Why being picky with your friendships & connections is a life worth LIVING

Hello beautiful souls,
I hope that this video makes you feel less alone in your struggles with connecting with the outside world. A world that is often loud, overstimulating and chaotic. You're not crazy for feeling like you don't belong. Nor are you crazy for feeling like why you can't seem to connect with most people. It just means that you value depth, meaning and vulnerability.
Our time, space and energy are like currency - they're valuable and not something that we give away freely. Being conscious of who you allow into your life only means being in more aligned friendships, which also means knowing what you want and deserve 🤍
I used to feel very lonely in my previous connections. But now looking back, it just meant that I wasn't vibing with them, y'know? And that's ok. We're not meant for everyone and not everyone is meant for us. I've now realised what I truly value - depth, active listening, soulful connections, sharing feelings, holding space for each other.
Plus, I personally can't be fucked with small talk.
With love,
Chi
PS: I thought you should know i was wearing my PJ dress 😆 a very comfy attire for being out in nature
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[@LiveWithChi]

Hello beautiful souls,
I hope that this video makes you feel less alone in your struggles with connecting with the outside world. A world that is often loud, overstimulating and chaotic. You're not crazy for feeling like you don't belong. Nor are you crazy for feeling like why you can't seem to connect with most people. It just means that you value depth, meaning and vulnerability.
Our time, space and energy are like currency - they're valuable and not something that we give away freely. Being conscious of who you allow into your life only means being in more aligned friendships, which also means knowing what you want and deserve 🤍
I used to feel very lonely in my previous connections. But now looking back, it just meant that I wasn't vibing with them, y'know? And that's ok. We're not meant for everyone and not everyone is meant for us. I've now realised what I truly value - depth, active listening, soulful connections, sharing feelings, holding space for each other.
Plus, I personally can't be fucked with small talk.
With love,
Chi
PS: I thought you should know i was wearing my PJ dress 😆 a very comfy attire for being out in nature

[@DashGodspeed]

The ant, a symbol of remarkable unity, teamwork, and unwavering diligence, serves as a profound reminder of the power of cooperation and collaboration in our lives. Its spiritual energy instils in us a deep appreciation for the significance of working harmoniously together towards shared objectives. And it bit you Thats powerful a ant crawled on my leg today and I am letting go of a connection sthat drains me as well I am healing the abandonment wound. Thanks for this message 💫 Asé

[@dth92301]

Highly recommend the book by Susan Cain, "Quiet, The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking"

[@RoseMoon2]

Girl that scenery is gorgeous!!

[@LiveWithChi]

Omg isn’t it!!! 🌴🌺🌅

[@333_Tarot]

To heal shame, please fully accept and integrate that you are not guilty for wanting love. 🌹

[@bw5277]

Thank you for sharing. I enjoy hiking a lot and spending a lot of time in nature, often alone. Enjoy your calm and relaxed demeanor.

[@RoseMoon2]

Upon seeing the title I was already like YES and as I'm watching and listening to the video rn i just wanna say how much i relate and it's honestly so nice to hear that yes, there are in fact so many other people who share these experiences and thoughts with me

[@LiveWithChi]

It can definitely lonely in a world where society shines more light on the outgoing extroverted loud personality traits 🤍

[@1m2a3t4t5]

This has been me all my life and my natural state.
But now Im questioning it, why do we write most people off like they arent cool to us and dont matter?
What if there is no DEEP level to meet someone.
I heard our personality types Assume all these people have deep rich inner lives, when they Dont! Maybe thats reductive and dismissive of people to even say that though Idk. Maybe thats just coping in a negative superiority kind of way.
Just some pondering, feeling really confused and stepping outside of my beliefs to try to potentially restructure or see things from other viewpoints, particularly the more universal viewpoints, in this time of my life. I dont enjoy spreading agonizing confusion on others. Idk, questioning a lot recently.

[@Notrealgohan]

I always was aware of liking 1-1 friendships since i was a kid . But growing now i can see how it has negative impact such as making your whole world revolve around those only two or 1 friend and when they are both not available you feel like you have nobody thats why i keep surface relationships even though I know in my gut i hate them . Im forcing myself to just not care and just have them there .

[@gamerchristina1079]

Thank you!!

[@BufferMonkey]

I see friendship as an equal exchange, so you should feel as though you're getting as much as you're giving. Overtime as a friendship builds, both people should develop and improve through the enrichment of this exchange. If you're giving more than you're receiving, then overtime this will diminish you, because you're giving yourself away piece by piece. Ultimately, it's quality over quantity, one or two very close friends is better than 20 acquaintances.

[@LiveWithChi]

❤❤❤

[@Motivational_Healing]

awesome video

[@hannahslattery-quintanilla]

Awww…cool video. Sorry about the ants! 🐜 💥 😮

[@LiveWithChi]

As long as the ants don’t kill me to death I’m good 😆😆😆😆

[@Jesuslovesyou0316]

God loves you so! John 3:16✝️

[@user-fs3tz2yk6u]

I so relate. Thank you for sharing🙏

[@g4mrplays]

Dandelions is what i think you're thinking about

[@LiveWithChi]

Yes!!! Thank you

[@g4mrplays]

@@LiveWithChi I'm from the midwest and we have a ton of them here lol

[@edwinrosales6322]

Love the scenery! Good to see you!

[@LiveWithChi]

🥰🥰 thanks Edwin

[@edwinrosales6322]

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