16 Personalities as Friends

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  • @alienator4500
    @alienator4500 Pƙed 2 lety +1308

    As an ENTP, youtubers who makes these kind of skits usually portray us always always and ALWAYS want to argue. Thank you for understanding us and not do just ‘arguing’ skits :)

    • @TheAnared
      @TheAnared Pƙed 2 lety +81

      I've actually, while watching, thought it would be cool to see our laid back side. It was great

    • @gorgonheap9770
      @gorgonheap9770 Pƙed 2 lety +96

      Couldn't agree more. My standard responses to most anything are "cool" or [shrug] "whatever, man." I was asked this morning about a new song and I gave a lengthy reply detailing what could have been done better, how, and why. That doesn't mean I actually *cared.* If the artist achieved their vision and you like it as it is, my opinion doesn't matter. So, again, whatever.

    • @JstJaybeingJay
      @JstJaybeingJay Pƙed 2 lety +38

      @@gorgonheap9770 exactly, that's how I roll... Most of the times it's just a shrug or a "huh..." Or "yeah...sure...đŸ˜Ș" Cause I don't care enough.....

    • @miahan8988
      @miahan8988 Pƙed 2 lety +42

      Glad for you! Now only if her ENFP didn’t have so much energy all the time :’) not all of us are enneagram 7s, some of us are 9s.

    • @JstJaybeingJay
      @JstJaybeingJay Pƙed 2 lety +23

      @@miahan8988 and most enfps I know are smarter or hard worker. They get better grades, better than me atleast😅😂.

  • @greenlimabean
    @greenlimabean Pƙed 2 lety +887

    The Intp being deflated when misunderstood. You're getting good at the intp, Kristin. No boring stereotypes.

    • @makaniwebb9358
      @makaniwebb9358 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      Yeah.

    • @aprilhelm518
      @aprilhelm518 Pƙed 2 lety +25

      ISTJ is flat. It's pretty stereotyped regardless of whether you *like* them.

    • @johnpaul6983
      @johnpaul6983 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      I feel seen

    • @Noelciaaa
      @Noelciaaa Pƙed 2 lety +9

      Yeah omg, it's so so immensely disappointing when someone says sth that makes me hope they are into the same thing but then it turns out this was a misunderstanding or they are into it super in passing and shallowly (while it is consuming my life XD)

  • @ReinhardMcKinky
    @ReinhardMcKinky Pƙed 2 lety +503

    "I'm only in one country, but good to know!" Got me more than it should've.

  • @aviator1787
    @aviator1787 Pƙed 2 lety +351

    if you want an ENFP to follow through on an idea, 1) immediately match their enthusiasm (they don’t get that very often, so it’s very encouraging) and 2) channel it into activating their Te. if they say, “we should go to the zoo!” reply, “yes!!!! let’s buy the tickets TODAY.”

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  Pƙed 2 lety +102

      I have learned to employ this technique!!

    • @justkay233
      @justkay233 Pƙed 2 lety +75

      honestly the only reason i don't follow thru with big plans as an enfp is bc no one else seems as pumped as i am

    • @alicial4857
      @alicial4857 Pƙed 2 lety +8

      Great advice. Thank you.

    • @aliceferreira7656
      @aliceferreira7656 Pƙed 2 lety +30

      HAAA TRUE, when enfps have an idea they have to put it into practice immediately, before the enthusiasm fades away lol

    • @nanfertiti
      @nanfertiti Pƙed 2 lety +16

      This is so accurate! As an ENFP I remember so much when I found my “ideal career” and told my ISTP father about it, he quickly started telling me how being a real state agent is not as easy as it seemed and talked about all the bad sides of the job, killed my excitement completely and I couldn’t get the motivation back.

  • @JS-wz3km
    @JS-wz3km Pƙed 2 lety +474

    I like this version of the INTJ, seems normal to me. She would have said all that to her cat who would have purr'd agreement. Also, that is exactly my ENTP friend.

    • @Lizzzi86
      @Lizzzi86 Pƙed 2 lety +17

      I'm ENTP and I felt identified with the ENTP part but also with the INTJ, I say the same things, even I really know the address of the ex prime minister's holiday's house 😏

    • @f.p1758
      @f.p1758 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      @@Lizzzi86 lol same
      Except I don't know much abt my president

    • @Lizzzi86
      @Lizzzi86 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@f.p1758 😅

    • @Slayer3264
      @Slayer3264 Pƙed 2 lety +19

      @@Lizzzi86 ENTPs and INTJs are two sides of the same coin after all. Probably why it's the most successful pairing for either type in the long term

    • @Lizzzi86
      @Lizzzi86 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      @@Slayer3264 true

  • @gabigel5254
    @gabigel5254 Pƙed 2 lety +104

    These subtitles worth gold

  • @KateWeatherMachine2
    @KateWeatherMachine2 Pƙed 2 lety +326

    I was three seconds into the INFJ when I started going "oh this one's probably me." It was executed perfectly- the initial brush-off, the insistence that it was fine, the "yep"- I can go on a whole tangent about that one "yep"- the way her expression is open yet closed at the same time, along with the small nod before turning right back to look at what she's doing, all just leapt out at me when I first watched it- that is *exactly* what I do every time. Meanwhile inside I do feel disappointed because my expectations hadn't been met, and I'm also mentally reprimanding myself for feeling hurt by it because maybe my expectations are too much and maybe it shouldn't matter as much as it does to me, hence why I'm telling the other person it's fine in the first place.
    Anyways I don't know how much sense I'm making anymore; the point is you hit INFJ right on the head for me and that situation is something I've experienced *far* too many times in my life xD
    Edit: I also forgot to mention the entire action after the friend left, looking back after them, the expression dropping, the small sigh of disappointment- nailed it.

    • @thirstwithoutborders995
      @thirstwithoutborders995 Pƙed 2 lety +38

      Fellow INFJ, I agree, this is what happens. But I am seething on the inside, because I put a lot of effort into making the food perfect for others, and yet I see how seething is unreasonable. Maybe I should have expected the delay and started later, or not put in as much effort in the first place. Are they responsible for my disappointment? Should I make them feel bad for their lateness? “It's fine."
      *has meltdown and decides not to socialise for months, until I find a way to deal and do better *

    • @whitneyd6827
      @whitneyd6827 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      Go back and watch it with captions on too :)

    • @tabby_cat
      @tabby_cat Pƙed 2 lety +7

      Oof, that sounds exhausting. I sort of relate in that I wouldn't say anything. But I'd probably just be annoyed and move on with whatever I was doing. If it's a regular thing, I'd think 'if they're just like this all the time, perhaps I should change the sorts of things we do when they visit', e.g. not prepare time-reliant things like hot food. Other people's punctuality problems are not my concern. >_>
      -INTJ

    • @mudman619
      @mudman619 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      in classic ISTP style, after reading the first sentence, then seeing the "read more" at the bottom, clicking on it, seeing how much you rambled on, I went "nope." haha.

    • @KateWeatherMachine2
      @KateWeatherMachine2 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      @@mudman619 That's fair xD

  • @J11_boohoo
    @J11_boohoo Pƙed 2 lety +250

    As an INTP I remember dreaming of a friend who shared similar interests with me I kinda eventually did in high school but I kinda realized I was just looking for fellow Ne users and now ENFPs might be my favorite type

    • @alessandraolmi4213
      @alessandraolmi4213 Pƙed 2 lety +14

      Good choice😉 we're actually pretty good😎

    • @Isaac-tp7hr
      @Isaac-tp7hr Pƙed 2 lety +11

      I prefer INTJ’s

    • @jamie_johns
      @jamie_johns Pƙed 2 lety +21

      I'm INTP, I don't think I have an ENFP friend, but I love my fellas ENTP and INFP.

    • @Jenny-nd8sq
      @Jenny-nd8sq Pƙed 2 lety +20

      My ENFP friends all can accept my quirky interests and are willing to learn. They're really chill to hang out with (for INTPs).

    • @jettsteel7305
      @jettsteel7305 Pƙed 2 lety +14

      I have an INTP friend too and I managed to make friends with them through our similar taste in music XD
      -An INFP

  • @LibraryofAcousticMagic3240
    @LibraryofAcousticMagic3240 Pƙed 2 lety +157

    You absolutely nailed the interested gaze in the INTPs eyes

    • @huntedsnark7507
      @huntedsnark7507 Pƙed 2 lety +29

      The spark ... the disappointment ... INTPs live this moment, over and over ...
      and yes! SO well caught

  • @ginnyweasley6571
    @ginnyweasley6571 Pƙed 2 lety +145

    ENTP really is spot on. I was waiting for something along the lines of “the friend who never agrees/always hurts your feelings/won’t stop arguing” or some other crap like that (which is completely fine but
 overused?)
    And instead
 literal gold. Loved it, hilariousđŸ€Ł

  • @thefirstofitskind895
    @thefirstofitskind895 Pƙed 2 lety +59

    BIG passive-aggressive energy from esfj

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  Pƙed 2 lety +20

      Passive-aggressive is one of my favourite roles to play 🙌

  • @misterwolf3817
    @misterwolf3817 Pƙed 2 lety +70

    Me as ENTJ friend be like: *Random facts that appear to be a death threat (or passive-aggressive) though you can help me conquer something and you will be forgiven for a while*

  • @peacefulleopard8016
    @peacefulleopard8016 Pƙed 2 lety +219

    The INTJ is perfect. Absolutely exquisite.

    • @SuperKatiki
      @SuperKatiki Pƙed 2 lety +22

      Even more so since she's apparently talking to herself.

    • @andermium
      @andermium Pƙed 2 lety +21

      Sometimes I wonder if we should let her keep making skits, but then I remember people will just think it's a joke so our plans are still safe

    • @naiveintj8888
      @naiveintj8888 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      And then you post that on a public network. Do you realize the implications?

    • @peacefulleopard8016
      @peacefulleopard8016 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      @@naiveintj8888 what are those implications, then? I haven’t directly said that I myself am an INTJ, I just expressed appreciation for the way a character was shown in the video.

    • @profesorplacerpulposo
      @profesorplacerpulposo Pƙed 2 lety +4

      You didn't put the minute.
      You fail us.

  • @valerieconrad1005
    @valerieconrad1005 Pƙed 2 lety +219

    You've go the ENFP enthusiasm down! I can always spot her with the first sentence!
    As an ENFP I have a list of all the "Hey, you know what we should do?" things! That way I remember. Though following through is very difficult, partly because it's so long lol!

    • @sophiaredwood5825
      @sophiaredwood5825 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      Hahaha I keep the lists too!! I put my ideas on my Notes app, and if in a few months I’m still interested, I might just approach other people about them. Maybe. If the commitment and planning is worth it. Lolol.

    • @Meg_intheclouds
      @Meg_intheclouds Pƙed 2 lety +5

      I also have a list lol- except I’m probs still not going to do it. For me the fulfilment comes with thinking about it and imagining it- sure doing it would be cool but it’s not necessary for me. The amount of things I’ve said, and then never done some I actually do want to do.
      The key is having Sensor friends who will help you actually do the things because they make up for bad Si and Se (and that’s on ISTJ and an actually fairy extroverted ISTP)

    • @valerieconrad1005
      @valerieconrad1005 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@Meg_intheclouds exactly! I do think there are many that I won't do. But I do quite a few of them with ISTJ hubby, who is fairly spontaneous!

    • @Meg_intheclouds
      @Meg_intheclouds Pƙed 2 lety +3

      @@valerieconrad1005 that’s cool! My dad is also an ENFP and my mum is an ISTJ, my dads away with work a lot and so it’s a very Si run household. But I know we drive my mum crazy when we’re both home by just discussing ideas and stuff that we have no intention of doing but it’s cool to imagine. Like an astrology nighttime pick Nick or the Renaissance fair we actually did end up doing to. Though I am keeping a list of the ideas we have so If it’s ever the two of us we have a list of ideas to fall back on. Although he’s way less extroverted than he used to be- but Ne still runs the show. Though he has pretty good use of all the functions. And then my sister is estp so she also hates my ideas that I never end up doing. Though I did fully intend on making s’mores with an outdoor campfire, or the outside projector movie night- but now it’s autumn so kinda missed the chance in summer- it was actually a sleepover idea I had for friends. We also never did the sleepover where we were gonna go on my friends roof and watch the sunset and camp in her garden- which we were so nearly going to do but then we rescheduled but there were so few dates everyone could do.

    • @alessandraolmi4213
      @alessandraolmi4213 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Ooh, maybe I should do a list too...but I would feel the impression of doing those things then...

  • @TheMANuel2595
    @TheMANuel2595 Pƙed 2 lety +190

    Im always a little sad when the ISTP clip is so short but then I remember that so are my social interactions (preferably) and thats what most of these sketches are about.

  • @user-sm5sj6mg2t
    @user-sm5sj6mg2t Pƙed 2 lety +41

    That was the most relatable ENTP stereotype I've seen to date.
    Edit: And, now that I've seen it, the most accurate portrayal of my experiences with INFJ people as well. By God, I *despise* false positivity.

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh6004 Pƙed 2 lety +117

    Awe! Poor INTP.
    She thought she'd met someone with a shared interest, but it all ended in disappointment.
    -an INTP who can relate

    • @jettsteel7305
      @jettsteel7305 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      I made my INTP friend through our similar interest in music XD
      -An INFP

    • @justinwhite2725
      @justinwhite2725 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      I had a coworker who had a triskelle necklace. I was so excited to meet someone I could discuss druidism and Celtic mythology with....
      Turns out it was a gift from his girlfriend and he had no idea of its religious significance...

    • @a.e.1965
      @a.e.1965 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      @@justinwhite2725
      solution: find her boyfriend and befriend him 😎👍

    • @Vanessa-qf7dt
      @Vanessa-qf7dt Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Another INTP here who can relate!đŸ€š

    • @sarahberkner
      @sarahberkner Pƙed rokem +1

      Yes, because becoming interested in something someone else is interested in isn't an option I guess

  • @Maryam-sk1zg
    @Maryam-sk1zg Pƙed 2 lety +53

    Can we just appreciate how she changed her clothes and background every time !!

  • @sophiaredwood5825
    @sophiaredwood5825 Pƙed 2 lety +95

    Not the ENFP callout 😭😂💞 I’ve taken to never announcing my ideas because the Si commitment that comes with them slaps me in the face. So now I’m the opposite friend, the one who gets asked to do something and goes, “Um, that sounds fun! 
I might, it depends on whether or not I’m free” or, with even closer friends, “I don’t know, that sounds like a fun idea, but it also sounds like a lot of work and planning
 it’s not that I don’t like you, I just don’t really like DOING stuff, if that makes sense. But if you advertise it well enough, I might be motivated to follow through. So keep talking about it.”
    I’d rather be painfully limited and straightforward in the moment than super flighty and scared and apologetic later. Because the latter’s been me soooo many times, aaaaagh! Lol.
    Love the video, Kristin!!! The captions are gold as always 😂😂👏

    • @sophiaredwood5825
      @sophiaredwood5825 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      @@Heliorhodonite Awe, haha! Thank you đŸ€©đŸ’ž

    • @100dollartissues
      @100dollartissues Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Dominant Ne is both the best and the worst, lol

  • @hj_lostintheinternet3754
    @hj_lostintheinternet3754 Pƙed 2 lety +95

    Very seriously- YES THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR PORTRAYING THE INTP IN THAT CONTEXT. That subtlety when you look up when your friend recognizes Boo and then goes back to the dream world look with a little dejection basically is amazing. I go through this a lot, it was so cool to see somebody else recognize it!

    • @greenlimabean
      @greenlimabean Pƙed 2 lety +15

      I felt sad for her intp character. how I long to show passion for something and share my thoughts with someone who can receive them. Happens once in a while with my husband, an esfj whose love for me is so demonstrative that he listens and sometimes contributes thoughts to my thoughts. Never happens with anyone else. So, I'm here.

    • @widewailcorduroy7278
      @widewailcorduroy7278 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      I have had conversations that went almost exactly like this. I think I've found a common connection with someone, and conversation just stops, like crickets, then that unspoken "wtf dude" moment.

  • @kaliah1494
    @kaliah1494 Pƙed 2 lety +25

    As an ENFP this is why the INTJ friend works so well with us. We bring enthusiasm and they bring it into action. "I'm bored do you have any plans for me this weekend!?" "Yes, we are going hiking."

  • @rizzres
    @rizzres Pƙed 2 lety +20

    why are the istp one's always so accurate bye 💀

  • @nerysghemor5781
    @nerysghemor5781 Pƙed 2 lety +84

    It's so weird how your ISFP skits almost ALWAYS remind me of myself as an INFP!! The sight of books languishing and being thrown away is a sad one. In this case I ALSO relate to the INTP, as I can be the friend with niche interests.

    • @hali453
      @hali453 Pƙed 2 lety +17

      Ikr sometimes I feel so related to INFP I’m an ISFP I feel like we would be best friends

    • @nerysghemor5781
      @nerysghemor5781 Pƙed 2 lety +17

      @@hali453 I think the shared Fi gives us part of our worldview in common. :-)

    • @emiliya7
      @emiliya7 Pƙed 2 lety +18

      I tend to relate to INFPs so terribly much that sometimes I doubt my type but I'm pretty sure that I'm an ISFP :)

    • @ceilinh6004
      @ceilinh6004 Pƙed 2 lety +17

      I related to the book rescue. Books should always be rescued.
      -INTP

    • @nerysghemor5781
      @nerysghemor5781 Pƙed 2 lety +10

      @@ceilinh6004 YES. Not only do they have intrinsic value, but if we lose our hardcopy records, which can't be deleted server-side by governments or other bad actors, that's not a good thing! --INFP

  • @ainspains3485
    @ainspains3485 Pƙed 2 lety +53

    As an ENTP, this hits waaaaayyy too close to home.
    I think some people find it off-putting how I can just not talk to them for extended periods of time and fall right back into normal banter/conversation when I see them next. No, I wasn't depressed/mad at you. I'm just generally not the type to reach out first. You wanna talk to me, don't wait for me-- just go for it.

    • @spacesimp
      @spacesimp Pƙed rokem +2

      This. It makes me seem fake and plastic too, or like I'm wearing a mask because I could be really enthusiastic one minute and then the next day, like a withdrawn monk. Nothing to do with you, just my ever changing personality.

    • @il5702
      @il5702 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +1

      same here, same here đŸ€œđŸ»đŸ€›đŸ»

  • @CRohrscheib
    @CRohrscheib Pƙed 2 lety +41

    Accepting of my quirky interests was actually in the "what I'm looking for in a partner" section of all my dating app profiles. If you can't handle my obsession with the history of radioactive disasters it's never going to work. #INTP

  • @Meg_intheclouds
    @Meg_intheclouds Pƙed 2 lety +81

    You nail the ENFP every time! I was with my friends today, and this video is accurate of our dynamic-
    INFJ- One of the most sweet people I know- But also she’s the one of the group people were scared of when we were at secondary school which I find funny because she’s lovely, but also the friend that judges your choices when they know they are bad for you. When she says “it doesn’t matter” she really means it does matter but she always lets her Fe get the better of her. What I’ve learnt to do is go “No it’s not ok, and you don’t need to say it is when it clearly isn’t. I’m really sorry that it happened, look I’ll help you with this and *provide solution*” and then probably end up buying her something that reminds me of her, because that’s basically my love language.
    ISTP- Actually does show, I thought she could be a ESTP because she’s more extroverted- but Ti is defo running the show.
    INTP- the one who Doesn’t show, also has niche interests that I like to learn about because I love it when she gets excited about it and love to talk to her about them.
    ISTJ- Keeps everyone on track, she made sure I did all the Si tasks I struggled with like brushing teeth, drinking water and sleep on time. Like she text me reminders and stuff- as well as being the reason My Lack of Se/Si self hasn’t been hit by a car when crossing the road yet. Also does judge decisions when she knows they are bad for you- and yeah you know About it 😂
    ME (ENFP)- The hype woman of the group, who yes does suggest ideas of things to do- but chances are I’m never going to do and it’s not even like I deliberately don’t do them it’s just talking and thinking about them is where I get my energy I don’t have to actually do it. Of course doing it would be cool- but it’s not necessary for me and chances are it’s just a throw away idea. But also I do believe I will do it at some point- it’s like I never learn- I mean Si is inferior so I yeah I never learn from experience 😂

    • @colterleasure6646
      @colterleasure6646 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      Oh wow, your advice for treating INFJs right might actually help me a lot. I'm an INTJ with an INFJ girlfriend.

    • @er6730
      @er6730 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      My best friend is ISTJ and it works REALLY well. She takes (only some 😟) of my ideas and makes them happen! Sometimes it even turns into an annual thing. Yay!!!

    • @Meg_intheclouds
      @Meg_intheclouds Pƙed 2 lety +5

      @@er6730 that’s really cool! Me and my ISTP friend have this annual tradition of carving pumpkins and drinking hot chocolate and then have a fire burner (Uk) and at bonfire night (an English holiday) we try and go see the fireworks and have hotdogs and hot chocolate. My ISTJ friend also only takes some of my ideas- although tbf some of them are insane, like they sound cool, and then she points out the logical inconsistencies and issues that I try and get past and make work in blind spot Ti. I remember doing these group projects at school and didn’t understand why people were shooting down my ideas when it was hypothetical and to me hypothetical projects of like “design an eco friendly hotel in a rainforest” means it can be completely hypothetical when really my ESTJ geography teacher meant for it to be based in reality- then why didn’t she just say that I’m an ENFP, and defo not a mind reader. 😂 also what is so ridiculous about it running on rain power I thought that was a perfectly reasonable idea- although ok maybe having it suspended in the air and then when asked by my group how that would happen shrugging and saying “magic” probably was a bit stupid. I was 11 though 😂.
      Also when building a castle in history I was like “ooh we could make it have canons like a ship” think about it can’t siege the castle if it’s constantly moving in water” was also a “stupid idea” 😂

    • @Meg_intheclouds
      @Meg_intheclouds Pƙed 2 lety +6

      @@colterleasure6646 I’m glad it might help, obviously every INFJ is different- and I only know my friend, but it works with her. I can tell when she’s upset most of the time I just can never work out why. The minute I’m upset she has figured out every detail with one question (and not because I blabbed either).

    • @anival9576
      @anival9576 Pƙed rokem +1

      What a lovely way to handle an INFJ! I know I'd appreciate it--having my feelings validated without having to explain them or find a way to fix them.

  • @UncooperativeCat
    @UncooperativeCat Pƙed 2 lety +95

    OMG. So that Fe silent-judging-passive-aggresiveness is what's making me trip up all the time in friendships. Also: the INTJ is on point, except in my case I'm less emotionally invested in my judgements. I have no problem challenging and changing them if proven wrong, I actually enjoy it as a way of interacting with others. Sadly it's that same Te what gets me into trouble with Fe/Fi (as main/auxiliary function) users :(

    • @johnknight9150
      @johnknight9150 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      Your sentences are inefficient.

    • @UncooperativeCat
      @UncooperativeCat Pƙed 2 lety +11

      @@johnknight9150 Maybe because english is not my first language.

    • @johnknight9150
      @johnknight9150 Pƙed 2 lety +8

      @@UncooperativeCat (INTJ joke)

    • @UncooperativeCat
      @UncooperativeCat Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@johnknight9150 👍

    • @nerysghemor5781
      @nerysghemor5781 Pƙed 2 lety +12

      Learning how to deal with Te can be tough for some Fi users. That said we DO have Te in our function stack so sometimes, Te is actually more familiar to me than Fe! As an INFP I get very irritated with anything I read as duplicity so while Te can sometimes be offensively blunt if there's no tact with it (tact and duplicity are NOT the same thing), I'll be even MORE offended when someone is passive-aggressive or two-faced.

  • @devinbrines
    @devinbrines Pƙed 2 lety +59

    The SFJ truther skits are the gift that keeps on giving đŸ”„

  • @TiredGryphon
    @TiredGryphon Pƙed 2 lety +28

    The ISFJ one was spot on sometimes my friends do things I don’t understand or disagree with but since I trust them to be able to make their own decisions I don’t usually say anything to them unless I think it will hurt them or someone else badly. And even then I don’t force them to do anything 😅

  • @WolfoxBR
    @WolfoxBR Pƙed 2 lety +56

    Yeah, INTJ is accurate. And I often do the INFJ thing too.
    Also, loved the bloopers. :)

  • @abdullahyousef3596
    @abdullahyousef3596 Pƙed 2 lety +11

    INTJ also have alot of niche hobbies or interests like who is interested in quantum field theory, while being in highschool.

    • @hassaniq0777
      @hassaniq0777 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +1

      Hahahahaha I'm the physics main in our class, I'm still in highschool
      -INTJ

  • @DreadCanary
    @DreadCanary Pƙed 2 lety +43

    As an INTJ I have to say that if I am judging you, you will absolutely know it.
    Also, I really need you to believe that I am not secretly planning world domination...

    • @angelinap.3840
      @angelinap.3840 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      not "secrectly" anyway

    • @DreadCanary
      @DreadCanary Pƙed 2 lety +4

      @@angelinap.3840 no no, it is absolutely ESSENTIAL that you believe I am NOT planning world domination.

    • @N0URii
      @N0URii Pƙed 2 lety

      @@DreadCanary why giving up?

    • @laststand6420
      @laststand6420 Pƙed rokem +2

      Conquering the world would be the easy part, governing the world after conquest wouldn't be worth it. You would have to deal with lots of people, all the time, forever... Perish the thought.

    • @user-pt3bv3jl3v
      @user-pt3bv3jl3v Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

      ​@@laststand6420 Yes, managing people is a pain, IF there would be many to manage... I have a couple ideas the INTJ above me would just love to get to work with. Technically sound ideas that should work. But I'll want to see a paycheck first. - INTP

  • @shhhhhift
    @shhhhhift Pƙed rokem +14

    i love it. There is good humor here, behavior corresponds to the characteristics of 16 personality types, NO unpleasant and cartoonish stereotypes, good work with editing, it's nice to watch the video, it's a bit a pity there are no timelines, but these are trifles. I leave my sincere gratitude to the author and wishes to continue her creative path in mbti.đŸ’•đŸ€§

  • @cliffhamrickwrites2378
    @cliffhamrickwrites2378 Pƙed 2 lety +43

    As an INTJ, it's never 'low key'.

    • @Debloper
      @Debloper Pƙed 2 lety +4

      Came to say exactly that. But then again, being underestimated is good in this case. Maybe it's better not to correct them!
      **Just smile and wave bois... smile and wave!** ;)

  • @ReinhardMcKinky
    @ReinhardMcKinky Pƙed 2 lety +13

    The implication that someone wouldn't know of the Super Mario franchise seems absurd, and yet people not knowing of many "popular" things, is all too relatable.⭐

  • @cccookies95
    @cccookies95 Pƙed 2 lety +27

    The INFJ one unfortunately describes my life too accurately 🙃 (though know that I’ve learned that about myself I do actively try to work on it - yay for self-awareness!) Love watching your videos every week!!

  • @kathyrias4863
    @kathyrias4863 Pƙed rokem +6

    I feel called out as an infj 😆
    Sometimes it's just hard and seemed a bit rude to tell people what you think of something because you don't know the reason behind their actions so you just feel guilty for thinking of them that way but you also can't help but judge them for it.

  • @earlyonion
    @earlyonion Pƙed 2 lety +9

    I am SO loving the portrayal of the ISTP, ISFJ, ENFP, and INTJ. Very on-point, as usual! And really, all these short videos of interaction are so awesome! --ISFJ

  • @lucasfabisiak9586
    @lucasfabisiak9586 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I like the bloopers the most. It's cool to see how much fun you have making these.

  • @Minotaur-ey2lg
    @Minotaur-ey2lg Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Your segues into sponsors are probably the best I’ve seen. It’s pretty impressive.

  • @TheLibran1
    @TheLibran1 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I love that her captions are different in places than the dialogue.
    I always appreciate that extra effort and content layering in a creator, SUBBED!
    (Also her portrayals are accurate. :) )

  • @YuS-French
    @YuS-French Pƙed 2 lety +13

    The hairstyle gives away the ENFP in every video😂💯

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  Pƙed 2 lety +7

      One day I'm just going to baffle you all by having the ENFP with the neatest hair in all the land!

    • @YuS-French
      @YuS-French Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@dearkristin in a video called "16 personalities mistyped"đŸ€Ł

  • @simonarnback6547
    @simonarnback6547 Pƙed 2 lety +18

    INTJ is spot on! Great job Kristin!

  • @Jenny-nd8sq
    @Jenny-nd8sq Pƙed 2 lety +13

    I am amazed! My ENFP ex housemate was always saying exactly the sentence "We should do this!" For instance, writing a philosophical story book, outdoor huge garden beer party, personal piano show etc... and none of them became reality 😅

  • @_thomas1031
    @_thomas1031 Pƙed 2 lety +9

    LOVE how you put the personalities in the ads😄👌
    Plus @5:09 *TE FACE* 😭
    PLUS PLUS the captions are always so well madeđŸ€Ł

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Pƙed 2 lety +25

    Maybe it's a testament to how many ISTJs/ESTJs I know or am related to, but those skits are absolutely accurate and on point to me! đŸ˜‚đŸ€Ł

    • @valerieconrad1005
      @valerieconrad1005 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Oh yeah! My hubby is an ISTJ. I always laugh because they are so spot on!

    • @sofitocyn100
      @sofitocyn100 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      my istj bf calls people stupid all the time, and he means it

    • @brucebolduc3403
      @brucebolduc3403 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      Istj don’t have a natural filter

    • @actionchaplain1
      @actionchaplain1 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      @@brucebolduc3403 Yes, the filter isn't natural. It needs to be nearly consistently consciously applied or I'll say anything. - ISTJ

  • @DawnsTower
    @DawnsTower Pƙed 2 lety +60

    Feel tots called out by the INFJ bit, haha... actually been working on actively trying to express myself sometimes, because this year has highlighted my lack of communication skills about myself... yay!
    Also, sadly I don't get the "bite" reference... might use the internet to figure it out.
    + Hope you're well!

    • @danebrammage4330
      @danebrammage4330 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      the reference - Mr. Creosote? Monty Python - dont watch if you have a weak stomach

    • @DawnsTower
      @DawnsTower Pƙed 2 lety

      @@danebrammage4330 thanks!

  • @justinoliphant9875
    @justinoliphant9875 Pƙed 2 lety

    Fantastic as usual. Great work Kristin.

  • @cheetopuppy6188
    @cheetopuppy6188 Pƙed 2 lety +12

    HOLY CRAP THE ESFP IS THE MOST ACCURATE ONE I'VE EVER SEEN!!! I am simultaneously proud and embarrassed 😆

  • @markoselendic9633
    @markoselendic9633 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    THE FRICKING SUBTITLES JUST KEEP GETTING BETTER AND BETTER OMG THIS CONCEPT OF SAYING ONE THING AND THE SUBTITLES BRING THE THING THAT THEY'RE ACTUALLY THINKING AND IT'S NOT THE SAME OMG SO GOOD!!!!
    Sorry for the all caps I just can't
    - INFJ

  • @RisingSun0401
    @RisingSun0401 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    As someone who actively hates adds & sponsorship talks, you have some of the best add talks I've ever seen

  • @chloe4673
    @chloe4673 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    oh my god you absolutely nailed it with the enfp one and the intj one. as an enfp the amount of times my friends have slowed me down and told me to take things one step at a time is astronomical, and I'm the first one to bail too

  • @kaospilot2774
    @kaospilot2774 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Dear Kristin,
    Thank you for making me smile today :) Great skits, as always!

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  Pƙed 2 lety

      Naw, thank you for this lovely comment!!

  • @bernardszymanski6358
    @bernardszymanski6358 Pƙed 2 lety +9

    The friend who is the life of the party and then inexplicably disappears for months at a time - ENTP. Ah so familiar, glad to find out that there are others like that

  • @marianavarro6316
    @marianavarro6316 Pƙed 2 lety +9

    You all are missing out if you're not watching these videos with captions on. Thank you for working so hard on those!Also, ENFP sketch was on point!!

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  Pƙed 2 lety

      My pleasure!!

    • @Ananalias
      @Ananalias Pƙed 2 lety +1

      I always watch them twice, first without, then with the captions 😁

  • @Blazeofthecentury
    @Blazeofthecentury Pƙed 2 lety +14

    The ENTP is so accurate to me. Truly spot on.

  • @amandarobertson3772
    @amandarobertson3772 Pƙed 2 lety +9

    As an ISFJ, I’ve had that EXACT conversation with someone 😆. Only I didn’t lie and say it was great; she already knew how I felt. Fortunately she’s been out of that toxic relationship for a while now.

  • @fayem4091
    @fayem4091 Pƙed 2 lety +6

    HOW AM I RELATING TO MOST OF THESE AT THE SAME TIME??? especially all the XSTJs and XNTJs ....shit
    ~INTJ

  • @maryl1785
    @maryl1785 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Loved it. Great job working in the commercial (and I mean that). The INFJ was spot on in my view!

  • @ruthmcilmoyle4941
    @ruthmcilmoyle4941 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Love the paintwork on your outdoor shed

  • @unfckthewrld
    @unfckthewrld Pƙed 2 lety +6

    Omg the INTJ one is incredibly accurate. Thank you for portraying our bitter, everyday side.

  • @hidinginyourcloset
    @hidinginyourcloset Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Honestly these advertisement skits are pretty fun to watch and don't take away from the video. That's really cool bro 😎

  • @federicooglino4645
    @federicooglino4645 Pƙed 2 lety +9

    2:32 Damn, ISTJ is always represented so good. 👍

  • @JasonLaw29
    @JasonLaw29 Pƙed 2 lety +6

    I felt so sad for the INTP but I can totally relate 😂 No wonder my closest friends are those who share the same niche interests and hobbies as me (board games, classical philosophy, etc..) and I have always found it a pleasure to discover a kindred soul. Even my taste in board games tend to be quite niche among my friends.
    I don't let people into my 'inner circle' easily but sharing a similar niche interest tend to get people in there much faster 😂 It tends to make relationships that do get there more 'authentic' though 😄

  • @debbiekparke
    @debbiekparke Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Love the nuance in your portrayal đŸ‘â€

  • @zacharylind1257
    @zacharylind1257 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    "I'm still planning on doing all those things and it's gonna be great!" I have said this very thing so many times to my dissapointed friends who think I'm flaking. I'm not lying! The intention is very real! I am intending to do these things and therefore even though they have never happened, they are true and exist in the real world, despite never having manifested them in any way beyond my intention to do so! This is how real life works, right??? Lol that captured us ENFPs spot on

  • @orlahayes6943
    @orlahayes6943 Pƙed rokem

    Hahaha! I've fallen down the rabbit hole of your videos and I'm such an ISTP. Definitely the one who doesn't show, holds up the wall at parties and loved the Parent-Teacher conference video - spot on!

  • @kairostimeYT
    @kairostimeYT Pƙed 2 lety +4

    This is one of the best skits you've made so far! Well done. Even with the advertisements in there, I found myself super excited throughout the video. I didn't see anything wrong; also, I noticed that you are striving for a better mix of stereotypes and authenticity nowadays. Nice. Also, I miss you singing as an ESFP or ENFP. You can bring that one up sometime as well XD (I think that the last one you did was the lockdown song which isn't that long now that I think about it but still :p)

  • @devinbrines
    @devinbrines Pƙed 2 lety

    I like how down to earth all your settings are

  • @anjaliagrawal2086
    @anjaliagrawal2086 Pƙed 2 lety +9

    Those ghosts are soooo cute😍
    My sister and I actually drew the ghosts on our Halloween-themed anniversary card for our parents: ENTP for my dad and ISFJ for my mom!

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  Pƙed 2 lety +3

      So cute! 😍😍😍 love that!

  • @pocahontas5145
    @pocahontas5145 Pƙed 2 lety

    Love your videos and love your outfits! You seem like a fun person to be friends with!

  • @uncommonsense7476
    @uncommonsense7476 Pƙed 2 lety +8

    INTPs around the globe check their t-shirts and nod in agreement.😎

  • @aleksycitriauskidis7136
    @aleksycitriauskidis7136 Pƙed 2 lety +6

    6:53 I knew from the very first sentence that it would be ENFP, which is also my type. We want to do so many things, but if only we had someone to help us with our plans, we would have accomplished most of them. We actually would like to do them, but we think other people just said they wanted to, and didn't really take it seriously. It would be good to know that they actually care too

  • @worldalicious
    @worldalicious Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci +2

    I am an ENTP and this is just the most accurate thing I have ever seen...I have a lot of friends and everyone asked me to contact them during the vacation...The only moment when I remembered it or felt like doing it was when I met them in person again...I don't really keep conversations though I create awesome ones...

  • @J11_boohoo
    @J11_boohoo Pƙed 2 lety +11

    I’m an INTP with an ESFP friend and when we we’re kids he apparently decided to make friends with me cause he considered me “a challenge to befriend” and now he occasionally invites me to go to places I take 2 weeks to decide whether to go or not

    • @cheetopuppy6188
      @cheetopuppy6188 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Because INTP's are a challenge to befriend ~ESFP

  • @elianastellet3559
    @elianastellet3559 Pƙed 2 lety

    Amazing video as always

  • @Meg_intheclouds
    @Meg_intheclouds Pƙed 2 lety +11

    With the ENFP saying “murder mystery games” I feel like that could be a set up to another video in the DKCU (dear.Kristen cinematic universe) and like you mentioned in your Q&A video that you wanted to do it and had ideas- I think it could be so cool to see that (and also to see an ENFP actually do one of their ideas)- also MBTI types at the zoo could be a cool sketch, you don’t necessarily need to film it at a zoo- but like the ESTJ could like make a schedule of when to see everything based on the map and works out the way to get the best out the experience, and then the ENFP is just getting excited about everything and is also like “let’s go see the tigers now.. ooh no the elephants”- I feel like the INTJ would be opposed to zoos and then we get an INFP monologue talking to like one of the animals about how it feels to perform to people all the time and never truly get freedom. - ENFP

    • @glueball214
      @glueball214 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      yes .. the INTJs Fi thinks the animals in the zoo would be happier in a nature preserve and we could enjoy/study them via live cam or travel .. low key

    • @subregulus7521
      @subregulus7521 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      ​@@glueball214 I'm INTJ and I find zoos fascinating. Specifically I find interesting how animals like lions,tigers, bears.... would be a threat to us in nature but in zoo there are little kids watching them without fear of being their lunch. I also think that zoos are better for some animals like for those who are old or injured because if animal is old or injured in wilderness they're going to be dead in a few days but in zoo they can live and die peacefully. But it's only my opinion and some INTJs might think something else. Also I'm sorry for my english it's not my native language.

    • @glueball214
      @glueball214 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@subregulus7521 hi and much thanks. Always best to have a full spectrum of view points 💙

    • @subregulus7521
      @subregulus7521 Pƙed 2 lety

      ​@@glueball214 I'm always happy to give someone a new look on things.

    • @dearkristin
      @dearkristin  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      This is a great idea! Thank you 👌

  • @SimoneEppler
    @SimoneEppler Pƙed 2 lety +31

    So, ESFP and ESTP will meet in jail, then?

  • @glueball214
    @glueball214 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    'well I love that system 😉 ' ... sold, sold, sold ..
    what am I buying, nevermind, ALL GOOD

  • @einahsirro1488
    @einahsirro1488 Pƙed rokem +2

    INTJ - I always spot her immediately. You have my facial expressions (all 2 of them) down pat.

  • @isshikisapron911
    @isshikisapron911 Pƙed 2 lety

    I love this one!!
    I have a request: make a 16personalities in group photos video

  • @anjalitanya4833
    @anjalitanya4833 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    ESFJ was spot on! My friend is exactly like that!
    I also burst a lung at ENFP, my best friend EXACTLY, but I'm INFP so I too make a lot of plans and never get around to doing them 🙈😂

  • @user-cy4fd7mx5k
    @user-cy4fd7mx5k Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci +1

    6:50 as an INTP I am honored and relate. I am the friend with a bunch of deep knowledge about the most random topics

  • @edwardzhou8590
    @edwardzhou8590 Pƙed 2 lety

    thank you for portraying the negatives of these archetypes it must be a fun change of pace from your usual positive portrayals

  • @migsmethinks5801
    @migsmethinks5801 Pƙed 2 lety +11

    Yes!!! That Scrubs shirt!!! Turk and JD = totally manly BFF guy-love-between-two-guys goals that I would totally never be comfortable being a part of as an INTJ but still appreciate seeing because it's so precious and pure and doesn't at all take away from their abilities as somehow-decent doctors

  • @consuvideo2165
    @consuvideo2165 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Hey, I've had some ideas, but when it comes to plans with my friends, I always try to stick to them (although punctuality still fails me).
    Where that does happen to me, that I plan something and end up very disappointed in myself, it's at home, when I say that I will tidy up my room, that I will do this or that and the day ends and in the end I haven't done even half of what I'd planned that I would do.
    _(I suck at planning things)_

  • @lt.branwulfram4794
    @lt.branwulfram4794 Pƙed 2 lety +7

    The Friend with Niche Interests. That’s definitely me.

  • @imafuufelis2179
    @imafuufelis2179 Pƙed 2 lety +10

    6:52 Oh no, I have an INTP friend who has high Ne-Fi (sometimes she acted like ENFP too) always come up with many plan ideas and always invite me. I hope she makes it happen, if not I'll be so sad because I the person who planned it in detail :') -xNFJ

    • @Bongi344
      @Bongi344 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Remind her/him. They just need to be reminded. - INTP

  • @AugustBonds
    @AugustBonds Pƙed rokem

    ESFP on point đŸ€Ł you’re awesome 👏

  • @loltadynicneni913
    @loltadynicneni913 Pƙed rokem

    1:57 i knew it was enfj, i know 'em when i see 'em! :D also you nailed it. 1. immediately trying to find a solution for a problem, 2. slight manipulations in social situations, 3. unusual honesty about what's going on in our heads. as an enfj, love it

  • @arabellamousseau3344
    @arabellamousseau3344 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Nailed the classic *ENFP gasp of excitement*
    I struggle to act on some of my ideas, because I don't always have access to what I'd need. My sensing dad helps me out a lot though. He pushes me to act on (good) ideas and is willing to help me get what I need.
    I love spurting out ideas, even if they'll never happen cuz just the thought of it brings me joy.
    My ISFJ mother doesn't understand and thinks I'm making a gazillion impossible plans, lol.
    One of the best feelings is coming back to an idea after some time and sticking to it. I've been working on writing (*very* slowly) a story for about three years now! I've taken breaks, but then my mind is refreshed and I'm ready to jump back in 😁

  • @devinbrines
    @devinbrines Pƙed 2 lety

    Looking good Kristin =) Glad to see you doing well it seems like =)

  • @miss.random2235
    @miss.random2235 Pƙed 2 lety +9

    As an INFP the hidden meaning thing was so damn true😂😂😂

  • @DJhero5001
    @DJhero5001 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Yeah, you got the ISFJ silent judgement right. There are many observations I have about others around me that I tend to keep to myself due to thinking I don't know everything about the situation at hand or I won't be heard by those I'm talking to.

  • @zeemonrollin8340
    @zeemonrollin8340 Pƙed 2 lety

    8:02 I totally like this when watching some shows and stuff for why the characters aren't doing certain things.
    example: their was one video game murder mystery thing where with all the clue you have to find the culprit through new info of the scene and debates of... It's Danganronpa.
    for the first trial, I found one very elaborate way the murder could have taken place that still met all the rules and regulations of the scene and who it could be based on a past dialogue from the positions of characters but it ended up being something completely different.

  • @jueedhar5449
    @jueedhar5449 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    Dammnnn, the ENFJ skit was spot on... And yes I have stalked my friends to accidentally run into them and catchup and try to slide in the fact that they never (ever) call me up ... All with a smile on my face as if I m joking, I m not ... Don't say u r lonely if I give u an option (okay more like a direction, anyways) to call me up and u refuse to do that... I know I m boring but pls talk to me if u need a friend, because I literally am WAITING... Come on call me up and let's unpack that đŸ„ș

  • @soup_n_pie7036
    @soup_n_pie7036 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    You nailed the ISFJ one. Great job :D

  • @augustinensang3109
    @augustinensang3109 Pƙed 2 lety +7

    "I'll be there for you!!!!!"

  • @kylozen3938
    @kylozen3938 Pƙed 2 lety

    I knew they were 100 percent an entp when they said "big question..."
    Then went to exactly explain my sentiments on music.
    Beautiful.
    Nothing quite like immersing yourself into the vibrations of sound in order to resonate with a feeling better.

  • @janjezek9913
    @janjezek9913 Pƙed 2 lety

    Another great video, where I can guess types for fun ;) thanks :)