I Saw The Most Popular Indian TV Serial That Will Frustrate & Confuse You! | Anupamaa

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  • čas přidán 26. 10. 2021
  • One of the most watched shows of the country today is the Star Plus show #Anupamaa starring #RupaliGanguly in the title role. A show with over 400 episodes comes across as seemingly progressive but the journey to get there has been tiresome and frustrating. I hope you like the Anupamaa Review & Analysis.
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  • @abhishek1978
    @abhishek1978 Před 2 lety +9185

    If there is an Indian version of Squid game one of the task would be to watch an Indian serial without skipping

    • @Azx12345
      @Azx12345 Před 2 lety +826

      That's slow death which is more dangerous unlike squid game 🤣

    • @ayushman7428
      @ayushman7428 Před 2 lety +140

      "I'm dead"

    • @aries11111
      @aries11111 Před 2 lety +32

      🤣

    • @TriedRefusedProductions
      @TriedRefusedProductions  Před 2 lety +1957

      the challenge being you can't cringe! If spotted by the robot doll, ITS OVER!

    • @abhishek1978
      @abhishek1978 Před 2 lety +51

      @@TriedRefusedProductions 🤣🤣🤣

  • @yashikamahajan6691
    @yashikamahajan6691 Před 2 lety +867

    The horrible thing is that a women is noble and deserving and right till she's sacrificing constantly for her husband and family

    • @SwathiY2024
      @SwathiY2024 Před 2 lety +37

      And in return she Always gets All the pain, hardship, and responsibilities ..
      Now a days there is a concept going on Star plus that You have to share your husband with another woman too😬🤦🙄 that is the basic story line of the show?? Pathetic
      These serial writers/ makers needs a psychiatric treatment 🙄 Really

    • @mitalig222
      @mitalig222 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes

    • @neelamkhatarker1594
      @neelamkhatarker1594 Před 2 lety +19

      That is what they want to show...what kind of problems she goes through her life...my mom relates to that serial alot because she'd also faced similar kind of problems...how this society and her family dominates a woman...

    • @parikhan6599
      @parikhan6599 Před 2 lety +1

      You have a very negative mindset

    • @SleepIntoTheDiamondLife
      @SleepIntoTheDiamondLife Před 2 lety

      @@parikhan6599 she has a realistic mindset.

  • @cindybarretto
    @cindybarretto Před 2 lety +275

    I think the way to look at Anupama is that her character is a classic example of grooming. She got married at a really young age I'm assuming when she was around 18 years old. Probably was always thought as a young child to always respect your elders and not back answer your in laws. As a young girl got groomed by her in laws that she is nothing more than a servant and a child bearer. I mean there are many people who have gone through endless grooming and abuse but will stand with their abuser.

    • @royalkumar795
      @royalkumar795 Před 2 lety +9

      Only Anupama is better and everything on cable TV is garbage , I'm watching TV because of anupama TV serial

    • @cindybarretto
      @cindybarretto Před 2 lety +3

      @@royalkumar795 same haha🤣

    • @nehalulla2764
      @nehalulla2764 Před rokem +6

      Yaa her own mother told her not to talk to anyone in college and her husband and mil were very manipulative

  • @resham788
    @resham788 Před 2 lety +1268

    Only thing I can conclude from this review is that Jammy had a healthy househould, and haven't experienced toxic parenting or abuse. I'm glad things like these never happened to you. I wish it never happens in future too.

    • @rtiripshi4432
      @rtiripshi4432 Před 2 lety +1

      Kali zuban!🥶😡

    • @resham788
      @resham788 Před 2 lety +66

      @@rtiripshi4432 Not kaali zuban. I really wish him or anyone the best.

    • @dolphien1397
      @dolphien1397 Před 2 lety +41

      @@rtiripshi4432 😂 kuch bhi? 😂

    • @dharmveerbhadoriya9773
      @dharmveerbhadoriya9773 Před 2 lety +1

      @@resham788 did you face

    • @user-ty8em8cd6e
      @user-ty8em8cd6e Před 2 lety +56

      And from your comment, I guess you have faced your parents fighting like this.... Don't worry friend, work on yourself and be financially independent, Its important

  • @prakritinegi5333
    @prakritinegi5333 Před 2 lety +699

    It's really sad though that the women like Anupama who are a bit naive and kind gullible are still what people want women to be. Like around me everybody gives compliments for being a 'seedhi saadhi ladki' whereas a smart woman who stands up for herself is always taken as shrewd and somebody who steps on others to move forward in life.

    • @varsha5250
      @varsha5250 Před 2 lety +61

      Exactly and still daily soaps Making them an ideal role model for women is what makes me angry like no your female lead can do wrongs too she can have flaws too and she can have her shortcomings yet she can be strong .

    • @srushtipatil459
      @srushtipatil459 Před 2 lety +16

      Yes exactly every daily soap shows this kind of mentality

    • @prakritinegi5333
      @prakritinegi5333 Před 2 lety +30

      @@varsha5250 Right!!!
      In these shows it's like if a female character makes mistakes she cannot be forgiven, she is now believed to be the biggest evil who won't ever do anything wrong and if they are good they have to be people pleasers and really submissive(repressed).
      But when a male character even purposely is destroying lives he is shown as someone who just lost track but is basically a good human. Like in Anupama many times we see that sometimes Vanraj is guilty and still into Anupama.
      I don't think it might happen but I just hope that they don't do something like making Anuj actually a bad character and Vanraj's redemption and then him and Anupama together again or something because so many times in shows it actually happens.🥲

    • @varsha5250
      @varsha5250 Před 2 lety +10

      @@prakritinegi5333 kachra mindset and nothing else

    • @captain4595
      @captain4595 Před 2 lety +3

      The Bengali serial is more cringe

  • @devashreekamble699
    @devashreekamble699 Před 2 lety +1639

    This really shows the mentality of our society.Many people believe that
    Women should have self respect but in limits.Anything beyond that is a direct question on her character and morals

    • @TriedRefusedProductions
      @TriedRefusedProductions  Před 2 lety +475

      freedom but according to what i think is acceptable. WAAH

    • @supriyak7901
      @supriyak7901 Před 2 lety +104

      @@TriedRefusedProductions The harsh truth is this the reality on grounds... Hipocracy, male ego

    • @Nikita-qb7xd
      @Nikita-qb7xd Před 2 lety +122

      Women empowerment... as long as it’s convenient to misogynists.

    • @pipinuka4087
      @pipinuka4087 Před 2 lety +1

      👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

    • @bakanani8040
      @bakanani8040 Před 2 lety +10

      But isn't that a reality for many women in india

  • @mgth7812
    @mgth7812 Před 2 lety +239

    This show also taught me not to act like a brat. After seeing Toshu and Pakhi and being so disgusted 🤮 by their acts I understand and try much harder to understand my parents, their problems and give them company. I hope no actual parents get children like these two mini psychopaths

  • @sakshiSingh-nb7cm
    @sakshiSingh-nb7cm Před 2 lety +1227

    I am actually witnessing my mother getting so inspired and learn so much from this show. I've never ever watched any indian daily soap but this show has my heart because it really touches the actual issues the indian women face. Idgaf about the character development or anything else because this show actually shows the reality.
    My mother has started to wear what she always wanted to wear and is planning to start a business soon. She always wanted to this in her heart but never had the courage but she really got inspired to do whatever she wanted to in her life after watching this show.

    • @veryconfused9768
      @veryconfused9768 Před 2 lety +9

      Same

    • @priyankaprasad1308
      @priyankaprasad1308 Před 2 lety +9

      Very true

    • @AditiShukla-tz4lk
      @AditiShukla-tz4lk Před 2 lety +54

      Awweeee I am seriously very happy for you and your mum

    • @mohiniisrivastava
      @mohiniisrivastava Před 2 lety +32

      Same ! My mom always wanted to open a NGO and she is finally working towards it....this show really inspired her

    • @pianodiaries4091
      @pianodiaries4091 Před 2 lety +25

      Don't worry. People take what they want to take from a show. This guy took different approach. The generation of 90's took different perspective. Appreciate the difference and let people do and watch what they like and can relate to.😊

  • @mansipai9220
    @mansipai9220 Před 2 lety +498

    The fact that the only reason why she left her husband was his infidelity and not his abusive demeanor makes me cry.... she endured so much abuse, pain and yet the ahe keeps on defending her ex husband for being a virtuous father and son... bruhh

    • @TriedRefusedProductions
      @TriedRefusedProductions  Před 2 lety +65

      very good point!

    • @eshaanbhat3732
      @eshaanbhat3732 Před 2 lety +30

      But you have to realise that's a very true depiction of society as well , male ego is something very realistic but while they don't show us that in the show they have spent alot of moments together as well. It's in hindsight that you find a relationship toxic or you label it as toxic but when you actually truly love someone these things seem to be a bump in the road.

    • @jyotsnaoberai7616
      @jyotsnaoberai7616 Před 2 lety

      Exactly!

  • @mansi1837
    @mansi1837 Před 2 lety +2468

    My take on the show is that the way Anupama behaves is a well portrait picture of how majority of Indian women actually respond to abuse. There are women who are finally taking stand for themselves but still majority of them feel bad or guilty for being happy after getting out of an abusive marriage. The character arc of Anupama is real and not perfect like how we expect.

    • @snee21
      @snee21 Před 2 lety +82

      Agree with you ! My mom watches it and kinda obsessed with it, I have seen some scenes and some episodes as my mom wants me to be with her...

    • @jdopessprite6547
      @jdopessprite6547 Před 2 lety +8

      Agree to you ..

    • @mansi1837
      @mansi1837 Před 2 lety +6

      @Parth Choudhary let's say i know a bit about them too :)

    • @mansi1837
      @mansi1837 Před 2 lety +32

      @Parth Choudhary agreed, it's extremely difficult to see this always. As of Jammy, it's kind of a privilege that shows in this review. when someone doesn't go through toxic households they don't have the reality in mind. he judged the show with the image of perfect female he had in his mind while we see the reality.

    • @snee21
      @snee21 Před 2 lety +1

      @Parth Choudhary oh hell YES

  • @shalinimishra4758
    @shalinimishra4758 Před rokem +33

    Well my mil also watches this show,and the change in her is like,she expects me to leave my PhD degree for household works, leave my job to only cook for her,btw she is completely healthy and can work for own self, she expects me to wake up at 5:30 in the morning, cook for her, even lunch, leaving the house at 9:30, working whole day out, again getting back at 8pm, then cooking again, getting to sleep at 12. And even if my husband wants to have a beautiful conversation with me,she is just furious. Always fighting for some reason. So she might be getting inspired by baa character.

  • @nupurtiwari2009
    @nupurtiwari2009 Před 2 lety +135

    You might be from a very progressive family to find Anupama a fictional character. It's a reality I have seen so many women living exactly the same life daily. However the character develops over time and Anupama takes hold of her life. But the women in our society are still struggling to take up the stand because that's not easy

    • @rajaindraverma1880
      @rajaindraverma1880 Před 2 lety +1

      English is his first language what do you expect😂

    • @gatech5190
      @gatech5190 Před rokem

      I know a lot of these kinds of women but their storylines are not like Anupama. Anupama is progressively regressive tv serial. You clowns boycott bollywood and then watch this garbage lol

  • @jeonstoa2955
    @jeonstoa2955 Před 2 lety +3203

    I think, I a college going 20 year old girl cannot relate with it, & find it not so progressive or some things problematic. But my mother, aunts who watch this show find it relatable & comforting / encouraging. Our previous generation women lived like that. Gave their everything to their families, husbands, children like it's the reason of their existence. & getting out of that mindset is still almost impossible for them. So I give kudos to this show for being realistic, and also FINALLY showing character development.

    • @raja-jl9os
      @raja-jl9os Před 2 lety +58

      Pakistan m bhi aise cringe show nhi bnte h ky hm pakistan se bhi piche h😂😂😂😂😂

    • @PCJK
      @PCJK Před 2 lety +70

      Yes u r right armii💜 , somewhere sometimes it shows the reality of this patriarchal society 💔

    • @jeonstoa2955
      @jeonstoa2955 Před 2 lety +126

      @@raja-jl9os I'm not Indian btw.
      My point was the target audience of these types of shows are not us, the youngsters. It's for our elder generation & it's better than other star plus or colours tv shows imo

    • @jeonstoa2955
      @jeonstoa2955 Před 2 lety +10

      @@PCJK Yes 😔

    • @divineray7822
      @divineray7822 Před 2 lety +88

      @@raja-jl9os Pakistan mein yeh show kabhi nhi banta bcz a cheating husband would just take another wife and give secondary status to first one.

  • @jayashreegoswami6445
    @jayashreegoswami6445 Před 2 lety +455

    I also feel the mistress, Kavya, is made a villain just for the sake of it... There are many moments where what she says is actually right, like why can't Vanraj make tea for himself when both of them are equally tired, etc.... Baatein toh wohi sahi kar rahi thi...

    • @mahimaperiwal5866
      @mahimaperiwal5866 Před 2 lety +111

      I personally find her the most practical and on point person. She has her flaws but she thinks practically.

    • @sheetalsinha2971
      @sheetalsinha2971 Před 2 lety +54

      @@mahimaperiwal5866 yaa right In that dumb Shah parivaar she thinks practically....like the way they potray their character is to look villan even even eangel mom charcter too..

    • @anubhavgangwar1383
      @anubhavgangwar1383 Před 2 lety +81

      Yes everyone was blaming her ki usne Anupama ka pati Cheena. Jaise vanraj to doodh pita bachha tha jise lollipop 🍭 dikha kar kaboo mein kar sakte hain😒😒😒

    • @sagunrai8689
      @sagunrai8689 Před 2 lety +24

      Kavya isn't made a villain just for the sake of it. Why do you think the makers put some moments where she is actually right? It's actually nice story writing that she too was given depth as a character.

    • @ruchi0211
      @ruchi0211 Před 2 lety +9

      Well she is not a villain now

  • @simrantuli26
    @simrantuli26 Před 2 lety +135

    the rage I feel for Vanraj, Baa, Toshu and Kavya is so intense. I'll be screaming at the TV in frustration. lol

  • @harrypreet2841
    @harrypreet2841 Před 21 dnem +5

    This show was started on a good note but it has become so regressive now. It shows that divorce is the worst decision for a woman. Her second marriage can’t be successful unlike her husband. This show gives the message that we should not adopt children because they can’t accept it.

  • @shivangiaggarwal4709
    @shivangiaggarwal4709 Před 2 lety +911

    i guess why this small progression took 250+ episodes was to show that everything is not going to suddenly be okay after the divorce. People around you, your in-laws WILL talk and gaslight you, and they wanted to show that part of the journey as well. The main part of the journey is not only to get out of the toxic relationships, but to overcome it as well.

    • @embrace7052
      @embrace7052 Před 2 lety +36

      I agree. It also perfectly depicts what's it like to be in a abusive relationship and how hard it is to leave because this is a very real thing that happens to victims of abuse irl because as humans, our brains don't understand good or bad what it does understand is the sense of familiarity or certainty which victim's brain knows they will get if they just choose to stay with the abusive person.

    • @meghasahu9492
      @meghasahu9492 Před 2 lety +20

      And most importantly we indians especially mothers really get attached to our family not just husband and its tough to leave all that behind and start a new life it's a tough choice to make

    • @amritagargi5279
      @amritagargi5279 Před 2 lety +6

      Ikr the way her mother in law support her but by times turns against her same to toshu, pakhi, kavya even vanraj for some its annoying but damn it's reality

    • @kizryuver
      @kizryuver Před 2 lety +4

      I totally understand it is to show the realism though for todays people that see high quality kdramas/netflix shows/anime/web series that can show realism even if they don't have 300 eps to show it
      In small bite sized eps like 26/12 eps its Probably gonna be hard to sit through due to lack of time (obv some ppl
      D say if you cant sit through it dont watch it,but this applies for majority of people today and its
      a demand for todays entertainment market and entertainment market changes by the public demand so its not
      incorrect for the audience to voice what they like and dislike so creators can make those changes for people).
      Also lot of shows especially Indian shows get repetitive for the show to drag on and reduce in story quality as they get
      longer unlike some anime where long anime get good
      So thats a trait indian tv shows can try to fix and deliver condensed quality than quantity alone.
      And i get that they probably wont be able to deliver as high quality in bite sizes as anime/kdramas/netflix shows/webseries do all of a sudden
      So taking smaller steps can be an option..eg. trying to end the serial in 300/150/100 eps and then less and less till its Enough..

    • @alayakhan8120
      @alayakhan8120 Před 2 lety +1

      Bapuji is her biggest supporter 🙄🙄🙄

  • @mahaarshiparekh6329
    @mahaarshiparekh6329 Před 2 lety +783

    Other people: Watches 400+ episodes of anime...
    Jammy: ANUPAMAAAAAA

  • @high_on_mirinda
    @high_on_mirinda Před 2 lety +97

    Everyone: "Why didn't she just leave her abusive family? Huh? Huh?"
    Me: "YOU try living in a family as abusive as that for years, THEN come talk to me, okay?"

  • @anugya18
    @anugya18 Před 2 lety +57

    Dont you think its the reality of almost every human being! We advice others easily, but it is always difficult to exercise these advices in our own life. Only when we are pushed to a certain limit, which may be person specific, we act about it.

  • @shanayazaveri2620
    @shanayazaveri2620 Před 2 lety +301

    I know it is frustrating. The writing is messy, but I can say years of abuse and trauma has made Anupama afraid to take a stand for herself. I tried watching the show and I couldn't stand more than 5 minute of it. But as someone who has been through systematic abuse through the hands off a narcissist, I can say moving out of the toxicity and ahead in your life is hard. Especially if there's little to no support from your so called relatives. It took me five years to move out after realising I've been abused my entire life. And I still am afraid of people, I can't even make friends. I wish the writers could have focused on it more than the drama. So many people don't even realize they've been abused or are being abused. Had the serial gone on that track of realising abuse and dealing with it, it would've been better. But I can still understand why it took Anupama so long to stand for herself and try and move out

    • @veerzara3137
      @veerzara3137 Před 2 lety +19

      Exactly. The fact that V (the ex husband) abused Anupama for like 25 years and that the ones who stands by her is just her son, his gf and her daughter in law + fatheril, imagine how hard it would be to grow and leave that behind when your own children and mother in law hate YOU for leaving Vanraj when he CHEATED ON HER.
      And I wouldn't say this is unrealistic cuz I have seen this happening in many household and women could barely leave them.

    • @crossgame9479
      @crossgame9479 Před 2 lety +3

      The show was good it's was progressing little by little or so i thought but even after so many episode it was fluctuating and going back and forth. The bahu of anupama is a working woman but she also has to do household chores while kavya does do that as it is being handeled by anupama but Kavya is a vamp acc to this show there sooooo many things i can't even stop talking about it so i will just let it be. The show never progressed according to me ofcourse there were progress but then they used to go back to where they were so it's constantly fluctuating

    • @WizInsight108
      @WizInsight108 Před 2 lety +7

      Exactly. It takes a whole lot of mental and emotional shift to dare to come out of it. I have not watched the serial but from whatever I have heard from my friend, I feel they should have explored and shown the inner side of what makes women stick to toxic relationships.

    • @shanayazaveri2620
      @shanayazaveri2620 Před 2 lety

      @@WizInsight108 yes, this is wht I meant, I couldn't put into words what I meant

  • @sanchikuda1928
    @sanchikuda1928 Před 2 lety +550

    I get frustrated when she justifies her actions to the shah's ALL THE TIME, like why she's late, why is she working with 'another man', why she took a divorce etc etc. She had many chances to leave the toxic household but no, her priority is her family, (it would have been ok if the family respected her) EVEN when they comment on her character CONTINOUSLY, literally disrespect her all the time, never supported her 'work out of the house', called her a loser and so so so many more thing. I just feel now she should just leave the house and the writers should really get to the point.
    P.S: GREAT GREAT GREAT review Jammy!!! Thanks a lot!

    • @TriedRefusedProductions
      @TriedRefusedProductions  Před 2 lety +156

      That was my biggest pet peeve throughout. The family you claim loves you other than two or three members, everyone makes your life living hell for over 300 episodes. Why endure so much pain, is it the duty of a wife? I call BS

    • @sanchikuda1928
      @sanchikuda1928 Před 2 lety +16

      @@TriedRefusedProductions Agreed, thankfully this show is kind of on track but after 200+ episodes of continuous unnecessary comments, drama and family gatekeeping, and hypocrisy of "BAA"😂

    • @night6957
      @night6957 Před 2 lety +1

      And ykw? She's appreciated for doing so...

    • @kattibattisonachamak575
      @kattibattisonachamak575 Před 2 lety +4

      @@TriedRefusedProductions Anupama is the reason why All came home..Baa is of old times so she cannot approve or appreciate her it's a natural phenomenon..But her father in law supports her in Every way possible why can't you see that' Anmol????She now sticks to what is told by Kavya as her trick worked on Kinjal's daughter too...

    • @kattibattisonachamak575
      @kattibattisonachamak575 Před 2 lety +1

      @@TriedRefusedProductions and you should understand.A women of her age can't get out of the toxicity without Anyone like Anuj Kapadia..

  • @sehajpreetkaur3601
    @sehajpreetkaur3601 Před 2 lety +237

    I think anupama still teaches a lot to indian audiences rather than other serial cuz she is portraying the condition of Indian housewives rather than just being perfect..and a lot of womens are getting inspired

  • @shalinitiwariscorner5210
    @shalinitiwariscorner5210 Před 2 lety +106

    Anupama is indeed a revolutionary show. Yes, it has a very slate plot-speed but still it depicts the real situation of patriarchial small town society of Western India. She is fighting back but not giving up her generosity and maternal affection. The characters like Samar, Nandini and Kinjal also showcase issues faced by youngsters.

    • @rajaindraverma1880
      @rajaindraverma1880 Před 2 lety +2

      Ahemdabad me rehti hai wo. Ahemdabad small town hai??

    • @pageantindie7396
      @pageantindie7396 Před 2 lety +2

      @@rajaindraverma1880 and for your kind information the highest number of extra marital affairs are recorded in urban areas

    • @shalinitiwariscorner5210
      @shalinitiwariscorner5210 Před rokem +1

      @@pageantindie7396
      Yes, divorce on basis of infidelity is mostly filed in urban areas because majority of Indian rural women and even men don't know about divorce and its legal procedure.
      Also, high divorce rate doesn't not suggest high rates of toxic marriage. Instead it shows that there are high rates of women and men in urban areas who escape and free themselves from toxic marriages.
      We don't have any civil court data. But according to sessions court data, crimes committed because of infidelity are higher in small town areas ( not rural or urban areas). Because majority of men in those areas migrate outside of the town in big cities, staying away from their wives for long times. And cheating mostly happens in long absence of the partner.

    • @shalinitiwariscorner5210
      @shalinitiwariscorner5210 Před rokem

      @@rajaindraverma1880 Ahmedabad district has so many small towns .

  • @dhaneshshetty4968
    @dhaneshshetty4968 Před 2 lety +105

    what's hilarious is that the male lead (the husband) was in the newspaper the other day and was talking about how he thinks Indian TV should have its own National Awards too. like SIR look at the show you're in. are you THAT delusional🤣🤣🤣

    • @lucy2379
      @lucy2379 Před 2 lety +19

      He is no doubt a wonderful actor and I understand he wants recognition for TV actors but seriously the itv is full of crap shows nowadays and rarely among currently working itv actors anyone is good. Anupama and Imlie rn have best actors

  • @kanikagupta4190
    @kanikagupta4190 Před 2 lety +1585

    The only thing more annoying in this show than the stereotypical “I’m a progressive woman BUT lemme just act completely submissive and put my life on hold for others because women should always be selfless” is Anupama’s husband’s fake ass moustache lmao.

  • @manasvisharma4990
    @manasvisharma4990 Před 2 lety +185

    Jammy Jammy Jammy. I disagree with you about this portrayal of Anupama. I don't watch the show but when you say that she lectures everyone but she herself keeps going back to a man that berates her, it is understandable to me as a woman. She wants to believe that she is an independent woman but she is still a homemaker woman who has lived in the Indian society all her life. She has internalized so much of what has been told to her, what she has seen all her life, what has been expected of her that the subconscious mind doesn't let her Stop Trying. And I get how frustrating it is to somebody who is watching (including friends and family) but it's something that has been HAMMERED inside our brains since we were what, 2 years old?
    I think I actually like this portrayal because the Independent strong woman who just walks out and changes things for herself is a less relatable character. This can at least empower women and let them see that they have been in the same cycle and help them find their way out. It can also help get rid of the whole "If I don't walk away from this behaviour, maybe I do deserve it. or I don't actually wanna go away: and let them actually see how far they have come even if it's only a few steps.
    Might actually try watching it!!!

  • @akankshasharma8440
    @akankshasharma8440 Před rokem +19

    Indian TV serials are extremely toxic, they disturbs mental peace of the viewers. I pity those who are addicted to them.

  • @saachiminocha8826
    @saachiminocha8826 Před 2 lety +389

    I am so glad that Devika is finally becoming a more important character with Anuj's entry. That woman is awesome.

    • @TriedRefusedProductions
      @TriedRefusedProductions  Před 2 lety +136

      the best character. No nonsense whatsoever

    • @Iamvengeance3760
      @Iamvengeance3760 Před 2 lety +6

      @@TriedRefusedProductions I have seen the marathi version of it..and the serial is nothing different than balaji serial. Seriously bro.

    • @vivipyt
      @vivipyt Před 2 lety +24

      Everyone deserves a Devika in their life! She is just too good!

    • @sreevatsannathan434
      @sreevatsannathan434 Před 2 lety +18

      Never place your trust on Indian serial makers. They can even show her to be evil with a motive of money later on. It's ok now but you know how Indian serial makers are. The best example is YRKKH running for 12 years with the same storyline as follows- [Problem(mother-in-law gets angry)-Problem solved- Celebration or picnic after problem solving-During celebration, a bad omen is shown and ads are put to show the next problem(which will be repeated, don't worry we don't have that much creativity)- Accident or coma- Family reunion at hospital(Prayers and crying starts)- Time leap of 2 to 10 years(Anyways doesn't matter because the actors are the same and it has already been done 2 or 3 times)]
      I am not saying being sanskari is wrong but atleast show some versatility in your storyline for God's sake. These 2 shows are still watched by my parents and many others. They claim that it is different from others but I don't see any difference between these shows and other shows apart from the celebration of every festival "by breaking the 4th wall".
      The only Indian TV serial that was unique from others was Everest, which as expected. did not top the TRP ratings because yahaan toh saas bahu drama hi bhikta hai. And if you think I watch these serials, I don't watch them but my parents do.
      SORRY FOR THIS LONG RANT BUT THIS IS THE REALITY OF MOST INDIAN TV SERIALS.

    • @ReginaPhalange_561
      @ReginaPhalange_561 Před 2 lety

      @@Iamvengeance3760 this is not a Balaji serial

  • @mad_titanthanos
    @mad_titanthanos Před rokem +16

    Legend says Anupama is more powerful than John Wick. This woman can make anyone shoot themselves in the head just by listening to her lectures

  • @SparklingSerenity01
    @SparklingSerenity01 Před 11 měsíci +11

    I am a college going girl and I don't find anything in anupama motivating and inspiring to other women out there . Except Rakhi Dave 's character nothing was good in the whole show
    I think the most motivating and inspirational character in the whole show was of Rakhi Dave coz she was an independent ,graceful and practical lady
    Anupama never said anything to vanraj and baa
    She said many things to Anuj show anger to him even at that time when she was wrong but still she blamed him fir everything
    But never able to say anything to baa and vanraj ,bapuji
    That was her double standards she always cry in front of Anuj and share happiness with Shah's.
    Why ?
    They did not show as feminism but they just degrade the feminism
    They just show. A women can't do anything along 2itb her career coz she was not able to handle the hime even with a supportive partner like Anuj
    He was depressed but she never understand him even she was asking questions like do you love me or not I mean WTH they were showing to us

  • @sanjuktamullick8789
    @sanjuktamullick8789 Před 2 lety +1407

    Agreeing to everything.. but one of the major reasons why this serial is so famous is because the mass can relate to it. Majority of the housewives of India are treated exactly like Anupama.. strangely the husbands also play the exact role of that of her husband. Hence it is just a glimpse of the pain that a normal wife, homemaker faces in daily basis.

    • @noodle3851
      @noodle3851 Před 2 lety +10

      Why is it so popular on Twitter then🙄

    • @Nitushdas1987
      @Nitushdas1987 Před 2 lety +8

      Count my mom and me my stepfather....is the same

    • @amritagargi5279
      @amritagargi5279 Před 2 lety

      Yes 🙄😒

    • @veryconfused9768
      @veryconfused9768 Před 2 lety +21

      @@noodle3851 coz it's a reality of a lot of houses,i am adult woman from same household environment and how each character interact(not just Anupama) gives me a sense of like its my own story somewhat,plus their lives are not super rich like other shows.

    • @royalkumar795
      @royalkumar795 Před 2 lety +2

      @@noodle3851 because dialogue and roasting meme

  • @samikshabajpai4259
    @samikshabajpai4259 Před 2 lety +315

    The most annoying part is that Anupama is a progressive women and talk about women equality but even then she gives household chores to her bahus rather than her son. You know that where she has clash with Kinjal on household chores.
    But I agree with you jammy on why this show make you stuck with it. I am stuck & it is my guilty pleasure 😜😂

    • @sheetalsinha2971
      @sheetalsinha2971 Před 2 lety +50

      Not only that when kavya tells anupuma to hire a maid she refuses saying ghar ki aurato ko sara kaam karna chaiye..when her dil refuses to to work since since she had a long tiring day and. give savage reply to baa she has proplemm see in one track paritosh eangel wanted to move out since they needed privacy she refuses saying parivar todna nahi chaiya...moving out doesn't mean all your relation with family is over this women mentality is actually proplamatic..

    • @abhaymaurya1116
      @abhaymaurya1116 Před 2 lety +8

      I can't believe I'm able to relate and visualise your issue even though I barely look towards TV when my mom use to see all this Rona dhona. 😂

    • @chaitalisarkar6154
      @chaitalisarkar6154 Před 2 lety +2

      Nice point!

    • @divineray7822
      @divineray7822 Před 2 lety +3

      She never made bahus do chores. Everyone in house helped . Their maid was temporarily on leave and even Anupama's mom was sick . And she fired the full time maid bcz she was troublesome.

    • @sabrinaaziz9613
      @sabrinaaziz9613 Před 2 lety

      My thoughts exactly

  • @smartgirlathena6677
    @smartgirlathena6677 Před 5 měsíci +4

    I used to love watching Anupama back in 2022, but after a while I realized that she is not putting herself first. She is keep going back to the toxic environment she " escapes". There was no development in her character. She kept making these mistakes. She needed to make boundaries which she failed to do.

  • @minutedetails7696
    @minutedetails7696 Před měsícem +5

    You should do a part 2 with all the changes that have happened in this series and absolute sabotage that the writers took this show through

    • @TriedRefusedProductions
      @TriedRefusedProductions  Před měsícem +3

      Have to do some homework and understand what’s transpired since 😂

    • @meetdilipkumarpatel9667
      @meetdilipkumarpatel9667 Před měsícem +1

      ​@@TriedRefusedProductions don't do it. it is completely trash now, waste of time. so basically what happened is Anupama divorced Anuj too because of thier annoying boring child Choti Anu aka Aradhana as Aradhana was insecure of being adopted, after divorce Anupama went to America to chase her dreams of settling in America where tosu her own son makes her mother arrested and treats her mother very badly. on the other hand, anupama adopted daughter makes anupama life living hell by making marry Anuj to someone else. also forgot to mention, whole Shah family also comes to america to make anupama life more living hell, and as always Anupama still entertain each and everyone, cries all the time forgetting her dream, makes 3rd relationship with other person....
      Kavya becomes sensible and good person but she is treated like 2nd Anupama now by Vanraj.
      all of these idiotic annoying story line, Anupama's daughter in law, samar's wife fall in love and marries for 3rd time after Samar's death.
      UTTER NONSENSE DRAMA

  • @thanushprasad6524
    @thanushprasad6524 Před 2 lety +492

    I don't know what depressed Jammy more. Watching this serial or wearing that Arsenal jersey.

  • @aditi.upadhyay
    @aditi.upadhyay Před 2 lety +790

    I completely agree that everything this serial showcases 'should' not be the norm. Every woman should take a stand for herself and leave the toxic household at the very first chance she gets. But I also cannot ignore the fact that most women 'actually' behave like Anupama. I know this show is problematic but also holds a sense of trueness in its depiction. Anupama at least left her husband, a very late decision of course, but in real world most women cannot even think of it and go on to live a sad and torturous life.
    A huge fan of your "in front of the camera" reactions Jammy. Amazing review as always.
    And do you watch all the episodes completely or skim through them?

    • @kattibattisonachamak575
      @kattibattisonachamak575 Před 2 lety +6

      I love the show...

    • @NehaKumari-ge8wm
      @NehaKumari-ge8wm Před 2 lety +52

      True that, there are several ladies in my family who still couldn't leave her toxic husbands and in-laws !! And that's the reason why this show is soo soo popular as it connects to most of the women!

    • @imonsarker3766
      @imonsarker3766 Před 2 lety +19

      @Rajwardhan Ghorpade So you want misogyny and patriarchy to be promoted or what?🙄

    • @imonsarker3766
      @imonsarker3766 Před 2 lety +9

      @@rajwardhanghorpade8898 Can you please elaborate?

    • @NehaKumari-ge8wm
      @NehaKumari-ge8wm Před 2 lety +26

      @@rajwardhanghorpade8898 People like you will always treat feminism as a mockery..unless you would face something like this everyday in your household and among the people nearby you!!

  • @dakshsengar6391
    @dakshsengar6391 Před 2 lety +23

    Rakhi Dave always gives the Shah's a reality check. We need to appreciate her!

  • @MysticGurl-jw4nj
    @MysticGurl-jw4nj Před rokem +9

    Thanks Mr. Tried and Refused Sir, ( sorry don’t know your real name ). I liked how you pointed out that Anupama doesn’t appreciate the people who genuinely support her like Samar and Devika. In a way they are getting passively punished for doing the right thing. She yells at Samar when he stands up to his belittling father, Mr. Vanraj Shah, by saying things like ‘Mere Pati Parmeshwar ka apman’ she fails to protect her child. Thanks for this video 🙂

    • @riyaaaa762
      @riyaaaa762 Před měsícem

      Haha 😅. His name’s Anmol Jamwal. We call him Jammy

    • @MysticGurl-jw4nj
      @MysticGurl-jw4nj Před měsícem

      @@riyaaaa762 Oh. Sorry, my bad 😅

  • @yashisahu2693
    @yashisahu2693 Před 2 lety +443

    Hey jammy!!! Seen a lot of your reviews and the best thing about them is your neutral take on any of them. But ig, this time you probably sat with a mindset to bash the serial and review felt a little biased. The serial has its fair share of negatives but, the positives also cannot be neglected.
    We need to understand that the audience that serial targets is mostly from middle class families or lower class families where divorces are not pretty much common, even to this day. The fact that it took time for the main lead to get divorced and move on in life is pretty much possible and believable. Her own family had made her realise that she was of no worth and to come out of that zone and create a life for oneself is not easy. Even in real cases, many women keep on bearing their family abuse without raising any voice against them because this is what they are taught from the very start that "kuch bhi ho jaaye ghar nahi tutna chahiye, sehn karna aana chahiye". The cases might even be much worser.
    Atleast in the serial, anupama was lucky to have support of many good people around, be it her daughter-in-law, her son or her father-in-law giving the serial an optimistic approach. But in real world, sometimes even that becomes difficult and it really takes years for a woman to come out of a toxic relationship, because there are many other factors included such as children and finance. Maybe, the character development was slow but, it was realistic. Comparing the serial to the trash that is shown on the tv, it actually is worth-watching...

    • @soumilighosh3743
      @soumilighosh3743 Před 2 lety +7

      I am totally agree with you..

    • @anonymous051
      @anonymous051 Před 2 lety

      Yes you said absolute true words dear totally agree

    • @saanvinigam7767
      @saanvinigam7767 Před 2 lety

      Absolutely its the best way to put this show good job

    • @SomeduttaGhosh912
      @SomeduttaGhosh912 Před 2 lety +2

      So agree. I actually watched the Bengali serial, Sreemoyi and was quite impressed with the refreshing story compared to the many other trash on tv!

    • @bug1585
      @bug1585 Před 2 lety

      The show is just a contradictory crap

  • @tanvidhote129
    @tanvidhote129 Před 2 lety +115

    When we talk about how long Anupama endured the toxic family, I think we are forgetting how much of a pressurising situation it must be to leave it all behind. No doubt she should have realised the toxicity earlier, but I feel her over the top optimism must have stopped her.
    Her upbringing, her dependability on her ex husband, the society have all played a major role in her life. So escaping the years of conditioning and the uncertainty it brings is quite difficult to digest.

    • @shanayazaveri2620
      @shanayazaveri2620 Před 2 lety +3

      Exactly!

    • @shravani165
      @shravani165 Před 2 lety +2

      Yess..

    • @alishaswain3242
      @alishaswain3242 Před 2 lety +2

      I agree!

    • @mahimaperiwal5866
      @mahimaperiwal5866 Před 2 lety +1

      Sometimes I give her the benefit of the doubt. That this woman has been living in a toxic environment for 25 years so like how you have groomed yourself to try to cover up their behaviour and forgive them for 25 years. But then I just wish for her to come out of that shell.

    • @tanvidhote129
      @tanvidhote129 Před 2 lety +2

      @@mahimaperiwal5866 Exactly. Because as women we have personally experienced bits and pieces of Anupama's life. Standing up against your own is extremely taxing.

  • @ehixbihx7871
    @ehixbihx7871 Před 2 lety +75

    the serial " anupamaa" has all my heart. because it's the one and only serial, that I've ever watched with such interest. and the condition of most of the Indian women are almost the same. I've even seen heard some ladies' story which is so relatable to this daily soap. it's so good to watch Anupama's bond with Samar, Bapuji, Kinjal, Nandini, Anuj, Devika. the bond of Anupama & Kinjal ; a rare bond of saas bahu is just too amazing. they do fun and celebrations which is entertaining to watch.

    • @mrincognito8564
      @mrincognito8564 Před 2 lety +2

      Do you know Anupama was copied from west Bengalies serial called Sri moye

    • @akemi2929
      @akemi2929 Před 2 lety

      @@mrincognito8564 He mentioned it in the video. It's called a remake.

    • @johnsonpj5708
      @johnsonpj5708 Před 2 lety +2

      And people still doesn't want to get the hell out of this kind of crap and didn't even want to know about 'self respect'.

  • @SJND20
    @SJND20 Před 19 hodinami +3

    Her mother in law is too smart... she got her son remarried to a smarter, more educated and working woman who brings in money but did not want to lose the free maid service that Anupama provides. So she conveniently says "Anupama is now my daughter and will stay with us!" :D like what?

  • @navyanavelijha9216
    @navyanavelijha9216 Před 2 lety +98

    You should definitely watch the 1st ans 2nd season of 'Kuch rang pyaar ke aise bhi'. It is the best Indian daily soap ever made. Its simple and beautiful. Its available on youtube.

    • @riya6668
      @riya6668 Před 2 lety +9

      I hope he watches one of the finest shows made on Indian television 🤞🏻

  • @surkhabkaur9473
    @surkhabkaur9473 Před 2 lety +680

    This show literally shows the reality of the society...but when she justifies her each and every action to the members...I get so angry...the way Ba being a woman puts her down is so frustrating...but seeing her rise or when she stands up for herself is really refreshing and kinda makes my heart happy! Devika is literally a friend everyone needs! Plus now the serial is lot better than before.

  • @ayushkumarjha9921
    @ayushkumarjha9921 Před rokem +8

    When the quality of your daily shows are so low that you see these mediocre shows as masterpiece, then you'll realise how bad your daily soap standards are.
    Actually this show is grifting on women empowerment and give illusion of progressive thinking when in reality it isn't. I would call it capitalism women empowerment which has nothing to do with actual empowerment and feminism.

  • @tanishjain1898
    @tanishjain1898 Před 2 lety +29

    I would definitely rate Anupama far above some other serials on Starplus. Yeah i can see why there is this frustration but i think the writer does that on purpose, yes it gets annoying crossing a level in certain episodes poking you out bad and you start cursing to the tv, but the points it covered are not wrong according to me. For me the creators wants to show anupama as a lady who is loving, caring, sensitive and of that sort, and thus finds reasons even from the house in which she lives to ensure that yes I am getting what I am worth of. It tries to show somewhat a naive or how loving a lady can be side of Anupama and ofcourse their this reason of adding toxic but masala drama element in the show, "Entertainment" as says Rakhi in the show. And niw as you said the current episodes are way better and really it makes a great watch with a family if you ask me. On the other side i can thank the creators on just making sure that it doesn't include any horrific pan and zoom editing. Thanks a lot🙏

  • @tejaswinisharma972
    @tejaswinisharma972 Před 2 lety +1274

    The way this show romanticises abuse and lack of empathy always irks me. Just because it's a female centric show, doesn't mean it's progressive.
    Reminds me of a dialogue my mother said once- everyone wants a Sita-like wife, but no one wants to be a Ram-like husband.

    • @sahibrajput3857
      @sahibrajput3857 Před 2 lety +18

      Same goes the other way around.

    • @tejaswinisharma972
      @tejaswinisharma972 Před 2 lety +153

      @@sahibrajput3857 oh, I had foreseen this coming

    • @jiazacharia8161
      @jiazacharia8161 Před 2 lety +261

      While Rama's trust and affection for Sita never wavered, it soon became evident that some people in Ayodhya could not accept Sita's long captivity under Ravana. And instead of standing up for his beloved wife, he banished her while she was pregnant with his children into a jungle. I don't think I would want a husband who would abandon me just because what will people say.

    • @samash7302
      @samash7302 Před 2 lety +3

      DAAAAAAAAAAMN! 🔥🔥🔥

    • @tejaswinisharma972
      @tejaswinisharma972 Před 2 lety +122

      @@jiazacharia8161 dange karwayenge aap.
      On a serious note, yes I wholeheartedly agree with you. It's just that one can't express any criticism against any religious symbol because bhakts are always waiting to abuse you for it. So I stick to their narrative to be safe

  • @garvita237
    @garvita237 Před 2 lety +95

    I think we need to take one thing into account before being judgemental- the serial somewhat showcases the reality of many many many households, being very much effective in doing so. I kid you not, the reality of many families is far more worse and very much more frustrating and confusing than the actual show, and maybe, *maybe*.. the show trying to depict this is actually justified in doing so.
    Although I do understand the thoughts where everyone is coming from because who would want to sit through daily and repetitive toxic drama instead of just going on with a more convincing and 'feel-good' story..
    But, I really am happy with the progress the show has made!
    And yeah, great review as always.

  • @madhumitadean4432
    @madhumitadean4432 Před 28 dny +3

    Man why isn't any one noticing the age between the girl and the man, she is 18 and he is 36.. it's straight up 18 years round it up and it's 20 damn years.. it's all too toxic..

  • @dinazsurti6898
    @dinazsurti6898 Před rokem +6

    Please discontinue this serial as it is extremely sick and frustrating.

  • @raviiyer3761
    @raviiyer3761 Před 2 lety +28

    Hindi serials : She is a working woman ..so automatically she is non sanskari ...wears western attire ..must be a vamp ...indian wear and housewife automatically qualifies for a human excellence award ... everyone's at home no one works , roam around wearing suits and kilos of jewellery..and have to be a Singhania or Oberoi a.k.a wealthy AF.

    • @shinchannohara5621
      @shinchannohara5621 Před 2 lety +3

      This idiots need to learn that sanskar and education is two different things and can go hand in hand, well the character of kinjal is good but i wonder why she married paritosh

  • @shreya_R_World
    @shreya_R_World Před 2 lety +158

    That background of ghum hai kisi ke pyar mein in the intro, I can forsee that review soon coming our way 😂

    • @helloitsme832
      @helloitsme832 Před 2 lety +18

      This show is bizarre very episode they arguing literally every episode

    • @aditi8840
      @aditi8840 Před 2 lety +7

      Omg. Would love to see that review

    • @TriedRefusedProductions
      @TriedRefusedProductions  Před 2 lety +49

      easter egg is way too obvious lol

    • @maitripatel2802
      @maitripatel2802 Před 2 lety +4

      It's still a little grounded and better than other serials.

    • @supriyak7901
      @supriyak7901 Před 2 lety +2

      @@TriedRefusedProductions Look jammy... I would love if u call out ghum hai kisi ke pyar me for its nonsense non progressive nd fam drama plot .... Btt take care while calling out the leads sai nd virat... There chemistry is jst awesome despite of inconsistencies

  • @mugdhapurohit9199
    @mugdhapurohit9199 Před 2 lety +12

    Just go and watch kuch rang pyaar ke aise bhi S1 nd S2 and u will feel better after watching anupama. That show has my heart 🥺

  • @oceanocean1059
    @oceanocean1059 Před rokem +12

    EXTRA marital affair is necessary in this show

  • @gurkiratsinghanand5838
    @gurkiratsinghanand5838 Před 2 lety +37

    I hated the fact that devika didn't have enough screen time in the start, she was the best character, glad to see her in more episodes now

  • @SD-jv2or
    @SD-jv2or Před 2 lety +542

    Give Sony TV's Kuch Rang Pyar Ke ( season 1 and 2) a try.
    The story is simple yet engaging. All the actors have done a pretty job and it is easily one of the 'sane' tv shows out there.

    • @dharabarot4033
      @dharabarot4033 Před 2 lety +27

      AGREED! It’s the only itv show that I’ve followed and it was so well made.

    • @ridamsrivastava9502
      @ridamsrivastava9502 Před 2 lety +8

      Very true!!

    • @aishad5158
      @aishad5158 Před 2 lety +29

      Best show ever on Indian television "kuch rang pyar ke aise bhi" is just love watched it so many times still can't get over it. ❤❤ But season 3 I don't like it's way too dramatic

    • @fj7122
      @fj7122 Před 2 lety +7

      True that

    • @deekshakumar21
      @deekshakumar21 Před 2 lety +25

      @@aishad5158 ive been following the show since ep 1 of s1 (29 feb 2016)
      S1 &2 are worth watching but no doubt that s3 is a disaster-
      Bcz the original writer has stopped writing for tv so they fetched a new writer who has already spoilt stories of other shows too& unfortunately Kuch Rang was the next target🤦‍♀🤦‍♀
      S3 is so bad that even the die heart fans like me have almost stopped watching it- skipping more than half of the ep
      In fact we are kinda happy with the news of the show going off next month
      Entire cast& fans only say that Kuch Rang never deserved this treatment🥺🥺🥺

  • @hopes_edit08
    @hopes_edit08 Před 3 dny +1

    The moment I got to know it's based on same storyline as "Sreemoyi", I was "mom, whatever happens you cannot watch starplus." My mom was also so tired of that show Sreemoyi. At first, it was good to watch, Sreemoyi, as a house wife, her struggles, her relation with her children, only her middle son supported her from the start. Me and my mom used to enjoy it until we were introduced to a character, June Aunty, a middle aged woman with whom Sreemoyi's husband had an affair and then they also got married. And June Aunty and Sreemoyi lived in the same house. Dude, remembering the whole plot itself is torturing as hell.

  • @shara26dimpy
    @shara26dimpy Před rokem +5

    Anupama is modern version of Anandi from Balika Vadhu. She was the same hypocrite one! She was a social worker and lectured everyone about independence but herself was constantly dependent on her first in-laws and second husband! You should review Balika Vadhu. It was good with social issues but couldn't bring itself to break it's lead character's mold of "perfect" Sanskaari bahu!

  • @ayonijarai2292
    @ayonijarai2292 Před 2 lety +149

    The "sorry sorry... " part reminded me that how women (especially in Indian households) are so apologetic of their actions. So much so, that there's a feeling of guilt whenever they make decisions for themselves or just put them first in life!

    • @manig2105
      @manig2105 Před 2 lety +12

      I don’t watch this show but my mom does so I saw some of it. There is line in this show that I really liked the father in law says to Anupama that “from childhood boys are taught to feel proud and girls are taught to feel guilty “ which is sad but true

    • @rtggaming8552
      @rtggaming8552 Před 2 lety +6

      @Raman Sharma well even though it's not true I do wish that one says sorry only when they are wrong and not when they are right or taking control of their own life.

    • @ayonijarai2292
      @ayonijarai2292 Před 2 lety +3

      @Raman Sharma My entire point here is that no one should feel apologetic of their actions, when they are not wrong. Be it men or women.
      Also, I would highly recommend not trivializing someone's pain to highlight someone else's. Men and women can both be wronged!

    • @ayonijarai2292
      @ayonijarai2292 Před 2 lety

      @@arnobprasad1514 What a Queen, Good for her!

  • @SRUSHTI_
    @SRUSHTI_ Před 2 lety +740

    I can't believe Jammy is going to watch 300+ episodes of ghum hai kisike pyaar mai... Dukh dard peeda and headache🥲 Thank you for bearing this review🤍Watching such daily soaps that too in one go must be painful🥲

    • @pragatichoubey2573
      @pragatichoubey2573 Před 2 lety +38

      I don't think anupama was too much torture..its faarrrr better than other indian daily soaps!!!

    • @neeljavia2965
      @neeljavia2965 Před 2 lety +8

      @@pragatichoubey2573 Not at all true

    • @SRUSHTI_
      @SRUSHTI_ Před 2 lety +17

      @@pragatichoubey2573 he'll mostly watch ghum hai after this so I guess it will be a torture. 400+300 episodes in one go🥲 Although the recent track of Anupama with Anuj is quite nice and it's nice to see Anupama taking stand for herself but what the other characters are doing is just unbearable.

    • @hemantsharma6150
      @hemantsharma6150 Před 2 lety +11

      Ghum h kisi k pyaar mein mtt dekhna

    • @lasttofirst3335
      @lasttofirst3335 Před 2 lety +2

      same man same

  • @riya6668
    @riya6668 Před 2 lety +27

    Can we spam the comments section and make him watch and review kuch rang pyaar ke aise bhi?
    Season 2 and 3 were back on public demand. That’s how good season 1 was

  • @rashigupta1407
    @rashigupta1407 Před 2 lety +10

    Jammy pls pls watch Krpkab season 1 and 2...That's masterpiece!! And for God's sake don't dare watch s3 it will ruin the whole experience of s1 & s2....

  • @daphne3631
    @daphne3631 Před rokem +3

    I agree with all the points you have made in the video. The contradictions of Anupamaa's pravachanas and how she keeps looking out for Vanraj even after going through so much is just unbearable. She never takes a stand against her Mother in law because she is older- as if age gives people an excuse to insult others. Even when she has supposedly 'progressed', she put up with the shit of her children especially Pakhi instead of teaching them a lesson or letting them suffer the consequences of their selfishness. Even though the original motive of Anupamaa is good, the execution is not up to the mark. As you pointed out very rightly that they spent too too much time on the abusesection and did not make Anupamaa's progress consistent becuse Indian serial writers just milk the drama formula for rating. I read the plot of the original bengali version and that seemed better. Instead of focusing on Anupamaa's independant journey, she has to be rescued by a male character- Thanks for pointing this out too.Anuj's character was meant to be a support but now in her new marriage, Anupamaa is back in the household of scheming in-laws.
    I am glad that somebody else was able to see the fallacy in the writing.
    P.S. I read a lot of comments criticizing the review but I don't agree with them.Also I loved how you included clips of your own reactions.

  • @ridge825
    @ridge825 Před 2 lety +120

    It honestly baffles me how even after so much evolution of cinema in the world, subtlety and nuance doesn't even exist in Indian TV shows across channels.

  • @harshitabhatia1483
    @harshitabhatia1483 Před 2 lety +151

    But the fact is that yeh sach hai … women progressive hoti hai mind se but unke liye us shell se nikalna sachme mushkil hota aur yeh bhi sach hai ki logo ki soch itni choti and ghatiya hoti.. yeh bhi sach hai ki woh badalti aur unko time lagta and bhot toh badal hi ni pati ..! This is the reality of our society jo 250 episodes se bhi khi jyda time legi change hone me

    • @OneLordz
      @OneLordz Před 2 lety +5

      *I agree with you, but what about West Europe USA society (broken family values) they promote casual sex (with random people) hookup culture and if you don't want to be part of that, they treat you like miserable and think there is something wrong in you and here Indian blindly following them. see I'm not comparing the situation what I'm trying to say there is problems in every society, what we can do is to fix the problem.*

    • @hatersrmotivators6477
      @hatersrmotivators6477 Před 2 lety +1

      @@OneLordz u r rigth

    • @123Starring
      @123Starring Před 2 lety

      @@OneLordz now tell me how to fix this society

    • @Serenity035
      @Serenity035 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes you are right

    • @sakshipatil4891
      @sakshipatil4891 Před 2 lety

      Agreed....it wasn't too long....if we see real society.....

  • @mcawesomeytyo3312
    @mcawesomeytyo3312 Před rokem +5

    I don’t know which arc is slower, Anupama’s character arc, or the story arc of Rent-A-Girlfriend💀

  • @abhashkumar8122
    @abhashkumar8122 Před 2 lety +4

    I think the most realistic indian tv serial i have ever seen is krpkab(seasion 1)..

  • @GSS77712
    @GSS77712 Před 2 lety +246

    Our daily soaps are way more complicated than any Nolan movie. Characters coming back from dead, traversing different timelines, sudden generation leaps, flashbacks to earlier eras, triggers facilitating lost memories to return. 🤦‍♂️

    • @ved370
      @ved370 Před 2 lety +1

      Oooo hi gaurav 😉

    • @lalitthapa101
      @lalitthapa101 Před 2 lety +10

      The Indian Serial multiverse

    • @samash7302
      @samash7302 Před 2 lety +3

      New characters somehow have the same face as the main character 💀

    • @rosemold6837
      @rosemold6837 Před 2 lety +5

      What about humans who are also snakes bees and mangooses🤣

    • @mainaksadhya354
      @mainaksadhya354 Před 2 lety +2

      i assume this comment of yours is a reference of yeh rishta kya khelata hai

  • @richikkar9656
    @richikkar9656 Před 2 lety +72

    I tell you. I am a Bengali and I am frustrated about the popularity of Sreemoyee- the original Bengali version. It is just going on here in West Bengal. It has episodes of over 780 now. Therefore, Anupamaa is also going to be on and on.

    • @didyouseemyjams2108
      @didyouseemyjams2108 Před 2 lety +5

      Ei serial ta suru thekei amar opochonder. R dithir biye hye jacche tao sreemoyee k niye rohit sen er adikkheta just newa jacche na

    • @mr.goldenleaves
      @mr.goldenleaves Před 2 lety +3

      @@didyouseemyjams2108 oh please how can you miss June Aunty and Mashi 🤣🤣

    • @didyouseemyjams2108
      @didyouseemyjams2108 Před 2 lety +3

      @@mr.goldenleaves o hya, se to arek, mashiiiii😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kattibattisonachamak575
      @kattibattisonachamak575 Před 2 lety +1

      Sreemoyee was Remade to Marathi and now it's Anupama here...it ran successfully in Bengal and Marathi don't you forget that...

    • @sumanmajumdar7884
      @sumanmajumdar7884 Před 2 lety

      Thank God Amar barite Amar tv asar por theke Ami Amar ma ke sremoye theke k drama r dike shift korte perichi😎

  • @vaidehichaturkar28
    @vaidehichaturkar28 Před 2 lety +45

    But isn't it normal for a women who has been married for 25 years at such a toxic household to take that long to realize the truth & have emotional breakdowns like that. Nobody can go and do things that they haven't think of doing in there entire life and do it within some days, it takes time. I think what they show in this tv series is absolutely true & that's what happens in an typical toxic Indian household & that's the reason why this tv series is soo popular.

  • @lalaland905
    @lalaland905 Před 2 lety +23

    This show gives us anxiety, but it's what happened in our society!

    • @dolphien1397
      @dolphien1397 Před 2 lety

      Whenever i see videos 90% i always find an ARMY lol 😂 btw hello Indian ARMY 💜

    • @saloni22815
      @saloni22815 Před 2 lety

      Hello army

    • @dolphien1397
      @dolphien1397 Před 2 lety

      @@saloni22815 heyy🤗

    • @saloni22815
      @saloni22815 Před 2 lety +1

      @@dolphien1397 hello 😀😀

  • @sandhyagupta8781
    @sandhyagupta8781 Před 2 lety +202

    It’s more like women should be “given freedom” adhering to the morals and virtues typical for a woman because of course, rules are different, crossing line is different for a husband and a wife. A man is shown barbarous only once he crosses “his line” i.e. cheats and marries another woman, while going out with women and coming home late is okay in the eyes of the family. This show touches the very surface on showcasing that there’s a disparity in the “crossing line” itself.

  • @krishnapriyasinha1744
    @krishnapriyasinha1744 Před 2 lety +919

    I know her character development was slow but let's not forget it's the reality. What they showed was nothing wrong as sadly it's a mirror of most households here. My Uncle was so toxic that he used to dominate us and abused my mum n dad mentally. His wife divorced him but he showed no signs of dukh, doesn't even contact w his first son.

    • @amishashubham1423
      @amishashubham1423 Před 2 lety +2

      Yes

    • @akshaybhagwat963
      @akshaybhagwat963 Před 2 lety +29

      yes very tru, we need to understand transformation doesn't happen instantly some illogical movies might show after break up that person transforms into a whole new person but in reality people need time to soak in the pain. when it is family you just don't give up like "haha jao bhaad mein" u always try to mend things n sacrifice at least thats what moms do ryt?!, now the time has come she has realized it n moved on. this serial is a mirror to society n is dng really well if there is hypocrisy at some point just ignore it and soak in the good part.

    • @krishnapriyasinha1744
      @krishnapriyasinha1744 Před 2 lety +9

      @@akshaybhagwat963 yes, I agree with you. This is the most sane serial I've seen in tv

    • @Hm-dh1vu
      @Hm-dh1vu Před 2 lety

      @@amishashubham1423 damn you gorgeous af

    • @park9086
      @park9086 Před 2 lety

      I agree

  • @Taanipartnerx
    @Taanipartnerx Před 2 lety +9

    Would love your take on kuch rang pyar ke aise bhi as well. It's amazing, but they went downhill with the current season. (season 3)
    please do a review on thatttt

  • @aabhakulkarni9415
    @aabhakulkarni9415 Před 2 lety +491

    You forgot to mention/ acknowledge Bapu Ji's support towards Anupama, I mean taking into consideration the culture and mindset of middle-aged/old people that exists in such households, he is quite progressive.

  • @NidhiGupta-xt4ms
    @NidhiGupta-xt4ms Před 2 lety +224

    I so agree with most of what all you said about the show (It completely is like beating around the bush in those 300 episodes, which made me leave the show in between so many times)... But the current development is so much praiseworthy - specially the way Anuj's character has been written (Devika and Anuj are my favourite characters). His love for Anupama is so pure, so mature and lovely... His distant pure glances, the beautiful shayaris, the 90s music and his subtle dialogues.. (Even his dreams are so pure, not at all over the top - Just that subtle distant romance).. I have never ever seen such a beautiful male character on TV.. I just wish they keep it like that and also wish that they do not hurry up with their love story.. Anupama has to develop feelings for him but it should be a slow burn pls!

    • @sadhikab7885
      @sadhikab7885 Před 2 lety +16

      Why do I feel that this twist in the show won't stay long... I for some reason have an intitution that as soon as Anuj feels that he is causing a disruption between Anupama and her kids/ family, the makers will do a tata good bye and send him to america, ending his character. Hope that doesn't happen ;'(

    • @lucy2379
      @lucy2379 Před 2 lety +14

      @@sadhikab7885 no it will not happen. According to its original bengali version, anupama and anuj will get married

    • @sadhikab7885
      @sadhikab7885 Před 2 lety +6

      @@lucy2379 Wow okay. That is something to wait for now!

    • @shampanath3675
      @shampanath3675 Před 2 lety +1

      Rohit sen

    • @sundaymorning8228
      @sundaymorning8228 Před 2 lety

      Very well said

  • @manishamishra9759
    @manishamishra9759 Před 2 lety +25

    Comment section have my heart Because I love how everyone understands that the reason they were not showing progress because they were trying to make it more realistic for indian housewives...I understand it's frustrating for new generation who have different mindset and have courage to take stand for them but it's satisfying and relatable for old generation and giving inspiration to them👍😄😄

  • @Hndjdj400
    @Hndjdj400 Před měsícem +3

    There are lakhs probably crores of people who actually watch this serials. Producers sometimes try with new and unique concepts like in remix, 24, laut aao trisha, etc serials like that but they receive very poor ratings and end in less than 100 episodes. So what does that means? There are enough people in India who are willing to watch these over dramatic brain dead sas bahu sagas (yrkkh) over some actually quality shoes like hum saat or anamika. 🤷‍♂️

  • @pranoychatterjee1866
    @pranoychatterjee1866 Před 2 lety +147

    Jammy, do give Kuch rang pyar ke a try! Season 1 especially, as it has been written by Durjoy Dutta who brought in a subtlety and realism in the otherwise regressive Indian TV

    • @theimperfectone9487
      @theimperfectone9487 Před 2 lety +13

      Also 2nd season of krpeb and also yudkbh❤️ that is still my favourite 😍

    • @ridamsrivastava9502
      @ridamsrivastava9502 Před 2 lety

      Yes please give it a try!!

    • @wandering_alaska
      @wandering_alaska Před 2 lety +4

      @@theimperfectone9487 third season destroyed the uniqueness of show

    • @kkura09709
      @kkura09709 Před 2 lety +3

      YEEES MORE RECOGNITION FOR KRPKAB

    • @nikhilaluru1548
      @nikhilaluru1548 Před 2 lety +2

      And then all that went away with a mediocre season 3

  • @eeshetadey801
    @eeshetadey801 Před 2 lety +44

    I didn't even know 'Srimoyee' is made in so many language. Every Indian serial is just the same. One husband and two wives and in- laws.

    • @mr.goldenleaves
      @mr.goldenleaves Před 2 lety +4

      Not just that a man has two wives, a woman has two husbands, children have double parents. Wtf

    • @kattibattisonachamak575
      @kattibattisonachamak575 Před 2 lety +1

      Anupama doesn't have two wives.... That's why this show is special..And the fact that Anuj Kapadia consider the family as his after being insulted so many times is also unique..Look at it this way,He never tells Anupamaa anything just runs away..No hero does that without saying to just and we'll talk later...

  • @ashishrajsurya
    @ashishrajsurya Před rokem +3

    I don't know, what it is called as..but it is a very sharp mindset showcasing, sons are bad, unless they are adopted (Anuj Kapadia), daughters are always good. Exceptional (son: samar, daughter: pakhi), everytime something happens, it comes with the ideology that only and only indian ladies are facing abuse and every single relationship is somehow good for nothing,but people outside are good one...no wonder channels like Star Plus comes with the motto of breaking family

  • @roshnisachdev4458
    @roshnisachdev4458 Před 2 lety +2

    This show literally made a career oriented girl...the independent girl as vamp...where as They want anupama to become independent but on there terms...this is really toxic...they literally bashed kavya down for not becoming their so called bahu/servant they want....and the main character anupama she never leaves that house and kavya alone to get comfortable....I literally hate this toxic shit.

  • @bleh0933
    @bleh0933 Před 2 lety +29

    The way these mainstream serials portray women is so problematic and frustrating. According to the serial logic, there are only 2 types of women, 1) the sati savitri, who wears clothes like saree, salwar kameez, who's well behaved and who's only goal in life is to live for everyone in her 'parivaar' except for herself and love her husband, no matter how he is. 2) the women in the negative role, who's only purpose in life is to torture her daughter in law,sister in law etc.
    Also, women who voice their opinions or wear clothes as per their choice are always considered bad and adviced to be "sundar, susheel and sanskari"
    All this is so annoying.

  • @samriddhidwivedi4947
    @samriddhidwivedi4947 Před 2 lety +53

    Jammy watch the first two seasons of Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi, I guarantee you won't regret. It's among the best itv shows in recent times and has all the elements that a good show must have and most importantly is realistic! You'll feel quite relieved from the headache you get from watching these shows!

    • @riya6668
      @riya6668 Před 2 lety +17

      So many people are commenting and suggesting kuch rang pyaar ke aise bhi. I hope he watches it. One of the best shows on Indian television ❤️

    • @samriddhidwivedi4947
      @samriddhidwivedi4947 Před 2 lety +4

      @@riya6668 Indeed❤😌

    • @hitakshikubavat8674
      @hitakshikubavat8674 Před 2 lety +6

      @@riya6668 yes Kuch Rang Pyaar Ke is the BEST!!! No faltu drama....

  • @arijeetdasgupta9818
    @arijeetdasgupta9818 Před 2 lety +13

    Shreemoyi is now a part of every Bengali household 😂.

  • @himanshisharma7333
    @himanshisharma7333 Před 2 lety +3

    Personally, Patiala Babes was a show that handled the case of infidelity, self-respect and feminism with multiple layered female characters much better than Anupama, but that's just my opinion.

  • @kiranraut7128
    @kiranraut7128 Před 2 lety +269

    This guy is sacrificing a lot for our entertainment. Please help him reaching 1M!

  • @mugdhafadnavis7094
    @mugdhafadnavis7094 Před 2 lety +111

    Thing that I appreciate Anmol the most for, is that he watches all the available episodes of the show before coming to its conclusion or review. That's really incredible job. And that's why I can trust him with 'Yeh Un Dinon Ki Baat Hai', which is a 90s based show and has beautifully shown the transitional 90s era in terms of the progressive thoughts. Plllleeeaseeee watch it Jammy.

    • @shravani165
      @shravani165 Před 2 lety +12

      Yes ...but liked it upto their college days...its fun cute and noatolgic..but my god the time of their marriage it was horrible..i cant watch that part

    • @WilliamButtlicker
      @WilliamButtlicker Před 2 lety +2

      Yep, that was probably the last TV show I watched continuously but it's later half got kinda stale when they left their school and all that. It was truly something fresh up to that point.

    • @prithagore4870
      @prithagore4870 Před 2 lety +1

      @@shravani165 agreed....I watched it till the college track too. I didn't continue it after marriage. I felt it was different and couldn't really match up to the previous track.

    • @madhusri9017
      @madhusri9017 Před 2 lety

      True.. I loved that show.. n watched it completely..

    • @adyashanaik5625
      @adyashanaik5625 Před 2 lety

      I used to love that show

  • @arkopalsen5112
    @arkopalsen5112 Před 2 lety +7

    Bengalis here who have watched Srimoyee (the bengali version) know that after 500+ episodes things turn even more toxic and worse XD The frustration will be constant, the satisfaction is only fleeting!

  • @farhindesai
    @farhindesai Před 2 lety +2

    One of the most impressing scene in Kuch rang was the accident scene of Sonakshi, and Dev ki Dewangi episode and the next episode after that, I became a huge Shaheer fan after that episode, and watched all his shows.
    Kuch rang pyar ke is my favourite ITV show.

  • @bikramjit1755
    @bikramjit1755 Před 2 lety +93

    I think writing is flawed but you need to get this, This is the reality, this is how indian women thinks when their husbands beat them, 'Oh yeh toh kaam ki frustration hai' In psychology also, it is Stockholm Syndrome, but as the story progresses anupama takes a stand which is kinda inspiration for many indian women, That is why this series is actually watchable! Otherwise over mahaan monologue are a big NO NO

    • @bleh0933
      @bleh0933 Před 2 lety +13

      There's a difference between glorifying and showing such behavior.

    • @stolenart9290
      @stolenart9290 Před 2 lety +4

      It's like Stockholm syndrome. Going back to your abusers and making excuses for their behaviour.

    • @bikramjit1755
      @bikramjit1755 Před 2 lety +1

      @@bleh0933 They've never shown Vanraj in a good light when he was abusing!! So it is not glorying abuse at all.

    • @bleh0933
      @bleh0933 Před 2 lety +1

      @@bikramjit1755 no, I'm talking about anupama. Glorifying "sacrifice for the sake of parivar" , glorifying that women always have to live for others except for themselves as if it is right is toxic AF.

    • @bikramjit1755
      @bikramjit1755 Před 2 lety

      @@bleh0933 That is true but now she has taken a stand for herself, let's see what happens!

  • @ashutoshmishra8423
    @ashutoshmishra8423 Před 2 lety +160

    Finally Jammy wore the Arsenal jersey. Nothing says "I'm Depressed" quite like an Arsenal jersey.......good thing we're improving though

  • @anoopkj480
    @anoopkj480 Před 29 dny +3

    Bhai u are still alive after watching all this tv serials😂, this serial is made to check your patience level and believe it I lost patience within 2 minutes😅

  • @aasthadabla6046
    @aasthadabla6046 Před 2 lety +6

    I'm so so tempted to watch it right now thanks to your review. But just wanna put this out there that a lot of the times abuse victims don't realise that what they're experiencing is an abuse, especially when it comes from the inner circle of the protagonist.

  • @aboliborse3275
    @aboliborse3275 Před 2 lety +13

    Please please do one on ‘kuch rang pyar ke aise bhi ‘ it is revolutionary when it comes to Indian saas bahu drama

  • @mansi1837
    @mansi1837 Před 2 lety +65

    I would really encourage you to watch Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi and Bade Acche Lagte Hain (season 2 of both). They are far much better than all soap TVS on Indian television.

  • @mohitbg7
    @mohitbg7 Před 2 lety +2

    I can say that it is just a *WAY OF MAKING MONEY* BY the Production House for this show. I can understand that Anupamaa is quite relatable to the real life. But believe, it's extremity is so dangerous that your mother or some other women, can just not understand the message and may try to imitate her or baa or any other character, and apply it in her real life. It's very same that people who play games may try to imitate her!

  • @AIRek7
    @AIRek7 Před 2 lety +3

    I recommend you to watch and review a famous sony sab show called Maddam Sir it really promotes women empowerment and other social problems going on in India without much of that drama and nonsense stuff. (It also has a different take on saas bahu relation which is nice to see)

  • @nupurtiwari6206
    @nupurtiwari6206 Před 2 lety +24

    U should make an vedio on kuch rang pyaar k aise bhi... That show is really beautiful... But only watch season 1 and 2 because season three toh writers ne ruin kr diya hai... Kuch rang is the best indian serial in drama and romance category... Please do make a video... All actor perform really well and real hero of the show was it's writer.

    • @riya6668
      @riya6668 Před 2 lety

      What do you mean by real hero of the show was the writer? Shaheer did not write the show!

    • @lucy2379
      @lucy2379 Před 2 lety +1

      @@riya6668 she is not calling shaheer hero. She is calling durjoy dutt the writer of krpkab the real hero of the show