Imagine asking a grown man to go to prom with you, he politely turns down ur advances, and because u feel embarrassed about getting curved u start making false allegations and depicting him as a predator and in the process potentially ruin his life. What type of human being does that?
@Josip i think you missed my point. Key word being 'anyone'- not just men. 'Innocent' is odviously the only universal word in this whole thing because of litrally what you just stated. And it wont- and what i meant is relationship wise. Otherwise we would have to actually make them an area dedicated to sly bastards. R/woosh
@Josip yeah and? Maybe i enjoy being a little bit childish- especially due to my age, but i can talk maturely when needed, and frankly; i dont give one and will woosh when acceptable. And it was acceptable because you completely missed the point- thats the definition of what the r/woosh thing is. But hey, its whatever now. Ya realised ya was wrong and took everything completely the other way so it doesnt matter.
@Josip i dont even have reddit- just watch r/slash. And i know that, my issue is that you told me to stop being childish- and ik you dont know fuck all about me but i dont take shit like that lightly. I dont need someone telling me that shit when it's taken me years to even accept that I'm just a fucking kid and i dont need to be an adult 24/7. But this isnt the topic of discussion, i accepted that you were wrong, and had means to bring this natter to and end. You chose to process it. But hey- here's a participation award, cuz this 'debating' aint gonna win anything. I repeat- i accept ya wrong, my issue was with ya calling out being childish like it's something extremely negative and unsightly. No need to pop off again
@Trololol Trololol Dumbfuck what was the point of this comment. Aba said, what "friend" means for him is where he can share himself without having to change how he behaves. And that's literally what he does with Preach because of how much time they spend on tours and what they went through etc. It doesn't make sense to say he isn't friends with him, because they are but they are both not comfortable saying it.
I 100% believe that anyone who falsely accuses someone of a crime should go to jail. Not only can you possibly ruin the life of the person you accuse and their loved ones, you also make it so much harder for people who were genuinely attacked/raped/etc to get justice. It's a despicable thing to do.
True! I don't agree to jail stuff becauase we the working class, we should support another person with food, shelter, medicine in jail. I'd rather replace jail with hard works
@@shobhitgupta2738 Dumb is you, because you understood nothing but shout nonsenses. My comment was: all who deserve, should be in jail, but be put to hard works to build the highways and railroads etc. to support the economy of the country, to earn their cost of expenses they comsume in jail. Instead of, we the working people keep them in jail with warm beds, free food, free medical help, tv etc.
When I was in Highschool I rejected a girl who tried to kiss me. The next day she spread a false rumor at school that I forced myself on her and she slapped me for it. I confronted her and voice recorded her admitting it was a lie and then played it in the lunch room where 30 other students heard the truth. Payback was sweet.
I know a few girls in my highschool who have lied about being raped, having cancer, being sexually assulted and its disgustingthat they get away with it. People usually just go "Well thats fucked up" Then get over it. Like tf?!
I was falsely accused of sexual assault in 2015 in the military. The person who accused me was engaged somthing I didn't know at the time. I was dragged into the OSI office, basically the fbi of the military stripped naked had all my tattoos and mug shots taken questioned for hours, had my phone confiscated. They interviewed all my neighbors and everyone that was at the party the night in question. No evidence was ever uncovered of wrongdoing and yet she got to change base to wherever she wanted, she picked Vegas who new. I had my military dreams ended and was discharged, over nothing. I was facing 35 years with zero evidence and when there was none I was still punished.
@@lersuscummings1904 I became a raging alcoholic and eventually lived in my van for a year and then went to rehab. And now im in recovery and have a wonderful girlfriend and my own apartment. Its been 6 years since that happened, and only have gotten better this year. It does get better tho. Mentally I have severe anxiety and ptsd for events that took place during the ordeal which I rather not go into.
@@vanliferr4079 stay strong bro I just cant fathom the extremes ppl would go to ruin someone else. Its absolutely disgusting and the fact that she just moves on like nothing happened. I'm a positive person but ppl like that I wish the absolute worse on them, I really do. Nothing worse than a liar, but a liar that is caught and treated as if nothing happened is worse. Atleast you are doing much better, wishing the very best for you, and be safe during these terrible times!!
@@lersuscummings1904 thanks for the words I appreciate it. Everything happens for a reason and I never used to think this until I started getting my life back together. The VA has recognized my situation and I'm in the process of getting things straightened out and im in a good place now. My conscious is clear and thats all I can really ask for.
The celebrity turns into the circles that you have to exist in. It's a safety net, the problems become potentially so much worse when you're leaving that zone
Teo_II I’m Ethiopian as well My name is Abbaagommool and my nick name is Abbaa. And when they say Aba in the video I look around like who’s calling me lol
One time i was getting physically intimate with a girl during my senior year of highschool, and she wanted to take it to another level, i declined because i wasnt ready yet so they threatened to cut themselves and took out their razor to do so. After i took that away they went and got their lighter to burn themselves. After i took that away they threatened suicide. Me not understanding this i decided to just do it with them so they wouldn’t hurt or kill themselves. The next day i find out that she told all her friends that i raped her. I tried explaining the situation but no one believed me because i was a man and men rape and women are always victims. Thank god none of them went to the authorities about this. It wasnt until my second semester at college where i told my close friend about it and she said i was the one who was raped. That not only was i raped, but then i was falsely accused of raping someone. Im literally so lucky that girl made sure no one else old the authorities because my life and future would have been finished at the worst moment of my life
Know this is a month old. But dude, there was an ex-gf who did a similar thing. Demanded I have sex with her, took my keys so I couldn't leave my apartment and would not leave. She was verbally abusive. I just stood there and told her I can out wait anyone. She had no idea I was use to standing in one positions for hours. I didn't talk, nothing. Just stood there. She gave up and left after 3 hours.
I am so sorry this happened to you. I to know a male who was raped however not accused of rape. He had no idea he was until I told him. Your no is just as important as when a woman says it. Hope you're still doing well.
I studied to become a teacher, the male students were explicitly warned for this. During the internship phase one of us actually got in a situation that was scary and could easily become problematic. One of his female students, about 15 years of age, seemed to have a crush on him and kept trying to stall after class, to the point they were the only ones in the class room every time. The advise was to tell a colleague as early as possible and to cover yourself with the presence of that colleague as much as possible and to try to use centrally located, window rich classrooms and always to keep the door open. There is not much else you can do. I know my wife also does this in a different setting. She is an MD and whenever she gets the idea patients could start legal trouble, she always takes one of the nurses with her as a witness, in order to not get in trouble. This is way more common than the possible sexual harassment she also protects herself from in the same manner. Sad thing is a lot can and does actually happen alone with somebody else in a closed room.
I had a student who told me she loved me every single class. I knew she meant no harm but it always made me uncomfortable, you really never know what could happen. What if she mentioned it to her parents and they thought I solicited it.
I went to an all girls school and I can confirm many of us had major crushes on some of the few male teachers. Girls would often flirt with them and try to see them outside of class.
But also, two male teachers whilst I was there got fired for abusing some of the girls. I saw and heard with my own eyes one of these men and what he was doing to himself and saying was disgusting.
Reminds me of the time a woman I never met before in my life accused me of drugging and raping her all because my little brother wouldn't cheat on his girlfriend with her. The only reason why my life wasn't ruined was because when she accused me I was over 200 miles away at a concert for roughly a week amd had hours of footage showing proving I was there. So after months of her parents and lawyer calling me a monster and threatening to have me locked away for the rest of my life my lawyer got the footage before a judge (despite their lawyer fighting tooth and nail to get it excluded). The judge watched only 5 minutes then looked at them with the most disgusted look on her face and told them to take whatever deal we were offering because if they took this to court she'd make sure the girl wouldn't see the light of day for 20 yrs at least. After they signed our deal not 2 weeks later her parents pulled her from college and they all moved out of state.
I was on deployment on my ship in the middle east. Everything going precisely as intended, ship was handling business. I get called to the office where I am told to report to the Legal Office on board. I go there and find out a woman who is seven months pregnant (I had been on deployment for more than 8 months) in a state I've literally never been to has claimed that I am the father of her child. I very nearly ended up being labeled "dad by default" anyway. Thankfully the court system isn't so broken as to think my dick is long enough to reach halfway across the planet.
@Superscalar Processor judge was probably just done with the bullshit after several months of time wasted on this case which she had probably put off real trials for.
If you’re a above average male, a woman who’s not use to hearing *NO* will definitely do this. This is the male version of sexually harassment and men are not allowed to talk about.
Statistically, on the spectrum of abuse and harassments, women are significantly more likely to be on the side where character assassination is actively used. Counting in variables, such as social and economic status of both men and women, it turns out that men on the higher level are more likely to deal with these kinds of issues. But since the abuse is non-physical and we live in a culture that puts much more emphasis on material evidence, like physical abuse marks and stains, other forms of abuse are not prioritized!
My false allegation story: So I had a girlfriend in college, one night I invited her to have sex in my car, and she said yes, then I told some of my friends who were female (big mistake I've learned from, don't tell your guy stories with women) that we had sex. I started seeing many people on campus looking at me weird, ignoring me, the female friends I mentioned before were also ghosting me. Then a girl I knew told me that my friends were all doing that because they heard that I raped my gf. I asked my gf at the time if she knew about it and she never heard anything about it. I didn't think she made those allegations because previously she was called in the office because other people reported that she looked uncomfortable around me. My gf came up and told me about it saying it was weird and that she denied it and felt safe with me. So she was very honest with me even when I didn't know something that she did. So, it wasn't even my ex who spread the rumors that I raped her, it was the female friends... Eventually I had to leave the college as everyone looked at me like I was evil, making friends was super difficult etc. Even when you have a stable, good relationship with a girl, other women will try to spread allegations that you're a rapist...
Wow that's a new low. Not even their own claim, these pieces of garbage made false claims on behalf of another woman. That's just despicable. Sorry you went through that.
A similar situation happened to my cousin and her bf. The only difference in that my cousin and her friend girls made an example out of the lying bitches that spread rumors about her bf and them apologize to him.
@Masi Neale That was an episode of Black Mirror actually. Except the cameras were implanted in people's eyes. So everything you saw and heard was recorded, you could pull up those recordings and show them to people whenever you wanted, and near-limitless digital storage allowed you to record for years (if i remember that episode correctly)
@Kermit Froggers yeah, I think that was the episode where the guy made his wife show him her memories of cheating on him, and he forced the guy she cheated with to delete his recorded memories of her. That was a tripped episode for sure.
Female here and I struggle with keeping female friendships due to behaviour discussed in this very video. Examples: - "Hey, Ang. If my boyfriend calls/text tell him I slept over your place." I'm not going to lie for you just because your cheating on your boyfriend. - One friend - her boyfriend wanted to take a break from the relationship. She rings me telling me that she is going to tell him that she is pregnant when she isn't pregnant. - Get a phone call from someone who works at a bar/restaurant that my family owns. "Your friend was here last night. Invited a group of men to sit with her and two other girls. She took one of the guys credit card and said he had to pay for the meals/drinks." There's more, including situations were men wanted to get involved with me sexually and a female friend set it up with me being unaware and found myself in a situation to were I said no. Declined advancements and that no was dismissed.
Yes,I had very few female friends due to this before I got married.Now I have married couple friends and it’s so much more peaceful. It is up to us ladies to call out this bullshit though.
It’s the reason why some men want to stay single than having to keep up with those women bs. Get yourself real friends lady, your examples are why you shouldn’t have those people around.
That's probably what made that crazy bitch snap. I hope she saw this video and felt like absolute shit... but even that doesn't undo the damage she did
Similar thing happend to me with a girl who stated I had raped her back when I was 17.. police where on the TV and newspapers calling for me to come forward. I was overseas when it happend and my Aunt rang my family telling us the situation eventually the police found out I was overseas and the girl came forward claiming that she only lied because I had rejected her advances at a party. Till this day I still don't know who it was and from that day forward I have anxiety problems with women and how I am perceived on approach which makes me super self conscious from that girl.
@@justadummy8076 Organizations, whether private or public, don't make public apologies unless not doing so negatively impacts them in some way. If their JOBS are at risk, you bet your ass there will be apologies. Otherwise, HAHA FUCK OFF.
The saying isn’t ‘believe all women’, ‘It’s believe women’, as in believe women that these things happen.its literally like this story ‘believe men’ however don’t ‘believe all men’ because a lot of the guys in these comments could be lying but it doesn’t mean all of them are.
When you say you don't want to believe all women because some are liars, they always throw that stupid "only 2-8% of accusations are false". First of all, that's a huge variation. Second of all, an average of 5% is still potentially hundreds of innocent men having their lives ruined, while the accuser gets off pretty much scot free. They can take their shitty excuses and lick my ass.
Fake accusations in the work place are the norm anymore. I had a coworker who had a female coworker ask him if he wanted to see her nudes with a text. He messaged her back that he did. She then deleted her message asking him to make it look like he was just asking for her nudes. He almost lost his career but when he showed hr her messages they didn't even consider punishing her for it. The double standards are complete garbage and the women that do this make it hard to believe the women that actually go through sexual harassment.
If I was him, I would have taken legal advice. If they took no disciplinary action on her, then he could have grounds to sue the company. The only thing corporations understand is $$$.
@Rectum Abdominus see how u deny women doing evil stuff like false allegations? Nws most of us men dont believe secual assault victems anyways nowadays thanks to ppl like u
Personal comment: When I was 18 I was accused of sexual assault. The reason: my accuser was pregnant with my child and came from a Roman Catholic household so to spare the 'shame' of having a child out of wedlock she got an abortion and took me to court. Changed my approach to women. I'm more selective and I'm happy in my 5 year relationship with a genuinrly wonderful woman.
Cyanna Miranda why would they not believe it? I bet if your friend told you shit like this you’d believe them too, not because you’re dumb or anything but simply you know your friend and not aba. The girl is at fault, not the people who listen to her
I think almost every man goes through a false accusation by a woman. I used to think it was rare, but it's dead common. It really starts at the drama in grade and high school where girls learn to manipulate each other, men are just sheep among wolves in that respect. Not saying men are all saints just saying for that "person" that decides who I am for me.
When I was in the first year of university, I was in halls with a girl who wouldn't leave me alone. Constantly throw insults at me, shove me, try and kiss me all of that. I tried to respectfully deflect it as much as possible, but one time I was in this group going to this nightclub and the abuse continued to the point where she would repeatedly try and shove me, get in my personal space, groap me, all of which I didn't want. I shoved her (lightly but purposefully) away because I couldn't take it any longer and she started to cry and complain to the people we were with. Bare in mind these people weren't my friends I just didn't know anyone at this point. The bouncer immediately man handled me and I was kicked out of the club at about 2/3 in the morning. I had to walk back to my accommodation alone in a part of town where young men often go missing. All because this woman wouldn't stop trying to touch me inappropriately. Guys most women are good people but there are some that are just pure emotional manipulators and/or in my case (physical abusers). I am very lucky I didn't catch a case here. Stay safe and have your wits about you.
I learned quickly what a teenage girl can do when a fellow teacher was hauled away in handcuffs because one of them lied to get revenge for a bad grade.
false allegations exist because there’s no consequences for it. Women, who defame men should be put in a 72 hour holding facility or worse. Once word gets around it’ll eventually be minimized.
@whozabcjc yeah but if you make the punishment too high it will make it less likely for false accusers to confess their crimes. Sometimes that's the only way a man can prove his innocence especially when the courts are starting to deem us guilty before innocent
They should get the minimum sentence the man they falsely accused would have received. I’m saying that as a woman. A) don’t scream about how you’re independent, want equality , blah blah blah then shed the crocodile tears when you’re wrong. B) I have sons so I see things through a different lens bc of them.
@@snapeinvader6208 Yeah it's fine, I also was attacked/hit and falsely accused by an old and fat woman once and I had done nothing wrong, when I was 17, I was crying
How could it been handled, Like what her goin to jail?. Prolly not, but thanks for the support 👏 When youre not accountable for your actions there’s a common trend where people always have an opinion That doesn’t matter or isn’t revelevant with 0% solution behind it. Yeah... as you hang of some dude...Very classy 😂 fuck outta here
I had a male friend, who worked at a school and he was always talking about how he had to be real careful, because these teenage girls would always flirt with him. If I were a man, I wouldn’t want to work anywhere near teenage girls!
I've had 3 false allegations, that I know of. One got me kicked out a hotel after a woman threatened to lie about me "beating her". I recorded everything on video from the moment she said that and tried to kick her out my hotel room. She screamed and started hitting herself. I eventually, 2 hours later, got her out, but my reputation was so ruined, business connections lost, and even though I had video, men at the front desk that had come from my rooms STILL blamed me and said I was at fault. They kicked me out 4 days later. In hindsight, I should have sued. But even that is only money. A woman's word is law in this day and age, even with overwhelming evidence. I don't believe any allegation. I need proof. Women's stories of their daily situations as well almost always blames the other people anyway, that's how they talk. Not taking responsibility. When I got red pilled from that, I can never go back. This doesn't include other situations of just randomly approaching women. It's like we can't do that anymore either. No reason, nor point to. If they "feel" something, that's enough.
I understand. I lost a close friend over nonsense like this. I was once told how my friend finally "went on a date" with a guy I knew (she ate at a restaurant at the same time the guy was eating there). He gave her a ride home and she invited him inside to have a few drinks. She says they slept together and started "seeing each other exclusively". She said it was one of the best nights of her life. He then informed her how he was intoxicated and wasn't trying to be in a relationship with her. She then got so mad that she started telling me he raped her that night. I kept reminding her how she told me it was the greatest night of her life but she said "that was before he broke my heart". That's when our friendship ended. I just couldn't believe she would try to ruin a good man's life because he didn't feel the same way as she did. I'm a single father on disability... It's not easy but it sure as hell isn't as hard as the dating game these days! My youngest son tries to hook me up with teachers at his school because, according to what he says, "crazy girls can't be teachers"😆 He sure has A Lot to learn about women as he grows up! (Could use any help from those that have a heart...) gf.me/u/ynqi9r
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Dalym you fucking idiot not everyone goes to the cops because they know they’ll be proven wrong, and even if they’re dumb enough to do so and do get proven wrong people will still believe them because women are perfect beings. Just ask yourself this if every women had the power to destroy a man’s life just by saying a few words you actually think only VERY few people would use it???
@@gnk-seriespowerdroid4405 it's basically impossible to investigate he said she said stories. At the most, both parties are either right or wrong. 3% is proven false claims, what if you cannot prove if it's true or not? Is that an automatic false claim or automatic true claim? 50% of claims are true or not so which party do you support and side with, the one making the claim or the one denying. So obvious that it's higher than 3% if you use logic and deductive reasoning. What if multiple friends accuse someone, also automatic truth right? Human beings are horrible with how we treat each other.
@@gnk-seriespowerdroid4405 I replied to you because you shouldn't waste time or energy on people like this. They ask for proof and will deny and bring counter proofs from illegitimate sites or studies. It's a fact that only 3% of claims are false.... lol.
@@lightkira4119 You kinda proved your own point but you don't know what it means. If you can't prove he said, she said stories, why is the assumption that it must be more than 3%? You do have to prove its more than 3% if that is your claim, regardless. A more correct stance is that we know 3% is false and we also know how many people are actually raped/assaulted, about 1/4 of women (not sure on exact stats, and not sure amount percentage of men and children). The rest are unknown.
And that my friends is why the saying “believe all women” is complete bs. Everyone lies about everything. You can listen, but wait for some type of evidence.
In middle school a girl accused me of staring at her cleavage during gym class. I stopped talking to her and interacting with her as much as possible and two weeks later she asked why I was avoiding her like really you going to ask me that. Get away from me.
The nerve of that girl. She was afraid of people finding out she got turned down by Aba and she didn't want to look like a loser, so she wanted to destroy Aba's reputation for the sake of her ego and image. Disgusting.
I almost lost my whole military career over a girl that played saying I tried to kill her. Saddest part. Is that I had concrete evidence that she lied and I still got in trouble. She definitely made fun of me and was very disrespectful to me. So my message to y’all is NEVER DELETE YOUR MESSAGES!!! KEEP YOUR RECEIPTS!!! I learned the hard way where I got rid of our messages cause I tried being done with her and that gave her all the power to spin whatever story she wanted. Please be safe who you mess with.
Cover the Conor McGregor situation, god that would be amazing. It’s this exact situation with the man having a terrible reputation of being a manipulator but he’s rich.
Outpatient therapy groups are PACKED with teenage girls. They are usually spoiled, entitled, white girls who've seemingly lived abuse free lives. They claim to have anxiety, depression, or PTSD because they can use it to get out of trouble. Even though PEW research claims that girls don't make false abuse accusations, a therapist once confided to me that she sees false allegations used as an "attention seeking device" ALL THE TIME. The false accusations that don't go anywhere just aren't recorded in any kind of data. You're really lucky this girl didn't claim you did more with her... maybe in 30 years, when you can't prove her false, she'll get on the news and claim something more happened.
This is why I tell guys not to sleep around and know who a girl is before doing anything with her. 1) she could be crazy 2) she could be lying about her age It's not just women who need to be careful men are just taking a different type of risk.
You guys are a voice for men who would be completely ignored or get into shit for trying to have a voice, because equality has left the chat a long time ago and double standards has taken residence.
i was prepping myself to watch this. i knew i would get heated. i am considerably older than both of you and i am certainly old enough to be that 17 yr old's mother. my first real experience with this type of thing was with my godson. about 5 years ago. it was proven false but the damage was done and he took his life. since then i have done all i can to be a voice for falsely accused and i am a sexual assault survivor. false allegations HURT EVERYONE. as a woman(and an honest one) women can be far more evil than folks give us credit for. when men get mad they pop off and explode. they might square up and then it's squashed or if they can talk out it, you talk it out. women on the other hand, seethe. we hold on to it and depending if we have a moral compass or not that building pressure can have some long lasting devastating effects. some women refuse to do any introspection and lose their bearing completely. i want to be crystal clear about something: NOTHING YOU HAVE DONE ABA HAS BEEN AN INVITATION FOR THIS CRAZINESS. NOTHING. being a public figure does not give people the right to assume you owe them attention. you don't. you are a content creator. i respect both of you guys tremendously because you are honest no matter what may happen that doesn't mean you owe me anything. you don't. you guys could pack it up tomorrow and walk away. you both have the right to live your lives in peace and you are entitled to your privacy. i certainly hope you don't because your guys are a breath of fresh air in a world full of hyperbole, hysteria and bullshit. i just wanted you both to know that you have support and as exhausting as it can get, what you guys do with these commentary videos and the high level of integrity you both have is appreciated and very much needed. anyone who claims "you brought this on yourself" need to be ignored. no one deserves to be victimized.
I'm very sorry to hear about your god son. A good friend of mine had his life destroyed by a woman who attacked him then claimed he started it. She had no marks on her, he had bruises all over from her beating the shit out of him. The courts sided with her. Insanity.
thank you. i was never blind to how evil us women can be but i was unaware the situation had become what we deal with now like the weaponization of metoo and title 9. i can not sit back and do nothing. for my kids, for everyone's kids. we can't leave a world like this for them. it sickens me that the manipulation and pure evil is starting earlier and earlier. never could i have imagined that a 17 year old girl could be so heartless and cruel.
2% of sexual assault allegations are false, 2%. With 98% of rape allegations being completely true, I don't know why anyone would try to make men be the victims here especially a sexual assault Survivor
@@chelseamarissa5683 the level of ignorance you just displayed is TERRORFYING. You aren't even in the ballpark. The amount of nationally known false accusations from the last 10 years alone nukes that 2% nonsense from orbit. I am sorry someone fed you bullshit. I am sorry you are now weaponized ignorance. I made it crystal clear after my god soon died I became pro-active. "Listen and believe" is the *HEIGHT* of injustice. Family and friends can do that but the public and most importantly the law must remain objective. I am only too happy to back my claims up. How about you? Female rapists sit around 40-45% while male are 55-60% and that's only what has been reported. Since allegations have historically been measured differently than actual confirmed cases we will never know the true number. Just like we will never no the true number of all rapes. The truth is what I care about. Aba is one of hundreds if thousands maybe even millions on the platform alone. Your complete dehumanization of men and lack of any empathy is upsetting to say the very least.
Key word being "should" but it don't pan out like that all the time sadly. When the damage is done and people have their mind set on what happened to even care about the truth afterwards then what do you do???
@@justinpearson9170 Sadly, you are right. Unfortunately it seems that she will not have to pay for her hubris by way of a defamation suit in this matter as: no real damage had been done, a number of witnesses would be required for pursuit of the case, and the possibility of having timed out the statute of limitations. However, others, who are fortunate enough to have evidence pertaining to wrongful accusations placed upon their person, would be wise to seek counsel immediately (lots of attorneys waiting for an easy case to satisfy their pro bono quota). Furthermore, the institution of harsher penalties for false accusers, should be increased to a sort of reverse-double jeopardy, where the accuser is punished for the crime that they testified (or claimed) that another had done. I get it...a lot of 'shoulds,' but if we don't act on punishing those who lie to harm, then it will continue to proliferate.
@@unfazedo True. No man could claim a woman raped him these days because men get belittled more than anything for it. But women who reject men get beaten or men gossip and tell others made up stories about girls like this trashy child did to Aba. It's not just about women and men; it's about vigilance. Because honestly, these days people are so egotistical that they would milk the power of their race or gender just to feel better about a bruised ego. I was literally her age when a guy Ada's used his authority as a teacher to assault me. I told my folks, they did nothing much. Shrugged their shoulders because people exploit their power over others in many ways. I have to live with what happened, just like he does. That little brat should've walked away. Aba did nothing wrong, has his receipts and is living his best life. She's gonna have what she did on her conscience for years. Edit: Nevermind. You're trying to convert people into MGTOW and I respect the hussel and expect you to not care about my comment since I'm too neutral so...have a good one, bud.
That’s crazy yooo, and I have a male friend where he’s had serious false allegations and yes it’s almost ruined his whole reputation! It’s awful n I feel u
I hate liars whether it be men or women. I've had men lying about me and things they wish they did to me or females lying about what they saw or heard I did, and those types of things can have a serious impact on your self esteem and mental health which is something the liars will never understand.
what was their relationship with you when they falsely accused you? You don't have to answer of course but I'm curious as it's a scary situation. Anything you would do differently to protect yourself?
I broke up with my girlfriend because she was playing to many games and testing me so she made a rumor that a lashed out at her and yelled at her when I was calm and collected and simply said I’m not interested anymore. Sad world but it is what it is. :)
Yeah dude. It aint 3% whatever it really is. The first 2 false allegations in my youth made on me were provably false. Almost all the women I know claim to have been by someone. I don't know what is true in their cases. Yet how is this possible? Spoiler: its not! In war torn AFRICAN regions the incidence isn't even that high!
@@jloren4647 Hum excuse me? You don't believe your own friends? Yes it is possible!! But men systemically feel entitled to sex and don't seem to understand boundaries (that's a systemic issue). Rape is extremely common amongst women, how could you know how it's like? And people assume the men saying they were falsely accused say the truth, but maybe it isn't? Not saying false accusations don't happen, but sexual aggression is part of most women's lives. And do you really think they have the whole data in those african regions, and that the women there all report their rape? Jesus.
@@CP-ko3xz ok first i wont argument about both of your statements about africa cause i dont know much about this specific topic and this is also not the reason i am answering you. First of all "men systemetically feel entitled to Sex and dont seem to understand boundaries" Oh Boy. I would agree on that comment if you said some men, but as it is written i will Interpret it as most/all men (correct me if i am wrong but please make a Note in your comment or change it if my Interpretation is wrong) I also have to say i live in germany so i dont know how it is in other countries, but from what ik from my circle of friends and people i know. Men including myself are hyperaware of boundaries cause we fear to make a miststep, we fear that we might emotionally hurt a female friend or stranger accidentaly or unbeknowm to us. Also there are woman as Well who dont get boundaries now should we assume all womans dont get boundaries? Of course not that would be stupid! so why should we do the opposite when it comes to men? Now to the entitled to sex part. I dont think that most men think that way a few yes but that a rather small percentage. If you are dating someone and get together with them and you two are together for some time then its normal for both Partners to want Sex may they be male or female. This is not entitled or anything this is something that would be expected of both sides like wise and if one Person wouldnt want any of that without a good reason (like they were raped and need longer until they could be that intimate with someone that's fine) then it would lead to a break up by the other side and here it doesnt matter if the Person is male or female that is true for both Sexes. "and people assume the men saying they were falsely accused say the truth, but maybe it isnt?" Uhm... Lets make a different statement which uses the same structure "And people assume the woman saying they were raped say the truth, but maybe it isnt?" That would be outragous. Same for yours. We have to believe both rape accusations and accudations of false accudations the same. Ofc the other side is innocent until proben other wise that goes without saying. But such a mindest that hey they are lying until they can prove it is dangerous for the victims. And yes people who werent raped dont know how its like but dont assume that just woman get raped. But the same can be said for getting falsely accused how would someone who never got falsely accused of sth like this know how it feels like? Ok last part "Not saying false accudations dont happen, but Sexual Aggression is Part of most womans lives." I get what you mean but pls dont use "but" there it gives of the feeling like "yes false accusations happen but it aint much of a deal since for most woman experience Sexual Aggression" these two thing should t be compared they both hurt emotionally and mentally both can and will destroy lifes so why would you put one down with the other? It may Sound fine to you with these things but lets use something else for a Moment. I will use the same structure as you again btw. "I am not saying that men dont get raped, but more woman get raped" We have again sth that destroyed a Person but your Word "but" makes it seem like one matter less because there is another Problem. We should focus on both not just on one. Both are Problems that are happening in higher number than we know both are terrible both destroy people lifes so why the hell would we talk down one problem like this. Even if you didnt meant it like that just such a simple sentence can carry a huge messages so pls if you didnt mean it like i understood it then pls for the love of god if you comment on such a topic again pls thing a bit more about how such a sentence sounds and what unwanted implications it might carry. Edits: typing and grammar mistakes lemme know if i made some that i didnt found yet
Word. Happened to me when I briefly taught high school Anatomy and Physiology. All sorts of crazy rumors were started by a few girls that were not passing my class. I refused to give them credit for work they didn’t turn in and in return, they created rumors that led to several problems. I left the teaching field after moving from high school to middle school and spending two weeks as a Science teacher. Middle school girls are sexual predators.
I only just started watching this channel a few weeks ago and what astounds me is just how morally corrupt the general population is. Not only that, but I am coming across people who not only make me question the society they grew up in but how can they justify it as acceptable and even an honorable way to live. This channel has broadened my horizon in regards to how people in different parts of the world live and how different cultures work, even though it is mainly Western. Both of you have been providing invaluable insight that would take one person living multiple lives for a few centuries to gain. One of the benefits of having social media is, as Aba says coming into contact with people outside of your circle. Virtue is its own reward. Vice is its own punishment.
Bro... That shit is scary as fuck. I had the same happen in '06 because I refused to sleep with a chick. Started telling all her friends and family I raped her. So I pre-empted it all and called the police myself. Took her a couple weeks to admit it was a lie. Almost ended my military career.
munky342 That's nuts. I can't imagine where someone's head needs to be to ruin a person's life like that. We are grown ass adults, fucking act like one. 🙃
When it comes to females, never delete your texts. Even if u gotta save them for years, save them. And don't f**k or flirt with ur coworkers. As men we gotta stay conscious of how some women behave and don't handle rejection, and when they start spreading rumors we gotta have a record of our interaction (or lack of interaction) as backup.
Y'all fr be acting like "females" are a different species, not every woman is out to get you, you can flirt with your coworker or whoever you want as long as you've known eachother for a long time or are good friends
@@penelopeq9749 Speaking personally, the idea of dating a coworker gives me anxiety. I prefer to keep my personal and work life separate for the sake of maintaining professionalism and job focus. When coworkers try to flirt with me I consider it a sign of irresponsibility. If u have time to flirt, u have time to work. I don't need a girl in my life who's not a hard worker.
@@penelopeq9749 That is sooooo not true. I recently made the mistake of taking a coworker out and I ignored all the red flags like an idiot. She chased me like crazy. She started going to the gym at times she'd know I'd be there and always workout in the same areas I worked out in. At first I thought nothing of it and ignored her figuring she just happens to have the same workout schedule as me and happens to wanna use the equipment that I happen to be by, so I'd ignore her and focus on my workout. When she realized I was never gonna talk to her she basically got in my face and forced me to talk to her. Tbh I was flattered so I gave her my number so we could text and I took her on a few dates. She turned out to be needy as hell and we had nothing in common (I never slept with her fyi), so I told her that I felt we weren't compatible and should just stay friends. She's still chasing me. I'm goth so she dyed her hair to try to match my aesthetic (she failed lol), she wants to message constantly and wants to come to my apartment. There's more red flags and tbh she scares the hell outta me now. I'm afraid if I block her she's gonna make up stories about me and spread rumors at work, cos she's made stuff up about other coworkers before. So all I can do is keep playing nice until she quits and moves on. It's a life lesson I'm not gonna forget lol
That explains to me why celebrity date celebrity. I thought it was only about social class/money but the fact that they can relate to the pressure and know that their public image is not the same as their private life.
Strange something here, actually got fired from a job and had to go to court for it. I went to a female judge and all eyes looked at me with so much content I felt like shouldn't of left out of there alive. The woman had so many holes in her story because she didn't think my lawyer would have the original complaint. I didn't even have to sit in the witness chair to testify. So of course the case was dismissed. While she goes free and me without that job.
Sorry about that man must be terrible, especially when the case gets dismissed anyway( the company probably got rid of you to save their name and everyone else in the company probably believed you did it, whatever she claimed). Similar thing with me, case got dismissed cause it was nonsense, I was still kicked out of my university student residence and the girl lives on. Luckily I’m still in the university overall. And I’m lucky for that.
Did you file a suit on the company? If they discriminated against you over a false allegation that shit can go to the courtroom and get settled “out of court for an undisclosed amount of money”.
Dear Lord Jesus, I know that I am a sinner, and I ask for Your forgiveness. I believe You died for my sins and rose from the dead. I turn from my sins and invite You to come into my heart and life. I want to trust and follow You as my Lord and Savior. In Your Name. Amen. x c
I know I am late to the party but I wanted to share my story. In sophomore year i was never too popular in my class so im sure this didn't help, but a girl I had in only one of my classes and had never even uttered a word to spread a vague rumor that I raped her. There were no details, no location, no story or elaboration at all, she just said 3 words and my highschool life was ruined till the end senior year. I lost out on tons of dates with that being the exact cited reason, friends left me over it, and she only got pity points and new friends. She had just come to the school not long before, and went from outcast to popular girl in a day, over lies. I repeatedly asked to talk to the principal and admin about it but was denied for 2 years until they caved and brought her in to talk about it. The principal pressed her, she cried, apologized half assedly, and the principal looked me in the eyes and said, so that's it then... nothing changed, she admitted it but only behind closed doors...
@@itzAurora_Xoxo realistically there wasn't much he could have really done looking back, as for her, there is nothing in law that says lying is illegal, and the damage isn't reversible so im not shocked she got off scot free. Funny to see people who used to chill with me still talking to her years later 🤷♂️
In high-school I had two separate occasions where girls claimed some shit happened when it fact it was the complete opposite. Luckily the internet was young and there was pretty much zero social media. Now I have no social media what so ever aside from CZcams comment section. One crazy chick said that I followed her up the stairs and tried to get in the bathroom when she was using it when really what happened is someone was in the downstairs bathroom and I went upstairs and knocked on the bathroom door. The other was my friends GF who followed me to a house party and kissed me. I pushed her away. She said I followed her and I kissed her. Hard to prove otherwise but I know what happened.
Todays video is a little different. We shot this a little spontaneously but it is something that we worry about so voila! If this was you, youre in this situation. How do you react ,what can you do if anything? Let us know your thoughts.
The scariest thing I was told was “your a man no one will believe you”. With everything she’s fine and I have been stuck in therapy for 7 years now. No I have been in it due to why she has done to me. I hate that people would say men can’t go through this or that.
Happened to a friend of mine, because he wouldn't give an underage girl a cigarette. She warned him, your going to regret it and accused him of rape. She called the cops and said he rape her. It wasn't after he did 5 years that she confessed. He lost his career and now it has a criminal record. Can't get a job.
man, i had watched this before, but something similar happened recently that I can relate to this video more. I work in retail while in college, and a co-worker asked me out to dinner while we were casually talking. I was taken aback(definitely not used to being approached) and so i fucked up by not declining instantly, but I instead ignored the question and changed subject, then eventually left. About a month later, I find out the rumor is that I asked her out, and got rejected. And that I asked someone to ask her out for me, and that she was 16. I was/still am stressing out about it, cause i'm a 25 year old male, been in a long term relationship for the past 7 years, and the fact that it seemed like I approached a minor. and the rumor itself rang high school drama. I still debate if I should quit and get another job since this person and I still work there, and I don't know how to approach the situation, cause I feel that if I bring it up to higher ups, it'll be her word against mine, and i feel my word won't be taken into consideration as much. I refuse to get phone numbers and social media from co-workers, male or female, and so I don't have "receipts" since I wanted to avoid things like this to begin with.
I think maybe you should relocate to another store, or look for another job elsewhere.....I say this because it's only a matter of time of this situation being brought to the forefront by HER, I'm sorry to say, but she isn't "done" with you just yet, I wouldn't trust her motives....just because she hasn't said anything else doesn't mean she isn't scheming...... I think that you should just leave
No, stand up for yourself. Ignoring your problems may make it worse. People are gonna use their biases to make you out to be someone you're not, so go to the manager, stand up for yourself and say what happened from your side. Get a lawyer, and if you feel like you can't handle that work place then leave. All the best man.
Got falsely accused too, that change everything for me. Im 6f2, 250lbs. In court, ill be guilty before even talking. It got in my head so much that today, if im walking in my town and cross the path of a lonely girl, Ill cross the road to be far away just so she can"t be affraid for no reason.
Strangely same with the crossing the road thing. Lots of my friends say I look like a pedophile because I'm large chubby and really dark skinned. In general it's made me feel like I'm a really scary figure and prefer to cross the road when I see a woman pass by
I dont wanna play the race card but, this is how it feel for my older brother who lives in a mostly white neighborhood. And he ain't even black, just a dark skinned hispanic.
At my job 2 years ago, I started this fling with this girl that also worked there. Everything was great but our co workers started noticing how flirty we were to each other at work. Not anything intentional, but reflecting back it was obvious. They started asking her questions about it, and to save face, she built this narrative that I was trying hard to get with her and she was just being nice and didn’t want to be mean and reject me. She didn’t want anyone to know I was involved with her, so she denied everything when she was the one that made the first move on me!!! She even said I would cruise around her home late at night to see what she was doing! That’s BOGUS and the messed up part is I didn’t know any of this until after I quit my job and one of the co workers told me about it. I always wondered why I got weird looks at work, they thought I was some creep stalker. It’s crazy how some of these women can spin the narrative and everyone believes it! Edit: The reason why that co worker never told me about it until after I quit was because she didn’t know me too well and she regretted that she ever believed the other girl. I never delete messages for these exact types of reasons
Something kinda like that happened to me but not as bad. It was just with online friends. I unfollowed one of them, then they lied to a bunch of people saying I was stalking her and her friends. I didn't learn about this until 2 years later. In the middle of that, we started talking again because people were saying shit like "oh you two just need to make up". I was like, sure, since I didn't know she was a vile sack of rotting colons at the time. I can't believe people said "you two need to make up" after she publically slandered me and ruined a few friendships. No one thought to fucking tell me. They can all go to hell for all I care. I have real friends now.
Those people that follow the liars are called Flying Monkeys. They do whatever the wicked witch says and do all her dirty work when she wants to take a break from getting her hands messy. They are not to be trusted either
This is the first comment I have left on one of y’all’s videos ( I love all y’all’s videos) but as a wife and mother the fear of watching the two most important males in my life get accused of something scares me. I hate women who want to play the victim when it’s their crazy actions that started situations. They will put men in between a rock and a hard place. Then when the man fights back they play the victim. I’m honestly scared for my son’s future in the world if we keep just believing in very woman’s word without investing the accusations.
This is terrifying and so are some of the stories in the comments . My brother was in the Navy, and a chick he worked with kept sexually harrassinghim. He was married to my gorgeous sister in law. So he kept turning that coworker down. Well this woman, who was a fellow sailor, got her ego hurt and lied and said he was the one sexually harrassing her. He was DISCHARGED from the Navy. Then after it was said and done she was laughing to other people on the ship about it ,that she didnt know was his friends, and said how she lied. She was making fun of what she had done. But it was honestly too late and he didn't want to go through all that again. It's so sad. Why can't people just accept a no and move on. Like not everybody is going to like you. I also know a female who lied about being sexuallyassaulted by her best friends husband . I believed her as soon as she told me but then later when she was intoxicated she laughed and said how she "fucked her friends husband". And just regretted it because it ruined the friendship. Like What the actual hell man.
Don't blame you, Aba. Cut social media 10 years ago. Never looked back. Dribbling words in a comment section as a pig is a lovely inbetween, but I'd drop it whenever for sunshine and privacy.
I feel bad for y'all, y'all be some good people, I can't even imagine what comes with your job though, but I want y'all to know you make me laugh at my lowest sometimes and I appreciate that!
We as a society are aware of the ways women, young and old, can be toxic. And yet, we refuse to acknowledge it and continue treating them like they can do no wrong. We are aware of the ways men can be vulnerable. And yet, we treat them with suspicion and contempt. We allow women to abuse, hurt, and take advantage of men, all while zealously being on the look out for sexual harassment and abuse. No! Not all women are like this. But the fact is the ones that are can get away with this stuff. So, I see no reason to trust them.
I've had a similar situation; one where some girls who were in the same large social scene as me spread some nasty rumors (and they were of THIS nature; IDGAF if someone says some random mean comments about me lol, but these types of rumors by themselves are dangerous, especially if used by multiple women); I've also been falsely accused of r*pe. that one still gets me heated + it's a long story so I'd rather not go into detail. fast forward a few years later when I started doing political activism; the opposing side took the opportunity to use both situations against me (though neither had any evidence whatsoever). it really be like that lads; i've kind of just checked out from it all now. no interest in dating, politics or most social interactions. just gaming/working out/traveling/hobbies and of course building a stable, successful and most importantly QUIET life away from social media and toxic people.
There should be a parody of #metoo, but it’s called #mentoo, and talks about men’s fake accusations and perhaps sexual assault from women Edit: guys when I said parody, I meant it would start as a joke but it would be serious
The problem is the rumor. Even when there is evidence to the contrary, people don't find out. They spread the original rumor. Ask yourself how many people still think Johnny Depp is an abuser, because they heard it somewhere, and tell it to other people. The initial outrage is more interesting than the following info that straightens out the situation.
It's not the fact they don't find out it's that they can't be asked to find out. I was falsely accused a while ago and my friends never looked into it or had my back when all the evidence was there that I wasn't even in the same room, alone, with the woman. Everybody disowned me without even looking at the facts. They just want to be apart of the outrage culture.
@@christopherdrohan8245 You find out who your real friends are when you need them to back you. A real friend would either asume you hadn't done it, or asked you to give your story.
To be fair though, I think Johnny and Amber be beating each other ass. So no I don’t feel it’s one sided like most people. I just think Johnny and that other girl were abusive to each other cause drugs involved.
I discovered you guys a couple days ago hut I immediately knew y'all two are authentic people and then when I saw how you discussed narcissism it really cemented it for me. Sounds to me this could have been a video over that very subject to one degree or another. But you two are doing something great and i respect the desire to walk away from all the self-centered, insecure attention that your positive, constructive critical thinking attracts and threatens these types of people. I dont want to say that is the war you two fight but it is the world we live in so please keep being confident in your wisdom, integrity and self-mitigating bias or awareness because that is the most important thing. It really is among what the world needs most right now. That healing philosophy. And to be a little challenging, that girl who waited to say she knew your work and was a fan after she came back to your place and the bed... I mean, that is restraint right? Idk, I guess i am curious what you think the acceptable play by a woman who knows would be. Cause honestly, my whole life I thought that wanting fame is weird af for most of the same reasons y'all went over. Anonymity is the most absolute freedom there is... To me ;p. So this is really interesting to hear how y'all deal with what I can only imagine. Cause fame can make you sick and apparently it attracts sick people. And healthy people to be fair. All people! Haha there we go. Like I'm a 33 good looking in-shape white guy in Houston and have stayed clear of dating apps my whole life. Hell! I just got my first smart phone a year ago haha! I am not trying to know alot of people or have alot of people know me. Thumbs up and subscribed, fam. This channel is alive with the truth and I'm vibing with it.
The curse of fame. I just watched Audrey Hepburn's bio, her greatest happiness came from moving somewhere where no one treated her like a celebrity. If I ever bump into you guys, I'll try to be one who says, "keep up the good work" and moves on. The problem is people really feel they like and know you, and forget that you don't know us from Adam's off-uncle. It's like the children's show host who met a little fan and asked his name. The answer: "What, you come into my house every day and don't know my name?!" People are like that.
Friend: “Hey dude, heard you kissed my ex.” Me: “Huh?” Friend: “My ex said you two hung out and kissed.” Me: “You mean the girl I politely told I had a girlfriend and never spoke to again?” Friend: “Oh.. yeah.” I still remember this over a decade later.
I always loved that growing up… “My ex said this this and that“… You mean the person that you have drama with and broke your heart and that’s why you left them? Hmmm 🤔
Something like that happened to me when I was 16 or so. A friend and I were walking around and talking. A girl was sitting in front of a bakery and said "Hi". We politely said "Hi" and went along, not paying any further attention. Later she sent her boyfriend to us, telling him, we harassed her. He threatened us, stalked us and so on. Now, multiple decades later, thanks to the internet, I know this is also happening to other guys.
A lady I'm friends with was living with a toxic abusive daughter, things got so bad that daughter threaten the lady's life, she called the police but the daughter puts her victim act. One day we caught her red handed abusing her mother so I help the lady and talk some real sense into the daughter (i did not hit her I i pulled her away from her mother) she got so mad she left the house for good and lived at her sugar daddies apartment. After another friend told me her daughter been spreading rumors that I hit her and I'm sleeping with her mother ( my friend). And she has a habit of spreading dangerous allegation to people she don't like. STAY AWAY FROM THESE WOMEN
How would someone believe the girls story? Imagine. A 26 year old man asks someone to prom. Bro wouldn’t even be able to get in. People’s minds are a little too easy to implant false information in.
It's funny because it shows how a teenager thinks. They assume prom is the end all be all for everyone since it's the most important thing in their life. If a grown man was trying to smash he'd want to isolate her.
Didn't matter what Aba said, it would've been used against him. Only way out of this situation is to never walk into it in the first place by ignoring the DM.
@@solidsnake5644 Nah...I could see her doing the same thing if he never replied. Either way it's a blow to her fragile ego and thus an excuse to take that out on him.
@@viquiben4919 Uh, it's narcs and sociopaths, not psycopaths. Psycopaths, by definition, tend to be very smart, so they are outliers. Sociopaths, however, do not need to be. At least 40% of the people I see walking around under the age of 30 are straight up narcs and/or sociopaths.
I had this shit happen in my freshman year of high school, though it wasn't a false rape allegation. Back in my freshman year, our high school was actually cool. I forgot what they called it, but they had several nights where they set up projectors and food vendors, and they let you either play video games, or watch movies. It was a kick ass thing our school did. Of course I'm there, playing games and chilling with friends, when I needed to go to the bathroom across campus, so I go, and I noticed I was being followed by 2 cheerleaders. I thought little of it, as maybe they needed to use the bathroom too. I go to the bathroom, do my business, and come out to find cops waiting for me. I get put in handcuffs, and the cops explained to me that this one cheerleader had been receiving death threats from someone via text , and she had no idea who, and I guess since I looked a certain way, I was labeled as the one doing it. Cops are basically hounding me, saying why would I do it, (they brought up me getting rejected by her as motive), and one could tell I didn't do it (or he just felt guilty), as he said I mightve just been in the wrong place at the wrong time. They had to go through my phone, and I had to repeatedly state I've never interacted with any cheerleader, and would never murder someone over something as stupid as a rejection. Towards the end I'm being let out of handcuffs, and the cops believe I wasn't the one who did it, but they are now explaining some new restrictions I have: I was never to be on campus after 3:30pm (this one I didn't really care about, I had marching band practice till 5pm, so if anyone had issue with that my band teacher would handle it.) I couldn't partake in any school related activities anymore. Basically I couldn't go to any sports games, dances etc. And finally I was basically told I had to limit who I can interact with. All this, because I was believed to be the one that might kill a cheerleader. I was never apologized to, never approached by said cheerleader to explain her side. Thankfully when it happened it didn't spread to the whole school, so my reputation was still in tact. Though needless to say, after that event I stopped talking and associating with women/girls in general. Long comment I'm sorry, I'm not good at TLDRs.
So you were punished because the girls basically lied? Those girls should’ve been thoroughly investigated because false accusation… That’s a crime. And if it was true and it was just a matter of mistaken identity then this definitely should’ve been investigated further because whoever actually did that to those girls is still running around.
I'm a 34 year old dutch guy. i realy like your videos! keep it up! i'm on the other side of the world. but it relate feels like you guys could be my friends. for real. all the things u guys say. i realte to most of it. just being normal human beings. thats what makes u guys big. being normal. i love it!
I can totally relate. While I was teaching down in México, the principal decided to start a rumor that I was hitting boys and molesting little girls, just to kick me out because he wanted his friend to take over my position and since most parents liked me, he knew it was going to be difficult. I faced him as a man and forced him to make a public announcement and apologize for his crap, but even though some people got it, most didn't. So eventually I had to move. Luckily for me, this was before the internet was big. But rumors can bring a lot of crap, I can't even begin to imagine the consequences if this had happened nowadays. People are stupid.
In middle school I had a “girlfriend”, we were young, it was quick and not real. Nothing serious happened between us. In high school when I was a freshmen, I heard from a close friend that told me that that same ex gf was spreading rumors that I tried to rape her. If you knew me and my history but getting sexually abused as well, you would highly disagree with that allegation. For a year I had a fear that I would get in trouble and people coming up too me saying I was an awful human being. Luckily in sophomore year she had a mental freak out and accursed two other boys of the same thing. People finally realized that my ex gf was really my crazy ex. I got legit pstd and issues approaching and trusting women from that fucked up scenario. My ex didn’t get any punishment or felt no remorse for that false allegation. This type of bull shit gotta stop. Never really told too many people about this because the first reaction they get from hearing the first part of the story is negative and sometimes people won’t have that negative view of me change so I don’t like putting this out but since you talk about this issue here’s my story. False allegation is a real fucked up thing.
Macario D. It won’t stop until there are real consequences for their behavior. Whether through the legal system or some other means. They need to be afraid.
Macario D. Dude I’m so grateful I came across your comment. I had the exact some thing happen to me and man and it really sucked and drained the life outta me. Ik it just a comment but it makes me feel not alone and that I’m not the only person that have been through this
Yha because school love doesn't match what adult love is. Like I always think school love is fake cause it's a way to lose your V card and grow older and think what you did in highschool will still reply as an adult.
I went through something like. The most hard part it's the PSTD one, i still can't fully trust in any women these days. Funny thing it's that we are men so we can't be "weak", so we must be just bitching about this. CMON MAN ITS JUST A FALSE ALLEGATION HAHA
Jian Ghomeshi. Look up his tale of woe, false accusations and a conspiracy to try and put him in jail for decades. Thankfully he was found not guilty. A List in Canada, but a "WTF" situation for him.
I know it’s quite not the same but it remembers me of that time Michael B. Jordan received backlash from black women for being spot with a white woman on vacation
@@davelawson03 I hadn't heard that before, but it does not surprise me at all. The same thing was said about Clarence Thomas during his confirmation hearings. From what I heard, a lot of black women supported him but then quickly turned when they learned he was married to a white woman.
Thank you so much for this information. As a woman I never realized that's what goes on and it's very unfair. As much as we scream women's rights, we should not undermine what men go through.
Imagine asking a grown man to go to prom with you, he politely turns down ur advances, and because u feel embarrassed about getting curved u start making false allegations and depicting him as a predator and in the process potentially ruin his life. What type of human being does that?
a woman would do it
A teenage girl who's in her feelings & had a blow to her ego
Cluster B's. Recognize the signs and act accordingly
A shit human being
Sixshooter 9 I’ve been red pilled but what your saying is so true
Ya'll know how they put offenders on lists, they should make one for women who make false allegations toward men.
Towards anyone innocent. Honestly, some bitches are so damn childish. Everyone has to avoud them, not just potential partners and crap
@Josip i think you missed my point. Key word being 'anyone'- not just men. 'Innocent' is odviously the only universal word in this whole thing because of litrally what you just stated.
And it wont- and what i meant is relationship wise. Otherwise we would have to actually make them an area dedicated to sly bastards.
R/woosh
@Josip yeah and? Maybe i enjoy being a little bit childish- especially due to my age, but i can talk maturely when needed, and frankly; i dont give one and will woosh when acceptable. And it was acceptable because you completely missed the point- thats the definition of what the r/woosh thing is. But hey, its whatever now. Ya realised ya was wrong and took everything completely the other way so it doesnt matter.
@Josip i dont even have reddit- just watch r/slash.
And i know that, my issue is that you told me to stop being childish- and ik you dont know fuck all about me but i dont take shit like that lightly. I dont need someone telling me that shit when it's taken me years to even accept that I'm just a fucking kid and i dont need to be an adult 24/7.
But this isnt the topic of discussion, i accepted that you were wrong, and had means to bring this natter to and end. You chose to process it. But hey- here's a participation award, cuz this 'debating' aint gonna win anything.
I repeat- i accept ya wrong, my issue was with ya calling out being childish like it's something extremely negative and unsightly.
No need to pop off again
Holly Moores ok then hear it from me, “r/wooosh” is childish and you don’t have to make a big deal out of it- a 13 year old
The fact that Preach saved the receipts for Aba.. that's a true friend right there. It got me in the feels.
Bro must've not seen the we ain't friends vid 💀 😂
@@thenamzrand0m747 They are, but for some reason they deny it. Its kind of weird for people that are so aware
@Trololol Trololol Sure, but you need chemistry for friendship regardless.
@Trololol Trololol Dumbfuck what was the point of this comment.
Aba said, what "friend" means for him is where he can share himself without having to change how he behaves. And that's literally what he does with Preach because of how much time they spend on tours and what they went through etc.
It doesn't make sense to say he isn't friends with him, because they are but they are both not comfortable saying it.
@Trololol Trololol They actually talked about it on numerous occasions.
I 100% believe that anyone who falsely accuses someone of a crime should go to jail. Not only can you possibly ruin the life of the person you accuse and their loved ones, you also make it so much harder for people who were genuinely attacked/raped/etc to get justice. It's a despicable thing to do.
True! I don't agree to jail stuff becauase we the working class, we should support another person with food, shelter, medicine in jail. I'd rather replace jail with hard works
@@witchreturns2263 ok, so those who rapes women should also be not in jail as they alzo have family to halp.
U r so dumb .
@@shobhitgupta2738 Dumb is you, because you understood nothing but shout nonsenses. My comment was: all who deserve, should be in jail, but be put to hard works to build the highways and railroads etc. to support the economy of the country, to earn their cost of expenses they comsume in jail. Instead of, we the working people keep them in jail with warm beds, free food, free medical help, tv etc.
@@witchreturns2263 no, they should be treated the same as people who truly commit the crimes they accuse of.
@@shobhitgupta2738 Sir, learn some grammar.
When I was in Highschool I rejected a girl who tried to kiss me. The next day she spread a false rumor at school that I forced myself on her and she slapped me for it. I confronted her and voice recorded her admitting it was a lie and then played it in the lunch room where 30 other students heard the truth. Payback was sweet.
My man!
How did everybody react to the recording?
how did they react
Reactions were a combination of Highschool gossip and she got harassed by other students over it. I washed my hands with it.
Smart man.
Never take this down. Never never take this down.
@Que_Rico what exactly are you trying to say?
@@suckyourmum9121 right tho dis guy
@Que_Rico you sound like one of those angry fat feminists who hate men. Go get a life bitch.
@@KevvStarrGaming damn nigga, I'm pretty sure that's a dude
@@beefortebrea9386 A wahmen under the pretense of being a dude.
I know a few girls in my highschool who have lied about being raped, having cancer, being sexually assulted and its disgustingthat they get away with it. People usually just go "Well thats fucked up" Then get over it. Like tf?!
for some reason a lot of young women look at these things as if they’re a trend or cool
They crave attention and will do whatever they can to get it.
wow i got the same thoughts as a kid but thank god i didn't really act upon them and lie about it
@@Julia-hz2nd It honestly pisses me off like this one girl started smiling when she told me she got assaulted and I was like WTF??
Some of them are just terrible human beings, and others have some type of mental/personality disorders.
I was falsely accused of sexual assault in 2015 in the military. The person who accused me was engaged somthing I didn't know at the time. I was dragged into the OSI office, basically the fbi of the military stripped naked had all my tattoos and mug shots taken questioned for hours, had my phone confiscated. They interviewed all my neighbors and everyone that was at the party the night in question. No evidence was ever uncovered of wrongdoing and yet she got to change base to wherever she wanted, she picked Vegas who new. I had my military dreams ended and was discharged, over nothing. I was facing 35 years with zero evidence and when there was none I was still punished.
How were u able, how are u dealing with this mentally?
I'm sick of this world sigh
@@lersuscummings1904 I became a raging alcoholic and eventually lived in my van for a year and then went to rehab. And now im in recovery and have a wonderful girlfriend and my own apartment. Its been 6 years since that happened, and only have gotten better this year. It does get better tho.
Mentally I have severe anxiety and ptsd for events that took place during the ordeal which I rather not go into.
@@vanliferr4079 stay strong bro
I just cant fathom the extremes ppl would go to ruin someone else. Its absolutely disgusting and the fact that she just moves on like nothing happened. I'm a positive person but ppl like that I wish the absolute worse on them, I really do. Nothing worse than a liar, but a liar that is caught and treated as if nothing happened is worse.
Atleast you are doing much better, wishing the very best for you, and be safe during these terrible times!!
@@lersuscummings1904 thanks for the words I appreciate it. Everything happens for a reason and I never used to think this until I started getting my life back together. The VA has recognized my situation and I'm in the process of getting things straightened out and im in a good place now. My conscious is clear and thats all I can really ask for.
Why would they need to strip u naked?
I understand why celebrities date each other now
Word!
It happened to Johnny Depp my man... Toxic Femininity
The celebrity turns into the circles that you have to exist in. It's a safety net, the problems become potentially so much worse when you're leaving that zone
Happened to R.Kelly but folks don’t want to look at the deeper picture.!
@@maliciousconspiracy1448 don't even bring an actual predator in here. Fucks like you de-legitimize people who actually have to go through shit.
I'd like to personally thank Aba and Preach's fathers for not using a condom.
U welcome
@@Haitiangirl23 As a fellow Ethiopian like Aba, I can confirm that that username is an Ethiopian name.
That's disrespectful 😠
Why would you assume they were conceived by men? Pls be more courteous
Teo_II I’m Ethiopian as well My name is Abbaagommool and my nick name is Abbaa. And when they say Aba in the video I look around like who’s calling me lol
@@Eric-br1nc Wut?
One time i was getting physically intimate with a girl during my senior year of highschool, and she wanted to take it to another level, i declined because i wasnt ready yet so they threatened to cut themselves and took out their razor to do so. After i took that away they went and got their lighter to burn themselves. After i took that away they threatened suicide. Me not understanding this i decided to just do it with them so they wouldn’t hurt or kill themselves. The next day i find out that she told all her friends that i raped her. I tried explaining the situation but no one believed me because i was a man and men rape and women are always victims. Thank god none of them went to the authorities about this. It wasnt until my second semester at college where i told my close friend about it and she said i was the one who was raped. That not only was i raped, but then i was falsely accused of raping someone. Im literally so lucky that girl made sure no one else old the authorities because my life and future would have been finished at the worst moment of my life
😔😔😔 so sorry to hear that. Not right when men are put through things like this.
Know this is a month old. But dude, there was an ex-gf who did a similar thing. Demanded I have sex with her, took my keys so I couldn't leave my apartment and would not leave. She was verbally abusive. I just stood there and told her I can out wait anyone. She had no idea I was use to standing in one positions for hours. I didn't talk, nothing. Just stood there.
She gave up and left after 3 hours.
its that people arent as lucky as you.
I am so sorry this happened to you. I to know a male who was raped however not accused of rape. He had no idea he was until I told him. Your no is just as important as when a woman says it. Hope you're still doing well.
I believe these are demons in human skin, literally.
I studied to become a teacher, the male students were explicitly warned for this. During the internship phase one of us actually got in a situation that was scary and could easily become problematic. One of his female students, about 15 years of age, seemed to have a crush on him and kept trying to stall after class, to the point they were the only ones in the class room every time. The advise was to tell a colleague as early as possible and to cover yourself with the presence of that colleague as much as possible and to try to use centrally located, window rich classrooms and always to keep the door open. There is not much else you can do.
I know my wife also does this in a different setting. She is an MD and whenever she gets the idea patients could start legal trouble, she always takes one of the nurses with her as a witness, in order to not get in trouble. This is way more common than the possible sexual harassment she also protects herself from in the same manner. Sad thing is a lot can and does actually happen alone with somebody else in a closed room.
I had a student who told me she loved me every single class. I knew she meant no harm but it always made me uncomfortable, you really never know what could happen. What if she mentioned it to her parents and they thought I solicited it.
Not much else you can do? Always record yourself. 24/7. As long as it isn't a 2 party consent state for recordings.
I went to an all girls school and I can confirm many of us had major crushes on some of the few male teachers. Girls would often flirt with them and try to see them outside of class.
But also, two male teachers whilst I was there got fired for abusing some of the girls. I saw and heard with my own eyes one of these men and what he was doing to himself and saying was disgusting.
Reminds me of the time a woman I never met before in my life accused me of drugging and raping her all because my little brother wouldn't cheat on his girlfriend with her. The only reason why my life wasn't ruined was because when she accused me I was over 200 miles away at a concert for roughly a week amd had hours of footage showing proving I was there.
So after months of her parents and lawyer calling me a monster and threatening to have me locked away for the rest of my life my lawyer got the footage before a judge (despite their lawyer fighting tooth and nail to get it excluded). The judge watched only 5 minutes then looked at them with the most disgusted look on her face and told them to take whatever deal we were offering because if they took this to court she'd make sure the girl wouldn't see the light of day for 20 yrs at least. After they signed our deal not 2 weeks later her parents pulled her from college and they all moved out of state.
its sad because even though you clearly WERENT THEIR, you still had to fight for months and go to court; imagine if you were in town that day smh
I was on deployment on my ship in the middle east. Everything going precisely as intended, ship was handling business. I get called to the office where I am told to report to the Legal Office on board. I go there and find out a woman who is seven months pregnant (I had been on deployment for more than 8 months) in a state I've literally never been to has claimed that I am the father of her child. I very nearly ended up being labeled "dad by default" anyway. Thankfully the court system isn't so broken as to think my dick is long enough to reach halfway across the planet.
@Superscalar Processor judge was probably just done with the bullshit after several months of time wasted on this case which she had probably put off real trials for.
@@saintmayhem9873 oh my gosh!
@@saintmayhem9873 thots be thottin'. What can I say.
If you’re a above average male, a woman who’s not use to hearing *NO* will definitely do this. This is the male version of sexually harassment and men are not allowed to talk about.
Men can talk about and do whatever the fuck they want. Fuck the government. Let's destroy our enemies (the rich satan worshipers)
Statistically, on the spectrum of abuse and harassments, women are significantly more likely to be on the side where character assassination is actively used. Counting in variables, such as social and economic status of both men and women, it turns out that men on the higher level are more likely to deal with these kinds of issues.
But since the abuse is non-physical and we live in a culture that puts much more emphasis on material evidence, like physical abuse marks and stains, other forms of abuse are not prioritized!
Aramazt Khabayan Fax
Jason Reyes she forced you, u didn’t want to and were uncomfortable
@Jason Reyes this is rape. Disgusting a person will do that to another.
And it’s funny how Mike Pence got clowned when he said he wouldn’t be alone with a woman not his wife.
smart man
Billy Graham did the same thing. Never was alone with a woman other than his wife.
To be fair, lady pence look like she’ll slap a bitch.
smart man
@@maverick6775 facts
My false allegation story: So I had a girlfriend in college, one night I invited her to have sex in my car, and she said yes, then I told some of my friends who were female (big mistake I've learned from, don't tell your guy stories with women) that we had sex. I started seeing many people on campus looking at me weird, ignoring me, the female friends I mentioned before were also ghosting me. Then a girl I knew told me that my friends were all doing that because they heard that I raped my gf. I asked my gf at the time if she knew about it and she never heard anything about it. I didn't think she made those allegations because previously she was called in the office because other people reported that she looked uncomfortable around me. My gf came up and told me about it saying it was weird and that she denied it and felt safe with me. So she was very honest with me even when I didn't know something that she did. So, it wasn't even my ex who spread the rumors that I raped her, it was the female friends... Eventually I had to leave the college as everyone looked at me like I was evil, making friends was super difficult etc. Even when you have a stable, good relationship with a girl, other women will try to spread allegations that you're a rapist...
Wow that's a new low. Not even their own claim, these pieces of garbage made false claims on behalf of another woman. That's just despicable. Sorry you went through that.
A similar situation happened to my cousin and her bf. The only difference in that my cousin and her friend girls made an example out of the lying bitches that spread rumors about her bf and them apologize to him.
They wanted to be in the car
shit man, hope you are okay now. people need to stop with the false allegations. rumors, backstabbing, discussing personal stuff is terrible.
You should have sued them.
I never delete any of the DMs from women I’ve dated. It’s an insurance policy!
Never delete DMs of *any* women you talk to, period.
@Kermit Froggers...facts.
@Masi Neale That was an episode of Black Mirror actually. Except the cameras were implanted in people's eyes. So everything you saw and heard was recorded, you could pull up those recordings and show them to people whenever you wanted, and near-limitless digital storage allowed you to record for years (if i remember that episode correctly)
@Kermit Froggers yeah, I think that was the episode where the guy made his wife show him her memories of cheating on him, and he forced the guy she cheated with to delete his recorded memories of her. That was a tripped episode for sure.
@Masi Neale I can dig the concept, as long as we are the only one’s who can access control of our devices and when it records.
body cameras, recording conversations will soon be the norm for men.
mhm
lol dunno if i should laugh or cry, but yea..... lol.. geez..
black mirror has an episode about that future.
It already is, look up camera phones still recording after it's turned off.
And it sucks. Not a guy, but I agree. This is not okay.
Female here and I struggle with keeping female friendships due to behaviour discussed in this very video.
Examples:
- "Hey, Ang. If my boyfriend calls/text tell him I slept over your place." I'm not going to lie for you just because your cheating on your boyfriend.
- One friend - her boyfriend wanted to take a break from the relationship. She rings me telling me that she is going to tell him that she is pregnant when she isn't pregnant.
- Get a phone call from someone who works at a bar/restaurant that my family owns. "Your friend was here last night. Invited a group of men to sit with her and two other girls. She took one of the guys credit card and said he had to pay for the meals/drinks."
There's more, including situations were men wanted to get involved with me sexually and a female friend set it up with me being unaware and found myself in a situation to were I said no. Declined advancements and that no was dismissed.
Hoz being hoz
Yes,I had very few female friends due to this before I got married.Now I have married couple friends and it’s so much more peaceful. It is up to us ladies to call out this bullshit though.
Girl, get better friends.
It’s the reason why some men want to stay single than having to keep up with those women bs.
Get yourself real friends lady, your examples are why you shouldn’t have those people around.
Same feeling on it!!
"What's that your holding?"
"Oh its this L Aba gave me"
HAAAAA! 😂 lmao washing dishes
That's probably what made that crazy bitch snap. I hope she saw this video and felt like absolute shit... but even that doesn't undo the damage she did
Similar thing happend to me with a girl who stated I had raped her back when I was 17.. police where on the TV and newspapers calling for me to come forward. I was overseas when it happend and my Aunt rang my family telling us the situation eventually the police found out I was overseas and the girl came forward claiming that she only lied because I had rejected her advances at a party. Till this day I still don't know who it was and from that day forward I have anxiety problems with women and how I am perceived on approach which makes me super self conscious from that girl.
THANKS, BECKY
@@oz_jones romaarmy fan i take it lol. FUUUCK BECKY THOU
Did the police make a public apology? I can’t imagine what that must have done to your reputation
@@justadummy8076 Organizations, whether private or public, don't make public apologies unless not doing so negatively impacts them in some way. If their JOBS are at risk, you bet your ass there will be apologies. Otherwise, HAHA FUCK OFF.
Wtf it should be your right to know who it was...
"believe all women"
No, I don't think I will
We can't apply blanket solutions to multi-faceted issues
Hail Raziel, destroyer and redeemer.
The saying isn’t ‘believe all women’, ‘It’s believe women’, as in believe women that these things happen.its literally like this story ‘believe men’ however don’t ‘believe all men’ because a lot of the guys in these comments could be lying but it doesn’t mean all of them are.
Especially when those blanket solutions can make those issues worse
When you say you don't want to believe all women because some are liars, they always throw that stupid "only 2-8% of accusations are false".
First of all, that's a huge variation. Second of all, an average of 5% is still potentially hundreds of innocent men having their lives ruined, while the accuser gets off pretty much scot free.
They can take their shitty excuses and lick my ass.
@Manny P Our society is supposed to work like that, but these sexist holier than thou anarchistic fucksticks just wanna see some dudes thrown in jail.
Fake accusations in the work place are the norm anymore. I had a coworker who had a female coworker ask him if he wanted to see her nudes with a text. He messaged her back that he did. She then deleted her message asking him to make it look like he was just asking for her nudes. He almost lost his career but when he showed hr her messages they didn't even consider punishing her for it. The double standards are complete garbage and the women that do this make it hard to believe the women that actually go through sexual harassment.
If I was him, I would have taken legal advice. If they took no disciplinary action on her, then he could have grounds to sue the company. The only thing corporations understand is $$$.
Don't dip your pen in company ink
@Rectum Abdominus see how u deny women doing evil stuff like false allegations?
Nws most of us men dont believe secual assault victems anyways nowadays thanks to ppl like u
Personal comment: When I was 18 I was accused of sexual assault. The reason: my accuser was pregnant with my child and came from a Roman Catholic household so to spare the 'shame' of having a child out of wedlock she got an abortion and took me to court.
Changed my approach to women. I'm more selective and I'm happy in my 5 year relationship with a genuinrly wonderful woman.
And look how easy it was for this girl to lie
Fr 🤯
Ikr
and for people to believe it
Cyanna Miranda why would they not believe it? I bet if your friend told you shit like this you’d believe them too, not because you’re dumb or anything but simply you know your friend and not aba. The girl is at fault, not the people who listen to her
42Nightsyesterday in this case if she’s making moves like this im sure she does questionable things in real life too
The stories in the comments are literally terrifying.
You have no idea how I wish at least half of them are fake.
People can be real crazy sometimes.
Anyone making a false allegation should be sterilized and put in prison for at least 25 years with no parole.
At times i have to pause the video to read some terrifying stories.
I think almost every man goes through a false accusation by a woman. I used to think it was rare, but it's dead common.
It really starts at the drama in grade and high school where girls learn to manipulate each other, men are just sheep among wolves in that respect. Not saying men are all saints just saying for that "person" that decides who I am for me.
Terrifying is a great way to put it I’m getting knots in my stomach reading them
When I was in the first year of university, I was in halls with a girl who wouldn't leave me alone. Constantly throw insults at me, shove me, try and kiss me all of that. I tried to respectfully deflect it as much as possible, but one time I was in this group going to this nightclub and the abuse continued to the point where she would repeatedly try and shove me, get in my personal space, groap me, all of which I didn't want. I shoved her (lightly but purposefully) away because I couldn't take it any longer and she started to cry and complain to the people we were with. Bare in mind these people weren't my friends I just didn't know anyone at this point. The bouncer immediately man handled me and I was kicked out of the club at about 2/3 in the morning. I had to walk back to my accommodation alone in a part of town where young men often go missing. All because this woman wouldn't stop trying to touch me inappropriately. Guys most women are good people but there are some that are just pure emotional manipulators and/or in my case (physical abusers). I am very lucky I didn't catch a case here. Stay safe and have your wits about you.
I learned quickly what a teenage girl can do when a fellow teacher was hauled away in handcuffs because one of them lied to get revenge for a bad grade.
Omg ...that's just 😶
false allegations exist because there’s no consequences for it. Women, who defame men should be put in a 72 hour holding facility or worse. Once word gets around it’ll eventually be minimized.
@whozabcjc yeah but if you make the punishment too high it will make it less likely for false accusers to confess their crimes. Sometimes that's the only way a man can prove his innocence especially when the courts are starting to deem us guilty before innocent
Worse the consequences the less likely it will happen
Yeah some of it is bad enough for jail time but depends on the situation
They should get the minimum sentence the man they falsely accused would have received. I’m saying that as a woman. A) don’t scream about how you’re independent, want equality , blah blah blah then shed the crocodile tears when you’re wrong. B) I have sons so I see things through a different lens bc of them.
And even if we as men are found to not have done anything wrong there is still that stigma that’ll follow you n may end up having life long effects
It’s disgusting the way people lie. That girl should be ashamed of herself. That could of really had a different outcome.
It happened to me as well
@@SaidMetiche-qy9hb Hope you're okay.
@@snapeinvader6208 Yeah it's fine, I also was attacked/hit and falsely accused by an old and fat woman once and I had done nothing wrong, when I was 17, I was crying
That girl should pay for it, legally. I mean just because you're a women doesn't mean you have the privilege to ruin a men's life
How could it been handled, Like what her goin to jail?. Prolly not, but thanks for the support 👏
When youre not accountable for your actions there’s a common trend where people always have an opinion That doesn’t matter or isn’t revelevant with 0% solution behind it. Yeah... as you hang of some dude...Very classy 😂 fuck outta here
I had a male friend, who worked at a school and he was always talking about how he had to be real careful, because these teenage girls would always flirt with him. If I were a man, I wouldn’t want to work anywhere near teenage girls!
I've had 3 false allegations, that I know of. One got me kicked out a hotel after a woman threatened to lie about me "beating her". I recorded everything on video from the moment she said that and tried to kick her out my hotel room. She screamed and started hitting herself.
I eventually, 2 hours later, got her out, but my reputation was so ruined, business connections lost, and even though I had video, men at the front desk that had come from my rooms STILL blamed me and said I was at fault.
They kicked me out 4 days later. In hindsight, I should have sued. But even that is only money. A woman's word is law in this day and age, even with overwhelming evidence.
I don't believe any allegation. I need proof. Women's stories of their daily situations as well almost always blames the other people anyway, that's how they talk. Not taking responsibility. When I got red pilled from that, I can never go back.
This doesn't include other situations of just randomly approaching women. It's like we can't do that anymore either. No reason, nor point to. If they "feel" something, that's enough.
I understand. I lost a close friend over nonsense like this. I was once told how my friend finally "went on a date" with a guy I knew (she ate at a restaurant at the same time the guy was eating there). He gave her a ride home and she invited him inside to have a few drinks. She says they slept together and started "seeing each other exclusively". She said it was one of the best nights of her life. He then informed her how he was intoxicated and wasn't trying to be in a relationship with her. She then got so mad that she started telling me he raped her that night. I kept reminding her how she told me it was the greatest night of her life but she said "that was before he broke my heart". That's when our friendship ended. I just couldn't believe she would try to ruin a good man's life because he didn't feel the same way as she did.
I'm a single father on disability... It's not easy but it sure as hell isn't as hard as the dating game these days!
My youngest son tries to hook me up with teachers at his school because, according to what he says, "crazy girls can't be teachers"😆
He sure has A Lot to learn about women as he grows up!
(Could use any help from those that have a heart...)
gf.me/u/ynqi9r
Aww. Your youngest son is such a sweet summer child.. It's cute, but please teach him before it's too late.
Well, technically speaking, since he was the one intoxicated here *he* was the one raped by her so...
@@haileyt857 the courts are gonna pretend they didn't see that 👀
That's sad bro
She tried you bro lol and you wasn't having it
nothing more sleezy than people who lie to harm others, its so evil.
"people"
@@kimbo5409 exactly lol. Not all "people" are treated equal in 2020.
Haahhahaha
Especially to feed their own ego.
bruh being 15 and watching this channel is eye opening af really goes to show how the world is more grey than people like to think
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@@abderrahimyoestoy3100 where tf do you think belgium is?
Yes it is in Europe 😊
Facts their videos are so insightful
Fuck yeah, girl! If everyone had your approach, we wouldn't be in half the messes we are. That open mind you got is a rare treasure these days.
me to
As someone falsely accused, this is something very true. False allegations are so much more common than 3%. It happens everywhere
I’d be interested in a source to back that up
Dalym you fucking idiot not everyone goes to the cops because they know they’ll be proven wrong, and even if they’re dumb enough to do so and do get proven wrong people will still believe them because women are perfect beings. Just ask yourself this if every women had the power to destroy a man’s life just by saying a few words you actually think only VERY few people would use it???
@@gnk-seriespowerdroid4405 it's basically impossible to investigate he said she said stories. At the most, both parties are either right or wrong. 3% is proven false claims, what if you cannot prove if it's true or not? Is that an automatic false claim or automatic true claim? 50% of claims are true or not so which party do you support and side with, the one making the claim or the one denying. So obvious that it's higher than 3% if you use logic and deductive reasoning. What if multiple friends accuse someone, also automatic truth right? Human beings are horrible with how we treat each other.
@@gnk-seriespowerdroid4405 I replied to you because you shouldn't waste time or energy on people like this. They ask for proof and will deny and bring counter proofs from illegitimate sites or studies. It's a fact that only 3% of claims are false.... lol.
@@lightkira4119 You kinda proved your own point but you don't know what it means. If you can't prove he said, she said stories, why is the assumption that it must be more than 3%? You do have to prove its more than 3% if that is your claim, regardless. A more correct stance is that we know 3% is false and we also know how many people are actually raped/assaulted, about 1/4 of women (not sure on exact stats, and not sure amount percentage of men and children). The rest are unknown.
And that my friends is why the saying “believe all women” is complete bs. Everyone lies about everything. You can listen, but wait for some type of evidence.
Pure facts
Yes!🙌🏽
Solid advice. It's common sense
What a weird concept
Stay single my dudes it's a trap
In middle school a girl accused me of staring at her cleavage during gym class. I stopped talking to her and interacting with her as much as possible and two weeks later she asked why I was avoiding her like really you going to ask me that. Get away from me.
She likes you and has issues and is dealing with both at the same time
Either attention seeking or she had issues or just can’t handle rejection
The nerve of that girl. She was afraid of people finding out she got turned down by Aba and she didn't want to look like a loser, so she wanted to destroy Aba's reputation for the sake of her ego and image.
Disgusting.
I almost lost my whole military career over a girl that played saying I tried to kill her. Saddest part. Is that I had concrete evidence that she lied and I still got in trouble. She definitely made fun of me and was very disrespectful to me. So my message to y’all is NEVER DELETE YOUR MESSAGES!!! KEEP YOUR RECEIPTS!!! I learned the hard way where I got rid of our messages cause I tried being done with her and that gave her all the power to spin whatever story she wanted.
Please be safe who you mess with.
Holy crap, that's fucked up
I no shit just finished the movie "Gone girl" with my wife and now I see this video.... wtf lol
Severely fucked
@Devil's Advocate you already playing it bro
@@Kernnichiwa nigga u is good 🤣🤣 just keep ya girl in check that's all
hmmmm
Cover the Conor McGregor situation, god that would be amazing. It’s this exact situation with the man having a terrible reputation of being a manipulator but he’s rich.
Amen to screen shot
Les gars Prudence Prudence Prudence
What is sad is fame has a bitter taste
People love victim blaming men when it’s a situation involving a woman
Outpatient therapy groups are PACKED with teenage girls. They are usually spoiled, entitled, white girls who've seemingly lived abuse free lives. They claim to have anxiety, depression, or PTSD because they can use it to get out of trouble. Even though PEW research claims that girls don't make false abuse accusations, a therapist once confided to me that she sees false allegations used as an "attention seeking device" ALL THE TIME. The false accusations that don't go anywhere just aren't recorded in any kind of data. You're really lucky this girl didn't claim you did more with her... maybe in 30 years, when you can't prove her false, she'll get on the news and claim something more happened.
Damned if you do, damned if you dont. The false accusation stories all over in these comments show that. You did the right thing
This is why I tell guys not to sleep around and know who a girl is before doing anything with her.
1) she could be crazy
2) she could be lying about her age
It's not just women who need to be careful men are just taking a different type of risk.
You guys are a voice for men who would be completely ignored or get into shit for trying to have a voice, because equality has left the chat a long time ago and double standards has taken residence.
i was prepping myself to watch this. i knew i would get heated. i am considerably older than both of you and i am certainly old enough to be that 17 yr old's mother. my first real experience with this type of thing was with my godson. about 5 years ago. it was proven false but the damage was done and he took his life. since then i have done all i can to be a voice for falsely accused and i am a sexual assault survivor. false allegations HURT EVERYONE. as a woman(and an honest one) women can be far more evil than folks give us credit for. when men get mad they pop off and explode. they might square up and then it's squashed or if they can talk out it, you talk it out. women on the other hand, seethe. we hold on to it and depending if we have a moral compass or not that building pressure can have some long lasting devastating effects. some women refuse to do any introspection and lose their bearing completely.
i want to be crystal clear about something: NOTHING YOU HAVE DONE ABA HAS BEEN AN INVITATION FOR THIS CRAZINESS. NOTHING. being a public figure does not give people the right to assume you owe them attention. you don't. you are a content creator. i respect both of you guys tremendously because you are honest no matter what may happen that doesn't mean you owe me anything. you don't. you guys could pack it up tomorrow and walk away. you both have the right to live your lives in peace and you are entitled to your privacy. i certainly hope you don't because your guys are a breath of fresh air in a world full of hyperbole, hysteria and bullshit. i just wanted you both to know that you have support and as exhausting as it can get, what you guys do with these commentary videos and the high level of integrity you both have is appreciated and very much needed.
anyone who claims "you brought this on yourself" need to be ignored. no one deserves to be victimized.
I'm very sorry to hear about your god son. A good friend of mine had his life destroyed by a woman who attacked him then claimed he started it. She had no marks on her, he had bruises all over from her beating the shit out of him. The courts sided with her. Insanity.
I'm so sorry about your godson :(
thank you. i was never blind to how evil us women can be but i was unaware the situation had become what we deal with now like the weaponization of metoo and title 9. i can not sit back and do nothing. for my kids, for everyone's kids. we can't leave a world like this for them. it sickens me that the manipulation and pure evil is starting earlier and earlier. never could i have imagined that a 17 year old girl could be so heartless and cruel.
2% of sexual assault allegations are false, 2%. With 98% of rape allegations being completely true, I don't know why anyone would try to make men be the victims here especially a sexual assault Survivor
@@chelseamarissa5683 the level of ignorance you just displayed is TERRORFYING. You aren't even in the ballpark. The amount of nationally known false accusations from the last 10 years alone nukes that 2% nonsense from orbit.
I am sorry someone fed you bullshit. I am sorry you are now weaponized ignorance.
I made it crystal clear after my god soon died I became pro-active. "Listen and believe" is the *HEIGHT* of injustice. Family and friends can do that but the public and most importantly the law must remain objective. I am only too happy to back my claims up. How about you?
Female rapists sit around 40-45% while male are 55-60% and that's only what has been reported. Since allegations have historically been measured differently than actual confirmed cases we will never know the true number. Just like we will never no the true number of all rapes.
The truth is what I care about. Aba is one of hundreds if thousands maybe even millions on the platform alone.
Your complete dehumanization of men and lack of any empathy is upsetting to say the very least.
If a person can destroy someone's life on a lie, then they should be demolished by the truth.
I wonder if this is what those trials in Salem were about?
It's not someone. It's WOMAN. No man can do this feat.
Key word being "should" but it don't pan out like that all the time sadly. When the damage is done and people have their mind set on what happened to even care about the truth afterwards then what do you do???
@@justinpearson9170
Sadly, you are right.
Unfortunately it seems that she will not have to pay for her hubris by way of a defamation suit in this matter as: no real damage had been done, a number of witnesses would be required for pursuit of the case, and the possibility of having timed out the statute of limitations.
However, others, who are fortunate enough to have evidence pertaining to wrongful accusations placed upon their person, would be wise to seek counsel immediately (lots of attorneys waiting for an easy case to satisfy their pro bono quota).
Furthermore, the institution of harsher penalties for false accusers, should be increased to a sort of reverse-double jeopardy, where the accuser is punished for the crime that they testified (or claimed) that another had done.
I get it...a lot of 'shoulds,' but if we don't act on punishing those who lie to harm, then it will continue to proliferate.
@@unfazedo True. No man could claim a woman raped him these days because men get belittled more than anything for it. But women who reject men get beaten or men gossip and tell others made up stories about girls like this trashy child did to Aba. It's not just about women and men; it's about vigilance. Because honestly, these days people are so egotistical that they would milk the power of their race or gender just to feel better about a bruised ego. I was literally her age when a guy Ada's used his authority as a teacher to assault me. I told my folks, they did nothing much. Shrugged their shoulders because people exploit their power over others in many ways. I have to live with what happened, just like he does.
That little brat should've walked away. Aba did nothing wrong, has his receipts and is living his best life. She's gonna have what she did on her conscience for years.
Edit: Nevermind. You're trying to convert people into MGTOW and I respect the hussel and expect you to not care about my comment since I'm too neutral so...have a good one, bud.
That’s crazy yooo, and I have a male friend where he’s had serious false allegations and yes it’s almost ruined his whole reputation! It’s awful n I feel u
Has he had more than one ?
@@cookie-sn5ex I would presume he got accused of multiple things by one person.
I hate liars whether it be men or women. I've had men lying about me and things they wish they did to me or females lying about what they saw or heard I did, and those types of things can have a serious impact on your self esteem and mental health which is something the liars will never understand.
As someone who was falsely accused, this hits home
what was their relationship with you when they falsely accused you? You don't have to answer of course but I'm curious as it's a scary situation. Anything you would do differently to protect yourself?
I broke up with my girlfriend because she was playing to many games and testing me so she made a rumor that a lashed out at her and yelled at her when I was calm and collected and simply said I’m not interested anymore. Sad world but it is what it is. :)
Yeah dude. It aint 3% whatever it really is. The first 2 false allegations in my youth made on me were provably false. Almost all the women I know claim to have been by someone. I don't know what is true in their cases. Yet how is this possible? Spoiler: its not! In war torn AFRICAN regions the incidence isn't even that high!
I knew a guy who was killed from that kind of lie.
@@jloren4647 Hum excuse me? You don't believe your own friends? Yes it is possible!! But men systemically feel entitled to sex and don't seem to understand boundaries (that's a systemic issue). Rape is extremely common amongst women, how could you know how it's like? And people assume the men saying they were falsely accused say the truth, but maybe it isn't? Not saying false accusations don't happen, but sexual aggression is part of most women's lives. And do you really think they have the whole data in those african regions, and that the women there all report their rape? Jesus.
@@CP-ko3xz ok first i wont argument about both of your statements about africa cause i dont know much about this specific topic and this is also not the reason i am answering you.
First of all "men systemetically feel entitled to Sex and dont seem to understand boundaries"
Oh Boy.
I would agree on that comment if you said some men, but as it is written i will Interpret it as most/all men (correct me if i am wrong but please make a Note in your comment or change it if my Interpretation is wrong)
I also have to say i live in germany so i dont know how it is in other countries, but from what ik from my circle of friends and people i know. Men including myself are hyperaware of boundaries cause we fear to make a miststep, we fear that we might emotionally hurt a female friend or stranger accidentaly or unbeknowm to us. Also there are woman as Well who dont get boundaries now should we assume all womans dont get boundaries? Of course not that would be stupid! so why should we do the opposite when it comes to men? Now to the entitled to sex part. I dont think that most men think that way a few yes but that a rather small percentage. If you are dating someone and get together with them and you two are together for some time then its normal for both Partners to want Sex may they be male or female. This is not entitled or anything this is something that would be expected of both sides like wise and if one Person wouldnt want any of that without a good reason (like they were raped and need longer until they could be that intimate with someone that's fine) then it would lead to a break up by the other side and here it doesnt matter if the Person is male or female that is true for both Sexes.
"and people assume the men saying they were falsely accused say the truth, but maybe it isnt?"
Uhm...
Lets make a different statement which uses the same structure
"And people assume the woman saying they were raped say the truth, but maybe it isnt?"
That would be outragous. Same for yours. We have to believe both rape accusations and accudations of false accudations the same. Ofc the other side is innocent until proben other wise that goes without saying. But such a mindest that hey they are lying until they can prove it is dangerous for the victims. And yes people who werent raped dont know how its like but dont assume that just woman get raped. But the same can be said for getting falsely accused how would someone who never got falsely accused of sth like this know how it feels like?
Ok last part
"Not saying false accudations dont happen, but Sexual Aggression is Part of most womans lives."
I get what you mean but pls dont use "but" there it gives of the feeling like "yes false accusations happen but it aint much of a deal since for most woman experience Sexual Aggression" these two thing should t be compared they both hurt emotionally and mentally both can and will destroy lifes so why would you put one down with the other?
It may Sound fine to you with these things but lets use something else for a Moment.
I will use the same structure as you again btw.
"I am not saying that men dont get raped, but more woman get raped"
We have again sth that destroyed a Person but your Word "but" makes it seem like one matter less because there is another Problem. We should focus on both not just on one. Both are Problems that are happening in higher number than we know both are terrible both destroy people lifes so why the hell would we talk down one problem like this. Even if you didnt meant it like that just such a simple sentence can carry a huge messages so pls if you didnt mean it like i understood it then pls for the love of god if you comment on such a topic again pls thing a bit more about how such a sentence sounds and what unwanted implications it might carry.
Edits: typing and grammar mistakes lemme know if i made some that i didnt found yet
@C P ?? Your female entitlement and privilege and flawed female logic is showing.. get your head out your arse please
Word. Happened to me when I briefly taught high school Anatomy and Physiology. All sorts of crazy rumors were started by a few girls that were not passing my class. I refused to give them credit for work they didn’t turn in and in return, they created rumors that led to several problems. I left the teaching field after moving from high school to middle school and spending two weeks as a Science teacher. Middle school girls are sexual predators.
I only just started watching this channel a few weeks ago and what astounds me is just how morally corrupt the general population is. Not only that, but I am coming across people who not only make me question the society they grew up in but how can they justify it as acceptable and even an honorable way to live. This channel has broadened my horizon in regards to how people in different parts of the world live and how different cultures work, even though it is mainly Western.
Both of you have been providing invaluable insight that would take one person living multiple lives for a few centuries to gain. One of the benefits of having social media is, as Aba says coming into contact with people outside of your circle.
Virtue is its own reward. Vice is its own punishment.
I was falsely accused of rape back in 2009 scared the shit out of me. In today's world I'd die.
Bro...
That shit is scary as fuck. I had the same happen in '06 because I refused to sleep with a chick. Started telling all her friends and family I raped her. So I pre-empted it all and called the police myself. Took her a couple weeks to admit it was a lie. Almost ended my military career.
munky342 That's nuts. I can't imagine where someone's head needs to be to ruin a person's life like that. We are grown ass adults, fucking act like one. 🙃
When it comes to females, never delete your texts. Even if u gotta save them for years, save them. And don't f**k or flirt with ur coworkers. As men we gotta stay conscious of how some women behave and don't handle rejection, and when they start spreading rumors we gotta have a record of our interaction (or lack of interaction) as backup.
💯🗣🗣
Y'all fr be acting like "females" are a different species, not every woman is out to get you, you can flirt with your coworker or whoever you want as long as you've known eachother for a long time or are good friends
@@penelopeq9749
Speaking personally, the idea of dating a coworker gives me anxiety. I prefer to keep my personal and work life separate for the sake of maintaining professionalism and job focus. When coworkers try to flirt with me I consider it a sign of irresponsibility. If u have time to flirt, u have time to work.
I don't need a girl in my life who's not a hard worker.
@@darkdork1012 Sure but no coworker is gonna falsely accuse you just because of rejection or something
@@penelopeq9749
That is sooooo not true. I recently made the mistake of taking a coworker out and I ignored all the red flags like an idiot. She chased me like crazy. She started going to the gym at times she'd know I'd be there and always workout in the same areas I worked out in. At first I thought nothing of it and ignored her figuring she just happens to have the same workout schedule as me and happens to wanna use the equipment that I happen to be by, so I'd ignore her and focus on my workout. When she realized I was never gonna talk to her she basically got in my face and forced me to talk to her. Tbh I was flattered so I gave her my number so we could text and I took her on a few dates. She turned out to be needy as hell and we had nothing in common (I never slept with her fyi), so I told her that I felt we weren't compatible and should just stay friends. She's still chasing me. I'm goth so she dyed her hair to try to match my aesthetic (she failed lol), she wants to message constantly and wants to come to my apartment. There's more red flags and tbh she scares the hell outta me now. I'm afraid if I block her she's gonna make up stories about me and spread rumors at work, cos she's made stuff up about other coworkers before. So all I can do is keep playing nice until she quits and moves on.
It's a life lesson I'm not gonna forget lol
Every man needs a friend like Preach; saving the evidence for Aba! That’s some real homie shit 💯
That explains to me why celebrity date celebrity. I thought it was only about social class/money but the fact that they can relate to the pressure and know that their public image is not the same as their private life.
Strange something here, actually got fired from a job and had to go to court for it. I went to a female judge and all eyes looked at me with so much content I felt like shouldn't of left out of there alive. The woman had so many holes in her story because she didn't think my lawyer would have the original complaint. I didn't even have to sit in the witness chair to testify. So of course the case was dismissed. While she goes free and me without that job.
Sorry about that man must be terrible, especially when the case gets dismissed anyway( the company probably got rid of you to save their name and everyone else in the company probably believed you did it, whatever she claimed). Similar thing with me, case got dismissed cause it was nonsense, I was still kicked out of my university student residence and the girl lives on. Luckily I’m still in the university overall. And I’m lucky for that.
Did you file a suit on the company? If they discriminated against you over a false allegation that shit can go to the courtroom and get settled “out of court for an undisclosed amount of money”.
@@joshuagrahamisholy1812 Do it. You had to fight to prove your innocence. Now fight for your unjust firing.
Dear Lord Jesus, I know that I am a sinner, and I ask for Your forgiveness. I believe You died for my sins and rose from the dead. I turn from my sins and invite You to come into my heart and life. I want to trust and follow You as my Lord and Savior. In Your Name. Amen. x c
Someones dad said in a comment
Him: why do men die mostly before women?
Dad: because we want to.
._.?
Amazon women on the moon is hilarious
@Gerry C the thing is that shit is true thought once we are get a fake claim on us our life as men are done so we end up taking our lives cuz of it
I know I am late to the party but I wanted to share my story. In sophomore year i was never too popular in my class so im sure this didn't help, but a girl I had in only one of my classes and had never even uttered a word to spread a vague rumor that I raped her. There were no details, no location, no story or elaboration at all, she just said 3 words and my highschool life was ruined till the end senior year. I lost out on tons of dates with that being the exact cited reason, friends left me over it, and she only got pity points and new friends. She had just come to the school not long before, and went from outcast to popular girl in a day, over lies. I repeatedly asked to talk to the principal and admin about it but was denied for 2 years until they caved and brought her in to talk about it. The principal pressed her, she cried, apologized half assedly, and the principal looked me in the eyes and said, so that's it then... nothing changed, she admitted it but only behind closed doors...
Wtf ?!?!?! Ur principal needs his ass kicked...and this bitch needs jail
@@itzAurora_Xoxo realistically there wasn't much he could have really done looking back, as for her, there is nothing in law that says lying is illegal, and the damage isn't reversible so im not shocked she got off scot free. Funny to see people who used to chill with me still talking to her years later 🤷♂️
I wish she had to issue a public apology. Sorry bro
@@Janary08 I appreciate it, it's been a long while now and I'm mostly over it, things are looking up
In high-school I had two separate occasions where girls claimed some shit happened when it fact it was the complete opposite. Luckily the internet was young and there was pretty much zero social media. Now I have no social media what so ever aside from CZcams comment section.
One crazy chick said that I followed her up the stairs and tried to get in the bathroom when she was using it when really what happened is someone was in the downstairs bathroom and I went upstairs and knocked on the bathroom door.
The other was my friends GF who followed me to a house party and kissed me. I pushed her away. She said I followed her and I kissed her. Hard to prove otherwise but I know what happened.
I’ve got three sisters , and they all lie to get their way . They are taught it from a young age .
Todays video is a little different. We shot this a little spontaneously but it is something that we worry about so voila! If this was you, youre in this situation. How do you react ,what can you do if anything? Let us know your thoughts.
I would use kamehameha
Bitches be crazy 🤦🏽♀️
Women trippin nowadays🤦🏽♂️
Aye aba that comeback for the student was FUCKING FIRE BRUH!! Im over here crying lmao she holding that L to this day
Did she go to Amber heard school? Hehe believe all women... 🙈
The scariest thing I was told was “your a man no one will believe you”. With everything she’s fine and I have been stuck in therapy for 7 years now. No I have been in it due to why she has done to me. I hate that people would say men can’t go through this or that.
Exactly what Amber Heard said to Johnny Depp over the phone conversation he secretly recorded. Now she speaks at metoo movements to empower women.....
@@jongraves3097 She's a disgrace
@@jongraves3097 and now Johnny lost his role in Fantastical Beasts...
@@daitensai3856 Amber keeps her role in Aquaman cause that’s equality in America today.
You’ll get through this tenno
Happened to a friend of mine, because he wouldn't give an underage girl a cigarette. She warned him, your going to regret it and accused him of rape. She called the cops and said he rape her. It wasn't after he did 5 years that she confessed. He lost his career and now it has a criminal record. Can't get a job.
That’s messed up
man, i had watched this before, but something similar happened recently that I can relate to this video more. I work in retail while in college, and a co-worker asked me out to dinner while we were casually talking. I was taken aback(definitely not used to being approached) and so i fucked up by not declining instantly, but I instead ignored the question and changed subject, then eventually left. About a month later, I find out the rumor is that I asked her out, and got rejected. And that I asked someone to ask her out for me, and that she was 16. I was/still am stressing out about it, cause i'm a 25 year old male, been in a long term relationship for the past 7 years, and the fact that it seemed like I approached a minor. and the rumor itself rang high school drama. I still debate if I should quit and get another job since this person and I still work there, and I don't know how to approach the situation, cause I feel that if I bring it up to higher ups, it'll be her word against mine, and i feel my word won't be taken into consideration as much. I refuse to get phone numbers and social media from co-workers, male or female, and so I don't have "receipts" since I wanted to avoid things like this to begin with.
I think maybe you should relocate to another store, or look for another job elsewhere.....I say this because it's only a matter of time of this situation being brought to the forefront by HER, I'm sorry to say, but she isn't "done" with you just yet, I wouldn't trust her motives....just because she hasn't said anything else doesn't mean she isn't scheming...... I think that you should just leave
No, stand up for yourself. Ignoring your problems may make it worse. People are gonna use their biases to make you out to be someone you're not, so go to the manager, stand up for yourself and say what happened from your side. Get a lawyer, and if you feel like you can't handle that work place then leave. All the best man.
What kinda store is it? Im curious
Got falsely accused too, that change everything for me. Im 6f2, 250lbs. In court, ill be guilty before even talking. It got in my head so much that today, if im walking in my town and cross the path of a lonely girl, Ill cross the road to be far away just so she can"t be affraid for no reason.
Strangely same with the crossing the road thing. Lots of my friends say I look like a pedophile because I'm large chubby and really dark skinned. In general it's made me feel like I'm a really scary figure and prefer to cross the road when I see a woman pass by
I dont wanna play the race card but, this is how it feel for my older brother who lives in a mostly white neighborhood.
And he ain't even black, just a dark skinned hispanic.
I'm sorry really. Actually most big & tall guys I now are the sweetest people. They wouldnt hurt anyone.
At my job 2 years ago, I started this fling with this girl that also worked there. Everything was great but our co workers started noticing how flirty we were to each other at work. Not anything intentional, but reflecting back it was obvious. They started asking her questions about it, and to save face, she built this narrative that I was trying hard to get with her and she was just being nice and didn’t want to be mean and reject me. She didn’t want anyone to know I was involved with her, so she denied everything when she was the one that made the first move on me!!! She even said I would cruise around her home late at night to see what she was doing! That’s BOGUS and the messed up part is I didn’t know any of this until after I quit my job and one of the co workers told me about it. I always wondered why I got weird looks at work, they thought I was some creep stalker. It’s crazy how some of these women can spin the narrative and everyone believes it!
Edit: The reason why that co worker never told me about it until after I quit was because she didn’t know me too well and she regretted that she ever believed the other girl. I never delete messages for these exact types of reasons
Something kinda like that happened to me but not as bad.
It was just with online friends. I unfollowed one of them, then they lied to a bunch of people saying I was stalking her and her friends.
I didn't learn about this until 2 years later. In the middle of that, we started talking again because people were saying shit like "oh you two just need to make up". I was like, sure, since I didn't know she was a vile sack of rotting colons at the time.
I can't believe people said "you two need to make up" after she publically slandered me and ruined a few friendships. No one thought to fucking tell me.
They can all go to hell for all I care. I have real friends now.
urgh that's not nice
I ALWAYS keep my receipts. Sometimes they are worth more than the "purchase"! Shit is scary bro
Sounds like some jealous Jezebel spirits who got to her and twisted the narrative. They definitely weren't her friends.
Those people that follow the liars are called Flying Monkeys. They do whatever the wicked witch says and do all her dirty work when she wants to take a break from getting her hands messy. They are not to be trusted either
There used to be a question - " Would you rather be rich or famous." Give me the cash and anonymity every time.
This is the first comment I have left on one of y’all’s videos ( I love all y’all’s videos) but as a wife and mother the fear of watching the two most important males in my life get accused of something scares me. I hate women who want to play the victim when it’s their crazy actions that started situations. They will put men in between a rock and a hard place. Then when the man fights back they play the victim. I’m honestly scared for my son’s future in the world if we keep just believing in very woman’s word without investing the accusations.
You know it's a cray-cray person when they insult you after you turned them down.
Desdemona big facts
@@GodhandPlusOne men are conditioned to cope with rejection
@@GodhandPlusOne Men do that all the time, when women don't respond positively to catcalling, for example.
@@GodhandPlusOne Don't make it a women issue. It's an insecure person issue.
Some women have never recieved rejection so they act entitled or they reject men to boost their ego
If at first u don’t succeed... lie and say u were kidding
@SoggyShrimp "" "" "roast" "" ""
Let's not forget that's a teenage girl. Most of the roasting is the mean girl typical shit.
Aba: You know what's wild?
Me: What?
Aba: ...
*video ends*
Me: ._.
This is terrifying and so are some of the stories in the comments .
My brother was in the Navy, and a chick he worked with kept sexually harrassinghim. He was married to my gorgeous sister in law. So he kept turning that coworker down.
Well this woman, who was a fellow sailor, got her ego hurt and lied and said he was the one sexually harrassing her.
He was DISCHARGED from the Navy.
Then after it was said and done she was laughing to other people on the ship about it ,that she didnt know was his friends, and said how she lied. She was making fun of what she had done. But it was honestly too late and he didn't want to go through all that again.
It's so sad.
Why can't people just accept a no and move on. Like not everybody is going to like you.
I also know a female who lied about being sexuallyassaulted by her best friends husband . I believed her as soon as she told me but then later when she was intoxicated she laughed and said how she "fucked her friends husband". And just regretted it because it ruined the friendship.
Like What the actual hell man.
Don't blame you, Aba.
Cut social media 10 years ago. Never looked back.
Dribbling words in a comment section as a pig is a lovely inbetween, but I'd drop it whenever for sunshine and privacy.
you say you cut SM but aren't we social here?
Thanks mister pig for staying politically neutral.
You're one adorable pig!
Dat pig is dope ..
@@GodhandPlusOne still YT is social media
Your voices are important. We need voices giving the men's perspective that can't be so easily dismissed.
Dude fat, old, skinny, fit, young, whatever u are as a man this is a real issue. Just the power to ruin mans social, work, life
Society today is leaning to female rights and the woke shit so hard that mens rights can be dismissed even without them saying anything.
I feel bad for y'all, y'all be some good people, I can't even imagine what comes with your job though, but I want y'all to know you make me laugh at my lowest sometimes and I appreciate that!
i like how a certain girl started calling me ugly and creepy out of nowhere after I ignored her flirting and chose her friend over her
We as a society are aware of the ways women, young and old, can be toxic. And yet, we refuse to acknowledge it and continue treating them like they can do no wrong. We are aware of the ways men can be vulnerable. And yet, we treat them with suspicion and contempt. We allow women to abuse, hurt, and take advantage of men, all while zealously being on the look out for sexual harassment and abuse. No! Not all women are like this. But the fact is the ones that are can get away with this stuff. So, I see no reason to trust them.
The best part is that they then give masculinity a title of being toxic and refuse to acknowledge that femininity can also be toxic as well
@@capo4ever334 it's almost like anyone can be toxic
The dislikes are from people who’s marriage proposals were denied
I've had a similar situation; one where some girls who were in the same large social scene as me spread some nasty rumors (and they were of THIS nature; IDGAF if someone says some random mean comments about me lol, but these types of rumors by themselves are dangerous, especially if used by multiple women); I've also been falsely accused of r*pe. that one still gets me heated + it's a long story so I'd rather not go into detail.
fast forward a few years later when I started doing political activism; the opposing side took the opportunity to use both situations against me (though neither had any evidence whatsoever).
it really be like that lads; i've kind of just checked out from it all now. no interest in dating, politics or most social interactions. just gaming/working out/traveling/hobbies and of course building a stable, successful and most importantly QUIET life away from social media and toxic people.
There should be a parody of #metoo, but it’s called #mentoo, and talks about men’s fake accusations and perhaps sexual assault from women
Edit: guys when I said parody, I meant it would start as a joke but it would be serious
agreed
That’s not a parody.
Make that NOW, post it somewhere NOW. That is actually gold
Definitely as a female I'd like that
Let’s make this a thing. Although it wouldn’t be a parody. Just men’s side of the story.
The problem is the rumor. Even when there is evidence to the contrary, people don't find out. They spread the original rumor. Ask yourself how many people still think Johnny Depp is an abuser, because they heard it somewhere, and tell it to other people. The initial outrage is more interesting than the following info that straightens out the situation.
It's not the fact they don't find out it's that they can't be asked to find out. I was falsely accused a while ago and my friends never looked into it or had my back when all the evidence was there that I wasn't even in the same room, alone, with the woman. Everybody disowned me without even looking at the facts. They just want to be apart of the outrage culture.
@@christopherdrohan8245 You find out who your real friends are when you need them to back you. A real friend would either asume you hadn't done it, or asked you to give your story.
@@christopherdrohan8245 that's how they do it, especially if you're a man
To be fair though, I think Johnny and Amber be beating each other ass. So no I don’t feel it’s one sided like most people. I just think Johnny and that other girl were abusive to each other cause drugs involved.
Melo Drama I feel like Johnny was more emotional abusive and amber was just outright physically abusive
Receipts now a days are more important than the word of somebody. That’s just sad
I thought it was always that way.
Are you dumb or stupid
It’s always been that way fucking idiot
so it’s sad that proof is more important?
People lie, proof doesn't.
I discovered you guys a couple days ago hut I immediately knew y'all two are authentic people and then when I saw how you discussed narcissism it really cemented it for me. Sounds to me this could have been a video over that very subject to one degree or another.
But you two are doing something great and i respect the desire to walk away from all the self-centered, insecure attention that your positive, constructive critical thinking attracts and threatens these types of people.
I dont want to say that is the war you two fight but it is the world we live in so please keep being confident in your wisdom, integrity and self-mitigating bias or awareness because that is the most important thing. It really is among what the world needs most right now. That healing philosophy.
And to be a little challenging, that girl who waited to say she knew your work and was a fan after she came back to your place and the bed... I mean, that is restraint right? Idk, I guess i am curious what you think the acceptable play by a woman who knows would be.
Cause honestly, my whole life I thought that wanting fame is weird af for most of the same reasons y'all went over. Anonymity is the most absolute freedom there is... To me ;p. So this is really interesting to hear how y'all deal with what I can only imagine. Cause fame can make you sick and apparently it attracts sick people. And healthy people to be fair. All people! Haha there we go. Like I'm a 33 good looking in-shape white guy in Houston and have stayed clear of dating apps my whole life. Hell! I just got my first smart phone a year ago haha! I am not trying to know alot of people or have alot of people know me.
Thumbs up and subscribed, fam. This channel is alive with the truth and I'm vibing with it.
The curse of fame. I just watched Audrey Hepburn's bio, her greatest happiness came from moving somewhere where no one treated her like a celebrity. If I ever bump into you guys, I'll try to be one who says, "keep up the good work" and moves on.
The problem is people really feel they like and know you, and forget that you don't know us from Adam's off-uncle. It's like the children's show host who met a little fan and asked his name. The answer: "What, you come into my house every day and don't know my name?!" People are like that.
Friend: “Hey dude, heard you kissed my ex.”
Me: “Huh?”
Friend: “My ex said you two hung out and kissed.”
Me: “You mean the girl I politely told I had a girlfriend and never spoke to again?”
Friend: “Oh.. yeah.”
I still remember this over a decade later.
Damn.You spittin' the reality..
Your homie wild for this.
Smh people wildin
I always loved that growing up… “My ex said this this and that“… You mean the person that you have drama with and broke your heart and that’s why you left them? Hmmm 🤔
Something like that happened to me when I was 16 or so. A friend and I were walking around and talking. A girl was sitting in front of a bakery and said "Hi". We politely said "Hi" and went along, not paying any further attention.
Later she sent her boyfriend to us, telling him, we harassed her. He threatened us, stalked us and so on.
Now, multiple decades later, thanks to the internet, I know this is also happening to other guys.
A lady I'm friends with was living with a toxic abusive daughter, things got so bad that daughter threaten the lady's life, she called the police but the daughter puts her victim act. One day we caught her red handed abusing her mother so I help the lady and talk some real sense into the daughter (i did not hit her I i pulled her away from her mother) she got so mad she left the house for good and lived at her sugar daddies apartment. After another friend told me her daughter been spreading rumors that I hit her and I'm sleeping with her mother ( my friend). And she has a habit of spreading dangerous allegation to people she don't like. STAY AWAY FROM THESE WOMEN
That point you need to start saying shes got stds and shit.
And was it true where you dating her mother? Lol sorry could not let it go.
Fck you, seriously
Bruh really said "I don't need data - I don't need voice call, I just need a phone that works." What the hell does the phone do, then, Aba? 😂😂
How would someone believe the girls story? Imagine. A 26 year old man asks someone to prom. Bro wouldn’t even be able to get in. People’s minds are a little too easy to implant false information in.
Dumb, this is a good example of dumb and vicious. 😒
It's funny because it shows how a teenager thinks. They assume prom is the end all be all for everyone since it's the most important thing in their life. If a grown man was trying to smash he'd want to isolate her.
The way she twisted the situation in her favor and made Aba look bad, all cause he didn’t go to prom w her.. 🤢🤮
Sometimes people are trifling
Didn't matter what Aba said, it would've been used against him. Only way out of this situation is to never walk into it in the first place by ignoring the DM.
DISGUSTING!!! CUT HER WEAVE OFF
@@solidsnake5644 Nah...I could see her doing the same thing if he never replied. Either way it's a blow to her fragile ego and thus an excuse to take that out on him.
@@IzzySarru She could've still done it, but is less likely to do so because she wasn't directly rejected.
The "believe all women" crowd not gonna like this one.
Percentage of narcs and psycopaths in both men and women population is about the same, 30%. So "believe all women" is real BS.
@@viquiben4919
Uh, it's narcs and sociopaths, not psycopaths. Psycopaths, by definition, tend to be very smart, so they are outliers. Sociopaths, however, do not need to be. At least 40% of the people I see walking around under the age of 30 are straight up narcs and/or sociopaths.
You know it.
@Benjamin Muller I'm sure you & I share the same view(s), but I'm not tryna to read all that.
@Benjamin Muller I did read all that and understand you.
Aba & preach literally ran in to a person who said "false accusations happen very rarely" it was so hard not to throw my phone
WTF did I just read?? 😂 That person had to be trolling, “I’m his missing piece.” 😂😂
I had this shit happen in my freshman year of high school, though it wasn't a false rape allegation.
Back in my freshman year, our high school was actually cool. I forgot what they called it, but they had several nights where they set up projectors and food vendors, and they let you either play video games, or watch movies. It was a kick ass thing our school did. Of course I'm there, playing games and chilling with friends, when I needed to go to the bathroom across campus, so I go, and I noticed I was being followed by 2 cheerleaders. I thought little of it, as maybe they needed to use the bathroom too. I go to the bathroom, do my business, and come out to find cops waiting for me. I get put in handcuffs, and the cops explained to me that this one cheerleader had been receiving death threats from someone via text , and she had no idea who, and I guess since I looked a certain way, I was labeled as the one doing it. Cops are basically hounding me, saying why would I do it, (they brought up me getting rejected by her as motive), and one could tell I didn't do it (or he just felt guilty), as he said I mightve just been in the wrong place at the wrong time. They had to go through my phone, and I had to repeatedly state I've never interacted with any cheerleader, and would never murder someone over something as stupid as a rejection.
Towards the end I'm being let out of handcuffs, and the cops believe I wasn't the one who did it, but they are now explaining some new restrictions I have:
I was never to be on campus after 3:30pm (this one I didn't really care about, I had marching band practice till 5pm, so if anyone had issue with that my band teacher would handle it.)
I couldn't partake in any school related activities anymore. Basically I couldn't go to any sports games, dances etc.
And finally I was basically told I had to limit who I can interact with.
All this, because I was believed to be the one that might kill a cheerleader. I was never apologized to, never approached by said cheerleader to explain her side. Thankfully when it happened it didn't spread to the whole school, so my reputation was still in tact.
Though needless to say, after that event I stopped talking and associating with women/girls in general.
Long comment I'm sorry, I'm not good at TLDRs.
I’m so angry this happened to you
That’s so fucked up
This sounds traumatic af, sorry
Jesus fucking christ.
So you were punished because the girls basically lied? Those girls should’ve been thoroughly investigated because false accusation… That’s a crime. And if it was true and it was just a matter of mistaken identity then this definitely should’ve been investigated further because whoever actually did that to those girls is still running around.
This is why Justin Beiber kept his receipt. You guys better start doing the same thing, even if you bought a sweet from a local shop
Nah now you’re mocking it 😂
I'm a 34 year old dutch guy. i realy like your videos! keep it up! i'm on the other side of the world. but it relate feels like you guys could be my friends. for real. all the things u guys say. i realte to most of it. just being normal human beings. thats what makes u guys big. being normal. i love it!
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I can totally relate. While I was teaching down in México, the principal decided to start a rumor that I was hitting boys and molesting little girls, just to kick me out because he wanted his friend to take over my position and since most parents liked me, he knew it was going to be difficult. I faced him as a man and forced him to make a public announcement and apologize for his crap, but even though some people got it, most didn't. So eventually I had to move. Luckily for me, this was before the internet was big. But rumors can bring a lot of crap, I can't even begin to imagine the consequences if this had happened nowadays. People are stupid.
In middle school I had a “girlfriend”, we were young, it was quick and not real. Nothing serious happened between us. In high school when I was a freshmen, I heard from a close friend that told me that that same ex gf was spreading rumors that I tried to rape her. If you knew me and my history but getting sexually abused as well, you would highly disagree with that allegation. For a year I had a fear that I would get in trouble and people coming up too me saying I was an awful human being. Luckily in sophomore year she had a mental freak out and accursed two other boys of the same thing. People finally realized that my ex gf was really my crazy ex. I got legit pstd and issues approaching and trusting women from that fucked up scenario. My ex didn’t get any punishment or felt no remorse for that false allegation. This type of bull shit gotta stop. Never really told too many people about this because the first reaction they get from hearing the first part of the story is negative and sometimes people won’t have that negative view of me change so I don’t like putting this out but since you talk about this issue here’s my story. False allegation is a real fucked up thing.
Macario D. It won’t stop until there are real consequences for their behavior. Whether through the legal system or some other means. They need to be afraid.
That's fucked up bro, so she just said that shit for no reason from out of nowhere, man people do the weirdest shit
Macario D. Dude I’m so grateful I came across your comment. I had the exact some thing happen to me and man and it really sucked and drained the life outta me. Ik it just a comment but it makes me feel not alone and that I’m not the only person that have been through this
Yha because school love doesn't match what adult love is. Like I always think school love is fake cause it's a way to lose your V card and grow older and think what you did in highschool will still reply as an adult.
I went through something like. The most hard part it's the PSTD one, i still can't fully trust in any women these days. Funny thing it's that we are men so we can't be "weak", so we must be just bitching about this. CMON MAN ITS JUST A FALSE ALLEGATION HAHA
Just imagine what an A List male celebrity goes through.
Jian Ghomeshi. Look up his tale of woe, false accusations and a conspiracy to try and put him in jail for decades.
Thankfully he was found not guilty.
A List in Canada, but a "WTF" situation for him.
I know it’s quite not the same but it remembers me of that time Michael B. Jordan received backlash from black women for being spot with a white woman on vacation
@@davelawson03
I hadn't heard that before, but it does not surprise me at all.
The same thing was said about Clarence Thomas during his confirmation hearings.
From what I heard, a lot of black women supported him but then quickly turned when they learned he was married to a white woman.
Thank you so much for this information. As a woman I never realized that's what goes on and it's very unfair. As much as we scream women's rights, we should not undermine what men go through.
Woah those DMs were on a whole other level of psycho!!!
But they are actually fun to read though ... you can feel the cringe flowing through your body as you read it