Why you’re failing at LOVE

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Komentáře • 689

  • @addampeter5921
    @addampeter5921 Před 27 dny +347

    She is as beautiful as she is smart and good hearted. Its hard to see influencers that are real like her... one of a kind

    • @DavidZ4-gg3dm
      @DavidZ4-gg3dm Před 26 dny +2

      How about Haley Kalil?

    • @PostMeridium
      @PostMeridium Před 25 dny +3

      @@DavidZ4-gg3dmHe say it’s hard not that she was the only one, i’m not even currently talking english and understand better than you do, what a shame 😅

    • @DavidZ4-gg3dm
      @DavidZ4-gg3dm Před 25 dny +1

      @@PostMeridium I understand very well. He says she's one of a kind. I'm saying that Haley Kalil is similiar.

    • @BhashanaLiyanage
      @BhashanaLiyanage Před 23 dny +3

      and her voice is also so sweet

    • @freakguitargod
      @freakguitargod Před 17 dny

      shes normal because she does not have an OF, means, she keeps her packages to herself. shame

  • @colegrosso4107
    @colegrosso4107 Před 27 dny +378

    “i’m not a superstitious person but this ladybug gives me good luck” - victoria pfiefer

  • @Idiocracyisnow
    @Idiocracyisnow Před 26 dny +39

    What an absolute treasure of a human being.

  • @eduheloucomposer
    @eduheloucomposer Před 25 dny +63

    Ladybug is the perfect expression of love, she can land in any arm with no questions about who you are what you have, but only being. ❤

    • @eu3842
      @eu3842 Před 24 dny +3

      Não faz o menor sentido isso moscas fazem a mesma coisa então

  • @boo5325
    @boo5325 Před 19 dny +10

    I was there when you have 100k subscribers but now it's over 2 millions subscribers. You're fantastic

  • @09abhishekk
    @09abhishekk Před 14 dny +18

    2:52 the best moment! 🤣

  • @ChicagoBornPilsenBred21
    @ChicagoBornPilsenBred21 Před 27 dny +60

    Victoria finding/talking about Ladybugs then getting into deep thought about how you view yourself, giving relationship advice & then sitting peacefully by the ocean gives us a little perspective on how she is. Great video💯

    • @ashtonarrows1974
      @ashtonarrows1974 Před 26 dny +4

      On how she pretends to be on camera so the simps keep coming.* Fixed that for ya.

    • @krisztiandomokos6713
      @krisztiandomokos6713 Před 26 dny +2

      And conveniently there is a camera to record all of this introspection

    • @DavidZ4-gg3dm
      @DavidZ4-gg3dm Před 26 dny +5

      Why are she & her camera operator the only people on the beach?

    • @beuthen8562
      @beuthen8562 Před 25 dny

      ​​@DavidZ4-gg3dm lol it's probably edited out and besides there are still a few people

  • @wizeyy
    @wizeyy Před 26 dny +20

    I used to get annoyed seeing her shorts on my feed and more annoyed when I watched them. But then I started listening to her talk and now I’m a fan

    • @TheAniki94
      @TheAniki94 Před 21 dnem +2

      Exactly my thoughts too 😂 those shorts are irritating, although she's very smart and genuine when you listen to her

    • @Unkniwn1
      @Unkniwn1 Před 19 dny +1

      first time listwening to her lemme see how it goes shorts are annoying and thirst trap if shes actaly good like u say she should stop

    • @Unkniwn1
      @Unkniwn1 Před 19 dny +2

      also if you wanna know sm1 that i can garuntee is very genuine andhelpful (although a little egotistic) is Hamza Ahmed

    • @ARSENAL_supremacy
      @ARSENAL_supremacy Před 9 dny

      If you are a fan I am an air conditioner

  • @Ali-Kahla
    @Ali-Kahla Před 26 dny +15

    Everyone is filled with energy after watching this video ❤😂

  • @threemad8456
    @threemad8456 Před 27 dny +102

    “When you’re ᵃ ᵇⁱᵗᶜʰ to someone” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bobevans5282
    @bobevans5282 Před 9 dny +4

    You don't know you are the Angel from the outside and on the inside both
    God gifted!!

  • @ZeyEmir
    @ZeyEmir Před 27 dny +20

    Dang first time i saw a person who has same thinking like me. Love is from both side not from one side. Thank you

  • @praxisego2991
    @praxisego2991 Před 26 dny +13

    This is so true Victoria, I think we can compare it like thinking of a precious stone, how do we give value to that. Of course because it is beautiful, shiny, it sparkles and others. I think for a human being, they became valuable for the quality of what they are inside. We like them for their values... Like when they are kind, thoughtful, compassionate, merciful, with a positive attitude, and they are pure in spirit. I think that is very important.

  • @RaidhaShorif205
    @RaidhaShorif205 Před 26 dny +14

    ‘’Love is sacrifice’’ that really touch my heart ❤️‍🩹

  • @rickymendez2178
    @rickymendez2178 Před 27 dny +16

    This is your best video so far. Showed a lot of wisdom and maturity at a very young age. Thank you for all the advice and your videos are great

  • @eurekasimplywellness
    @eurekasimplywellness Před 19 dny +5

    didnt come here for advice just here to admire the beauty

  • @jorgeglz.8815
    @jorgeglz.8815 Před 22 dny +5

    Love that mindset, some times is hard to find people that think like that but is better to keep it simple and let getting to know that person to become real parthners in life, hope to be on that stage Some day 😌

  • @shaik4333
    @shaik4333 Před 24 dny +8

    Her voice 🤌🏻 her eyes 👀 & her smile 😇 her beauty 🫀🤌🏻🤌🏻

  • @DaNerdOne
    @DaNerdOne Před 24 dny +5

    The sound of waves at the end its great, quiet and relaxed.

  • @kevincastle4219
    @kevincastle4219 Před 20 dny +7

    I like when people talk about love, and not about seduction.

  • @grantcotton2493
    @grantcotton2493 Před 27 dny +11

    Thank you so much for all this advice, Victoria! I've never been in a relationship ever, and I've often beaten myself up for not being good enough. I'm getting help with this and have been feeling better recently about myself, but I've still got some more progress I need to make. This helped me even more, and I can't appreciate you enough for that! God bless! ❤️ ✝️

  • @VicksV20
    @VicksV20 Před 26 dny +10

    Victoria, thank you , you give me hope for the future.Thank you for this video from the bottom of my heart ☺️
    Everything you said is my life experience for the past 4 years , I am 18 now and you reminded me that , thank God , I have grown up.

  • @playexploreryt
    @playexploreryt Před 22 dny +3

    0:59 SHE DOESN'T WANNA STEP ON ANY 🐞

  • @juliagriffin2179
    @juliagriffin2179 Před 27 dny +12

    This is a beautiful scenery! I love your channel so much and you make my day!❤

  • @JoeJ-8282
    @JoeJ-8282 Před 25 dny +7

    I'm already 50 and I still haven't ever figured out my real "purpose" in this life... I honestly don't even think I have one, I think I'm just existing here as I am, (i.e. still single AND a total virgin), to "live" in eternal solitude as a kind of "punishment" for something (terrible?) that I must've done in a past life, or something like that. I can't think of any other reason that even after over 5 decades now, I STILL cannot see or even have ANY idea of WHY I exist in this life and at this time in our history as a society and race. (Of humans)
    I'm a good natured person with endless Love and positivity for all, including myself, but literally NO-ONE that I'm EVER potentially interested in can see or even notice my inner beauty, Spirit, and character because they can't seem to ever be able to see past my (apparently "creepy, disgusting"), exterior looks, especially in my face, so whatever...
    At this point in my life, I've already pretty much totally given up on ever having an intimate relationship with anyone. Now I just totally focus my time and energy on my own nerdy hobbies and other interests, in order to keep my mind occupied and my Spirit happy.

    • @greatxerox
      @greatxerox Před 21 dnem

      hi dude, you are in this Earth in order to be with JESUS, you have to contact him, that's the ONLY reason you are living here. i assure you it's the truth because if you make effort to contact him using all your living force and will and with sincerity, you'll understand. the Saint Spirit will reach you and you'll be a god's child. please trust me. And God knows you too, more than yourself, he'll put a kind, beautiful & good woman on your road. trust the Bible. it's really the truth because you'll get a lot of proofs when Saint Spirit will be with your soul.

    • @khanabdal1089
      @khanabdal1089 Před 20 dny

      Read the Holy Book Quran which has already defined the purpose of life. You will be able to figure out why u are here.

  • @noahg-ms8ef
    @noahg-ms8ef Před 27 dny +13

    Thank you for the great advice Victoria!!! I really needed this. I know this will help me a lot when I meet someone in the future.

  • @LizzieMcgraw
    @LizzieMcgraw Před 27 dny +35

    Your videos are like a window into your world, love the view!

    • @DavidZ4-gg3dm
      @DavidZ4-gg3dm Před 26 dny +3

      It's surprising that there's no-one else on the beach.

    • @fahimjalal322
      @fahimjalal322 Před 7 dny

      Your sunglasses are so beautiful

  • @user-ss8tm4bo7e
    @user-ss8tm4bo7e Před 24 dny +5

    I watch your short video many times but I heard ur voice for the first time,,and wat u said is damn true 👍huge love from India Nagaland

  • @Hulk-lives
    @Hulk-lives Před 27 dny +8

    Spot on 👍🏻 awesome video! Keep up the amazing work Victoria.

  • @schtuke
    @schtuke Před 27 dny +3

    Victoria! How can one be so young--but so wise? You will make a wonderful wife one day. Be blessed!

  • @khazemierfamor6470
    @khazemierfamor6470 Před 27 dny +8

    Amazing video Victoria Stay safe and hydrated.

  • @ChiefUSA
    @ChiefUSA Před 20 dny +4

    Great insight! Love your CZcams Shorts😂

  • @waynejacobs5092
    @waynejacobs5092 Před dnem

    I've never agreed more with anyone on dating advice than this video. It's like she's saying everything I advise in dating, but also saying everything I've been to afraid to say to people, AND then she adds a few things I've never even thought of. Listen to this advice for happy, healthy relationships.

  • @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan
    @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan Před 27 dny +8

    Outstanding vid, you're shorts are the best on this platform however these are great too

  • @TylerDaSilva522
    @TylerDaSilva522 Před 26 dny +5

    So much truth! Thank you for posting.

  • @jetxll
    @jetxll Před 22 hodinami

    Wow, I’d forgotten how to be okay with myself, the “what do you stand for?” hit me, thank you. I really like your videos

  • @armoniko91
    @armoniko91 Před 27 dny +6

    I said my dreams... you're also there

  • @rickymendez2178
    @rickymendez2178 Před 27 dny +6

    She finally posted this I just started watching but wanted to be one of the first to comment so Here I am 🙋‍♂️

  • @Anim.eDLUFFY
    @Anim.eDLUFFY Před 27 dny +14

    If you're here on every upload !

  • @FICUSULXD189
    @FICUSULXD189 Před 26 dny +10

    Your voice is so nice and soothing!

  • @MrRaj21_
    @MrRaj21_ Před 24 dny +3

    9:38 Yes always Put God first and God will show you the right path and the right Person to be in your Life! 💯

  • @zanyryan6417
    @zanyryan6417 Před 15 dny +2

    11:13 That doesn’t matter. You said there’s no people at that beach, so why trust your intuition when it’s warning you of something that’s physically impossible? This is the reason trust issues exist; the reason they trust their feelings over the facts.

  • @hollywood-underdog4976
    @hollywood-underdog4976 Před 27 dny +5

    Dear Miss Victoria. Yeah..thinks..theres a lot of truth in these words. thx..best luck to you..Bon Chance..

  • @cocomambo26
    @cocomambo26 Před 27 dny +1

    More videos my love ❤🥰😍
    I love your content!! You always make my day and i always look forward to your content ❤️🥰😍

  • @dblanque
    @dblanque Před 18 dny +2

    Not usually very attuned to your shorts or skits but I liked your way with words and what you had to say.
    Pretty reasonable and reflective video.
    Sometimes people overestimate the importance of romantic love though. If you have it, cherish it and take care of it, but if you don't... chill, it's not all about it.
    In the end we're all alone, so just find and do the things you love to do and be kind to, and help others.
    Cheers.
    -Dyl

  • @user-ci8le8qt7u
    @user-ci8le8qt7u Před 27 dny +9

    Your such the cutest and nicest female CZcamsr ever.❤❤❤❤

  • @Jhinjutsu
    @Jhinjutsu Před 23 dny +4

    thanks for the advice i needed this

  • @bintanggeorge2870
    @bintanggeorge2870 Před dnem

    She is the most beautiful woman I ever see. Whoever gets her heart, protect at all costs king!!!

  • @Anonymousxyz98
    @Anonymousxyz98 Před 21 dnem +10

    Her parents raised her right ❤
    America must be proud of her

    • @jameschoi7501
      @jameschoi7501 Před 5 dny +2

      That is because she wasn't raised in America

  • @yunmarky_08
    @yunmarky_08 Před 27 dny +1

    I have never watched your lengthy video before, but it is excellent.

  • @flaminggasolineinthedarkne4

    I just like the sound of the ocean.

  • @user-sn3ed5rh6e
    @user-sn3ed5rh6e Před 27 dny +5

    You have a very good ethics. this is really good.

  • @Bazsigood
    @Bazsigood Před 26 dny +6

    Usually girls in your age don't know anything about relationships, not to mention to give advices about it, but your video is smart and useful to your generations so worth a thumbs up! good work! ;)

  • @user-zd1ze9ue4l
    @user-zd1ze9ue4l Před 25 dny +6

    Victoria, all respect and appreciation to your parents for their good upbringing of you. All the video while you maintain your seat in a respectful and reverent position.

  • @ghonjalishningombam267
    @ghonjalishningombam267 Před 10 dny +1

    You are the right person I need girl 🙏🥺

  • @user-pn9zy6dm1f
    @user-pn9zy6dm1f Před 26 dny +6

    your body personality talking style so perfect🙂that's not fair🥲

  • @descovery1029
    @descovery1029 Před 9 dny

    Hey Victoria I have been watching your content since your subscriber was 3k and now you reach 2.million which is very impressive and I love you watching your content keep it up I wish u all the best … I’m from northeast india ❤ ☺️

  • @TheRealMrRobles
    @TheRealMrRobles Před 10 dny +1

    I loved your last community post!

  • @teendawn
    @teendawn Před 27 dny +4

    Here we go again ❤❤❤❤🎉 my Victoria

  • @LolLol-nq4hg
    @LolLol-nq4hg Před 18 dny +3

    I can only say that this is all true, you gave a great advice. Even though I've overlooked some advices given in this video

    • @Mikayla-nq8sr
      @Mikayla-nq8sr Před 18 dny

      Like?

    • @v0jt48
      @v0jt48 Před 8 dny

      "advice" is an uncountable noun, so she gave "great advice" or "some pieces of advice"

  • @knightsatin
    @knightsatin Před 26 dny

    Such wise advice here Victoria, some very good points which I hope others will consider.

  • @VickyVik55
    @VickyVik55 Před 26 dny +3

    You are in my heart ❤️

  • @kaybeehillfiger
    @kaybeehillfiger Před 2 dny

    Thanks for the advice Victoria! 😮

  • @ghosts4419
    @ghosts4419 Před 26 dny +4

    Amongst love but not in love.

  • @user-zd1ze9ue4l
    @user-zd1ze9ue4l Před 23 dny

    We often make mistakes in choosing who we love, and this results in a lot of avoidance of making the same mistake

  • @bharathan1608
    @bharathan1608 Před 14 dny

    you are good at this. have good understanding.

  • @user-hu9rd7jk8v
    @user-hu9rd7jk8v Před 26 dny +5

    You are so sweet, very pleasant to listen to and watch

  • @Ali-Kahla
    @Ali-Kahla Před 26 dny

    A lot of love from syria 🇸🇾 .. the Syrian coast ❤

  • @byronkennhernandez2690
    @byronkennhernandez2690 Před 26 dny +2

    tnx for the awesome video, my next trip will be visiting the nearest ocean ^^

  • @mackowalk2456
    @mackowalk2456 Před 25 dny +1

    It's very inspiring. I'm so glad that You Victoria know it too. If You don't want to forgive, accept and love Yourself, how can You do that for someone else?❤ I seriously love that we are thinking similar. Thank You so much for Your advices.

  • @Myolie.
    @Myolie. Před 27 dny +5

    i love your vids

  • @gioaxe4538
    @gioaxe4538 Před 12 dny +2

    Man who win ur heart is lucky ❤ blees u

  • @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988

    0:02 - 4:48 - 6:35 - 10:10 Victoria is gorgeous af ❤️🔥❤️🔥

    • @hahamanin
      @hahamanin Před 27 dny

      Yeah no sh*t sherlock😂

  • @jrdecastro7726
    @jrdecastro7726 Před 11 dny +3

    I.m a pilipino.my home town..philippines...province batangas city..
    But work..vienna austria👍

  • @HBoyYT-lu1kl
    @HBoyYT-lu1kl Před 26 dny +4

    Are we gonna ignore how she took betterhelp as a sponsor

    • @rickymendez2178
      @rickymendez2178 Před 26 dny +1

      I never used it but looks like a good thing?

    • @wiesawpaleta3430
      @wiesawpaleta3430 Před 18 dny

      ​@@rickymendez2178looks like you didn't heard about the betterhelp drama. Google it

  • @orlandoperezmexico174
    @orlandoperezmexico174 Před 24 dny +2

    Me-Ok, so now let's talk about the advises to dating with you 😄🤭😍
    She-you didn't catch me😄

  • @robertcasanova1316
    @robertcasanova1316 Před 27 dny +4

    good advice ... seems like you read a lot ... there is still a lot a naïve thinking though.. something that you will gain as you experience your own life.. i honestly think its not relationships that we should get into but rather a respect and understanding with someone... a lot of values that are taught are old traditions that need to be updated to the current era

    • @addampeter5921
      @addampeter5921 Před 26 dny

      What about it was naive

    • @robertcasanova1316
      @robertcasanova1316 Před 26 dny

      @@addampeter5921 it's a good starting point but that's just the base of it, in the world we live in traditional values especially based on biblical times, there is a need to adapt to the new world

    • @st.genevieve
      @st.genevieve Před 26 dny

      @@robertcasanova1316 Just because the world is modern doesn’t mean throw away biblical values . And in Christ we are all children so of course she sounds naive to someone who isn’t spiritual. What you’re hearing is “pure” something she and her future partner should maintain in each other .

  • @ramimekkawy7619
    @ramimekkawy7619 Před 14 dny +2

    Wow her voice isn't what I imagined at all

  • @jerickdionido
    @jerickdionido Před 24 dny +3

    I dont like myself anymore, my girlfriend sticks around maybe she still sees something in me. im not living anymore, im just surviving day by day

    • @omgwhazzat2645
      @omgwhazzat2645 Před 3 dny +1

      Hope everything alright with you

    • @jerickdionido
      @jerickdionido Před 3 dny

      @@omgwhazzat2645 omg thanks. good thing im still surviving. still alive

  • @Mikayla-nq8sr
    @Mikayla-nq8sr Před 27 dny +6

    No way that ladybug followed her all the way 😮 animals can feel energy and they knew they were safe with her

  • @advlgs2421
    @advlgs2421 Před 24 dny

    Your voice is super sweet 😅in love with it 😩💝

  • @user-bp1nf5oz1g
    @user-bp1nf5oz1g Před 25 dny

    She gave me great advice 👏

  • @LafigueraE
    @LafigueraE Před 23 dny

    Thank you of advice Victoria

  • @SamSam-tj2tf
    @SamSam-tj2tf Před 21 dnem

    So positive thanks 😊

  • @musicmoon3205
    @musicmoon3205 Před 26 dny

    I love you keep making long videos u look amazing

  • @reiseva247
    @reiseva247 Před 27 dny +2

    stay safe ma'am.. 😊

  • @NditO_o
    @NditO_o Před 27 dny +4

    "how you face the problem when the problem is your face" 😂

  • @jander4727thelilacfairy
    @jander4727thelilacfairy Před 27 dny +3

    Amazing

  • @erikdurling3402
    @erikdurling3402 Před 26 dny +2

    I will love you forever and ever amen

  • @asjadshah430
    @asjadshah430 Před 23 dny

    You’re so cute. God Bless you❤

  • @THEANKYT
    @THEANKYT Před 8 dny +2

    a woman with deferent mindset💌

  • @edgarserrano4203
    @edgarserrano4203 Před 27 dny +2

    Excellent video

  • @neezaaziz
    @neezaaziz Před 27 dny +5

    Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰 l love your videos sister 😍😍😍 you really entertain me ❤️❤️❤️ you are amazing 😍😍😍 I love your hair 😍😍

  • @neguy1088
    @neguy1088 Před 26 dny +1

    You are just wow ❤

  • @addampeter5921
    @addampeter5921 Před 26 dny

    She is still my favorite on CZcams 😂❤😂

  • @justsomeone378
    @justsomeone378 Před 25 dny

    2:06 I don’t know how is it possible to be such beautiful, I adore you so much 💘💔

  •  Před 18 dny

    Relationships fail is not the lack of love, it's the lack of friendship. Love is the strongest form of friendship. Friendship in romantic relationships build trust, respect, emotional safety, and enjoyment.

  • @AkshatKumar-ko7bj
    @AkshatKumar-ko7bj Před 26 dny

    I just love your voice

  • @doctorusman9056
    @doctorusman9056 Před 9 dny

    Thanks Victoria

  • @matthiasaronjonsson3066

    Victoria you are funny, beautiful and vise! Great advises, thank you