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  • Entitled Bridezillas That Became Entitled WIFEZILLAS - REACTION
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    Hey ya'll! Ever wonder what happens to bridezillas after they get married? Well, they become WIFEZILLAS of course. Today on my channel we are reacting to some bridezillas that became WIFEZILLAS. One of the brides...well, she went to jail.
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  • @CharlotteDobre
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      @amyspinler2740 Před rokem +1

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    • @PONO-go3ee
      @PONO-go3ee Před rokem

      Lots of Pinker ton

  • @vandaken3612
    @vandaken3612 Před rokem +2606

    I speak for everyone when i say we need an update on the adventures of Matt, Rose and Han

    • @Jeff-ok6dr
      @Jeff-ok6dr Před rokem +335

      Well Matt and Han anyways. To hell with Rose

    • @smartyexplorer135
      @smartyexplorer135 Před rokem

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      Finally it's here..

    • @dannythekingofchaosandkitt4892
      @dannythekingofchaosandkitt4892 Před rokem +28

      @@Jeff-ok6dr Poor Rose 😂

    • @kimmyb8276
      @kimmyb8276 Před rokem +216

      No Rose but Matt, Han and OP, yes!

    • @Tyler171819
      @Tyler171819 Před rokem +181

      I hope they all moved into the house and lived happily ever after, as bros of legend.🧐

  • @KaciCallahan
    @KaciCallahan Před rokem +487

    i’m convinced that being a bridezillas is just a stepping stone to reaching their final form as a karen

    • @itsyaboybcstan1team675
      @itsyaboybcstan1team675 Před rokem +6

      This comment deserves more like

    • @jubyrenee1640
      @jubyrenee1640 Před 10 měsíci +2

      That's hilarious, I think you're right

    • @minnarosenqvistmr
      @minnarosenqvistmr Před 9 měsíci +1

      Absolutely this!!! It's the pre taste, after kids and believing that they deserve all and everything!!

    • @Du-Masses
      @Du-Masses Před 7 měsíci +2

      I’m late to this but that’s genius.

    • @GlitzyWitch
      @GlitzyWitch Před měsícem +1

      You have broke the Internet 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I think you you're on to something 😂❤

  • @thull21
    @thull21 Před rokem +1791

    You know listening to all of these horrible stories reminds me of one of the absolute best weddings I’ve ever been to. Mexican family so there were like a hundred people there. I was fourteen at the time and my folks dragged me to this thing. At first I was pissed because I though it was gonna be just another stuffy wedding thing, where you spend six hours in a church. Nope this was my Tio Louie. Apparently he had been with his now wife for like twenty years. (He was fifty at the time) and one day he just kinda rolled over in bed and asked my Tia “hey, wanna get married?” And she just said “yeah, sure” and that was that. His “wedding tux” was a Hawaiian shirt and jeans with paint on them. Her “wedding dress” was like a regular tee shirt and jeans and the entire event was just the entire family at a massive barbecue with beer flowing like rivers and the Tios fireing their pistols in the air. (Hill country so nothing around for miles) I still remember that wedding. Rest In Peace Tio, you crazy son of a bitch.

    • @tracymurray6840
      @tracymurray6840 Před rokem +92

      my ideal wedding, except for the guns.

    • @lokicooper4690
      @lokicooper4690 Před rokem +79

      My cousin had the most relaxed wedding. My aunt and uncle co-owned a fishing lodge on an island. Wedding took place there. Bride wore a sundress, groom wore jeans and a button-up shirt with a fish-shaped tie. We were not allowed to outdress the bride so everyone had shorts and shirts (lots of Polos) and sandals. We were doing crosswords and chatting 30 minutes before ceremony. Very relaxing. If I had to have a wedding, that’s what I’d want. No stress. No reason for stress.

    • @a.j.9797
      @a.j.9797 Před rokem +34

      That sounds like a PERFECT wedding! Thank you for sharing!❤

    • @Mama_Bear524
      @Mama_Bear524 Před rokem +16

      That sounds awesome. The best weddings are the most relaxed ones.

    • @katraylor
      @katraylor Před rokem +14

      That sounds fantastic. I bet they had a good life.

  • @laurawhitehouse7946
    @laurawhitehouse7946 Před rokem +445

    My husband and I got married in our living room 😊 every time we tried to plan an actual wedding, it quickly became more about what everyone else wanted and less about us. Neither of us enjoy the spotlight and weren’t that keen on standing up in front of everyone.. so we invited our mums and our sisters over for a Boxing Day bbq and surprised them all when the celebrant showed up to marry us 😁 best decision we ever made and it only cost us $150 🤷🏼‍♀️ highly recommend

    • @alexiswilliamsinc
      @alexiswilliamsinc Před rokem +10

      Love it!!

    • @missyandere1647
      @missyandere1647 Před rokem +11

      I'm planning to get married around May/June and this is my absolute dream wedding

    • @SensaiGaia1
      @SensaiGaia1 Před rokem +10

      I'm not one for social stuff so that's a perfect idea! That's if I ever have anyone else who loves me enough to be with me 😅

    • @vivianrichards1313
      @vivianrichards1313 Před rokem +11

      That's what my honey and I are going to do.
      Courthouse wedding then dodging off to a cabin in the mountains and we're not telling our families until later this way they can't try to horn in or try and take over the whole affair.
      It's not about them any way.
      It's about he and I and our love for each other.

    • @starlingswallow
      @starlingswallow Před rokem +9

      Nice! My husband and I got married in our sunroom during Covid under a curtain of sparkly lights with candles and hand written vows. It was magical!!! ❤ No regrets!

  • @floraposteschild4184
    @floraposteschild4184 Před rokem +1786

    It's crazy anyone would 1) marry a Bridezilla, and 2) be surprised that unstable, entitled behaviour would continue into the marriage. You want to be with someone whose ultimate dream is a big wedding? Really?

    • @CreativeCreatorCreates
      @CreativeCreatorCreates Před rokem +52

      IJS. My wedding (which I’ve been divorced for 10+ years) cost 800$. My best and favorite family was there, and we all celebrated. It’s doable. These 10k+ weddings blow my mind.

    • @shawnycoffman
      @shawnycoffman Před rokem +52

      My people continue to put up with that kind of behavior is beyond me. The behavior of that Japanese bride just floored me. And her groom! I feel sorry for him, but grow a spine already!

    • @shawnycoffman
      @shawnycoffman Před rokem +37

      @@CreativeCreatorCreates Ikr?? Hubs and I went to the courthouse with immediate family in tow. A few co-workers showed up because we worked in the law enforcement center basement. Then we all went to a fun Mexican restaurant. Done and done!

    • @CreativeCreatorCreates
      @CreativeCreatorCreates Před rokem +15

      @@shawnycoffman that sounds like the BEST time!

    • @smartyexplorer135
      @smartyexplorer135 Před rokem

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  • @delilahbelle2125
    @delilahbelle2125 Před rokem +277

    Matt's bride was beyond a moron. She signed a prenup and then thought cheating on the honeymoon to "get even" wasn't going to get her marriage annulled. Most prenups have a fidelity clause. I'm glad Matt was able to walk away relatively easily from that train wreck of a human being. Enjoy your friends' trip!

  • @cindyb7274
    @cindyb7274 Před rokem +216

    Not everyone gets fair warning about such behavior BEFORE the wedding. After 3 years of knowing my ex-husband, I never saw his horrible temper until we were leaving for our honeymoon. He had always been so nice to me and everyone else I knew before then. Some people can hide their true selves for a long time.
    Fun part is he is now with a woman meaner than he is. They just beat the crap out of each other.
    Karma's a b****h.

    • @autumnisdashit1668
      @autumnisdashit1668 Před rokem +28

      yeah this is really common :( abusers will often hide their true selves until they feel they have "trapped" their partner either by marriage or by having kids. glad you got away!

    • @moniqueengleman873
      @moniqueengleman873 Před 9 měsíci +2

      You are not alone. I had the whole fairy tale second chance. He lost his mind on our honeymoon. We later found out that he was bi-polar plus some serious crazy eyes.
      I could not believe the whole deal 😮

    • @FruityHachi
      @FruityHachi Před 8 měsíci +4

      had he been always nice to you because you were always agreeable, being a pleaser, or had he been always nice to you despite speaking your mind, expressing your needs, setting boundaries and standing behind your non-negotiables?

    • @patriciahayes2664
      @patriciahayes2664 Před 7 měsíci +1

      The cops must get called to your ex's house a LOT! 🤜💥🤛👮‍♂👮‍♂

  • @blackcreators
    @blackcreators Před rokem +736

    This whole thing makes me adore my wife even more. Best fiends for 13 years, a couple for 2 years, engaged for 1 year and then she said "Hey, let's just go to the courthouse. We don't need any headache wedding". Been Married for 14 years now, not one fight, hardly any disagreements and still best friends to each other.

    • @thatsthat2612
      @thatsthat2612 Před rokem +44

      I was the same. I just watched my then fiancé's coworker spend 20 grand on a wedding to make his future wife happy. 20 grand on a credit card mind you, it was a good party but Holy christ. I told my husband it'll be a cold day in hell before we spend anywhere close go that on 1 day. We got a 600 quid package at the lake district, there was a very small hotel but with a campsite attached for 6 quid a night. Guests had a ball

    • @spicybeantofu
      @spicybeantofu Před rokem +34

      Same. 8 years married and been together for 10. It always seems the folk who spend way too much on weddings never last. I feel they are in it for the party. The attention.

    • @janetrivera8833
      @janetrivera8833 Před rokem +27

      yeap the more expensive the wedding the shorter the marriage. Hubby and I went to the court , said our " i do" and that was 31 years ago!

    • @Yavanna79
      @Yavanna79 Před rokem +18

      A bit the same thing with me and my husband. Although, perhaps the biggest reasons for this choice were the lack of funds, as well as my social anxiety. But I still wore a wedding dress that I had sewn myself. I still have it.

    • @thekatelier1447
      @thekatelier1447 Před rokem +4

      Wow….. how does it feel to live my dream?

  • @g.b569
    @g.b569 Před rokem +315

    More than a red flag, a giant Neon sign saying “Don’t marry this person”

    • @pablodelsegundo9502
      @pablodelsegundo9502 Před rokem +5

      I was thinking one of those huge, red, bobbing markers you find on games like GTA.

    • @smartyexplorer135
      @smartyexplorer135 Před rokem

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      Finally it's here..

    • @jeannie1592
      @jeannie1592 Před rokem +2

      I was thinking billboard 😄

    • @izzywolflover
      @izzywolflover Před rokem +7

      A giant red boulder rolling towards you Indiana Jones style lol

    • @bigbearkat2010
      @bigbearkat2010 Před rokem +2

      Alex Meyers has a pretty good one. A marching band with a red flag color guard.

  • @chrissyr8387
    @chrissyr8387 Před rokem +457

    That last one was just fucked up.
    That guy went through a whole con. Tricking a woman into believing he loved her enough to marry her. Spent 1000s of dollars of her parent's money...to sleep with her ( I pray not to also take her virginity) and ghost her.
    You gotta be some grade A level of insane and sick to pull such a twisted long game.

    • @lokicooper4690
      @lokicooper4690 Před rokem +107

      It was a second marriage for both and it was arranged, so love not necessarily involved there. He sounds like the most misogynistic, entitled POS. I would have refused to marry him if he started asking for really expensive stuff. Don’t care if it’s arranged. Eff him!

    • @TheLalacream
      @TheLalacream Před rokem +89

      Her family should absolutely sue him for the costs

    • @fbbWaddell
      @fbbWaddell Před rokem +46

      Reminds me of Ted Bundy. The entire reason he became a lawyer was because a woman he cared about rejected him. She told him he wasn't wealthy enough or high enough status for her. He literally went thru lawschool and became a licensed attorney and made bank, then went back to her to show off and tell her he no longer was interested in her. Same energy.

    • @msnlitadventures9597
      @msnlitadventures9597 Před rokem +53

      It was both of their second marriage so he didn't take her virginity but that has happened. I've heard stories just like this. But usually it's more than just the groom conning the woman. It's his whole family. They demand a huge dowry and he has his fun with her and then divorces her because he loves someone else. And then no one will remarry her because divorce carries such a huge stigma on women in the culture. It's so sad. My sister's ex husband was a demanding a-hole of a groomzilla, too. And he became a very emotionally abusive husband. Luckily my parents encouraged my sister to divorce him. She hasn't been able to get remarried but its better than being stuck with a creep like that. Apparently he got remarried though and he is a terrible husband to his new wife, too.

    • @Racingirl911
      @Racingirl911 Před rokem +2

      @Chrissy- I’ve gotta say that I agree with everything you said! 👍🏼👍🏼

  • @FanFicnic
    @FanFicnic Před 11 měsíci +15

    That story about the pretty guy friend makes me so sad. Intimate friendships between guys are so rare. I would give my left foot for my husband to have friends that had been through hell and back with him like that.

  • @elzbietabetlej4085
    @elzbietabetlej4085 Před rokem +115

    I feel for Matt from the story. To be cheated just because of photo of childhood friends together.... wow . How sick is that? It is crazy to accuse someone of romance just because he values his friends and does not cut them off just because she said so.
    This Rose is the most self centred crazy wifezilla I saw recently

    • @cosmicrae
      @cosmicrae Před rokem +4

      She's a potential abuser!

    • @RKNancy
      @RKNancy Před měsícem +1

      Not only that, he was prettier than her and that made her insecure about him being gay. That's horrendous.

    • @rnbsteenstar
      @rnbsteenstar Před 27 dny

      Matt didn't fall for compulsory monogamy culture.

  • @ablacklatina
    @ablacklatina Před rokem +47

    So... How pretty is Han? That's what really makes me curious 🤣🤣🤣

  • @BlessingChord
    @BlessingChord Před rokem +173

    I'm engaged now and watching these videos now hit real different. I also can't find myself caring or making a fuss about like 90% of the stuff these bridezillas do.

    • @smartyexplorer135
      @smartyexplorer135 Před rokem

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      Finally it's here..

    • @shenacarter7987
      @shenacarter7987 Před rokem +8

      I'm planning my wedding for next year and I don't want to be these people lol

    • @thekimmying5571
      @thekimmying5571 Před rokem +4

      @@felinemoonchild that’s what I did. Best decision ever.

    • @m.o.4240
      @m.o.4240 Před rokem +3

      As long as your nice about its ok to care

    • @elkynethehorde5592
      @elkynethehorde5592 Před rokem +5

      This is me lmfao! Im about to be married in 11 days and honestly IDGAF about any of it. I just want to get married to my bestie and then go on our honeymoon so we can share some amazing experiences. If it weren't for my family pushing Id be getting married out on a mountain trail with just him and the officiant. I planned out everything with the guests in mind and Ive told everyone idc what happens as long as everyone has fun, if there are problems dont tell me. My only worry is tripping at this point.

  • @MiharuNeko93
    @MiharuNeko93 Před rokem +40

    I read a book from psicologists and in one chapter was explained that they are researching why wedding is a sort of trigger for abusive behaviours (both men and women) a lot of domestic violence happend only after the wedding and not before. Even if "practically" nothing really changes in their lives, it triggers the abusive behaviour that looked low or none before. (It was present but hidden) it's crazy!

  • @tonia.5861
    @tonia.5861 Před rokem +459

    My 22 y/o daughter recently graduated college. It seems many of her friends got engagement rings for graduation! After hearing about some of the hair raising drama, I’m even more at a loss as to why anyone would tolerate them much less marry them!🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @smartyexplorer135
      @smartyexplorer135 Před rokem

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    • @freyaegrey
      @freyaegrey Před rokem +54

      Same reason women marry abusive men despite tons of red flags. Sexual attraction and gender based stereotypes and societal pressure.

    • @ghostface8671
      @ghostface8671 Před rokem +32

      @@freyaegrey You're totally right. Im at least glad society is moving further away from marriage being a must in life. Or at the very least not jumping into it in their late teens/early 20's like our parents did.

    • @tiffbeevachou108
      @tiffbeevachou108 Před rokem +9

      I got married the year after I graduated from undergrad. I was 23. We have been married for 18 years and we made a good decision, but I would not recommend it to most people.

  • @plastiqueneurosis
    @plastiqueneurosis Před rokem +155

    My dad pushed me when he got drunk at Disney. The reason was he was still mad 5 days later that I didn’t take off my hat during the national anthem, and my complaints that my feet hurt and that I was hungry just made him snap. He never went to Disney again which makes me believe he was banned. For the whole week he was constantly either drunk or soo hung over he would nearly hit us if our fork scraped on our grandmothers plates. I think over the last 3 years he got serious about sobering up? But he’s still a $h1t father so I doubt it.
    Edit; In case you were wondering why I wrote this, it was about the step mother pushing the 10 year old out of the way. Some people deserve to bie alone and have everyone fight over their possessions like rabid dogs.

    • @lisaleeuw
      @lisaleeuw Před rokem +10

      I hope you have other people around you who can love you in his place... You are AWESOME!! Don't forget🤗❤

    • @lotstodo
      @lotstodo Před rokem +16

      Stuff like that takes a toll on your self esteem. You know it's not your fault, and you are right to distance yourself. Hang on.

    • @shawnycoffman
      @shawnycoffman Před rokem

      How old were you at the time? I mean, not removing your hat for the national anthem is more of a teachable moment I think. Sorry your dad is an ass.

    • @smartyexplorer135
      @smartyexplorer135 Před rokem

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    • @level1weeb164
      @level1weeb164 Před rokem +6

      I am so sorry that you had to grow up that way. I hope you're healing and having a better time now. ❤

  • @ghjgme
    @ghjgme Před rokem +239

    I was in my college friend's wedding (6 years ago and honestly haven't seen her since, she's in Texas, I'm in Michigan) but there were so many comments about how lovingly we looked at each other. I could not even imagine that breaking up a relationship.

    • @smartyexplorer135
      @smartyexplorer135 Před rokem

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      Finally it's here..

  • @noirking6138
    @noirking6138 Před rokem +18

    🤯That last story was HELL! These people really play with marriage like it's not a sacred thing! The Karma he has set up for himself will be EPIC!

    • @valeriekhall
      @valeriekhall Před rokem

      May it come with compounded interest, accrued DAILY.

  • @britgirl4814
    @britgirl4814 Před rokem +463

    That last story is disgusting, she had no choice in who she married, was likely still a virgin, was assaulted basically and will now be unclean in her culture. That's not even remotely funny 😔

    •  Před rokem +21

      😢😢😢😢😢

    • @_Disa
      @_Disa Před rokem +90

      It says at the beginning of the story that it was a second marriage for both of them so I doubt that applies here

    • @a.d.234
      @a.d.234 Před rokem +139

      @@_Disa Sure enough in this situation I would feel assaulted or at least "used" by this person..

    • @Hooperjz78
      @Hooperjz78 Před rokem +97

      @@a.d.234 yeah I would feel not only financially abused but ABSOLUTELY feel as if my body was used in a terrible and sneaky manner. Because I mean really..... you just know he had no intentions of staying from the way it sounded.... and even if he did... THAT'S NOT HOW IT WORKS.... even in an arranged marriage like that one.... it's not like a tv or a car??. "eh used it once and I don't like this one now so I'll just return it" ugh...

    • @lifewuzonceezr
      @lifewuzonceezr Před rokem +35

      There should be some punishment!!

  • @zenfreya4779
    @zenfreya4779 Před rokem +6

    The Han Envy had me flabbergasted as to why that woman thought cheating on her honeymoon was getting even, there is no "even" when you truly love someone and you want what is best for them, even if it hurts. The best part of that story was the entire network of family and friends standing behind the groom and the social censoring the bride received. He got out early enough to not be financially drained by her too. Hope she received mental care after all that drama!
    That last one made me feel ill. WOW. No words to describe what that soul deserves, but the bride is way better off away from someone so mentally unstable. That was a real long con, psychotic level of behavior.

  • @tracylangsley4064
    @tracylangsley4064 Před rokem +148

    Just what I need to cheer me up after having a tooth removed this morning, still in pain so need a dose of Charlotte 😃

    • @taylorshelton6507
      @taylorshelton6507 Před rokem +10

      Yooo!! Same!!!! Tooth pulled and a root canal 🦷

    • @tracylangsley4064
      @tracylangsley4064 Před rokem +5

      @@taylorshelton6507 hope you aren't suffering any more I might need root canal on another one too😬 lol

    • @CharlotteDobre
      @CharlotteDobre  Před rokem +48

      feel better baby

    • @tracylangsley4064
      @tracylangsley4064 Před rokem +8

      @@CharlotteDobre thank you so much babe😃

    • @smartyexplorer135
      @smartyexplorer135 Před rokem

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  • @angrymater13la
    @angrymater13la Před rokem +44

    I lost my mother when I was 13 and I was a huge mommy's boy. My dad remarried 3 months later. He asked me before wedding how I felt about him getting married. When I told him how I felt which I hated it cause I hated her. He told me it was his life and didn't matter how I felt. I am now 40 yrs old they are still married and me and my "step" mother still hate each other.

    • @sharim
      @sharim Před rokem +4

      But is your dad happy? Shouldn’t that be the most important thing, that he has a loving companion to be with?

    • @angrymater13la
      @angrymater13la Před rokem +11

      @@sharim no he is not exactly happen they have been close to divorce a bunch of times

    • @peep3616
      @peep3616 Před rokem +33

      @@sharim Doing that to children when they’ve lost their mother is really hurtful and confusing, that trauma can last a lifetime.
      I understand that adults think “but what about me/my happiness?” but when you choose to have children, you choose to put them first.

    • @feodorawicked5014
      @feodorawicked5014 Před rokem +18

      @@peep3616 Yeah, and the fact that he even asked his son for his opinion, just to brush it off? Feels like the dad was just looking for justification because he knew it was fucked up. Like I get it, remarry at some point, you deserve happiness even if your children might not like the new person. But don't do it 3 months after their mother died and at least wait until your kid is close enough to being an adult.

    • @cb9825
      @cb9825 Před rokem +18

      That's fucked up. Remarrying in 3 months after your mom's death says a lot about your father's personality.

  • @korosilverwolf
    @korosilverwolf Před rokem +43

    the only "demand" (I'd call it more an ideal) I have for my wedding is a non traditional gown for me. I want a dress thats got layers of black and blue and with silver sparklies so that it looks like I'm getting married wrapped in the night sky. It's also not really my focal interest, I didnt want to get married at all until I found my current partner and I'm far more excited about what comes after the wedding than the wedding itself. I never did understand those girls in highschool who acted as though their eventual wedding would be the singular event of their lives. What a boring life to aspire to.

  • @Xil_Gon_Give_It_To_Ya
    @Xil_Gon_Give_It_To_Ya Před rokem +130

    The last guy? I hope the family can sue him into the floor for the expense he caused. Probably not, as most courts, unfortunately, would see those expenses as a "gift", but... sheesh, that's abhorrent.

    • @Chelsea34567891
      @Chelsea34567891 Před rokem +6

      it’s awful but I don’t think they’d get anywhere with lawsuits. If they signed a marriage contract the wife would be getting some money to “restart her life” bc, well, usually marriages last more than a few hours and the wife sacrifices career and child rearing etc. That’s if they had that in the contract. I believe you decide what you want in there together, it’s not a set legal thing.

    • @Chelsea34567891
      @Chelsea34567891 Před rokem +8

      both men and women are allowed to divorce for any reason. Men only have to say a word three times. Women have to do the whole legal thing sooo.

    •  Před rokem +14

      The last guy was a miserable man if I could call him one...

    • @taramccormick4042
      @taramccormick4042 Před rokem

      that last man was so messed up I normally wouldn't but I hope karma bites him in the ass and that he never gets to do this again

    • @pen_gui
      @pen_gui Před rokem

      Sir most definitely wanted some halal sex then divorced after.
      Tsk Tsk Tsk, if only he knew that it's actually a sin to do that 🤦🏻‍♀️ (then again they mostly don't give a shit about the religion's principles they be nit picking rules ig)
      I hope the Woman is alright.

  • @jbstjohn
    @jbstjohn Před rokem +93

    My husband and I did a super budget wedding. We could afford an awesome one, but I didn't want to spend a ton of money on an Instagram moment.
    We bought a fully automatic espresso machine instead.

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    • @kamallb4650
      @kamallb4650 Před rokem +2

      💀

    • @Birdbike719
      @Birdbike719 Před rokem +9

      Good choice, and much more useful. A lifetime of happiness vs one day.

    • @lockhak33
      @lockhak33 Před rokem +3

      Is there a term for the opposite of a bridezilla?

    • @jandavis1523
      @jandavis1523 Před rokem +4

      You have the right mindset! Mazel Tov!

  • @720plife
    @720plife Před rokem +67

    Had my wedding a week before the COVID lockdown. To future brides, make sure your groom is ok with everything. It’s also his wedding. 💀 Planning this event basically will predict how you are in marriage.
    Also, make sure there’s enough things to do or see at the reception if you can afford it because you want to keep your guests until the send off, right? Plus it’s also nice to hear even years later that your wedding was fun.

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    • @HannahCrier
      @HannahCrier Před rokem +4

      I totally agree with you. It's nice to have those memories tied to such a special day ❤️
      When I asked my husband (emphasis on I reached out to HIM) about his thoughts on my dress, everyone was shocked/weirded out. I'm like why?? He has good taste and he has to look at me the whole day. I value his input! Oh well, we ended up doing a private ceremony in the end 😂

  • @maryannanderson2213
    @maryannanderson2213 Před rokem +39

    Bridezillas seem to have one thing in common. A bridezilla is all about the wedding and not overly concerned about the marriage. She wants to be a princess for a day and wear the perfect dress and get lots of presents and have everyone looking only at her and have the perfect bridal party and have the perfect ceremony and go on the perfect honeymoon and have the perfect EVERYTHING... everything except genuine love for her prospective husband and the desire to spend the rest of her life with him. Being married for six months or so would be just fine with her because at least she got to be a superstar on HER big day. BTW, when a bridezilla pontificates long and loud about how this is HER day and everything is about HER and she never even mentions her groom, it's pretty much a given that the marriage is not going to last long. Yeah, I'm a woman but in today's world, if a man owns anything at all when he gets married, if he does not demand a prenup prior to the wedding, it is my opinion that he has rocks in his head!

    • @lokicooper4690
      @lokicooper4690 Před rokem +2

      The prenup thing should go both ways. Women can have assets entering a marriage too. As a woman, I agree with you. With 50% of marriages ending in divorce, it’s simply a smart thing to do.

    • @annied1827
      @annied1827 Před rokem

      I totally agree and I think that every long term relationship regardless if your married or not should have a contract on what can be taken by who in the event of the couple splitting up. I won't ever get married as I think it's a total waste of money for one day and a bit of paper just my opinion, however I have been with my partner for over 24 years we have two young adult children aswell who are in their late teens early twenties. When we first moved in together I demanded that I sign a contract saying I would never take his flat as he bought it and I've never paid anything towards it so it wasn't mine to take, even when we moved to a bigger house as the flat got too small once the kids were born I again demanded that i sign a contract saying that I have zero claim on his house if we ever split up, again ive not paid anything towards it therefore I have no right to claim it if we split up. People have said I am crazy for doing this saying I've raised his children so I have earned that house if we split up which I've told them is ridiculous. He had the flat before we even met and then he used the money from his flat towards the house, I've always said it's his house not mine as I've not paid a penny towards it, it's in his name only as i refused to have my name on it as he pays everything on the house therefore it's his house, me and the kids just live there with him. It's also in his will that the house goes to the kids so if he dies first which I doubt will happen since I gave a lot of health issues but in the very unlikely event of him dying first the house will go to the kids and it will be sold and the money split between them again this is my choice. He was going to leave it to the kids and say that it was on the condition that I stay there till my death but I told him that was unfair on them and I'm pretty sure one of my kids would want me gone and out the house as soon as possible anyway. So I told him not to do that as it would cause more problems than it's worth. Yes I know people think I'm totally crazy for doing this but it was important to me that he knew that if we split up it didn't matter how long we have been together and it doesn't matter that we have kids I will never dream of taking his house from him as that is his house not mine and I have zero rights where his house is concerned, if id paid money towards it that would be a different matter but I havnt. I find it crazy that people think I have a right to his house just because we have kids and have been together for years 🙄

    • @DW11111
      @DW11111 Před 6 měsíci

      @@lokicooper4690 the difference is, in this world of gynocentric courts that will automatically side with the woman because of her having the almighty V, she has less risk in divorce than a man.
      80% of divorces are initiated by women. Fact.
      90% of the time alimony is awarded, it is the man paying to the woman. Fact.
      If kids are involved, < 20% of the time the man gets joint custody and < 10% of the time the man gets sole custody. Fact.
      A prenup protects both parties, sure, but a man *needs* the protection of a prenup far more than a woman does. The stats bear this out unequivocally.

  • @dinasilva9263
    @dinasilva9263 Před rokem +9

    I need a video of husbandzillas now. 😆 because i know some of them too lol.

  • @Rain96drop
    @Rain96drop Před rokem +41

    I watched this 23 minutes after it was posted and it already had 8k plus views. That is amazing. Charlotte deserves it. She's funny and relatable.

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  • @bobpendleton2064
    @bobpendleton2064 Před rokem +41

    If people don't believe these are not true, before I retired, we responded to a bridal shop where an argument over a charge for a dress fitting was taking place. Apparently, they had to refit her and she thought she shouldn't be charged. When we arrived she was grabbing the dress from the owner in a tug of war. She was charged because she bit his arm to make him let go

    • @stephenbanks5952
      @stephenbanks5952 Před rokem +6

      The double negative doesn't work here. I think you want to say 'if you don't believe these are true' or 'if you believe these are not true'.

  • @karaoconnoraliasraidra
    @karaoconnoraliasraidra Před rokem +104

    So long story short, this Rose woman did all this crazy stuff and torpedoed her own marriage over an assumption. Over an untrue assumption that there was absolutely no supporting evidence for. 🤦‍♀️
    Also, it is a huge red flag (or red parachute as our Potato Queen put it) when a partner wants to ban someone from having any contact with their friends and relatives (Before anyone says anything, I don’t mean cases in which the so-called friends are terrible & the relatives are abusive and the partner encourages going no contact because the person would be better separated from them. I mean cases in which there’s no issue and the person is close to their friends/relatives, but the partner invents some issue, throws a fit, and attempts to control their every correspondence). That’s a sign that the partner is jealous to the point of paranoia & separation from reality and/or wants to cut off the person from their support system so they can manipulate them.

    • @scifigrl23
      @scifigrl23 Před rokem +1

      I actually think there was some truth to it though. In the story, it says that the groom got mad right away when she confronted him about it. If it weren't true, he would have reassured her he only has eyes for her. The fact that his first instinct was to retaliate and yell, tells me that there were feelings there for the friend. However the bride's response was WAY too much😳😳😳. Glad they aren't together. What a nightmare.

    • @kaihiroku8495
      @kaihiroku8495 Před rokem +15

      @@scifigrl23 But that is all an assumption based off nothing but his response. We all have feelings for our friends, that's friendship, we care for them and defend them. He might have gotten mad that she would think him capable of cheating, I know I would get mad at my partner for distruting me after a long relationship over nothing else but pictures, AND accusing my friend of manipulating me. Reassure her? Heck no, it's a deeply rooted insecurity right there, she was jealous of a guy's good looks and people not liking her enough according to, again, her own assumptions. She needs a therapist, and I bet the groom realized that then 😂

    • @scifigrl23
      @scifigrl23 Před rokem

      @@kaihiroku8495 I think you missed that the friend was female.

    • @sanwal05
      @sanwal05 Před rokem +11

      @@scifigrl23 I think they were talking about Hans who is a male...🤗🤗.

    • @cindypicadomolina7814
      @cindypicadomolina7814 Před rokem +4

      @@scifigrl23 the person TELLING the story was female. Han, the guy the lady was complaining about was MALE. Which has stated multiple times in the story. The friend even says that Rose was jealous because said friend payed more attention to Han then her

  • @xonicole9232
    @xonicole9232 Před rokem +18

    My sweet Charlotte...gyro is pronounced 'yee-ro' but thank you for the wonderful laughs on this fine Monday. Lol!

    • @staticcat1973
      @staticcat1973 Před rokem +2

      I was looking for this comment 😸

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    • @rayl3103
      @rayl3103 Před rokem

      I cringed when I heard it but didn't want to say anything. It reminded me of when she mispronounced Dizzy Gillespie.

  • @honeyarora1987
    @honeyarora1987 Před rokem +25

    Charlotte's sneeze makes me laugh so hard all the time... 🤧😋

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    • @anthonyhowe3262
      @anthonyhowe3262 Před rokem +2

      I think this is the first time I have seen her sneeze with the arms out and palms up. Made me smile :) You rock Charlotte.

  • @alisalaska1786
    @alisalaska1786 Před rokem +19

    I once had a bride in alterations who refused to get a bustle, and as usual I warned it’s a tripping hazard for her and the guests. She said “everyone will know not to step on it, and if they do, I will kick them out!”. Said with a major attitude, of course. Still wonder how that went for her. 10’ of fabric on a dance floor is a recipe for disaster 😆😆

    • @tyladahl-monroe2697
      @tyladahl-monroe2697 Před rokem +8

      I feel this! Some brides dislike how a bustle looks. I can’t blame them - I don’t love it either but then don’t get a dress with a dang train!

    • @tiryaclearsong421
      @tiryaclearsong421 Před rokem +2

      @@tyladahl-monroe2697 The other alternative is to buy a reception dress if you're that picky and want a train so badly. I plan to get something pretty and inexpensive that's at least not a trip hazard in case I want to dance later on, even if I don't buy a ceremony dress with a train. Floor length dresses are not easy to move in if you aren't accustomed and I really want to change into flats and secure my hair also.

    • @valeriekhall
      @valeriekhall Před rokem +1

      @@tiryaclearsong421 Or just for pity's sake choose a comfortable dress hemmed to an appropriate dancing length with a DETACHABLE train for the ceremony!!!! So much simpler for everybody, & no 45 minute wardrobe change while the guests/spouse sit twiddling & waiting.

  • @nalublackwater9729
    @nalublackwater9729 Před 11 měsíci +3

    It's beyond me how these women get to hook a guy who would marry them. No one, and I mean, NO ONE can say that the red flags weren't visible before the wedding and I refuse to believe that they only showed while preparing the event.

  • @Sarah-dh7er
    @Sarah-dh7er Před rokem +69

    Man ive heard of people having the best relationship they have ever had up until getting married. Then they are kind of trapped because divorce is expensive and the partner turns into a completely different person. This probably happens more with short relationships before marriage

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    • @RoSez888
      @RoSez888 Před rokem +15

      I used to think that too, but I've lived long enough where that's not necessarily the case. I've observed several cases in which the man changed from a loving and attentive longtime suitor and once they got married, the man changed overnight and they weren't short relationships. Something about how the man feels he got his prey (the wife) and, now, he doesn't have to work hard on the relationship any more because in his culture women were conditioned to put up with it. I am not saying this is the norm, but this all happened in marriages between Christian wives and Muslim husbands.

    • @forgenorman3025
      @forgenorman3025 Před rokem +11

      Depending on the behavior that's a major red flag for abuse as well, and while short relationships beforehand are common they can sometimes wait _years_ before dropping the mask.

    • @RoSez888
      @RoSez888 Před rokem

      @@It-is-me...Melsie Yes. I believe that's true. It's not for me, but for the women who don't expect more than just the fact they are married and the man doesn't beat them, they are content.

    • @Sarah-dh7er
      @Sarah-dh7er Před rokem +1

      @@RoSez888 For sure. Ive heard of some where one person is really nice but quite pushy towards marriage and kids and once they get what they want and "lock" someone in, so to speak, they change entirely. I think it can definitely be the cases that turn into news that highlight that type of relationship. But absolutely every situation is different and some are able to hide longer than others.

  • @suruchipandey9039
    @suruchipandey9039 Před rokem +131

    Just how was the second bride getting married to anyone with the maturity level of a seven year old? 🤣

    • @pablodelsegundo9502
      @pablodelsegundo9502 Před rokem +9

      That one hurt my brain the most. She must be an only child that had a very privileged upbringing...or not, bitches be crazy.

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    • @suruchipandey9039
      @suruchipandey9039 Před rokem +13

      @@pablodelsegundo9502 probably she had enabling parents but punching your own fiancee in the face is a lot to digest tbh 🤣

    • @ghostface8671
      @ghostface8671 Před rokem +4

      @@pablodelsegundo9502 I definitely don't think you need to be an only child to behave that way. Definitely a spoiled brat with too many people enable her though.

  • @barbarabavier675
    @barbarabavier675 Před rokem +9

    My guess is what finally got perfect shirt color groom to pull the trigger on canceling is that the bridezilla humiliated him in public in front of all his family and friends at the rehearsal dinner.

  • @nervousbreakdown711
    @nervousbreakdown711 Před rokem +31

    As crazy as some of these stories are, I have to think that these men were in abusive relationships and that’s why they put up with it

    • @davidguidry657
      @davidguidry657 Před rokem +9

      100%! Healthy people don’t accept behavior like this. But it’s hard to spot red flags when you’ve been told all along that they’re actually green.

    • @nervousbreakdown711
      @nervousbreakdown711 Před rokem +12

      @@davidguidry657 "When you're wearing rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags." - Bojack Horseman

    • @whoxjulie
      @whoxjulie Před rokem +5

      Luckily sometimes it’s the other way around. I had a lot to deal with in my childhood, but that only taught me my worth and to not take any crap from anyone. Happy to say I can quickly erase someone from my life when I spot a red flag in them. Hope more people will be able to 🙏

  • @ladyannjuan5770
    @ladyannjuan5770 Před rokem +22

    I work at night in the Philippines and my night isn't complete without watching your content LOL. You are amazing

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  • @serenechaoscats
    @serenechaoscats Před rokem +8

    Sometimes I wish I were born into a family that gifts houses and two month long honeymoons, and then Charlotte finishes the story

  • @AliceNsWonderland
    @AliceNsWonderland Před rokem +16

    4:45 my husband didn't tell me he was bi-polar until we were married. He'd 'behaved' while we were dating then he'd go home & unleash on his family. About 3 hours after we were marred, I wondered who/what the hell I married

    • @LazyIRanch
      @LazyIRanch Před rokem +1

      My first husband had schizophrenia, but hid it until after we were married (he rushed that for a reason). The first time I saw him have an episode, I laughed because I thought he was joking. He wasn't. He would go into the garage and scream and rage at the voices in his head. Absolutely terrifying to hear it.

    • @ryuuka1498
      @ryuuka1498 Před rokem

      did you get him help or just shit at him for his horrible mental illness?

    • @sunflowerbaby1853
      @sunflowerbaby1853 Před rokem +1

      Are you still married?

    • @AliceNsWonderland
      @AliceNsWonderland Před rokem +1

      @@sunflowerbaby1853 no. I stupidly took it for 5 years then I was OVER IT! He's a cop (yes I helped him make it through the academy, he failed both times he tried it just by himself) so like he did with his family, he would behave all day at work and come home and unload on me it's in the past! That's where it needs to stay! You can't trip over something that's behind you (well unless you're walking backwards but that doesn't work here)

    • @AliceNsWonderland
      @AliceNsWonderland Před rokem +1

      @@LazyIRanch I'm happy for you that you're not in that relationship anymore💕

  • @katastrofekatrine
    @katastrofekatrine Před rokem +2

    The sneeze with arms out at 4:19 almost had me spitting out my water. 🤣

  • @kristinewatson3702
    @kristinewatson3702 Před rokem +8

    I really think these men assume this is temporary wedding madness when it's really the point where the fiance starts to show her true colors.

  • @jenniferlewis7508
    @jenniferlewis7508 Před rokem +10

    My dad didn't know how crazy my ex-stepmother was until after walking down the aisle. She used all of her insanity against me when he wasn't around, would kiss my 🍑 when he was around and denied everything if I spoke up. Why people won't believe to their CHILDREN over a SO really baffles me?! I mean, I moved out at 16 over her!
    They were divorced within the first year. Also point out that nearly half of that time was in litigation, I'm guessing the 11 yr old's dad left the bride very, very soon after the ceremony.

  • @rayannejacobs8700
    @rayannejacobs8700 Před měsícem +1

    I once read that, in event planning, you have 3 choices: fast, cheap and good. You can only pick 2, and whichever 2 you pick precludes the 3rd being an option. I have since determined that it holds true in almost all areas of life's choices.

  • @lucypellek8940
    @lucypellek8940 Před rokem +6

    OMG that sneeze was epic. Im STILL dying!!! You never disappoint on these videos.. with the voices and sound effects im always giggling. Thank YOU for being awesome!! ☺😂😂😂😂

  • @Mars-yg2ey
    @Mars-yg2ey Před rokem +35

    I need this today, thank you for always making us all laugh!!

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  • @raspberry_Lex
    @raspberry_Lex Před rokem +8

    Ngl, surely Han is gem of a man, certainly my type, ayayay, but, without a doubt, it was unfair and emotionally draining that he went through all that :((. I hope they have an amazing time on their journey away from Matt's wifezilla JAJAJAJAJA

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    • @pixiestxNyomouf
      @pixiestxNyomouf Před rokem +2

      Yeah, I felt bad when OP was describing him and I knew exactly where it was going. It hurt to hear that he called him crying about the terrible things she said and we didn't even hear the rest. The friends are lucky to have Han and vice versa

  • @justinrigby2617
    @justinrigby2617 Před rokem +6

    About fifteen years ago my dad remarried. He's never been one to choose a non-crazy woman. He's just a magnet for crazy. He has been married four times. The first was before my bio mom which ended in divorce, my bio mom died when I was three from breast cancer (she was abusive to my older siblings and one of my earliest childhood memories involves me being put in front of American Werewolf in London during the transformation scene.. I was three!), he remarried my adoptive mother when I was four and they divorced when I was seventeen (she was also incredibly abusive in everyway hiding it from my dad. I'm talking physical, emotional, psychological and spiritual.) That leads to lucky number four. I was twenty-three and knew this woman was psycho. I had watched her from my friend's porch when I was sixteen as she literally picked her twelve year old son up by his throat and threw him across the yard because he wanted to pet their dog. To say this woman was obnoxious was an understatement. She would constantly refer to my brothers and I as son and would call my sister "sis". My brothers and I absolutely hated her and my sister is polite to a fault. I remember asking my dad on his wedding day if he was happy. His response? "I guess so." Now my father owns a number of properties in the town that I'm from and they were living in one of them. Needless to say, the marriage lasted maybe a year. My father trying to be nice offered her one of his other houses because he wanted to rent out the one they currently lived in. She proceeded to demand that he give her the house they lived in plus the other one so her parents could live in it. She also demanded that my father give her half of his salary and pay child support for her other son (who wasn't my fathers). My father tells to kick rocks and that since she wanted to be greedy, she would get nothing and to GTFO. She remarried some other poor sucker less than a year later.

    • @kissit012
      @kissit012 Před rokem +1

      Like attracts like

    • @stephenbanks5952
      @stephenbanks5952 Před rokem +1

      Sad story. You have had quite an unstable childhood/youth. Hope you can find a stable future.

  • @heathertaylor8904
    @heathertaylor8904 Před rokem +4

    I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH. If you're in a relationship and being accused of cheating frequently when you damn well know you didn't nor would you ever, THIS IS A HUUUUUGE RED FLAG. People expect if you what they know they would do. This is why we are often disappointed by people not behaving in ways such as going to the party you wanted to go to (they're introverts) or forgetting your birthday (you would never forget theirs! But it's not a big deal to them, they probably feel the day to day closeness is where love lies) I REPEAT A PERSON WHO CONSISTENTLY ACCUSES YOU OF CHEATING IS PROBABLY CHEATING. it took me like 15 years of a wasted marriage and a huge amount of heartbreak to learn this. Turns out this is common. (This doesn't apply to viciously low self esteem ppl but they prolly won't act like fucks about it like the cheater most definitely will)

  • @NightmareVixen12
    @NightmareVixen12 Před rokem +14

    My ex and I were never engaged but we did discuss marriage. I don't have many close people so I wanted a tiny wedding. Bride, groom, maid of honour, best man, and officiate. He wanted a giant wedding because he is close to his massive family (40+ on just his dad's side). He also wanted a bride and groom seating arrangement rather than general seating. I felt awful because he would have all that pomp and circumstance for his family and have all those people there for him while I would have less than ten people. I also have stage fright. He refused to budge with his choice despite my feelings on it and my offer to compromise (each of us get only a few guests and have general seating). We stopped talking about marriage and we broke up some time later for unrelated reasons.

  • @KetoCoupleLife
    @KetoCoupleLife Před rokem +6

    LOL I was the opposite! I didn't care about the planning, let my maid of honor (my sister) pick the bridesmaids dresses (I confirmed the color was good). My asks: Stephanotis and Ivy and Gardenias for my bouquet, and the reception was hot dogs/hamburgers grill out with all the fixings. The rest I didn't care about. I was ready to marry my love. This year we are celebrating 29 years!

  • @GrannyFooFoo
    @GrannyFooFoo Před rokem +2

    Love that my ad for this is for a local divorce attorney firm! 😂🤣

  • @TeKnoVKNG23
    @TeKnoVKNG23 Před rokem +4

    All of my friends got married shortly after high school or during college and had to have these huge expensive weddings(that cost a lot to go to or be in that early in life as well) and oddly enough the only two of them that are still married and happy to this day are my two good friends who just went to the local courthouse and had a quick ceremony with lunch for close friends and family at a nice restaurant down the street, lol. They and their wives decided to spend the money on a house instead.

  • @davidguidry657
    @davidguidry657 Před rokem +8

    Who gets gifted a frickin house as a wedding gift?!?! Asking for a friend.😉

    • @RoSez888
      @RoSez888 Před rokem +2

      It happens. Did you see My Big Fat Greek Wedding? The father of the bride gifted the couple a house...next to theirs! 🤣🤣🤣 I attended one wedding where my co-worker, an American of Mexican heritage, married a white guy. Their wedding gift from the groom's widowed mother was a choice of one of two houses--the one the MIL's father built or the house next to it. I've also heard of parents gifting their married children the down payment on a house. Sometimes, people win the family lottery and get the right parents.

    • @okilroth4250
      @okilroth4250 Před rokem +1

      Hey David! Good to see your comment here my friend😎.
      What I'm really curious are the photos that were given to the wifezilla 😂
      I knew some parents who would pledge a house as a wedding gift or give money to the newlyweds to put in a house but can't say for the others since the last engaged couple I know broke off theirs.

    • @davidguidry657
      @davidguidry657 Před rokem

      @@okilroth4250 her reaction to them made it seem like they were “action photos” from the bachelor party but the description leads me to believe they were simply shots from the reception where the guys were enjoying each other’s company. The bride just got jealous of their bond I guess? It seems like she’s insecure but yeah, I wish we had the photos to judge for ourselves.

    • @okilroth4250
      @okilroth4250 Před rokem +1

      @@davidguidry657 definitely. I think the cheating likely caused the divorce but those photos should be legendary by now 😂

    • @davidguidry657
      @davidguidry657 Před rokem +1

      @@okilroth4250 I wonder if I can find them on the interwebs? No ow ya got me curious, friend.

  • @Kylaniiii
    @Kylaniiii Před rokem +5

    I’m on my ladies days that began IN JULY and definitely needed a dose of Charlotte reacting to bridezilla’s.

  • @blackwizard2208
    @blackwizard2208 Před rokem +1

    4:18 everyone should sneeze like that. Best sneeze everrrr!

  • @bullzebub
    @bullzebub Před rokem +2

    these stories sure makes me want to stay single forever.

  • @bagginssupercat
    @bagginssupercat Před rokem +4

    Entitled AND bridezillas! Bonza!

  • @ProcrastinationQueen
    @ProcrastinationQueen Před rokem +11

    ‼️WARNING, LONG COMMENT AHEAD‼️
    My mom actually kinda dealt with a few bridezillas (ish? Idk if you would call them that) at her own wedding. That might seem a bit confusing, so let me explain:
    My mom and dad decided to get married in 1999, after my mom saw in the papers that a priest wanted to do a bomb/group wedding on New Year’s Eve, in the year 2000 (you know, since it was the big shift from the 90’s to the 2000’s)
    It was actually kinda funny, ‘cause that was basically how my mom proposed to my dad 😅 just one random day over the breakfast table, flipping through the morning paper, seeing the article, and just asking “hey, would you be down for this?” Him looking at the paper and just saying “sure, why not 🤷‍♂️ could be cool” 😂
    Anyway, of course they then had to plan it all out with the priest and the other strangers that also wanted to participate. But that’s kinda where the issues arose.
    Because since this wasn’t really a traditional wedding, they couldn’t quite do it the same way a normal wedding would’ve been done. Like, having someone walk you down the aisle, saying your vows to each other etc. and my mom was completely on board with this, since she wasn’t much for tradition anyway, and she had figured that a group wedding on NYE probably wouldn’t be playing by the same rules. But apparently, she was the only one who had considered this, because multiple brides left in the planning stage, stating that they couldn’t shirk those traditions for their wedding; which is fine! This was a new thing and no one had really done it in our country before, so it wasn’t really clear what to expect. At least they left when they realized it wasn’t for them.
    The real issue was with the people who stayed, but still wanted a traditional wedding. They started demanding all sorts of things of the priest, and getting upset when some of their demands just weren’t possible. He even relented, and let them have their fathers walk them down the aisle (even though there really wasn’t much time for it). And that actually caused an issue with my mom, because she wasn’t on good terms with her father at that point in her life, so when she found out that they weren’t doing the whole aisle walk thing, she was actually relieved; but of course, since it got changed she had to figure something out (it ended up with my grandma walking her down the aisle instead)
    At this point I think my mom was getting kinda fed up with all of this, because if you just wanted a traditional wedding, why tf did you sign up for an untraditional one!!? It honestly just doesn’t make sense.
    Anyways, things went ok after that, but where all the other brides showed up in white dresses, my mom showed up in a custom made, form fitting dark blue gown with teardrop shaped crystals all over, kinda similar to a night’s sky, to try and fit with the whole New Years theme (complete with three year old me in a matching flower girl dress of the same fabric😆)
    My mom was a bit disappointed that she was the only one who had thought to do something different, since the wedding already was a different kind of wedding (I mean, it even made the news, and got in the papers here. My mom still has the newspaper clipping of it)
    The rehearsal dinner was held in my parents tiny apartment where they had to borrow the neighbors kitchen, because there wasn’t enough room. And my dad kinda just proposed right before the ceremony at the dinner party, just to give my mom an actual proposal instead of the brief talk over breakfast the year before 😅
    It was fun and all, but it sounds like there was so much damn arguing in the planning stage, that it would’ve given you a migraine! Even hearing her talk about it I could see how exhausted and fed up she was, remembering the event.

    • @Manglethefox238
      @Manglethefox238 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I will be honest, I feel bad for your mother. Her family caused her stress for no reason, the entire family gave her stress. But I really hope she’s ok now.

    • @ProcrastinationQueen
      @ProcrastinationQueen Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@Manglethefox238 oh it wasn’t her family that caused her all the stress, it was just the other brides in the wedding (none of them knew each other beforehand)
      But her dad had cheated on her mother and left her, so my mom wasn’t on good terms with him, and that was pretty much the only family drama going on at the time. Still sounded super stressful though 😅

    • @Manglethefox238
      @Manglethefox238 Před 3 měsíci

      @@ProcrastinationQueen Poor her. Feel so bad for her. Sorry that I got confused.

    • @ProcrastinationQueen
      @ProcrastinationQueen Před 3 měsíci

      @@Manglethefox238 that’s completely fine! I’m sure she’d appreciate the sentiment 😊

  • @TheCruxisAngel
    @TheCruxisAngel Před rokem +2

    So I love listening to your videos while I'm gaming (it helps me focus better lol.) I LITERALLY said , "Bless you!" when you sneezed because I thought someone was in the room with me 😂

  • @lizardog
    @lizardog Před rokem +1

    I love my Petty ball cap. When I wear it, here in Florida, I usually get at least one person who asks either, "Tom Petty?" or "Richard Petty?" I'm very pleased to re[;y, "No, it's really more of a warning, a sort of caution sign."

  • @level1weeb164
    @level1weeb164 Před rokem +6

    Wedding's are so nuts. I've been to one that was nearly perfect though, allow me to share it to spread the good vibes!
    My cousin got married in front of a gorgeous mountain view on a back patio of the cabin where her entire wedding party stayed. She and her now husband, who she had been dating for nearly 6 years, did ALL OF THE WORK. I'm not kidding. They made the food, cake, brownies, like 5 different pies, her husband even made the wine. It was amazing. A whole day with virtually no drama, no animosity as her husband's family is absolutely amazing and we were so happy to finally meet all of them. There weren't rules about dress code, but everyone showed up presentable. No rules about kids, and the kids were all playing tag and having a great time during her reception (which was in the same cabin).
    Her mother, my aunt, passed away a few years prior, so me and my mom felt as though we needed to be there for her and help as much as possible. My mom genuinely stepped into the Mother-of-the-Bride role. She took her dress shopping, helped her pick out colors and such. But on the day, every time we asked what we could do to help, or how she was feeling, or if we needed to go get any last minute items, she said it wasn't necessary. Everything was taken care of. She was so calm, so happy, and so beautiful the entire day.
    My favorite part of the ceremony was when her husband's brother (the officiant of the ceremony) began to read his closing statements. As he said "Now that you are one, there shall be no rain" and at that exact moment it began to gently rain. Usually this would be a bad omen to most brides and guests, but we all just held each other a bit closer and there wasn't a dry eye anywhere because we felt as though it was her mother's way of being at the ceremony.

  • @DavidStruveDesigns
    @DavidStruveDesigns Před rokem +3

    I've never understood the whole "it's not HIS day, it's HER day" and everything being about the bride with the groom left as almost an after-thought. I've heard this phrase repeated SO MANY TIMES over the years, and I just can't wrap my head around it. Surely it's THEIR day and both are equally as important and BOTH should have equal focus paid to them??? Am I wrong and just missing something?

  • @BullingThunder
    @BullingThunder Před rokem +2

    You know hearing all these stories kinda makes me very happy that I got married to a simple man and well he married me, pretty simple and I don't understand why weddings need to be so fancy. My husband and I have been married 18 years coming the 29th of this month. We took a couple we met(old retired Navy couple that were so amazing to help us when we needed it) to the Court House and said our "I do's" and then went back to the couples place for Cake cutting and some Champagne. The lovely lady was great at helping us with all the major things for a wedding right up to the Wedding Photos. It was amazing even if it was not a fancy fairy tale wedding it was still the greatest day of my life.

  • @AdakStillStands
    @AdakStillStands Před rokem +2

    That Kirkland bridal shop knew how crazy she was. They were warned by their neighbors, the pricier Bellevue bridal shops (think Bill Gates) she had been lurking about. Local gossip story.

  • @tracisr
    @tracisr Před rokem +6

    Lmao the first story makes me think of my mom... she stabbed her man and his mom and yet he picked her up from the jailhouse when she got out 😅

  • @dinasilva9263
    @dinasilva9263 Před rokem +9

    The merchandising of this Channel is really beautiful. Probably the best i ever saw here on CZcams. Congratulations Charlotte.👏

    • @CharlotteDobre
      @CharlotteDobre  Před rokem +7

      Thank you Dina I hope you’re having a fantastic Monday!

    • @dinasilva9263
      @dinasilva9263 Před rokem +1

      @@CharlotteDobre thank you Charlotte, i hope you too. 🤗

    • @smartyexplorer135
      @smartyexplorer135 Před rokem

      czcams.com/video/PYbz1RsUgN0/video.html
      Finally it's here..

  • @pixiestxNyomouf
    @pixiestxNyomouf Před rokem +2

    Poor Han. Imagine attacking someone like that

  • @BecSparky
    @BecSparky Před rokem

    I seriously love my "Petty" Hoodie. It has been a lifesaver during our cold Aussie winter. It's warm, comfy and super cute.

  • @lisaleeuw
    @lisaleeuw Před rokem +5

    that are all awefull stories!! 🤢😱 I hope that all those involved will soon realise that they can do, and desirve, much better! Wish them all a very happy and love filled life❤ (excuse the typo's non english speaker here) 😅

    • @davidguidry657
      @davidguidry657 Před rokem +1

      Your English is far and above what my (assuming) Italian would be so you’re good girlie. 😉

  • @sunnygirlsense
    @sunnygirlsense Před rokem +5

    The few actual family member weddings I have attend were super stressful. my cousins were super entitled and demanding, I have never been more grateful. To live so far from them, and only having see them like once a year. One was so bad at least half the planning took place a week before, and non of us direct family members slept within that week let alone the night before.

  • @inthedarkanonymous5625
    @inthedarkanonymous5625 Před 29 dny +1

    My dad, a Baptist preacher told us about a girl from the church who asked him if he would marry her to her sweetheart (a sailor, WWII era) before he had to report to his ship.
    Her hair was still in rollers and Dad said it was clear she took a kitchen curtain and draped it over her head for a veil.
    Guess what? They were just as married.

  • @blujay1608
    @blujay1608 Před rokem +1

    When "red flag" wasn't enough, I thought she was going to say "red blow up guy flailing in front of a used car lot" LOL!

  • @DamnDemi
    @DamnDemi Před rokem +2

    Damnnnnn. Matt went through a LOT. Dodged a bullet there 👏🏼

  • @angeltalk23
    @angeltalk23 Před rokem +3

    About the shirt story, I think the bride punching the groom was the reason he needed. Emotional abuse wasn't heavily spoken about being a problem compared to physically abuse, especially for man. My guy friend stayed with his ex and said " if she hits me once, I'm gone" when I called out his ex's emotionally abuse when he was talking about her.

  • @ChrisCoughlin-nh3sc
    @ChrisCoughlin-nh3sc Před rokem

    4:20 best sneeze ever, like an airplane leaving the runway. too cute

  • @Fyreflier
    @Fyreflier Před rokem

    My dad and stepmum were originally going to just go to the registry office with me, my sister, and a couple of friends, then have a big lunch/dinner with family and friends instead of the big ceremony. In the end, they had a ceremony and reception for everyone else so that we could all celebrate and have fun. My stepmum was crying almost instantly (moh had planned ahead and immediately handed over a hankie) and dad ballsed up the vows at one point ("Are you Terry?" "I do." cue 5 minute laughter break). We all just had a wonderful time and enjoyed the party.
    A wedding should reflect the people and their relationship - and people and relationships are messy. If your wedding doesn't have a few hiccups and minor disasters, it's not a real reflection of who you are and what you're about.

  • @stoney1277
    @stoney1277 Před rokem +4

    Hi Charolett! I'm getting MARRIED today. 2nd marriage for us both. I'm not a bridezilla. Simply court house ceremony just 3 guest mom son and daughter in law. I even had my guest choose the restaurant we will be going to after the ceremony. ❤

    • @CharlotteDobre
      @CharlotteDobre  Před rokem +2

      Congratulations! I hope you have a long and happy marriage!!

    • @davidguidry657
      @davidguidry657 Před rokem +1

      Congratulations on your wedding! Praying for a healthy, long marriage for you, bestie!
      And if that’s y’all in your thumbnail, y’all are adorbs! If y’all honeymoon in (or travel to) San Antonio, let me know and I’ll treat y’all to a nice dinner.

    • @stoney1277
      @stoney1277 Před rokem

      @@CharlotteDobre thank you!

    • @stoney1277
      @stoney1277 Před rokem +1

      @@davidguidry657 yep that's us! Thank you you are very sweet!

    • @Birdbike719
      @Birdbike719 Před rokem

      Congratulations!

  • @lisaleeuw
    @lisaleeuw Před rokem +3

    Ciao bella! Have a great day🤗 Love from theNetherlands🥰💋💋💋

  • @MissIpaMusic
    @MissIpaMusic Před rokem

    4:20 bless you, queen. Impeccable timing.

  • @kellymeade5229
    @kellymeade5229 Před rokem

    Yay!!! Restock!! Just ordered the sweatshirt, been wanting one for a long time...love the tie dye.

  • @ramachandra776
    @ramachandra776 Před rokem +7

    Charlotte has been knocking it out of the park as always . However , feel that you have more to offer . I think if you make videos on movie reviews , books , funny animals and apocalyptic scenarios it also would be a great hit . Want to see our potato queen venture into new territories to conquer. 🙂

    • @meganroberts8721
      @meganroberts8721 Před rokem +3

      Somebody should make her a potato tiara to wear during reviews

  • @shellys873
    @shellys873 Před rokem +20

    This drives me insane! My beautiful wedding dress was from “Davis bridal” and cost $99.00. (Thanks to my mom and dad). We got married at a restaurant/bar/ entertainment venue. My family and I all went and cleaned it up after a Friday night concert before our Saturday night wedding. I also crawled under the public bathroom stall because our friend threw up and passed out sitting on the bathroom stall floor. I PROMISE, we are not hillbillies or backwoods. Well…most of us are not.

  • @dogmom4710
    @dogmom4710 Před 10 měsíci

    OMG. I had to rewatch the sneeze a dozen times. Hit me on the funny bone hard! Tears rolling hard. Omg. Ahhhhh. I will now endeavor to sneeze like this from here out. 😂😂

  • @RebeccaGallin
    @RebeccaGallin Před 5 měsíci

    Me and my husband planned our own wedding, all about family and friends. We were so happy and thankful for all of them! No time for negative and ugly just love and fun! Never understood the bridezilla thing!

  • @Becca123b
    @Becca123b Před rokem +4

    I love watching bridezilla videos it honestly we should take all the bridezilla videos of what they said on Reddit make a book out of it so we can learn what not to do when we get married

  • @robinkyle4880
    @robinkyle4880 Před rokem +3

    She/ her family should send him the bills for the entire wedding and all parties that they paid for.

  • @sneaking_snail
    @sneaking_snail Před 2 měsíci

    When my sister got married she went out of her way to accommodate my personal needs, I was able to wear my headphones, sit in a different spot and even invited my carer who she had met during work a few years back. It was a beautiful wedding and we all had a great time. Yes. Even me ( I was in some wedding photos!!)

  • @daniaalsakka7888
    @daniaalsakka7888 Před rokem

    I’m in love with the petty crop tops 😍 the colors and fabric were super cute

  • @uninvincibleete
    @uninvincibleete Před rokem +6

    You ever read about these absolutely bonkers, entitled women who get married and think to yourself where are the men kind enough to put up with this, how do I keep finding jerks when there are men with the patience of a saint walking among us lol

  • @myfeelsRvalid
    @myfeelsRvalid Před rokem +3

    My ex was a hubzilla. He was basically a male Karen too. So it wasn't just me he treated like shit, it was everyone else too 🤣
    I always apologized for his behavior though. Like any time he had to talk to customer service for anything, I prayed for them.

  • @tiffayy6
    @tiffayy6 Před rokem +2

    Matt has some good friends , thank frick he got out of there holy hell

  • @katrobins
    @katrobins Před 10 měsíci +1

    I hope Matt, Rose, and Han stay friends for life. I love how they help each other out.
    Also.....
    I will never understand that bridezilla mentality. What's so fun or beneficial about being a jerk to everyone?

  • @cindymarin4393
    @cindymarin4393 Před rokem +3

    Hi Charlotte! Another Bridezilla video, a great way to start the week!

  • @scatterbrainjane6928
    @scatterbrainjane6928 Před rokem +5

    Lots of love from Alaska!! You should do country/ wild private weddings!

    • @meganroberts8721
      @meganroberts8721 Před rokem

      We had a wedding that lost their caterer a few days before the wedding call and order their food from Fred Meyer deli trays.
      I felt sorry for the bride and mom, they were nice/polite people

  • @demishapatel6788
    @demishapatel6788 Před rokem +1

    Am I the only one thinking that if you put a mini veil on your T-rex you'd have a bridezilla puppet?🤔...love your videos btw!💕