If you constantly interpret & analyse other people's actions, please STOP. You deserve INNER PEACE.
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- čas přidán 25. 06. 2024
- Hello beautiful souls,
This video is for those who constantly try to interpret, analyse & justify other people's actions and behaviours. It's what people pleasers do. But I urge all of us to take a step back from this behaviour, and start prioritising OUR own reality, feelings and perception. Why? Because we deserve INNER PEACE.
If you're hurt by other people's action's, no matter how well-intentioned and well meaning they might be, what matters is how you feel.
Once you step into this power, you are then able to know with full confidence what you're willing and not willing to tolerate. This builds self-trust. This builds a stronger muscle for practising self-love.
So I repeat, it doesn't matter if that person or friend isn't 'bad' or 'harmful'. What matters is - are you willing to tolerate their action and behaviour that doesn't align with your self-worth?
Are you willing to accept the current situation and reality for what they are?
If you're not willing to, why is that?
Answer honestly.
It took me a long, long time to relearn this. But it was worth looking at myself with cold hard truths.
Prioritise your reality. Your feelings.
With love,
Chi
It is brilliant. Self control and being honest with yourself is key, and follow through.
Thank you. I'm struggling with this and I'm having a difficult time trusting myself, Spirit, and my life. Really appreciate you.
I love listening to you. Thanks for your content
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Thinking can make us justify the unjustifiable. As Bruce Lee said; "Don't Think ... Feel".
You are absolutely 100% right in my opinion and experience.
I have got it down to "One Chance" for anyone in my life. It's the mind which distorts reality, it makes us 'bolster up' and facilitate other peoples' wrong behaviour, at the expense of ourself, as well as everyone else that person comes into contact with.
It's the internal NOT the external, beautiful, thank you ❤🙏
I love this - thank you for sharing this beautiful perspective. It is most ddfinitely the internal. Sending you love 🤍
You are welcome, I feel compelled to respond when something resonates so powerfully with me, and also hopefully it helps confirm how valuable I know this message is, sending you love ❤ @@LiveWithChi
A nice message! Two chances for me, as I have seen people genuinely make amazing change in themselves, but after that, 100%
Thought I'd share this w/ you as I get so much from your videos: I'm just realizing today, but what if I don't follow every thought, feeling, and emotion down the road to action (e.g., having to say or do something about it)? What if I just let it be and see what happens? In the same way, do you let a yoga discomfort during a pose stay in the position or an urge to cough just be there? The thought dissipated independently often, and I didn't need to do anything.
Thanks a beautiful message. ❤
Thank you., Sending you love 🤍
Very important insight ❤
Can you do a video like this in Chinese? I would love to share with my mom
@10:57 isn’t being less in control a good thing? in other videos you mention how trying to be in control is the opposite of letting go, and a lack of control is embracing surrender… i’m confused.
Sorry this is off topic from your video, but do they have tea tree oil in Taiwan? That will help calm down the itchiness and swelling of any insect bites (e.g. fleas, spiders, mosquitos, etc.). I use it all the time and it does wonders!
Haha love this. Yes they do and I've tried it. They do help! It does do wonders - thank you 🌺 It's unfortunate that mosquitoes and sandflies love me....
To help you: do not ever drink something while doing a video with a throat microphone or collar clip-on mic. Or holding a mic by your throat. 😊 it is very distracting and changes my mood and ability to listen. Changes the effect of the whole video. On the plus side, you are very authentic and easy to listen to otherwise. I came here from a much more popular CZcams channel that I had to stop watching because it was obvious she had seen or heard to make hand-motions in videos, but it was so contrived and confusing to the point where I couldn’t watch anymore. It was like someone babbling in the background or actually completely detracting from the authenticity of the video because it completely didn’t fit the mood or what she was saying. Unconscious emotions usually drive the hand motions and you literally cannot fake it. This whole description is to express my EXTEME LOVE of you being your authentic self which is absolutely beautiful and more than enough. 😊❤ So what I said about the mic is like a coach with a gymnast in the Olympics. Perhaps harsh, but with only love and good intentions ultimately. A sign of your value. THANK YOU. ❤
Just let her be
It is not distracting at all. Your comment is unkind and entitled. Let her be.
This is exactly how people lose the authenticity which you so much value. By trying to satisfy "helpful" critics like you. So very harmful.
@@eyelovetheskyandthesea Exactly!!! ❤️
@@terezawongova9414 You obviously didn’t read the whole comment.
"What is the look of one hand scratching?"
I don't mean to be a troll, it just came up.
I couldn't hear the sound...