"You cant put your trust in a man that's not putting his trust in God!!"
I know you said this 3 + years ago but it hits home. To look seriously at a man who is not looking to God for his very existence is a mistake.😮😊 I definitely need to make some reevaluations.
Whoever said that they want you to remove the jokes and slang from your teachings can have a seat. The mixture of serious to funny keeps me engaged and confirms that you are working in your gift. I am here for it!!! Too funny, but point always well taken.
They want to block his blessing of delivering these teachings. I pray he continues to be a messenger of the most high GOD.
I agree 100 percent! When he changes his voice and starts talking like the “woman” I get in the floor screaming! He drops the wisdom and cracks me up at the same time!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Yes indeed!!!!!!!!! Please have several seats. He is so relatable and brings real life situations to reality through humor!
I enjoy the jokes with the seriousness too..in life you need to laugh too!
I’m 22 and dating a man who is 24 and I kid you not, 4 months in he has brought up marriage. We’re going on 6 months and he feels incredibly certain that I am his future wife while still submitting to the Lord. He’s been intentional about getting to know me since day 1 and truly walks like a man of God. Ladies please don’t settle!!! Know your worth and the man that sees your value will not want to let you go for anything! Tony is speaking FACTS! If he sees you as a wife, you will KNOW
@@wshelby83 thank you so much, we are doing really well. The vetting process doesn’t end until there’s a ring so I’m still keeping my eyes open for any red or yellow flags haha but so far so good☺️.
Plenty of long marriages started with a short courtship. When you know you know. How are things going?
Looks and sex. That's what this generation is quick to "fall in love" with.
Man I admit I have falling into that so many times looking for love in all wrong places
Amen! Thank you Tony!
"Is He The One?"
*If his Flaws are not Deal Breakers!
*He will be everything in his Character that you are looking for.
*You won't have any Trust Issues.
*He Trust, Hopes & Believes in God!
*He will be Evenly Yoked with you.
*He operates from LOVE, Self Love!
Be Blessed!🙏❤🦋
“you holding out hope in a man but ignoring God and talk about you a believer, you ain’t a believer you a atheist” whew chileeeeee. Thank you Tony for keeping it painfully real!!
GiiiiiirlI literally grimaced when he said that! Some of Tony's comments I can't take b/c he is so painfully honest...but it is so needed. There are so many women, young and old including me that have wasted time and believed the lie! We need to wake up to the real...Tony said "no more Mr. Nice Guy!"
Les E yes sis. We’ve all been there. I wrote that comment on an index card amongst some of his other comments that really spoke to me. I keep them with me as a daily reminder to keep my head in the game. I read over them daily until it sticks and I automatically remember, I can’t afford anymore wasted time with men that don’t see a future with me.
Tony, you are the best friend we’ve ever had. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You’re helping change me from the inside out.
Thank you Tony. I wish I've known everything I've learned through your videos before going on dating and getting married. It's never too late to learn. Knowledge is everything!
"You'll know he's the one when his flaws aren't deal breakers!"📌 Tony said "GOD can I have some grace because Mrs. Sheri Gaskins doesn't let me get away with nothing!!"
I'm 😄😄👏🏽👏🏽!
Is her name pronounced Sherry or Sheriq? The country drawl throws me off
“You shouldn’t hold on out of fear, and you never need to hold on out of love. Cuz if it’s love... love will be holding you.”
You are so right, I unfortunately went through this. Lived together 7 yrs married for 38 yrs. had 4 children together. Yes he cheated many times, I forgave him many times. Finally, after finding out he had been seeing someone for 5yrs behind my back, I left. Kids were grown & gone, we were close to retirement. Please Women listen and run for your life. This is the truth the honest Word!!!
I'm so sorry for the pain he put you through. You did not deserve that. May God send you comfort and healing sis.⚘
I'm 56 been divorced and celibate for the last 4 years. I prayed and ask God to help me to love myself the way He sees me.These videos are so eye opening for me. Thank you brother Tony🙏🏽
Wow I'm thankful another person over 50 and divorced is on here ... I've also divorce & been celibate for 5 years. I recently reunited with a old flame and these vid's are life changing. Its horrible out here theses men are so different lawrdt Game playing, mind games, lawrd help me I'm too old to be playing games...
I’m 54 and divorced as well ladies. I’m here to let you know you’re not alone. I enjoy these videos and in my opinion, the information is spot on.
"Your daddy didn't talk to you 7 days a week for an hour, that's why you're here listening to me." 😂😁😂😁
This was a tough one. The Truth hurts but it also makes you free
Thank you Tony I love ur videos I watch them every time I get a chance.
“DJ Khalid” in reference to baby colic 😂😂🤣🤣 I died twice 🤣🤣🤣 Tony sense of humor is out of this world and the realness is to raw for some. God sent him to deliver the message to us women🙌🏽
"WHEN YOURE HOLDING ON TO SOMEONE WHOS NOT HOLD YOU...THEN YOURE HOLDING ON TO SOMETHING THSTS DRAGGING YOU."---Tony Gaskins
Loved this piece sir
“His flaws won’t be deal breakers” that’s good!
Now, you have told the whole truth and nothing but the truth right here!!! People can take you COMPLETELY out of character! You are right!!! If you are not use to dealing with something and you, all of a sudden, are exposed to something that rocks your world
....you will come out of your character! You might not do it but once, but you will turn into someone you dont even recognize. That's how you know the relationship is toxic. Never say you can't be taken out of character. The minute you do, God will humble your butt and show you! Trust Tony and trust me, when I tell you this! That's why we shouldn't become unevenly yoked. If a man is not raised morally correct and to have the right character, there is no way he can have good morals and a good character as a grown man. Break the generational curse, in the name of Jesus!!
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Flaws can become deal breakers if not effectively addressed early on.
Anger issues..not cute LADIES stop the immature acceptance behaviors just to complain later💥💥💥
It's so hard... I've been conditioned to expect and accept bad behavior
Taghazout Moon It’s hard work but you can rewire your brain to know that you are deserving of good things. Start watching YT videos on self worth.
@@thatgirlcocoa I understand. It's just almost "normal" that a man is acting badly. As women, we're not surprised by being used and ghosted, lied to, cheated on, and abused. It's expected. We're taught to deal with it instead of protecting ourselves. Like, toughen up if he sleeps with you and doesn't call you. Instead of don't sleep with him until marriage. I used to be very confident. My self-esteem has been chipped away by abusive relationships. And while I can rebuild myself, I still can't trust and believe in men.
I didn't realize I was not setting boundaries,had no deal breakers, never thought by about what type of man I wanted .I sorta fell into long term situations with good men but it wasn't what I needed. I have been single for two years and I have worked on myself and when I found out who I was then I understood what type of man I wanted in my life. Growing up without my dad did play a part in my choice of men. Self Love is Priceless!
Women know what a good man is they just don't want him. Having a father in the home or not is pretty much irrelevant to the type of men they will like.
@@dasani6055 Incorrect. Women do not know unless they have an example. Same with men. Stop making excuses for single motherhood.
“You in a jacked up situation-ship, not a relationship and you’re playing yourself”🤯
100% true. A man dont even want to stay even if there was no cheating, a little argument hes gone... we woman should now know its time to stop putting up with disrespect and be strong..
C Thomas I jus went thru this last week & I’m setting boundaries Right now
@@taraMimi717 believe me i can relate, setting boundaries is the key , a man will still try if he knows you'll eventually give in, keep strong
I say it all time bro. Tony, sistas need to flip the strip...if you cheat, he leaving. So when he cheats, u need to🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🏃.
Latonya Bell , * script
I agree. We need to stop putting ourselves last all the time.
Tony is the Modern day Moses for relationships. He is literally taking us out of bondage ( Egypt) into the wilderness ( awareness,the work, healing) to the promise land (Healthy Whole relationships). God bless him richly forever❤️🙏.
“When that red flag has sirens lol” u slap crazy if u ignore it.
Just divorced after 10 years with a grown boy & you are right on the money Tony! So many signs & dealbreakers I saw & ignored. I paid the price & suffered unnecessary heartache for many years! It all was multiplied by 3 just like you said by the time I filed for divorce.
Love the Blue Shirt👕❤️
Same here sis! Get healing and in position. It's not going to happen again. We got Tony this go round. Be blessed!
These women nowadays are thirsty and desperate.
So guilty of that, but I'm learning to love myself and stop settling for less
FACTS! Once they cheat, they'll keep doing it. Believe who they show you they are...the first time. 💯x💯
I have always said that I’m not dating a guy for more than 2 years and we’re not married 🙅🏾♀️
I said the same, I’ve always been in long term relationships (7,11,6) that’s all my life really 😥😥😥
This video made this scripture come to mind. "Hope deferred makes the heart sick. but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life." Proverbs 13:12. Thanks Tony!
I love the manner in which u include God in your messages!
That means evrything!!!!
It’s Hard To Find A Good Woman 👀 Cuz You Ain’t No Good Man 💯💯💯 You betta talk right 💯The only way you can do Tony 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Listening to Tony's brutal honesty feels like a band-aid being ripped off my emotional wounds, but the scars are definately healing thanks to seeking therapy. Ladies, Tony is a man and he speaks the truth from a man's perspective and the truth hurts, but it is necessary for healing. Father God, I thank you for healing in Jesus name, AMEN🙌🏾
I love the message but I really get a KICK OUT OF when you start talking like us ladies lolll... You always start with Ohhhhh.
Tony G said “HE AINT TALK TO YOU 7 DAYS A WEEK FOR AN HOUR”
You ain’t never lied😂🤣😅
You cheat on a man,,,if he stays its because he is gonna seek revenge. You might not wake up in the morning. So true and I knew a woman I worked with that lost her life and then he took his.
Tony said a lot people ask why he only directs his videos toward women and he said because that’s what he was called to do NOW TOUCH YOUR NOSE 🤦🏾♀️🤣😂😭
This is so accurate that it's almost scary. Women be in relationships for years the man been & left mentally & emotionally year 1 😩 thankful that I haven't experienced this to a dramatic extent. I pray that we as women wake up. Our time is too precious to waste on the WRONG MAN
Yes, been there and done that. The man left year one but I didn't get the memo because I didn't know what to look for, I accepted crumbs. But no more. I now know that I am the prize to be won. Be blessed to everyone on this journey.
Whew Chile the last 10minutes of this video was TOO REAL. The spirit of God is truly speaking through you. Wow, God bless you and your family 🙏🏽
Tony sounds like Major Payne every time he smacks his tongue and say "OHwa' 😸
"It's hard to find a good woman because you're not a good man." 💯
"This is what you need to realize....He is the one if he has the qualities, the characteristics & the personality traits that you're looking for in a man."
Awesome word.
Please connect with high school, college women and men with these messages and help cut down the divorce rate.
Wish I was more aware of these tyoes if things back then.
To God by the glory for it now. Thanks
The younger women aren’t ready for this message. They have to get their heart broken at least once in order for any of this to hit home
Tony said "so touch your nose" 🤣🤣😅😅 I just can't with him
That whole explanation about multiplying a behavior by 3 was so on point! ✊🏽
The truth in this video is so gut wrenching that it had to cut off and on so that we could all go ouch!!! 😩😩😩😹😹😹 it always cuts off when he makes a gut slamming point !!! To the gaskins family .. I hope you never come down to regular earthly problems.. you’re too good for those .. protect this family . Amen
Fatima Furr Yes Fatima! The “Enemy” doesn’t want to hear the truth! I’m having a difficult time trying to enjoy the teaching of this video due to it’s cutting off and on too! It is ashamed. Smh But Tony’s messages are so meaningful, I still get it when he speaks because when God is in it, the message WILL be delivered regardless! Be blessed EVERYONE!!
Tony, I felt the Holy Spirit in the last 9 mins of the video; when you realized you were behind in YOUR schedule and missing YOUR other appointments to finish this video is when the Spirit of the Lord took over; and when you started bringing in God's Word there was literally a shift in the atmosphere. GLORY BE TO GOD! More grace to you and keep putting Him above and first, my brother🙏🏾
Good morning Blessed Tribe, This teaching was so on point. I am sitting here SMH because it was as if Tony witnessed my life over he past
35 years. Every scenario was point on. Yes, I finally left the situation after an attempt on the life that God spared. Unfortunately for the husband, he passed away a year ago. Ladies PLEASE listen to the man of God when he speaks! yes I think I too am a living, breathing testimony!
Paulette Howard My condolences go out to you, I’m too a survivor and appreciate you coming forth with your truth. Hopefully some of these ladies will take heed before it’s too late.
I speak peace to your mind, body and soul.
"Calic...Colic...DJ Khalid...whatever you call it"😂😂🤣😅 Be Blessed
I can't go one single without listening to his knowledge and wisdom. You are truly blessed with what you doing, teaching and preaching!! God bless you🙌🏽and greetings from Germany!
Be blessed! Thank you for spreading this knowledge. On point every single time 🙏🏾
Thank you so much for your content. God bless you to accepting this assignment 🙌
I always appreciate how smooth you are with your self-advertisement 😂 every video I notice and laugh good stuff Mr. T
Tony is HILARIOUS! I’m always torn between being ready to learn from his videos and laughing until my cheeks hurt!
Usually it’s a combination of both! 😂
Whew chile...THANK YOU FOR KEEPING IT 💯💯 you hear me!!! Be blessed TGaskins. Thank you for this great information on this here video. You keep giving us these truths. I don't care how long it takes you. I'm here for it!!
This helped me so much! You running behind but this really blessed me! You and the family stay safe!!!
That’s true. People act how the world has treated them
Thanks for the reminder. Yep, my ex husband started with weed. Ten years later it was opiates and cocaine. Addiction is a progressive disease. Be blessed.
Once again I’m even more EMPOWERED THANK YOU TONY FOR THIS GOOD WORD ❤️❤️‼️‼️
What a Blessing ! I swear these videos make my heart & soul strong ! I’m going to know my Worth today and everyday ! Bless you sending a one minute never ending hug for you to share with the world !
Whooooooo! Boy you are too real!!!! "Ya herr meeee"
Be blessed.
We must inspect what we expect....Tony has taught me this concept.
Dang Tony. This video, the words and wisdom given to you is so deep. Hits hard.
Be blessed! I am so very grateful that you are called to come on here and speak to us! I have been watching your videos since 2009 and read all of your books. You have helped me so much. Thank you for all that you do and teach Tony!
I just started watching Tony and I can’t get enough! Thank you for all this wisdom!
Amen !! Fear was my key of staying, and I seen the signs changing colors and sirens on LOUD!!!Thanks for the message Tony!!
This is the Best I've heard yet.. Right on point!
Tony, you did it again. I know exactly what your talking about. I was in some of these situations my self. I'm always watching your videos. You have taught me so much.... Thank you so much for these videos. Awesome!!!!
I need that shirt 👕 Love it!!!
Thanks Tony for always delivering!!💯
I AM SOOO GLAD THAT I SAW AND HEARD THIS VIDEO!!!WOW SOOO ON POINT!!! BE BLESS BROTHER
Thank you Tony! This is so inspiring and I hear you completely!!
Tony, this is one of your best videos...thank you for your time and wisdom!
You are so right about everything it is so true!! Thank you for doing this I wish I knew this when I was in my 20's. SMH so much time I can not get back.
Tony your teachings are so critically important and serious, but I admit your sense of humor weaved in that makes me goggle or laugh is your gift. Thank you for your hard work and time, I sense your passion and am so very glad I started listening! God bless you and your family.
I love this guys soo much. Everything you’re saying is true thanks for the insight 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Be Blessed!!!😊😊 Thank for the powerful encouragement message much needed to hear
I’m up outta here. I’m up outta here. I ain’t got time and energy to be going through all of this. mood all 2020 😂
Tony! Man you better speak!!!! Just moved out of my apartment because the guy downstairs smoked Monday thru Saturday from the time he got up until the next morning.🤦🏽♀️
My literal life. I’ve asked the manager to move me to a Townhouse. I got sick one from the heavy amount of 2nd ...smoke. I was scared because I had no idea why I felt that way. Smh
Them last few minutes was straight gems...thank u TG...im listening ❤
Tony, I can't contain myself, you tell truth, but you are so so funny, , I love your delivery, you are great!!
Tony said Mrs. Gaskins ain't having it. 😁😂🤣 I love it. Be Blessed.
Im SO happy I found this channel.
Thank you Tony again for the message you took me to church today. Be blessed
Thank you so much for this, l learn a lot from the things you are saying. The right people are the one that love you and serious about you. Character is important
Wow, Tony, you've truly opened my eyes. Thank you. I see I've been playing myself all these years. And you are so right ..I was holding on in fear.
Be blessed..... This video, strong beginning, hilarious middle and powerful ending. Wow, thank you again.
Listening to his videos has become part of my daily routine lol I’m always learning something new
Tony!!! This teaching was such a blessing for me...and thank you for that bit of comic relief, as well. Be blessed!
You ain't playing about these uploads! Keep it up!
Gotta come back to some old videos just to refresh my mind 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Tony you spoke really well on this one! Probably my favorite video! Keep speaking truth and God bless you!
I’m so blessed to have found your videos. I listen to you everyday sometimes 2 to 3 times. It’s refreshing an mind shaking to hear the truth given that way.
Mr. Tony this was a message today oml it was! It hit very different had to check myself listen twice. Doing the work gotta get right and get it right. Thank you, God bless 🙏🏽
First, I thank God that you are giving us this message and for an hour video instead of 30mins 🙏🏾 God bless Tony for his sacrifice today and everyday.
Powerful message Tony. Bless you.
Bless your Sir!!! The last few minutes were pure anointing you just need to pass the collection plate!
Tony you telling the truth! Character is everything!
You are greatly appreciated!!!
Tony,
You keep it so real. I laugh out loud due to your truth and realness. Thank you for your wisdom that is a spiritual awaking in my life.
I’m good and grown and needed to hear your message! Thank you.
"It's hard to find a good woman, because you're not a good man". Y I K E S
Woo - beautiful - check & mate
Whoop! Whoop! 🤣I loved it !!
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LOL. Not being a good man is the easiest way to get good women.
And Amen!