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A grown boy is going to manipulate you into thinking you’re “doing too much” and will turn your standards/boundaries into “insecurities.” The RIGHT man, a grown MAN is going to respect you for standing firm on your beliefs and not compromising your standards.
Amen
I can attest to this. I put my insecurities out that and said what I needed to feel comfortable and I was told that I was too needy and an attention seeker smh
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Exactly! My ex made me feel bad, like I'm doing all I can. This guy only wanted to be a low income entrepreneur and not work for others. He stayed living in unfavorable conditions smh.
When he smacks his lips and says "oh!" 😂😂
Lmao, the fact that I can picture Tony doing this in my head is hilarious!
Somebody needs to tell Tony that real women don't talk like that. He is on some Martin Lawrence...She nay nay stuff.😁
@@anntoinetteboyd5098 I used 2 love that show back then...they dont make shows like that no more :( Any good ones u can recommend me?
AHAHAHAAH seriously.
That killed me too! 😂😂
Btw, my Daddy also told me. "A man will continue to do what you allow him to do, until you say different."
bevill72able I say it all the time.
Your daddy was right. My daddy told me the same thing
Repeating the same gets the same
We must do different to receive different
That's people period. Children included
I wish Mrs. Gaskins would inform us of her thought process when she went through these things with you. And also what made her feel like you were worth her time and patience to deal with. It's so hard to decipher who you should give those chances to, and when you should run due to those red flags.
Syretha Shirley second that!
Exactly. More often then not when they know that you are not hard them. Because you say that they are flawed and human. It is like they take it for granted.
He mentioned on one of his videos on March 27, 2020 that he is never gonna make his wife. He said he knows she will share her testimony & a platform to speak, but he will never ever make her to speak like him!
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That’s why I’m so excited about the new book too!!! It’s gonna have her input! And we only have 7 more days of waiting! 😄
Syretha Shirley continue listening . Please go thru as many videos as you can
"Every man you meet gone need some work, and you gone need to learn how to work it" 💥💥
Whew. 🙆🏾♀️
Sighhh
Ok Ma😂
YES!!!
🤦 dating over 40 is like shopping at a thrift store. I'm used too. 😁
his women impressions are HILARIOUS
Yup!
I be so weak!!!! Lol
FOODIE ASMR the best!
I live for it
FOODIE ASMR it’s always *cue stank face* “OHHHHHHH”
If you are serious about being in a relationship you can’t be scared stand your ground. Be Blessed.
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I met an amazing man a little under a month ago and let me tell you. Everything Tony is speaking is 100% accurate. We are taking things slow with God as the driver and as a result of both of us keeping God first, he has truly been faithful. God is an amazing God. Noone is on their back. Period. Stay Blessed Tony and Thank you.
Praying the best for you 🙏 sis!
@@MsHappy-xz2px praying 🙏 His will for you sis!
@@MsHappy-xz2pxI am tapping into your blessings sister.
Hey Sis, how're things going now?
A man after God's own heart...amazing may you both be richly blessed together ❤ 🙏
Be blessed I made it.
I’m ready to receive my husband ❤️
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Amen sis praying that the Father will continue to prepare me until his arrival
Leranda Brewer 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Me too Niki
@Linda Hines 😁
After my last few relationships and a situationship I asked my ex's what was "wrong" with me. Two of them said, that I didn't make him commit (aka the status of the relationship was truly up to me and I should've required it). Another said I was like the perfect girlfriend but he wanted someone with some game (aka i was a bit boring and predictable). Those were easy pills to swallow because when I asked, I realized i was too available and always trying to prove that I am worthy. I also let them and everyone else disrespect me. I was so naive that I didn't see it as disrespect then. I just knew it didn't feel good. I was definitely a pickmeisha, smh. I am mature enough to realize my flaws and admit. I am also committed to not making those same mistakes while being graceful enough to know that I am still not perfect and the man that's for me, will not be perfect either!
@Taylor Metoyer I still have a soft spot for the guy I was in a situationship with. The kicker is that he is married with children to a woman who said that if she wanted him as her man, she will have him! She literally made it a requirement. I like to grow and learn from my mistakes and was over the pain so it was easy to hear and accept at that point. Blessings to you and those new babies.
I'm.a Star I think this is true in a lot of cases. I can also see where I did not require commitment. However, I would also say when I met my fiancé I didn’t have to require commitment he told me exactly what he wanted and he wanted commitment so not all guys need you to point the direction because they are already headed that way and sure about you. The type of guys that need you to require something before they be the man they need to be seem to not know what they want and need you to tell them but you also have to be vocal about your needs and wants as well.
I'm.a Star 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 I think I have/had the same problem . Still working today
Beautiful words... The best is yet to come ❤️
I'm.a Star that’s a good inside look. But please lose that soft spot that guy doesn’t care for you best wishes
Because your wife made the decision to respect and value herself and because you made the decision to respect yourself and honor her and your children and treat her like the Queen she is, countless lives are changed forever. ❤️
A friend once told me, "They don't come like that, you have to train them." However, I learned from this message, it's not about training them, but calling each other to be excellent! Thank you Tony Gaskins for this message!
In my country women say men are like children (hence they have to be trained). I never fully understood how and why that is until I started watch Tony Gaskin. It all makes sense now.
I now understand that I have been a mess in my relationship, immature, lacked emotional intelligence, a bad communicator, and more. I also now understand how to be better than I was. Lord I pray I get a chance to apply what I know now with the right man. Thank you Tony!
Kenyetta that's exactly how i use to be..these are my words and feelings exactly...
Same, girl! It didn’t work out with the past ones for a reason, God’s working on us to be the best version of ourselves for the man we deserve♥️.
That “Oohh” gets me every time 😂
Me too 😂😂😂
Lmaoooo
me too, it reminds me of Shenay-nay from Martin tv show! LOL!
Girl I started catching cues and say Oohh with him. 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes 🤣
If he can't keep his word I can't trust him. ✋🏾😩NOPE! Be blessed, blessed tribe. 🌸❤
My boyfriend told me that I had a lot of influence. He told me the music that I play had an affect on him. I usually play calm,instrumentals or music without curse words. He told me he was use to women playing trap music and rap that was vulgar. Every morning when I wake up I play calm music and he told little things like that has had an influence on him.
😂😂 So funny his impression of how some women talk. But Facts
Shungreer Potts, I deleted my comment after I read yours because I was going to comment the same thing, but his imitation of a woman's voice is hilarious. I thought that I was the only one that notice that.
I crack up EVERYTIME! "*sucks teeth* Ooooooh! How you gon'..." 😂
Well and least we know he is straight because he is horrible at it; which makes it funny.
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It kills me every time lol
I do wish all men can hear this.....most women do have some kind of insecurity-some just won’t admit it. Love us anyway while we heal!!
Some women don't recognize the insecurity. Some are truly unaware.
TYEECE MARSHALL -True-That’s all a part of self awareness with the intention of becoming one’s best self. IF that’s a desire.
Marsha Griffiths -no doubt....I’m a woman though so I care about us! They’ll be alright-they can have their own sessions!
I cannot wait to meet my imperfect man who will accept my imperfections so we can be happy together in our imperfect world. Thank you Jesus Christ for what is coming into my life. I am positive that I will meet my mate😍
I just sat in an empty room, focused on your words and looked you dead in your eyes and LISTENED to everything you said. This is THEEEE greatest video I could ever watch on CZcams as a young woman. Done cried off my face mask all messy now. My father, unfortunately, wasn’t able to spell it for me the way you just did here. I learned things I’ve been trying to figure out for 26 years. Thank you so much for recording this video Tony G. Sincerely.
Mrs Sheri Gaskins was not playing....I’m over here laughing like Tony No! 😂😂😂
TiffanyB TV, I love that woman! All need to listen up! 👂
Who else is here already watching?
Im two days late, but im here now
@@mrzsanders7460 Better late than never
It’s 2024 and watching
Tony kill me that woman voice he does. 😂😂
That is profound!! You have to heal a woman’s heart to have a woman’s heart!
I am blessed, and I made it. You be blessed❤
I think I speak for most women that we already understand most men aren’t perfect. We as women just fall into the trap of not being able to discern what you can help a man with and what should be deal breakers. Women who rant about wanting a man already 100% together are just trying to compensate for doing too much for a man in a previous relationship or giving a man who wasn’t together a chance and he still played around.
Yatora Remble Sis...you are spot on!!!
You hit the head on the nail with this one
Hello there I agree!
Yes! Well said!
I believe a good remedy for this is for women to sit down and determine/write out her absolute non-negotiables.
What are certain things she’s just flat out going to refuse dealing with? Sadly the reason women get talked out of putting their foot down and having standards is because they’re shamed and socialized into doing so. Women are supposed to be nurturing, caring and forgiving. If a man “appears to be a good guy or “could be” one she’s expected to throw aside her “petty/boujee” annoyances and give that man whatever he wants at her expense.
If women were encouraged to stick to their standards, whatever they may be, and women dropped their fear of judgement or ridicule from naysayers, many wouldn’t fold over and self sacrifice for a man under the guise of being a “good woman”.
And you know what? Who defines that anyway, besides God? We’ve gotta learn to start listening to GOD more than other PEOPLE as well!
"Stay out the comments comment warrior" lol Tony's is hilarious 😆
I know God has a man for me who is willing to treat me like a Queen. If only more men had the same mindset like Tony .
Be Blessed I made it.
Kiia bath & body but that’s what he said at the beginning, he didn’t. His wife brought it out of him by setting her standards and his interest in her motivated him.
Amen
A lot of men have these mindset..some even start better than Tony started cos like hes said time and time again, he started as a grown boy and she called d man out of him, manifest them through prayer,patience and the help of the Holy Spirit.
@@nikkyshamz2696 I do
Awee “I’m yours! I belong to you!” Can’t wait for someone to feel that way about me ❤️
No degree, but you're operating on the PhD of wisdom and insight the Lord gifted you. So proud of you, youngman.
"Don't complain about the hand you were dealt. Just play it, and you're gonna come out on top."
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The more I watch him the more hope I have that I'll find someone like him 😭 I thought I did but he only wants sex but yet he friend zoned me..that's the makings of a situationship and I'm too old for that mess..I told him that too..
Tika L. Good for you! I was just in this situation two weeks ago. This quarantine has been exposing people’s true intentions. I see it as time to take it slow and continue to learn each other. They see it as an opportunity to have dates at each other’s houses 🥴🙄🙅🏾♀️
I'm there now. Due to the fact, he doesn't want a relationship 👫 right now. He was in a lengthy relationship and he wants to be single for awhile. But, he wants to be a friend with romantic involvement. I stated what I wanted. He basically went around that. Then he says: "You never know what God has for us down the road." 🤷🏾♀️🙄🤣🤣 I'm sick of the foolery! I'm frustrated with dating & relationships. I'm going to walk 🚶🏽♀️ away from this connection. I'm 40 years old and so is he. I can't keep settling. 💯💪🏾
I went through this too. But I cut him off as soon as I felt like I was an option. I feel women must recognize that most men don’t come out and tell women clearly whether they are or NOT looking for a relationship. They want to keep women in the “grey area” as much as possible. It’s up to the women to recognize this “game”. Its deceiving. If you are comfortable, could either of you share the timeline of your relationships?
We truly have to teach men how to treat us. I always thought men would be good if they were "so called good men". Now I know women have the reigns
"Tony you rubbing that 19 in yo eye" got me laughing!!
You have to be comfortable being who you were called to be by loving & respecting yourself! Utilize your GOD given unique skillset to speak life and accountability. Be ready to turn your back on any man who shows no rules of engagement. 🏃🏽🙌🏽
She don’t like her hair she don’t like her Ph Balance 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that is funny!!
She had no time for foolishness . That was how you set boundary . ...... so she can be taken seriously . She don play !!
Tony thank you my man! I dont watch tv but even when I did watch you are so much better. Real humble funny wise Godly inspiring. Respect to your honesty and consistency thats God working in you. Peace n blessings!
This is so true tony I have a problem with my words sometimes I come across very agressive and I have pushed good men away I am working on my temper and attitude know.
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 You a Queen...
🙋Amen sis.
You not alone-at least you acknowledge this!
@Sandra Parsons thank you but I only get like that when I feel like a man is taking me for granted
@@bridgetjones6819 thank you
I love that you said everything changed when you starting treating your wife like a queen. YES!! 🙌👏 Be blessed I made it!
“What you breathing for, you act like you got to breathe” 😂💀 I was too weak. Great video. #BeBlessedIMadeIt 🙏🏾
Tu Bella he is so hilarious!
TG, "Don't come crying bout the hand you was dealt, Just Play it." Thank you Coach Gaskins God Bless yah
Omg i was dyin laughin wit the breathin joke! 😂😂
Girl me too. So funny😂😂
We have to understand that as women we are the influencers! I can’t wait for this book! So glad I preordered it!
Its my favorite thing to do, hold a man accountable. If he refused to elevate, i dont hesitate to walk away💃 Great video Mr. Gaskins, thanks for the insight.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 You go Woman!! YESSSSS
I’m about to be 31 yrs old and I think I finally understand. It took me a minute and I’m still working at it but things are clearer than they have ever been!
I’m so happy I came across these videos! I’m 23 and just got out of a bad relationship. I came across this right on time to prepare for what God has in store for me. I’m taking notes.
Ya hear me in my *Mr. Tony Gaskins voice*
Be blessed, I made it!
Wish I was 23 again😂
Queen status 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾👑👑👑. I'm not settling for anything less than I deserve. Amen
Relationship goal: "What do you need.. What do you expect...asking and expecting with respect"
BOOM!
Tony your best!
Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣Tony said "that's what Nimo doing in the ocean"...
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Made some life changes, got your Audible books to not repeat negative behavior, one on pre-order, and am half way of Make It Work, right now. Thank you for all you and the Coaches do. You being on CZcams is so appreciated, you may never know.
Be blessed, I made it
I don’t know what an attractive man is but I know what ugly is 😂😂 I hollered. Love your videos
"I know what ugly is" did it for me.
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Heal my heart then have my heart. I love it Tony
Be blessed I made it 💞 I was married for 14 years, my ex and I have 9 children together. It’s been one month we’ve been divorced, it’s been an emotional journey. I love listening and hearing your videos. I believe what you say and know that God is going to bless me with my husband. Who wants to treat me as him Queen, as well as I want to treat him as my King. God bless you and your family 💞
Wow. God bless you. 14 years didn't make him change? I am in the same situation as well.
14 years is a long time. would you say the dealbreakers that led to your divorce were red flags that you dealt with early on in the relationship, or were they issues that came up later on? thanks for sharing.
Yvonne Nation be strong! God will take care of you! You’re in the right place gaining new Knowledge. It’ll help you to see your situation in a new LIGHT 💫🔥🔥🔥🔥
Ready for my daily dose of "The Tony Show "❤
The Woman is the Activator for Men. Yep we sure are!!
Don’t deactivate your activation!! You are needed!!! That’s a whole entire word!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼 point blank perioddddd!! 😂❤️Be blessed!!
Tony said, you wake up looking like a baby chick. I'm dead. 😁😂😋
Katrina Dodd 🐣 peep! 🤦🏿♀️🤣
@@humbleheart2650 😂😂🤣
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Tony is hilarious 😂 he said I know y’all think I rubbed that 19 in my eye but I’m covered with the blood of Jesus
Tony you are the truth!!! Thank you!!!🙏🏽✌🏽😊
Thank you so much... This was so good... information so on point..
Thank you for all you do Tony. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Happy Anniversary to you and yours!
Be blessed! You’re a God send and I appreciate you Tony G.
Be blessed. Thank you Tony for my confirmation. 🙌🏽
this is gold. thank you.
This was a whole preach! Praise God for this kind of love 🙌🏾🤎
This message was perfect! Thanks Tony!
Be blessed Tony! Keep em coming!🙏🏾
Thank you so much Tony. Thank you. You are appreciated! ♥️🙏🏽
Happy Anniversary 🎊🎊🎉🎉🎁🎁. Be blessed
This is so GOOD!!!
This message has blessed me big time
This one had me in tears. Great truth!
Thanks for this talk. You have inspired me to keep pressing forward and even showed me some areas where I can improve. Thanks for keeping it real💯
Thank you soon much Tony for these gems that u drop. I never had my father in the household to tell me what I should or shouldn't do when it comes to a man as a woman in general. I've learned so much. Your like the brother or father I never had but wish I had💯
Thank you Tony ! I needed this!
This really touched me. Thank you for this. I’ve learned so much
BE BLESSED WE MADE IT. Great message I appreciate your transparency & Growth
I’m learning much from this video I always do though you break it down always interesting thought provoking
Be blessed! And Happy Anniversary Mr. and Mrs. Gaskins!
I absolutely love this video!!💯🙌🙌🙏
I'll be his ACTIVATOR 💥!
Good afternoon Blessed Tribe. Be blessed I'm with ya sis.
So glad I found this coach! I appreciate all you do!
I really needed this video Tony. Thank you so much
Be blessed I made it. Really enjoy the knowledge you put out. I'm dating someone now and I put them to the test with everything you are saying. And like you said men are not perfect but he's a lot like the man you say I should be looking for. Thanks again for all the hard work you put in for us. And a bigger thanks to you wonderful wife it was because of her that you are so awesome today.
This Spoke to me in so many ways. It was as if you were speaking to all the things that were unspoken . Thank you for allowing your light to shine bright . Thank you for not watering down who you are and what you believe in and stand for. This is ministry our side of the four walls thank you sir for your obedience. I know doing this isn’t easy but it’s necessary. Thank you for your sacrifice you make on a daily basis to make sure you are doing what God has called you to do. Thank you for making sure the lives that are locked up in your belly hear what they need so they can heal and grow. Thank you and I Thank God that he will continue to feed you so that you can feed others . I thank him for allowing you to speak life into the lifeless and to speak love peace and understanding to a unknowing nation . Thank you sir .
Great stuff Tony. Currently following your advice🖒🌟👏👌
Great video!!! This is some good stuff. Thanks for dropping gems on us ladies. We need it straight no chaser.
The redirection part is the best piece of advice I could ever receive! I am gonna use it on my man AND my 7 year old son! You are a godsend!
Awww. Happy anniversary yall!!!!!; and that APPLIED BEHAVIORAL ANALYSIS HUH TONI!!!!! YESSSS!!!! 🤣🤗👏
I truly needed to hear this message, on so many levels of my life.
Thank you brother Tony!! Happy anniversary again to you and Sheri ❤️
As always good game I appreciate you always saying what your wife and women has that influenced men and how we can really educate ourselves on theses truths Thank You Brother Tony God bless you this ministry and your family
This man is a Godsend. Thank you for giving us this information! I’ll be buying the book as well.
Thank you Sir, Amen...I received this message! Good advice
Love this! Thank you for sharing this Tony 🌄
God Bless You! This here video blessed my WHOLE LIFE you hear?! I’ve been watching you Tony for years, and your voice speaks in my head when I’m acting stupid or about to act unworthy! Thank you for obeying God in your calling, especially when you’re tired and feel like giving up sometimes! Happy Anniversary to you and your wife, and may the blessings and favor of God continue to follow your family, in Jesus name!
I can't wait to read A Woman's influence. I sear he on point!
Amazing! Keep sharing the truth, it is appreciated TG!
Be blessed, I made it. Needed to hear this.