I was UGLY Before Spending $30,000 on a NEW FACE | Surgeon Reacts
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She was never ugly. Her makeup was wrong.
Was thinking the exact same thing
Even without makeup she'd look aight
Was looking for this ... tho "wrong" in quotation marks, cuz she was just as cute before, she just updated her look from 2010 makeup to 2023 haha! 😅😄
Yes, and that thing on her head in the first picture wasn't flattering.
Blame the ludicrous celebrity worship and the msm that pushes those celebs down everyone's throat every single day.
The fact that she believes she was "ugly" before is just ridiculous.
Well she was ugly before, and she is ugly after.
I think she made that title mainly for clickbait. But starting lip fillers at such a young is quite tragic yes😢
that is true, but its nice to see that she did improve dramatically and is now genuinely happy, mostly you just see the botched ones in the media, but this is a success story
I don’t think we have the entire story of why she feels this way.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy may help. I would at least try this first. Also, a change might do her good. Throw out toxic people and try to live a healthier mindset.
Maybe start with finding out if there is something in the past that started the low self esteem. Then, try to determine if the plastic surgery has improved this.
See an expert.
But for sure not a beauty barbie too
Social media is truly evil bc how could this woman believe she was ugly
Nobody forced her to join any social media. She did this to herself and her parents failed her in instilling self respect or love.
+ she looks like another youtuber i follow
I’m so glad that I was broke when I was young.
hahaha same
I live for how chill this doctor is.. so chill… i feel like if i was his patient i’d just forget to panic
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 same
He is a pretty cool guy. I had an interview with him but unfortunately didn't land the job. Doesn't take away the fact that he was really chill and his staff was super nice.
His voice is my anesthesia
@@coolandgood1010He does have a relaxing voice now that I think about it.
Forever grateful that I was a teenager long before social media. Influencers ruin lives every day, now.
Same.
💯 agree!
What I don't get is how parents and guardians don't talk enough at the diner table on this phenomenon.
Influencers are glorified sales jobs.
But not just the good old Vacuum cleaner door to door seller that will need to face the adult in the house before being invited inside.
Children cannot know the difference between a sales agenda and a real friend.
Unless their parents, teachers, older siblings, guardians (basically caring adults in their life) explain and talk about it to them from an early age.
Exposure to information and care from people that love them. That's the solution!!!!
Personally I didn't need social media to feel insecure, bullying took care of it and adults aren't better unfortunately.
Nobody wants to seat at the table to talk, everybody with cell phones eating in their rooms. @@vivayo4588
She looked like a gorgeous 90s movie star before. Such classical beauty. Now she looks like every other Instagram girl.
She looks beautiful now. Stop hating.
I don’t see any major differences in her facial structure between 16 and present (not the in between) that aren’t explained by age. I think it’s just her makeup.
@@A1Kirano she looks like a robot faking to be somebody else is not good
i hate that lip filler look she did back then
I was thinking Betty Boop / Mae Questel
Whenever I see "glow-ups" in videos or photos I'm shocked, but not over the change these people have gone thru but rather over the fact that they literally were so beautiful BEFORE all of these procedures.
I keep thinking "...you didn't need any of this!" constantly.
This video depressed me. She got a fake ID to start changing herself as a child. I'm so sad that this is where we are. I'm not Anti plastic surgery I think it's amazing, especially for people with injuries or born with disfigurement. I just wish we weren't so quick to accept the tweaking from young people.
You are sad because you whitenessed a woman increasing her appearance and subsequently her quality of life? Weird
Yesss!
Yep definitely agree
Plastic surgery before you're fully physically and mentally developed doesn't sit right with me. Money could be used in so many smarter ways as well.
@BunnyHop2 My heart aches for you too. I hope you didn't feel this way about yourself.
Your eyebrows are looking great
Yeah they are! Wow. Cool.
It took me a beat to realize! And yes, they do look very good.
Ive been nodding in acceptance for a good while too ❤
Yes❤
YASSSSSSS!!!
Getting a major crush on Dr. Linkov! Intelligent, compassionate, and gorgeous. Excellent videos
Why was I thinking this 😅 he's definitely not my type but something about this video had me blushing like ok DR
she was such a natural beauty!.. now she is the type of beauty everyone replicates, everyone looks the same.. her natural nose was so perfect and fitted her face perfectly.. and what's wrong with small boobs??
The thing is, the risk of surgery isn’t negligible. I have chronic health conditions, and people have no idea how valuable health is. I can’t fathom risking my health for my looks.
And undoubtedly, the people we remember are those with unique beauty. That type of beauty only improves with age, too.
Dude she did NOT need veneers, her teeth were literally perfect before. That's definitley a procedure shes gonna regret in the long run.
How u know?
@@JoJo-vi6xx veneers dont last forever. Makes no sense to get this done so young cause you need to do it at least 2 times (or you die young when you get a bbl LOL)
They last 10 years (up to 30 if you are extremely lucky). Basically, as your teeth get partly destroyed during the procedure, you can never go back to your natural teeth. And you risk gradual decay of your teeth underneath. She will have a lot of problems, when she gets older.
Agreed. I liked her before teeth. Her after teeth look too fake. But veneers generally look fake
Rich people problem!
She wasn't ugly. She just had very low self-esteem and body dysmorphia. And now she has all those things AND she has $30,000 less dollars.
You have no idea how many young girls and women feel like that, as a guy I feel bad for women these days, everywhere they look whether it’s online or outside in the world everyone is looking and judging them based on how women on instagram and onlyfans look like.
Yeah she had a more "chubbier" face. But wasn't ugly
And where did that low self esteem come from??? Y’all are legit sl0w 🤡
@@justacutie.same thing very close
She's going to have less. I can tell she's going to get more and more work done until she looks like a Picasso painting. She clearly has issues.
Ok the girl story was really concerning and interesting, but the doctor voice??? Omg so soothing and that smile at the end? 😫💘
Thank you for educating the public on fillers and they need to understand HA is the ONLY filler type that Can be dissolved.
This girl will not stop here. She will always be looking for more things to fix.
Wait a couple of years and we have another Joan Rivers
I have a lot of friends (and myself included) who had rhinoplasties or BA years ago and we only ever get botox and filler touch ups once or twice a year. Saying someone will 100% continue getting work done based on a 5 minute video is so weird, you don't know her? There are people who fixed some insecurities and don't get addicted to surgery. Getting plastic surgery once isn't an automatic ticket to looking like Donatella
Did we learn nothing from Michael Jackson????
lol she did stop there though
@@LolaOpheliac She literally said she's her own worst judge even after getting all those procedures and she's not ruling out future procedures. She's clearly still not happy with her appearance despite being a "Barbie" now.
gosh, the increasing popularity of veneers is a disease! this girl's before teeth looked SO NICE. why are YOUNG people with moderately temporary wealth destroying their perfectly HEALTHY, if not just a bit crooked, teeth?! most of these influencers showing their before teeth could have fixed their issues with invisalign or a round of whitening! a lot of them also only have one or two wonky teeth but they get their ENTIRE MOUTH capped??!?! not only that, but they all get the same blinding white CHICLET teeth which look absurdly unnatural and too big for their mouths. IT IS SO SAD
Agreed.
The chiclet teeth comment killed me.
Yes, she had the best teeth of anyone I've EVER seen get them worked on cosmetically. Odd.
They ALWAYS look like they have dentures, it just looks ridiculous. It’s this look of the fake ugly lips and the same unnatural weird ass looking ceramic teeth that all these influencers tend to have. And when they are 40 they will need actual dentures because they destroyed all their teeth in their 20s. So I guess they will get what they deserve..also it’s much more attractive if someone has good natural teeth, because it shows they took care of it their whole life. Anyone can get veneers but not everyone has good oral hygiene. It shows the type of person you are.
@@summrflowers7253 People don't realize the problems that can arise later on. It's permanent. Also, they'd better make sure they have the money for future work. Veneers can be problematic and not every dentist who does them is an excellent one. I would never take this route.
You’re voice is so general and comforting
I didn't realize she had work done but appreciate her honesty
the biggest part in all this is the parents. When are we going to address the epidemic of the non-existent parenting? the girl started this as a minor, and years of feeling ugly, not special and not worthy led up to this. I can imagine getting the first one secretly - you save all the Christmas and birthday money your grandparents, parents and aunties give you, maybe do a part-time gig and get a $200 filler in some back alley shop you find on instagram or even cheaper from some 1st year medical student. But to do it again? And again? While still being under your parents' care? inconceivable
Teenagers can go to all sort of lengths to do what ever they want. From buying drugs to buying surgery. If a teen has a strong mind then they would almost need to be locked up to stop them doing what they want.
Parents ignoring or even bullying their kids about their looks is nothing new. Kids these days just can access a lot of things we never had access to, especially if they aren't flat out broke (they can earn money in ways we couldn't at their age, either - nobody would pay us to review products or the like back then, for instance).
Parents can't fight the environment.
her parents are wealthy so she likely got it done at a really good practice, not some back alley.
however, i agree parents don't really pay much attention to their kids, but at the same time it's not like she wasn't going to do it anyway.
@@Call-me-Al I agree. I guess, for me, that's all the more reason to help people get more parenting education and guidance because the environment has changed, the internet has given kids access to everything and everything access to them, we're not in 2000s or 90s anymore. And you're right about the access to more things for esp the more well-off children, so again, in my opinion, parents in those families have more resources to do better, and they must get the notion that they should.
The only problem that girl has is body dismorphia. She is the only one that sees herself as "ugly." I hope all people love themselves and others for who they are
LMAO, yes sure. People never call others ugly, everyone is kind and polite. Rainbows and butterflies.
@@emionyx1585but their body language says otherwise they all judge others based on looks
Anyone who says someone is ugly is just jealous of them, they have something the bullies don’t have
And men don't stare at any female that moves on the street like a predator. Oh I know YOU wouldn't ....
Was really surprised when she said her teeth were not even, she had nice teeth!
When I was a teen I was unattractive. I thought about getting a nose job and lip fillers. I was stick skinny so I wanted to get some body work too. I am so glad my parents stopped me! As I got older my face and body filled out and I really like how I look. Do what makes you feel confident, but don't have surgery before you are 25 because you are still growing. 💕
I actually think she looks good now and she did not over due it with surgery like other people do.
As far as the rhinoplasty it did help enhance her look in my opinion but she could have ditched the veneers.
How I feel about plastic surgery is if it makes you look better then I’m all for it. It’s when it looks bad I’m like why they do that to themselves.
I think she looks great as long as she doesn't overdo it. I think the rhinoplasty was an improvement
It's just odd how normalized plastic surgery has become for such young people as well as for people who are already attractive. This was not a "thing" fortunately when I was in my teens and 20s. There is clearly a toxic societal shaping happening here.
Once you start, you can't stop. You've seen how celebs ruin their looks because they can't get enough of it.
The teeth are the only bummer part, agreed. They age her by 10 years, I bet… should’ve at least sprung for a truly artistic cosmetic dentist in the states.
@@Rachel_Rydershe looks younger not older and the teeth aren’t something anyone else will be thinking about
Aging is going to be hell for this woman. It’s sad really. If she sees so much wrong with her pretty teenage face I can’t imagine how she’s going to handle aging. I hope she’s spending some energy on having a happy, productive and loving life as she seems spend looking into the mirror and not liking what she sees.
I am so curious to see how her generation handles aging. While they’ll probably drive massive demand and new procedures in the cosmetic surgery, mentally it’s probably going to be pure trauma.
She just got a master's degree, is in a happy relationship and spend the weekend hiking. Sis is living well, y’all need to stop making assumptions.
@@LolaOpheliacto be fair, you’re talking about now, they’re talking about the future
@@LolaOpheliac I mean yeah her life seems happy from what she chooses to post online, but people only post their highlight reels
also lol @ “she spent the weekend hiking!!!”
I cannot even imagine getting surgery so your face can have a "snatched" look at an event 😲
She's honestly just addicted to treatments/procedures. Most people who want that "snatched" look will just tape their face in a way that will give them that look temporarily.
Influencers. Beauty is a competition
The way she said that freaked me out, getting a medical procedure right by your eye to look better for an event? She is treating plastic surgery like makeup and clothes, like a cute look that you change out of at the end of the night…it’s scary. Like this isn’t false eyelashes it’s plastic surgery that could go wrong and disfigure her and she talks about it so nonchalantly. Her mindset is such a red flag and not realistic.
who the hell still says snatched??
I’m so glad I grew up in the 70s. Cover girl clean face look . We didn’t have to color our hair. Jeans and T-shirts. Life was so simple then.🥰
Your voice is so calming. I think I’ll use it to fall asleep.
Honestly the main thing that made her look “ugly” is the bad makeup. If she spent the time, money, and energy she did on surgeries on learning style and make up, she wouldn’t have needed all these procedures.
Yeah…same thoughts here.
Not true. The amount of surgery is a bit much, but she looks better because she has better facial structure and proportion now
She’s lucky only thirty thou. Low end browlift 7k , rhino 10k, botox 700.00 three times a year, cheek filler done right 3000 -5000 , lip filler 2000, jaw botox 1000, and so much more. Veneers upwards of 20k…
So…..
@@visionvixxenok but what’s the point in looking better? she’s going to have to keep getting touch ups now. not a permanent fix and will lead to more problems down the line. not worth it lol
I agree that she can also achieve that look with makeup as well. It could take time to apply for a fully made up look but still that's better than permanently ruining a natural face
I have to say, the makeup before did not flatter her features as well as her current style does. Tailoring makeup to your facial features does wonders without surgery.
It really does. The makeup before was awful.
Imagine going out without any.
You can push around entire areas of your face with the right application of shadows and highlights.
But how can I look beautiful WITHOUT makeup? Or money… I’m poor. 😢
@@missfortune8553good hygiene, groom your eyebrows, and style your hair.
Well spent! It's amazing what they can do.
Your voice is soo calm and reminds me of my beautiful bestie 😭
I don't want to underestimate her efforts, but I think the "after" effect seems more pleasant because she just learned how to make up.
Agree. Makeup does like 90% of the work. Little tweaks will be noticeable to her and that's fine for a self-confidence boost, but most other people won't have a clue. I thought she looked good before, also think she looks good after.
Oh absolutely. Once I figured out how drastically I can change my entire appearance SOLELY by using makeup, i knew without a doubt id never need plastic surgery. If you just understand proper makeup application, you can look completely different.
meg ryan, the actress, also had work done on her face. she looks horrible now in her late 40s. she'll continually need to get it done to not look horrible. its short term thinking.
@@redone823 Meg Ryan is 61.
So ugly girls who don't wear makeup just don't have a chance don't they😂
Maybe it’s because I’m an artist but I love natural faces and expressions. Surgical faces seem frozen and emotionally expressionless. I just don’t get the appeal 🤷🏽♀️. Your natural face is unique. My face changes everyday and as I get older I find it kind of fascinating.
I don't know how old you are but once you hit mid 30's you start to appreciate natural looking faces too. At least I do.
Same for mee. It’s just much more interesting
I also do art and I agree with you, unique/natural faces are beautiful especially on a painting
Your comment is beautiful, which reflects your spirit. So many people don't realize that it is uniqueness that makes something beautiful. Once everyone looks the same, it is "average." Nothing wrong with average, but why not be unique instead?
Right?! This shit is so depressing man I STG😢
Being above average beautiful has many advantages so it really makes sense to wanna get things done imo if i had money I'd definitely do it. I am pretty neutral about my looks but for that reason i can really tell how much it affects people in a way.
You got your eyebrows back!!!! YAY!!!! Happy for you :)
Most people have an “ugly duckling” phase when they’re going through puberty. For you to augment your body whilst still in this development phase is just absurd. I almost look like a different person from what I looked like on my driver’s license at age 17 to me currently at age 30.
Exactly!
So true, I really grew into my face, once the puffiness left, and had braces, I looked so different!
So true
I totally agree. I hit 30 and had a major glow up. I lost weight, learned makeup, learned hair, learned how to dress my body, and my face changed so much. My once chubby cheeks are now slim, I have prominent cheek bones, my jaw line became a bit more defined. This poor girl will always be paying for the next procedure. Also her lips look terrible and puffy. I do like her nose job, but that is the only procedure that she really needed IMHO. The fact that she got veneers is crazy, her teeth were literal perfection before. I am so tired of this plastic instagram look. What she doesn't realize is that these procedures really age you.
You should be going through puberty way before age 17.
I’m a 34yo female and are starting to see the very beginning of aging. I won’t lie, there had been many times I seriously thought about getting things done and even set appointments. However, I was EXTREMELY lucky to have a mother that any time in my childhood I pointed out “flaws” she would immediately tell me I was crazy and that I was a child growing. She’d often make me laugh and say things like… you’re just going through the awkward big puppy paw phase ect… I’d beggg her for a nose job or say I was going to change things once I got older. She’d say in no way would she ever allow anything to be done to my face cosmetically unless it was a medical necessity. Now that my face is fully mature I’m beyond grateful I never touched it as I love how it’s turned out naturally. I’ve decided to ignore social media and age gracefully like my mom and grandmother… I’m also married and my husband constantly tells me I only get more beautiful and striking with age. Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder and as long as my husband thinks I’m the most beautiful women in his life then that’s all that matters to me now. I’m very lucky and thankful I didn’t grow up in the age of social media but I want to let the youth know I had the same insecurities and they do fade as you learn what life is really about and that there is way much more to it then physical appearance. Stay strong girls and ladies and embrace your uniqueness! 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you❤ im heading into 32
And its comforting to know that i should age gracefully and know im still beautiful and its okay to age gracefully.
@@abbywabby30 Tje best thing is to not smoke and use sunscreen
@@abbywabby30and avoid alcohol. Turns out that's also horrible for skin to remain young. ❤ I'm almost 40, and I don't look 16 anymore. Wouldn't it be silly to not age? 😂
My husband is a couple years older than me and sometimes I have that moment where I'm like, "oh my God, his beard is so white now, and he looks so old..." and I have to really watch not saying that, because husband has feelings too, and I would cry if he said that to me. ❤ aging isn't a contest, it's a journey ❤
I'm 34 too. My advice to you... stay off social media! I haven't been on any of it for about a year and a half and I haven't been obsessing over my aging or my ugly nose or how everyone around me doesnt seem to age ever since I logged off. These people arent real and they're only making other people feel insecure about themselves. Hope you enjoy your pretty face and never want to change a thing or even better.. never feel like you need to change a thing!
I see a massive improvement and this is what motivates others to do the same.
Diluting the dissolving solution also increases the times needed to fully dissolve.
As a minor, where was she getting the money for these procedures!!???!
Rich families.
Sounds like her parents were enabling
She said her social media was booming. It could be this.
She committed early on to making her money based on her body and her face. So whatever she invested, she thought it would be worth it. She'd get paid back for it basically by selling her looks. Modeling, influencing, marrying "up". Prostitution, more or less.
You can get a job at 14/15 year old.
Honestly the lip filler is all that drastically changed her look along with aging and different makeup. None of that made her "hotter", she had good facial structure to begin with. I believe going down a path like this, you will never feel the work is done. You're programming your mind to continuously seek out the next thing that needs fixing rather than accepting what you have and finding the beauty in it.
Exactly!
That's not true - I'm happy with the work I've done and I don't plan on doing more besides anty-aging maintenance. It depends really whether you do it to fit to society standard of beauty or your own and whether your expectations are realistic.
@@margodphd did you obtain a fake ID at 16 to get started though? It's an increasingly common problem for people to get dopamine hits from even minor cosmetic procedures especially when they start young. It really does create the same neuropathways in the brain that are seen in addicts of things like gambling. Nobody is exempt from the potential of this happening, even people who seemingly go in with the mindset you speak of.
Fewer and fewer teens and even adults interested in procedures actually have the mature outlook needed to just stick with one. It's become less normalized to do so.
What has become normal is people worrying about aging and getting "touch ups" when they're already baby-faced 22 year olds. In the end they just age themselves and create an expensive lifelong problem they never needed.
The problem is -nobody- can say for sure that they're not going to create an eventual addiction when they go for their first botox. It's becoming increasingly common for that to be the starting point that leads to more and never ends. It's everywhere and in some places you can't attend a high school without having multiple botoxed peers.
It IS true for many people and should be a legit concern for anyone considering altering their face. Nobody is exempt from a potential addiction of any kind. And in this legal addiction, the dealers are socially approved by society so of course most people don't recognize the potential path they're heading down.
People tell themselves all the time they're doing it for themselves, not society, but too often they're being dishonest with themselves. "I didn't do it for anyone but myself" is such a common line. I don't doubt it for you because there are indeed people that manage to have that self control..but even the Kardashians say that. Nobody believes them.
Fanny lips
She looks way better now let’s be real her face is so Fucken stunning now, 30 grand well spent fr
she was and still is so beautiful ugh
Vanity at its finest. Her having these procedures at such a young age make me think that mommy & daddy just gave her money and didn't question what she did with it.
no.. she said she earned the money herself and found the cheapest options. but the last few procedures she got done were free because she gave the practitioner publicity as an influencer. she clearly said her parents were against all this stuff, so they did not pay for it, it was her own doing entirely.
@@log794 Thank you for clarifying! 🙂
You seem a little jealous 💀💀
As a doctor I can’t believe we’ve come to actually aim at causing atrophy of our patients muscles 😅 Also, I would advise against getting veneers when you’re that young.
Well some people use it to slim down the face but it’s used for tmj relief. I use it for tmj and has completly changed my life. No more headaches and no more grinding down my teeth and messing them up
@@alexavilla9764 Atrophy of a muscle is not treatment relief. I also get shots for muscle issues but was told that if atrophy occurred they would have to dial it back.
*unless you need the veneers for medical reasons:) I got veneers younger than her, but a bunch of my teeth had exposed nerves due to medical neglect by my bio-mom. I LOVE my veneers:) I could finally eat cold food without intense pain! I think that plastic/dental surgery has become so trendy that people forget that there is still restorative work going on ❤ and it’s a real blessing.
@@OpalLeigh of course - you're right when there's a medical reason it's a different story. Glad you are able to enjoy yourself again!
It's so dystopian I'm astounded
If my daughter ever felt like she needed to do all those procedures to be "pretty" I'd take her to therapy first and make sure she knows she's perfect just the way she is..... Distorted body image is getting more and more of a problem due to social media it's sad honestly
Start right away with telling her she's perfect just the way she is.
@@youtube_username_ it's about the looks only. So would u tell your kids that they are ugly instead?
What people don't see here on these sites is that plastic surgeons are Doctors first. Most don't have the time or desire to do surgery on patients who seem unqualified.
Or immature. The first one I went to actually insisted his patients have their regular doctors fill out a form pretty much verifying their sanity.
What if your daughter wasn't pretty? Then she will suffer all of her life and you just tell her it's in her head? Even average appearance today, means no friends, no confidence, no value as a person, less money, harder to form relationships, no promotions period, harsher repercussions of mistakes, seen as less competent and less intelligent, be able to provide less for yourself and family, etc., all other than if you're able to invest in your physical attractiveness. You can tell yourself it's not this way, but then who really needs therapy? I would say the person telling themselves this, telling themselves that it isn't incredibly important to be physically attractive, because what is more important? In every way the attractive you will have a more enjoyable, engaging and fulfilling life than the unattractive you.... argue this and next you'll tell me "There is a God! It's this one right over there!"
@@rainbowunicornnun There's truth to this... it depends on the situation. There is no doubt the most attractive people are actually the uniquely attractive, and largely in personality alone. However, this is not the norm... For me, 'nice' and 'down to earth' doesn't cut it, I know however most are satisfied with this, to me it's nearly synonymous with being fake... I see the irony as being a supporter of plastic surgery but I don't see it as being fake that much, in a lot of cases. I would contend that although you end up aging anyways, if you're caring a lot about your appearance, it will last longer, and it's possible to reap the benefits of having developed (early teens-30-40yos) with more confidence, more opportunities, all the holistic benefits of being more attractive. A lot of people will say, it makes insecurities and anxiety worse, but this is speculatory at best, of course every is "lonely, depressed, socially anxious, isolated, etc..." welcome to 2023... I mean ok you're not stressing about the plastic surgery, but you're stressing about something anyways imo... So it's better to be stressed and attractive then stressed and unattractive.. Even if it doesn't make you anymore attractive, it's just like w/e.. (assuming the person spent enough money that it didn't get botched or something). Now here is the key word, that this is "possible," in which I must concede... most people will make poor decisions and cause themselves more problems than simply doing nothing... And for this, I must change my mind, it's probably better for most people to just avoid it.
Actually this can go deeper, most people actually shouldn't even exist in the first place... actually it is so that in total people contribute to the worsening of society and themselves, and those they care about. I actually came up with a phrase to remember it by: "Most of the time, most people are wrong about most things..." More accurately actually: "All of the time, all people are wrong about virtually everything." Maybe there's truth somewhere in the middle of that, but it's actually provable..
It's because we do things right now, and in the future we will look back and see that we were wrong and we doing the wrong things... Tomorrow, we'll look back at today and see that we were wrong, and again the next day and the next day... And it's ok, because in fact there's no objectivity, everything is subjective. So we can either let the hurricane of change carry us away as gracefully as possible, or fight at every turn for what we want to be true. Like these traditionalist views, but what we'll see is they chains, holding us back, limiting what we can do, self inflicted limitations in direct accordance to our ancestors child-like reasoning, so unaware of self such that they could not discern their own imaginations! Still today they cannot! We cannot... but we can know it's there, these conclusions - in the absence of greater information! the absence of necessary information!
In the year 4900BC, a tribe of moder Uganda was struggling to survive a drought... "It's the bloodied sun! It's boiling us a live!" One council member shouted, as a small crowd shuffled together.
"My dearest, how dareth though speaketh of our most honorable God of the Sun, for ye know it falls under hiseth control." Says another.
"And so it is that this Sun-God is angered?" A wisemember inquired, and mumblings of speculation spread within the council meeting.
"And so it demands payment!? We've not a bloody thing to give!" A concerned member voiced aloud.
"I've seen in all my days, for enemies from the North, West, South, have attacked us. And now rising from the East, maybe our greatest yet." An elderly member continues on, "This Sun-God, he threatens us all, to take our lives. What can be done to appease him, as heith so great, the almighty!" After coughing up a lung, the elder continued, "We must give our greatest enemy what he threatens, and in turn, we shall receiveth in abundance."
The council begin nodding and mumbling of agreeance ensued.
"And so it is settled! All in favor of the plan, tell me you I!" the leader demanded, and after a short vote, the tribe came to an agreement.
They decided to sacrifice a human life to the Sun-God in hopes it would relent and that their would be rain...
Today, we/some of us have better fitting understanding of our reality, but regardless we all have some glove like nebula, a bubble of all our information... from which we cannot verify beyond some great extent... Our understandings are formed identically to how that tribes was... limited, incomplete, unverifiable information, forming conclusions, solutions, these in our decisions and how we apply them... there's no freewill, there's no purpose, there isn't even the possibility of enlightenment...Most explanations don't even make sense, and most people don't care, don't bother due diligence, maybe not even capable... although it wouldn't matter regardless, blind, deaf, and dumb... existing, until we don't.
And yet these morons! Uphold f'ing fairytales still today!
I see so many girls with lip filler nowadays but Mia has had this done really well and subtly. Nice Job.
Wow, when I clicked on this video I did not know what to expect, but this was amazing thank you
Not done with the video yet, but I'm already disgusted. I hate what growing up on social media is doing to young men and women. This is just so damn sad.
same goes for very young trans kids mutilating their bodies at a young age. goes both ways
I think it’s just the USA? A sad country
@@ballerman22345stop with the transphobic fake rethoric. No kid is allowed to undergo any procedure when suffering from gender dysphoria/body dysmorphia. Even adults have a hard time getting access to meds and surgical procedures because it is not covered by insurance, it is costly and you have to be followed by psychiatrists for a long time and be evaluated and such. The only thing allowed is hormonal therapy because it is reversible if stopped.
@@historicalhollywooddefinitely not, many asian and arabic countries promote changing yourself with surgery from a young age as well
@@historicalhollywood i think , it's everywhere english-speaking, for some reason
Her teeth looked incredible before. It’s funny how we view ourselves. I’ve had lip fillers (they faded after a week and looked ridiculous when I first got them).
I had a boob job at 18, then removed last year at 31 and feel amazing now that everything on me is natural. I used to want a nose job, but it’s what makes me different. It’s my heritage :)
I think perfect looking people look like AI’s. Don’t spend all that money to look like an npc
She herself looked BEAUTIFUL!!! I just…I don’t get it. I know everyone looks at themselves in the harshest way but she looked gorgeous naturally, and unique. I don’t get why anyone would want to get rid of all their defining features to look generic and like literally everyone else.
@@Us3r739they all look the same. All the character is stripped away and their faces all just blend together. I love how unique everyone is naturally.
I remember thinking I was ugly only to notice I didn’t know how to do my make up and still am experimenting with what make up fits me the best.
Veneers were meant for elderly people or for people who have particular teeth irregularities . No matter how well done , veneers look like fake teeth not to mention that they age a person a lot. How long will they last , ten years? Veneers can't be replaced forever , eventually she will have to replace them with crowns . This is so sad , she had beautiful ,healthy teeth . I feel so soorry for young people who make this choice and I truly despise the doctors that for money do this to young people . Her real nose was on the large ,thick side . I think the surgeon did a great job there . Nobody can deny that she looks great . If I were her ,i would stop here though !!
right I thought she looked really young then she opened her mouth and smiled and I saw those "teeth" and I was thinking oh shes probably in her mid to late 30s and shes not even close to that so sad
They give me Uncanny Valley. Like mannequin teeth, insanely white and square.
I agree with your post, but “Veneers”, as influencers throw around the term, are not actual veneers. The veneers they refer to are actually crowns because they go around the whole tooth. An actual veneer is just a cap that is placed in front of the target tooth, which is minimally invasive in comparison.
False my veneers look super natural and great!
Veneers are also used when a tooth's nerve dies and the tooth literally turns dark. I got them after knocking a few teeth out, lol
I give her props about being honest about her procedures. In the end, it’s her face and I hope she is happy. My concern with stories like this is… are these people ever truly happy with their looks or do they always have that critical eye?
I have one eyebrow and eyelid that sags a bit compared to the other side. What procedure could permanently lift the saggy side? it's minor but bothers me. also my dentist has recommended jaw botox for bruxism and migraines. wish it were more affordable!
Thanks this was very informative
@Dr. Gary the ending killed me, “please don’t show your facial plastic surgeon your breast implants.” 😂😂😂
Yeah, he seems a little too happy there.
Glad someone said this 😂 what an abruptly funny ending lol
Sounds more like hate to me. No reason to do that tho.
His face when she says she got them done 😂
He is a doctor who is weirded out by breasts that are covered. Hmmm...
She wasn’t ugly, just unique and hitting puberty. She looks exactly how every insta girl looks like now. So sad people cannot take they unique features as nice and liking who they are. Eh.
She was not attractive tho please don't try toxic positivity her experience with that appearence was bad and it's valid
@@namkia205she wasn't ugly though? what a weird comment for you to make. fact is, the girl now looks like every other boring IG face that everyone scrolls past without a second thought.
@@namkia205I also think we have to get over this cultural norm of having to downplay the very real impact of ones appearance in life!
No not everyone is born looking hot! In fact MOST AREN'T and it has consequences! We whld love to believe that it's only the inside that matters but that's just not true. So many studies confirm we are ALL GUILTY of treating people differently based on their looks!
Be it the effects of a suit, a uniform, make up, cleanness and overall attractiveness that can only by altered to some extend with simple things such as hygiene / clothes etc.
To really change our appearance for the longrun there are only cosmetic procedures.
No she was not ugly! But she was also not very attractive either. She was what most people call a "7" meaning somewhat average.
So I really don't see why we have to pretend like psychotherapy will just solve all drawbacks from not being very attractive. It aint!
Even if we end up in court be it as an offender or a victim - our attractiveness can have a HUGE INPACT on the jury and judge! Making years of jailtime of a difference and this is proven.
So I think good for her for getting something done she is now happier with! Most was non surgical even. I think it is great that those procedures become more accessible and safer!
@@namkia205beauty is subjective but honestly she wasn’t ugly at all & could’ve stopped at the lip fillers
@@namkia205t's not toxic positivity, it's a matter of taste. She didn't look like the blueprint cookie cutter IG girl American media says we're all supposed to look like, that is true. If you subscribe to the idea that's the only version of pretty then sure, *you* won't find her attractive, also true. That's completely subjective though. *Objectively* you're 100% wrong. Also have fun trying to pay for it because no one really looks like that naturally. Also-also enjoy the next generation coming up behind you and laughing at you because they will. This overdone look is really going to date this generation. Fashionably "good" looks are fickle af. As soon as a fad falls out of favour it becomes radioactive. You can get rid of a side part or a pair of skinny jeans. You can't get your old nose back or un-sag the skin you stretched with filler.
Imo her old features reminded me of the models in a lot of old paintings. I still like that look personally, as do many others. Her makeup was awful though, but gonna take a not so wild guess she was following tutorials for features unlike her own. You can't just pick an influencer you find pretty, copy their makeup and look like them, that's not how makeup works. You need to find tutorials for similar features to your own, specifically meant to accentuate them. Wouldn't be surprised if failure to understand this is why so many people are opting to slice their faces up tbh. Can't figure out how to make the makeup match your features? Make your features match the makeup. Bleah.
She looks great, she had a great surgeon, that’s the key.
Love the stoicism with these dramatic influencers. Balance 👌
You can tell shes got an adolescent frame of mind. The unfortunate thing is, shes lying about not caring what others think. No matter how self conscious you are, you will definitely care if someone legit insults something about your body. The more she does, the more she will start to judge herself and care more what others think. I would never take advice from this girl. Shes made bad life decisions the entire time so use her as an example of what NOT to do. This is what you can an addiction.
She doesn’t care what petthink about her choice to get plastic surgery to be clear, but everybody care about how they represent themselves or she wouldn’t do it.
@@wintermatherne2524 nah, she does. Shes trying to be a cut and paste attractive woman. Taking all the "beauty standards" and put them on her face. She says that to try and sound in control. Shes a child thats trying to have some version of adult perspective but its BS. The second you say "I dont care what people think" to people you dont know, is the second you know they are lying to themselves. If you really dont care, the thought never actually comes out of your mouth.
@@zerafians8145wow you know so much about her when did you guys meet?!
"You can tell shes got an adolescent frame of mind." Bingo. This is what is so wrong and sad about our society. Nobody wants to grow up, nobody takes pride in being an adult. I remember how proud I was to turn 18 and not only be an adult, but act like one. All that is gone. In fact, we're promoting immaturity by all means possible, whether it's saying that the brain isn't developed until 25 or 30 (newsflash: you can develop it all your life), cultivating a juvenile lifestyle and fashion, dumbing down knowledge, encouraging superficial social media, etc.
I'm glad I lived my young adulthood in other times.
@@whims6278 its called common sense and perspective. Believe it or not, theres very stereotypical phrases and sentences that come out of peoples mouths that tell you a lot about them. Its even more obvious when it comes to children because they are so eager to please or act like adults. Im guilty of the same damn thing. Ive had two hair transplants and I drive a very expensive car. I dont do it purely for myself. I want to look better in other peoples eyes, feel some what attractive, and have people look at the car I drive. Im superficial as hell. The thing is, I admit that without a second thought.
Humans are the only animals who hate themselves so much that it hurts themselves, others, animals and the planet. The real healing happens within. May humans find kindness, love and peace while here alive. Thanks for your posts doctor Gary Linkov.
Humans are the only species that works to improve themselves. It’s the reason why you watch this on a phone and dont live in a cave licking your ass to clean it 👍🏻
Happy to know that about the botox cause I noticed around the mouth started changing after botox then when wore off started looking a lil better and i think im gonna wait until its time cause my skin was fine b4 I went and so now i know to lay off but she normally switches it up thank God
I had my breadts done in Turkey. This was my 4th job and i had a lift. They did a great job. They were very good and took more time.
Ugly ?? Where? She should see me. Plain Jane here!! I have felt ugly all of my 59 years. My husband tells me I’m pretty. (I am pretty on the inside, not the outside.) -She was more than beautiful before all the surgery!! If I had looked like her I would have been sooooooo HAPPY!!🌸
She needed nothing done!!
Mom used to say-Pretty is as pretty does. -It’s your mind and heart that should be the most attractive !! -Beauty is only skin deep!! 💜-
I look just like my Mom. She was a very smart, wise, kind person!! I never heard her say she or anyone else was ugly!! She was very confident!! In My eyes she was beautiful!!😢
I love that your mom never said she felt ugly nor did she say it about others. That’s one of the most positive messages a mom can give her daughter.
You are beautiful. The definition of beautiful is what God says. He has the first and last word. And when he created you he said beautiful and all God’s creation is good and perfect. The world has created an impossible, ugly definition of beautiful and the only way you can obtain that beauty is in their shops and procedures.
Gotta spend money and Thats what they want. Stop lying to yourself that you aren’t pretty. You are.
Ugly and not having an attraction to somebody are two different things. I really believe that.
Honestly your comment is an inspiration for me, a fairly young person who has her insecurities about appearance. For 28 years I felt like I wasn't pretty enough. Now I'm starting to think: who said that I should be "pretty"?! I wanna be kind, generous, smart, I wanna enjoy life. That itself should make me beautiful! Time to re-evaluate my view on myself ✨
Are you comparing yourself to Instagram models and celebrities who've had plastic surgery? I'm betting you're way bette4 looking than you think
She's wasn't ugly to begin. I want to see what a genuinely 'ugly' person like myself could potentially look like after cosmetic procedures
Girl same lmao.
I don't think ugly can be used to describe someone's looks, only someone's personality
@@WhoAmI2YouNowthat is a lie
@@Bakstonisjdjit is not. beauty is very subjective.
@@WhoAmI2YouNow sure thing
I agree, you look great with eyebrows. 😊
She could have spent a fraction of that money on some therapy or other form of personal development, maybe traveled and done some volunteer work, and felt a heck of a lot happier than she is going to feel with these changes, especially in the long run. Good luck to all those pinning their happiness on achieving unrealistic beauty standards.
So true. Your body is NEVER the problem, your mindset is! (Unless you've a disability:) ofc)
You can't know that for sure
If she ayas dysmorphia like I do it doesn’t work like that. It’s a literally illness. You can’t whisk away illnesses with hobbies and traveling. Also there’s no cure you just learn how to manage it.
@@cosmicionicc5134 therapy doesn't work either? I don't see why plastic surgery would help, getting work done all other your face is like a sign that says to everyone "I'm mentally insane"
@@babooshka7186 no therapy does work. It’s a long and grueling process but you can learn to manage symptoms, you can’t actually cure it entirely tho. Body dysmorphia is a form of OCD it is obessive compulsive thoughts, that take up your entire day and get in the way of normal daily routines. It is not just not liking yourself it’s a serious illness that can sometimes be debilitating for people. It will always be there but you can learn to manage the symptoms so it doesn’t take control of your whole life.
Plastic surgery doesn’t help everyone with BDD no and it also won’t cure it. But it can potentially help you fix a part of yourself that gives you obessive compulsive thoughts over. Everyone likes to say whatever features you have are fine the way they are but for some people it doesn’t matter what others think they just don’t like the feature and want it “fixed” and there’s nothing wrong with that. Your not obligated to like every feature about yourself and if you have the money to change it and want to so what. The only issue is if you constantly keep having plastic surgery to change things because that’s the disorder talking. Plastic surgery will never cure body dysmorphia cuz there is no cure, but for some people it could help if they do not go haywire with it.
I’m so glad I’m happy with the way I look. Even at 48, I can’t think of anything I’d have done,. I do have alopecia areata, and I’m almost completely bald. Even so, I’m cool with it. I just shaved that shit and I’ve embraced it.
Fascinating…. Loved! New subscriber ❤
she looked amazing even before her changes and her changes are very successful because they reflect improvements.
"I don't care if you judge me, no one will judge me more than I already have myself"
That's an awesome way to think about it, I've had my share of body image issues (still do) and hope I can come to this conclusion eventually!
i can see your perspective, but when I read it it sounds sad to me. First I am not sure that she truly doesn't care, and second it sounds like she really hates herself by saying that.
Yet we still have never seen her without makeup😂😂
A lot of women who have plastic surgery and up looking 'generic' ..stylised in a 'common' sort of way.
Like I commented somewhere else, now she's just a copy of a copy
Can you avoid the muscle atrophy in the forhead by just doing less units or taking breaks from botox? So instead of every 3 months, doing it every 6 months or so?
Omgosh she was beautiful as a teen! Wow
beauty is so subjective. i hope she's happy and doesn't over do it.
She already has with veneers.
It’s crazy that she destroyed her perfect teeth to get veneers. There’s no undoing that.
Seriously so weird. I wish I had her original teeth and no doubt for many others they also looked ideal
Its not even veneers, its way worse. Its crowns, and the doctors in turkey shave the teeth down to put those on. In 5-15 years top they will fall off/give you infections, and she will end up spending 100k+ fixing them/pulling her teeth out etc. The regret she will have will be crazy, especially from someone chasing perfection.
I honestly don't know the difference between veneers and crowns but I have heard that there is some maintenance involved and that veneers aren't permanent... Do I have this right? My teeth aren't perfect but I do not have any desire to have people shave them down and cap them with porcelain. I have a hard time just getting X-rays done in my mouth lol.
@@susanjeffries5108Both crowns and veneers aren’t permanent. Here is the main difference:
*Veneers* - only a tiny bit of the front surface of your tooth is shaved down so the veneer can cover it.
*Crowns*- A HUGE amount of tooth is shaved into a stump so that the crown covers the entire tooth.
Both veneers and crowns typically last for 15-20 years before needing to be replaced. However with crowns you are much more likely to eventually loose your teeth in the long run because of how much tooth structure was removed your real tooth .
From average to barbie! Her final result is gorgeous and worth the $$.
She looks great
Wow, a video where it actually worked, but after watching the entire video she clearly has a mental illness and her continued work to achieve the "perfect look" will probably end in tragedy.
I am only 8 minutes in but I totally 100% agree..
Future Jocelyn Wildenstein...
Exactly. 100% in agreement with you.
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Did it work though?
I really appreciate you explaining the procedures, including the physiology, the mechanism of action, as well as the risks involved.
Having a Russian mom is really different I understand why she felt this way so young fr
she doesn’t have a russian mom though? her mom is cuban
Love the Blooger! ❤
The thing that concerns me the most is that I have the feeling that she'll never be 100% satisfied with her face and will always keep on doing procedures and not knowing when to stop just to look for perfection . That's not bad per se but it could quickly turn to go overboard until it's too late.
She looks good. I think the nose job made the biggest difference.
Honestly, that's the only thing she should've done, along with learning better makeup techniques. The teeth are scary and the rest of the stuff only makes her look fake.
I actually like the new face. Good work.
Honestly, she looks great.
She looked good before the surgeries. She looks great now. More power to her.
Your so intelligent and honest which is so appreciated 🙏
Amazing change
Better be careful with the" jaw botox". Can get jowls from the muscle atrophy. I got it on one side for tmj and i have a slight beginning of a jowl just on that side .
I hope she finds a bit of the inner peace she seems to lack, if I interpret her comments correctly.
😂😂😂😂 having plastic surgery has nothing to do with peace 😅
@@kimkitty3914Duh. She’s saying that based on her comments, she seems to be rather insecure
Dr when i saw you for the first time in the older videos what came to my immediately is that you look like a very intelligent creature coming from another planet , pretending to be human and trying to illuminate us ..😊 u look handsome but also unique
If my daughter hates her body so much that she's using a fake ID to get cosmetic surgery I'm putting her in a psych ward. 24 hour therapy and no makeup allowed.
Just remember that nobody looks good without drugs, plastic surgery, make up, hair made up, make up on, altering your teeth (braces, invisalign, veneers, teeth bleaching), impeccable grooming habits, and money to afford the right fashion trends and anti-aging products.
I don’t really actually want anything done, but I just want to go hang out at his office and judge my face. lol. Much love, Doc.
I’m 30. I’ve been dealing with body dysmorphic disorder at varying stages of severity for 20 years now. Knowing how hard my life has been up to this point makes me completely horrified for all of the humans younger than I am. Social media definitely made my struggle with the disorder so much worse in so many ways; the severity of the disorder increased as my use of the internet increased. So I actually cannot conceptualize how much more potent social media is in this horrendous disorder today than it used to be, when it was already doing such awful things to my generation growing up with it. Being able to look back in my personal life’s timeline and see the way that social media worsened the disorder that I already had just makes me so irrevocably sick, because now these kids are having the internet in their hands before they can even comprehend what it even is. And then the social media categories of the internet begin to creep in and it all starts to rule their life. I’m so scared for these children. I’m so scared that even more humans will be poisoned by body dysmorphic disorder now.
She looks much better after the surgery 😮
The fact she was doing this for so long under her parents’ roof is heartbreaking. How did no one notice?
I enjoy hearing his voice. It’s soothing (calm) to my ears lol.
Good for her, she looks beautiful and is clearly happy!!
Cheers Girl - you seem like it was a win for you 😊