Competitive Bride Tries To Poach Venue Hall - Rich Bride Poor Bride 305 - Battle Of The Budget
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- čas přidán 16. 06. 2021
- Terri always had one particular reception hall in mind when she dreamt of her big day, but their packages start at twice the price her fiancé Phil thinks a reception should cost. So they booked another venue, but the story doesn't end there. Terri, stubborn and competitive, has entered a local "win a wedding competition"-and part of the prize is a reception at her dream hall.
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That wedding planner is so amazing! I could never deal with people like that, and so calmly. She even was willing to call and un-invite their guests! That’s commitment to your job!
I get what the future husband is saying about replying by the date. It is actually to respect the timeline on the venue. The bride was being ridiculous about some things. They both exemplify huge RED flags.
I AGREE WITH YOU Absolutely!!
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I Agree with everything your saying. This groom is very controlling and she has her head in the clouds. ☁️
😳 This wedding is setting off...
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I'm with the groom on one thing, if you haven't RSVP'd or gotten back with the couple by the requested date then you should stay your butt at home!
I agree... being a guest is an honor. If you don't rsvp in time you lose you spot. And it's never polite to invite extra people if they weren't invited. That's why they add a plus+ option.
We women often spend an awful lot of time & energy creating and maintaining relationships. She doesn’t want to harm those friendship at any cost. And it’s her day.
Right...
Agreed
but never book a venue smaller than your invite list
Big weddings are for others to party on someone elses money!! My wedding was plsnned in 5 days, mom bought my dress, did my rose bouquet , sister got me cake, brother and wife were witnesses and payed dinner at italian rest by the intercoastal in ft . Laud , hubby bought 2 gold wedding bands and honeymoon night and family helped stay with our 3 small kids while we partied till next day . 32 years happily married .its about love forever
we did similar 4 my niece I made 3 tier cake
This guy is such a downer. If my guy barged into my dress shopping and started whining about prices I wouldn’t be marrying him.
Is it faked for the video? Just drama?
Right? My bf is Indian and I’m just hoping he wants to get married back in India because $1 there equals $7 here so I can actually have a big wedding at descent costs idc if all my friends can make it or not but it will be my dream wedding dammit🤣🤣🤣
There’s nothing wrong with a budget, but he shouldn’t be dress shopping and she shouldn’t overspend. There should be compromise, which this couple seems to handle well and probably putting on a show for the cameras.
Sure says alot I'd say chance long marriage doubtful he'll only get worse
You have to admit it was funny .Im sure he’s making money than her and just annoyed by all the money being spent lol
You can use a brown runner on a cream color tablecloth! It would be very elegant! Especially with the callalillies!
That would be pretty!
Yeah not only are these people spoilt they're also stupid. Where's the wedding planner with this easy fix??
@@farberry17 Greed is the biggest blinder! Greed is more than selfishness to destroy the human soul! Therefore, Jesus Christ requires new birth, spiritual rebirth, the acknowledgment of our sin with genuine repentance, given by the Holy Spirit to renew our mind, to live a new life seeking to love God and others first..... without which no one shall enter the Kingdom of God! This has nothing to do with Church membership! We simply must humble ourselves, as many who are first will be last and many who are last will be first!
@@farberry17 Bridezela is very controlling. No one can get word in edgway...
I also don’t see this marriage lasting long…. I’m always amazed at the differences of opinion on budget prices. Holy cow!!!!!
I have to agree with the groom about the RSVP. If you can’t pick up the phone or send a text don’t come. Too bad 😒😒😒
That is the RSVP for right?
Actually, it is a rsvp, you can. And in my lifetime I've probably planned three weddings for others and attended 20+. If they did not rsvp by the date we figure that they are not attending. It is beyond rude to not rsvp and understand the logistic/budgets of such events.
I used to be a wedding coordinator. If they don’t reply but the date most people call or email to check. However under those circumstances I would have sent an email saying ‘you will be missed’. So there are no issues on the day.
I hate uber-cheap men like the guy in this video. You have to wonder what happened to them while growing up....
People are bashing the groom for being controlling. Come on! They started with a $30,000 budget. There is no reason why she had to exceed that. She was particularly annoying when she didn't want to sell the diamond ring. I thought it was a brilliant idea on Mio's part. It's outrageous what people spend on weddings. I had 100 guests at my wedding and only spent $1,500 on the whole shebang.
That’s about how many we had at ours, and about what we spent! It was fabulous. I don’t get why anyone would spend money for the stress these people are enduring for 1 day. But I know we are in the minority here. Most people don’t understand US!
SAVE for a House 🏠 👌
Deinvite?! Lmbo. First of all...and secondly, it's not the wedding planner's place to call people to 'univite' people!
I agree with the groom! If they cant respond by a date they lost their chanse.
chance*^
If the deadline is reasonable and they don't respond, yes, they should be excluded.
The couple need to know the number of guests. The couple needs to know It for paying the place, the food, the cake, the tables, the dresses (bridemaids) etc.
I’m only two minutes in and I don’t have faith in the future of their marriage. I can’t imagine how they’ll agree on child rearing.
So agree. Can you imagine house apt hunting with him. I cant imagine anything with him. Grocery shopping. Anything with him forever Even turning lights on living together
I actually love them
4 kids and married many years later
How do u know they have 4 kids?
Is it just me?
Why was the wedding planner paid so much less than what is paid those in other episodes?
What's normally mentioned has been $2500-$3000. But this wedding planner was only paid $1600.
What an arrogant selfish bride! How dare she expect what she wants though she is not paying for all of it!
What an arrogant high handed groom. He went to see venues without the Bride! The Groom does NOT choose the wedding gown! They are both type A so perhaps it’s a match.
@@trishradloff8817 Makes for a good drama doesn’t it? Is this a fake “reality” story??
She works, how is it he has total control of the budget? He's treating her like a non productive, worthless gold digger.
$37,000 the trip to Europe or Bora Bora or house down payment oh my god that would never be worth it to me
I completely agree.
I don't have good feeling about the success of this marriage. The wedding is 1day, marriage is years and I don't see compromise in this couple.
I have not watched to the end but I predict the groom will be a controlling nightmare. And now I have finished, I believe I’m right. The bride could be more mature and realistic, but even then he would strong-arm every decision.
I saw a responsible man who tried his best to give his fiancée the wedding she wanted whilst trying to stick to a budget. I think she behaved like a spoiled little brat trying to spend as much money as she could. It was the groom and her parents who paid for everything. She didn’t even contribute financially to the wedding.
He most definitely shows some very red flags (as someone who has been in a controlling and abusive relationship). She was a bit annoying…BUT he didn’t some things that were physically intimidating (not to mention obnoxious, too). But the part with the dress…just busting up on there when she doesn’t want you there and especially tells you to leave? Nope. Not ok.
As he should. If she has realized that his issue with spending money by now, she is in for a very rude awakening.
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He is up against a person who wants no ceiling to any expenses and who does not care about going into debt. She is being so disrespectful to him. I think he is a good guy in a tough situation. I don't think it is controlling at all. She clearly has no intention of paying for this stuff and does not care about budgeting. He does. I do not see this marriage lasting. She is too immature. He actually is quite reasonable in the face of her manipulation. As a feminist I cannot stand controlling spouses, but in this case, it is the bride who lacks respect.
I absolutely agree with the groom. If the people didn't bother to RSVP on time, they clearly don't care enough about the wedding. So they shouldn't even care if they get uninvited.
We women often spend an awful lot of time & energy creating and maintaining relationships. She doesn’t want to harm those friendship at any cost. And it’s her day.
I thin the polite thing to do is call and ask if they are going. Say if you don't hear back within seven days then you won't reserve a spot for them
Doesn't she see all the red flags!? I would have dumped him and still be running in the opposite direction!
Between reading the comments and the start of this episode I didn't like this guy....but the longer I watched? This groom was doing nothing more than trying to keep a lid on his fiance's spending... Her parents are paying for a portion and he's paying for the rest .... She's not paying for sh*it, yet she keeps wanting to rack up the bill... In reality... He had to be overbearing and controlling of the budget or she would have spent $100,000 if she could get away with it ...
I think the husband is great he is right she want to over spend. At the end they would be broke if he wasnt smart n alot of bills
they're as bad as each other. She has no clue about money and he is really controlling
Nah he's overbearing, controlling and completely dismissive of her feelings.
Yessss!!!!
I’m afraid that if Mio was my fiancé, there would not be a wedding. If he is this aggressive and overbearing in front of cameras, imagine the conversations when they are alone. Yes, budgets are important, but when he said, “My money” I just about lost it.
Since he is the one paying for it, it kind of is his money. But he probably shouldn‘t be marring someone that doesn‘t have the same idea about a wedding.
I imagine the director tells them to overplay their roles and feelings. How interesting would a show like this be if you had two ordinary, everyday people planning a wedding? Besides, she kept calling it "my wedding" when it's a day for both of them.
I think the groom is acting responsible with a wife who has already proven that she couldn't be trusted to make responsible decisions. Not to mention going behind his back to suggest that they could feel free to go over his price budget on the cake. The fact that he trusted his bride so little, that he made the wrong-headed decision to go monitor the selecting of her wedding dress should have told him that he was making a bad choice in a bride.
he was quite reasonable and grounded while his wife thought they had a bottomless pit. But they actually coach the people to act overly dramatic for the sake of TV
As a bride to be, I cannot imagine brides who think they get to control and decide everything. Should be a partnership and compromising. Not giving into one way or another. Pretty sad. The bride doesn't seem to respect a budget whatsoever. People think the groom is demanding and controlling, but he's at least trying to be reasonable. The bride and her mother don't care about the costs of anything because they're not footing the bill.
In fact her parents were footing part of the bill and it’s their money not his. I agree she needs to be more budget oriented but he’s an asshat. I mean,, he went, uninvited, to her dress shopping. As a coordinator I would have pulled him aside and spoken to him about how he’s presenting his message,, not the message he’s presenting.
@@bethotoole6569 I guess I'm non traditional and I would prefer my groom to want to be invited and part of dress shopping. I just feel like this bride in general was absolutely awful and I just feel terribly for the groom. He has his faults but she definitely is pushing all the buttons to get him there.
@@xMiyakaChanx key word: "Invite/ Invited" something which he was not.
@@butterflies8089 Which in my own opinion is wrong and the whole "can't see the dress before the wedding or it's bad luck" I highly doubt if that's the way they're treating eachother before the wedding. The dress has nothing to do with your toxicity towards eachother lol.
hes a bit overbearing BUT SOME can go overboard. NO NEED To BANKRUPT YOURSELF FOR A FEW HOURS
Somehow I don't feel a bad vibe about this union...they will be K...Gods blessings to their union
Still married and have 4 children.
This guy is unbelievable! He got the plastic surgery for himself (!), he sold her ring and he wanted her to buy a 200 hundred dollar wedding dress ! And she puts up with him still. I`sure he`ll find a CHEAP divorce lawyer !
They are still Married with kids
Everytime someone says "classy" you can guarantee it's not 😂 I hate when people say that word why does classy sound so trashy 😬 and those centerpieces we're so sad they needed greenery for volume and calla lillie's are such a funeral flower
I would never use calla lillies at a wedding, very funereal!!
I saw a bride with calla lilies as a bouquet
They are very elegant flowers. I can’t believe the florist brought wilted ones. How the heck could they get that straightened out on short notice when the guests were lined up behind the door? Funeral flowers are just traditions that change over time.
They are not considered funeral flowers. Callas are very much a wedding flower. I used to be a coordinator,, I did lots of weddings,, in the early 2000’s everybody used them.
@@grammichal6759 because it was staged, like most of this show. They make up dramatic storylines/crisis' that are somehow magically fixed immediately. I saw one episode where the wedding planner's assistant dropped the 5 tier wedding cake on the floor and within an hour they got a replacement cake that was exactly the same as the original...like no way is that possible lol
Here’s a thought: he kept the free plastic surgery for himself and sold the ring that was her part of the radio station prize. Whoa girl. Look at the facts.
He doesn't look any better, so there's that. He had surgery for nothing.
But he didn't go on the honeymoon they won with another woman.
This “husband” is infuriating. You can tell he gains satisfaction from depriving his wife. He seems like the type to spend money on his own interests though
And he keeps talking about my money not our money. Bad son. Big red flag.
I’m so happy the bride chose her own gown. I didn’t. My mother chose mine. I was lucky in that she graciously offered to make it (fantastic seamstress) but I hated it & it didn’t fit. It was the only bridal gown she ever made (& she made 100s) where the bride couldn’t lift her arms. I had chosen one in a store that I was going to pay for but SHE threw a tantrum. I did all my own beading (which I’m good at) & it was the only part I was pleased with
It sounds, unfortunately, like sabotage. If she was so great of a seamstress, she'd have altered it for you to make it fit. How did she even justify that as acceptable dress making behavior? I'm an electrician and know nearly nothing of fashion...
But you should be able to lift your arms. I know that much.
I hope you get a chance even if it's just an intimate event to renew your vows and celebrate an anniversary you could pare it down to just a few family and friends possibly do a destination wedding so if people want to see you they can pay for it or go to a local park 🏞️ or nice event place and use it as a renewal and honeymoon in one you can make it as small or big as your budget allows if you have really no budget look at consignment and thrift stores you can't imagine how many wedding dresses you can find also remember even the best wedding salons have dresses on sale and discontinued dresses but even if it's small get the dress you love and have happy memories you deserve it you can have it as an Anniversary and vowel renewal party.
This guy was so controlling. 🏃♀️ away
Please stop saying 'deinvite'!!!
Selfish groom. Even got the plastic surgery. He did need it
I couldn’t really tell the difference either. 🥴
We've been at this Reception Hall before . Many of these videos are using some of the same places and things . Its somewhat staged to make the show interesting . There's a capacity rate for how many people are allowed in the Hall .
This is a Fire Ordinance .
What surgery? He look the same to me
Everyone here is making out the fiance to be the villain but have you seen the other episodes! It's usually the woman and they are much worse!!!! This guy is just trying to stick to the budget, keep in mind the bride isn't contributing any $$
Honestly 😂 if she wants to spend thousands of dollars on one night, she should pay for it!
Will never understand wanting to spend thousands on a one day event! Geez. My wedding cost $165.00. Made my own dress(es). Married for over 43 years until my groom passed away😢. Save the money for buying a house, education etc etc etc etc
The entitlement of all the brides….. “it’s MY dress… it’s MY day… it’s MY wedding. Next will be; it’s MY lawyer. The commentary person is priceless 😂
Haha right! The MY MY MY ME ME ME, is sending her right to divorce court. Lol
@@kristkreep6668 🤣🤣🤣
First off I'm not a booshie girl. Having a small wedding or going to the JP and then having a nice reception is totally covering the basis. This way you can have your nuptials without all the extra costs. Get the dress you want, get the bouquet you want, and get the big package of pictures. Find outside areas for backdrop on pictures. I promise you there are areas around where you live that have amazing settings for pictures. Then get a bad ass venue for the reception again nice picture areas. Then throw the best party ever, your first as a married couple. Bottom line the general wedding church pictures wedding party decorations table settings flowers the dress the venue food costs an all these supposed wedding must haves doesn't make a wedding. You can have a wonderful day by selecting certain things to splurge on an remove all the unnecessary. Bottom line is spending money and doing everything possible for a wedding day doesn't ensure that this marriage will work out. And if it's so important to have everything on a wedding possibility checklist then postpone the wedding for 1year and get your ass a second job to pay for all of your wedding dreams.
How much you spend and having it all doesn't mean your in love and gonna last.
Some of these are just too aggravating to stomach .
Can't believe this guy, if he had his way he'd have went with paper plates and plastic spoons and coloring books as centerpieces.
Will the bride be required to graduate from elementary school before the wedding? Also, methinks the groom has a teeny thing with control issues. If they are married in three years I’d be amazed. Crazy marrying Crazy is seldom successful. What time is Divorce Court?
Lol!!!!!😂😆 Sorry but I had to laugh. Loved your comment. PRICELESS LOL 👍
Exactly, what are these people going to do with kids?
who gives away cosmetic surgery for a contest winner for a wedding lmao I get everything else but that’s weird 🥴
How embarrassing for the Bride to have her fiance' act so selfish and immature! I could never imagine being in the same room with that creep, much less sleep in the same bed with someone so AWFUL! The way he speaks to her is so condescending. Ugh. I can't stand watching his idiocy!!!
When booking a venue, or planning a wedding in general, or really any event. Never, never, never plan for people to not show up. Because of this. Exactly this. You don't know if all or 95% of your guests could show up. It is better to plan for all of your guests to show. Then to assume that some of them won't. But then the ones you didn't think would show up end up showing up.
But then you are paying for people that do not show up -wasted money. Unless someone has an emergency, asking people to RSVP is not unrealistic.
@@maril1379 I agree, asking people to RSVP is not unrealistic. But also, there are circumstances when people assume some won't show, and then they do.
Why would she take him dress shopping,? She should pay herself can't stand when person paying controls what she wears I bought my dress 47 yesrs ago. It was 75.00 beautiful then.haha. Now 2 sons brides dresses were about 500 00 today absolutely beautiful!! No thousand dollars needed.
Too controling, run girl!
For $3,000 I also thought they were buying them!!!
Watching 2 people argue about how much money to spend on a wedding, is NOT entertaining.
LACK OF RESERVING HOW MANY PEOPLE IN THE BANQUET HALL, IS LIKE OVER BOOKING A FLIGHT TICKET! SHAMEFUL ON THE BANQUET HALL MANAGEMENT!
it is also against the FIRE CODE IN EVERY CITY!
out of all of these I watched so far the only thing actually impressive about this couple is that they only went over budget by like 7,000,, everyone else always went wayyyyy over the budget by the end. I would be surprised to see someone come in under budget ever
Can you imagine what is going to when they have kids??
My venders handled everything on the wedding day. The florist usually sets up the unity candle at the ⛪️ church. I wish this couple all the best in their future endeavors.
I thought he wasn't paying for the entire wedding. The Mom should be able to pay for something.
Venues are tricky if you don't verify the parking, the restrooms, refrigerator and catering station.
The wedding planner isn't offering any services but she should.
He cares too much for the budget and she does not care enough
I put our wedding by myself and a professional planner. It was for 65 guests thus it was a modest. I paid for it as my groom was in grad school. No fighting! 56 yeArs later we are still happy. Years ago, things were less expensive but I can’t believe what some people spend for weddings. …or the fighting.
@@patwats8860 culturally , the man has to pay for everything where I live .. if he was not ready his family has to do that .. so usually making choices about the tables , food and venue is the groom family’s job .. the bride usually has to worry about her self only , and she gets to design the couch where she and her groom sit as well as her dress .. so there is no much fighting here everyone knows their rule.. he gives her a dawri of at least 5k .. she can do whatever she wants with it , buy her own dress , makeup , hair ,clothes and accessories.. but for the wedding it has its own budget as well
It's about getting married Not the wedding per say. We told parents we didn't care about the food they pick. They took care of cake too. They decorated & all. If we would have eloped like I wanted We had dinner only. No dance etc never missed it
This is just sad this guy is overbearing
I have so many things I want to say regarding red flags on both sides for the hopes or no hopes for the future of this couple especially if they don’t learn to give and take .. basically compromise instead of insisting on my way only, or they’re going to be very unhappy or end up in divorce!
I don’t know where this man was raised, but I can’t believe that he thought he had the right to come into the brides gallon fitting and decide what she could or could not wear. Clearly he was clueless on the price of a wedding gown even a reasonable price which is not $200! You can’t even go to a cocktail party hardly for $200, so how do you expect to purchase a hand-sewn hand-beaded layers upon layers of fabrics and multiple types of expensive fabric for wedding gowns. He’s not educated about so many things and that was very obvious as he opened his mouth.
He is clueless the wedding dresses on an average or $5000 and it was so offensive to all of the women but mostly his fiancé that he would show up at the shop. Sometimes I don’t know if things are done for CZcams excitement or if people are really that way but I’m very worried for this bride. I have been married not once but twice two very controlling man and my life was hell with both of them. I was a middle child and I did not know how to stand up for myself. I came from a big family and I was criticized and put down by my mother and felt unloved growing up. With low self-esteem is very easy for men to treat you badly no matter how much you love them. This is something you should work on before you ever get married is finances and budget NO PARTNER SHOULD EVER BE TREATED THE WAY THIS GROOM TREATED HIS BRIDE!!!!! That being said, it is VERY IMPORTANT Both partners stay within the budget…Making every attempt to stay within that budget. You can cut corners in one area so that if something needs to have a little more spend on it say the wedding dress or the venue, you know how to control a budget. Many couples go right from their parents home into a marriage and have never handle money.
He doesn’t respect any crafts or art in many areas of the wedding… The art of making a cake for example…My daughter was married 15 years ago approximately and her cake was $500 in the Midwest. We bought the Most sought out Cake Designer & Booked her 1 1/2 Year in advance; signed a Contract; & In the contract it stated you did not make any waves or make any changes or you lost all the money you paid down. She did not deal with conflict from neither the Bride Nor the nor the Groom! OUR Cake was four tiered & Artistically painted SO BEAUTIFULLY on the OUTSIDE&! I LOVED IT EVEN MORE THAN THE BRIDE & GROOM❣️❣️Each layer was its own flavor and people were talking about their cake and their wedding for years afterwards.
The flowers she picked out were so reasonable and this groom had no clue. $65 for that simple arrangement was so reasonable. She only picked three flowers and granted, Cala lilies are at the High end of the spectrum, but that guy doesn’t even know that. She was so reasonable in many of her choices…I want to say GREAT JOB to the Wedding Planner, Who did a wonderful job regarding finding an extra table the night of the wedding when you had extra people show up; helping to keep the cost down on table linens etc. and also for standing up for the bride when it was necessary and helping the groom to say he was out of line or clueless at about the price of a cake or the price of a wedding dress….Which I would like to say the cake was very lovely and fit the Bride’s vision perfectly, and her dress was GORGEOUS♥️❣️❣️
The last thing I want to say is for all people who receive wedding invitations.… If you don’t respond by the RSVP date it is rude and inappropriate for you to show up at the wedding unless you have called the Bride’s family & Explain why you weren’t able to RSVP and get their permission to come. The food and venue are one of the most expensive portions of a wedding and I have extra people show up you’re not expecting is so costly and often times as we saw in this wedding. I have known parents of the Bride & Groom to either: a) send people away if they are not on the list the day of the wedding and they show up; or, b) charge them for the cost of meal & liquor IF the Venue IS ABLE TO SEAT THEM, as punishment for NOT RSVP IN TIME !!!!
I don’t know that I can wish this bride and groom the best of luck because I’m very very concerned about their future. Narcissism is a big concern to me, especially with the groom. I don’t know if he can change his major control and I really am frightened for the future. I hope they can both Bend and grow and change so, IF THEY CAN , Then I wish them the Best!!!
OMG he’s just absolutely embarrassing 😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫 I’d die if my husband acted that way when I was planning our wedding
If you give the centerpieces away at each table, who decides who gets it? I see hurt people
You do it in a raffle like the person with the nearest birthday. My guests loved the idea . My centerpieces were silk and lifelike flowers with fall colors so they could use it as decor in their home. Plus we made pumpkins with fall leaves for part of the favors also decor for fall. Along with maple syrup in maple leaf bottles . We were lucky my in laws paid for majority.
Who would want a centerpiece anyway?
Time stamp 4:49, she says.....Unfortunately, he has really tight constraints on me.........HUGE RED FLAG RIGHT THERE., I would seriously reconsider marrying this guy.....good luck lady.
Great to have an update on what happened with these people
Married with 4 children.
He took the plastic surgery and forced her to pawn the ring 🤔
The ring that they won.. not their actual ring
He is a joke that guy thier marriage aint gonna last he too difficult to work with and soooooooooo bloody miserable
Yes, totally miserable
This guy is ... weird
He's a control freak cheap skate
‘De-invite someone’, surely it should be ‘un-invite someone’.
I giggled at that faux pas as the bride is a school teacher!
No way on earth I could marry him. Thank God my husband isn’t like that! I planned my wedding. I could’ve had anything I wanted but it only costed me a little over 6 grand.
Those "walls" can be moved Remember it can rain by the way. People, its not this difficult.
He literally thinks he can pick the dress. Yea right.
This guy is totally unrealistic about what things cost. If he thinks he can get a wedding cake that looks like anything for $200 he is dreaming. He is way too controlling but yet doesn’t mind taking things for himself that he wants. This marriage is in trouble from the start.
He’s actually right about the rsvp. If they do not rsvp by the date then they indeed missed the window. The rsvp date is there for a reason to give your final count. Also, you don’t have to allow plus ones if you are short of space/money,
red flag on this guy
More red flags than a communist rally
and bitchy demanding bride who feels a cheesy smile and batting eyelashes will get her way, “Reality” fake show?? Maximizing their opposites for the drama?
I think he is simply being realistic about not going broke over one day..
Why does noone tell the bride to lower her bouquet, I always see that crap bring it down straighten your arms downward
I've been to several weddings, including my own. I think one wedding a person took the table centerpiece. I had tall vases with fresh flowers at my wedding. I ended up with all the centerpieces at my home. If the bride would've stick more to the budget. The groom would've given her more freedom. She could've used fake Calli Lillies to save $. Fresh ones don't have a scent & there are some great looking fakes at Hobby Lobby.
At our daughters wedding, I think we had one centerpiece left and tons of people came in from out of town. So,,, every wedding is different. Just like every budget is different. For some people 40K for a wedding is on the low side of expectations. If you make 250K a year and you’ve been saving for 5 years,, 40K might be low.
In the end it’s not about the amount of money but if both people agree and are happy with it. These shows are based on two ppl not agreeing.
No lol by
Nit this groom I'm sure. If they are that hardliners on everything now only gets worse. Pay attention you'll see how true this is. Plus higher chance he'll be abuser.
I hate artificial flowers. They’re made with chemicals & are nothing more than dust collectors. You also have to spray them to hide the odor that emits from them. Wedding flowers can be expensive but you can always do a smaller centerpiece that would save money.
The more of these I watch, the more I've started noticing that some of the conversations and situations seem really scripted. I know a lot of the shows like this are kinda scripted, but one of the things I've noticed this time is the budget conscious one uses the words " In the poor house". Like its used in nearly every episode. Also the person saying it (usually the man) seems awkward and it doesn't sound like its a phrase the person would use judging by their speach pattern throughout the rest of the show. Just a thought. 💚
I can't believe these folks are not getting gifts of monuey from their guest to offset their wedding,
Sorry, this marriage is not going to last!! I don’t know how she could stand him!! YUCK!!! Se truly walked into that marriage with eyes wide open!! She must of been desperate to get married, nothing worse then a cheap man!!!
I would be going to the court house and go home. Then again I could get a dress, some fresh flowers as my bouquet, and those invited gonna cook and music. We gonna be alright. I will not go in any kinda debt whatsoever. That man is something else.
He is starting to get on my nerves I want him to leave
If you cannot nor afford to pay for a wedding and control your finances, then people should not be getting married. Period. That is where the problems start!!!
That little teenage girl at 40:08 cracked me up I’d uninvite her if anything lmao
Wow … Incredible!!! Where did this take place??? No wonder the parents had big smiles and comments about all that was going on, as well as the Bride. I’ve been to weddings all across this country or in our Culture “It’s the Bride’s family that pays for the Wedding!”! And at the famous Kleinfeld Bridal Shop ~ one of the 1st questions about the Dress is “What is the Budget?!?” And for all the Wedding Planner had to put up with and do ~ she was far underpaid!!! Also it is Proper Etiquette to RSVP in the time period requested. And if the Invite doesn’t have a +1 it means you are invited alone. And Who invites more people than they think are going to come??? There are Fire Restrictions regulating how many people can be at any Venue ~ here anyway?!?! This Groom and Wedding Planner are incredible ~ hats off to them for hanging in there. I have to stop… because it’s hard to be nice…
I got called a bridezilla for being upset one of my maid of honors would post on social media but would not reply to me in regards to the wedding, the makeup, and the hair she offered to do. Nope I was not bridezilla
I never understand why there are so many people thinking the cake is just dekoration and noone ever eats the cake. Have they never been to a wedding? The cake very much gets eaten.
Or is that an american thing that the cake won't be eaten or it is just for show?
I never even got cake at my nieces wedding. I was busy being a hostess and helping to get the guests downstairs during tornado warnings! ( several times).
No, the cake is eaten. We also had a decorated sheet cake to make sure that we had enough
Loved it.
Will he also tell her she can’t have anesthesia during the birth of their first born?
Mio has me in stitches.
How did you book a venue and then over invited people to your wedding? The RVSP issue wouldn’t happen
That's the point of An RSVP so that you guarantee a seat in it fits in their plans
With budget being a big concern they could have saved a lot of money by not using a bridal planner/consultant however with this couple her psychological services were a huge benefit and probably worth it.
are they still married? how long did it last?
The top part of the cake is supposed to be saved for the first anniversary in the freezer. I don't see how anyone person can know 200 or more people to invite for a wedding. The guy thinking u aren't suppose to have a cake ,crazy. If u r having a ceremony u r supposed to have a wedding cake. Some people also have a 1 layer sheet groom cake.
I agree. But I also agree you don't have to spend thousands on sugared flowers and special shaped tiers etc.
These women are really something else I can’t believe how greedy they are and I want I want I want
I WANT, I WANT, I WANT!!!!
I like her groom
He is such a Scrooge. That’s a big Red flag. He is homely and classless. He is a Bully and You can do better.
We women often spend an awful lot of time & energy creating and maintaining relationships. She doesn’t want to harm those friendship at any cost. And it’s her day.
Why the hell is she marrying this guy! That was a jerk move selling that ring
contract is broken and that was being unreasonable, i agree with the husband or change the venue