Dr. Christian Conte
Dr. Christian Conte
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Overcoming Betrayal: How to Find Peace
Understanding WHY you were betrayed is separate from being OVER the pain of being betrayed - But understanding why is often an incredibly important step to moving through the pain to help you learn the lesson that the experience teaches. Although thoughts of revenge are common, they do not lead to peace; and remember, the ultimate goal for all of us is peace. Special thanks to Tariq from New Zealand for asking for this video.
Sending everyone who sees this, and everyone who doesn't, much peace.
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REAL WORLD ANGER MANAGEMENT Audio Program available here:
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BOOKS:
Walking Through Anger available here:
www.amazon.com/Walking-Through-Anger-Confronting-Emotionally/dp/1683642589/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=
Life Lessons available here: www.amazon.com/Life-Lessons-Christian-Conte-Ph-D/dp/1494426625/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=life+lessons+conte&qid=1600342667&s=books&sr=1-1
Mastering What You Practice available here:
www.amazon.com/Mastering-What-You-Practice-Learning/dp/1729526934
Getting Control of Yourself: Anger Management Tools and Techniques, available here:
www.amazon.com/Getting-Control-Yourself-Management-Techniques/dp/B008XBG91W
Teaching Stories available here: www.amazon.com/Teaching-Stories-Half-Told-Contemplate-Personal/dp/150763448X/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=teaching+stories+conte&qid=1600342724&s=books&sr=1-1
Zen Parent, Zen Child available here:
www.amazon.com/Parent-Child-Christian-Conte-Ph-D/dp/0692416838
For those newly paroled or soon to be up for parole:
www.amazon.com/Successful-Parole-Handling-Conflict-Program/dp/B0BD22NTP7/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3GYDY8D14N6D8&keywords=successful+parole&qid=1673291859&sprefix=successful+parole%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1
21 Days to Change Your Life:
www.amazon.com/21-Days-Change-Your-Life/dp/B09NRJZ9K8/ref=d_pd_sbs_sccl_1_2/141-2812123-8129617?pd_rd_w=jHtiP&content-id=amzn1.sym.bf42acb1-03cc-4a7b-a343-860b9e7fe4bf&pf_rd_p=bf42acb1-03cc-4a7b-a343-860b9e7fe4bf&pf_rd_r=G154JQWC3B3B6DVQCX81&pd_rd_wg=asINl&pd_rd_r=c44096d0-0144-4f7e-8cef-794a1015fe4a&pd_rd_i=B09NRJZ9K8&psc=1
Find my dad's book here:
www.amazon.com/This-NOT-Your-Practice-Life/dp/B09XJ5PTLQ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=WVMIDLGQAX55&keywords=this+is+not+your+practice+life+conte&qid=1673291800&sprefix=this+is+not+your+practice+life+conte%2Caps%2C93&sr=8-1
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Komentáře

  • @annasmith9494
    @annasmith9494 Před dnem

    Thank you for another excellent talk!

  • @SuperCatCamper
    @SuperCatCamper Před dnem

    jsi lejno

  • @livinglargecoachingcounseling

    I miss your radio program, please post more often. Much love to you.

  • @fairygurl9269
    @fairygurl9269 Před 2 dny

    Reflections of Peace 💞

  • @joemosser8119
    @joemosser8119 Před 2 dny

    Great video Doc.

  • @livinglargecoachingcounseling

    Dr. Conte, I have missed your weekly dose of calm reality. Betrayal is a special kind of hurt because of the element of surprise and shock, and loss of trust.

    • @DrChristianConte
      @DrChristianConte Před dnem

      @@livinglargecoachingcounseling A., Thank you for your kindness. B., You are so right: it’s element of shock that adds to the pain. There’s a lot more to say about this, but I wanted to at least add something to be helpful for people who are going through this. Definitely sending you much gratitude and peace! 🙏🏼

  • @marilynmonroe2929
    @marilynmonroe2929 Před 2 dny

    I really appreciate you and your videos. Thank you for all you do.

  • @Dlpfan1985
    @Dlpfan1985 Před 2 dny

    Anger management punching bag

  • @Captainscentsable44

    Did that last story really happen ? Be honest

    • @DrChristianConte
      @DrChristianConte Před 3 dny

      100% verbatim. That happened about 15 years ago. I actually heard from that gentlemen about 2 years ago. One thing I love is that I still keep in touch with many of the people I've worked with through the years. What's most important for you is that you maintain your power no matter what others say to you. Definitely sending you all my best and tons of peace!

  • @RussellNimmo
    @RussellNimmo Před 4 dny

    Thanks!

  • @mr.selfdestruct2917

    If i could just learn to ignore.

  • @thomaserickson568
    @thomaserickson568 Před 5 dny

    I love that your room is kinda cluttered and plus no guitar, makes you seem authentic. I'm enjoying this series, much peace to you.

    • @DrChristianConte
      @DrChristianConte Před 4 dny

      Thank you! I put my heart and soul into what I do, and I'm grateful you would take time to watch and comment. Sending you all my best and tons of peace!

  • @joshuaandree9007
    @joshuaandree9007 Před 6 dny

    I see what you’re saying. Changes the way I think about it.

    • @DrChristianConte
      @DrChristianConte Před 5 dny

      I'm always incredibly grateful to hear when people have the courage and strength to be open-minded enough to challenge the way they think, so thank you for taking time to share that comment. Definitely sending you much peace!

  • @ChrystineMartinez
    @ChrystineMartinez Před 6 dny

    Bruh this guy is so amazing.. you made me cry because I work day and night until I can’t. I’m powerful I’m great thank you sir.. God bless your soul ❤❤

    • @DrChristianConte
      @DrChristianConte Před 5 dny

      Thank you so much. Sending you much gratitude and peace!

  • @kihahu248
    @kihahu248 Před 6 dny

    I lost my relationship due to anger outbursts

  • @ritaogechukwu9819
    @ritaogechukwu9819 Před 7 dny

    You’re right

  • @ritaogechukwu9819
    @ritaogechukwu9819 Před 7 dny

    🥹🥹

  • @MovieJustin
    @MovieJustin Před 9 dny

    Statements aren't techniques. I'd love to hold on to my power but how?

  • @MovieJustin
    @MovieJustin Před 9 dny

    I still believe slow driving should be a prosecutable offense 😂

  • @Christian_Prepper
    @Christian_Prepper Před 10 dny

    *First, like many emotions, the term "anger" comes in a range/spectrum, and is context dependent. An angry person that happens to be a stranger in a bar, vs your teenage daughter at your home, vs a regular customer at work, and what they are angry at, you, someone else, a situation, etc, may all have different solutions with different potential outcomes based on the intensity of their anger. Therefore, to suggest one set protocol to deal with all angry encounters may not yield the best results.* *As for the solutions that can be tailor fit to individual situations, I'll just say that it is a true study and practice, that a single video could never handle.* *Laslty, the majority of advice on this subject that I've heard over the years is pure theory/supposition and until you have real street experience with the most intense anger (which is all the counts for verification) it'll only result in a false sense of security and get you killed, or at least your butt kicked.* *Liberty = Peace & I pray we always enjoy both!*

  • @Christian_Prepper
    @Christian_Prepper Před 10 dny

    *TOP 10 VIDEO MISTAKES:* *1.* 😂😂😂😂

  • @queenadonis9589
    @queenadonis9589 Před 10 dny

    I am tired of losing people I care about because of my anger I'm new to. This is this, but I'm done not trying to fix this. Please, I need help. I'm at the end of my ropes

  • @americajocelyn1035
    @americajocelyn1035 Před 11 dny

    Great techniques! I heard the meaning of the first and I said -What?! 😠Am I doing what?! 😅 I was aware, not in the whole point angry haha, It was just pure simplicity those techniques so👌🏻Quality. Thankful, have a great day😊

  • @katelynmaurer7042
    @katelynmaurer7042 Před 11 dny

    Probably one of the worlds greatest problems

  • @patriciacoco2665
    @patriciacoco2665 Před 13 dny

    I am mostly judgmental to stupid people who have no awareness of people around them and/or no manners. But I need to learn, that I cannot change others. Some are meant to be small-minded.

    • @DrChristianConte
      @DrChristianConte Před 10 dny

      Self-awareness is incredibly helpful, and I am always impressed by people who have both self-awareness and the courage to call themselves out about it. The next step, as you no doubt already know, is to practice it constantly. Do your best to catch yourself using "shoulds." The more you practice it, not only will you notice your "shoulds" faster, but also, you'll be able to quickly replace them with accurate language (i.e., "This person did say/do this..."), and the less reactive you'll feel. I hope this helps! Definitely sending you much peace!

  • @MatiasDixon-n1s
    @MatiasDixon-n1s Před 14 dny

    Thank you ....Dr Christian Conte for bringing out the message....❤

  • @kieranthomas5478
    @kieranthomas5478 Před 14 dny

    Some guy assaulted my partner 2 months ago. But the rage and anger is soo deep still. The things I imagine doing to him is on another level. He's been caught only few days ago which has not eased my thoughts. I don't know him which is why he's still breathing.

  • @ChrisWilliams-ls7ue
    @ChrisWilliams-ls7ue Před 15 dny

    69th comment, thanks for these videos

  • @kylepatrickmurphy4058

    I love you Dr CC, your videos are so right on!

  • @Fahim_Lalani
    @Fahim_Lalani Před 17 dny

    ❤perfect video sir thanks 🙏

  • @kathstennett447
    @kathstennett447 Před 17 dny

    So I get REALLY angry with myself if I forget something, drop something etc etc and I think it's fear of getting old/especially dementia. This video didn't speak to me.

  • @NickLanders-fy2zp
    @NickLanders-fy2zp Před 17 dny

    I need your help man big time !!!!!!

  • @rgrandberry1234
    @rgrandberry1234 Před 18 dny

    Thank-you for all your help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @rgrandberry1234
    @rgrandberry1234 Před 18 dny

    Great information!!!! Thank-you!!!!!

  • @rgrandberry1234
    @rgrandberry1234 Před 18 dny

    Hello from Canada!!!! Excellent!!!!!

  • @tamer7608
    @tamer7608 Před 18 dny

    Serenity now

  • @user-wx3od8og7p
    @user-wx3od8og7p Před 18 dny

    Dude that bull$#it it won't work , you didn't even ask what he makes him upset

    • @joonjonjew
      @joonjonjew Před 2 dny

      It doesnt matter at that point he has a broken home 😂

  • @seionthreat2644
    @seionthreat2644 Před 19 dny

    What if the puppet master is an employer and the rudeness and racism is constant, and they own the company?

  • @xiomaraserranoponce6929

    My name is John btw

  • @xiomaraserranoponce6929

    I’m extremely anxious angry the world over

  • @newera5238
    @newera5238 Před 20 dny

    THANKYOU Doctor Conte! 🙏

    • @newera5238
      @newera5238 Před 16 dny

      I’ve been battling two time War PTSD, and TRUST issues from past relationships, and now fighting for custody of my oldest Daughter. I was having a horrible day and I looked this video up, and something told me to watch it. It REALLY helps, but I know I need to practice this daily 🙏, thankyou!

  • @timothymcgrath2937
    @timothymcgrath2937 Před 20 dny

    I just came to this realization, and it's great to hear it affirmed. I'm just tired of giving people control over me. Period.

  • @Andy101-tm3hz
    @Andy101-tm3hz Před 22 dny

    It's usually small guys in big truck's who tail gate other's on purpose. Tinted windows is ones best friend.

  • @BeEmpathic
    @BeEmpathic Před 22 dny

    Thank you, Dr Christian Conte. I will try to not give away my power.

  • @JazEdwards-o4s
    @JazEdwards-o4s Před 22 dny

    im happy i found this channel

  • @xKrispyx
    @xKrispyx Před 22 dny

    One of the best pieces of communication advice I ever received was “words, music, dance”. The words you say matter less than the tone you communicate them in, which matters less than the body language you are using while communicating.

  • @kylepatrickmurphy4058

    You the man bro!

  • @ChrisWilliams-ls7ue
    @ChrisWilliams-ls7ue Před 23 dny

    I scored 7/7. That's 100 percent A+

  • @damonmartin7257
    @damonmartin7257 Před 23 dny

    from someone who has experienced raged for 45 years, I can tell you this man is as full of **** as a therapist

  • @damonmartin7257
    @damonmartin7257 Před 23 dny

    not one ** thing you mentioned helps. hunger??? being hungry has never made me made, but wasting my time listening to this ** has. what a *uck stick