Dear women, please let's stop stressing Tony. He is doing all he can do, am so thankful for you Tony. You have changed my mindset and am at peace with life. Continue doing the lord's work, those that want to listen are listening and getting the RESULTS! Thank you Tony , once again.
When I say this man has changed my life, he honestly has no idea. I haven't slept with a man since December 17th of 2020. I remember the day, time and hour. I been playing the game by MY rules all year long. These niggas won't so much as smell my perfume again until they learn to value me. Period. His messages helped me learn to truly love myself. I'm on a whole different playing field now and I have never been happier!
Ladies remember that no matter how many women some men sleep with or who they are with it’ll never be enough. It’s an empty void that only God can fill. No one outside of you should be responsible for your happiness. If a man leaves let him go or you’ll learn the hard way
I married my high school sweetheart and have been married for 40 years. I put my husband on a pedestal and he left too many times than I can count. Now I know my worth and I’m a queen and now he wants to come back. I’ve shut that door and moving on. I now know what I’m worth and I will not settle. ❤️
Settle FOR the BEST! AND LET GOD DO THE REST! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT AND! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US ! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE In YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SEPT 2021
"He sees you as a wife...but he's not a husband." That says it all. Men ain't stupid. They know what a good woman looks like. They just hope they can get one with a low enough self esteem so that when he pops back in, she will be willing to deal with the bs. Over and over and over. I know. I have been there. If he wants to walk, let him. God was taking out the trash for you. Don't bring that filth back into your home. Cause after they been with somebody else, they don't even smell the same.
God was taking out the trash and I did just keep bringing it back in. Ugh. I thought it was good to try to keep the family together but I was not only bringing the trash back in but feeding it to my kids and everybody else. Never ever again. I think of myself as a Queen now and I know what a good man looks and feels like now and I’ll never go back to that.
Women love asking that question. He come back cause he know he got a fool in you. You're his revolving door. You give him s*x, a place to lay-up, & food. If you don't love yourself enough to know you deserve better, what makes you think he loves you? He loves what you can do for him. Would you want a man to treat your daughter like that?
Tony isnt lying. My ex started to act different, im not green so i knew he was cheating. I told him lets just be friends, he wanted to keep ties w/me & still do him. I hung on for a while bc i was attached then i had an epiphany and CUT HIM OFF out of nowhere. He sends random texts every blue moon but i never reply. He has a regular job but hangs w ball players and want their lifestyle. Im not a bookmark for you to come back after u feel youve had your fun. I went on bout my business.
IF A MAN WANT TO WALK AWAY.. LET THEM GO.. BECUZ IN THE END GOD, WILL TURN EVERYTHING AROUND FOR OUR GOOD.. AND MUST I SAY A MAN KNOWS A GOOD WOMAN WHEN HE SEE ONE.. MOST OF THE TIME THEY ARE NOT READY FOR A COMMITMENT 😄😃..THANKS TONY FOR YOUR EXCELLENT ADVICE.. GREAT PERSENTATION 👍
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING ENLIGHTENING WORDS OF WISDOM! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS! ( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!( GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOWL! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SEPT 2021
A wise woman will only get played one time when she is young and naive. After she mature she is the one that gonna rule the game with her wisdom. She knows when and how to stop foolishness in a heartbeat.
Tony said these men not doin right for Allah, Yeshua, Yahwey, God, Buddah, Prophet Muhammad, Hazos Christos, or Jesus Christ. That took me out. This was a total treat. Matter fact, let me rewind this. Lol!!! 🤣🙌🏾
@@mstenacious274 I’m 45 and they’re these kind in my age group as well, definitely. You just have to wonder really Y? Just Y? I hear Tony surely but what is there? A 40+ yr old man playing games is scary but at 62 still tryn it?😳😓
So to me it’s still a “stay off your back” situation. If he leaves YOU, you haven’t lost any thing. If You Leave him, you haven’t lost anything. He didn’t get a part of you, no soul ties.
Exactly sis! If you are not SLEEPING with these fools, you've lost absolutely NOTHING!!! The power we hold between our legs is priceless. These men are so butthurt when they realize their penis don't run shit over here! LOL
Over the years I've learned that a man can only leave and come back if we as women allow him to leave and come back into our lives. We as women have to adopt the attitude and mindset of once you blatantly disrespect and disregard me there is no coming back. Let them know that door is closed forever.
At 32 minutes you are speaking the absolute truth! Men change for the woman he wants. A woman has the right man when he's willing to be accountable and you grow together. It has to be MUTUAL. Anything you name in a relationship has to be MUTUAL. You can't love enough for "the both of you" etc etc
My fiancé is that man..so I took my baby and left two days ago. I’m giving myself at least two months and if I don’t see him doing what’s necessary to get US back, He’s out of luck. Im tired. 💁🏽♀️
@@tenea24 that's awesome tho. You shld feel really good about yourself cuz I'm older n this is my 2nd Marriage n I've let him by w way too much n now I'm paying the price.....it's not good for your confidence (mine atleast)
I just can’t with men anymore. I am trying to believe there are good ones. But Lawwwd they keep showing me they are so selfish. The lies and betrayal. Women as objects. When will have to stop protecting ourselves from the ones that are supposed to protect us. Love to all the ladies who are rising. 👑
You are the wind beneath my wings. I truly used to think my innocence was a virtue. It hurts me to say, it was the source of my every pain. That we must be knowledgeable of these toxic worldly ways is more than disappointing.
Whew. Once we're over, it's a done deal for me. No off and on revolving door policy. God gives chance, after chance, after chance, after.... My name is not Jesus...😅
He dropped so many gems other than the three reasons men leave.The biggest thing that stood out to my spirit was, when he said as a wife your husband will listen to you more than anyone else, and if he doesn't that's not your husband.🤷🏽♀️ He then backed it up with scripture "..a man shall leave his mother/father and cleave to his wife.(Genesis 2:24) To me staying and honoring one another is love. The Bible says the devil roams around seeing who he can devour (1Peter 5:8) Men that go back and forth roaming from one woman to the next snatching souls through sex are dangerous like this. I truly appreciate all this wisdom and Tony's humor as well 😁. Ladies let us love on ourselves and who God created us to be.🙏🏽💜
From my experience the reason why they come back is because Plan B did not work out. They are bored you have the supplies that they need. Most of all you keep taking them back when they come back.
I believe they come back to see if you have grown as an individual or if they can come back over and over again and wreak havoc on your life. Don't ever take a person back once they leave.
Word! Another coach I listen to said they come back to check if you’re still foolish and dumb🤦♀️🤭 May sound harsh and unreal but so true most of the time. God, wisdom and discernement please🙏
yes and after 25 yrs he hasnt changed I told him years ago if you dont leave those streets alone its prison or death...he did 30 yrs in prison ...he spent over 1/2 his life in jail almost 60.. no job, no pension, no skills !!!
They do come back because they’ve scammed everyone else and there’s nowhere else for them to turn too. They love to see people in fear and torment. It makes their day and it boost their huge egos.
The one that leaves you is not the one wasting your time, it's the one who keeps coming back who is. And please stop tattooing each others names on your bodies🙄
When I told a therapist (who was a man btw) that my husband was being difficult, bad attitude and all, the therapist said "Then why wont he leave? If hes so miserable then he would leave!" Lol. So basically he was telling me that it was all games for attention! So tired of this bull.
@@p_tiffanii Thank you. He is the issue! Lol. I dont work harder for him anymore. I'm so done. I'm working harder on my job & my Paralegal degree ;) My kids r big.
The lengths these men will go to keep us in their web of lies are appalling. If they leave, turn them loose. If need be, let them go for good. My name ain't BooBoo The Fool or Wanda Walk All Over Me.😩😆💪🏽
YES, going from relationship to relationship and still unhappy and miserable, the grass is never greener on the other side, and my ex is now regretting everything he has done to me, hes a grown boy that needs so many prayers and therapy.
The grass is always greener where there is more manure... Mine has aged 3 centuries in 3 months since we broke up. Looking like who shot Johnny and forgot to kill him with his cougar old enough to be his grandmother. Left me a stable 34 year old. They need prayer, fasting, exorcism and therapy for life.
exactly !! they dont wanna do better, I warned my ex 25 years ago--prison or death if you dont leave those streets along...he got 28 years in prison!! hes almost 60 and nothing to show for it but aches, pains, misery and regret!!
I don't wish my ex of almost 12 years any harm or ill will, but i pray God will allow him to see my worth and how much of a treasure i am.. it's been a little over a month and i am still heartbroken.. i hope one day it hits him like a ton of bricks and he can't be without me and will do the work to win me back.. just my honest feelings.. i hope that grass ain't greener on the side he's on.. please pray for me 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Tong Gaskins: "A man does not leave something that he loves." When he leaves and returns it is because he does not respect you and he KNOWS that you do not respect yourself. Let us now move on to a hard question like how to solve world poverty...
I have heard of a hall pass and I have never experienced a cheater until recently . So true that " the player" makes up fights to leave. I do not like games
I think that´s why men love listening to the man in the dark, because they´re not looking to better themselves or get proper knowledge; they want their toxic perceptions about women and relationships validated and he sure does an excellent job at making them continue the damaging cycle. But what´s astonishing is how all those men fail to realise that they´re role models to their sons and daughters and their words and actions matter in ways they don´t get due to their ego having first priority. Children pick up on far more than what adults give them credit for - just because they can´t verbalise it doesn´t mean it didn´t make a lasting imprint. These men have the power to change for the better and yet they happily and ignorantly choose the unhealthy path.
What you said is true about them doing it ignorantly. They don’t understand the damage they are doing as the head. They don’t realize that because they don’t know their real purpose as men.
yesss, and thats why our youth dont have role models, you cant teach your son FAMILY values, because most dont work, lie, cheat, and manipulate their way through life,
I don't chase them I replace them. So yeah take a break. When break time is over you've lost a job.👏🏾😂 Learned that in my early 20's Im not a game show. Sometimes it hurts but that pain is growth yo💕😂😂😂
Yes.. stay the hell over there!!! He leaves me.. u don’t like me like that… keep it moving and kick a whole entire bag of rocks… u have what u wanted! Now keep it!! Straight truth!!
Yesss TG. My ex led me on for 7 months after we broke up. We hung out took trips slept together like a whole couple. Smh. Then dump me saying he seeing someone else and now they in love talking bout marriage. Smh. I just walked away hes a tattoo artist told me he would still do my tattoos uh no sir. Hurt but time heals all wounds and this too shall pass
Giving credits to whom it's due. I'm giving it to you, Tony. I started listening to you in Fall 2019. Before I had standards, but they were weak where I would be willing to compromise. Now 2 years later, you helped me understand men better. I'm like a sponge learning and applying. All you shared are tools I use to help navigate the dating scend. Plus tips you shared about how to meet men are accurate; me not doing online dating, I've been meeting single men everywhere nowadays. So, we shall see what God is doing. Thank you, Sir!
I just focus on God myself I do not have no time for a man. Thank God I am single, thank God I left social media. Thank God for everything that I have no relationship drama I am at peace in my life.
Yessssss!!!!! I left my husband of 9yrs because he didn’t want to get financially right, it’s been 2yrs and we are back dating and he is a different person!!!! He making more money than me now!!!
I give a man one strike and he's out. I don't have time for the nonsense and game playing. I don't want no man that doesn't want me. His loss and another man's gain. It hurts sometimes but at least I have a piece of mind. Be positive! Let love find you💕
Some men no matter the age never grow up. I dealt with a 51 yr old that was in n out of my life. But he was also abusive to me verbally , physically n mentally. I was afraid of him. Men never grow up
I DATED, A 57YRLD DIVORCED MAN..THINKING HIS MATURED ENOUGH TO KNOW, WHAT HE WANTED..SUPRISE HE STARTED TO VERBALLY AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSE ME..I ,SPOKE TO HIS X WIFE, AFTER A YEAR THAT HE DUMPED ME..SHE TOLD ME, HE ALSO,ABUSED HER..SHE SAID SHE HAD ENOUGH..HE LEFT ME..IS BACK WITH HIS X GF..WHOM HE BROKE UP WITH 9X,ALREADY..HE ALSO ABUSED HER....SHE BELIEVES SHES GOING TO CHANGE HIM...🤔
I’d make you proud Tony. Not going to list credentials but just know there are a few guys out there now that walked away thinking dang how she know that lol. And there will be plenty more until it’s right.
Yes!!… I listen to him like he’s the most interesting man I’ve ever met.., -- them when he starts SHOWING UP as “ one of Mr G’s warning videos”…… Me: Ughhm.. I’ve enjoyed our time talking and coffee outings but this is not a good fit …… They don’t even see it coming ..,, lol
We can all put someone on a pedestal and ignore the things that they say or do , because we're in love with idea of them, in love with the perception of who their are in our own minds. I was with a guy off and on . He was seeing others and I wasn't, over a few years of going through this he left and got engaged to another women. He partially blocked me of social media because I sent a not pleasant message when I found out. After a year he sends me a message wanting to be friends then practically begging for me and to start of where we left off. I said No . Then he would use the line of I'm having lots of sex , are you ? Card and I knew then he came back out of his ego not out of heart. After a few months I decided to block him and not return back. Looking back I have realised we both put each other on a pedestal also I went into it expecting more when really there was nothing in it . I am only responsible for my own actions and choices. I am human I make mistakes . Reflecting on this helps me see where I went wrong and also knowing if a guy was genuinely interested in me or not .
Tony, as a mother of (2) adult men I want to let you know that your honesty is well accepted over here. I must say that when my son and I have (son-to-mother private conversations), I sometimes find the stories they confess to me about what they were really up back in the days. I can't help but be astonished that they were doing more than I thought. As they have matured and grown into very respectful men I just thank the LORD for all his protection over my children's lives. I am so blessed and proud to see the development of my sons into adult men. I hold nothing against a real man taking responsibility for his past and changing his life into becoming a better man! GOD bless you Tony because you are truly living your "Authentic Self" by being transparent and helping others find their way into who GOD has chosen them to be!
Tony you got ur gas on the pedal & not letting up 👏🏾👏🏾 keep doing the Lord’s Work though . You helping restore balance/ order . Some people like myself want to do relationships right 💎💕
I've just recently been listening to u and I just want to say thank u for always being straight forward, listening to u saves alot of "why why why," talk.....most of the time it's the hard truth that the man doesn't want u and its the woman not seeing the truth!
You are spot onTony!!! I know one got another girl pregnant and now wants to be alone for a while! Poor girls hurting a lot of them. You speak the truth Tony, this is needed for so many women.
Omg I love him! He knows what and how to say it. I don't anyone else that can have my attention and keep me listening/ watching a video for over an hour. Thank you for all you do and say!!
Married 5 years to someone who presents Narcissistic Traits, great provider, attempts at fathering the best he can, HORRIBLE HUSBAND. Religious but broken and doesn’t know God. Knows of God via childhood “religious exposure”. This next comment is to the wives on here, when Tony says, “the same toxic energy I had in that relationship I brought it to my wife…” he’s right! Wives, don’t run for divorce! Leave, separate, value yourself. Let pray and God whip your husband. Don’t sleep with him. Love him. Love him via kindness and working on yourself . I am learning this daily. Don’t give in to his “love bombing”, change and time is the only answer. Reclaim your celibacy with God. Recalibrate you thinking. Let GOD deal with your husband! DO NOT SET A TIME. ONLY GOD KNOWS. Pray the God’s will be done in your life/marriage. Pray, Cry, take boxing lessons, watch laughing CZcams’s, sing, pray, cry, … To be continued… Thanks for the topic Tony.
God Bless you Bro Tony thank you for so much wisdom I will always keep to heart if a man leaves let him stay gone. And of course so much more nuggets you've given out. Am so grateful for your teaching and wisdom.❤️🙏🏾😊
Thank you Tony. You are the first man that I have ever seriously listened to that tells it like it is. It may be very hard for most women to walk away from a man they love, but why stay with anyone that disrespects you and doesn't truly love you? Women out there- protect yourself. Keep telling them Tony. If it helps only a few it's worth it. Bless you and your wife & family.
ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE Tony I am laughing!!!! You don't know how funny you are!!! "I did not change for..... that whole spill you.did .... Ladies you have to understand what he just told us in this video. He said clearly one of the best reasons ever to that yoy need to ve the baddest thing walking mind body and so because that is the only way that you ate going to have a successful relationship. Tony I am laughing my butt off when you said..... "I got me and ol sucker here.... Oh my God! THE BLESSED TRIBE
Dear women, please let's stop stressing Tony. He is doing all he can do, am so thankful for you Tony. You have changed my mindset and am at peace with life.
Continue doing the lord's work, those that want to listen are listening and getting the RESULTS! Thank you Tony , once again.
Yasssss....this man is doing the most.
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When I say this man has changed my life, he honestly has no idea. I haven't slept with a man since December 17th of 2020. I remember the day, time and hour. I been playing the game by MY rules all year long. These niggas won't so much as smell my perfume again until they learn to value me. Period. His messages helped me learn to truly love myself. I'm on a whole different playing field now and I have never been happier!
ty Mr and Mrs Gaston. 💝
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Ladies remember that no matter how many women some men sleep with or who they are with it’ll never be enough. It’s an empty void that only God can fill. No one outside of you should be responsible for your happiness. If a man leaves let him go or you’ll learn the hard way
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Facts 💯
@Joyful n Blessed Exactly!
Let the church say amen
Amen!
I married my high school sweetheart and have been married for 40 years. I put my husband on a pedestal and he left too many times than I can count. Now I know my worth and I’m a queen and now he wants to come back. I’ve shut that door and moving on. I now know what I’m worth and I will not settle. ❤️
I know that’s right 👑❤️
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I know that’s right Queen don’t look back ❤️
Settle FOR the BEST! AND LET GOD DO THE REST! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT AND! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US ! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE In YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SEPT 2021
Love it!!
"He sees you as a wife...but he's not a husband." That says it all. Men ain't stupid. They know what a good woman looks like. They just hope they can get one with a low enough self esteem so that when he pops back in, she will be willing to deal with the bs. Over and over and over. I know. I have been there. If he wants to walk, let him. God was taking out the trash for you. Don't bring that filth back into your home. Cause after they been with somebody else, they don't even smell the same.
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exactly, once your are gone, you are damaged goods, and I see you in a whole different light--things will never be the same!!
God was taking out the trash and I did just keep bringing it back in. Ugh. I thought it was good to try to keep the family together but I was not only bringing the trash back in but feeding it to my kids and everybody else. Never ever again. I think of myself as a Queen now and I know what a good man looks and feels like now and I’ll never go back to that.
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100%
I was so naive when it came to men until I found tony! I’m only 22, but I’m glad I’m learning about men at a young age.
You are blessed took me over 20 years to figure this stuff out and I'm still learning
great !! stay young and single until GOD sends you your KING !! take nothing less and never compromise ... your morals, dignity, or body!!
You are blessed. When I was your age, I was somewhere playing house with my ex....getting cheated on and abused. Glad you are learning early.
I'm 28 but I agree
I’m 22 too!
But I’m telling you as a woman! These men and their Momma’s be the main ones who need counseling..
YESSSSSSSSS
This! Their moms coddle them, never hold them accountable. The upbringing says everything you need to know about a person.
So true! Spoiled narcistic egocentric pricks!
Just found this channel n I'm already grateful. Thank you!
And I agree with this comment,, totally!
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“1. He wanted to cheat in peace.
2. She didn’t want him.
3. She was a downgrade.” TG
Thank you
Thank you! 💖
Thank you!
11. Stank wig...🤣🤣🤣🤣
Not just three reasons. Lots more
Women love asking that question. He come back cause he know he got a fool in you. You're his revolving door. You give him s*x, a place to lay-up, & food. If you don't love yourself enough to know you deserve better, what makes you think he loves you? He loves what you can do for him. Would you want a man to treat your daughter like that?
They ask cause they know they gonna let him come back.
@@laina1976 just wasting TG time. He can be helping someone that really wants the help.
That part
Want somebody to tell them something different.
@@mojadah10 but in the end they'll get the same results from him...nothing
Tony isnt lying. My ex started to act different, im not green so i knew he was cheating. I told him lets just be friends, he wanted to keep ties w/me & still do him. I hung on for a while bc i was attached then i had an epiphany and CUT HIM OFF out of nowhere. He sends random texts every blue moon but i never reply. He has a regular job but hangs w ball players and want their lifestyle. Im not a bookmark for you to come back after u feel youve had your fun. I went on bout my business.
Ladies know your worth.. Grown boys don’t deserve your time
Facts!!
Amen!! Never again!!!!! 🙌
IF A MAN WANT TO WALK AWAY.. LET THEM GO.. BECUZ IN THE END GOD, WILL TURN EVERYTHING AROUND FOR OUR GOOD.. AND MUST I SAY A MAN KNOWS A GOOD WOMAN WHEN HE SEE ONE.. MOST OF THE TIME THEY ARE NOT READY FOR A COMMITMENT 😄😃..THANKS TONY FOR YOUR EXCELLENT ADVICE.. GREAT PERSENTATION 👍
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AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING ENLIGHTENING WORDS OF WISDOM! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS! ( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!( GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOWL! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SEPT 2021
A wise woman will only get played one time when she is young and naive. After she mature she is the one that gonna rule the game with her wisdom. She knows when and how to stop foolishness in a heartbeat.
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That's why men like young women. They're naive.
That part!
Well Spoken🎯
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Tony said these men not doin right for Allah, Yeshua, Yahwey, God, Buddah, Prophet Muhammad, Hazos Christos, or Jesus Christ. That took me out. This was a total treat. Matter fact, let me rewind this. Lol!!! 🤣🙌🏾
He’s so funny omg 🤣🤣🤣😭😩
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That was the best part of the video 😂
He covered it, sad but true!!
Tony was super young back then. Men still have these silly antics at 30.
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@@peacefaith560 Yes Lordt at 55. And that’s the sad part.
@@mstenacious274 62 is even worse🤦🏽♀️
@@mstenacious274 I’m 45 and they’re these kind in my age group as well, definitely. You just have to wonder really Y? Just Y? I hear Tony surely but what is there? A 40+ yr old man playing games is scary but at 62 still tryn it?😳😓
@@mstenacious274 Facts on top of more facts👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
So to me it’s still a “stay off your back” situation. If he leaves YOU, you haven’t lost any thing. If You Leave him, you haven’t lost anything. He didn’t get a part of you, no soul ties.
Exactly sis! If you are not SLEEPING with these fools, you've lost absolutely NOTHING!!! The power we hold between our legs is priceless. These men are so butthurt when they realize their penis don't run shit over here! LOL
U got it!!
Ummm 🤔 your speaking as if this doesn’t apply to long term committed relationships
Over the years I've learned that a man can only leave and come back if we as women allow him to leave and come back into our lives. We as women have to adopt the attitude and mindset of once you blatantly disrespect and disregard me there is no coming back. Let them know that door is closed forever.
if you have an opinion and your home and legs are closed until marriage..they dont come back..
At 32 minutes you are speaking the absolute truth! Men change for the woman he wants. A woman has the right man when he's willing to be accountable and you grow together. It has to be MUTUAL. Anything you name in a relationship has to be MUTUAL. You can't love enough for "the both of you" etc etc
Also, I forgot to add, there are some men who won’t change for anyone. And who will marry who ever will put up with them.
Yup my dad did that
My fiancé is that man..so I took my baby and left two days ago. I’m giving myself at least two months and if I don’t see him doing what’s necessary to get US back, He’s out of luck. Im tired. 💁🏽♀️
@@tenea24 that's awesome tho. You shld feel really good about yourself cuz I'm older n this is my 2nd Marriage n I've let him by w way too much n now I'm paying the price.....it's not good for your confidence (mine atleast)
I just can’t with men anymore. I am trying to believe there are good ones. But Lawwwd they keep showing me they are so selfish. The lies and betrayal. Women as objects.
When will have to stop protecting ourselves from the ones that are supposed to protect us. Love to all the ladies who are rising. 👑
Fr fr its like we a hunting 🎮 for these assholes
So in other words. Your Husband will listen to you. if he doesn’t then 1. HE’S NOT YOUR HUSBAND. 2. KEEP YOUR STANDARDS. 🙏🏾
You are the wind beneath my wings.
I truly used to think my innocence was a virtue. It hurts me to say, it was the source of my every pain. That we must be knowledgeable of these toxic worldly ways is more than disappointing.
Me tooooo!!! Years of being taken advantage of because of my innocent naive ways. Never again!!
You and me both🤦♀️ Thank God for his faithful servant Tony here🙏
This 👌
The problem is he treated me like I was ‘a dime a dozen’ when I’m actually ‘ 1 in a million’
Whew. Once we're over, it's a done deal for me. No off and on revolving door policy. God gives chance, after chance, after chance, after.... My name is not Jesus...😅
Right..Amen to that 😇
This the 1!!!!💯
That is why I use my block industry once they leave, I block and block on every side.. You can't eat your cake and have it back.
Not "go on over there with stank wig". 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣. Tony you are hilarious !!!!!
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Ladies take note like seriously, he really dropping game on how these men really
are and the lies they tell
He dropped so many gems other than the three reasons men leave.The biggest thing that stood out to my spirit was, when he said as a wife your husband will listen to you more than anyone else, and if he doesn't that's not your husband.🤷🏽♀️ He then backed it up with scripture "..a man shall leave his mother/father and cleave to his wife.(Genesis 2:24) To me staying and honoring one another is love. The Bible says the devil roams around seeing who he can devour (1Peter 5:8) Men that go back and forth roaming from one woman to the next snatching souls through sex are dangerous like this. I truly appreciate all this wisdom and Tony's humor as well 😁. Ladies let us love on ourselves and who God created us to be.🙏🏽💜
From my experience the reason why they come back is because Plan B did not work out. They are bored you have the supplies that they need. Most of all you keep taking them back when they come back.
Such a sad situation to be in. If they left you…Let them go!♥️
I believe they come back to see if you have grown as an individual or if they can come back over and over again and wreak havoc on your life. Don't ever take a person back once they leave.
Word! Another coach I listen to said they come back to check if you’re still foolish and dumb🤦♀️🤭 May sound harsh and unreal but so true most of the time. God, wisdom and discernement please🙏
yes and after 25 yrs he hasnt changed I told him years ago if you dont leave those streets alone its prison or death...he did 30 yrs in prison ...he spent over 1/2 his life in jail almost 60.. no job, no pension, no skills !!!
They do come back because they’ve scammed everyone else and there’s nowhere else for them to turn too. They love to see people in fear and torment. It makes their day and it boost their huge egos.
Amen! Wish I had learned this valuable lesson when I was younger!!
@@joycewatt800 me too. We know now. ❤️
The one that leaves you is not the one wasting your time, it's the one who keeps coming back who is.
And please stop tattooing each others names on your bodies🙄
Love how transparent Tony is. The lies he told his ex. I was told the same lies but I was naive then. Glad I can laugh about it now 😄
When I told a therapist (who was a man btw) that my husband was being difficult, bad attitude and all, the therapist said "Then why wont he leave? If hes so miserable then he would leave!" Lol. So basically he was telling me that it was all games for attention! So tired of this bull.
@@p_tiffanii Thank you. He is the issue! Lol. I dont work harder for him anymore. I'm so done. I'm working harder on my job & my Paralegal degree ;) My kids r big.
@@p_tiffanii Thank you girl! I'm just really learning what all of that means. Yes, I'm trying to put the energy on myself ;)
The lengths these men will go to keep us in their web of lies are appalling. If they leave, turn them loose. If need be, let them go for good. My name ain't BooBoo The Fool or Wanda Walk All Over Me.😩😆💪🏽
exactly
YES, going from relationship to relationship and still unhappy and miserable, the grass is never greener on the other side, and my ex is now regretting everything he has done to me, hes a grown boy that needs so many prayers and therapy.
The grass is always greener where there is more manure... Mine has aged 3 centuries in 3 months since we broke up. Looking like who shot Johnny and forgot to kill him with his cougar old enough to be his grandmother. Left me a stable 34 year old. They need prayer, fasting, exorcism and therapy for life.
Don't you waste your time praying for him lol a man will change for who he wants to change for . Facts
Same his ex girlfriend cheated on him with his friend 🤷🏽♀️
exactly !! they dont wanna do better, I warned my ex 25 years ago--prison or death if you dont leave those streets along...he got 28 years in prison!! hes almost 60 and nothing to show for it but aches, pains, misery and regret!!
I don't wish my ex of almost 12 years any harm or ill will, but i pray God will allow him to see my worth and how much of a treasure i am.. it's been a little over a month and i am still heartbroken.. i hope one day it hits him like a ton of bricks and he can't be without me and will do the work to win me back.. just my honest feelings.. i hope that grass ain't greener on the side he's on.. please pray for me 🙏🏼🙏🏼
These men won’t Do Right! Point blank PERIOD. ✌🏽❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
they foul n dirty
Do the work on yourself and do the proper healing so you never find yourself in a situation like this
Let’s take a moment to thank Queen Sheri for standing her ground ❤️
💯 Which shows how a woman can benefit a man for good. If God can use you to push a man into His purpose that’s a worthy calling.
Tony videos be so juicy and funny that u dont even wanna watch regular TV. Lol!!😁🙌🏾
So true! 😂😂
Ikr I agree 😁
“Tonytube”😂🤗
😂 The lies you told that woman after being gone for three days lol
Sometimes I wish I could act like a boy🎤🎼
Lol....cant they come up wit em 😂😂😂😂
😂 i was thinking the same thing
You're going to get killedt 🤣
Lmboo
Great messageI now I need a sweatshirt or shirt that says "This woman is from the blessed tribe" ❤️🙏🏻
I need a t-shirt that says " Let's get some UNDERSTANDMENT now!" Lol.
Tony is so real but his expressions and the way he tells his stories is absolutely hilarious!! :0
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Ok. I be cracking up
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When he said "women haters with stuff spinning on the desk!".. lord I hollered....lol
Tong Gaskins: "A man does not leave something that he loves." When he leaves and returns it is because he does not respect you and he KNOWS that you do not respect yourself. Let us now move on to a hard question like how to solve world poverty...
It’s set up to be that way love ain’t changing til God come back
OMG this hit hard.
That's not always true thou
Block, block, block. I let him come back one time, yup I was stupid. Never again. Too old for games.
I have heard of a hall pass and I have never experienced a cheater until recently . So true that " the player" makes up fights to leave. I do not like games
I think that´s why men love listening to the man in the dark, because they´re not looking to better themselves or get proper knowledge; they want their toxic perceptions about women and relationships validated and he sure does an excellent job at making them continue the damaging cycle. But what´s astonishing is how all those men fail to realise that they´re role models to their sons and daughters and their words and actions matter in ways they don´t get due to their ego having first priority. Children pick up on far more than what adults give them credit for - just because they can´t verbalise it doesn´t mean it didn´t make a lasting imprint. These men have the power to change for the better and yet they happily and ignorantly choose the unhealthy path.
Love your amazing spot on explanation. “those men fail to realize they’re role models to their sons and daughters”!!! So very true! 🙏🏼
What you said is true about them doing it ignorantly. They don’t understand the damage they are doing as the head. They don’t realize that because they don’t know their real purpose as men.
yesss, and thats why our youth dont have role models, you cant teach your son FAMILY values, because most dont work, lie, cheat, and manipulate their way through life,
He thought the grass was greener on the other side but it was mildew he was slipping and sliding 😂😂😂
I don't chase them I replace them. So yeah take a break. When break time is over you've lost a job.👏🏾😂 Learned that in my early 20's Im not a game show. Sometimes it hurts but that pain is growth yo💕😂😂😂
I love that, same here, don't chase but replace....altho my 2nd marriage n I'm feeling pretty stuck....gettin old n tired of it all for sure.
@@deniser.826
Sending 🕊️ peace blessings 🕉️ and clarity ✨🤍✨
Amen, I could have not said it better. " He sees you as a wife, but he is not a good husband.
Yes.. stay the hell over there!!! He leaves me.. u don’t like me like that… keep it moving and kick a whole entire bag of rocks… u have what u wanted! Now keep it!! Straight truth!!
Yesss TG. My ex led me on for 7 months after we broke up. We hung out took trips slept together like a whole couple. Smh. Then dump me saying he seeing someone else and now they in love talking bout marriage. Smh. I just walked away hes a tattoo artist told me he would still do my tattoos uh no sir. Hurt but time heals all wounds and this too shall pass
Nope met her while doing her tattoo. They hooked up one night and 3-4 weeks later they swear they in love. Chile bye.
I've been there
I feel bad for the girl that is marrying him she has no idea what she is getting herself into
“I got some spray for my wig” 🤣🤣🤣 I am crying laughing!!
Giving credits to whom it's due. I'm giving it to you, Tony. I started listening to you in Fall 2019. Before I had standards, but they were weak where I would be willing to compromise. Now 2 years later, you helped me understand men better. I'm like a sponge learning and applying. All you shared are tools I use to help navigate the dating scend. Plus tips you shared about how to meet men are accurate; me not doing online dating, I've been meeting single men everywhere nowadays. So, we shall see what God is doing. Thank you, Sir!
I just focus on God myself I do not have no time for a man. Thank God I am single, thank God I left social media. Thank God for everything that I have no relationship drama I am at peace in my life.
Tony, u should have a t-shirt that reads, " Oh my Goodtness." I been saying it all day, just how Tony says it. Lol!!!😄
Love tony !
I actually do say that now as a regular part of my vocabulary 🤣🤣 you are not alone! Lolll
i be copying him too lmao.
Great idea!
Yessssss!!!!! I left my husband of 9yrs because he didn’t want to get financially right, it’s been 2yrs and we are back dating and he is a different person!!!! He making more money than me now!!!
@@blueseptember2174 yesss!!!! He helps out so much than before
Tony be speaking the truth! I cant even bear to hear it always cause it hurts too bad. Love the comments for the cliff notes
I give a man one strike and he's out. I don't have time for the nonsense and game playing. I don't want no man that doesn't want me. His loss and another man's gain. It hurts sometimes but at least I have a piece of mind. Be positive! Let love find you💕
Hello friend do you need help saving your relationship
Hope not lost
Most men don't want to listen to another man who is not where you at Tony,God bless you for your service ty
Not "Stink Wig" 😆😆😆😆😆 Tony, you are hilarious, may God continue to bless and keep you and your family!
“He’s using his homeboy as in excuse to spit in your face” oohhh lord that is so true. I felt that
Mr. Gaskins coming with the brutal truth and hilarious comments 🤣🤣🤣🤣 love yourself change the locks 🔒
When Tony said to peek through them blinds, I woulda just called the police lol. Aint even gonna peek, I'd just let the cops handle him🤣🤣🤣
Tony and his transparency is real life. Tell the truth and shame the devil.
Yup my x introduced me to his whole family just to keep me around so he wouldn’t be lonely 😭
Some men no matter the age never grow up. I dealt with a 51 yr old that was in n out of my life. But he was also abusive to me verbally , physically n mentally. I was afraid of him. Men never grow up
I hope you are safely away from that situation now.
I DATED, A 57YRLD DIVORCED MAN..THINKING HIS MATURED ENOUGH TO KNOW, WHAT HE WANTED..SUPRISE HE STARTED TO VERBALLY AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSE ME..I ,SPOKE TO HIS X WIFE, AFTER A YEAR THAT HE DUMPED ME..SHE TOLD ME, HE ALSO,ABUSED HER..SHE SAID SHE HAD ENOUGH..HE LEFT ME..IS BACK WITH HIS X GF..WHOM HE BROKE UP WITH 9X,ALREADY..HE ALSO ABUSED HER....SHE BELIEVES SHES GOING TO CHANGE HIM...🤔
Honey 🍯 pot, TG I fell out of my chair 🪑. Be blessed.
I’d make you proud Tony. Not going to list credentials but just know there are a few guys out there now that walked away thinking dang how she know that lol. And there will be plenty more until it’s right.
Yes!!… I listen to him like he’s the most interesting man I’ve ever met.., -- them when he starts SHOWING UP as “ one of Mr G’s warning videos”……
Me: Ughhm.. I’ve enjoyed our time talking and coffee outings but this is not a good fit ……
They don’t even see it coming ..,, lol
I'm proud of you. It's a very difficult thing to do !
We can all put someone on a pedestal and ignore the things that they say or do , because we're in love with idea of them, in love with the perception of who their are in our own minds.
I was with a guy off and on . He was seeing others and I wasn't, over a few years of going through this he left and got engaged to another women. He partially blocked me of social media because I sent a not pleasant message when I found out. After a year he sends me a message wanting to be friends then practically begging for me and to start of where we left off. I said No . Then he would use the line of I'm having lots of sex , are you ? Card and I knew then he came back out of his ego not out of heart. After a few months I decided to block him and not return back. Looking back I have realised we both put each other on a pedestal also I went into it expecting more when really there was nothing in it . I am only responsible for my own actions and choices. I am human I make mistakes . Reflecting on this helps me see where I went wrong and also knowing if a guy was genuinely interested in me or not .
Ladies this why u have to level up cuz then no matter what she's a down grade
Tony, as a mother of (2) adult men I want to let you know that your honesty is well accepted over here. I must say that when my son and I have (son-to-mother private conversations), I sometimes find the stories they confess to me about what they were really up back in the days. I can't help but be astonished that they were doing more than I thought. As they have matured and grown into very respectful men I just thank the LORD for all his protection over my children's lives. I am so blessed and proud to see the development of my sons into adult men. I hold nothing against a real man taking responsibility for his past and changing his life into becoming a better man! GOD bless you Tony because you are truly living your "Authentic Self" by being transparent and helping others find their way into who GOD has chosen them to be!
Tony you got ur gas on the pedal & not letting up 👏🏾👏🏾 keep doing the Lord’s Work though . You helping restore balance/ order . Some people like myself want to do relationships right 💎💕
"STANK WIG"....IM DEAD 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes! They can't run game on the Bless Tribe 💯
amen
Lol!!! This awesome!! "Look through the blinds and don't answer the door"- Tony Gaskins.
Lol he got me laughing while I'm getting educated about how men think 😂😂
U pick your side........ You stay there......forever. ♥
I've just recently been listening to u and I just want to say thank u for always being straight forward, listening to u saves alot of "why why why," talk.....most of the time it's the hard truth that the man doesn't want u and its the woman not seeing the truth!
Another great message!!! Thank you, Mr. Gaskins!!!!
Much respect Tony, be blessed.
not the honeypot and summers eve lmaoooo lawddd! 🤦🏾♀️😂
thank you big bro, I needed this more than you know ❤️
You are spot onTony!!! I know one got another girl pregnant and now wants to be alone for a while! Poor girls hurting a lot of them.
You speak the truth Tony, this is needed for so many women.
I am single and formication free for the rest of this lifetime. ⭐️⭐️⭐️
Omg I love him! He knows what and how to say it. I don't anyone else that can have my attention and keep me listening/ watching a video for over an hour. Thank you for all you do and say!!
I appreciate what you do. God bless your heart brother.❤️
Thank you for your wisdom and taking the time off to help us...your words do not go on deaf ears from my side...🙏🏽 God bless you and your family...
Amen. To God be the glory! Thank you for listening to the Lord and sharing "the game" with us women. Thanks from BC, Canada 🇨🇦 .
This was a good one! Doesn’t make me upset just preparing for whatever comes my way. Thanks TONY!
Married 5 years to someone who presents Narcissistic Traits, great provider, attempts at fathering the best he can, HORRIBLE HUSBAND. Religious but broken and doesn’t know God. Knows of God via childhood “religious exposure”. This next comment is to the wives on here, when Tony says, “the same toxic energy I had in that relationship I brought it to my wife…” he’s right! Wives, don’t run for divorce! Leave, separate, value yourself. Let pray and God whip your husband. Don’t sleep with him. Love him. Love him via kindness and working on yourself . I am learning this daily. Don’t give in to his “love bombing”, change and time is the only answer. Reclaim your celibacy with God. Recalibrate you thinking. Let GOD deal with your husband! DO NOT SET A TIME. ONLY GOD KNOWS. Pray the God’s will be done in your life/marriage. Pray, Cry, take boxing lessons, watch laughing CZcams’s, sing, pray, cry, … To be continued… Thanks for the topic Tony.
Pleassssssse don't ever stop blessing us with these jewels!!! I'm very thankful and appreciative!!!!
God Bless you Bro Tony thank you for so much wisdom I will always keep to heart if a man leaves let him stay gone. And of course so much more nuggets you've given out. Am so grateful for your teaching and wisdom.❤️🙏🏾😊
Thanks for encouraging email today sent to the academy. It’s just what I needed to read! ❤️
Thanks Tony for what you do....you have saved this woman in so many ways👏🏾👏🏾
We ladies love and appreciate what you do!!
God bless you and your family! Thank you for sharing your time with us. We appreciate it!
Right on time! It’s the season of the past returning.
😒😒 girllll lool
😩 like why.. and they always wanna come back.
@The Harmony Pill Lost dogs indeed 😂😂 I don't like dogs 😖
Lmbo I swear everytime it gets cooler outside they return 😂😂
Mr. Tony! That hilarious lie! OMG!! Sounds a whole lot like several that I've heard before 😂😂😂
Those little sketches.😭😂🤣 Tony is on point though!
Thank you Tony. You are the first man that I have ever seriously listened to that tells it like it is. It may be very hard for most women to walk away from a man they love, but why stay with anyone that disrespects you and doesn't truly love you? Women out there- protect yourself. Keep telling them Tony. If it helps only a few it's worth it. Bless you and your wife & family.
It's the 7 different tattoos on him for me. I keep saying males don't make sense for real. I say this everytime.
ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE Tony I am laughing!!!! You don't know how funny you are!!! "I did not change for..... that whole spill you.did .... Ladies you have to understand what he just told us in this video. He said clearly one of the best reasons ever to that yoy need to ve the baddest thing walking mind body and so because that is the only way that you ate going to have a successful relationship. Tony I am laughing my butt off when you said..... "I got me and ol sucker here.... Oh my God! THE BLESSED TRIBE