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Hey there, it's Charlotte Dobre and today we're diving into the world of weddings. Now, we all know that weddings can be a little bit stressful, but what happens when someone actually tries to ruin the big day? And what happens when that someone is your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend? That's exactly what we're going to be exploring today. We've got some seriously wild stories lined up for you. So grab some popcorn and get ready for some seriously crazy wedding stories. Who knows, you might even learn a thing or two about what NOT to do at your own wedding.
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If you cheat, AND you invite your ex to the wedding to the person you cheated with, AND you ask her to sing, I think it's fair to say you had it coming.
Highest level of Karma
Yep. People who invite their exes to their wedding after cheating on them, just to rub their supposed happiness in their face get no sympathy from me. It's on them. You don't want your wedding to be ruined? Don't invite your betrayed ex. Simple as that.
For REALS!
Seriously how freaking stupid is this guy?
What's the song she was singing?
Doesn't matter the details. Don't invite somebody to a wedding if you don't want them there. It's really that simple.
Agreed!
True. I feel like they were trying to be nice & didn't expect her to stay, but they shouldn't have invited her.
Honestly like they invited her and didn't expect her to actually come and stay like wtf. Other stuff she did was shitty but why did they invite her to begin with smh 🤦
There was bad communication there with the groom. How do you not clear up whether the ex is invited or not?
Yeah, absolutely! She came expecting to be able to attend, and they just tell her to leave right away cus they expected her to read their minds and know she wasn't ACTUALLY invited? What kind of high school drama bull is this.....granted she didn't act any better, but yknow
6:40 The fact that her husband took the exes side would be the ultimate deal-breaker. It’s a huge red flag that he values his exes feelings more than hers
Red flag on the son’s part, or red flag on the parents’ parts?
@@monroerobbins7551I think this is about the first or second story with the ex showing up in a red wedding dress.
I would kill to have in-laws like the last story 🥲 the fact they saw and treated her as her own person who deserved happiness and fair treatment, rather than seeing her as an accessory to their son, is just the best version of humanity ❤
Yes!! Can’t agree with you more! Dad is a real one. Too bad his idiot son didn’t get those genes.
Here's a simple rule for all you would be brides and grooms; if you don't want someone at your wedding, DO NOT SEND THEM AN INVITATION.
Then there's no dress or Ex drama.
in all fairness to that one bride though, it was her husband who invited the ex and didn't tell the bride that the ex accepted the invitation and would actually attend .. that's hard to avoid
@@lisahuber9329 the bride should be mad at her husband not the ex. Asking someone to drive 2 hours and then leave is not reasonable to me.
@C M the bride is justified to be mad at both of them, the husband went over her head and the ex literally bragged online about ruining the wedding
@@lisahuber9329 she said she was aware she was getting an invite just didn’t expect her to accept it or didn’t know she did
It's not just his Ex, it's the mother of the their children and it's her time with the kids, what was she supposed to do? She was invited, she accepted the invitation and drove for 2 hours, was she supposed to drive back for another 2 hours or go somewhere else until the wedding was over to take back the kids?
No, she was NTA for wanting to stay, she was TA for how she dressed to the wedding though.
I support the two exes that were invited with all those rules. Both invitations were clearly done as a power trip. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Agreed.
I kind of support them, knowing that they’re still justified aholes
I think that if I were in OP's shoes, I would suggest to the bride's ex that they should go on an awesome, romantic outing during the wedding. Then post everything about it on social media. That would bug the bride and groom so much!
I think the first and second are completely different.
The first was the mother of the groom’s children and the invite was unknown to the bride and probably out of civility, she then showed up in a red wedding dress.
The second definitely is a power trip by having them both involved in the wedding, then removed, then given a list of rules to obey
Here's the thing, the ex with the kids intentionally left out she was wearing a dress that is LITERALLY LABELLED AS A WEDDING DRESS
The bride isn't the only one who gets to invite guests. The groom also gets to invite people. However, Brides and their Grooms need to talk about this sort of stuff ahead of time. And come to an agreement.
We had a shared guest list with one side each of the list. Apart from +1's it was all very obvious who was coming
if you don't respect your partner then it's not gonna last, rightly so.
@@vanessaland5090and what about their kids? What kind of an insecure self absorbed fool expects the Mum to drop off her kids (on her time) and just leave them when the dad and stepmum are going to be preoccupied with the ceremony?
15:30 Just the fact that only 3 DAYS after their DIVORCE the son was already dating some other woman and them married a month later just screams that something fishy was happening on the side
They had just FILED FOR DIVORCE before the son was already dating another woman. Then only engaged a month later. The father had received a wedding invite before the divorce with the first wife was even finalized!!
For the rule breakers, she said specifically that they didn’t want to draw attention to themselves, they just wasn’t going to go and just sit at a table. If they’re mingling and dancing and drinking, just the same as everyone else, it wouldn’t have ruined the day. If you don’t want someone at your wedding, don’t invite them. And if you do, don’t give them ridiculous rules that no one else has to follow. You’re setting yourself up to ruin your own day.
I thought so too! They would just act like other guests
Imagine the bride actually paying attention to them at all times to ensure they're following the rules.
@@moustachmallow559 🤣🤣🤣
Exactly! Thank you! It just seemed like they were going together as friends and enjoy themselves as most guests do. It kind of gave me the 'you can't stop me from enjoying myself just because you're jealous' kind of confidence and I loved it!
@@moustachmallow559 I actually see that happen tbh
The dad at the end story is a real dad, he sees the hurt his son is causing and says 'nope, not gonna endorse that'. Good man.
The daughter is really sweet too!
I hope he divorces his wife (the dad) cause how a person reacts to things like this says a lot about said person.
Also guess we all know who has a golden child too.
@@catd5307 Yeah, it sounds like Mom is showing some favoritism for sure. Dad isn't, though. He sounds very reasonable and cool. And fed up with his son's bullshit.
I got a little teary-eyed at that story
@@catd5307 maybe the mom/grandma went to take care of the kids at the wedding
All the props for the Father in the last story. It sounds like he was being incredibly observant and caring to both his son and his daughter-in-law but the son responded like a pompous prick and the DIL responded with humility and appreciation. Good on him for continuing to support her and his grandbabies
12:20 oh wow I had no idea that stalkers are openly posting on tiktok and boasting about being a stalker. This girl should collect evidences and stay vigilant already as he's going to hurt someone for sure
The ex was invited! The bride said she didn't expect the ex to accept the invite. Don't invite people you don't want to attend.
Agree
Exactly. Should have not invited her at all if they did not mean it.
@missmayflower it said she was aware the ex was invited but unaware the invitation was accepted. Definitely an AH move on the husband's part to not tell her that. Also an AH move to wear that dress
Maybe but why did she come in a fucking wedding dress? I was on Reddit when all this was going down, and this woman was posting on true off my chest that she had gone to this wedding just upstage the fucking bride. I imagine if she had just come in a nice normal outfit and acted reasonably the bride would not have had an issue with her. But she showed up in a red wedding dress. She got saucy with the bride right away.
Ahh yes, the ex was invited not as a guest but as a babysitter. She was to come and meekly squire the children about so the married couple could have them there while not actually have to deal with them.
To the last story: So ex did everything the son asked, married him young, drops out of school, has kids, moves with him away from everything she knows, becomes a SAHM, and he divorces her because he had been cheating on her as his side job. He than rubs salt, fresh lemon juice, and a sprinkle of dirt for infection on the wound by announcing his engagement to the mistress and sending save the dates before ink even touches the final decree to finalize the divorce. How did he expect his family to act? The mom did nothing but support and encourage the toxicity by just going along with it. Good for the father and sister for standing their ground and siding with what’s right.
Couldn’t agree more. The dad knowing what he knew had every right to make a decision about attending.
It’s so nice to see family not supporting a son’s bs
This. That man needs a reality check. And a slap across the face
AH groom: You have to earn a relationship with me on my terms !
OP: LOL, I don't want a relationship with you anymore
There’s an update to it! They read this one on smosh pit
We’re laughing at the wedding crasher @15:39 but these are the types that end up killing their exes - if I can’t have you, nobody can. It happens too often for this to be funny.
Not at all funny-scary. Hope he was just blowing off steam.
Great content, thanks for sharing. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, really love her so much, I can't stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
@@bartholetbay412 Wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him/her?
@@Margart526 her name is MONICA ERLENE MORA, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer
@@bartholetbay412 Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive.
Took me a little over 4 months. Pain stopped after 3. I am not totally over my ex, but I do not want him back no matter what anymore. It has now been 7 months. I am seeing someone else, and we are taking it slow. I think the most important part was that I learned to be ok with being alone.
Last story: I’m on the dads side. Dude cheated. I know what it’s like to have someone you love cheat on someone else you love and then be expected to just accept their actions and embrace the new person. I respect him for standing his ground.
I agree, dad definitely wasn't the a-hole for standing his ground regarding his son. He married her (when his family tried to talk him out of it), moved her to a city where she didn't know anyone & made her dependent on him so when the divorce happened she really had nowhere to go. I'm glad the dad & sister stuck by her.
I'd go further. The Dad was an absolute legend and the epitome of a Dad for doing what he did. He saw a young woman in distress and, rather than take the "my child can do no wrong" attitude that makes a lot of these situations worse, stood up to his a-hole of a son. Considering that they won't be getting a good role model in their own father, I think the children have an excellent role model in their grandfather. He is teaching them to treat their mother with respect, to be kind and thoughtful, and to stand up for what is right - no matter how difficult that may be. It's also beautiful to see that his morals clearly rubbed off on his daughter, who has stepped up to be an awesome sister, aunty and support system for the family her brother dumped.
As someone who had a-hole parents and incredible grandparents, that grandfather is ensuring that those grandchildren have better morals and don't follow in their father's footsteps. You can't reason with someone like that son, but you can limit the damage he causes. Well played to the Dad (& sister)! 😎👍
Once they had children, they became his grandchildren and the ex became family. Good for him!
I agree with you!
not to mention even the guy's sister really like the daughter-in-law, she sounds like a good person
The story about the dad supporting the ex. My family did something similar. My uncle had been engaged to a wonderful woman for years. He cheated on her and essentially mentally abused her to get her to leave so he could move the new woman into her home. The whole family stood by her and helped her find a new job, and home. She was absolutely shocked we stood by her instead of supporting him, but none of us approved of what he did and she is an amazing person. She's now happily married with grandkids so it worked out for the best.
That's really decent and sweet
Aww you and your family are amazing! Hope all is doing well!
I'm happy for her. Glad to hear she had a happy ending. 😊 And your family minus garbage uncle is totally awesome! ❤ Is it safe to assume that garbage uncle lost his place in the family and is spending the rest of his life alone?
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly yes and no. He's still kinda with the woman, but they honestly deserve each other. The final straw for almost the entire family was the 2 of them stealing a bunch of valuable items as Grandpa was dying. Since then almost nobody would talk the them. The main exception was my Grandma but she passed away last June. Since then the family has not reached out to him at all in any way. The only times he reached out was to demand certain items that were valuable. We did send some things to him but not everything. That alone tells you his priority. His mom died and he was more worried about when he was getting the money from her estate along with the collectables. IMHO, I no longer have an uncle.
How much of an asshole do you have to be when your own family quits you?
I love that they still showed support to the ex and didn’t blame everything on her most parents won’t admit that their kids are in the wrong and I bet she’s very appreciative of her in laws and sister in law
That ex who showed up to the wedding and getting mad because the bride didn't want her there: As someone who has divorced parents, there were plenty of rearrangements that were made because some special occasion fell on the other's weekend. My parents (who literally couldn't stand each other by the time the divorce was finalized) would very often switch weekends because something was happening. Usually it was one of their birthdays. If my mom's birthday fell on the weekend that my dad had my brother (I was old enough that I got to choose where to live), he would switch weekends so my mom could spend her birthday with her kids. If my dad's birthday fell on a weekend that my mom had us, she would switch weekends so that my dad could spend his birthday with his kids. There was no "it's my weekend so tough luck". They were very flexible with the schedule so that not only they would be happy, but me and my brother would as well. As people who are coparenting, you sometimes have to rearrange schedules for special occasions. The husband saying it's his ex's weekend with the kids so it makes sense to invite her too is so dumb. No. It doesn't make sense. You call her up and say that your wedding is that weekend and you would like the kids to be in attendance and ask to switch weekends and if you did have the amicable divorce that your ex is claiming you did, then there should be no issues about changing weekends. Obviously OP is lying about several things to make her sound like a saint and she clearly hasn't let go of her ex
The two exes should choose not to go to the wedding but instead stage a lovely date and post pictures all over their social medias of their date together. No ruining the wedding but the two exes that got married will be sure to see the pictures from the romantic date.
Dogs over sprogs! :)
So much cuter and charming. And still just as petty. I love this
But do they even care? 😂
or just end that friendship and move on with their lives ... which OP should have done some time ago
@@cosmicrae think they would. The bride was giving her way too much attention (giving her rules and all that... Shows that she cares about her to an extent, even if the care is a negative kind). I think if she didn't care about her, she would leave her alone.
Even if the bride didn't care, the couple would probably have more fun by themselves than being harrased at the wedding by the bride everytime they talked to someone or did the cha-cha-cha.
This is the first time I have ever disagreed with you, Charlotte. You Do Not invite someone anywhere thinking that they won't come. You just don't do that. Sounds to me like the bride played herself. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
I agree. First she said she didn't think she would accept the invitation - And then said it was her fiancé that invited the ex. I think it's the first thing she said. THEY invited her, so she made the 2h drive and the bride was then upset. Sure, she didn't have to wear a red wedding dress, but it also wasn't white. you're supposed to dress nice when attending a wedding so I'm not 100% on the ex's side because she wasn't great about what happened, but I am 100% against the couple
THAT PART!!!! And I've driven 2 hours?! You damn right I'm staying!
i do think the husband didnt tell the bide that his ex would come.. bad communication
@@APisMe Most places in the world you should not dress in a long gown on a wedding. That dress was too much. I don't think the bride was an a-hole, but as I can see she doesn't like the ex and she is afraid to tell her (now) husband. Probably she knew if she told him not to invite her he would disagree and she would have to accept that the marriage is a mistake.
I agree to some point, I also think it's messy because they invited her and wanted the kids there but didn't want the mom to stay (off of the dress)? So they just invited her (knowing she'd pull something possibly?) so she would drive the two hours and drop off the kids and what? I mean, she did ruin the wedding w/ the red dress. But also the husband is sketchy, they all are. Him for not telling his Bride/wife-to-be about inviting the ex, and she's messy for *assuming* that the mom would just drive the two hours to drop her kids off on *her* custody day, for *the new wifes wedding* and not use the drive/her kids as an excuse to stay? I get wanting them involved is big- but my brothers/sisters in Christ, bffr. There are always anniversaries and vow renewals
That last situation was SO similar to my experience- except my kids and I moved in with the former inlaws, and the family took me in as their own.
12:12 i'd save the video and use it in court to justify a restraining order
that last story legit made me tear up. the support and love he gave his daughter in law when his son was clearly at fault... its so wholesome and so RARELY the case where the parent sees their kid for who they actually are.
Totally agree with you. This actually happened to me. I was with a guy and he cheated and lied soooo many times. His family were always sweethearts to me and his mom and sister supported me through all of this. At the end of the relationship, they invited me for a drink, sat me down and basically told me that he was behaving like an ass, and that despite his pretty words they didn’t think he’d change. That I should actually leave him, as hard as it was, cause I was suffering like crazy and would only be worse and worse and worse every time. They helped me tremendously and I couldn’t’ve done it without them.
Sounds to me like father-in-law has a rush on ex daughter in law
wtf?@@robertjeffery696
There is more to story....in the end he also abandoned his (the son) kids and became an AH to the point the man's wife told him he is cut off from the family until he gets his crap together.
@@robertjeffery696 No.... I don't think you're right. I think OP and his daughter knew the error of his son's ways, and chose to support the victim of his son's actions, instead of supporting his son. Because men can choose to support women and not have a crush on them.
14:58 that's a good dad.. seriously, accepting your child is the problem is so rare these days.
Agreed!
I think a lot of parents either have rose colored glasses about their children or are entitled parents who see their children as gifts for humanity and they can do no wrong and even if they did mess up, it's someone else's fault.
I think the 2 ex's should have a fun, over-the-top date the same day as the wedding, just somewhere else! Take tons of fun photos and post all over their socials, showing what a great time they had. Meanwhile, everyone at the wedding, following "the rules", will have a miserable time and envy what fun the pair had NOT at the wedding!
I have been having difficulties with my marriage for sometimes now but with the help of this Sorceress, I have been able to put my marriage back together.
@Casey Muller Her name is Luana Kae Branigan.
That guy ranting about crashing his exs wedding genuinely scared me, that's some serious stalker material right there no wonder the poor girl left him in the first place
Yeah... He should be locked up
@@benniepottsYou’re not wrong. It definitely is a possibility and happens. But in this particular case, this guy seems very bitter about his ex moving on, and he’s showing signs of being unhinged to the point of causing serious harm to the bride and her now husband. Time for him to move on and get some intense therapy!
He's the type of guy that true crime podcasts are about. I wouldn't be surprised if he takes things that far.
The rule breakers aren’t crashing the wedding, they are just doing the normal things all of the other guests are going to do. They aren’t going to be stealing the star of the show or getting in the way of the bride. Considering how the bride is treating them, this matter is pretty justified. They aren’t ruining the wedding, dancing when everyone else is on the dance floor is not ruining a wedding. Talking to someone is not ruining a wedding.
Yeah I was thinking the same.
Yeah, if anything, the bride and groom would be exposing themselves and ruining their own wedding if they do or say anything to stop those two "rule-breakers". XD
THIS
fr!!! like if she is more into keeping an eye on them than her own wedding, you'd know she's the problem!!
i completely agree
That last one is tops! Bravo to dad for holding his son accountable and leading the family with his solid moral compass.
The last one.. it makes me so happy that the father and sister were so kind and showed so much support and love to his ex. Good people right there.
And he would know alot about betrayal. Funny he can call his family out like that.
That guy at 12:30 is why restraining orders exist. Yikes, there's being petty and then there's wanting to watch the world burn to get back at someone.
Mojo - Considering the outright threats he made, he *should be* worried about *anything* happening to her *or* her fiancee...because *he* will be the prime suspect.
And that *doesn't* look good 'in the news' *or* on a resume, as part of a court-order... 📑
he’s gonna cancel it for them? is that a death threat or what like wtf
Dude needs therapy asap. He freaks me the hell out.
He needs to be locked up. Imagine being such a man-child that you can't grow up and move on from your ex.
I imagine he might get his head kicked in, maybe not literally, but I would say their would definitely be a physical response to his antics
I was an ex who was invited to a wedding. I went and behaved myself like a civilzed person. The groom was a childhood friend of my whole family and we had a civil breakup. Wore blue (not red), brought a gift, and wished the two of them the best. They're adorable and I hope they have a great life together! People are wack these days. If I was jealous or upset I wouldn't have gone. Why even go and cause issues!?
Because it was your day to have custody of the children, and you drove TWO HOURS to get there, and you were invited?
If they didn't want you there, they should NOT invite you. Also, they should not steal your custody time. They should schedule the wedding for THEIR custody time. And if they didn't want to "play parent," when they were busy with the wedding, and on teh wedding night, THAT'S WHY GOD INVENTED BABYSITTERS.
You want to peacefully co-parent with your ex? Great! Show the ex RESPECT, especially when it comes to your ex's time with the children. Or you'll find yourself fighting tooth and nail for YOUR time with the children. Want to see them on your birthday? or on their birthdays? "Too bad. It's not your scheduled custody day, and we can't make arrangements to change that, just because a special event is on." You know that, after they pulled that "Oh, it just happened to fall on your day, and you're not welcome, why would you even think you were welcome, even though we invited you?" that the OP is NEVER going to be gracious about sharing custody again.
@@AuntLoopy123 did you not see the other part of the story where she talked shit about the bride and wore a red wedding dress
Because your a classy adult? It’s crazy how uncivil and undignified people behave on both sides. I would never think of behaving like these people. Also if I found out the bride and bridesmaids were talking about me I wouldn’t have attended.
i got invited to an exs wedding once i didnt go becuase i thoughtitwould alarm the bride and put through stress i got asked why i didnt turn up so told them i did send aweddinggift whic after i expalined my side they accepted it and we keep in contact
Right on! Healthy, and wise. I once was a jealous person in the first serious relationship I was in, I was very young (22), the guy was older and much more experienced than me.
He was a musician in a rock band, very good looking, and the girls at his shows… uh, well you can imagine… I got out of that relationship because it was toxic and making me crazy. I realized that being jealous was very wrong, and it ruined things (not that he was innocent) he kept stringing me along with promises of marriage.
I didn’t like those ugly, gross feelings of jealousy, and suspicion, so I changed. I’ve now been happily married to my wonderful sweetheart for 30 years, I can’t even imagine being jealous now, I love and trust him completely.
For the woman who was coparenting with her ex, and then he and his new woman invited her to the reception only for the new wife to get upset that she actually accepted the invitation and went is just...astounding to me. If you don't want someone to come, do not send them an invitation. It really only makes you look like an ass.
"I can't believe she came to our wedding reception! The nerve!"
"Didn't you send her an invitation to come?"
"W-well, yeah! But I didn't think she'd actually accept the invitation and show up!"
Think ex husband invited her as a babysitter. They have 3 kids together, at weddings someone needs to look up for kids. If they are small groom obviously can't look after them whole time, his side of family it depends. Majority of people is there to drink and eat not to watch over other people children. If they are teens, well I was at bunch of weddings where teens got wasted after they waited most of adults is dead drunk, wasted, half asleep or just left....
I was looking for this comment exactly!
I think it's because the dress too. Red gown is a bit too much. She also bragged what she did on internet.
Ikr??
So… he sent the invite, not her. And he should’ve told her she was coming instead of avoiding the conversation to have his bride find out the day of. The dress was clearly maliciously planned out And if she had no plans to sabotage then the moment she realized she wasn’t welcome she should’ve taken her ticket out of there
As much as i love watching drama, i cannot get my head around how these people find all this time and energy to be this extra and embarrassing lol. I'm with you on the "don't go/stay where you aren't wanted" 100%
That man who asked his ex to sing at his wedding needs all this petty. An ex of mine invited me to his wedding and even offered to get me plane tickets. I knew he was unemployed and unmedicated bipolar and his engagement was fake. I accepted the offer. 4 months into dating and being engaged, he started posting about being single.
Surely that's a completely different situation? I hope your ex gets some care.
Yikes.
What was the song?
I am surprised so many people tries to eat the cake and have a cake at tge same time. Karma is a beatiful lady though 😅. I liked the most the last story.
@@valkyrienazgul6109
Before He Cheats
by Carrie Underwood
I was recently married. I have a child with my ex. While I was getting ready to send out imitations for my wedding, I discussed sending out invitations with my soon to be husband. One of those invitations was to my ex husband, the father of my child. My husband was ok with it. My ex said he was grateful for the invitation, was happy for me, but felt uncomfortable being in attendance. He dropped my daughter off that day, and it was no big deal. He did not stay. No drama, no using children as weapons. Everyone acted like adults and was respectful. I honestly cant understand what is so hard about that.
As long as he would have been welcome if he’d accepted, there’s no issue here.
I think it was the drive for her. Apparently it was a 2 hour drive.
Absolutely! My grandparents actually had a pretty gnarly divorce when my mom was 8 and older sister 10. My gma had actually left her husband for a rich man who is my other grandpa now. My step grandpa felt awful that he took away my first grandpas wife but in reality my Gma never loved him like that. She basically married my first gpa because he was her best friend and it was that day n age to marry at 20. My step grandpa and him weren't very close initially but my step grandpa wanted to make sure my first GPA was still apart of the family and slowly invited him to every single Holiday and family event and they became great friends. 40 years later my Gma got cancer and was in hospice in their mansion and my 1st GPA lived in CA and we were all in Washington. We knew my Gma was close to dying and my step GPA wanted to make sure 1st GPA got back to wa to say goodbye to his lifelong best friend and mother of his girls. 1st GPA couldn't afford the plane ticket and was planning to drive up but 2nd GPA said hell no, you need to be here as fast as possible I already booked your flight, your too upset to drive.
1st GPA gets to their house and he says goodbye to Gma and he tells her he never loved anybody as much as he loves her and that he couldn't even imagine another woman taking her place in his life. Gma and 1st GPA kiss and cry and hold each other and 2nd GPA is just sitting in the room with them watching them say goodbye and cried over how beautiful their relationship stayed even after he stole his wife so long ago. Grandma died the next day.
For 6 years my 2 gpas went on vacations together and road trips a few times a year just to make sure the stayed in touch and when 1st GPA died a couple years ago my 2nd GPA spoke at his funeral about how much he loved him and how he will never forget that even when his wife was scared to die and leave this world he sat next to her and gave her some peace and how beautiful it was that they never had any animosity towards each other but they truly became best friends. He ended the funeral speech saying if everyone in the world can remember why they fell in love with someone to begin with divorce wouldn't be such a scary term when respect and love is two sided. I will never forget seeing my 1st GPA legit kissing my grandma goodbye in front of my 2nd grandpa and me and watching 2nd GPA break down in tears over the beauty of their friendship.
@@specialagentweener1073 that was a beautiful story! Your grandparents were very special people!
That’s awesome! It is how it should be. I’ll say that for some, they end up with people who they think are mentally and emotionally healthy. And they aren’t. Some are very immature and should have never been married.
Two healthy adults who simply fall out of love or realize they are on different life paths, shouldn’t act terrible toward each other at all. Even if a spouse has been cheated on, they should still refrain from retaliation, especially if kids are involved. We are all responsible for how we react to situations, good and bad. Retaliation feels amazing, but it feels even better when you hear about karma getting to a terrible person instead.
9:13 I mean if you’re ok letting the friendship crash?……..let loose the dogs of war 😈
She doesn't even want to crash the wedding or make it about her, the one with the bride's ex. She's, by her words, doing things all the other guests would be allowed to do. Not being allowed to choose her own clothes, not being allowed to even dance. Those are asinine rules made up to make her feel lesser. She's petty, yes, but not an a-hole here. The bride gave her and the other ex these specific rules, and it doesn't sound like they apply to others, nor were they expected to follow them until they were removed from the bridal party. It's exclusionary, to expect only them to sit in a corner, in a prescribed outfit, not talking to people, and not dancing. So if they want to react to that by treating the wedding like a wedding instead of a morbid high school prom, they're allowed to.
Yeah, I have a conspiracy theory on this one. Everyone sees the two exes miserable and alone and not taking part in wedding activities and the bride, who is known for backbiting old friends, tells everyone the exes are too jealous to be willing to do anything but sit and pout. I think it’s a set-up.
Agreed
And the bride said, "You're not my bridesmaid, but you still have to do bridesmaid DUTIES." AND she talked trash about her, behind her back.
The bride is completely in the wrong, and I hope the two exes are the best dancers there.
The last story reminds me of my dad. Growing up he had a best friend that married an amazing woman that I got to be around growing up and got to witness how great of a person she is. My dads friend was cheating on her and when all the lies finally came out, my dad couldn’t stand by his friend anymore. I remember my dad being so upset about what his friend did to his wife and my dads actions taught me to not tolerate that kind of behavior from anyone
Why is no one talking about the guy at 11:36????
He’s obsessed with whoever is and whoever they are need a restraining order on this main. He’s completely psycho (Like gives vibes he would kill her if she got with someone else psycho). This dude needs help😬
The father and sister supporting the ex DIL is awesome! I love that so much!!
The fact that the first girl seems kinda proud that the husband is texting her and what she did… man I feel bad for the wife
I smell an annulment on the horizon.
She did seem emboldened by social media to reveal that, but at least the new wife will now know of her new hubby's seemingly philandering ways if the ex singing a Carrie Underwood song, "Before He Cheats," was not a giveaway of its own accord.
I actually scrolled through her tiktok and was left a little confused tbh lol. Apparently the new bride was the girl he was cheating on her with. And the bride didn't know that the husband had hired her for the performance.
But she had post after post after post about her ex and what happened at the wedding, including cute lil' tiktok trends with transitions and stuff. She's also a songwriter who's trying to become a bigger artist, so there's a LOT of speculation that it was all a stunt to get her music to go viral. So. *shrugs*
The guy who wants to destroy his ex’s marriage needs therapy desperately.
@@bijou3000 he's not cute or funny either
I reeally hope that was just a sketch for clicks.
He’s a stalker. He’s the sort who would kill her. He’s a huge red flag with his if I can’t have her nobody can attitude. She needs to be protected from him.
I can see why she left him.
No wonder she left him lol. Deserved
12:25 .... sounds like hes going the right way to get beat tf up! 👀
15:11 more single moms need FIL like that.
Dad is a respectable man. We need more parents like this!
So I never knew that wearing red to a wedding meant you slept with the groom. Yeah, I definitely wore red before and had no clue. All I knew was, never wear white to a wedding. I just wore red because I like red. Never again. 😅
Red does not mean that, I promise. It's just a very bold, flashy color and takes away from the bride which is one of the Cardinal Sins for weddings. In photos, in ceremonies...the eye sees it before other colors. There's a reason firetrucks are red.
But does it mean you slept with anyone, especially the groom? No. Not at all. And in the example in this video, the dress was a mermaid-tail style ballgown with excessive lace. Ballgown is as formal as it gets for women and the only person at a wedding in ballgown formal should be the bride. For all intents and purposes, what that woman wore IS a wedding dress in bright red. THAT is way different than just wearing a red cocktail dress or something.
As an aside, "woman in the red dress" has been associated with loose morals. In the 1800's, red was a color very much associated with literal sex workers BUT that is a very, very outdated notion and maybe why some people overreact to red at a wedding or red...anywhere tbh. Anyone under 80 should not see it that way. Again, it is a centuries old idea and anyone saying a woman wearing red in 2023 is a sex worker can f*ck right the hell off.
This is also strictly a Western Christian culture thing. Red means very, VERY different things around the world. My brother's wife is Chinese and even with their wedding being in a Christian church, red was *everywhere* and encouraged. It meant something totally different to her and made her happy and it was her day so red for *all the things* ! It's the Bride's Day :D
So did you get a look or two in a red dress? Maybe. I mean it really depends on the shade and style. Did everyone think you'd slept with the groom? No. No, nothing like that. On the Faux Pas scale I'd say it's an exceedingly light offense and you really shouldn't feel bad but avoid the color at weddings in the future if you want to be safe.
Me too and red is just my favorite color not any other meaning yikes
Same! I had a red maxi sundress from Express that I thought fit with the mountain farmhouse style venue and I had no idea until after on the internet that that was considered a faux-pas 🙈 no one ever said anything to me and I had even asked the bride wayyy beforehand regarding dress-code and colors because I haven’t been to many weddings and the only thing i knew was no white 😂
@@ritaantosik6659 what's worse is I knew the groom had a thing for me way back in high school. Granted when they got married, I think we were like around 25 ish? So it was a few years after high school. I was also attending with my now ex husband. It was only until a few years later that I found out what wearing red at a wedding meant. I really hope the bride didn't think anything happened.
Ngl the singing ex has a very pretty voice. Carrie would be proud ❤
3:50 ‐ she's not the A-hole, Stephanie is. I'm sorry, you don't send an invitation to someone you don't want at your wedding in the hopes they don't show! Thats just dumb. She was invited, she took Stephanies step-kids (presumably the ex-wife was having them after the wedding because Stephanie is going to be preoccupied with the kids father/her new husband on her wedding night!) and the groom wanted her there! A wedding isnt all about the bride. And again, if you don't want someone at your wedding, DON'T SEND THEM AN INVITE! She drove 2hrs, put up with the bride's attitude, and then was expected to leave and then return to get the kids...assuming she drove home, then back to get the kids and home again that's 8hrs driving...and she was invited! Absolutely, unequivocally, definitely NOT the A-hole.
Sorry Charlotte, we'll have to agree to disagree.
4:54 - yeah, she's the A-hole for wearing that dress, not cool.
Sorry Charlotte. We do agree after all. Can't believe this turned into a teachable moment - always get the full story before you jump to conclusions, kids!
Correction she would not be the A-hole if her side of the story was true which is not
SHE WAS WEARING A RED BRIDAL GOWN
In case it went over peoples heads, the song that first ex was singing is called Think before he Cheats. A country song about a cheating partner. So I am actually on her side on this one. Great choice of a country song too, Carrie Underwood has some great hits.
minus the word think
Lol, I giggled when I realized what song she was singing! As a Carrie Underwood fan, I approve of the ex's performance!
The only other song that I could see being the same level is "I hope" by Gabby Barrett mainly because of the lyrics "Then I hope she cheats, like you did on me" cause that puts it into a perspective he most definitely cheated WITH the bride, and she isn't just holding onto a betrayal that happen years before he even met the bride, that she is perfectly entitled to hold onto, because nobody decides when you get over something or if forgiveness is supposed to be given.
I feel so bad for that first bride. That’s awful the bride didn’t deserve I hope she drank and ate a crap to of cake and went on the honeymoon and got that marriage annulled😢
I bet she broke it off and that's why he's been texting the ex for 5 days 😂
By the song choice I’d say the ex cheated on her with the bride. Not saying what was done by the ex was okay, but bride probably isn’t so innocent or just a bystander.
First story: I wanted to slap that exes face toothless soooo bad,and I'm a woman never scorned.She just came of as a true B..ch and should have taken that brides feelings into concideration on her WEDDINGDAY and stayed away.But she was too consumed by her egoistic need for revenge that she did'n't care.I can deal with petty,but not cruelty.The groom is a douche though for thinking this would go down well..
@@user-gj1me4mf5c its just missing a comma big brain
@@user-gj1me4mf5c It's a nod to the long and tired tradition of avoiding commas like the plague on the internet.
1:42 OOOKKKKAAAYYYY CHARLOTTE WITH THE VOCALZZZZZZZS
Man, i love it when you can hear both sides of a post.
The story with the ex in red dress . This is my take: she was nice up till the wedding because she probably didn't think the 2were actually going to get married or hoped they wouldn't and being nice to the new woman makes her out to be such a " wonderful understanding person" to her ex. She sounds like one of those fake sweet people that are nice to your face and talk shit behind your back.
Absolutely
Exactly!
I’ve read that story about the son’s wedding before and the father who posted is not only NTA, he’s a fantastic man and father/grandfather. He knows somewhere along the line his son turned into a POS and he acknowledges that the ex was wronged in so many ways, including son basically abandoning his own children/young family.
The son (and possibly the mom for coddling so much he acts like this) are the only Aholes in that story. More power to them. That son is a callous capricious child who I think we all can see will have a string of divorces/affairs and multiple children with different women by the time he’s 30.
If a man can’t even show minimal respect to the mother of his kids and especially to his kids themselves, he deserves no happiness imo. Sounds like all of their issues were caused by his immaturity and disgusting narcissistic behaviors.
Everytime there is a wedding or party I become the nanny to all the kids and entertainment so that the parents can sit and enjoy without been harrased by there kids and the best thing I love it and wouldn't change it everyone is happy all round
Charlotte’s hair looks so pink in this vid! Looks good
Exes and Weddings should NEVERRR mix unless you want absolute chaos
Yeah, my ex invited me to his wedding with now wife. I laughed hysterically and hung up. I swear he’s the biggest Moron I’ve ever met. What I saw in him and she continues to see in him, I’ll never know.
I am big friends with my ex, but maybe it is bc I am gay it is more "normal" to be friends? And I attend to her wedding and I am also friends with her new wife.
@@laramaaike3050 I’m friends with quite a few of my exes, but my ex husband cheated on me, belittled me, and controlled every aspect of my life. He’s insane if he thought I’d actually come to his wedding.
You aren’t thinking about kids. There are some exes who won’t let kids be part of the second wedding unless they come. It’s hostage-lite, but not illegal. Would you rather have your kid absent or your fool ex attend so you could share that special day with your kid? I’d choose my kid’s presence. My ex can get up to whatever foolishness he wants. That’s what bouncers are for.
@@BeckBeckGo
And then there’s my ex. Whom when I told him his daughter was welcome to attend but I’ll be passing on it, he denied her. It wasn’t about his kid. It was about trying to embarrass me.
i personally think the bridesmaid who got kicked out, given crazy rules, shittalked behind her back did what had to be done. showing up with the bride’s ex in this scenario is perfectly fine in my book. but the again i know i can get hella petty. but still, that’s one justifiable a-hole thing to do, and i’m for it lol
Ikr
Fax I love revenge and I am all for it LOL
Charlotte is like that cool friends big sister
5:30 From the Brides own mouth: ""I WAS *AWARE* OF HER RECEIVING AN INVITATION!!!!!!!!!!!"
So she admits that she knew about it then and OP was invited. The bride can not complain about someone attending her wedding who was invited and she KNEW about their invitation. If she had a problem with it, then shut it down to begin with. The moment she found out OP was invited, she should have called her back and said don't come. That is a shitty thing to do to have someone drive all the way out there and demand that they leave because you didn't think they would come to a wedding that they were INVITED TO!!!. You don't want someone at your wedding, then DON"T INVITE THEM!
Also, after hearing both sides of the story, I think they are BOTH the a-holes. What the bride did to OP was a shitty thing to do-and that part of the story was confirmed by both sides so it is the truth. They are both a-holes/
I would just breakdown and die if my father in law was like that. Good job on dad and sister.
Edit: and mom for showing up to represent their family in their absence. I love that they chose to support the first wife as well though. We all need and deserve love.
In that last one, the son shows scarily definitive signs of being a Narcissist. Making the (1st) wife be a "stay at home mom" and isolating her, telling the father & sister that they have to "earn" back a relationship with him, on his terms. RUN FROM THE GIANT RED FLAGS! Hope someone can manage to keep the children mentally and emotionally safe from him. That's sad. I feel bad for the 2nd wife, too. She probably has no idea what's coming...
The one finger for the, please excuse me for my burp intermission, is why I love this channel 😂
Giiiiiirrrlllll! You can SANG!!! Love it
Story about the exes going to the wedding to break all the rules: while that would be EXTREMELY tempting, I think it would do more damage to the bride to not show up. She wants to either control you completely and see you upset by her shiz behavior. Ignoring her will work MUCH better for a narcissistic beestitch like her(according to the info given here). Don't go. It will bother her more, I guarantee it. If you upset the wedding, she will get all the attention and get to play victim, which is probably what drives her behavior. Disappoint her by not feeding into it.
Tbh, even if that’s not the case and the bride really doesn’t want them there, sometimes you just have to take the L with grace. There’s no scenario where the exes look good trying to mess up the wedding, so I would just not go, drop the bride and groom as friends entirely, cut their losses and move on.
The thing is though - only the bride will know all those rules were broken. The exes were just going to act like normal guests, not bring any attention to them. So for the bride to play the victim, she would first have to tell everyone about all those stupid rules she gave them.
Omg why are you defending the bride she wants them to go … your full of something special
Now your thinking smart BRIDE IS AT FAULT HERE
@indigoeye your comment is the truth
The last story dad is the HERO!! I love how wonderful he is with his son's ex and how the daughter wants them to be real sisters, it's wonderful and I love that! The grandfather is setting himself to be an absolute role model for his grandkids❤
He lost a son, but gained a daughter, a sister for his daughter and 2 grandkids. Super Dad super traded up.
The first video that girl sang, she KILLED IT! Her voice was amazing better than the original id say😂
Watching all your petty wedding drama videos actually makes me anxious to ever have a wedding myself. But they’re so entertaining 😂😭
The first one. You gotta give it the musicians their dedication to continue playing instruments thru all the drama
the show must go on
The second one with stephanie i have to disagree,the husband INVITED HER not just their kids. If she didnt want that she should have told them,either bring the kids and stay or him or herself can drive there and pick up the kids. Invite somebody they will come and stay,simple logic.
Yeah but she bragged about it on true of my chest
I agree that she could maybe have stayed, but the dress was an issue...
She purposely wore a wedding dress knowing exactly what she was doing
Didn't wear a wedding dress maybe red wasn't the best but not a wedding dress.
@@GMWILD87 It IS a wedding dress. Read the description. It outright says the dress is a 'Bridal Gown'. Just because it's not white, doesn't mean it's not a wedding dress.
One of the little things I appreciate most about your videos is how short and succinct your intros and exits are; they're not drawn out. You get right to the content and I really appreciate that. 🙂
I watch for your voice overs, facial expressions, and commentary lol 🤣😅🤣🥰
Love it, thanks hon x
The one where the ex shows up in the red wedding dress - First Stephanie said she didn't think the ex would accept - and then she said she didn't know her husband to be invited her... Which is it? still not ok to go to a wedding where you aren't wanted but also, don't invite people you truly do not want at your wedding.
The first post was written by the ex wife and the second one was the ACTUAL post written by the bride..
I personally believe the bride in the scenario.
@@twinkle7607 No. She was fully aware that the ex was invited. Fully aware. That doesn't excuse the ex from wearing the dress she did, but had I been invited somewhere, made a 2 hour drive and was then told to leave, I'd be pissed
Stephanie is also mad the kids can't call her Mom so she's obviously one of those Second wives!!
Charlotte misread the post, it said she *was* aware, just didn’t know that the ex had accepted
@@twinkle7607 Do you believe that the date JUST HAPPENED to fall on the mother's custody day? Like, it was just happenstance, and not something over which the bride and groom had any CHOICE?
Do you believe that they had NO OTHER OPTION to get those kids there for the wedding, including asking relatives to step in? Or saying, "Hey, can we swap custody weekends, so that we have the kids that day? Or maybe, we have the kids the day before the wedding, keep them through the wedding, and then you can pick them up after the wedding? Or Grandma can drop them off at yours? Or Auntie Jane?" There were SO MANY OPTIONS that did NOT involve sticking it to the mother, by stealing her TIME WITH HER CHILDREN. Not to mention the gas money of driving two hours there, and two hours back. TWICE. OR, expecting her to drive two hours there, and then just hang out alone all day long, waiting for the long wedding to end, before she picks up her children and drives two hours back.
IF, and ONLY IF, the bride had said, "We offered to alter the custody schedule, so that we had the kids on our wedding day, since we ABSOLUTELY HAD NO CONTROL OVER THE WEDDING DATE THAT WAS CHOSEN FOR US, but she flatly refused to change the custody schedule" then they can get away with ASKING the mother of the children to "Please drop off the children at the beginning of the wedding, and pick them up afterwards, because "We can't possibly change the wedding date to suit the custody schedule."
I actually admire the father in the last post. Kudos to him for taking care of the mother of his grandchildren while his son is still way too immature to man up and be a father to his own kids. 💗
10:21
*I do NOT think you're the A-hole! Seeing how the bride is marrying YOUR EX.. I say GO DO IT!*
*Go with her ex, however I don't think you and your date should do anything to ruin the wedding!*
wow, this video started off with quite the bang! He knew what he was doing asking his ex to sing (fabulously, by the way) at his damn wedding knowing he cheated!
Wow that red dress story was a cluster. I'm gonna blame the husband for not consulting his now-wife (hopefully future ex #2) about whether to even invite his ex. Showing up when you're invited but not actually wanted is the worst, and the husband should have been apologizing on both sides. But the ex lost any sympathy by showing up in that dress. I also wonder if OP used the kids as part of her excuse to stay, since it would be unreasonable to ask her to make two four-hour round trips just to drop them off and pick them up.
I have to report to opposite to all these disasters. My ex was marrying her long time partner and asked me if I would give her away, which I did.
Among the guests was another one of her partners and our son's ex-wife. They were welcome, there were no problems.
It was a good day, she had the wedding she wanted, though with a hint of sadness as my ex had terminal cancer and had not long to live.
Thats so sad 😢 glad everyone could behave as adults for her
The way you sang “let it go” over the frozen scene with your head 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 pricelesss
Love that last one ❤.
Oh god, the first one. My ex asked me to make his fiance's WEDDING DRESS! He was secretly sleeping with both of us at the same time until he came clean. Dude, no.
Wtf?!? Oh yes. I’d love to make a dream dress for the girl you not only cheated with but chose over me. Yea, that sounds excellent. How fun.
WTAF?! I don’t know whether to laugh at the audacity or get angry on your behalf. 🤦♀️
@@ladymorrigan5950 I laughed when he asked. He was a bullet I dodged. I felt more sorry for her for marrying him, an admitted s*x addict who liked to go to bars to sleep with strangers. I think they're still married 10 years later; I'd love to be a fly on the wall of that train wreck for a day.
The two exes considering going to the bridezilla's wedding should just go on a fabulous date on the same day and post it all over social media. And wouldn't be awesome if they actually ended up together? 🤭🤭🤭😁
NOPE THEY SHOULD GO AND DO AS THEY POSTED BRIDE IS PATHETIC DESERVES IT AND MUCH MORE
This isn’t a terrible solution. This bride clearly wants to make them look bad no matter what they choose. So a flashy date would be a nice solution.
@@jothimfranqueers1297 Literally tho. She’s marrying the ex friend’s boyfriend of 4 years. What the actual hell? The bride just seems like she has issues.
@@karisworldgaming4832 not to mention the bride's ex is the future husband's cousin who was also invited
that first one, kudos to the band for being down to play along. LEGENDS
I'm new to your channel but so far I am loving it!!! When you sang that one line I immediately thought, man this girl can sing..... although you tried to play it off as though you couldn't. I saw you did a few techno songs 10 years ago and while they were good, didn't give you any justice. I think your voice is beautiful and along with what videos you are making now, you should be singing!!! God bless you!!! ❤❤
9:00 I feel like the bride and groom 🤵🏻♂️👰🏼♀️ inviting the exes to the wedding is BEGGING for them to break the rules. Like, why did you invite them? To throw it in their face that they're not together amymore? Bride and Groom are setting themselves up for the drama!
Exactly!
1) bride didn't know
2) the ex showed up in a red wedding gown
@@pocoloco9688 it's about the other story about 2 exes
@@pocoloco9688 I was referring to a different story.
I don't understand the issue of colors meaning things so the dress being red doesn't bother me. To me, as long as the style of clothing fits the theme I just don't care about the rest.
What bothers me is the husband inviting her at all and then not continually updating her invite status. It seems like he purposely did not tell his new bride what was going on and the bride was blindsided. *That* is where I have an issue with this particular story. There's not enough info on how these people have interacted before this story to take a full side because so far only the bride seems to be the lesser issue.
Edit: the dad hanging out with his dil instead of going to his son's wedding is a great dad. His son is a grown man who chose to cheat and marry his mistress while abusing and neglecting his wife. Dad did the right thing. I only think mom should have also not gone with the kids and just hung out with dil too.
red dresses are very-attention grabbing. they are the staple of sexiness. therefore, it's considered very inappropriate to wear a red dress to a wedding because it does grab more attention than a white/off-white wedding dress and it does kind of give a vibe of "you're his bride but i'm his lover".
not to mention ex wore a red wedding dress which is just a double-whammy. this whole situation was a mess with the groom adding to it.
I honestly have almost the opposite view on that story. A miscommunication definitely happened between the groom and bride - she assumed no-one reasonable would accept an invitation to an ex's wedding OR that it would be something the groom would definitely tell her. We don't know the groom's side, it really is possible he just didn't think that it was important to explicitly say his ex accepted. I happen to know a few men who, though nice people, would probably do the same. The dress seems more the issue and I am not surprised the bride didn't want her there. The red color is only a real issue in combination with the fact that it is a fancy floor length, lacey dress. That is a very, very loud, attention grabbing dress. Definitely not acceptable to wear to a wedding, unless stated otherwise by the couple. Had the ex shown up in something more appropriate, the bride would likely be a lot more willing to just wave the whole thing as a miscommunication and let her into the wedding.
@@indigoeye3874they have kids together who she would have to drive two hours to pick up after the wedding I get the dress color but to think she wouldn’t wanna be there when she has to pick up her kids after when it’s not right up the street is crazy. That’s the mother of his kids lmao. That’s what happens when you get with someone with kids gotta learn to compromise that fact.
I don't get the whole issue of colors either. It's only an issue if you make it an issue. Someone wears red? Big freaking deal! Just focus on your wedding, be happy, maybe even compliment the person wearing red, just to show that you DO NOT CARE, and move on. So many of these AITA posts about weddings can be completely avoided if brides in particular wouldn't make such a big issue out of literally everything. Black, red, white, who the F cares what someone wears to a wedding? It's YOUR wedding and they only upstage you if you LET them.
@@DianavanderPluijm Agreed. Class & poise can go a long way. If you show people they can't get to you it will ruin all of their fun & they'll just end up making fools of themselves.
About color. They can effect people's mood. That's why baby colors are always pastels. They have a calming effect. Bright colors tend to have an invigorating effect (which is why it's not recommended for areas where people sleep).
Red, particularly bright red, is the color of passion (in Chinese culture it's the traditional color of the bridal gown). The meaning is true across cultures because the color red has an arousing effect on people (anger & lust in equal measure). The meanings attributed to colors are not always arbitrary. They are based on how they effect the human mind.
12:20 that delivery is golden, “I’m the grinch” 🤣🤣
If she doesn't want you there, why she invited you? This is ridiculous 🤣 and her reasoning is even more ridiculous...
The woman in the red wedding dress didn't make the bride out to be the villain in the way she thought though 😂
Right tho. Her story seemed off to me. Then Stephanie chimed in and I was like yep. That one sounds more truthful than all of the missing information she gave us. Including no upload of the dress.
Yeah, she was most certainly the evil ex in both stories. She just screamed, "I'm jealous, and I want to steal him back!" Judging from the ex-husband and MIL's reaction, she wouldn't really have to try that hard either. Stephanie should cut her losses and run.
@@dianaquick8883 Stephanie wants to remember that she married someone who had kids with this woman. It’s disrespectful and not okay to treat the mother of his children like that. In doing so, she’s playing right into the hands of the ex if she wants to cause trouble. I don’t care whose special day it is, you don’t treat the mother of the kids like that. Right down to mom being blamed because the kids call her by her name…. What else are they supposed to call her? Mommy? Too many women think they get a man with kids and are just going to take over the place of the ex/mother in the family. Life don’t work like that. Both of them acted childishly.
@Armstrong Dhawan my biggest issue is that the husband invited his ex and didn't bother to tell Stephanie. Then, when the ex showed up in a red wedding dress, he and his mother sided with her rather than with the bride. Both of those actions alone seem like he had very little respect for the woman he is currently married to.
@@armstrongdhawan6338 I hear you, but I think the problem is that the bride didn't even know she was coming. I can definitely imagine how that would be stressful, but when you add in that she was wearing a ball gown and bragging that she upstaged the bride, it really looks like the bride was doing the best she could in an awful situation.
Just imagine if anyone, let alone your partner's ex, walked into your wedding wearing that dress
YES! The ex bridesmaid and ex groomsman SHOULD go to their ex's wedding together. FOLLOW all of the rules and smile at each other for a couple of hours enjoying the company. Then go up together and congratulate the newlyweds, following up with "We can't keep up with all of the rules so we are going to head out. Thank you so much for a wonderful evening" and then look at your date with a smirk and then walk out giggling and grazing each other.... :) The thought of not knowing can be agonizing..
Perfectly petty!!!
Honestly, masterful.
15:25 the father in law sounds like a great guy I'm happy he and the sister stayed with his new daughter. This new marriage will prolly end faster than the 1st one. N the father\ grandfather knows the children n ex will be in their lives forever.
I just Wana say. That you get me though my 8 hr work day. Your videos never get boring. And I'm pretty sure CZcams plays the next video of your and I've probably rewatched some of your videos probably 2 or 3 times every day. Thank you so for letting me not stress blow up on my co workers and employers ❤
Charlottes next merch item needs to be a PETTY DRESS!!!
Why am I picturing something like Princess Dianas revenge dress?
That is so sweet that the dad and daughter basically adopted the ex as their own daughter/sister!
Before I started watching Charlotte's channel, I didn't know about certain wedding norms, like that there are some colors that you don't wear at a wedding as a guest... I wore off-white/cream at my eldest sister's wedding and full red at my other sister's wedding... Imagine my mortification
I'm of the opinion that the general rule is, if no one said anything to you, then you're fine. I encouraged people to wear strong colours at my wedding so yes, even some red was seen. Which made me happy. Most of the guests were just careful to not wear white and adjacent and I had publically made it clear no black.
Love you. You're hilarious. Thank you. You're like therapy!!!!!!!!
I would be here for a collection of “petty dresses” 😂
I remember reading an old book of Etiquette by Miss Manners that explained three dress colors not to wear and why.
white- protesting the wedding
black- mourning the wedding
red- upstaging the wedding
Should they be decorated with rhinestones? Or...should the word Petty be written in rhinestones on the dresses in an extravagant way :O