Which of the 16 Personalities Makes the Best Friend?
Vložit
- čas přidán 9. 06. 2024
- Which of the 16 Myers-Briggs Personalities makes the best friend?
✨ Go to www.squarespace.com for a free trial or go to squarespace.com/frankjames to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain. (sponsored)
Learn more about the 16 Personalities by watching my "All About the 16 Personalities" Playlist! • All About the 16 Perso...
☕ If you'd like to show me some love, buy me a coffee ❤️ infj.me/coffee
Subscribe 👉 infj.me/sub
T-shirts, Mugs, Hoodies 🙌 infj.me/store
Word-of-the-Week Motivational Email 🎉 infj.me/fun
The 16 Personalities (The Myers-Briggs or MBTI Types) are as follows:
Extroverted Thinkers: ESTJ and ENTJ
Introverted Thinkers: ISTP and INTP
Extroverted Feelers: ESFJ and ENFJ
Introverted Feelers: ISFP and INFP
Extroverted Sensors: ESTP and ESFP
Introverted Sensors: ISTJ and ISFJ
Extroverted Intuitives: ENTP and ENFP
Introverted Intuitives: INTJ and INFJ
Gear I Use 📷
Camera: Canon 6D Mark ii amzn.to/2RwOLSB
Lens: 24-70mm f/2.8 USM II amzn.to/2YCyvmd
Light: Neewer Ring Light amzn.to/2CXSvFJ
Green Screen: Elgato Green Screen amzn.to/2CXQx8s
Podcast mic: Blue Yeti amzn.to/2q3976o
Music I Use: www.epidemicsound.com/referra...
If you purchase through my links, I will get a referral bonus and you will be supporting this channel.
Merchandise designed by the talented Maria Filar
www.mariafilar.com/
/ @mariafilar3077
#16Personalities #MBTI #MyersBriggs #INFJ #INTJ #INFP #INTP #ENFP #ENTP
0:00 Intro
0:37 Squarespace
1:34 Disclaimer
2:28 Reliable Friend
3:23 Adventurous Friend
3:57 Tough Love Friend
4:49 Supportive Friend
6:13 Honest Friend
7:04 Loyal Friend
8:15 Open Minded Friend
9:15 Insightful Friend
Thanks for watching!
Watch more videos like this one in my "All about the 16 Personalities" Playlist! czcams.com/play/PLXSEPM58cSUy54rxsST4eVRDbK726MJCA.html
Hey Frank I took to personality type test but both were different ( INTJ and INFJ )
How to know which is correct?
💖
u forgo sensors
INFJ’s never give up, thus why we make good friends for anyone..
Love isn’t a disposable object..
16 personalities commenting on CZcams
Me, an INFP: "We're such great friends! ...I'm just going to say nothing and hope that our friendship doesn't disappear!"
I have an INFP friend that won me over when she noticed that I was an empath and told me she was one as well. We were so happy! I love her sweet eye expression and her sincerity, plus she has her bed full of plush toys like my siblings and I, she even offered her husband Toothless, and who doesn’t love Toothless?! I comfort her but I have to give her space when she needs it, which for me is not hard. Funny, I thought my school best friend was an INFP but now I can see she was an ENFP, always doodling in class. She just was more of an ambivert than an extrovert. I love them both 💗
😂😂😂
Why you showing what i do in my life INFP
Yay I'm the 500th like of this comment.
Well, fellow INFPs, that was my social interaction for the day!
lmao me being like "oh gosh i talked WAYYYY too much i hope i didn't said something that can be taken badly omg what did i even say in that conversation i don't remember oh gosh why"
i have a friend always complaining he got nothing interesting to say, i'm like well you're interested in my bullshit and i have a lot of shitty things to say so don't worry about it bro
INTJs make the best friends.
To themselves.
You know what, that's actually really cool. 🤔😆 - ENFP
i agree
Omg so accurate
Yes! My dad is an INTJ and he is that way😂
Yep... We travel alternate dimensions, explore different time lines, play chess together, give hope and inspiration to each other 🥰... And most importantly have meaningful conversations 24/7
INFPs: let me just ghost them for 3 months cause i feel like it.
also INFPs: wow they just left me like that
Lol this is so relatable. It can get overwhelming sometimes. And especially when we're stressed, we might not be in the mood for socializing
SHHHHH
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA! I do ghost friends. 😶 And then they eventually ignore me foreverrrr... 😞 I only wanted to recharge though. Haha.
I dont really know how to relate. I'm an INFP that actually like to stick like glue to my friends, if I can. Most of the time I can't tho, so that's normally the case when I ghost someone
@@gabrielrigon3170 honestly ur pretty lucky if u like sticking to ppl like glue. I do too but sometimes I just don’t feel like it u know?
INFP: _Likes this video_
Well - *dusts hands* - that was my social interaction for the day.
👍🏻👏🏻
I like INFP and INTP friends the most, also INFJ's. Other INTJ's can sometimes be too annoying. - INTJ
Why?
Not me being an intp 🙃
Me, an INFP with an INTP friend: :>
@@jettsteel7305 I’m the other way around lol my closest friend is an infp and I’m an intp!!!
@@chibi_okami Sometimes I just think we occupy the same "space" - and sometimes getting to competing. Still INTJ's can make great friendships with other INTJ's
INFJ and INFP makes the best friends 'cause they really make the deepest and authentic connection with their partners
My husband and I are INFJ'S and when we "argue" we drive our kids nuts!!! It can be a real deep rabbit hole just ordering take out. "What do you want to eat.... I'll have Mexican food but do you want Mexican food,..but I asked you, it doesn't matter what I want,... of course it matters, you matter, why would you say that, lets get something you want too, no... I asked you, you should get what yiu really want to.....Meanwhile, kids are saying OMG, can you get the food already!
I am an INFP and I absolutely adore INFJs, would love to meet more of them :))
I’m infp married to infj. We are together for 15 years- best friends😄
@@quirkyt_T hahaha how cute
Im an INFJ i dont care as long as someone understand and not betray me i got 2 friend jt been 17 years
2:28 ISTJ & ISFJ
3:23 ESFP & ESTP
3:57 ESTJ & ENTJ
4:49 ESFJ & ENFJ
6:13 ISTP & INTP
7:04 INFP & ISFP
8:15 ENTP & ENFP
9:15 INFJ & INTJ
Friend Type timestamps are also in the description.
Thank you❤❤
yooo my best friends are intp’s and i’m an istp
Thanks wanted to find mine!
Infp where my best friend isfp??
So literally I'm infp and my best friend is isfp i think we exist for each other...
Not many men can pull off a lobster shirt, but Frank James does it.
They're lobsters?! I thought they were rockets 😂
@@TaylorVero So did I!
@@TaylorVero 🤣🤣🤣
And he wears it as good as no one other on the f***** Planet😌
That’s the ENTP Jordan Peterson character
"The worst thing about meeting new people is that they are new, and they are people, and you meet them"
-ISTP
Edit: Omg
😂😂🤣
as an intp, can relate
This message is infj-approved
I am an ISTP and I agree. Lot of people will say we're friends. I don't see them as a friend, I see them as a person I am sitting at lunch with, truth hurts bro
@@Barunakuklovska YES
I'm an ENFP and literally all of my closest friends are INTJs and INFJs. I'm always surprised when I hear that INFJs are the rarest type, and my spouse jokes that they're rare because I'm hoarding all of them.
My mom laughed so much at your comment, she loved it. (I'm an INFJ, my only sister is an INTJ and mom is ENFP, we are very close)
@@gsahara8405 You're the reverse of me--my mom is an INFJ and I'm the ENFP!
AND my only sibling, my brother, is an INTJ!
@@ruleestory what a beautiful family you have! (I hope your mom didn't drive you crazy with the J thing, you guys are so chill and we are not at all 😑) lol
can I ask what type your spouse is?
@@gsahara8405 Hahahaha honestly it wasn't the J thing that bugged me as a kid, it was the fact that I wanted to have friends over more often than she did (E vs I, hahaha.) And wait for it...my spouse is an INFJ.
I'm an ENFP and my soulmate best friend was an ENFJ. Lost her last year due to cancer and life just isn't what it was without her. I think she was the healthiest ENFJ you can imagine, truly altruistic, warm-hearted, strong, fun, highly intelligent and sensible. The greatest friend you could find. The people who helped me survive me this loss and pandemic so far are INFP, INFJ and also ENFJ. I'm grateful these people exist.
hi ENFP. My adopted son is also ENFP, and he helps me (INFJ) survive this pandemi ... and he does it without even trying. So wonderful type such of yours (^^)/
🤗🤗
I'm an INFP sending you a virtual hug ❤ ENFPs are my favourite, thanks for existing you're amazing 🥰
I’m so sorry! God bless you!
My condolences.
"You should have a friend of every personality type"
phffff yeah if i can get 16 friends...
same
I already have zero friends, ain't that enough ?
now you have one :))
-ENFP-T
@@uniblack591 my infj-t heart just beating so fast 🥰
@@peli8luca
my best friend is an enfp, and i'm an infj. i normally hate public places, but for some reason, everytime i hang out with her in public places, my extroverted side comes out, which according to other people is like a blue moon. we've been best friends since we were 2
Same! My best friend is an ENFP too (i’m an INFP) and he always brings the extroverted side of me too even tho i hardly talk to anyone else
omg, my best friend is an enfp and i'm a infj too
I’m an ENFP and my best friend is a INFJ. And the same thing happens with us, when we’re at social situations she says it easier to talk if we’re together. And I think that’s absolutely cute. 🥺
@@anahibasurto7920 thank you xd im an Infj and reading your comment made me so happy
sameee I'm INFJ and I have ENFP, ENTP and ISFJ friends and because of my two extrovert friends, us introvert shows our extrovert side
My best friend is an infp and i am an istj, and we get along super well. remember besties don’t base your friendships on mbti :))
I'm an INFP married to an ISTJ and we are also best friends. We have more in common than people might think AND can balance each other out.
@@erinl2278 that’s sweet 💗
I'm INFP and I have never met an ISTJ but I really want to 😫
I'm an INFP and my twin brother is an ISTJ, we definitely don't agree on everything and have different ways of living life, but at the end of the day we always have each other's backs ♥️
@@missdannaraine That’s so cuteee :,)
I’m and INFP and my best friend of 10 years is an ENFP, she forces me to hangout with her but also completely understands that I need my alone time as long as I answer her face time calls once a day we’re good
Once a day ? God, sounds exhausting to me
@@callmesam.4502 ikr, I need my alone time
I'm an ENFP, 52% extrovert 48% introvert, my bestie is ENTP ,and this is opposite of me, she likes to hangout , I do like that but not always, and if she can't she will just video call me, I don't really like always talking but for her I do that,
I'm an INFP and my wife's an ENFP. We get along pretty well. She loves my silly side and tolerates my gloomy side.
Everyone in the comments talking about how much they love their friends is just so wholesome 💜
imagine having a bestfriend lol
Lol
Welp 😿
Let's be besties bestie
Yeah, imagine
Me can't relate
INTP and ENTP are probably the best friendship in all ×NT× type. Together they are like Phineas and Ferb, Tony Stark and Bruce Banner, Jeff and Abed, Kenma and Kuroo
INFP and ENFP are also good with those two types
Wrong.... Ever heard of INTJ-ENTJ.... Nothing can match the level of respect and admiration we have for each other.... We are literally Brothers
Yeah 😎
Me (ENTP) and my INTP friend making personalities for each letter in the alphabet. Also her admitting that she's schizophrenic and I respond with jokes about them giving answers to questions.
Omg Yesss! My best friend is an ENTP while I'm an INTP. We once framed a bully. I pretended to be attacked by the bully and triggered my asthma, while he convinced our teacher that it was the bully's fault. The bully got suspended.
When he said that ISTPs won't check on you but will be there for you, it's so true. My brother is an ISTP and when I was in a shitty situation with the rest of our family and I told him what was going on, he was immediately offering for me to stay at his place and assuring me that he gets where I'm coming from. Real ass people, those ISTPs
And they will be there to tell you that the shirt with the lobsters is awesome 😎 🦞 ( once they’ve grown a bit in their personality)
Facts
Wwww, soawesome
Thank you 😌
I just want friends!
-An INFP 😂
Hello!
-An ENFP :D
hii
an ENFP :) x2
Hey!!
-ENFP ×3
HEY !!
- AN ENFP
Heya!
- An ENFP
INTP and INTJ
One of the most legendary friendships
On the planet
Am I right!?
So true, intp with entj are also good frnds
Absolutely true
i agree
get me an intj I'm lonely 😩
possibly explains why I'm so attracted to intj characters
yes yes yes i’m an intj and my bestie is an intp 🕺
I’m an INTP and and my closest friends are INFPs cause they’re chill but still know how to have a good time 😂
My friend group is intp and infps, maybe this is common
My friends are INFP and INFJ and I'm the only ISFJ gdi 😂
@@noeliagutierrez4223 If I can guess, you're the caremaker of the group, huh? 😉
@@BrokenSoulConfession idk exactly what that is but ye I always respond when they vent
@@noeliagutierrez4223 'Care-maker' is my term of people who provides care, comfort, consolation, and attention to others.
Initially wanted to say caretaker or caregiver. But then others might get the wrong idea. 😅
Nothing more iconic than an INTJ-INFJ duo. If you know, you know.
INTP and INTJ is an absolutely legendary combination
YES
Me and my sister 😏
House MD
Yep! I'm an INTJ and my best and only friend is an INFJ
I’m an ISFP, I love ISTP and INTP so much, they’re the most direct (without the insult and sugar coating, if you find it harsh, it’s on you) and can handle to “ride the waves” because they’re riding their own waves as well
Yes! I'm an INFJ and my ISTP husband keeps me grounded in reality when I hone in on my one (sometimes misguided) summation haha. He can really spin the perspective for me well when I get too into the details. Love him so much.
Wow thanks
Well thanks that feels great
I am INFP. All i ever wanted was a true friend, but all i got was snakes who bit me and left me with tears of blood.
Oops... as an INFP I can feel that :/ ...
but at last gotta INFP buddy when I joined college who is like a bro to me!
Yep. Infj here, I've had friends but eventually gave them up because they didn't live up to my standards of what I think a friend should be 😅..Luckily I like being alone a lot, and family is enough for me
I am an INTP and had a dream that my friends would let me down and there were snakes lingering on the ground. My dream actually came true like a lot of my dreams about the future - even though time travel isn't possible, it's more subconscious intution.
That happened to me once and istg I'd probably forgive the person on site if they apologized, but I've got proper friends now. It will get better
welp guess i'm your friend now because you deserve better than that :) love, a fellow INFP
ENFPs, ESFJs, and ENFJs are probably some of the best friends anyone could have!
Agreed. My bestie is an ESFJ and she is awesome. I’m an ISFP. My other friend is an ENFJ and she is amazing too💖
What about INTPs?
Yay!!! I'm an ENFP! ❤🤗
@@The_Inventor a lot of sensory and Fe types don't get them. It's pretty common.
I would discard ESFJs bc they like gossips too much
Some of them don't see it as a problem to tell your secrets in order to have more new friends
As an INFJ, it has become my habit to run to my INTJ friend whenever I get stuck reasoning my way out of things. He can easily weed out the excess emotions I've unconsciously included into the equation and clarify the immediate factors I should only be looking at.
On another note, we're both friends with an INFP who can bring out topics we may have never talked about if it were only the two of us. When the three of us are with our separate peers, we can come out quiet and reserved... but bring us together in one room or one chatbox, suddenly you'd think we've turned it into an extrovert-exclusive zone. 😶
I'm an INFJ and my best friend is an INTJ. We talk for hours but I always feel like we need more time for that. I love our deep conversations. From distance it might be seen like he has a cold little heart but when he opens it, it's a whole space. He is the only one that I can call a friend and don't think about what " friend " really means. I like how we complete each other's ideas, talk about our dark sides and just being there for each other. Sometimes I say it's a shame that not everyone are your friend.
I'm an INTP, and most of my favourite people are INFPs, ENFPs, INTJs, ENTPs, INFJs, and other INTPs.
I also randomly have this one amazing ESTJ friend. Outside of family, this friendship is my longest. We've known each other since we were 5 years old.
dude literally same!! I have a lot of special people in my life that are those types. I have like one friend I’ve known for ages who’s a very obvious ESTJ lmao, and many of my closest friends are INTPs :) - ENFP
Well…I’m ENFJ and I think INTP’s rock! js
As an Infj, i also think XNXPs are neat :] i also appreciate IXFJs and ENFJs.
I suspect i may be friends with an ESTJ, not sure how that happened, but it's nice.
@@danad401 thanks :)
@@Br00ke291 😊
I'm INFP and my BEST friend is ENFP and I personally think that ENFPs are the greatest personality type of all the 16 types🔥
Awww I am an enfp and my best friend is also an infp
Me too, I think they are
I'm an enfp and literally all of my friends including my best friend is an INFP. INFPs for me are like lil kittens that I keep adopting.
ENFP here who also has a collection of INFP friends that I love very dearly :D
Aww, I am an INFP whose best friend is also an ENFP, but he is my boyfriend too :)
I am an INFJ and my best friend is an INFP. Best match ever. The connection we have is out of this world☆
Same hereeee 😊
I am an INFP and I absolutely adore my INFJ friend, our connection is simply otherwordly. I love you guys so much that I am hoping I can actually get married to an INFJ //>
Uwoooo, so awesome🤣
i'm an INFP and my best friend is an INFJ
its something else 😂
Having friends in general is exhausting. I'm an ENFP who is really drawn to INTJ, INTP, & ISFP as close friends. We can do creative, intellectual, & fun things together. Also have deep, weird, or goofy conversations. They also understand that I need to disappear from time to time and don't take it personal if they don't hear from me.
I like low maintenance yet caring friendships
16 personalities as doctors
16 personalities receiving fancy presents
16 personalities being asked for help
16 personalities describing their ideal house
16 personalities getting rich
Like this so Frank can see it
Getting rich? I think ENTJs are already rich since the beginning 😂😂😂
👍 On ideal house/decor
& presents. Except, just kind they're most likely to give & want to receive.
I'm an INFP and my best friends are ENFP, ENFJ, ESFJ, and INFP.
The ENFP and I have great conversations that open up our minds. When we talk, I sometimes get into this flow-like state where you forget time. She makes me see things from different perspectives and I am her emotional support. It's also true that I can't keep up with her sometimes. She gets distracted by everything that happens around her and she talks about everything that crosses her mind. It can be exhausting being around her sometimes.
My ENFJ friend is incredibly loving and caring. He loves to throw compliments at me and making others feel good makes him feel good too. He's also really insightful and almost always open to deep talk. He's an extrovert but can be a quiet observer too and his observations and insights are often surprising. He can sometimes come across a bit controlling though. And he has a lot of different "faces", depending on the setting and the people around him. For me as an INFP who values authenticity above everything else, this can be a bit unsettling sometimes.
My ESFJ friend is also very affectionate and loving. She was very patient with me after we met. She waited for 2 years for me to open up to her. We have been friends for a long time now and I still appreciate that about her. With her, I can be casual. We love to cook and eat nice food together, make fun of each other and talk about everyday things and shared interests. Our friendship is the one that gives me the most structure. At the same time, I sometimes feel that I can only share part of my personality with her. Also, she can be a bit dishonest (in the name of harmony) sometimes.
Finally, my INFP friend - I'm actually not really sure if I typed him right - he might also be an ISFP or even INFJ. Our connection has been very deep from the beginning and our friendship has been growing very slowly and gently. We both love learning and evolving in life in a down-to-earth kind of way. When we are together with other people, we just 'get' the other one's feelings and we support each other. We see each other as very rare kinds of people who share many of the same values and we appreciate each other for that. We often go with long periods of not hearing from each other but when we come together again, the connection is instantly there again. The only downside of this friendship is that we live quite different lives quite far apart and can therefore not meet very often.
I love my friends!
Your friends sound like beautiful people! Congrats, you are very blessed.
I'm ENFP and my best friends are INFP, ENFJ, INFJ and also ENFP
My first best friend is INFP and our friendship sounds exactly like the friendship you and your INFP bestie have. I think you typed correctly!
We've been best friends for 18 years now and it feels like she's become part of my heart. I carry her with me wherever I go.
My other best friend is ENFJ and she is incredibly empathetic, very observant, insightful and considerate. I can talk about anything with her and she always understands and validates me. Also she's super fun and laughs a lot. She's a lot more structured than me and very good at planning stuff - contrary to me. I suck at everything to do with plans or the future. She says I bring a sense of lightness into her life, a spontaneity she often finds hard to embrace... So we complement each other nicely :)
Then my INFJ friend, he's very considerate and I always feel safe with him, he would never hurt me. He's respectful and polite and wants to do the right thing which is right by his morals. He's a great listener and validates me in my feelings. He's very intellectual and always helps me see solutions to problems. He's kinda hard to stay in contact with though but for our friendship, it doesn't matter.
My ENFP friend is incredibly fascinating. His world is so magical. He knows so many interesting people and when he takes me to do stuff with him, it's always an adventure and I meet super interesting people, think artists, spiritualists, hippies etc. He is very, very kind and has the biggest heart I know. He loves everyone and this is why everyone loves him. He can be quite aloof though and sometimes he freaks out when relationships are getting too close. Also, he's hard to get to know and has a hard time actually expressing all the feelings he's feeling. So you're often left wondering wtf's going on, which can come across as moody (which it isn't though). Ah, I love him though. He's a fairy.
AS AN ENFP, Y'ALL WRITE TOO MUCH OH GOSH
As an INFP I can say my friends get turned off because I feel too much lol :'))) I get so attached to the little friends I have but none of them really consider me part of their main circle of friends
me too
but its gona be okay just find an INFJ😅
Samee
As an ISFP, having that need for connecting with other people is hard sometimes. I have met people who I have a lot in common with and I find myself thinking that this has the potential of becoming a great friendship but the other person doesn’t see that or has that need. And every time that happens I find myself being more careful opening up or expecting things from others. Oh well.
Same here🙋
I literally just described it like that sis
i feel this 😭 i wish everyone felt the same way i feel about friendship & connection
hi fellow isfp army i totally relate
I thought I was the weirdo, as if it was just me… yay CZcams comments section 😭
I’m an INFJ, My best friend is a ENFP.. I have more than a few INTP friends. I love ENFPs... but I would say I have a mad soft spot for INTPs.
Same
I am an INTP MBTI, INFJ Grant, how weird is it to be stuck between the two. INFJs like us but will not hire us, funny that.
@@louisejoel I mean the P is for Procrastinator
Same!!
OFC NO ONE LOVES ENFPS 😭😭😭
Common, we all know ENFPs are the best friends to have. They like socializing with you and your friends, but they also enjoy one on one with deep connection. They will tell you the truth, but with more care for your feelings. They are the ultimate!
😉-ENFP
yesssss that is the truth!! -ENFP
I disagree, I had an enfp best friend who betrayed me completely. Jumped to the ENFJ side now.
Yep! Just find a mature one…
We can be awful and flaky if immature but if we have developed ourselves and experienced life and grown: we can be fiercely loyal and if we develop good Si, we can control the wacky ideas a bit more.
@@antoinettenovella1630 that's real funny because thats exactly how id describe my "friendship" with my ex best friend, who is highly likely to be an ENFP
yassss
I find that INTPs and healthy INFPs can actually make great loyal friends. INTJs are the most honest and authentic
When it comes to relationships though, I match well with INTPs, some INTJs, and some INFJs
(*but everyone needs to be healthy/balanced and with similar values and interests at least for it to work)
- INFJ
Interesting
I'm an INTP :)
@@imparkub I see what you are trying to do
@@LaserBeem Imao
Enfp here. Sometimes i talks too much, people ignored me. Remember, our feelings can be hurt, and you won’t know it, however if we fell continually unappreciated, we will slowly fade out.
I enfp too and im here
I feel like I became an infp/j over time because whenever I talked about every single detail about my day back in elementary, i would always get told that i talk too much and interrupted by my bro :P
@@sophiesleeps12 the same happened to me.. it is honestly kinda sad. But in a way, thanks to covid, I became my old ENFP self :) and I feel happier. The only thing is that you learn to shut up, before I would always talk, now I just stay silent but still think a lot lol
@@sofis5073 Welp that's great. I'm glad you feel like you can be yourself more. Covid hasn't been that great for me because it turns out I crave interaction and my whole mental stability depends on it soo... Kaboom
ENTP here, and yeah feel ya'. But sometimes, it's good because it will just let through. lmaoo
"And lets's see if Yotube want to show a commercial"
CZcams: shows a commercial
Me: *wha-*
Samee
People think INTJs are psychopaths but we have lot pf emotions but we don’t show guess I personally feel we get betrayed and backstabbed few intjs like me have a lot of trust issues
I have an INTJ friend who looked up medieval torture devices/techniques when she was in middle school. My response was "ooh that sounds neat!" I do think that because y'all can often come across as emotionless a lot of time, people don't stop to think about INTJ's feelings before doing stuff. Once people actually get to know y'all more I think people will realize that y'all are often softies in the inside, though I don't know if my friend would EVER admit that haha -odd INFP who thinks INTJs are pretty cool :)
I have an INTJ husband and I always make jokes that if I ever go missing or someone finds my body somewhere that he should be investigated first, lol. Buuut, he really doesnt like that joke because he feels my family would believe it. I dont personally think he would ever harm me but his personality could make you think that he would know how to do it and how not to get caught. Im an ENFP btw.
We need to judge the people who we can trust, even in family. . -fellow intj😂
True, married to one and he tends to be extreme in either way depending on his moood. Love INTJ's but I do question their loyalty and I have good cause to.
this is so true
An istp here with a very close infj friend .. everything you say to an infj makes sense immediately, you don’t have to explain "what do you mean" for the 3rd time, they almost transform your thoughts perfectly into words.
The open minded friend sounds exactly like the kinda friend i want. Gladly i got one, who i think of as an ENTP, we could have the deepest conversations for 12 hours without getting bored. ~ an INTJ
I have a little bro that is an ENTP. He debates everyone! And it 's just the way he connects with people. Ha ha. But his knowlegde and way of thinking are so magnificent, I can listen to him for hours! Even if that made me exhausted. By the way, I am INFJ, the one (they say) ENTP really care about. *hug*
As an ENFP my best friends are ENTP, INFP, ENFJ and INFJ
I am am enfp and my best friends are exactly same ( I also includey grandpa , brother , father as my best friend) and apart that I have an infp friend
Can confirm this too as INFP :)
As an ENTP, my best friend is an ENFP and other close friends are ENFJ, ESTP, ISTP, and ESFP. I have discovered that I personally am not compatible with INFPs just cuz they’re so in touch with their emotions and want to talk about feelings most of the time, and I honestly do not know how to react to that without offending them. Love INFPs tho, they’re total sweethearts!
Dude almost literally same!!
I'm an INTJ and my best (and only) friend is an INFJ. Her and I often talk about how our personalities are such absolutely amazing matches, I wonder if Frank and his research agrees.
Her and I both love to look at abstract views, and come up with different ideas about things. But while she focuses on people I focus more on myself and my big picture. And she's so good at just knowing what everyone is feeling and thinking, she's the only person to ever know how I'm feeling. She's helped me get more in touch with my emotions, though we still don't talk about our emotions very often. We are also a great match, because when she talks about her emotions she likes my logical solutions. Everyone else with her just lies to make her feel better, and she knows they lie and she never believes them anyways so it doesn't help. So my logical fixes are great. And I may be an INTJ, but there are still rare moments where I need to vent and she's a great vent.
We also love to talk about different things going on in the world, and what will happen, should happen, or how downright stupid people are being. 😂 Also, she has a major procrastination problem with school work so I help a lot with that.
Oh my gosh! I'm an INTJ too and my best friend is an INFJ. We were best of friends and we treat each other as sisters. She envies how logical I could be and I admire how she can get close to other people. I also often say that we are so similar yet so different lol.
@@journeyruthjavines2998 OMG that's so us! This video better mention INTJ's and INFJ's.
my best friend and i are exactly like that. it's so great to see that intjs and infjs do get along that well. she's like a big sister to me. i always admired her logical way of dealing with problems, since i can't see the rational aspect of things when it's about my own personal problems, while i help her to follow her heart and her feelings a little bit more. i absolutely love her and she's the best person i've ever met.
Major procrastination huh? Seems more like an infp to me
@@onceuponatime7424 nah, everyone procrastinates; no matter the type. And she's always super busy so she doesn't have much time either. And we've looked at other types, she definitely relates to INFJ the most and doesn't relate to any other types. Just like me but for INTJ
ISFJs are super underrated in the mbti community. I’m lucky that life gave me a one straight away in the form of my mum and best friend ❤️
Thanks for representing the ISFJ! :)
I suddenly feel a massive hole in my life due to my lack of a lobster shirt. 🦞
Lobster shirt is very fancy👏
Hail the lobster
I spent two years looking for one, so happy I found one finally 🥲
SAME
as an ENFP i can say ISTPS make the BEST friends only if they genuinely really like u and they can be reserved sumtimes and not willing to open up to new people but when they truly find a connection with u ,they become extremely loyal :o
As an ISTP, i totally agreed
Can confirm. Never would have known she was an istp. I thought they were the cold/emotionless kinda type nooo
@@sophiesleeps12 yesss the stereotype is so different omg
ISFJs can make such great friends. My sister is one and will climb any mountain for those she cares about.
Me an ENTP and my best friend an ENFP, everything is dinamic and sometimes people see us as crazy because we are so immersed on what we are sharing that we forget we are surrounded by people who sometimes just wanna chill
ISFP: what a wonderful day, let's see if someone want to go for a walk. Looking the agenda, you find your contacts (2 friends) and unfortunatelly they are busy. Wow, I have free time!
Let's write a story, send a letter, watch a movie,... Uff I am so stressed I never have enough time! 😂
I'm an IxTJ and my best friend is ENFP. I'm still wondering how she is still so patient and can get along with me
ENFPs are sunshine in a jar. They will love you for who you are and will look inside. My mom is ENFP and I'm so lucky
As an ENFP, I think that IxTJ types are very good at finding the "obvious" stuff around us so we don't end up making mistakes involving inattentiveness and taking us out of our flow. Y'all are our spotters and can really be grounding, too. For example, I know that when I get emotional sometimes I start to interpret the patterns I see as threats. I have this INTJ friend that is very good at telling me how it is and bringing me back down to earth before I fly off the handle ^-^' they're that "sobering" kind of friend
@@gsahara8405 as an ENFP this comment made me smile :)
As an ENFP I wonder how INTJs can deal with me so nicely! Such well grounded folks that seem like a pile of bad mood but are really just loving and caring. ^-^
:D IxTJ represeeeent
As an INFP, it's really hard for me to make friends 😭 Idk why, maybe because I'm trapped in my own mind and my own 'world' 24/7 😭 But I do have a bestfriend, an ISFP. She's really kind-hearted but a lot of times, she loses her patience because sometimes I just disappear and I shut myself from anyone including her. Also, I had a crush who was ISFP, but I think I wasn't really attractive to him 🥺🥺
Same here i m infp and my best friend IS isfp
@Milkyway AllDay Aaww, thank you. See, this is what I love about ISFPs. You guys are sweet and supportive and not that kind of people who will force your opinion to the others, which make me and other INFPs feel comfortable around you guys ❤❤
I am ISFP. I am very friend of my friends but the friendship is shown by actions no just words passing quite a lot of time till I consider close enough
@@pendiro true. That's what I find fascinating about my friendship with my ISFP bestie. We're seeking for a deep connections but still respect each personal spaces. We show how much we care through actions. Both of us need some time to be close with other people to tell something private 'coz we believe to pour out our hearts, we need that sense of trust and comfort. Even though sometimes it will cause misunderstanding, as I admit that I'm more passive that her, but we get along very well 🥰
it's not hard for me to be friendly, they might be think I am their friend but I am not. In fact I hate the phrase 'BEST FRIEND FOREVER', cos I've been betrayed countless times. the one and only person that is my friend is an ENFP, we are polar opposite but fill each other. -an INFP
ENFP before the date: “I won’t talk their ear off. I won’t talk their ear off. I won’t talk their ear off.” ENFP 10 minutes in date: ::Word vomit::
Hey op why you gotta call me out like that😂
Audrey Rashelle 😅 sorry! Just our day to day lol
DUDE SOMEONES GOTTA TALK RIGHT
-ENFP-T
"If they don't like you, they don't like you.."
me, an infp: oops
Day 3 of commenting: do 16 personalities interacting/meeting with someone of their same type
Yo I vaguely remember one of your previous comments
Ooh, that’s good!
That would be a good one 😂
Infp: nope. We meet nearly Noone... And if, it is magic... 🤣 Just joking. I love meeting people... And then I think on them but kinda forget to contact them at the very moment... 😑 Why is that? Because something in my head tells me that I'd rather do something on my own instead of talking to someone... But I would appreciate ppl to contact me so much. Sadly, at some point Noone does ofc. Me lonely.
i second this !!
I would say ENFPs are very funny, and are great companions! : )
ikr? they seem like a really cool person
As an INTP I've always wanted an ISTP friend, they seem really chill; we could do woodworking in silence together and drop the occasional truth-bomb.
As an INFJ, my best friends are ISFP, ENFP, INFP, and ENTP. They each meet my different needs.
I’m an INFP, and I really like being friends with ENTPs. They make jokes. I laugh at literally everything. It’s a perfect duo lol.
INFP here. ENTPs are the type that we think are cool😎
Aww, thanks so much, our melancholic but so gentle and deep understanding precious buddies :D
~ENTP
@@grzegorzwalas4125 ....yet i think they are a little scary sometimes
ENTPs are funny. I just avoid getting into an argument with them at times.
@@Tearsofblood25 fighting with them can be a nightmare
Meanwhile me ISTP : nothing better than watching netflix and having all the food for myself , and not dealing with emotional friends who text you in the middle of the night to cry about their ex boyfriends/girlfriends and I have to comfort them somehow, like dude just kill them or whatever LET ME SLEEP
@HANNAH ELYA BINTI MOHD FAREDZ KHAN Moe I don't think all the ISTPs are like me so don't worry :) , for me , I CARE about my friends , I just love to stay alone most of the time , I'm not a good listener at all but if I liked someone I'll do my best to help them especially in a serious situations , I can be sarcastic sometimes and getting annoyed by my friends , but I'll NEVER hurt their feelings and I'll always be there for them
@HANNAH ELYA BINTI MOHD FAREDZ KHAN Moe @HANNAH ELYA BINTI MOHD FAREDZ KHAN Moe Hi Hannah, I/ENTP here, lover of ISTPs, and in my experience what Benny said in a funny way is kinda true for them. But if you need tangible problems solved, they are solid, though!!! 👍👍👍
Reading this comment made me happy and laugh a little so thanks.🤗 ISTPs are amazing and I love them so much. They are funny, honest and very sweet when you get to know them. I'm an ISFJ by the way. Have a wonderful day😃⭐
@HANNAH ELYA BINTI MOHD FAREDZ KHAN Moe it's okay , give her some personal space and boom you guys best friend .
that was the most ISTP thing I have ever seen ever omg
Frank: let's see if youtube wants to show a commercial
CZcams: *gives ad*
Me: *impressed cry*
@Limeify yea but for some reason my youtube skips almost all but the video click ad
me & my ad blocker: haha funny. xD
when the ad won't show up I'll be satisfied
same
Hey, if you're an INFP, let me tell you : having an INTP friend leads to long, deep, balanced conversations. They care about what you're saying and what they're saying is interesting as well.
i agree!! i’m an infp and my partner is an intp and we do have a very deep connection
It's similar for me and my isfp friend.. I've finally fond someone who is also willing to listen to what I'm talking about even the most little or stupidly things without being annoyed (i hope) even tho they take a long time to reply (so go i most of the time too tho)
It's so hard for us infp's to finde someone who actually cares :,)
Love my intp friends, they are highly intelligent and interesting. Huge fan.
“Stay cool and attractive”
Mission already failed😂
INFPs, INFJs, ENFPs
Best friend group.
INTJs can be friends with INFJ and INTPs pretty well.
But in general no matter your type sonetimes u find yourself being friend with opposite types.
Also its not like the N types being friend with only other N types. One of my best friend is ISFP and she is the best :)
ISTP here, Yes INTPs are the most based and I enjoy talking to them, but It's hard to keep a friendship active since we are both independent.
i think it's better for us to have feeler friend, i'm intp btw and i'm surrounded by infps, they help me with my mental health and emotion support and i give them rationnal advice, like we complete each others. I consider others thinker to be better fit as working buddy/team mate/college than close friend. Working with a thinker is really effective and time saving.
@@minhanhnguyen2213 Well, I guess it means we can't be friends, because I am the farthest thing from an xxFx. Oh well. On a side note, I work alone on projects, I don't need outside help.
@@britshell That's alright. We can be friends, but we might not ever meet again in this life. 😌👍
As an infp my (online) best friend is an isfp and its really really nice being friends with someone who values friendship as much as me
Infp here and my best friends are estj, istp, entp, and enfp, and they are the most amazing friends I've ever had. Don't base your friendships on mbti!!! ❤️
I'm an INTP and my friend in an ENTJ... We're very competitive with each other(especially in school and video games) and I don't mind her being harsh with me because i am too with her, and bullying eachother is our special way of being close
Bahaha now I'm jealous. As an ENTJ, I really need an INTP in my life ugh.
Yes, thats what ENTJs do...
@@MsMrExe yeah surprisingly they do make a good match
I am impressed you can handle an ENTJ friend. If I were an extrovert and not an INTJ.....The world would hate me 😂 trust me, no one is ready for that. But your friendship sounds a lot like mine and my best friend. When I'm around her I'm a lot more outgoing, so I guess she knows me the closest I'll ever get to an extrovert. XD
@@MsMrExe I need anyone in my life lol -intp
Me as an INFP: my best friends are INFP, INTP, INFJ and ENFJ. Yeah we're the rare types hanging together.
For my INFPs friends, we tend to be chaotic and mess around when we see each other but it took us a year or more to contact each other. And fun fact, we don't have each others numbers and we just contact each other through chat and it's like once in a blue moon. 🤣🤣
For my INTP friends, its like talking to an air (peace 😂🤣🤣). When we talk its like I tell all my experiences and all the missed moments of our lives that they're not around but they will nod or "one word, one answer" type of person. And yeah, we don't talk much or message each other like my INFP besties.
For my ENFJ friend, she's a ball of energy. She's the type that will talk to you for hours especially in phones (sometimes its exhausting as INFP 😂🤣). But she's one of Go to person when I need someone to talk to because she tends to reply alot and fast, unlike my INFP and INTP friends (which I understand though 🤣). She's my travel buddy because she wants to travel a lot (I rarely travel because I'm too lazy for it. 🤣) and she's so sociable that she becomes my shield when I don't want to socialize with others(Hahaha 🤣).
For my INFJ friend, she's really weird (hahaha 🤣). She's the total opposite of me. She's so organize and systematic. She plans everything. She's my Go to person when I'm depressed because she's like a counselor (but also with depression). I can't explain how she is but she's my best bud because we can be serious at times and we can be chaotic together. Sometimes we're like an anchor with each other, we pull each other up when we're at our lowest. And yeah, we don't give each other advice because we know we will not follow it (hahaha 🤣) but we're just have each others back without saying it. We're expressive in our feelings (because we feel cringe for it😂🤣). We just have a deeper understanding of something we can't explain.
PS: I rarely message them. For my INFP, ENFJ and INTP, we last saw each other like 3-5 years but we're still best friends when we see each other. For INFJ friend, we seldom meet but its also once in a blue moon depending on our moods and level of energy because we're to lazy to meet.
My INFP wife and ISFP daughter are amazing and I love their personalities so much. Also, my INFP friend (male) and I get along very well. My ESTP friend (male) is probably my closest non related friend, but he definitely pushes me outside of my comfort zone often, and it can be taxing on an INFJ like myself.
I'm an INTJ and I have INTP, ENFP, ENTJ, INFP best friends.
That's too much best friends for an INTJ
@@kenmakozume647 rightt, I only have online somewhat friends, 0 real ones - intj
The one who stabs you in the front ..
Makes the best friend
@@ketevani6437 oh ok
@@kenmakozume647 PLS
It's an INFJ's channel but for every personality type unlike other channels
That’s our way...
Literally me, an ENFP, last week: “Isn’t it crazy how we only know approx. 20% of the species in the world? We’re just walking on this giant, mysterious space rock that we know so little about! 😂
My introverted friends: 👁👄👁
PLEASE ID LOVE TOO HAVE SUCH CONVERSATIONS IM AN ENFP-T XKDNFJCNF
I tried to have a discussion one day about why is homo sapiens the only human species alive, but for some reason no one cared :( -INFP
My late husband was an ENFP and he always had such random and funny conversations such as stated above ( INFP here) I miss him terribly x
I think you’re creating a few misconceptions, ISFJs and ISTJs tend to be the most loyal types of them all
Im a INFP, bestfriend for years is an INTP, boyfriend is an INTJ. Isfps disappoint me which is sad because we truly can get along at times til its anything to do with feelings properly. I love ISFJs and would love to meet more INFJ and ENFJs. ENFPs are alright people to be around, sometimes too much energy but a fun time. : ) One of my best relationships was with an INFP.
I would be the best friend, if I had friends 🕴️-INTP
:(
same lol
Lol let's be friends im also a lonley piece of crap (:
LOL as an INTP I can see I read that differently than others
Noooooo, I'll be your friend. No one should ever be lonely even if they like to be alone they should still have friends to comfort them....oh btw I'm an ISFJ and I am crossing my fingers for you, so next time you meet someone new you can introduce yourself and make a new friend...any way have a wonderful day..I'm wishing u luck😊🤗👫👬👭👍🙂
I’m an INFJ :) Personally, I’ve found that I love something about every type I’ve ever encountered. My friends are mostly ENFP, INFP, ENFJ, ESFJ, & INFJ.
I get along w personalities that aren’t much like me too. I have ENTP, INTP, and ESFP friends, and I just think they are some of the funniest and wittiest people on the planet. Haven’t made any friends w ESTP or ENTJs yet :/
With my ENFP friends, I can always count on a crazy weird day - I don't know how we end up in weird situations but we do and somehow we survive? Also, they are great conversationalists and both love reading so it's fun to discuss books and other topics.
With my ENTJ friend I always have stimulating discussions (though it often ends in heated arguments lol). We're like two captains on one ship but we're childhood friends so it somehow works? She seems harsh and intimidating to many people but she's actually really sweet and loyal once she starts trusting you (also she has extremely sharp humor which is often hilarious).
My ENFJ friend taught me how to care more. She's honestly the sweetest person I know, always thinking about others first. She also loves to organise parties and surprises, and she knows many people so it's always fun to be around her.
My ISTJ friend is different from me in many ways and it's interesting to be around him and see him prioritising things I just don't understand the importance of. He's always super disciplined and likes being reliable. He always acts like he has his life together so it's fun to see him drunk and do stupid things.
- ENTP appreciating the people around her
ISTP and ESTP as a duo is so underrated but they would be iconic
Istp here , am best friends with estp and intp , amazing people ,we crush any game when we go as a team . Its super fun to be around them as well , except when estp gets emotional it gets annoying
@@mememan7279 same
My little brother and I are STP's. As an ISTP he's a tinkerer, and I'm an ESTP. Our shared passion is human evolution & perception. He does coding & electronics (he's been mapping physical locations and uploading them onto computers recently). I do a lot of hiking/camping and conservation work for climate change resilience.
Not entirely what you’re suggesting there, but I’m friends with an ISTP and an ESFP and when the ESFP hangs out with us (because of course he’s friends with everyone else) we must remove any sharp or otherwise harmful objects from the vicinity and then watch as the ESFP chases the shrieking ISTP around. When the ISTP’s not getting chased (aka the ESFP has found a spider and sent the many IxFx’s running) he’s actually reasonable and smart, so we usually help each other with class work or go into our own zones and pretend no one else is there. Before I met the ISTP and the ESFP I had our mutual friend warn them that when I was wronged I’d hit back twice as hard so I’m usually left out of these shenanigans. - INTP
Bruh lucky im an ISTP i know no ESTPs
My best friend is an INTP
I think it depends on whether they understand you as a person . If not no matter what personality type they have they're gonna be the worst friend. Trust me.
True
Yeah there are types which I’m supposed to get along well.. but I didn’t? People tend to leave me as a friend I mean because I’m boring? But I’m an infp? I tested as an infp many times. So I don’t understand bc the description isn’t boring at all. I am private though. People loved to ditch me for new friends.. even if I felt a connection with them and was friends with them for years. I don’t know why. I thought maybe it’s type but then so many people have best friends of different types.
@@samtula5946 you are an intuitive type so there's so much inside you that cannot be boring
But I do know infp types tend to be so private that they fail to show that part of themselves and maybe those around you can't really get to know you. Maybe you're not letting them see
Although my bet is that you have tried to surround yourself with friends that would much appreciate an ESTP for example. That's what I tried to do when I was young bc I thought the right and cool thing to be was a loud, social, silly "persona" and I created it (I'm an INFJ, it's easy for me bc of Fe) but it was so unhealthy. For years I had a giant group of friends who didn't even knew who I was inside
So, I just want to say, look for the right people first, that's what I try to do now. And to be a good friend first is the best
I don't know any of the details of your story so of course this can be all wrong for you. Sorry and hope I helped
I'm an INTP and my best friend is an ISTP. We get along really well, she understand my need for solitude - I'm the more introverted one actually - and she isn't emotional. Also, she is quite down-to-earth, she helps me being more practical when I need to be...
All of my friends are xnfp. INFP helps me not be a sociopath and be more empathetic. ENFP throws me into moshpits and we usually have the same sense of humor- INTP
I am an Infp and I don't have a 'best friend'
Yeh me too
🙁
Same here 😓
I’m an ENFJ and I’m great friends with all INFPs, they’re really cool hehe
🥲
I always wanted a friend who is a little outgoing, because since I'm an introvert, they might help me to get out of my shell. And also someone who understands me, and has interest in my stuff without judging me. I hope to find a friend like it- A fellow INTJ
I wish you the best of luck! 🍀
- ENFP
i am an intj too and i think ENFPs are really the best option for that. all this time out of all people around me, i always ended up being best friend/close friends with ENFPs. i think they mostly are very loyal and caring.
WISH YOU THE BEST !!
- AN ENFP
PLEASE DO 16 PERSONALITIES INTERACTING WITH THEIR OWN TYPE
my two closest friends are introverted feelers, infp and isfp. im an intp and i find comfort in their very affectionate aura they give off. we have a really great bond and i can tell them anything. but sometimes my honesty just gets a bit too much. i can hurt their feelings with the truth but i dont do it on purpose. another close friend i have is an intj. i think they are pretty cool and we get along well. i can have very nice conversations with them.
I'm an INTJ with 2 ESFJ, 1 ENFJ and ENTP as bffs
Imagine my state, I'm the only introvert and get dragged to do things I didn't sign up for
I'm the one generally being dragged to things. Ambiverted ENTP who's more of an introvert
@@noname8354 I empathize with you, Goodbye our alone time.....
Intj here as well. I get ya
Isfj is very loyal and would look after anyone who was their friend despite their personality.
okay?
My ex was ISFJ and first we were friends, then a relationship and he betray me everytime he had a chance....🙃
So 1) he maybe is not typed correctly
2) He is a crazy ISFJ....
3) He is just a bad person and thats all
AGREED - INTJ
yep, my ISFJ partner is like that with our group of friends
I’m an INFP and my friend is an INTJ. Let me tell you we had a hard time understanding each other first. She would get really mad when I gave up on going somewhere last minute and I would get very offended by her brutal honesty. But after we understood each other and learned to accept each other, no time without messaging can kill this friendship. We’ve been friends for 11 years now.
i love how frank always starts with the subject (for example in here how kind of friend each type is) and when he reaches to INxJ he always only describes Ni instead of talking about how they act in a friendship (or whatever the subject is)
As an INFJ, my best friend is an INTJ
we’re just too similar
Same
The mastermind 🤣🤣🤣
I love me some ENFP friends.
I’m ENFJ and I’ve never found one that will let their guard down and get to know me. I usually connect to people easily. 😞
Do you have Discord?
I'm just here for the lobster shirt and the comments about what a great friend my personality type makes. Thanks all for the love for ISFJs ❤
Yes, that felt good, right? ❤️ We're normally soo underrated.
I've grown to really love your videos, Frank - thank you so much for making these for us all to enjoy!
I'm an ENFJ-T and my closest friends are ENFPs, INFJs and ESFPs. INFJs and ENFPs, in my experience, are just the greatest, most loveable people on earth, and are such a blessing to everyone they know and like.
The personality that brings food or new books with them is a best friend 😁😉
The one bringing new books is infp for sure 🙋🏻♀️
@@rachelc4998
Sweet INFPs 💕
I can imagine a ISFJ bringing food.
I am an ENFP and my friends are ESFP, ISFP, ISTP, INTP
I'm an INFP and I found my INTJ best friend online. They're now my longest friendship I've ever maintained over the net. I personally find that INTJ illuminates other aspects and ways of thinking I've never thought of before. Also, they are way ahead of me in terms of deadlines and getting things done.