How Men Fall In Love VS How Women Fall In Love
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And sometimes we can fall in love or become attached quickly but slowly fade away as we get to know you and don’t like your personality or how we’re being treated
100%. Women want to be protected and cared for. Not what men in the boyosphere are preaching.
Yes. The way we fall in love is how he treats us. Is he respectful or is he utterly disrespectful? He has to be kind and respectful. Sweet but not a pushover. Strong and have self respect for himself. He needs to care about people but again, not be too much of a people pleaser or pushover. But generous in his kindness. Self respecting and courageous. Bold & intelligent. Fun and adventurous.
He needs to know what the woman he wants needs. And it’s not that complicated to give her that once he knows. And u’d find that women don’t require a whole lot. Just what a human needs. A quality experience of life. Women don’t care to make more than a man. We just care to have our own things & our own jobs and fun things we create. We just want stuff of our own & i’m so grateful we have that now. So thank you 🥰😘😘😘
@@moonlightstargem1006 I would have to disagree with “he needs to know what the woman he wants needs”. Men are not mind readers and women’s feelings can change so we can’t always guess what she wants or needs at that moment.
@@BulldogMindsetArchive Yup they care about protection and care waaaay more than looks and status. 😂
@@BulldogMindsetArchive What are you? king white knight savior of the 304 realm?? Women will always value attention over any single man
That's not love that's lust.
Lust is the need to do sexual taboo things with someone, emphasis on *need*. Love is long term, lust is short term.
Exactly
no that's just attraction lust is more of a obsession
n-n-n-n not in love baby it’s just lust
@@bikoiscrazzy4007 Lust is not obsession that’s limerence. Lust is sexual desire. That’s all lust. One night stands are based off lust, not obsession. They are not the same thing.
And attraction is more closely related to lust. If it’s any kind of sexual desire that is lust.
not all guys fall in love the same way
You're not all the in the same way but in general
I wouldnt say this is general lol. Id say its the opposite
Sure thing for me too
Man watching a this makes me think am I a girl because I don’t look at a girl and say she is the most beautiful girl ever it’s the personality that counts the most
Facts...this dude sounds ridiculous..everyone is different..men and women
Anyone can fall in love with and “idea” of a person but time with that person is how real love grows .
Women don't fall in love with you they fall in love with how you make them feel at that time
Underrated comment
True Af only men r capable of ❤
Even if they're not physically attracted to you?
Depends on the woman, generally if you keep giving them the same stimuli and provide them with “consistent” not too consistent affection over a long period of time. They eventually come around to some form of love.
@@59spadesofalife52I love this comment so much bro
The way you described it for guys is called infatuation.
Infatuation ≠ Falling in love
Im a guy and i fall in love over time.
How long
@@brooklyn3299 5 seconds.
❤
maybe youre gay
@@chaitanyagupta6668sometames I came but you don’t have to with me let’s do it somewhere outside tomorrow with the kids and bring pizza to the game
You are not inlove. You are in lust. And that is alright. Just have emotional intelligence to know the difference.
Agree. I mean you can't fall in love with a stranger. You might want to have sex but "fall in love"? No. That's why "love at first sight" doesn't exist.
@@kurtiskemp9758that’s interesting… the eyes part. I’ve experienced something like this but it was like I recognized their soul. It wasn’t love but definitely a deep connection through the eyes. ✨🙏🏽
@@kurtiskemp9758all girls know how to make a man think they’re falling with their eyes tbh it’s just lust once you talk to to them for a while that you know
Nope. I know some men fell in love at first sight with someone not their type.
@@ryokohonda4619 some , not the majority. And I still believe it is lust for them until they talk to her to confirm if it is something deeper.
As a girl, I sometimes forget that boys fantacise about girls. Probably cry bcuz of us. Daydream about us. Wishing we would notice them. I feel a lot better now that I know boys don’t just care about football. They actually have warming feelings too.
How do you know that someone at school likes you? Yeah I don’t think so. But probably.
@@SolarSmah ?
@@Stranger_Edits-011Girls think that we are only lustful
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Hence i have so many girls trying to attract me using their body and its very distracting
@@Stranger_Edits-011 well that's the thing. What's the point though when women never like a man enough to just ask him out. Because they can wait for them to come around and ask them out. I hate that we do that but it's evolutionary. I wish we were incapable of liking you all as you all are incapable of intimacy and romance. Just waiting for that one guy you don't even like to convince you to date or marry them. And all the life you can just pass a fake smile and fake the love because you never even liked them in the first place. What's the point to date then when the girl never even likes you what's the point of touching her when she doesn't even like to touch you. She just fakes it for whatever reasons.
Why wouldn’t we have feelings and fantasize about women? Lol
I saw a guy while i was walking,
I fell for him instantly,
We talked,
Now we've been together for 4 years :)
How often you cheat on him?
I've fallen in love at first sight. A feeling of comfort, desire, connection, just positive feelings run through you.
Yes it’s like a warmth
The closest that it has happened to me is only after I’ve observed them for a while. Their looks, how they interact with people, their body language... I’ve never experienced “love” just by looming at them physically. Sure there are gorgeous guys out there, but their behavior and attitude is what makes or breaks them.
No not at all True, I’m a girl and I fall in love like at first sight
Guy me never fall in love first glance.......i sometimes think I have a mental of women
By the time i fall in love hes already met someone he fell in love at first sight
Man, woman, boy or girl that’s called infatuation/lust anytime someone doesn’t take time to evaluate boundaries, morals, values, beliefs, financial goals or any goals that can influence any relationship.
Take it slow. Don’t ignore the red flags & inform yourself of toxic relationships of any dynamics. Do the work on yourself first for a while before any relationship.
I feel like instantly falling in love is more of a younger guy trait.
Which coincides with men are visual creatures, women are emotional creatures. It takes TIME to fully engage a woman’s emotions.
Nah . That's not love. That's just men lusting over your appearance. Being visual isn't an excuse.
Oh really? So men “love” with their eyes? Lol. Anything pertaining to your flesh is lust not love.
Being a visual creature means appearances grab your attention. That attention is coming from a place of carnal desire. Not love. So being a visual creature has nothing to do with love. It says everything about your testosterone though. 👍
@@r.b7979 you are G@¥
No, women are more likely to be emotionally intelligent and comfortable with the wide range of emotions. Men are more emotional and often in a stunted reactive way. I can see why they get infatuation mixed up with love due to that. It’s based on how we’re socialized.
Yeah I think you need to learn the difference between emotional, and emotionally intelligent- you’re clearly getting the two mixed up. Emotionally intelligent is one of the reasons women don’t fall in love on a whim or because a guy is just physically attractive.
Yes, I can tell when a guy is falling in love with the idea of me verses who I truly am based on how quickly they move. If they put you too much on a pedestal you'll come off it quickly.
So if he loves you too much you will fall out of love with him?
Yeah as a woman I can definitely relate with that. When I see a cute guy, I’m like “woah he’s really pretty, I like his eyes” and stuff like that, and I’ll like talking with him, but it takes me longer than most- literal MONTHS oftentimes to feel TRULY safe with the person, like fully knowing them and them knowing me for who we are. Then and only then do I truly feel like I can give in completely and love someone
Facts. The way he behaves can change that ❤ in a heartbeat
I'm surprised why do ppl keep comparing " females" and "males" ppl are different those are two things that cannot be compared...at least in my point of view
when a guy looks at a girl he isn't falling in love, he's interested in her sexually
Agreed.
The falling in love comes later after a few bedroom sessions lol
It's quite the opposite fore tho, i just can't seem to imagine her sexually and don't know if thats good or bad
Nah
exactly idk what he talking about women fall in love quicker
That’s what people think, but me, as a man, I don’t have that type of love, I don’t look at girls “sexually”, It’s their smile.
My standards of women is considered extremely high, because all I ask is for her to respect me and treat me right
I agree , this is the bare minimum but, it's considered extremely high because woman acting like a feminist these days
see how she treats you, other people, and also how her parents treats you and other people. If her mother is a karen, run away
That's the bear minimum they can do for a man the face that's high standards in 2024 is crazy!
That's from society. Women are taught how to live on a date and men are told to go get them, tiger. So the man sees someone he likes and the woman assesses if that man is going to chop her up while he is peacocking and providing safety to prove he won't do that
According to this guy, i need to double check my gender
Same 😂😂😂
Same w/ me
I don't entirely trust looks and try to find out about their personality
Love is the gentle touch that soothes the weary soul, the whispered words that ignite the spirit, and the silent understanding that bridges the spaces between us. It is the most beautiful symphony, composed of shared laughter, tender embraces, and unspoken promises.
In the tapestry of life, love is the golden thread that weaves through every moment, binding hearts together in a bond that transcends time and distance. It is the anchor in the storm, the guiding light in the darkness, and the warmth that envelops us on the coldest of nights.
Love is not measured by grand gestures or extravagant declarations, but by the simple acts of kindness, compassion, and acceptance that we bestow upon one another. It is found in the everyday moments - a lingering gaze, a reassuring touch, a heartfelt smile - that speak volumes without uttering a word.
So let us cherish love in all its forms - romantic, familial, platonic - for it is the essence of our humanity, the fuel that drives us forward, and the greatest gift we can give and receive. May we nurture it, protect it, and allow it to blossom within us, lighting up our lives and illuminating the world around us.
For in the end, it is love that truly makes life worth living, and it is love that will endure long after everything else fades away."
Someone told me they liked me and I immediately fell in love
😂😂😂😂❤
As a girl, I fall in love through my imagination, so technically if I love someone I don't actually love THEM I love that version of them that I've made up in my mind.
... I saw a guy when I was 16 and instantly fell in love with him before I ever spoke to him. He ended up being my 1st love. I still love him; but I'm not in love with him.
I fell for him the second I locked eyes with him.. felt like a wave of love washed over me..
Wow. That’s sth that never happened to me. I allways need at least to month of actually beeing in a relationship with her to fall in love with her 🤔 So can not just walk down the street and fall in love with someone. That seems pretty much impossible to me..
@@florianlion8215 well he’s my exact type just too dreamy.. plus we both sensed it like a mutual love at first sight lol I never thought it was possible either till I met him
@@ang2geejust had this experience happened to me 5 days ago, we locked in twice but the second time time it was so intense we both didn’t know what to say. She approached me smiling & told me I looked familiar to an “old friend” but I didn’t know what to say after that so I drifted the convo out of being overwhelmed. I feel like she wanted to talk more but I was very reserved. I will return to her workplace to ask her out because I’m beating myself for it ahhhhhh
@@spookylopez9682yeah, don't let her get away if you think it might work.
I had a similar experience back in 1995. It was my first day at a new job. We had that moment of locking eyes 👀. I looked up the third time and I continued looking... deeply into her eyes 🥰 and I knew it. I was in love with her. I know she had feelings for me too.. but after a couple of years, she moved away and got married and started a family.
But I was already married anyway with two young children and it was them that I didn't want to hurt. I always felt in the back of my mind that marriage would end some day and I got sick of the way she made me felt/feel so I ended it.
My point is...if you have any feelings for someone that has feelings for you, don't let something special slip through your hands. Let him/her know.
I agree with your comment but I met a girl that thought I was her ideal boyfriend material. I checked off all the boxes yet she didn't fall in love with me.
2008, I have crush on this girl, and have relationship with her, then break up after 3 years...and I still love her and never saw other women the same as I see her... she's already married but I still can't get over her
Why did u break up?
Incorrect...
You are attracted to someone and you can lust over them
That's the entire concept of dating apps. Swipe if you are attracted and in turn engages the carnal instincts.
Love has nothing to do with appearances or sexual interests, stop conflating this and trying to pass off as "information"
If you fight the lustful urges from the first times meeting someone, then a bond greater than the lust from appearances will form and that's where you start to have a sensation of "love" but if you just hop into bed and make everything physical and about the "eye candy" then this is not love, and a large issue within failed relationships with incompatable values and this goes for anyone...
Nicely explained the difference between the two. And for a guy, lesser the experience he has with girls, the sooner he's going to fall in love with a girl. Even though there are exceptions, I believe that almost all guys have a "oneitus" in their early dating life. That's why spinning plates is advice often recommended, it makes you less attached to a single woman, prevents you from having unrealistic fantasizes in your head and most importantly, gets you into the abundance mindset. With that mindset you then radiate confidence, which will then attract the quality women you want.
Thanks for another informative Short!
talking to multiple girls as a whole prevent oneitis
Man I’ve been with tons of women and I still get oneitis. It happens. Women are damn beautiful and it’s easy to fall for them hard, no matter how much experience you have.
What you say is true by the book (rollo,cooper). But you have to be a one percent-er To get in that situation of abundance and spinning plates technique. As a younger guy I use to fall in love with the very hot girls from the luxurious clubs here in Eastern Europe (mostly models). Then I grew up and started to learn most of them were trash and very few of them were wife material 😅 anyways they married guys 30 years older than them and rich of course
Yeah that’s definitely not how it happens with me. I’m a guy and I really need some time to fall in love with anybody. It takes at least 2 months of dating her to make that happen.
I never understood how you can fall in love with a person if you haven’t even slept with them 🤔
That was always a mystery to me. I don’t just look at another person and think „wow they are so awesome“ and then just fall in love with them. That’s totally not how I‘m wired 😂
You don’t need to be “spinning plates” you just need to separate reality from fantasy. When you see a beautiful woman you start projecting your ideal traits onto her and that’s when you start to develop a crush. But then you find out the real her and realized she is nothing like you’ve hoped and you end up disliking her and now that infatuation you had is gone.
I loved her and she loved me too i could see in her eyes , she respected me a lot and we met each other for first time in university , during these 4 years i kept myself away from girls becuase i dont have money and most important im not the the best version of myself and becuase of that I could not allow myself to get closer to her I have known her for six months and that days that we were toghter was The happiest and saddest days of my life and its about a month that I disappeared myself and I left all social media while i loved her from the bottom of my heart , Maybe you think I did wrong but i cant be myself while im with her , please pray for me
I fell in love with him at first sight but yeah, the love increases so much with time.
for me it only takes 30 minutes to fall in love, i had a 30 minute convo with this guy, i fell in love with him, i saw him 3 times a year and liked him for 2 years
I lived with my man for 5 years to see if he was real. He is. 43 years. I truly love him deeply.
True as soon as we fall in love based on how we are treated we can fall out of love too.
And then when the girl falls in love with you, you run away and say that has no feelings anymore.
I fell in love after dreaming about her being gone and that’s how I realized I liked her
I fell in love with my boyfriend because of how nice he is to me since we actually started interacting
I've never had someone love me so much 💕
There is a big difference between attraction and love. Attraction may be immediate, but love takes time. Love is more than spontaneous emotion
Nah,my experience is I fall in love to fast & they all dislike me for it. 😢 I'm a woman 🤷♀️
Well not ALL guys fall in love instantly but most do, I fall in love once I get to know her and are good friends with her
Very true. Most good girls dont consider a man long term partner just by looking his handsome face, body etc but whats his behaviour towards her counts more than anything
It took me 5 years of knowing this person to actually fall in love, sooooo
Women fall in love from what they hear. Men fall in love from what they see.
You look like Jon Bernthal
Bro it's been 4 years. Still I kept falling in love only with her. But I never had feelings for other girls. But why she is?
Men are in Love
Women are in Business
Exactly the opposite to what I experienced. They fell for me quickly and if I developed feelings, it was slowly.
True, men go by sight 😮
Most guys fall in love with their eyes, girls fall in love with their ears…
I can fall in love with as soon as I fall in love with someone I'm in love with someone It's only been a couple years And every time I think of him I cannot get him off my mind It's just like I'm in love And I really love him
Im a girl but I fall in love like a “guy”
Edit: So there is no way a person male or female would fall in love everyone is different.
That's why guys love don't stay for much time and changes from women to women by seeing them and girls truly and long term fall in love .
I'm a man, I don't fall in love like that. Attraction, yes. Love, no.
For me, I stared liking this one girl because she looked at me a lot. She was shy around me but in general a very outgoing girl who’s popular around the area. I barely talked to her but I developed feelings for her because I felt noticed. I’m not used to people looking at me a lot, and it made me feel warm and fuzzy about the fact a girl out of my league is noticing me.
I don’t FALL in LOVE QUICKLY; however, I DO FALL in LUST pretty FAST!!
Stay blessed, Everyone.
Robert from daytradingwiththelight
A woman can fall in love at first sight if the situation of first encounter can be framed as a romantic story.
No guys only confuse attraction with love that’s why they stop caring after few months while women seriously fall for men
I think it is the opposite for most men.
Truth 💯💯
This , men think they are in love with you the first few times you chill then when your hooked and in love they realize it was lust not love at all. Then they dip out & the woman is left broken hearted.
Wrong.
What is happening in the world😢😢😢 , Same thinking people's are 1000kms apart, & I crossed daily to those who are not my type 😢
For me that’s the opposite because I’m in love with video games and anime
I'm a girl and for very first time in my life,i fall for a boy at first sight even though i never believed in falling in love at first sight. But it happened this way and one more thing I'm already rejected.😅
Honestly why is this so true I’m a girl and I have NEVER just seen soy and fell in love I have always knew them for a longer period of time and then like them but it’s scary how accurate that was 😟
Men tend to fall in love with the idea of a person. Hence why they fall in love in your absence. And also, they like mysterious and elusive women. Crazy thing is…they have no idea about this when it comes to themselves. It’s like they don’t even need you to actually be involved in the interaction. 🤷🏾♀️
And we never really stop loving our first love. We love other people a lot more, but will never forget the feeling of our first love
There is no love without mutual struggle
Awesome. I love this. Info like this isn’t selling as much as praying on people’s fears and telling them they have to be a millionaire or no one will love them lol
for me, every crush starts off as me thinking the guy is cute or funny, then being like “oh nah i don’t like him i just think it’s cool,” then i start to question if it’s a crush, and then it will become a crush, then either i’ll practically be in love or it’ll remain as a tiny crush.
I'm a guy and I fall in love the same way a woman falls in love according to this short. I'm not trans.
Women should be very strategic because they can even lose their life if they accidentally dated a murderer incel. 30% of women are killed by their partners, so they should be smart about it. And falling for anything really quick is dumb 😂 and most of the time that isn't love, that's lust few males have for women.
girls too have lust, left husband for tha5
30 percent??? That seems like bs
And yet women are still falling in love and having babies with thugs, criminals, and psychopaths. Seems like your message isn’t working.
It is b.s..
Yes, a man’s entry into love, whether more rooted in nature (dna, hormonal and neurological makeup) or nuture (raising, environment, social and cultural expectation and wiring) can be based initially in physicality. While women examine what makes up the whole person more readily- is he kind? is he funny?, Is he polite to the waiter? Etc.
Why is this so true.❤
Bullsheet … I knew I loved the farther of my son the first moment I laid eyes on him in Jr high. Years later our paths crossed again, I thought it was destiny. Mistakes where made on both sides but he told me “it is me and you against the world” and now it is just nothing. He was my past, my present, and my future. Now he’s just the father to our amazing little boy. That kinda love hurts.
I might not fall in love instantly when I see an attractive women, but im obviously attracted 😂
Both men and women can fall in love instantly when whomever they lock eyes with or are near creates a warmth 🔥 feeling .. 💞 😊
Bro what? 😂 If it's instant it's 100% NOT love, its lust
I'm not saying that this is always true, but it is for me and my husband of 20 years. It took him six months to talk me into our first date. We found ourselves each protecting the other from the other's less ethical friends in college. We have the same values and prioritize them the same way, so our marriage works great, but superficially we're a complete mismatch.
Its like guys imprint like wolf and girls want long term understanding like vampire 😅
Lol I guess this is an example of how we hold both masculine and feminine energies because as a women I fall in love so quickly
Can i just say this? Im a beautiful woman. I get called that a lot by strangers and children that i look like a model. Men see me and fall in love with me. Then they think they can never be with me and forget about me. Men fall in love with beautiful faces. No doubt!
As a girl,i fall in love in a second
That's not a man in love, that's a man who's infatuated. Big difference.
That is lust at first sight, which often fades away as one gets to know the person and doesn’t like it.
The latter is love or a long term compatible bond as one likes the others personality.
None of it is gender specific. You could have titled the distinction as bodycount vs long term commitment
I had a crush on a guy cos every day I talked to him in the library
Tell that to my grandmother. She was married to my grandfather for over 50 years and we finally asked her if she was in love or fancy her husband, she said not even once 😂 It's funny because she jumped in front of him and take a bullet in her shoulder after my grandfather put himself in a bad entourage when he was younger. I've never seen a more loving person in my entire life. She was an amazing woman, so funny, kind and hard working lady. She raised 10 children and never humiliated or say a bad thing about her husband. She always encouraged him and making him feel special and important, but she said she was not in love with him???🤔🤔 I think God wired east eauropean women in a different way 😂😂
If a girl sees u with a nice car she will faster than any boy😂😂
Say every unemployed ever 😂😂
@@talkingtochapri
Bro i had money
A girl made me unemployed
No. I have a nice car, woman generally dont care much.
@@unemployed452how did she make you unemployed 😂
Straight up man
This is subjective. My boyfriend, soon to be husband, soon to be father of my children, was actually the opposite, and so was i. I instantly fell in love with him, but he really took his time and evaluated who i am and my personality.
Yeah this makes SOOO much sense. My ex back in January said I was cute the 1st day we met and I never had a girlfriend before (I’m still single as of rn) and she cheated on me the first 3 months into the relationship
Never look directly into a girl’s eyes. You never know what you could find in there. I made the mistake, and now I can’t find my way back.
Broh is so true. 🙌
I totally agree!! That’s been my experience with men most of my life.
and then she cheats you like hell! LOVE IS A SCAM and I mean it...... If you are a guy, avoid falling in love. The girl will use you and dump you someday for someone else and it goes on
man love women idealistically
Women love man opportunistically.
Not completely wrong.
As it should be
Very much true
That’s how it happened today me. My husband knew quickly, It took me 1.5 years
Exactly exactly exactly
The fastest way to lose me is moving too fast 💨
What ever you said in our current social media era it's vice versa.
Guys fall in love over time as well. It’s just hard to say that “I only liked your looks for now.” We like the looks but we love the personality.
Omg soo true but from my perspective and maybe others💖