Protecting Your Kids from Pornography | Lesson 6 of Moms of Men | Lisa Bevere & Havilah Cunnington
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- čas přidán 5. 07. 2024
- While most of us grew up with parents who were silent when it came to the topic of sex, we need to have an ongoing conversation with our sons about sex and their sexuality.
If we handle this confidently and at the right time, we will set ourselves up to be the ones our sons come to for answers about sexual issues, which will empower them to live victoriously and purely in an oversexualized culture.
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Chapters:
0:00 - Lesson Teaser
0:47 - Empower Your Kids to Say No
2:30 - Moms, Trust Your Intuition
7:40 - Talking about Pornography
16:19 - Your Action Steps
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Let’s set the bar even higher ladies if it’s not child appropriate, us parents should not watch it period. Don’t compromise or dishonor the Holy Spirit in us.
7:05 _”this has been brought to light so that it doesn’t grow in the dark.”_ 😭😢
I am so grateful you two strong moms of men told us your stories. 🙏🏻 Navigating this is hard, but I appreciate the advice, encouragement, and how you went about those scenarios.
I'm affected by Havilah's patience and stable self-esteem. It stirs hope in me. I also am thankful for Lisa's grace and authenticity. I so love that you took holy communion with your son after you found out he was exposed to porn. And finally I'm so sincerely encouraged by their testimonies of abiding to God the Holy Spirit's voice. I pray Lisa and Havilah and I will continue to obey the Holy Spirit into eternity.
Perfect timing! My son and his classmates were supposed to have a talk w the school counselors about sex and healthy relationships today and I had my son skip that so that my husband and I could have that talk w him ourselves!
my mum sent me to the grocery store when i was 14 i was abducted by two men .noone even cared or helped me .but god helped me escape
Headphones when going into the store, I think might work.
Singing gospel songs while walking in stores. Repeating verses. This will help.
Man I wish I read this book. I remember in preschool during nap time multiple times (probably every week) me and another boy would do inappropriate things and that started so much immortality in my life early on. When I got Saved around 12 I had so much guilt from sexual immorality I’ve done.Thank God for His love and how far he brought me from sinful habits but I’m still struggle with certain things that stem from being under 12 years old. But I’m saying that to say please pray over your children for protection and guidance over how to parent them to keep them pure.
Thank you for having this conversation.
Thank you so much for this conversation! Much needed!
So thankful for this content! God bless you fellow daughters of the most high!
I discovered pornography at age 13. It was back when the porn channel was just scrambled but you could see glimpses of stuff. And I’m female. It definitely introduced sexual immorality into my life. I wasn’t raised in a Christian home so I didn’t know it was actually wrong. I did wait a long time but not for marriage. I’m married now and trying to teach my kids not to make the same mistakes I did.
Thank you for talking about the book Good Picture Bad Picture. I was not sure whether to buy it or not
So powerful 🔥Thank you got this! L⚔️B🛡️Truly empowered!
I discovered pornography in my home at the age of 8. By the time I was 12, I began seeking it out on my own on the internet. And by age 14 I was completely addicted to it, hiding, living in secrecy, lying, and swallowed up in shame for the next 13 years. Pornography destroyed my life. It decimated my relationship with the Lord. I tried quitting a million times. I thought I would be in chains my whole life.
By the grace of God, I am 1 year free from pornography. I wish I never ever discovered it, or at least I wish I was taught the skills to know how dangerous to my life and soul it would be. Today I am on mission to help other women who are trapped in this terrible addiction. Covenant Eyes was the number 1 thing that really gave me hope for freedom. I am free now, friends. And it is the sweetest and most beautiful thing I'm living out in the season. If you are struggling yourself, FREEDOM IS POSSIBLE. Seeing the world in clarity and purity has been sweeter than I can ever imagine.
All glory and praise be to Jesus Christ.
Taking Back The Rainbow helps people to come out of the darkness into light.
Could I get a list of the scriptures you use to pray over your children before bed🙂 & also a list of scriptures to use in preparation for the sex talk? I would appreciate if so so so much!
My struggle with this painful sin makes me feel like I will never truly laugh or be happy again.. I love Jesus so much but I haven't beaten it in 25years😢..
What if you have boys and girls. Maybe someone from the community can chime in since your both have boys. But if you have both boys and girls how do you handle nakedness. They’re close in age but getting older and I’m trying to instill healthy boundaries with out shame.
Im not sure how old your children are but usually they develop a natural desire for privacy. I used to take baths with my brother but i don't recall when it stopped.
Edit: I just read my comment and realized its not helpful...
When my niece comes to stay, we just tell our boys its time to practice extra privacy. My oldest is 8 and is already wanting more privacy during bath time and my 5yr old is imitating his older brother. "Big boys want privacy", he says 😊
@@leannewheeler5351 My older 2 are 9(boy) 8(girl) and younger two are 4(boy) 2(girl). More so asking about the older two. They’re at the age we’re they’re point at each other and laughing at each other to annoy each other but still aren’t covering themselves up unless reminded to do so.
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Pornography is so different now than it used to be. From photos, to love scenes, to full on XXX videos showing everything.
My sons friend just introduced him to it at 12. I opened what he was watching and it was even disturbing for me. The most awkward unexpected heartbreaking conversation to have with someone so young an innocent.
There is a Christian based book that talks about what God commanded of his people (be fruitful & multiply), talks about the anatomy of male and female, then goes into how a baby is made. I was hesitant to read that last part because I just couldn't imagine disturbing his innocence. Well come to find out he had been watching porn for a month. If I would have read it to him, he would have been educated. But unfortunately his view of sex was distorted by porn.
We talked about it. I didn't overreact. He knew it was wrong. And he knew I had to ground him for a month from electronics. I also told him that he could get in trouble with the cops if he looked up a bad video. Like of minors. But it seemed to really scare him. He even told his friend that introduced him.
It's also important though to tell your child not to talk about that stuff with other kids.
What was the name of the Christian-based book? I’m sure people would love to check it out.
Proverbs 14:12 NASB1995
There is always the temptation to use reform in order to advance a mother's interests in conditioning and grooming her boys for the fulfilment of contractual obligations.
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Proverbs 14:12 There is a way which seems right to a man,
But its end is the way of death.