautiful, and she needs to stop talking about blackpill because she's deluded.
@@drakecliff8378 Yep. When a girl tells you something like “look wasn’t everything bro” “short guy can get gf too bro” “looks is not that important bro” “confidence is all the matter bro” but then when u look at her bf. Her bf is 6 feet tall, very attractive faces and have good status then u know she is pretty much lying lol.
based and blackpilled
No real black piller, especially Wheat Waffles, says you should give up if you don't have good looks. Wheat Waffles has a video that tells you exactly what your options are depending on how your looks are. One option is to give up and focus on yourself, but he also gives other options. This is a common misunderstanding and indicates a lack of knowledge of the subject
Most BP channel especially Wheat waffle never said looks is everything. He just saying look is the most important factor for men dating success which is true especially nowadays in 2022. WW also mentioned that the way Women treat "chad" are very different than how they treat normie and Sub5 guys.
And WW never said self-improvement is useless to everyone. He only said self-improvement is not going to work much if u are those “sub 5” guys.
And I heard a lot people become more happier after discover about BP because now these peoples they realize that this is not their fault is mainly because of looks so these peoples especially sub5 they stop blaming themselves and more focusing on themselves not women anymore.
As a guy who is around 5/10 in the past and boost up to 7.5-8/10 by self improvement. The way women talk to me and treat me are completely different after I huge improve my looks. This is nothing about my personality and confidence. Blackpill is telling the truth.
@@yyysamuel3215 I agree. Concrete advise to begin moving forward. Learning game and female nature is worthless if they have no interest in you. Black pill first and then red pill second
@@yyysamuel3215 please stop
@Tusit Lok Ka Hathi coping? I'm not the one talking about being "blackpilled" lmao, all these guys sound like they need to talk to women
@@hikelfin you're ridiculous if you think that talking to them would change anything they treat us different due to looks it's the halo effect
The blackpill is a hard true. Women don't admit it because they need "good guy" in their's 30ties. Attractive men don't admit it because they like to think they have gamę and personality. Courtney has omitted 80% of points.
It doesn't mean that you shouldn't work on yourself. It is always beneficial but if you are below average in looks it doesn't help in dating much. Blackpill saved my life but of course it can be dangerous depends on mindset. Red/Black pill can help but you have to be careful. You can not dive into it entirely
Woman have the tendency of agreableness
On the contrary at least 3 attractive guys commented and AGREED with the video.
“Height doesn’t matter it happens to be my bf is 5.11” 5.11 is 6ft so he’s tall
That's the average for a white guy, isn't it?
@@based4573 don’t know go ask some height professor
@@based4573 no, the average world height for men is 5.8ft
@@gatoloco3949 yes, but you are competing locally, not on a worldwide scale. Even if she randomly chooses a white dude within a hundred mile radius, with a 50% chance he'll be 5'11 or taller. It's though for Asians though, they have to compete with dudes that are taller than them for their own girls.
@@based4573 in my country 5'11 is average, in the US average is more like 5'10
Women care way more about looks. Wheat waffles actually uses data while you don’t use anything.
She uses her looks to fool desperate men.
Cite this data please
And MEN don't care about looks in women??? what planet do you live on?
@@j.d.s.1837 she is average
True
This girl is completely out of touch with the male experience. This is why men shouldn’t take content like this from women seriously, complete BS
what is ur solution then wallow in self pity ?
@@lidiagizaw3828 yeah pretty much, while we're considered like peasants you have the choice between many guys.
lol so u want women to fake liking u for ur self esteem. some people are just not gonna like u that's part of life
I think the solution is for young boys to be informed to what actually works and doesn't work with women so that we can relate to women realistically and not get our hopes up.
@@lidiagizaw3828 Are you single? Be honest.
A lot of people are black/red pill after already experiencing what the world is truly like. Telling people to “go out and explore” is possibly the worst advice when that’s how people become red and black polled in the first place
everytime i go outside everything i see is bluepill
This is advice my therapist tells me. I've been finding that a lot of people these days aren't as open, accepting and friendly. I'll still keep putting myself out there and seeing what could happen. It's better than doing nothing.
@@spidermanlift4527 Where do you live? Under a rock?
Like I breathe Blackpill. From the moment I wake up to some chatter about how birth rates are dropping like a bomb to the moment I fall asleep to the sound of Chads running trains on foids upstairs. It's all like predicting 8:00 'o clock at 7:30.
Wheat Waffles guy nailed it. Agreed we should NOT take away the opportunity to better ourselves. However, all those points he mentioned are gold. These are days, men who are too nice are tagged as weird/awkward/needy by women just because it makes harder for them to reject. Imagine that, for just being "nice".
I subscribed to Courtney's channel because I appreciate her insight but I don't think she really appreciates how difficult the dating market is for men, especially those with average or below average psychical features or "looks". As demographics/population trends have shifted over the decades from rural to urban I feel it has become much tougher, especially for men, to show their value and worth. In smaller communities, towns and villages, people really got to know each other. Families socialized more, more volunteering and community involvement. Men and women intermingled with a bit more decorum and tact because you saw these people on a regular or semi regular basis, or knew their family and friends.
Women will never understand, but that's okay. Men and women have different experiences in life, and it's not exactly up to the other gender to understand and completely comprehend the other side. Courtney understands it's hard for men, but she doesn't 100% know because she's not a single man.
She really doesn't care her channel is to make money. She purposely sells hope because that's what her audience wants. If she was honost nobody would watch.
it's not harder to show our worth, it's that our worth is now gone because women threw it away. What worth do men have in a world where women can do most everything a man can and if she can't she can get someone to do it for her. She can earn = or + than a man, she doesn't need a man to farm food for her, to hunt, to find good shelter, to protect her from invaders, to provide money for kids. Almost nothing is needed from us, the path women chose inevitably pushed us out of our role. the destruction of roles marked the end of our value. Now women say they "want" men not "need" us which just allows them to use their hypergamy to the max and only partner up with the top men. The average joe lives alone now and there is not enough time to change that for men alive today sadly.
She knows perfectly well. She is a woman and she knows the truth. Women are more superficial than men when it comes to looks
Women will never offer to lower their standards so when presented with statistics showing women's standards are WAY too high, they simply fall back on crap like "I know a man who's ugly and HE has a hot girl" or (the worst): "Men do it too". Yes, men who are extremely good looking leave average looking women who traded way up on Tinder too.
Red pill says: do things for yourself, save money, do your hobbies/dreams, workout for yourself, don’t base your life around women.
thats the way ive been living for the past few years. now ive got a 2nd date with a pretty lady this weekend. woohoo. this black pill crap is just excuses for weakness
@@Runny117 dude....for all we know, this chick has a giant pimple on her forehead 😂
“For yourself” lmao that reminds me of when women say they wear makeup for themselves
They have to do it for themselves because society and women hate and use them 😃
@@amongus-ci3pq yep, it's funny when they say they wear makeup to feel confident. Gee, I wonder where that confidence comes from.
Blackpill doesn't mean you're a nihilist. It does tell you to take action and improve in multiple areas of your life not only looks. How many hours per day will men really work on looks alone? However you have to be realistic. If you're a 4 you have to improve or settle for a 1.
False. Blackpill IS nihilistic. Blackpill does not just exist in dating, just so you know.
Blackpill also exists in politics, just like redpill and bluepill. In politics, blackpill means you decide that none of the candidates fit well enough with your beliefs, so you do not vote for anyone.
That last part is the most important part of it. If someone does not believe that, let's say both Trump and Biden fit well with his ideology, but that guy still chooses to vote Trump because Trump fits his beliefs better, that guy isn't blackpilled, he's still redpilled.
You have the wrong idea of what blackpill actually means. There is a reason why all aspects of blackpill radiate an energy of hopelessness, meaning that they are things that you cannot change, and if you don't get them, you're fucked, like skull structure, eyes, height, p length (BTW, girth is more important, just saying).
It doesnt matter who your guyfriends are and who you have once dated. Who you are with matters. Your very own dating preferences prove Wheat Waffles points. Actions speek louder than words.
As a blackpiller my life became better after I found the blackpill !!
It show the truth !!
I do not have any illusion or a dream of getting married and/or having a family.
That being said i know for sure that i will live a great life doing what i like.
Finally a blackpiller I can relate to. Esc0rts solve the $ex part.
@Jean Villaine Yes
Of course it becomes better. U see it from what it is and you accept and adapt. Why bash yourself if it never began?
I don't even know u but i am happy for you. Feels very relatable
This woman's dishonesty is aggravating. What was even the point of making this video?
Either cynical dishonestly or she actually believes blue pill. Both are possible.
Life don't lie...if your unattractive you won't ever be in an healthy relationship with someone you find attractive
Black pill movement is growing.
wagwan-bro,we-here!
Absolutely. It will always prevail
It really just shows how detached from reality when it comes to dating most women are lol.
Do you GENUINELY believe that guys just wake up one day and decide "I ain't shit."? NO.
It comes from YEARS of negative reinforcement from COUNTLESS people TELLING you "You ain't shit." Eventually, YOU WILL BELIEVE IT BECAUSE THAT'S ALL YOU'VE BEEN TOLD.
I met a guy who became like that after 3 girlfriends . it's not countless people. Maybe it's their own parents at this point .
Not true, i never had negative reinforcement and I still had low confidence. Not anymore though
I've sometimes felt like I've been an involuntary incell. I'm decent looking and secretly have a fair amount of money. I go on one date and I'm done. After 13 years of searching for a girlfriend I got one and then it became a disaster after five years of marriage and a brutal divorce.
I hope to meet women again but I can't trust them. I've had to learn to accept I'll never have a girlfriend let alone a marriage again. Maybe a career in the priesthood will happen.
Incel means involuntarily celibate. So you wouldn't be just an "involuntary incel" you'd just be an incel.
However, there's a whole lot more to that word than just being involuntarily celibate. One could be involuntarily celibate just through bad luck, and/or not having any good options or chances. But the people who are more commonly referred to as incels, are resentful, hateful, rude, mean, creepy, or just all around negative people. Incels, and their communities, are extremely hateful, resentful, or even violent toward women. Look for an incel forum online and what you see there will disgust you. If it does, and you strongly disagree with it, then you're not necessarily an "incel" even though you may be involuntarily celibate.
Attractive or not, they just have such a bad and toxic personality that women, or anyone for that matter, just don't want anything to do with them. Some could say that it's the fault of women because they are supposedly shallow, self-centered, promiscuous... etc... And that it's because of these reasons among other things, that made these men so negative and resentful in the first place. But that's not true. They were assholes to begin with. They're very weak-minded individuals who's characters and personalities worsen whenever they do not get their way.
As long as you have a strong character, do not become hateful, or resentful to such an extreme degree, no matter what kind of misfortune or difficulty you have go through, and as long as you can be okay with just being alone and try to be a better person than you were yesterday--then while you may be involuntarily celibate, you are not an "incel", and you are still a valuable human being.
With that said. I wish you the best of luck man! It might seem like there are a lot of shitty women out there, but keep in mind that's just what we see on social media and dating apps so that's what ends up being right in your face. There are plenty of great women out there, but like you they may be scared to get back out there, scared to get hurt again, and they're probably not the ones to be too active on social media or anything like that. It's harder to find them, but they are out there. Just keep doing what's best for you and hold on to that hope and do your best to not let this stuff get you down.
Chad's bad pERsonality nevER evER stopped him from slaying foids and 304's
I have a similar story. I was married in my early 20s, I was good-looking, still had my hair, etc. Now in my late 20s, I am ugly. I feel lucky because I got to date when I was younger. However, my genetics caught up to me, and now I am ugly. I have experienced what it's like to be a "Chad", now I'm on the other end.
" *Looks are not everything* " - Right there it just starts!
The irony is if she was fat and ugly she would have no views 😂 That in itself is a blackpill
Looks are all that matter to women. Don't listen to what they say, just look at what they do.
RT
And money - make no mistake this chick Cortney's fiancé as she calls him is a 6 figure dude, she forgot to mention that part. And we all know females don't make money like that.
@@dumkaisachakal6341 Are you insinuating Courtney is a gold digger?
How did you be come aware that the fiance is wealthy?
@@adama3350 just ignore these black pillers. With this mindset they won't succeed in dating
@@adama3350 He's Teddy Baldassare - the watch guy
Urghh this is so a good looking woman’s perspective 🙄 No clue, seriously! Women don’t like it when their “truths” are exposed. And Courtney is in denial about these points. I’d have more respect of women and her if they just owned their fickle nature instead of trying to hold credibility to the sisterhood of women and throwing it all back on men. Oh it’s your attitude blah, blah. “Oh I dated a 5”5 guy once ,so therefore.” 🙄
Our truths don’t sit well with her, like all women. Because it holds them to account to their fickle nature, and allows them to treat men like a game. Well, until they’re treated like one.
And we are giving up because of our experiences. I’m 51, I’ve done the whole gym thing when I was younger. At my age now it makes no difference. Single 51 never married. If I’m not good enough over a 30 year period. Then to the streets with them all. I’m not picking up any woman’s tab now.
Based
Her own fiancé is a good looking dude who is 5'11! And she met him on a dating app as well!
As a single, never married 38yo, how have you coped until 51? Because I can't take it anymore. Everyday I get angrier. There's no catharsis. All the women who rejected me fucked other men and now bare their children. They never got their comeuppance. Some are multi millionaires. I'm looking forward to non existence and the fact every happy person is going to end up in non existence too is my only solace.
@@addorsubtract650 Yep and loaded by all accounts. Of course this is all just merely coincidence right?? 🙄
@@lockyp204 LOL. Women(especially younger attractive ones) will right off the bat disqualify more than 80%-90% of men based on height, looks and financial means straight away. This is now more truer than ever in 2022. She would not have even given her own fiance a chance had he not met her pre-requisites in the first place!
I'm sorry Courtney, but I can't take you serious on this subject. You will NEVER, understand the plight of a average to below average man. You also forgot to mention the ethnic tax men pay in dating.
She knows the truth, but the comforting nonsense is profitable.
Exactly. She's virtue signaling
Foid will be foid. How many Aryan Chads with long ramuses has she breeded with? Any Indians
Go on Walmart see the actual people. They are not all super models , but still have wives and kids .
@@LoXenathose are betabuxxers. Now keep coping
She wouldn't date anyone that's below an 11/10 in looks, and would still leave him for a 12/10
Bluepilled Becky reacts to realism 💀
Corny
In my experience: looks are 99.9% the most important issue. Im a 6 figure earner, 6ft, retired pro athlete but im ugly as sin. I can say hello to a lady thru a dating site and get blocked right away and in real life i get avoided. I work in healthcare (head of dept) work as an entertainer (i wear a mask), work in stand up comedy but I can say hello and get people to look at me like a devil was standing in front of them.
People don't want to hear the truth even when they know it is true, that's why Courtney didn't want to watch Wheat waffles in the first place.
There is a basic looks test. If you fail it, doesn't really matter if you go online or into the real world. Looks is the first barrier to entry in the dating market, the first line of defense to sort out the haves from the have nots. So falling below that looks ceiling has a cost and not acknowledging the experience of those people (men and women, those less so for women) is disingenuous.
However, once you surpass the looks ceiling, you will find that average men struggle on dating apps, but have much better odds in real life where there is more than a picture and bio to go on.
And if you surpass the second barrier (going into very attractive territory), halo effect kicks in and you will do well both online and offline.
In short, an overwhelming majority of people are just average and a majority of the people who have successfully mated and passed on genes are average (and the population distribution reflects that - assortative mating) BUT, to enjoy the benefits of assortative mating, if there are any to be enjoyed in 2022, an average man must get off the dating apps and go outside.
Except the average woman believes she’s a kardashian and so will either pass on average guys or play games with them. Stop disregarding the obvious issues with females and current society by offering bs blue pill advice that will waste guys time and hurt them more in the long term(divorce, suicide etc).
Looks matter..... there is no "Argument" to be had...... they matter........
And as long as we have eye balls.....they're going to matter 😂😂
@@Macheako yes sir
@@pewtercamaro well for starters I advise against signing the contract. With 50% odds you’d have to be quite the risk taker to take that bet.
As for the other point, I also advise steering clear of women who gorge themselves on social media all the time. Leads to the kardashian mindset you speak of.
As I said, if you’re a normie, get offline and go outside
@@KaiserBP indeed
Courtney has said a lot of points that people like to hear (cope), but unfortunately it is untrue because the reality of dating market is long way ahead from "just be confident" speech.
She's lucky the dislikes don't show
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Women in general and Courtney dont seem to understand how a lot of guys are ignored no matter what we do. Like i've given up, I'm 31 and its just impossible because im only 5'3 and ugly and not white and there are no options. Im tired of being told to do all these things to improve when nothing has ever made any difference. Why the hell should you keep trying when results never change
Yeah you'll never meet a shifting goal post.
Absolutely true
I always got rejected I just focus on me now
I feel Courtney only stops to talk when she disagrees with certain points. The majority of the time she stays silent which is telling because I think she can't argue with most of it.
I would have liked her to go through each point saying agree or disagree. It might be tedious but I think you would find more that she has to agree with than disagree.
I think she also forgets that she is not "most" women. So for example when the height thing was being brought up and she says "well I went out with a guy who was 5'5" that does not mean that the majority of women are like this. Also she has ended up with a guy who is 5'11 which of course is an above average height.... just saying. Teddy also has a full head of hair, good bone structure and has money due to his success in his chosen career.
Would she be with a guy 5'4 who is bald and tried as hard as he can to be successful and earn well but never been able to make it, because not everyone can be successful otherwise no one would be right?! I doubt it. Black pill does matter to some degree, and must be acknowledged. You can't wash over it.
The difference is saying that genetics give you an advantage vs genetics are the be all end all.
If you received crummy hand in the genetics but you knock every other aspect out of the park you still will have a huge pool of potential partners. The percentage of guys who managed both will obviously do better but that doesn't mean give up entirely. Comparison is the their of joy.
Id love for Courtney to talk about the femaledatingstrategy and the infamous pink pill as she did with the black pill/incels in this video. Hopefully this will be her next one...."Down the Rabbit Hole but on the flipside, chapter 2. "
I have no idea what you are talking about in this opening paragraph, but I did want to say that I do know something that is interesting, which is the difference between estrogen and testosterone regarding differences between men and women: women start their talking points with "I feel" and men start theirs with "I know" or "I think" and you started this off with "I feel" so I couldn't continue reading and take you seriously because you are likely estrogenic and your emotions are out of whack and that is not a good thing as a man, especially if you want to attract good quality women... you definitely have to get that issue resolved within yourself because the more you lose testosterone and start behaving like a woman, the more women will reject you without even you having to talk to them because they will just feel it if not smell it and definitely visibly notice it
@@drip369 Very interesting that you can make a hormone level assessment all from how I started one sentence in a comments section on youtube 😅
Maybe it is time to up my TREN dose 🤔
Ha honestly bud think what you will, maybe one day I can be as alpha as you are and be rolling in a harem of bitches and start my sentences with 'I think or I know' 🤣
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@@simonstone7099 statistically speaking starting a phrase with the words “very interesting…” means that you are feminine
22:23 "I've dated a guy that was 5'5" ft" ??? So what went wrong? Oh sorry, I got someone taller... Bye!
bingo
Things women look for in a man before they date him:
1) Six pack abs.
2) 6-figure salary.
3) No physical flaws
As long as you are perfect, your good to go. 😂😂
Idk man, I'm skinny fat, with yellow teeth, and I did bang a gamer girl PAWG at one point.
I'd say the 6-6-6- Rule is really:
1) 6 feet or taller (if your height starts with a 5 or under 183 cm, it's an instant rejection)
2) 6 figures or more
3) 6 pack abs
The other one used to be "6 inch dick or more" but six inches is considered small AF nowadays; women want at least 7 inches in bed now. (but no more than 8.5.)
“I was born and my life was over” - Saint Hamudi
may-he-rest-in-peace
Praise blackops2cel
This is a bunch of feel-good BS. Lol, this girl won't acknowledge the brutal reality for most men.
she-literally-cant,even-if-she-wanted-to(which-she-ofc-doesnt-lol).foids-can-never-relate-to-men,especially-ugly-ones!
While exposing hER juggs typical 304
It's impossible to walk in those shoes.
She won't because her income is dependent upon giving false hope
@@oaklandsoldier8520 the blackpill content producers do rely on false hope when it comes to their incomes. Do you really think they want more men to be their competition? Or more money and views? That's the brutal reality.
Black IS EVERYTHING, Courtney because before ANYTHING else happens, you will be judged on your height and attractiveness as a male. It is the first test to pass before anything else happens...
She argues women care more about money than looks but then says this is fake love…wtf?
Also, You can tell how much she hates this video lol
all of my good looking friends are dating equally good looking people. All of my average looking friends are either alone or dating average looking people. That's how it works.
No it doesnt sorry...
Good looking guys date average girls. Average looking guys do not date anyone or occasionally bellow average girls. Bellow average guys never date anyone.
Good looking girls are riding the cock carousel and do not date. Average looking girls get Chads commited and date them. Bellow average looking girls get average guys commited and date them.
“Don’t make excuses, just improve”
Sounds good - but the problem with that is people you meet for the first time didn’t see how much you improved; they only see you now.
So if you improved from a 3 to a 6, you’re still only a 6 - which is average. Average looks are rarely going to get your “foot in the door” as a man. Simply the truth.
depends on where you try. If you do cold approach as a 6, you could have pretty good results. I actually think Alex from PWF is a 6 (mostly bc of his crooked nose) and this guy has massive success with cold approaches. Meanwhile on dating apps, being a 6 will probably not get you much. But on dating apps, you can use all the tricks in the photography department to make yourself look like an 8 even, and then you'll get lots of matches. The thing about online dating is that the bar is INCREDIBLY low. Most guys post shitty quality selfies or some awkward pics cuddling their pet. It is really not that hard to get some good photos going even if youre average.
Agreed.
I hate assigning pill colors to people who have just opened their eyes to reality.
I applaud the ones who are making an effort to improve but I hope they are doing it for themselves and not to find a girlfriend or wife.
Men are waking up to the fact that we live in a gyno-centric society and just opting out altogether and women hate it because their back up options are drying up while they are having their hearts and backsides broken by Chad and Tyrone.
Just stay healthy. Get your money, get your hobbies and sit back and watch the current pool of women on the decline.
See, you're improving to be noticed. Did you do it for you? Then why are you complaining?
Says the women with a good looking man. So looks don't matter huh.
@@gatoloco3949 yeah it doesn't
I listened to this twice. And it sounds like she agrees with the black pill. Especially when she said, "sure looks are important, they will get you to a certain point." So.. if you don't have the looks, you're not getting to that certain point. Which is the exact point of these black pill guys. I'm not one I've had plenty of success with wemon, because I'm 6 ft 1 inch tall and still built like a championship athlete and have 3 kids from 2 ex wives. But I see the black pill point. And it sounds like, she does to.
Because blackpill isn't some radical women hating ideology, it is just the sad reality of human sexual dynamic.
BlackPill makes people hopeless. It’s awful. Their some truths to it. But not all black pill information correct. Most of it is boleshit.
Yep, and we don’t want ex wives. Women are flakey. Relationships more often than not end in divorce. So why bother 🤷♂️
_"'sure looks are important, they will get you to a certain point.' So.. if you don't have the looks, you're not getting to that certain point..."_
No. "If A then B" does not mean "if not A then not B."
Yeah but she also right about excuses made in video cus isn't Bruno Mars in no zone for height and still got a girl
No way you used 5'11 as "proof" that height isnt important. Thats still tall!
If he was 5'5 you wouldnt have even looked twice.
I dated a guy who was 5’5 for almost 4 years. His height did not bother me at all and we broke up because he cheated on me LOL anything else? 😇
@@CourtneyRyan you probably dated him in high school and haven’t dated a short man since. That’s the thing with all these women that used to date short men it’s always back when they were teenagers in middle school and high school before you knew better as to how high women can set their standards.
I think you uploaded this video thinking that the reception and comment section would go more in your favor and are probably quite shocked as to how fed up and resistant to the gas lighting and lies men have become.
The blackpill isn’t an ideology or something that was just created overnight it’s the cumulative experience of a growing number of men that have been thrown away by a society that cares absolutely nothing for them and have had their dreams shattered by ever inflating hypergamy and ridiculous standards and it’s only going to get worse
She's a fraud
@@CourtneyRyanhe was a beta bux
This woman has never struggled with dating since she's been an adult. She has ZERO clue what dating is like for men, but it's funny they think they do. "I dated a guy that was 5'5""...a date or two as a one off, isn't want we're talking about. You are dating a man that is basically 6 feet in shoes. You aren't marrying the 5'5" guy. Your responses are massive COPE.
Remember: never taking dating advice from a woman.
Facts 💯
Nothing but fax
But take dating advice from alpha scammer.
You really have to watch Wheat Waffles because what you think it is, ain't it. Its not guys down on themselves-or giving up. Its explaining how the system is flawed. A guy who is a 7/10 cannot get a girl who is a 7/10 because she thinks she deserves a 10..so then the guy has to settle for a 5/10 or below and then he's not happy with that option. Wheat just tells men how to deal with this unfair reality in modern dating.
I love how the black pill community invaded in this comment section
Stop the cap lady 🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢
if courtney understood about math and statistics she would undestand the video. At no point it's said 0% or 100%. So you can refute a statement by only saying "that's not true, I know a guy...", if this guy represents 5% of similar guys who did it.
" I dated a 5,5" guy.."
Was it in your "ugly fase" when you were 12 years old? If yes, then that's why you dated him. You weren't that beauty and had no other option. If you were single, this guy would have a chance with you today?
Won't be answered most likely
@@gardengrower7633 I know 😂
She’s selling hope to the people she would never date😂😂😂
BP is right and women have no arguments to dispute the facts.
And it's not about any ideology, it's about the facts, many men, including myself, know from practice that BP always told the truth.
They have been collecting data for years and analyzing it, there may be small deviations, but the point is clear!
Women are more superficial and look for someone better than themselves!
And one more thing, the young lady in the video said that studies have shown that "men care more about looks",
but this may be because men answered the questions more honestly in those studies.
Some very relevant research has actually shown that women in practice pay much more attention to appearance than they admit.
You're just talking about facts but what are these facts and do you have any studies to prove them correct? What data are you talking about? Give even one BP argument that has science behing it.
@@eveliinahannele Science has proven that appearance is more important to women, and this can be found in books on evolutionary biology and psychology.
After all, most women are intimate with a minority of men in their lifetime.
I know you women don't care about this, but many single men with no experience with women know how the "love market" works.
You are not in our shoes, so you don't know..
@@sebastianruiz4941 Do you have sources to prove that appearance is more important to women? This 100% can't be found from books on evolutionary biology and psychology. If something can be found it's the total opposite, appearance is more important to men than women.
How can you know how the "love market" works without any experience? Dating is something you learn directly through experience and trying, that is true for all of us, single men are not special
@@eveliinahannele The evidence is available to anyone who wants to see it.
After all, what is your evidence that looks are more important to men?
Does one example lead to the conclusion that all guys are the same?
Of course we didn't..
Women are more visual, and there are so many examples around us.
By the way, I am 29 years old and I have never been with a girl, and I would rate my appearance as a 6-7.
Do you think I can find a girl in that range? No way, only possible if I lower my standards a lot or start seeing a woman in her 40s.
But I'm not interested in that.
@@sebastianruiz4941 "The evidence is available to anyone who wants to see it" No, that is not how burden of proof works, you made a statement, It's your job to provide the evidence.
My proof are the countless studies like mentioned in this video and yes, the conclusion can be made since studies are based on generalizations and not individual preferences. I'll write couple of studies to another comment.
Again, studies consistently show that men are more visual than women, that is why they care about appearance in the first place. I'll write sources to another comment.
It's also been also shown men rate themselves more attractive than they actually are. Maybe you are 6-7, maybe you're not and since there aren't absolute standards what 6-7 looks like I have no idea what a woman in that range looks like. That is just your subjective opinion. But based on your comment I am 100% your problem is not your looks, maybe it's time to look deeper than the mirror.
Aren't you being a hypocrite right now complaining women at your range don't want to date you, but then you aren't ready to lower your own standards and claim women in their 40's and under your range are below you?
May be this is the great oportunity for the 5.2 bald indian janitor
I went down the red pill rabbit hole a few years ago. While there are many truths to be gleaned, it’s important take away a few nuggets for yourself and move on. It’s a slippery slope. Today, it’s extremely important to be mindful of the media/content we choose to consume.
Agree, there is a lot of truth to it. But its not good to dwell on it. Take the information and move forward how you wish. Guys who consume it daily are angry, and just need reinforcement to be angry. Its not a good place.
I think you summed it up perfectly, dude--take the info you need and move on. Totally agree!👌
@ Delaware History I agree 100%
This comment is helpful in regards to my current conundrum.
your attractiveness does not matter if you are a female
Ure wrong, women are valued more for their looks compared to men.
"Looks aren't everything"
And yet you're practically shirtless in this video. Whatever it takes to get more eyes and likes I guess
For real. You could think she just woke up and didn't wear anything else over her underwear.
I have appreciation for courtney's content, yet this is way off. She'd have to be an average man to get a grasp on it. Looks determine even how much she is going to respect you under different circumstances. For a man also more than a woman, looks determine how people around will treat you even if you have good quality traits.
I have posted on her channel a million times go online dating as an average guy. She has no idea how tough it is until she does that. And I guarantee that she won’t. Not even if she reads this.
@@vitamindealer7915 She doesn't give a fuck. Women just don't give a fuck about man's problems.
304's will nevER undERstand our plight
I became a multimillioniare and how I rate on the looks scale has literally 0 to do with it... I do disagree on you having to be sexually attractive to be successful in life. As far as having a genuine naturally loving long lasting relationship with a woman.... Looks matter 10 times more than anything else
@@michaelangst6078 Congrats on your success, we are not trying to take shelter in victimhood or to turn normies and sub5s into misogynists , that is not the aim of the blackpill ideology, although there is collateral damage in that sense that has to be worked on.
Nontheless, its main purpose is to acknowledge the objective relevance of looks for a guy not just in the current dating marketplace but in long and short lasting relationships now more than ever.
The facts provided are always backed up by science and up-to-date data of female's preferences for their ideal patner and regardless of what people say as to appear more moral in the eyes of the public or as coping, looks occupy a grand per centage of it and are primary in terms of dating and mantaining a relationship or marriage.
Reason why i think courtney's red pilled advices on dating inclusively apply only to people who are a little above average excluding chads and sub 5 (i.e normies ). She fails to notice that for reasons i won't get deeper into because it would drift from the topic.
On your point, regarding business and how much a person is able to grow given their faculties and determination. I can't provide any arguments because i have no experience what so ever