How to take feedback
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- čas přidán 28. 04. 2019
- Feedback about your performance is NOT the same thing as feedback about who you are: The more you learn that difference, the less you will take things personally, and ultimately, the more successful you will be.
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I have been teaching anger Management for 5 years now, and i can say "Great job for ur videos"
Thank you so much. I put my heart and soul into what I do. I can tell you that the work you're doing is no doubt saving people's lives. Anger is of course natural, and impulses are certainly hard to control at times, but doing the work you're doing is transformative. Definitely sending you and all the people you work with much peace!
Incredible lesson here, thank you Dr. Conte! This will not only allow me to change my life but the lives of my loved ones.
Thank you so much! I definitely agree with you that when we take control of our lives, we not only change ourselves, but impact our loved ones as well. Definitely sending you all my best and much peace!
Thank you thank you. I started watching your vids about a year ago and your advice has changed my families lives...
I don't think I could possibly say how much your words mean to me. Thank you so much. And please know I am sending you and your family tons of peace in my meditations.
thanks Dr Christian i will try not to take your feedback personally
Yes! That's great to hear, because feedback about your performance is never personal, it's just about your performance. Sometimes it's helpful to imagine that you are the one giving the same feedback to someone else. You wouldn't want them to take it as a personal attack. And likewise, the same is true for you. I hope this helps! Definitely sending you all my best and tons of peace!
Love!
Some people will be mad with just this offering suggestion on how to take feed back.
Thank you for helping me grow. I see a bigger picture. Thanks
Your videos are greatly appreciated. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Thank you so much! Sending you much gratitude and peace!
Dr. Conte - amazing content - keep up the great work!
Blip blip Ya ! Right on point ..
People don't get this cause when you tell them something to help them the ego takes over with most.
Yes! Ego is the #1 thing that inhibits personal growth.... Thanks for watching! Sending you much peace!
Excellent. As always!!
Appreciate you! Sending you much peace for sure!
Thank you dr Christian conte I am learning alot from you and I appreciate the tools you are giving me to better my self as an individual. You are an amazing person and wish I can actually talk to you. I have alot of anger since I was a child and watching your videos help me let go of those feelings I'm attached to and I honestly get emotional sometimes watching your videos because I realize how attached to the bad feelings I was. Thank you Dr conte i appreciate your work, happy new year and i cant wait to see more videos.
Great content, Doc C.
Really interesting and helpful tips thanks
great posts, videos. Hope for your great success.
Very insightful Dr. Conte! Wish I found you years ago.
Thank you! Hey, and I as I frequently even say to myself, it's better late than never. I know I can beat myself up at times over wishing I had known in the past what I know now, but the reality is, we learn what we're ready to take in. Definitely sending you all my best and tons of peace!
I enjoyed the breakdown of the actions versus the intentions. Because we as people have great creativity because of GOD and can't seem to naturally produce the intentions we think at times. Thus getting feedback that is often times harmful. Great video
Ty
My rage is like nuclear level the one thing I have no clue why it's there or what made it. I've been trying and no matter how hard I try to aim it at certain things everything around me suffers. My fiancee puts up with it and trys to help me. I just don't know how to get loose from this rage permanently it makes me feel like a monster. I try and think about things trying to find out why but I feel a mental block in my mind that I don't understand.
shadowknight611 look at your diet buddy, likely there. Look up Dr Berg. Good luck.
I do have a video called getting angry without knowing why, but even if that doesn't help, I would definitely suggest that you talk to a professional counselor in your area. I think when we talk things out, it helps us crystalize our ideas. Also, I would definitely welcome you calling into my radio show on Monday nights from 8pm-10pm EST. In any case, definitely sending you and your fiancé all my best and tons of peace!
I am terrible at criticism cant take or give it with grace
Love your videos Dr Conte, I have a question that is kinda related to this video
What if the guy/gal who is giving you feed back is interpreting your intention? How to deal with this guy?
It happens to me a lot
Especially when this person is an important one in your life, and he is totally misinterpreting my intentions in the wrong way
This is a great question. You know, I have a radio show on Monday nights from 8pm to 10pm EST. This would be a great topic to discuss.... Just saying.... In any case, definitely sending you all my best and tons of peace!
Need to work on this take to much personal
Plz add. English subtitles so that people from other countries can understand it.i don't understand yr language v.clearly.but I read what is written on screen v.clearly.
I'm not sure how to do that, but I can look into it for sure. Definitely appreciate you watching, though, and sending you all my best and tons of peace!
Feedback from prospective employers is a waste of time. They have no idea what you are like until you are in a job.