Have the courage to be disliked. You deserve to live an authentic life.

What would life be like if you start being ok with disappointing others? By that I mean, letting go of obligations, the need to please others, and to start truly looking out for yourself.
Love,
Chi
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[@11ZEPHYR67]

People-Users NEED People-Pleasers ... Question everyone's intentions using your own mind, don't be swayed by anyone who tries to make you feel guilty about being authentically yourself.

[@Matteratzii]

This came up in my feed! Your videos are touching on some of the life issues I'm facing as a late 20s. So hard to suddenly start being authentic and a constant battle

[@LiveWithChi]

It is definitely so hard. It's a life long journey for sure 🤍

[@ProdavackaDivu]

Let’s say two hundred years ago humans really couldn’t survive being rejected by individuals in their social sphere because we just didn’t have the infrastructure to survive anonymously like we do now. Back then if you pissed off the local farmer, he might not sell you meat and produce. If you upset the local tailor, you better learn to sew your own clothes (but you probably wouldn’t have time if you were working dawn to dusk). So if your ideas were fringe or your personality wasn’t popular, you masked a lot. Luckily now I walk into a store and it’s a corporation that isn’t going to discriminate against customers based on their personal characteristics. Also luckily, women can work and provide for themselves, so I can survive despite men not finding me submissive and marriageable 😂 Let’s lean into our authenticity. People rejecting us won’t kill us anymore ❤

[@kaolineb630]

Love this perspective. You’re so smart.

[@lalithakrishnamurthy9663]

Since v2021 I have found out my husband and my 2 adult children have no good feelings for me as a mother .in fact they have rejected me and excluded me even though iam living with my husband who Iam not in talking terms everyday life is dysfunctional band toxic to be in for me and I think for my husband too .because of financial reasons I cannot leave this life if I can call that!my stomach is churning in anxiety and toxic juices!iam frustrated and helpless by ME

[@TheWolfeDen]

This was a pleasant watch. Hope the algorithm is kind to you

[@LiveWithChi]

Thank you so much for your kinds words. Sending you love 💕

[@bw5277]

Just discovered your channel.
Very much enjoy your topics and calm delivery. Wife and I planning to visit Vancouver this August.

[@experiencesoflife3007]

letting goo and acceptance is great courage which gives own life parallel

[@shadowclonejutsu8500]

you have a nice vibe

[@ten_oclock_scholar4690]

I really needed to hear this. Thank you.

[@spiralsun1]

This was so extremely helpful and important I’m just taken aback ❤
THANK YOU 🙏🏻 ❤

[@johnbul6920]

You’re absolutely amazing 😊

[@intosomethingbeautiful]

great video :) may we keep leaning towards our true authentic essence. My whole life I was people pleasing and feeling guilty for making mistakes, healing and reconciling where that comes from, from the wounded inner child has allowed me to reclaim my honest feelings and honour them fully and keep nurturing when I need to step in from my highest truthful self. :)

[@LiveWithChi]

So brave to be on this journey. You should be so proud of yourself 🤍

[@Anon-mj7xr]

Having the courage of being disliked also implies the courage to be lonely. Joining dating apps after a 4 year relationship has introduced me to some types of people that I'm not used to. These situations have been a massive learning experience in disappointment, rejection, and being rejected. I think the dynamics on these apps enable types of behaviour that can cause some of the hate that exists in the "manosphere". I have found many people to be more trouble than their worth but the beauty of it is that we have the freedom to interact with them or not. These dynamics shift at a societal level where we seemingly have no choice but to make money, work, and/or sometimes interact with unpleasant people. In those cases I've found we can live in the sanctuary of our mind and be at peace with the idea that chaos is inherent in the outside world but isn't valuable internalized. Continue thoughts over coffee at Breka?

[@BEACHDUDE71]

Yup I agree happy holidays and happy new year

[@TheSaidame]

subscribed recently and I already love your videos . I ike your mindset!

[@L0neWolf_333]

Omg I needed this

[@dee1084]

Loved the video. Just found your channel and I’m glad I did ❤ may your channel keeps growing.

[@LiveWithChi]

Aww thank you for your kind words 🤍

[@BlessingArundhathi]

i was magnetically drawn to your video and subscribed instantly!! ❤

[@gamerchristina1079]

🙏🙏❤️❤️‼️

[@jenagarraway]

❤

[@mightbeLara]

gland i found your channel

[@NyteRazor]

I clicked only because I saw you wearing same type of sweater and pajama bottoms I am but with different colors. Yep! They are comfy. BTW, I liked not disliked your video. 🤭

[@roncinephile]

rockin' that double negative like a champ

[@LiveWithChi]

Comfy clothes ftw!

[@Ed-xv4sy]

This video came up in my video multiple times, so here i am lol

[@myonee..]

I followed u coz u r so nonchalant lol

[@cloudpluto]

Nice vid, good topic

[@cloudpluto]

There's one quote about how you should accept criticism from people you would take advice from (but not the reverse). I think that's my view on what you're talking about around the 5 minute mark :)

[@LiveWithChi]

Yes, love this perspective. Thank you 🌷

[@georgemantzanas3942]

you are so freaking cute!

[@christianlinnett4836]

it's free to be yourself ..... not fee to listen to you talk to me about yourself cupcake. love U

[@Hunter-pr9yx]

fucking sick