Protecting Your Sons from Seduction | Lesson 7 of Moms of Men | Lisa Bevere & Havilah Cunnington

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  • čas přidán 26. 07. 2024
  • While most of us grew up with parents who were silent when it came to the topic of sex, we need to have an ongoing conversation with our sons about sex and their sexuality.
    If we handle this confidently and at the right time, we will set ourselves up to be the ones our sons come to for answers about sexual issues, which will empower them to live victoriously and purely in an oversexualized culture.
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    Chapters:
    0:00 - Lesson Teaser
    0:25 - Living in a Hyper-Sexualized World
    4:46 - Parents: You Have More Power than You Realize
    8:58 - Girls Are Trained to Be the Aggressor
    11:45 - Face-to-Face with Seduction
    15:54 - Your Action Steps
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Komentáře • 39

  • @ashleystrevel9087
    @ashleystrevel9087 Před rokem +12

    Truly inspired by your influence and COURAGE to STAND AGAINST the enemy of this world, Lisa, to help protect your sons. Thank you for sharing!

  • @sadepretorius5621
    @sadepretorius5621 Před 2 měsíci +1

    15 mins in “Taylor Swift is clean…” That didn’t last 🤦🏼‍♀️ Powerful series, I’m a mom of 3 boys. Thank you for this empowering series!

  • @monikaszucs4718
    @monikaszucs4718 Před rokem +19

    Taylor swift has gone on the dark side...imo
    Thank you for these vdos! Really helpful! Kidz this day n age are total targets to the enemy🙏😥

    • @paulaglenn388
      @paulaglenn388 Před rokem +1

      I agree about Taylor Smith too.

    • @teresadenisiuk8200
      @teresadenisiuk8200 Před rokem

      Yes Taylor swift has gone to the dark side 🤦‍♀️ with all that witchcraft stuff

    • @ab.1985
      @ab.1985 Před 3 měsíci

      I think this study was created a few years back, the notes that accompany this study are copyrighted to 2017 so waaaaay before Taylor “grew up” so to speak 😊

  • @jancsikus
    @jancsikus Před rokem +4

    I’m a guy, 35 years old, not married but living in a relationship with a very precious “girl” for 14 years. I got through and was involved with pornography, I also did things that I truly regret during my teenage years. I’m not entitled to say this but I feel proud of you, and your bravery in these conversations. I think our purity is attacked and damaged on every level in this world, and today as you just said it’s so normal and accessible. You are clearly wholehearted warriors, so good to see this. You just talk about the real thing, boldly. I wish your channel reach hundreds of thousands subscribers soon.

    • @DavidLoveJanet
      @DavidLoveJanet Před rokem +1

      Will you get married? Sorry did you say you’ve been with someone from 14 years ?

  • @paulaglenn388
    @paulaglenn388 Před rokem +4

    Love this conversation. I wish I had found your videos a long time ago. I will be sharing with my kids and grandkids! 🙏💙💖 And yes, girls are pressured into being aggressive. I think many girls would be relieved to know that they don't have to be sexual. Planned Parenthood is to blame for a lot of that.

  • @lorenalindemer2167
    @lorenalindemer2167 Před rokem

    Thank you so much🙏
    I am a single mother of two daugthers.
    But i am so thankful for this "lessons" 🙏

  • @UMHurricanes05
    @UMHurricanes05 Před 11 měsíci

    So so good !

  • @teresadenisiuk8200
    @teresadenisiuk8200 Před rokem +1

    Yes, my son is 11 and I’ve already had to discuss these things with him. There were things I had to report to the school from some girls and boys he was friends with. He had made some poor decisions of his own, got in trouble and we had to take his phone taken away. We can’t protect them from everything but it’s our responsibility to guide and teach them to make wise godly choices!
    I’m loving these conversations ladies ❤
    Ps. Taylor swift has gone witchy 🤷‍♀️

  • @peterdavis3014
    @peterdavis3014 Před rokem

    Glory to God thank you so so so much this is so helpful.

  • @tinameyers3064
    @tinameyers3064 Před rokem +4

    I think it was about 5 years ago when my husbands family were sitting in a restaurant with an absurd amount of televisions when the a Taylor Swift music video came on. It was “ look what you made me do” and it had very demonic undertones to it. Well, actually it was pretty obvious to an adult. My sister in laws oldest daughter was 9 years old at the time and she saw that filth. I wish we took the kids out then and there because after she saw it she said she couldn’t unsee what she saw. I think that was Taylor’s Swifts first dark video she’s ever made. I know when she first started she was rather popular in the Christian community for being pretty untainted compared to the rest of the industry, but I still think a lot of her music even then was seductive. It’s interesting about the Hollywood industry. With the child stars they of coarse start of rather innocent for the most part, and your children grow up with these figures and then when they get older and go through puberty, they almost always become more sexual in their videos (speaking to the female stars) or they come out as bi/gay/trans. I believe that is on purpose because your children grew up with that star, listening to her or him. Then it would be hard to give them up. Do you see what I mean? But definitely if you watch things and then have open conversations about this or that and that’s wrong and this is stupid, then your kids will know but there are just some things you say no to.

  • @parler8698
    @parler8698 Před rokem +1

    Go mom!

  • @blossombolton9829
    @blossombolton9829 Před rokem +5

    You obviously haven't kept up with recent T. Swift to say that "she's pretty clean." Not anymore.

  • @floydhudson7669
    @floydhudson7669 Před rokem

    Proverbs 14:12 NASB1995
    There is always the temptation to use reform in order to advance a mother's interests in conditioning and grooming her boys for the fulfilment of contractual obligations.
    ❤❤❤u2munch
    Proverbs 14:12 There is a way which seems right to a man,
    But its end is the way of death.

  • @natalieohlsson7777
    @natalieohlsson7777 Před rokem +3

    Taylor Swift has definitely gone to the dark side.

  • @blaga19
    @blaga19 Před rokem

    Another thing though is men are afraid to pursue because of the ( # me too ) movement and the false charges even if they don't end up in prison their reputation tarnished

    • @israeliana
      @israeliana Před 8 měsíci

      If you're pursuing in a Holy way, you won't be getting physical with any woman. You won't be 1:1 in a room. And so you won't be in a situation of sexual impurity or blurred sexual lines.

  • @wn5049
    @wn5049 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Taylor Swift.... seriously 🤪😒

    • @sb2017.
      @sb2017. Před měsícem

      She isnt clean anymore

  • @jadanation4246
    @jadanation4246 Před rokem +4

    Hi Lisa and Havilah, I understand both of you are moms of boys, but I feel called to say I felt, particularly from Lisa, an extreme amount of judgment towards young girls in this episode (ironic because you both once were little girls) and I think it does a disservice to your entire message, which actually has a lot of validity. Saying “this is not the woman you would want to marry” because she does not yet know her value in God is beyond harsh, especially because we’re talking about children at the end of the day. It makes me wonder if we had a camera on YOUR youth, or better yet, the youth of your beloved boys, if you would use your tongue with such derelict duty.
    That said, the demon goddess Ashtaroth is real and behind all sexual immorality and we MUST fight against her works - and not each other.
    Remember what our Lord and Savior said, “We do not war against flesh and blood but against principalities.”

    • @mercyme811
      @mercyme811 Před rokem +8

      @Jada Nation - You "feel called to say??" wonder who called you to say that. Nothing said here was harsh. It's the truth!

    • @jadanation4246
      @jadanation4246 Před rokem

      @@mercyme811 our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ called me to say it. Hopefully that’s who you serve too. Love is never harsh, love never hurts, love never fails. Jesus’ love is perfect - humanity’s love, obviously, is not.
      God bless you though Mercy - may God’s judgment have mercy on you, and us all.

    • @kathyekongnanyongonkongho9368
      @kathyekongnanyongonkongho9368 Před rokem +10

      The fact that these women preach to women does not mean that they should support and approve every female behavior especially ones that displease God. What Ma'am Lisa and Havilah are doing is good. They are attacking bad behaviors that women put up to cause men to fall into sin. We've heard enough about bad behaviors of men. Now we need to hear the things women do which displeases God when dealing with the opposite sex.
      God did not call you to say anything. Stop using the name of God in vain.

    • @jadanation4246
      @jadanation4246 Před rokem

      @@kathyekongnanyongonkongho9368 I appreciate your response. But I would like to point out to you - you are not our Heavenly Father and can never tell me when or when not to speak. Check that spirit, sis. And I will profess God’s word once again: “we do not war against flesh and blood but against principalities.” And if your “love” or “truth” comes with judgment, it, my friend, is neither.
      So with all due respect to anyone who will read: I will never not declare the word of God, and just because Lisa has been teaching for years doesn’t mean she shouldn’t be challenged. I don’t serve Lisa - or any of you - but Jesus.
      With love

    • @mercyme811
      @mercyme811 Před rokem +7

      @@jadanation4246 grow up!! It is very correct scripturally to tell boys what type of girl they should look for in a wife. The scripture clearly says "You can identify people by their actions." Matt 7:20 - A woman's actions tell you what kind of wife she will be.