16 Personalities Around Their Crush
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As an INTJ, I wonder what type they would hook me up with. TBH, I'm probably not an easy date, though my demands are few but stringent.
I've been binge-watching these videos a little because they're very entertaining and was just thinking you might like the show Zoey's Extraordinary Playlist, I think it's on Netflix, she imagines people singing musical numbers that describe how they're feeling and the ESFP character here reminded me of it.
ENTP: Makes a joke about their feelings
Crush: Laughs
ENTP: Laughs
_Sad violin_
😂😂😂
This is way too accurate for me 😅
Accurate enough
Rather just bully her.....that's seems to work.
This one here, very accurate.
ENFP around most people: Charming and flirtatious, accidentally
ENFP around crush: A giggling, unintelligible mess
Yes!! 100% true! Plus I flail my arms in enthusiasm while I giggle and speak unintelligibly.
This is why I can't ever get my crush to like me!! And the ones I don't like or am not interested in always seem to like me. 😣
ACCURATE
Legit me like honestly
This is why I (INFJ) thought my best friend (ENFP) liked me back. If I only knew...I wouldn't have confessed to her😅😂
INTJ: That's me in the corner.
*Crush approaches*
INTJ: That's me in the spot-light.
*Crush starts conversation*
INTJ: Losing my rationality
👏👏🤣
Do you perhaps have the time stamp for INTJ?
@@Musical.Weirdo 9:35
@@madsstavang Thank you so much.
I love this 🤣👍
ENFP: Welcome to my master class on how to friendzone yourself in 2 seconds
Hahahahaha
How are we so useless in front of our actual crushes but then can talk for ages to any other person
Bruh ENFPs are like how most people act in front of thier crush in Disney oh my goodness ENFPs = those Disney characters who are daydreaming all the time , are really fun / shy / poetic at times and are also hopeless romantics who wish to fullfil thier beautiful dreams one day ; you know the characters I'm talking about right ? - an ENFP
@ashlee garcia I think that's a natural thing , I've never had a real crush so I don't have much experience but I do get abit awkward around people who I think very cool and I would want be close friends with them one day
YES!!! Oh my goodness, Yes!
*When the INTP realized they said too much*
"How can I seem less dark and existentialist?"
*decides to stop talking entirely because that's the safe thing to do instead of demolishing someone's worldview*
😅😅😅
INTP. I don't care I'm busy doing my thing. Why are you offering me things?
Alternately: “crap, I just made this conversation dark and most likely offputting! They probably think I’m a creep, now. Think, think, what’s the best way to salvage this, what’ll distract us both from everything I just said, what’s something that people tend to enjoy...
Aha, got it!”
*awkwardly forces self to smile, cracks a joke that nobody laughs at, cringes at self for being so bad at normal human interaction, and ultimately runs away before the damage gets any worse*
We INTP's do worry about not destruing other people world view. Hahaha It's hard cause most of our thinking is existencialist driven
@@vee1267
You can stop stalking me now! 😂
"Single from the womb, single to the tomb" -ENTP
No babe....you ain't getting laid. Not with that attitude.
HELL YEAH
@@JstJaybeingJay You don't need to be in couple for that Lol, actually it is damm easier when it's not a crush
Idk my INFP soul resonates
INTJ leers over, then continues building a brick wall
ENFPs are walking anxiety attacks when they’re crushing hard, change my mind
Oh my word yes, I need help honestly
I'm not even gonna try and change it. I AM a walking anxiety when I'm around my crush. I swear I lose 75% of my conversational skills and emotional intelligence whenever he enters the room
* looks at enfp brother who’s been anxiously crushing over someone who doesn’t feel the same way for an unhealthy amount of years *
Yep…thaaat sounds about accurate.
as an enfp currently crushing hard I can confirm lmao
I'm INFj same.
as an INFP, daydreaming about my crush who doesn't even know I exist, is my hobby.
btw, Great video Kristin! >3
Thank you!! 😁
And here my(INFP) crush even doesn't exist....
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Except in cartoon...
Edit: Still I daydream about him 😇
Is your crush ,by any chance, named Haechan ?
Hahah fellow nctzen here
@@neomulonely9636 hehe yes! glad to meet you czennie
Hello fellow czennie 💚👋
INTP's crush: Starts the conversation.
INTP: Okay, I guess this is happening.
Also INTP: Makes it weird.
The things with the INFJ intuition is that you never know for sure if you're actually right.
Always second-guessing ourselves
Learn to trust your gut
You maybe always right but there is also timing working against you
That's more INFP than INFJ, maybe misstyped
yeah some people act like infjs are magical beings with future vision even though that makes zero sense. just because your intuition makes you feel like you always know where things are going doesn't mean you're right
ENFP and ENFJ lmaoooo
"How's your relationship with your parents?"
Asking deep questions to get to know my crush and strengthen our bond but also generally being like that.
Right lol
Exactly! Both of them are deep thinker. You totally right!
Yup
Yep. That's about right. We ENFJs love to deepen bonds by questions. :D
Omg soooo truuuu we ask too many questions! HAHAHAH i love it
All jokes aside; having feelings for someone really is such an inconvenience.
Yes, INTJ
Can agree, but also not really, but also it is very true
Yeah the Chemistry things that goes on in our Meat Suit sometimes are very overstrain
The more INTJ learns about feelings, the less irritating they become. -INTJ
YEAHHHH IKR…
-INTJ
completely agree -enfp
ISTP 0:56
ESTJ 1:33
INTP 1:59
ENFP 2:53
ISFP & ISFJ 3:58
ESFP 5:29
INFP 5:48
ENFJ 6:32
ISTJ 7:27 :)
ENTP 8:44
ESTP 9:21
INFJ & INTJ 9:35
ENTJ 10:29
ESFJ 11:43
Thank you!! I was afraid I was gonna have to watch it all.
Ur an angel
God sent
TSYMMMM!
It took 9 years for the ISTP to build up his *courage* to ask his crush out, not bad... Not bad at all.
*Thought it took longer than expected.*
😂😂😂😂
Speedrunning bonding as an ISTP is a lifelong career
As an istp my crushes last 9 hours at most
But when they do last? WEIRD REALLY WEIRD WHAT IS THIS
@@hollowbrain221 can confirm
Crush: Talks
INFP: Lost daydreaming thinking about how they are soul mates and have the deepest connection ever
Crush: So what do you think about this?
INFP: Uhhh, can you repeat please?
Also, how to spot an INFP: Look for a person starring at the void with a spark in their eyes, that's probably an INFP
And if you look for a person staring at a spark with the void in their eyes you find us INTPs lmao
I hate how accurate your comment is XD
This happens so much it's really something I'm trying to stop good thing my current crush and I mostly text cause covid
Me who’s always staring off into space: oh crap..welp…
You can’t prove anything-
Lol
People are gonna expose me
(Internal monologues of an INTJ and INFJ intensely attracted to each other)
INTJ:
"Oh no. Somehow, it seems an INFJ has me in their sights. Fascinating... I think I like her. Wait. What? Come on, now... That's not a conclusion, just a hypothesis - yep, a hypothesis. I mean, does she just find me curious or does she actually like me too? There's a difference, right? Focus... focus... Don't be pushing up Daisys, old sport! Don't be distracted. Don't let some crush comprise you. Focus on the plan, focus on the plan... Come on, feelings, stop babbling about! Stiff upper lip - inside, just like out... Come on, you can do it. Was that? Oh, no; it was! It's come to self-affirmations! It's bad enough Ti shadow has already been deployed to shield Fi, but now? I think I'm compromised! No, I can still salvage this. Must resist... Minimize the damage... Just keep typing, just keep typing... Don't make eye contact. Don't let her beam penetrate your soul... Do you even have one of those? Oh, who am I kidding? She's an INFJ; she already knows! She's in my head! Hull breach! Hull breach! Do I say anything? Do I deploy evasive maneuvers? Do I just give in? I kinda want to. She's just so smart, curious, cute, and diabolically intense... I didn't plan for this! I'm scared. I need a hug. My God, what has she done!?!"
INFJ:
"Gotcha! Can't fool me with your cold exterior; I can sense everything! Even the tiniest change in expression, and every expression frozen from fear, reveals enough for me to start feeling the same - that is my power! But it's also my weakness. His panic is starting to make me panic a little too. This is gonna be interesting, but I think that's partly why I like him. Anyway, time to reel him in with talk of something deeply interesting. That'll calm him down and make him want to stay. He knows walking away now won't solve anything on the inside. That's right! Stay. Give in. You know you want to - and in more ways than one! As you satisfy your own intellectual curiosity, you'll wind up spilling yourself bit by bit. And every little morsel dredged from those depths will feed my own interpersonal interest, all while revealing even more cracks to pry you open with! Yes, you may be more challenging than most, INTJ, but sooner or later, even you won't be able to hide anything from me! And that's only the beginning! Hahaha! Resistance is futile!"
THIS.
Istg I turn into an intj when Im reluctant about feelings xDD
@@gel2234 Not too much a surprise, fellow Fi-3rd-er. XD
INFJ here and I SMILED SO HARD this is the best, thank you for the meal
As an intj I feel attacked
ISTP's Crush at the beginning was an INTP confused at how anyone would talk to them or like them. I have had that freak out happen to me, when someone I didnt even like as a person said they had feelings for me.
Nah we totally vibe with istps, maybe if it was entj, that would be confusing
@@xtxpxhx didn't say ISTP and INTP dont make a good romantic pairing. I said INTP's act like filthy frank screaming in a corner when confronted with surprise emotions. czcams.com/video/ytSVwETbZtI/video.html
I'm an INTJ who had a multi-year relationship with an INFJ several years back. I can't think of a better summary of the experience than their scene here. About 75 percent of the relationship consisted of me rejecting the emotional reasons she read into my evasive behavior by stating that I was trying to solve a problem.
🤔 "multi-year"
Interesting
So you didn't care about her and considered her a nuisance, but you let her believe that you were in a relationship? So you were using her?
@@zyadsamy2642 🤣
Your are an INTJ man?
@@edennis8578 The comment says "rejecting" so I guess the person genuinely had those feelings. I guess the INFJ would have noticed if the INTJ was using them. But faking to use someone so you don't have to admit what you actually feel would be expected.
the ENTP is so true, admitting to liking someone sounds like a lot of emotional vulnerability for one day.
real - entp
ENTP: she’s figured me out, time to gaslight her!
I think it's more like panicked denial. -ENTP
But I couldn't know what was the type of ( crush ) there??
Congratulations for finally getting sponsorship!
Thank you!!
technically i think this is her 2nd one, but it is great!
Yes its the second one
*Me Flirting as an INTP* I'm going to impress this guy with so many FACTS (insert occasional strategically placed smile and eye contact)
Personally guilty of this. You could even measure how strong my crush on a girl might have been by how much I would info-dump factoids on her (provided I could even work up the courage to go up and talk to her first).
Lmao now that I've read this I suddenly remember the times I've done that a couple of times, I'm always like: "did u know .... ?"
😂😂😂 good to know - cute
The INTJ's denial is so accurate, I was hesitant to even leave a comment acknowledging it! Generally I just try to outwardly convey the sense that I'm not capable of feeling crushes.
On a separate note, you have a great singing voice!
Thank you! I appreciate it
"Jazz hands"
Next time I find a girl I like, I will just go and tell her: "I am an INTJ and I'm asking you out. That's how much I like you".
"Don't just nod, engage in a conversation." As an INTP, this is so relatable. The whole inner monologue was perfect. Great job!
after she revealed that it was INTP, everything clicked and I cringed because i can see myself doing that 😭
INTP: I have 2 options, I can either, stick around and attempt to pique her interest only to screw it up royally. Or I could play it safe and go home.
Her: Good evening.
Me: Good morning.
After realizing it was actually 7pm, the INTP decided it was not worth the trouble, and just went home.
HAHAHA
Same with me 😭
Just minutes ago :
My friend : goodbye .
Me : have a good day / realising it's almost 1 am / Logging off until my friend goes to sleep to apologize about that and blame it on my lack of sleep .
2:53 ENFP, when I think of going on a first date I imagine asking the question "what do you think is your greatest flaw as a person, the thing you want to change and improve about yourself? Mine is x". ENFPs do not do small talk lmao
This.
That sounds so beautiful, I would love to have conversations like that if you gave me 1h to process them
Lol same though!!! I always ask “favorite colour, animal, and what would you consider your favorite desire and biggest fear” -enfp
Yup
"What tree would you be?" Somehow nobody ever thinks about this.... :'-D
Rofl - the ENTP is so funny and true - never admitting to like our crush at first (make them fight for us, prove that they are interesting, able to challenge us intellectually and catch our ever-shifting attention). We ENTP can be very close, true and loving partners - if our desired partner can crack our shells and make us commit.
Absolutely 😂
Mhm!
ew. lol
-ENFP...or ISFP with ADHD.
Im an ISFJ and I have an ENTP friend I admire who I think may have a crush on me. I'm not emotionally compromised but am open to the possibility. My plan was to just wait until he makes a move since I'm not 100% sure, it could all be in my head. However I didn't know it was difficult for them to admit their crushes:-/
@@pennys2cute yeah, it’s that combination of thinking and perceiving. An open door is more valuable than a closed one, even with the chance that what they wanted is behind the closed door.
Coming with feelings and undeniable truth to an ENTP causes short circuit to the natural instict to be able to debate reality. Well played kristin, well played.
Why thank you 😏😏
ENFP tries to have a normal conversation
*instantly falls into an endless void of embarrassment
The funny thing is that this happens with ALL of my relationships 90% of the time XD
"but also... Maybe more 👀?"
I have a t-shirt with a squirrel that says: my life is a series of awkward moments ... and snacks. I really felt that energy when enfp one came
When my ENFP wife gets socially nervous she becomes an endless cavalcade of freudian slips. I laugh 'till I can't breathe, everyone else laughs, she laughs and then asks what was funny and everyone stops laughing... then I have to remember everything she said so I can explain it on the way home, then she laughs again.
Damn I relate to your wife xD
ENFP tries to drink a candle. That would have won me over 100%. -intj
Haha Se fail moment 😂. I love my Se fails they are so funny.
I'm another INTJ, and agreed! I'm a total Se failure, so seeing goofy shit like that; looks competent to me.
@Oliver Erz enfps are not idiots they are wise , stop the unhealthy self depreciation
@Oliver Erz I agree with you
It was cuter than watching a kitten. I wanted to hug my screen
INFP married to an ISTP - been together 13 years total. We knew of each other growing up but didn't start talking until late high school. I noticed him first and was daydreaming about what kind of person he was, but was too shy to speak up so I never said anything. Finally, friends convinced me to wave to him. So I waved for a few weeks; he started waving back for a few more weeks. Then he finally walked over and said hi. Turns out he was too nervous to talk to me too. The skits here were VERY accurate. XD Glad our extroverted friends encouraged us to talk to each other.
I like how when she said ‘we will all be in some kind of a box inevitably’ my mind immediately went ‘whether you wish to be buried in a coffin as an intact human or to be cremated, you will be in a box’
-INTJ
Also that thing about relationships and feelings being a complete inconvenience is very true whenever I see my crush I automatically remind myself of that
Edit: just took the ur my type test, I’m compatible with INTPs
I do indeed see why
And here I was thinking "They're living in a house. That's a box." 😂😂 -INFP
You went a whole several levels deeper with that observation.
@@GoVocaloider well to be fair that INTP earlier in the video reminded me to remind me of my mortality
I was just thinking about how incredibly fun it must have been for Kristin, an ESFP, to play the part of a disinterested ESFP who doesn’t like typology, hahaha. It made me wonder if she was pulling from interactions she’s had with other people or reflecting on her actual experiences when her ENFP sister tried to get her into MBTI.
UwU -intp
@Sophia you are absolutely right, I did have fun embodying my friends in that skit 🤣
I absolutely love the little disclaimer you put at the end. MBTI should be used for self-awareness and growth to become a more balanced person and to know the weaknesses we are prone to and account for that. MBTI does not define who we are but can give insights into how we and others might think. No one 100% agrees with their type and that means that they are unique and are growing. 👍
Definitely!
Your ENTP skit takes the cake! I was dying. But your ENTJ facial expressions are just so accurate. You nailed the disdain, disgust, anger, impatience, and contempt 👌. And that's just for the person they like.
What goes to the person they hate? :D
@@sylvia470 she needs to make a separate video for that
As an ENTJ, I feel attacked. But also, very accuarate.
9:22 My husband is an ESTP and I can confirm this 😂😂😂
-INFP
yo te conozco. Jpg. Jajaja
Ok but like - this is pretty heartwarming to read considering the fact that I'm an INFP crushing on an ESTP guy right now lol. I've just been getting the vibe that he likes me since he'll tease me and laugh about a lot of things that I say or do. It's kinda cute tbh ☺
I’m an INFP, but I relate so much to the ENTJ’s line of questioning about popcorn
Also, I think we need a full length version of “All That Jazz” 🎶
Hahaha look, I think we all can understand the ENTJ in this one. 😂
@@dearkristin *tactically didn't mention "All that jazz" request* xD ❤️
I second Lauren about "All That Jazz"
Responding to full length performance of "All That Jazz" -yes please.
Crush: So, what do you do for fun?
Me, an INTP: Oh, err... nothing that interesting.
Crush: C'mon, don't be so shy.
Me: So I'm actually in the process of inventing my own fantasy world complete with its own language. The cosmology was based on norse mythology with its tiered worlds. Mine essentially has three heavens, three underworlds, and three continents of the mortal realm in the middle. Everything in the world was made by a divine, eternal being called An - no relation to the ancient Sumerian god of the same name. The language still remains one of the most challenging parts of the whole project: I created a unique set of phonemes by putting English through a cipher, then playing around with the result until I got the desired sound. Word order was a little tricky since I don't speak any language other than English particularly well, and so it's difficult for me to think in alternate word orders. Eventually I settled on OSV because of how unusual it is and because I've heard Yoda so often it's easy for me to think like that. I've managed to translate the first nine verses of Genesis 11, because, you know, the mixing of the languages. The whole theme of the conworld is how things reflect the agent that made them in some way. It ties in very deeply to my own ideas about reality and... wait, where are you going? Ok... *existential sigh*
ugh this is why i hate that question haha
Why am I cringing at my own doing arghh 😭😭😭
As an INTP, this was incredibly interesting to read, I'd like to hear more, and I can't imagine why anyone would walk away from a conversation like that and not have any question at all!!
@@houdagirl5014 Oh believe me, I've had loads of people tell me that it sounds fascinating but then tell me not to bother telling them because they either, don't understand it, or can't imagine it. I don't begrudge people for not being interested. What does annoy me is that I have to feign interest in things like Bake Off just to have a conversation with people.
You actually want to know more? Don't say I didn't warn you. The first being that was made was Eruvadh (dh is pronounced ð, as in "the", whereas th is pronounced θ, as in "thin"). Eruvadh was tasked to make creatures to inhabit Kavá (that is all creation), according to the designs laid out by An. However, Eruvadh sought to make his own creations and went out from Nimnuhal (the highest of the spheres), to find inspiration. But nothing he found inspired him to create anything that An had not already designed better; until he came to the Void. He looked into the Void and became enamoured of it, for it was unlike An, and he saw his chance to make his own creatures. These creatures eventually became known as the Gaka: horrible nightmares that defied the laws of reality by morphing shape, splitting apart and reforming into seemingly impossible forms. They existed in a constant state of pain and torment, yet were incapable of suffering as they were possessed of no reason or will to even comprehend the pain they endured. An saw the works of Eruvadh and damned him to suffer death. When Eruvadh was struck by An, his being split into three: his soul flew off and split into unnumbered fragments that all became independent spirit beings known as the Wú; his physical nature coalesced into one mighty being known as Uwd, progenitor of the Dja race. The empty shell of Eruvadh's body was given a new soul by An, untouched by the curse, and became the ancestor of the Bim. The Gaka were damned to live underground, out of the light of the sun that burned them to death.
And yeah, that's a condensed version of the origin of the races of Kavá (not including the Anuhín, who came a bit later and have no relation to Eruvadh). Hope you found that fairly interesting.
YES I AM CURRENTLY DOING THE EXACT SAME THING
My current world is loosely based on Earth, 'Gods' are forms of 'mutiple thought', just like 'societies' and 'nations'. The language is different based on aspects such as terrain and culture. The country I am working on has a west Europe sort of feel, with clothes based off of 18th century England, and to the left of it there's a more Turkish sort of country, but with elves. I spent around two years working on the magic phenomena, and the multiple world stuff and dimensional stuff, I spent even more on the gods and cycle of reincarnation which is very complicated. But I can't tell anyone. Because people run away.
I really like that you imbued a mythology in your approach. There's a kind of story in your world that really flows, and it is really beautiful. I am curious. How was An made? What does he/she feel about his/her existence? What exactly is the Void? So the spheres were there BEFORE An or after? How were they made? How do they function? What is the exact power that An has? What is Eruvadh and An's relationship? I mean, An is mad about Eruvadh making stuff, there must be a reason. Is An a 'good' god? Or evil? What is a 'spirit'?
sORRY if this bothers you.
as an ENFP, I apparently flirt with everyone, what i think is a normal conversation legend has it is not. so, you can probably imagine when I'm actually talking to a crush, it's a nonstop battle that can never be won
EDIT: when i say everyone, i really do mean it, being friendly is quite suggestive it seems these days
This!
Yes!!! I get this all the time like really!? Did I ask you out or for your hand in marriage? Worst is when some dude you thought you made friends with slides In to your DMs at 2 am with a hey, and underwear picks😑😰😤 like what did I say to you that made you think I wanted anything other then friendship!?? Go away! And then people have the nerve to tell you its your fault for being nice to everyone. Excuse me, but aren't you all the ones who constantly share posts of cute kids saying hello to everyone and friendly dogs and people making cute friendship stories and say "the world would be a better place if everyone was like this" 😑😑😑 lol
I share this pain!
As an INFP, I cant reprime myself to think every kind person is flirting with me. Thats a bit of a pain actually to meet ENFP.
(Sorry for my grammar mistakes).
I FEEL U like im so friendly that it comes off flirty lmao
INTP pro tip: In the early stages, communicate with you crush via email/text so that you have time to put actual thought into your words.
Anyway, this worked for my husband and I (both INTPs.) He first asked me out via email, and we are still (10+ years into marriage) more likely to communicate via email than telephone when we are not in the same location.
Lol intp one was so accurate though I’m dying
HOW ARE U EVERYWHERE, I AM?
U are living my dream i hope i have same too🤩🤩
Or it means you crash and burn even more. :) it really is a coin toss.
As an INTJ, you captured the “sitting still with shifty eyes trying to hide your feelings” thing well.
So my takeaway from this is, I know an ISFP likes me if she starts plugging her sponsors in the middle of our conversations.
Hahahahaha!!
🤣🤣🤣
ISFP here!!
what do you mean? 🤣
as an ENTP I always don't want to ruin my friendship with my crush by confessing but always regret not telling -_-
LOL, "There's no table there." That just killed me!
Hahaha it was a joy to film
it's the way that i see the snapping fingers and my mind automatically goes "ESFP !!"
😂😂😂 The ESFPs on this channel are hugely theatre-focused and no one is surprised.
2:49 "This is why we can't have nice things" I see the INTP is watching Veritasium, very good 😎
In some of the bigger callout skits, I tend to always detect the ENFP in five seconds or less because I start whispering, “No… no, no, noooo oh my goodness it’s me,” and by the end of the skit it’s become, “NOOOO NO NOOOOOO-“
😭😂💞 too spot on this time
Hahahaha thanks Sophia ❤
You’re so welcome ☺️❤️
ENFP’s. Dolling out second hand embarrassment and epic cringe without any sense of self preservation since before the Big Bang 😋 glad to be of service
@@nerdadendem BAHAHAH
Me, an ENTJ: *cringing at the crush's business "plan"*
Hahaha seriously I was also cringing as an ENFJ. But I knew it was entj because of how hard they were on the crush. I would have been a bit more gentle with the crush as I try to really understand and make sense of that level of "unseriousness".
So I'm the only one who thinks that "popcorn" is a good business idea....I mean hey, it's sounds fun...I would like to listen more.
Well, I'm an INTP and I was also cringing. And if he had been my crush prior to that he would no longer be after that conversation.
As an entj, yeah after that conversation probably won't be my crush anymore :D
@@chisol3508 EXACTLY👏
I was kind of expecting the INFJ to be wrong, because anytime that I’m _that_ confident about a situation like this, I tend to be. 😅 - INFJ
Yeah, something can make absolutely perfect sense and still not be correct. At least as far as other people's motivations and all that. That's why I stick to impersonal systems. Calculus is easier to understand than questions like "has anybody ever flirted with me?" (INTJ)
@@frigginjerk Unfortunately my INFJ brain is very people oriented. Objective stuff like calculus is nice, but understanding people and their motivations is what really gets me going, so I kind of find myself having to whether I like it or not. Haha
@@sunchips18 People-stuff is more interesting, I'll agree to that. I'm not in one of the much-vaunted STEM fields myself, so I like to tease my science friends by saying that their work is a lot easier than mine because they have the luxury of objectivity, whereas I have to deal with weird, irrational, unpredictable humans.
@@frigginjerk Are you in the psychology field? That sounds about right. Haha
@@sunchips18 Close-- business. Instead of analyzing individual people for their benefit, I analyze groups of them so I can manipulate them for my own gain. :p
"wow you have a way of making me talk about myself"
me: INFJ?
kristin: "let me get you something to drink"
me: oh they're not lazy. ENFJ then
Also can I just say that this entire video has so much meme potential. Like the finger snap musical moment, or the crush's face when they ISTP talks to her. Oh and can't forget "that's a candle"!
INFJs are lazy ENFJs? LOL
@@krystlecalderwood6308 hahaha I know! I just found this comment very amusing because usually INFJs are portrayed all full of mistery and such 🤣🤣🤣
No way INFJs are lazy! You understand what the J stands for? Don't make me write an essay here...
@@karenwalkersginglass I'm literally an INFJ lmao
I can plan millions of things per day but if I need to get up to grab something I will rather to just give up on the thing than to get up lol
@@LAL7887 I’m lazy in terms of things I actually want to do, but I will work myself to the bone in school.
As soon as I heard the music, I knew it was the ESFP. And I started enthusiastically rooting for them, to be honest.
Yes! This is what I have been trying to cultivate on this channel! (Not at all subtly)
@@dearkristin you go girl!
I empathized more with the crush in that one. The lackluster "no" that you give when you know you're going to be mortified, but there's nothing you can do to prevent it. You know, if I had to be part of a theatrical production, being the guy who points the spotlight at everyone else would be the safest way for me to stay out of it, myself.
I find it hilarious that the INTPs crush actually approached them... y'all I can't
"I don't know who you are." Dead
Amazing!
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed that one
@@dearkristin Your videos are so relaxing to watch! I love them.
As a INFP, I think I would daydream about my crush at distance but malfunction if close XD
"wot?"
INTP's crush starting the conversation: Check
INTP talking about something abstract, seemingly out of nowhere: Check
INTP's sensitive teeth: Check
She's learnt the code!
Hahahahahahaha
I'm INTJ and yeah that's pretty much true to how my dating life is. Terribly inefficient, the whole romance thing.
(Incidentally, I use Ur My Type and apparently my preferred type is INFJ so your sketch is very accurate.)
How funny! What are the chances
@@dearkristin 6,25%. Heh.
@@DarkBlazeLeggendaxu 😂😂😅😅
Intj entp is the match, actually. You want to reverse the functions. So infj enfp, istj estp, esfp isfj. Kristin's compatibility with her roommate is Se hero to Si hero, for example, not Te parent to Te child.
(ISTP) Had a crush on a girl that worked at a social spot. Found a way to make myself useful there. So much that I was offered a job. I did all of this to get to know her better (also because I dont do well sitting around and socializing).
Working there landed me a few dates with her and though we decided not to pursue anything, I've made some friends in the process.
The ENFJ is so on point for me! 💯%!
I will deliberately put in extra effort to treat a crush the same as I treat other people. I need the crush to relax and make it easy for me to see and analyse their most authentic actions, thoughts and feelings.
Even as I talk to another person, my Ni is noting all the responses and comments from the crush.
I don't think someone I have a crush on would ever know that I like them except maybe in the very early stages when I am not yet prepared for the feelings and I may act a bit enfp-ish.
I now actually believe that Enfjs can be very very good spies or private investigators.
“Do they really have memes on there? I should tell my ENTP friend”
As an ENTP, I highly respect this. Screw understanding and supportive, all I want is that type of friend
(I’m joking btw, don’t come for me diplomats)
Hahahaha 👌👌👌
*ISFP-*
"I really admire Scott. He seems to know exactly who he is. He's driven, easy going and so incredibly kind. He's gonna make someone very happy some day. Just really hope that someone is me."
Shit. As an ISFP, that was the most accurate thing I've ever seen someone talk about us.
Yeah, as an INTP, I almost always engage in conversation with crushes like that. And I often think I've revealed too much.
Me watching the ENFP: *I SWEAR, I can feel the intense awkwardness and epic fail through the screen-*
...But I still feel so bad for them TvT
Me too, weirdly.
XD I have an ISTP sibling and the first one's just perfect for em- My INTP friend's inner monologue, yes, also me just zoning in and out, thinking about how cool a person is, yup, but I haven't really had any crushes yet 😂 -INFP
(I commented this a while before, but I think you missed it-)
Thank chu bro , I've been in similar situations like those except they were with teachers-
@@dearkristin what is your type
When she started talking while they were busy with work, I was like No, that girl needs to get her priorities straight, it's work time now not conversation time so we are definetely not doing the whole conversation thing. I was right - INTJ
*~*ISFP*~* I'm definitely the admire-from-afar type, lolol! I've also 100% used the "I'm not dating right now" excuse before, but it was when someone I wasn't interested in asked me out (except I'm still unsure if they were just asking to hang out as friends or if they wanted to actually go on an actual date.......). If someone I liked asked me out, I think I would just panic. Because on one hand, I'd be like "wow, this wonderful person likes me too", but then on the other hand I would be afraid that they would eventually think I was boring and dump me. Like, I would love to love someone with all of my being, but what if after being open and vulnerable and close, they leave? Then I'd have to start that process all over with someone else. :( I have a feeling that if I ever get into a romantic relationship, I would have to have been friends with the guy for a long time first, lol
When I saw the entp (I knew when I saw her arguing) I was like:
„Don’t be me, don’t be me, this isn’t a reflection on me, don’t be- oh shit“
Another great video, clicked as soon as I saw the notification
Thanks, Tom. Glad you enjoyed it 😁
Omg. Thats how ENTP love?
Hhmmm,,
Btw, the INTP one is accurate
@Yeabsira As ENTP I would give such advice. Stop being a kitten and grow up, invite your crush for a date.
@@lourenssianturi4373 Not actually. That is example of unhealthy ENTP.
I'm an INFJ. My best friend is an ENTP. When I confronted him once about how he had a crush on me, he denied it... So yeah, you nailed it.
You guys still best friends?
@@madisonseipp1767 yup. 17 years strong.
I had that exact conversation with my crush whom I believe is an ENTP,and she immediately denied it,like she used everything to win that convo kinda argument?...so I just played along and kept the peace,but I knew she was lying.
Why do ENTPs do this? (Serious question)
I actually got a match with someone on Ur My Type.
We both reply after more or less a week.
We're acquaintances now.
Very cool 👌
INTPs ??!
@@daphventurer7475 y e s
@@hanse.1576 lmao what else could you expect
Dang I feel called out here. Asking them deep questions because we MUST figure out how your brain works. BUT then making a complete bafoon of ones self as we try to abscond with our dignity left in the womb because let’s be real here I don’t think an ENFP has dignity left. FROM an ENFP who most definitely do that on more than one occasion. Also can we just say how unappreciated the ESFP totally was by their crush.
Hahahaha 😂😂
YEah no DiGniTy
I love enfps
Dignity? What’s that? 😭
@@alanaglaser7695 why thank you! 🤍
As an INJT I fully relate, easy trick to get rid of those feelings is to accept them as soon as possible, distance yourself from your crush and then quietly work to get rid of them.
"A bit less power"
*proceeds to absolutely destroy the papers*
😂😂😂
ISTP: It's not just the other personality that feels uncomfortable. I felt so uncomfortable. Couldn't follow through with it.
My line "Your hair looks nice today". Doh. Where do I take it from there?
😂😂😂
My INTP sibling seeing this: *Cringes-*
We have just enough awareness to feel awkward
Whoops, I meant *ISTP, sorry-
yeah, I would probably say hi and walk away awkwardly
ENFP hahahahah So true supper friendly amazing at relating to others and conversations and everyone thinks your flirting Oh sweat summer child... When we flirt... Then you will know.. Its like a baby dear taking its first steps... You know what its trying to do and its messy and all over the place and you just can't look away... And to top it all of on the flip side were never sure if some one likes us or often miss it as we think they just like us back as fiends and were on the same wave length and vibe well ahh the joys!
I'm an ISFP and when I was watching the ISFP sketch I was like "That's me that's totally me that's absoluetly me" all throughout it and as it turns out yep that's me.
The ENFP was *hilarious*. The whole thing was great as usual, but that particular one had me in stitches. ;)
As for the INTJ... well, I can relate in some capacity, but INTJs in love can actually be pretty romantic. If the feelings are strong enough, they have the ability to even mostly turn off Te and enhance Se. I know that from experience. Of course, when Te goes back to normal, the whole "feelings are so inconvenient" thing comes back at full force, so there's that. ;)
I'm not sure if this would be a common preference among INTJs, but in any relationship, if I could fast-forward about six months from the first date, i would do that every single time. My thinking is, by that point, the relationship probably either ran it's course and is already over and everything is back to normal, or else it's just getting into the good part then. I think it's mostly an "efficiency" thing on my part, but that's probably also right about when I'd feel comfortable showing the more romantic and demonstrative part of myself that are otherwise invisible.
The ESFP was so fun like a chick flick hilarious scene
Haha thanks!
@@dearkristin ....I mean who doesn't want a girlfriend who can sing like that...... The esfp is fun....but may be sometimes toooo much....so maybe.....maybe I don't😁.
There's no such thing as too much fun
I am an ENTJ, and had a conversation 75% similar with my gf, this is uncanny, scary, yet astonishingly accurate.
The INFP "living life in one's head" vibe is coming over strong... but also so true for me
I recognise myself in the ENFP. I haven't felt this called out in months. I recognize that I have the nervous flightiness that makes me bump things over while my mind goes 100 miles an hour. During this time, I have a high-speed version of the INTP internal dialogue as shown in the video... but the INTP manages to look cool and collected while I look absolutely scattered. Kristin, you made an extremely accurate ENFP presentation, thank you very much! And I like the ad and the disclaimer. Well done, this humour that makes me laugh all 16 times is why I give thumbs up (every time).
The spontaneous singing of showtunes would have me bolting for the nearest exit.
i must be a blind ENFJ to not see whenever someone thinks i like them. and these glasses were expensive already
INFP is on screen for half a second
Me: Oh no... this must be me...
.000001 nanoseconds after INFP's inner monologue begins
Me: Vietnam flashbacks to every crush I was too busy daydreaming about them to actually see the signals (or lack of) that they or anyone else around me may be interested.
Bahahaha
The panic at 3:12 is tangible… and relatable
🤣🤣
ENTP here; I normally just watch my type but this video kept my attention for almost 3/4! Well done so good👏🏼
I consider this a high compliment! Thank you 😁
Have you been spying on me? That's the most accurate ENFP I've seen in my life. I swear that's how I feel I act around my crush, it's the worst💀
Don't forget the following hours of thinking about all of the things you should've and shouldn't have said
Oh and yeah. His hopes and dreams/what he would like to do in the future were actually part of the very first conversation we had
Haha, yes! The over analyzing after making a fool of yourself... I very much relate!
Ni-doms are SO in point, for a second I didn't know which one I should've felt identified with
The INTJ one was so accurate. I was thinking that exact thing on my way home from work just two days ago. Also, on the ISTJ one, my ESFP brother reacted the exact same way when I tried to explain his personality type to him. So funny and accurate! Great video!
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed 😁
ISFPs too lol
2:31 "Too abstract; reel it back!" This happens all the time. :(
Even though 16 personalities are more scientific than astrology. It shouldn’t be treated any different.
Love and date who ever you want. Personality changes over time anyway. You don’t have to constrain yourself to the framework of any system.
I am an ENTP but I felt soooo identified with the ENFP. I am not so rude as to throw all the papers to my crush... I think
Yeah I like to think most ENTPs would not actually do that! Makes sense that you relate to the ENFP given that it was a hugely Ne-dom mood 😂 thanks for the comment!
@Alexis Webb :')
:)
@@daniellira3162
After watching this I got recommended by CZcams to test myself for autism :'}
@Alexis Webb yea ;))
,,So, what are your hopes and dreams?''
The perfect question to get my attention.
ENFPs are amazing. I also like when they are all-over the place😁. Too bad I haven't met the One yet.
🥺 ENFP here, making me feel loved 🥰 My best friend introduces me by telling people that I’m not nosey I just have a deep desire to figure out what makes each human tick. Also absolutely adore your profile picture 😋 I hope you manage to get a little bit of our crazy, awesomesauce in your life
@@nerdadendemThank you! :)
Now I'm curious about what type you are and Why this question catches your attention. xD
-ENFP.
@@catchingstars7 I'm an INFJ and I really like to share my passion for the things I like and also share my experiences with the other person. I'm also interested in people's dreams and future plans. I love to give advices and emotional support in difficult situations.
Aww hi ENFP here. That is how I start convo. I was at a college tour on Tuesday and I was meeting some people who were waiting outside the college (I’m in the uk so college is 16-18) and the convo got to what subjects we were taking, and this girl said she was doing art a level, and I was like “do you think that sometimes people can be too critical of art” 😂 I typed her as an INFP
As an INTJ, I become obsessed by my crush and think of a master plan that will never be executed on how to get a date with her because I actually behave too emotionless when she talks to me. Mostly, because I either don't want to show obviously that I have feelings for her, or because I just don't feel happy in the present, therefore not being able to focus on the present and enjoy the time together.
The ESFJ at the end was accurate. Just like my mom when I briefly talked about a new obsession like watches or sth. She would just buy me a watch lmao. Then I would tell her that it's kind but I'd rather safe the money for a high quality watch and then she would get mad and accuse me of being ungrateful. At times I truly believe in MBTI, at other times, I think it's just a personality type in your life phase.
I switched between INTP, INFJ, INTJ and even INFP. The most common one for me is INTJ tho and I really see myself as this type just by my experience and thoughts.
INTP, I'm asking a lot of questions to get mote knowledge. INFJ, I enjoy helping people and improve themselves or theorizing about the universe, INTJ, just isolating myself for the sake of self growth and mostly not engaging in emotional talk. I think I lack of empathy but deep inside, I catch myself feeling with the person sometimes but I can't express it so I either stand there, not knowing what to say and embarrass the other person, or I give a logical solution/hint for the problem.
INFJ and INTJ so closee
I gotta say though, as an ENFP, I sometimes entirely bypass "what are your hopes and dreams" and jump straight to "if you had horns and wings that represented who you are as a person, what would they look like? Also, what smell represents you? Oh, and what are your thoughts on death?"
I do this too, as an ENFP. Well said.
ENFP silliness is the best kind of silliness tho - really it's your strong suit
Now that’s some conversations I wouldn’t mind having (INTJ)
@@buchelaruzit That's why we love you INTJs!
@@dizzy388 :)
Dude you are such a good actress. Sometimes I forget I"m watching the same person. At this point I feel like we've gotten so used to it, but it's worth mentioning. Thanks for making videos. =)
Awwww thanks Devin 😁😁😁😁
YESSSSS INFJ x INTJ IS THE BEST SHIP YOU CAN'T CHANGE MY MIND
Seriously, it's scary how well you nail ENTJ. Not only what I've done over the past couple of years without too much success, but also how your body language is and how you talk... what a talent :D
ENTP is like- "Oh, I don't know what you're talking about! Haha" *starts stabbing Jennifer due to panic attack*
HAHA
Total panic..
So wonderful 😂❤️ I’d love to see 16 personalities being efficient/capable/solving problems while interacting with other types, I think you’d do great since you understand them so well 😊😊😊
My experience as an ENTP, everyone that I like runs away from me, everyone I do not like runs towards me... help.
Simple.....don't like people you like, like people you don't like.
Simple, just multiply both sides of equation by -1 :D
Gold replies
@@JstJaybeingJay In that case, I like you.... jk xD
Ah yes, ENTP denial. It’s our tertiary Fe - we’re secretly desperate to be liked, which leads to wanting to avoid being vulnerable, which leads to pushing away people we like, which defeats the original object. Plus we’re Fi blind so by the time we actually realize what our feelings are, they’re too big and scary to address.
I'm an ISFP and I find secretely crushing on somebody and taking no action or even rejecting the object of my infatuation PAINFULLY accurate.
Personally, I believe in permanence of marriage so the impact of my decision on whether or not to be with a person becomes so big I that I can't take the pressure. In addition to that, I often experience melancholy and internal conflict between my desires and my moral principles so I get stuck... So under this seemingly primitive commitement problem lies chaos of feelings
WTH…. Rejecting them?!? Why would you do that
omg this is me as well 😭😭 im a isfp as well and i also find myself rejecting people even if i want to date them