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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  Pƙed 3 lety +3090

    Share with your crush with no context
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    👇Timestamps for the types! 👇 (but I hope you watch the whole thing!)đŸ€“
    0:00 ISTP
    0:10 ISFP
    0:16 ESTP
    0:25 INTJ
    0:33 ISTJ
    0:44 INTP
    1:04 ESFP
    1:19 ISFJ
    1:38 ENTJ
    1:47 ESFJ
    2:03 ENTP
    2:13 ENFJ
    2:26 ENFP
    2:41 INFP
    2:52 ESTJ
    2:59 INFJ

    • @tikaardhany7568
      @tikaardhany7568 Pƙed 3 lety +47

      So you are my yt crush, should I share it with you Sir?

    • @homohomie7369
      @homohomie7369 Pƙed 3 lety +17

      @@tikaardhany7568 OOP-

    • @mariek.474
      @mariek.474 Pƙed 3 lety +12

      I love the introduction of Jason, a new nemesis (Timmy has already a lot on his plate annoying ESTJ)

    • @mariek.474
      @mariek.474 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      @Nikki E. He's indeed sagitarius !

    • @AmbivalentAlexthymic
      @AmbivalentAlexthymic Pƙed 3 lety +16

      As a INFJ i feel both attacked and well represented.

  • @madisonduhon3959
    @madisonduhon3959 Pƙed 3 lety +44831

    The “F” in INFJ actually stands for “friend-zone.”

    • @ajaxrain1147
      @ajaxrain1147 Pƙed 3 lety +2121

      As a INFJ I will vouch for that

    • @JoJo-eh1ki
      @JoJo-eh1ki Pƙed 3 lety +988

      Couldn't be more accurate

    • @beafoxxylady
      @beafoxxylady Pƙed 3 lety +744

      Lol everytime and I think of the hello darkness my old friend đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚

    • @avanicole6700
      @avanicole6700 Pƙed 3 lety +733

      Man I wanna date an INFJ
      -a lonely ENTP

    • @beafoxxylady
      @beafoxxylady Pƙed 3 lety +478

      @@avanicole6700 yeah right y'all friendzone us :')

  • @uknowthevibe
    @uknowthevibe Pƙed 3 lety +18356

    INFP: Prefers fantasizing from afar rather than actually dating someone :””) The romantic idealism is exhausting

    • @LilyofShalott16
      @LilyofShalott16 Pƙed 3 lety +901

      I feel called out by this comment. :/

    • @camillekartchner
      @camillekartchner Pƙed 3 lety +724

      Hey, hey you better stop. I didn't come here to be personally attacked.

    • @markhilditch3467
      @markhilditch3467 Pƙed 3 lety +397

      I feel like I could if I wasnt so in my damn head all the time.

    • @nikolozavadilova6191
      @nikolozavadilova6191 Pƙed 3 lety +162

      this one hit home

    • @JE-zj3fm
      @JE-zj3fm Pƙed 3 lety +139

      I’m an INFJ but I do this too. Eventually though I realize I have to do something. It’s always scary initiating though :/

  • @vivienmcnab4511
    @vivienmcnab4511 Pƙed rokem +2127

    INFJ is so on point. I watched my crush of two years break up, try to find someone to date, help them find someone to date, watched them break up after a week, and then finally, become "the therapist friend."

    • @dinajonaky4796
      @dinajonaky4796 Pƙed rokem +60

      Why not confess to your friend? Who knows maybe you guys will end up together if not then hey at least you won't have any regrets

    • @vlad5042
      @vlad5042 Pƙed rokem +68

      @@dinajonaky4796ahahahahhaahahahahahaha. thats really funny

    • @vivienmcnab4511
      @vivienmcnab4511 Pƙed rokem +60

      @@dinajonaky4796 Its fine now! Im not as close of friends with them and I started dating someone I really like.

    • @catleyaneko8180
      @catleyaneko8180 Pƙed rokem +41

      Lmao I did the same now that guy's married and will be a father soon HAHA im happy for him tho

    • @Darkrenheit
      @Darkrenheit Pƙed rokem +8

      @@dinajonaky4796 Tried and failed...

  • @Greenrivers14
    @Greenrivers14 Pƙed rokem +1674

    As an INFP I can confirm that I am daydreaming even while talking to a crush

    • @os.a.m.a
      @os.a.m.a Pƙed rokem +8

      Can relate

    • @RTU130
      @RTU130 Pƙed rokem

      o

    • @miky1774
      @miky1774 Pƙed rokem +4

      happens scarily often lmao

    • @flaviaochuizen1875
      @flaviaochuizen1875 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

      Me too😂

    • @tripham9435
      @tripham9435 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      Me too man. When my emotions are too hype, I just like dissapear in this world and go somewhere in my mind to chill out. That makes many things i want to do get distracted, kinda annoying. I hope i will get used to it soon😱

  • @TheKatimation
    @TheKatimation Pƙed 3 lety +3161

    INFJ stands for
    I - Independent
    N - No appropriation
    F - Friendzoned
    J - Just me & my demons

    • @aceforeign537
      @aceforeign537 Pƙed 3 lety +18

      😂😂😂💀 The accuracy.

    • @leony578
      @leony578 Pƙed 3 lety +8

      Yes, I am

    • @gaiusjuliuscaesar9296
      @gaiusjuliuscaesar9296 Pƙed 3 lety +26

      The P in INFP stands for Please kill me now

    • @victordaniel2941
      @victordaniel2941 Pƙed 3 lety

      Thats right

    • @akodaah13-e32
      @akodaah13-e32 Pƙed 3 lety +16

      INTJ:
      I- Incredibly clueless
      N- Not being able to talk first to their crush
      T- totally friendzoneable
      J- Just can't do it when the day comes

  • @manimations7007
    @manimations7007 Pƙed 3 lety +14890

    INFP: daydreaming about their crush and a whole life together

  • @dograk8779
    @dograk8779 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +231

    0:00 ISTP
    0:10 ISFP
    0:16 ESTP
    0:25 INTJ
    0:33 ISTJ
    0:44 INTP
    1:04 ESFP
    1:19 ISFJ
    1:38 ENTJ
    1:47 ESFJ
    2:03 ENTP
    2:13 ENFJ
    2:27 ENFP
    2:42 INFP
    2:52 ESTJ
    3:00 INFJ

    • @bloxworld6593
      @bloxworld6593 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +8

      Thank u ❀

    • @shib1377
      @shib1377 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

      THANK YOU

    • @noe1521
      @noe1521 Pƙed 21 dnem +1

      THANKUUUU

    • @Mberlyyy
      @Mberlyyy Pƙed 20 dny +1

      Doing God's work😌 Thank youu

  • @eluhich7350
    @eluhich7350 Pƙed rokem +390

    As an INTJ, that was accurate. I overthink every gesture I do around people whom I like. Yet, sometimes, I can act really rude towards them just to hide my feelings.

    • @ind3789
      @ind3789 Pƙed rokem +19

      Question, because I think the person I was interested in is an INTJ. He depicted this behavior and in the beginning hinted to his tendency a little. When you act rude to hide your feelings, are you intentionally trying to push them away so you don’t enter any relationship with them? Btw it’s confusing on the receiving end when someone genuinely is interested in you! ❀

    • @estefaniapalacioperez6996
      @estefaniapalacioperez6996 Pƙed rokem +11

      Same here, even planning my future with that person lol

    • @eluhich7350
      @eluhich7350 Pƙed rokem +16

      @@ind3789 Yeah, that's intentionally. I see them as outsiders so I can't reveal something personal to them. That's why I'm struggling with making friends.

    • @justarandomdude.9285
      @justarandomdude.9285 Pƙed rokem +11

      it's our paradox.

    • @AgnesKlein19
      @AgnesKlein19 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +8

      I am an INTJ and when I like someone I completely avoid them and don’t talk to them or come near them. Just glance or stare at them from afar.

  • @aviralsinghal1274
    @aviralsinghal1274 Pƙed 3 lety +4944

    INFPs become an invisible kid around their crush.
    And say stupid stuff. So your crush think you are creepy. And that's how we are always single.

    • @panana6550
      @panana6550 Pƙed 3 lety +62

      D:

    • @clairerussell1391
      @clairerussell1391 Pƙed 3 lety +484

      If you don't try you can't get rejected. Perfect plan.

    • @wowoyoyo524
      @wowoyoyo524 Pƙed 3 lety +24

      hell yeaa

    • @aviralsinghal1274
      @aviralsinghal1274 Pƙed 3 lety +43

      @@clairerussell1391 lol. Exactly.

    • @ariapunk5324
      @ariapunk5324 Pƙed 3 lety +185

      Exactly. I have known my crush for more than a year and I never said hi to them once 💀

  • @alybd3470
    @alybd3470 Pƙed 3 lety +6456

    INFPs like the idea of dating a person, but then remember the person is a people and people are difficult

    • @isaiah5480
      @isaiah5480 Pƙed 3 lety +177

      THIS. đŸ’ŻđŸ™ŒđŸŸ

    • @yae6834
      @yae6834 Pƙed 3 lety +78

      Honestly

    • @skyejacques
      @skyejacques Pƙed 3 lety +87

      💯! I also find that I imagine all nice, loving or kind overtures as a sign that they are compatible with me or fellow INFP or empaths. That's not accurate as I get to know them better, and fall out of the daydream with a thump.
      Note to self: love bombing is a sign of narcissism, not a soulmate or twin flame!!
      Ipso facto unattached since the year 2000.

    • @fedraoberfrank2610
      @fedraoberfrank2610 Pƙed 3 lety +12

      agreed

    • @Shades707
      @Shades707 Pƙed 3 lety +13

      Sure

  • @ladyalicent705
    @ladyalicent705 Pƙed rokem +128

    As an INFP I can confirm that daydreaming about our crushes whilst ACTUALLY talking to our crushes is customary, both in person and through text!

  • @Dr-Nonookie
    @Dr-Nonookie Pƙed rokem +100

    As a INFJ it's getting harder to click on these love/marriage/crush videos, because I am slowly learning I am just screwed because of how relatable all them are... 😅😅😒😒

  • @kylamitchell3297
    @kylamitchell3297 Pƙed 3 lety +7524

    INFP: having fictional crushes and then being amazed when there is actually someone you have a crush on because you didn't think it was possible because your standards are impossible.

    • @natashaengtipi1004
      @natashaengtipi1004 Pƙed 3 lety +198

      Bruh thats currently happening to me and I am like no way can i have a crush on someone_(:Đ·ă€âˆ )_

    • @reyreye
      @reyreye Pƙed 3 lety +120

      Why is this so relatable TT

    • @ukiyo2616
      @ukiyo2616 Pƙed 3 lety +37

      *yes*

    • @plait2428
      @plait2428 Pƙed 3 lety +90

      WHAT IN THE- HOW IS THIS SO TRU-

    • @oblivi8games808
      @oblivi8games808 Pƙed 3 lety +30

      im an INTJ but that still sounds like it describes me

  • @amandacastelo6
    @amandacastelo6 Pƙed 3 lety +4656

    Crush: "Hi"
    INFP: [create an entire Netflix serie imagining the ups and downs of the relationship, including marriege, adopting a dog, kids, financial problems, breaking up, getting back, saving your love's life, dealing with cheating, becoming a secret agent, fighting aliens, finding a portal to another wor...]
    Crush: Are u ok?
    INFP: what? Oh yea... I'm fine, just got a bit distracted. [Constantly smiling]

    • @catgirllove8066
      @catgirllove8066 Pƙed 3 lety +141

      Why am I like this tho đŸ˜©đŸ˜‚đŸ˜‚

    • @urmomshrek6161
      @urmomshrek6161 Pƙed 3 lety +116

      Don't call me out like that😳

    • @sand747
      @sand747 Pƙed 3 lety +37

      Basically

    • @namz777
      @namz777 Pƙed 3 lety +22

      true!

    • @Ray-ew4yy
      @Ray-ew4yy Pƙed 3 lety +89

      It concerns me that I actually did this with every crush I ever had

  • @louiethornley1680
    @louiethornley1680 Pƙed rokem +91

    As an INTJ the eye contact one is so true i think about it mid conversation all the time, usually deciding to look at the forehead then deciding thats too weird so i end up staring at one eye until they ask me why am i staring at one eye and i then say i don't know how to look at both lol

    • @littlemissperfect16
      @littlemissperfect16 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +6

      I switch eyes every minute or so.

    • @TheHomieSamm
      @TheHomieSamm Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +9

      Im laughing rn " i dont know how to look at both "

    • @T__A399
      @T__A399 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +1

      Lollll that was so funnyyy!! I'm an infj and same sh*t happens to me every time that's why I avoid eye contacts for less awkwardness

    • @chrisallclips
      @chrisallclips Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

      đŸ€Ł

    • @sherryfillman8897
      @sherryfillman8897 Pƙed 13 dny

      I normally just look at the floor.

  • @agapelykos9624
    @agapelykos9624 Pƙed rokem +473

    3:04 I heard his heart breaking literally thousands of miles away! 💔
    As an INFJ myself I found this representation pretty accurate and relatable. However, I’m trusting MBTI theory less and less, I find it simplistic. Moreover, many characteristics ascribed to a certain psychological type are actually universal. For example, in this circumstance, who won't feel this way?

    • @qusaipen102
      @qusaipen102 Pƙed rokem +56

      I'm not sure if i can agree with you on that one because that's the only one i found relatable as an "INFJ". The others... nah i don't think i would ever act that way. And same goes for the our example i don't think most people have the empathy/heart/compassion/will(or whatever you wanna call it) to stay completely normal in front of their crush and continue the talk for the other person's sake while they themselves are dying inside

    • @officialthomasjames
      @officialthomasjames Pƙed rokem +6

      Literally happened to me a month ago.

    • @Soupermahn
      @Soupermahn Pƙed rokem +3

      U rare dawg

    • @sasdaveakhtar7.275
      @sasdaveakhtar7.275 Pƙed rokem +26

      As an infj i feel the same as the video.. friendzoned and always/still smiling is worth it to see they are happy

    • @enevy3165
      @enevy3165 Pƙed rokem +17

      depends on what content creator you’re watching. I’m an INFJ as well.
      Research more into the Cognitive functions and socionics rather than stereotypes

  • @madisoncoomer4397
    @madisoncoomer4397 Pƙed 3 lety +3564

    INFJ: Setting my crush up with their crush since 2002.

    • @Agustin-bu8vk
      @Agustin-bu8vk Pƙed 3 lety +49

      she's actually in a relationship with him now:)
      i just distanciated myself from her from then on...

    • @fiona1109
      @fiona1109 Pƙed 3 lety +38

      Why must you inflict pain on me like this

    • @rileelawson8822
      @rileelawson8822 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Same

    • @juneatrocities
      @juneatrocities Pƙed 3 lety +16

      INFJ : and not replying back to my crush even when he keeps up with me and texts everyday đŸ˜«

    • @NSNFreedom
      @NSNFreedom Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Same 😌

  • @chaoticbreeze6262
    @chaoticbreeze6262 Pƙed 3 lety +3003

    "I'll just keep staring at you when you're looking away and hope that you make a move" - every introvert type ever

  • @DevinEggert
    @DevinEggert Pƙed rokem +50

    The INTJ staring had me questioning how this man could know my entire personality. 💀

  • @kaioosouza2427
    @kaioosouza2427 Pƙed rokem +81

    I liked the fact that he writes down the personalities after showing them because it gives us time to guess

  • @Damselfairy
    @Damselfairy Pƙed 3 lety +3071

    INFP: *daydreaming about their crush in front of their crush*
    Crush: INFP?? you ok??
    INFP: yes I just can't believe you're real

    • @acharich
      @acharich Pƙed 3 lety +17

      đŸ˜…đŸ€ŁđŸ˜…đŸ€ŁđŸ˜…

    • @maycenolaf1082
      @maycenolaf1082 Pƙed 3 lety +89

      No we actually don't confess like that we just say sorry I got lost in my thoughts or I was thinking bout sth unimportant

    • @aasepauline2136
      @aasepauline2136 Pƙed 3 lety +16

      @@maycenolaf1082 it was a joke-

    • @randaltichy6570
      @randaltichy6570 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      same, but I would actually said that, because why not (isfp)

    • @dehlightful2664
      @dehlightful2664 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      accurate

  • @rubyk266
    @rubyk266 Pƙed 3 lety +9764

    As an INFJ I can confirm that the reaction is true. We just want our crushes to be happy even if they don't like us back...

    • @j19l8r4
      @j19l8r4 Pƙed 3 lety +96

      Bro same

    • @elliem.9408
      @elliem.9408 Pƙed 3 lety +260

      I have an INFJ friend and he’s exactly like this. I feel so bad for friendzoning him 😔 He’s really an amazing person but I just don’t like him in that way. How do I reject someone (specifically an INFJ) without causing the person a ton of pain?

    • @rubyk266
      @rubyk266 Pƙed 3 lety +360

      @@elliem.9408 That is a hard question, but I would say just be honest with him, but also be kind and compassionate in the manner and tone that you tell him. Try to be considerate of his feelings and reaffirm that you do enjoy having a relationship with him even if it's not a romantic one. We really appreciate honesty even if it might hurt at first. We appreciate and value the honesty after the initial sting of rejection, and this is coming from personal experience.

    • @jerrica4315
      @jerrica4315 Pƙed 3 lety +58

      @@elliem.9408 Just be honest about how u feel about them

    • @danaest-louis6094
      @danaest-louis6094 Pƙed 3 lety +259

      @@elliem.9408 Most of us INFJs can sense when someone is lying to us, so please tell him the whole truth, while insisting on the bright side. So really emphasize on your friendship and how important he is to you.

  • @majibento
    @majibento Pƙed rokem +53

    INFJ here, I could write several tragedies based on about all the painful straight girl crushes I’ve had in my 25-years of singleness

  • @PPPoofs
    @PPPoofs Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +28

    I feel like, as an INTJ, that we are the type to look perfectly calm and composed on the outside, but on the inside, it's just pandemonium and chaos.

  • @theunknowncell442
    @theunknowncell442 Pƙed 3 lety +3193

    INTJ: *Plans for every possible conversation*
    Crush: “Hey!”
    INTJ: “Mission failed, we’ll get em next time”

    • @akodaah13-e32
      @akodaah13-e32 Pƙed 3 lety +120

      me: *plans for every possible conversation during 8 weeks*
      Me: Well, i'm gonna solve this, i'm so prepared for this
      In the day of askin' her/ him to go out
      me: *OH FUCK, I HAVE TO TALK TO HER/HIM FIRST*

    • @tlia..
      @tlia.. Pƙed 3 lety +30

      I am in INTJ

    • @akodaah13-e32
      @akodaah13-e32 Pƙed 3 lety +7

      @@tlia.. well, me too :D

    • @alejandrogl9875
      @alejandrogl9875 Pƙed 3 lety +13

      "I've been hit!"

    • @dario6463
      @dario6463 Pƙed 3 lety +58

      "This is nothing like the simulations"

  • @spacetraveler8258
    @spacetraveler8258 Pƙed 3 lety +22934

    As an INFP, i felt really good after learning that all of us have imaginary partners in our heads. Thank you.

    • @Aniastasia
      @Aniastasia Pƙed 3 lety +880

      I thought I was the only one too. I feel relieved now!

    • @kathkath541
      @kathkath541 Pƙed 3 lety +559

      @@Aniastasia same 😂 I thought I am mentally sick

    • @mahito420
      @mahito420 Pƙed 3 lety +94

      LMAO

    • @brenloydquitlong4509
      @brenloydquitlong4509 Pƙed 3 lety +159

      Im an INFP too

    • @MarieForest
      @MarieForest Pƙed 3 lety +461

      The second that music started I knew it was us 😅

  • @mrslundy1535
    @mrslundy1535 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +48

    As an ambivert ENFJ, i can totally relate to the INFJ one. At college, I fully willingly helped my crush to open up to the girl he liked, by talking to the girl and preparing the surface for their date, and they got married two months ago lmao. After college. I accidentally caused my crush to get married with someone else.

    • @noonebutme9420
      @noonebutme9420 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +9

      As an ENFJ I can see myself accidentally doing that as well. Being the ultimate matchmaker can be a blessing and a curse.

    • @coolbeansgreens
      @coolbeansgreens Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

      I’m so sorry for your loss😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @ayan4688
      @ayan4688 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Why do we like to help people so much, it's almost like "It's my principle" we do it even if it costs us. Or is it just me?

  • @Slaztic
    @Slaztic Pƙed rokem +96

    As an INTJ, I approve of my staring habits and of ENTJ's extremely direct approach.

    • @jenwtls
      @jenwtls Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +12

      the same -ENTJ

    • @katarinawikholm5873
      @katarinawikholm5873 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +16

      ENTJ here - can confirm.
      Drama is a waste of time, we’re all adults here

    • @CzupaCzups3
      @CzupaCzups3 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      yes, I am INTJ was dating this ENTJ guy before. He was so straightforward and also we had a lot to talk about. They waste no time.

  • @pc-china-abhig5874
    @pc-china-abhig5874 Pƙed rokem +6661

    As an INFJ, I’ve listened to my crush’s feelings about another boy, and gave her advice while trying to hide the actual heartbreak I went through. Press F to pay respect to all those INFJs in this world.

  • @lykalu8220
    @lykalu8220 Pƙed 3 lety +3481

    INFJ is the rarest personality type.
    The comments:

    • @Sheamuscz
      @Sheamuscz Pƙed 3 lety +427

      That's because they're trying to connect. Because they know that they're rare and hard to find IRL.

    • @MLGDuckk
      @MLGDuckk Pƙed 3 lety +74

      Couldn’t find any INTPS

    • @lykalu8220
      @lykalu8220 Pƙed 3 lety +23

      @@Sheamuscz exactly. glad u found me

    • @friedchicken456
      @friedchicken456 Pƙed 3 lety +169

      Because only people like infj infp and some others types watch those type of channel 😂

    • @evildragon1774
      @evildragon1774 Pƙed 3 lety +16

      I can't believe i was the Infj either

  • @ambrosekillpack4841
    @ambrosekillpack4841 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +26

    I am an ENTJ and I have to say that portrayal is EXACTLY me. It's accurate to a scary level. I don't wanna waste time with other women. I've found my one and only and I know it, going after any other woman would be a waste of time and I know it.

  • @DUSKvsDAWN
    @DUSKvsDAWN Pƙed rokem +33

    as someone who varies between INFP and INFJ.... both are so damn relatable.

  • @anpiax5907
    @anpiax5907 Pƙed 2 lety +5604

    As an INFP, it's quite accurate, most INFPs tend to be more shy and introverted, but once we warm up to someone we're super hyper.

    • @ItsKim_Him
      @ItsKim_Him Pƙed 2 lety +77

      Yup. 👁👄👁👍

    • @kenya3449
      @kenya3449 Pƙed 2 lety +175

      thats very true, this could be because a lot of infp's tend to have initentive adhd and this tends to be how we behave, lol.

    • @mynamo12
      @mynamo12 Pƙed 2 lety +51

      @@kenya3449 I’m INFP with ADHD lol

    • @kyb111n
      @kyb111n Pƙed 2 lety +61

      rabid animal around my friends, around my crush im a slow witted turtle

    • @kyuurio8530
      @kyuurio8530 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      frr

  • @bloodandbonezzz
    @bloodandbonezzz Pƙed 3 lety +2434

    INFJ: Encouraging "her" to pursue her heart, even when it's with somebody else.

    • @aamu3
      @aamu3 Pƙed 3 lety +171

      *cries in infj*

    • @leticiaremonti
      @leticiaremonti Pƙed 3 lety +81

      It would've been funnier f I haven't done EXACTLY THAT in the past collecting a bad recall of it

    • @emyj.2970
      @emyj.2970 Pƙed 3 lety +12

      Me RN đŸ€§đŸ€§đŸ€§

    • @raneensaleh4795
      @raneensaleh4795 Pƙed 3 lety +115

      People's happiness matters more than ourselves .
      INFJ

    • @statc0313
      @statc0313 Pƙed 3 lety +51

      Literally me when my ex-girlfriend told me she was dating a good friend of mine. I told her everything was gonna be ok, your not gonna mess anything up, and you two are a really good match. That was literally like a month or two after we broke up and I just wanted her to be happy. Did I mention we were going out for a little over two years.

  • @isey4482
    @isey4482 Pƙed rokem +87

    ENFP is just SO spot-on! The moment the scene started, I was like "okay, that's the one" đŸ€Ł
    I totally have this kind of conversations with people I'm attracted to 😁That's a hit-or-miss thing, but I couldn't do it any other way 😂 #TeamENFP 😎

    • @HassanAhmed-kj2et
      @HassanAhmed-kj2et Pƙed rokem +11

      enfps are fr amazing we are underated

    • @WandaMaximoff1998
      @WandaMaximoff1998 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +4

      Same!! I was just about to say that lol

    • @willemijnmadeleine7164
      @willemijnmadeleine7164 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +2

      Hahaha same

    • @hannaht7970
      @hannaht7970 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +3

      I was looking for my ENFPeeps 😌

    • @marsh.n
      @marsh.n Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +5

      For me I wouldn't talk that way with my crush. I would talk that way with anyone I'm enjoying a conversation with lol

  • @sookiebuns
    @sookiebuns Pƙed rokem +41

    The INFJ reminds me of "second male lead" trope 😂

  • @user-do2ls3jx3m
    @user-do2ls3jx3m Pƙed 3 lety +1551

    Not an INFJ falling in love with an idea of another person in their head, imagining their love life in their head and planning out their wedding in their head while the other person is having a crush on someone else again.

    • @patricemasterson2982
      @patricemasterson2982 Pƙed 3 lety +53

      lol i did that like four to five days ago and i even planned out how we would die together with three alternative endings and it took 14 pages in my journal. im over them now.

    • @earljovhancameros2342
      @earljovhancameros2342 Pƙed 3 lety +48

      bitch I'm an INFJ and you just described my whole life

    • @chamomilekitty7763
      @chamomilekitty7763 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @@earljovhancameros2342 😂 Exactly!!!!

    • @liz-w-1586
      @liz-w-1586 Pƙed 3 lety +10

      It's an everyday routine for me

    • @meapo7184
      @meapo7184 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      ive gotten quite used to it at this point

  • @MrTomas7777
    @MrTomas7777 Pƙed 3 lety +1930

    INFP alone: _Imagines chatting with crush about literally everything._
    INFP with crush:
    Crush: _Talks a lot._ Why is nobody talking to me?
    INFP: Uh... sorry but idk what to tell you.

    • @sgjebsussbshhs5070
      @sgjebsussbshhs5070 Pƙed 3 lety +176

      Inside I am like: "Please marry me"
      Outside: Oh shit he is coming, I have to hide

    • @MrTomas7777
      @MrTomas7777 Pƙed 3 lety +96

      Instead of having a normal, spontaneous conversation, I just start thinking about what to say, but I'm terrible at coming up with something to say if it's not spontaneous lol. Especially because I end up thinking about *this* rather than the actual conversation.

    • @sgjebsussbshhs5070
      @sgjebsussbshhs5070 Pƙed 3 lety +47

      @@MrTomas7777 yeah, me too. Is so terrible having so much to say but not finding anything appropriate for the moment.

    • @crackthecat-of8cs
      @crackthecat-of8cs Pƙed 2 lety +18

      It sucks...i wanted to talk so much but its like something catch my throat.đŸ˜„đŸ˜„đŸ˜„đŸ˜„

    • @noo343
      @noo343 Pƙed 2 lety

      Talking to a woman is a mistake it's asking for a failure just avoid them that's what this INTP does like Albert Einstein and Tesla

  • @karolinakamela6704
    @karolinakamela6704 Pƙed rokem +29

    0:51 at this moment I knew it was gonna be an INTP, I relate so much

  • @sefewet
    @sefewet Pƙed rokem +26

    For other INFJ's out there. I have been through a lot when it comes down to love and not being treated well. I set clear boundaries now especially if women do it like this. For self care i keep the convo short and still listen, but then cut off. I close the door to that person as well, cause most women do know how you feel about them naturally and if they like you back and still pull this, they do not deserve you. I also then move on. I won't let me be dragged down by it, cause life is worth more then someone who lacks any sense of empathy towards you.

    • @TeaObvious
      @TeaObvious Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1

      thank you, somehow this helped me, at least for now!

  • @ana-ry3jj
    @ana-ry3jj Pƙed 3 lety +2241

    AS AN INFJ THIS LITERALLY HAPPENED TO ME HE WAS MY BEST FRIEND NOW HES DATING MY OTHER BEST FRIEND AND I HAD TO ACT LIKE THEIR THERAPIST THIS WHOLE DAMN TIME

    • @SallylyllaS
      @SallylyllaS Pƙed 2 lety +140

      You poor thing. *Hugs*

    • @noo343
      @noo343 Pƙed 2 lety +35

      No you didn't have to do anything tell him to fuck off I'm an i n but I don't give a shit anymore

    • @Khairuz98
      @Khairuz98 Pƙed 2 lety +39

      Damn i felt the hurt

    • @danaysabelromano5324
      @danaysabelromano5324 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      OMG TRUE

    • @user-lh5hl4sv8z
      @user-lh5hl4sv8z Pƙed 2 lety +89

      the thing with infj is that you can serve as a therapist very well, but you’re probably the one who needs one the most.

  • @grass4589
    @grass4589 Pƙed 3 lety +2154

    As an INFP, that's why I NEVER confess my feelings because I know I made it all up by making up ideas of that person inside my head. Tiring smh.

    • @alittleinfppanda
      @alittleinfppanda Pƙed 2 lety +114

      I wrote a confession for guy at my job that I thought I might be crushing on but I never actually gave it to him because I realize I wasn't sure I really had a crush on him since half the time I was picturing our dating life in detail and the other half the time I couldn't care less about him.

    • @moonyok
      @moonyok Pƙed 2 lety +16

      im infj but i can also relate to this! thats why i always treat people like friends... i could never flirt (besides joking), because i dont feel it is true love or worthy and probably just admiration/obsession.

    • @gurimuyoruka2165
      @gurimuyoruka2165 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      Im INFP as well

    • @the17thelement38
      @the17thelement38 Pƙed 2 lety +16

      WHY IS THIS SO DAMN TRUE

    • @eirengarcia253
      @eirengarcia253 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      No pienso que ese sea el punto.
      Yo le identifico porque me doy el tiempo de conocer a la persona y crear un sentimiento real que espera a ser correspondido y aquĂ­ veo reflejado ese momento en que me pierdo en mis pensamientos por admirar esa persona y olvidarme del mundo exterior. Jajaja

  • @_uyedineniye58
    @_uyedineniye58 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +8

    as an INTJ, that was extremely accurate, I overthink how I act around people ALL THE TIME, esp when I like them, it’s so draining tho

  • @callmeqt1269
    @callmeqt1269 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +15

    I love seeing all of my fellow INFJ’s chiming in on how accurate that one was.
    And yes, I have done the same thing before.

  • @peacefulgrotesque1510
    @peacefulgrotesque1510 Pƙed 3 lety +1779

    The two nervous INTJ modes: "avoid eye contact, they can sense your fear" and "stare through their soul so they know you are listening and interested."

    • @melaniegonzalezart8506
      @melaniegonzalezart8506 Pƙed 2 lety +65

      Lmao!!!!! Can we find a balance?

    • @riyathakur7198
      @riyathakur7198 Pƙed 2 lety +36

      Lol thats sooo me and I am an INTJđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @imjustalilkitty
      @imjustalilkitty Pƙed 2 lety +30

      So relatable 👊đŸ˜Ș (an INTJ btw)

    • @nrmlyaroy7135
      @nrmlyaroy7135 Pƙed 2 lety +20

      So relatable I also make a heavy eye contact so that I can see through their intentions

    • @louisa9671
      @louisa9671 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      This is literally me

  • @AskForDoodles
    @AskForDoodles Pƙed 3 lety +897

    INTP: Oh hey, how are you doing?
    Person: (actually answers)
    INTP: *Wait no, you weren't supposed to do that...*

    • @christophergreen1237
      @christophergreen1237 Pƙed 3 lety +55

      Shields failing. Engage evasive maneuvers!

    • @dazzlebreak4458
      @dazzlebreak4458 Pƙed 3 lety +42

      You either start blabbering nonsense or you completely shut off.
      Once every 10 years the stars align - 5 mins after meeting her you already talk about anime and she laughs at your nerdy jokes; this goes on and on for hours at a time, you get her contact info, aaaand... she actually lives hundreds of kms away or she just flakes.

    • @descuajinator
      @descuajinator Pƙed 3 lety +7

      @@dazzlebreak4458 indeed, she was from Argentina, press F 😔

    • @faicotone
      @faicotone Pƙed 3 lety +46

      nope we have better programming than that.
      Open conversation: Hi! What are you up to?
      > if good stuff: Oh nice!
      > if bad stuff: Oh shoot. That sucks.
      > if so so stuff: Uh huh.
      it's the part when they start asking question back that we fail miserably.

    • @nurdownstar2653
      @nurdownstar2653 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      @@faicotone accurate!

  • @Ibloop
    @Ibloop Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +7

    0:01 I genuinely did not expect him to be that accurate, I don’t go chasing but when they come around me it’s like this

  • @-r-3656
    @-r-3656 Pƙed rokem +8

    As an INTJ, I can proudly say that I try as hard as I can not to make eye contact with my crush and deny I like her so that no one else finds out.

  • @percyjackson1566
    @percyjackson1566 Pƙed 2 lety +3591

    The INFP one is so accurate. I actually just stare at my crush, right in the eye, and dream all about out future together, while he is is just explaining how come he bought ice cream the day before. My friends always tell me that it is written in my glance that I adore him, for my eyes seem to sparkle when I turn to look at his brilliant face.

    • @anisalainna
      @anisalainna Pƙed 2 lety +215

      Now this comment truly is an INFP comment

    • @MrLan-us7xt
      @MrLan-us7xt Pƙed 2 lety +65

      Aw, that's cute

    • @olivialixl1289
      @olivialixl1289 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      same bro

    • @Turajo17
      @Turajo17 Pƙed 2 lety +56

      hi there, infp here can confirm haha my girl said she's never been looked at like that before

    • @zoemzkk
      @zoemzkk Pƙed 2 lety +3

      đŸ„șđŸ„șđŸ„ș

  • @courtneyberthelot9389
    @courtneyberthelot9389 Pƙed 2 lety +2439

    I’m an INFP and I busted out laughing when he said “oh crap, she’s been talking this whole time - ..What?”
    I do this all the time đŸ˜‚đŸ€Ł

    • @musiclover6842
      @musiclover6842 Pƙed 2 lety +61

      I always have to focus super hard when it’s at work and someone keeeps talking and talking about stuff that’s self explanatory. So then I zone out. They be like: ‘so do you understand?’
      Me: uh yeah
      Them: ‘oke repeat back to me what I explained’
      Me: uh
. well I kind of forgot some parts can you explain it again?
      Then: yeah so 
 blablabla
      Me: ( must focus) and oh yeah I get it now
      Yes it’s self explanatory however they add some extra info that I didn’t know so I zoned out too early

    • @gilgaladinfp8452
      @gilgaladinfp8452 Pƙed 2 lety +17

      Same đŸ€Ł how is he even doing that; all of his INFP impressions are soooo me;

    • @girl_from_everywhere
      @girl_from_everywhere Pƙed 2 lety +12

      Same, but people usually have to shake me out of my daydreams and then I'm like "what?"

    • @kelsiwilson6542
      @kelsiwilson6542 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      INFP and yeah I’m constantly doing this đŸ€·đŸ»â€â™€ïž

    • @birb6474
      @birb6474 Pƙed 2 lety +18

      ikr? i space out and realise they are still talking and i get super awkward and im just like mhm yes completely i totally heard and understand what you just said.

  • @Coolhandrup
    @Coolhandrup Pƙed rokem +14

    I watched this all the way through and in a very typical INFJ way I paused at the end

and after a moments reflection I absolutely laughed my head off for quite a few minutes! This is an ingenious video and it really amused me.
    Absolutely fantastic! This was a fabulous punchline ending
brilliant thank you :)

  • @hirbel12
    @hirbel12 Pƙed rokem +9

    lol the INTP one is very accurate for me. I scribbelt a very detailed plan on my whiteboard for a phone call with my crush once.. It had several diffrent paths and all. I thought i thought of everything but in the end it didnt really work out ^^'

  • @Ace_Maus
    @Ace_Maus Pƙed 3 lety +2112

    Ahh, yes, us INFJs giving love/dating advice to our crushes while we're pining in secret, weeping inside our hearts

    • @ajaxrain1147
      @ajaxrain1147 Pƙed 3 lety +16

      As always

    • @julesfleuret3205
      @julesfleuret3205 Pƙed 3 lety +16

      Works for INFPs too :)

    • @harshjain3122
      @harshjain3122 Pƙed 3 lety +16

      That happens way too often lmao and I can't even make out that whether u guys have a crush on me or not. Generally, the way a person sees u, acts with u, gives u a subtle hint.

    • @prancingsquid
      @prancingsquid Pƙed 3 lety +25

      Yeah. Even going so far as to hELP them keep their relationship together. 😭 I’d rather him be happy than anything else.

    • @salminanidiya1210
      @salminanidiya1210 Pƙed 3 lety +6

      Hey. I have a question. Enfp here. Why dont infj confess to someone they love/have a crush on? Is there a particular reason? Im really curious and I want to understand them better. Thank you!!! :* :>

  • @lizten
    @lizten Pƙed 3 lety +1336

    INFP: not being sure whether your crush is even real or you just imagined them.

  • @dayanasin5492
    @dayanasin5492 Pƙed rokem +14

    jeez, why infj is so accurate... I had so many crushes and ALL of them ended up talking to me about their relationshipsXD I HATE IT

    • @timinator900
      @timinator900 Pƙed rokem

      Lucky. You must be a female. It's a lot harder males.

  • @jesbo5898
    @jesbo5898 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +5

    That’s my internal dialogue for all human interactions, whether I’m crushing on them or not 😂
    -INFP

    • @_cran
      @_cran Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Yeah it just turns out I am diagnosed with ADHD 💀

  • @michellexx359
    @michellexx359 Pƙed 3 lety +1755

    Absolutely no one:
    Me, INFP: feeling a deep connection with the sad song in the end... 😂😭

    • @jenwade9683
      @jenwade9683 Pƙed 3 lety +30

      Oh my gosh right?! đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚ Same here!

    • @emmaemma-xm3cx
      @emmaemma-xm3cx Pƙed 3 lety +13

      same

    • @munyu3939
      @munyu3939 Pƙed 3 lety +16

      Oh don't reveal međŸ€§đŸ˜­

    • @Musicgeek475
      @Musicgeek475 Pƙed 3 lety +6

      YES! All the feels! Awww. ❀ Poor guy.

    • @nyfbie
      @nyfbie Pƙed 3 lety +4

      Yesss!!!

  • @AllenChibi
    @AllenChibi Pƙed rokem +12

    My god that intj is so relatable

  • @dzseneraloficcial
    @dzseneraloficcial Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +7

    2:36 really hits different: I’m an ENFP and when I asked my crush out to prom and she said no, my English teacher overheard me talking about it in class with my friends and he played a clip from napoleon dynamite in class to cheer me up. He didn’t announce his reason for doing this to the class but afterwards he talked to me separately said he hoped that I appreciated it and that he hoped I didn’t find his humor mean or mocking.
    That was without question the best English teacher I’ve ever had.

  • @sarablackwolfdancer9359
    @sarablackwolfdancer9359 Pƙed 3 lety +2080

    INFJ: if you can't have the one you want, encourage the one you want to pursue the one they want. Because we're driven to make *somebody* happy, even if it means sacrificing our own potential happiness. Spot on, sir.

    • @LetsSaboogi
      @LetsSaboogi Pƙed 3 lety +98

      We always want others to have what we don't have

    • @fifi_cute
      @fifi_cute Pƙed 3 lety +26

      why is this so accurate xD

    • @Lila-qs2xh
      @Lila-qs2xh Pƙed 3 lety +13

      OMG yes 😱

    • @NoorMohammed-or6vg
      @NoorMohammed-or6vg Pƙed 3 lety +22

      This is so true that it hit waaaaaay too close to home for me😂💔

    • @earljovhancameros2342
      @earljovhancameros2342 Pƙed 3 lety +20

      I'm an INFJ and I always recommend my friends to like my crush. It feels like they would be happy knowing them. And also, feel what I've felt with them.

  • @ijustwannasleepforever
    @ijustwannasleepforever Pƙed 3 lety +1295

    Me: Starts crying as an INFJ
    FJ: Do YoU lIkE t-ShIrTs

    • @kiaramoore9439
      @kiaramoore9439 Pƙed 3 lety +71

      Me: *Whispers as tears build* Yes, yes I do.

    • @detective3940
      @detective3940 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      @@kiaramoore9439 lol

    • @jessicamunson3306
      @jessicamunson3306 Pƙed 3 lety +13

      Oh my word, so I'm not the only INFJ that started tearing up. 😆

    • @erinwallace5644
      @erinwallace5644 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      I am feeling called out . . .

    • @eunicehung4246
      @eunicehung4246 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      *OH...MY...GOSH... PHEW!!!! 😅😅😅 I THOUGHT, THAT I SUDDENLY HAD ANXIETY, BECAUSE... I STARTED FEELING REALLY, REALLY, REALLY ANXIOUS, AND DOWN, RIGHT WHEN I SAW THE INFJ PART, ESPECIALLY... WHEN... THE TRULY, TRULY SAD SONG BEGAN... I AM SO, SO, SO THANKFUL, THAT... I AM NOT JUST BEING TRULY, TRULY SENSITIVE, AND EMOTION, BUT, INSTEAD, BECAUSE... I AM AN INFJ, LOL!!!* đŸ˜ŠđŸ˜ŠđŸ˜ŠđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

  • @SunLightheonly
    @SunLightheonly Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +3

    This is so real on INTP, I really just script and prepare every line I say before saying it, and just hoping people won't go off the script

  • @dizxbxdatazngrl
    @dizxbxdatazngrl Pƙed rokem +2

    as an infp, these comments coming from other infps really helped me understand myself a little better. thank you for this!!!

  • @levia-chan
    @levia-chan Pƙed 3 lety +873

    The way INFJ switched his objective in a second.

    • @qyrnxc8253
      @qyrnxc8253 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      Daemmmm

    • @tatendadune6305
      @tatendadune6305 Pƙed 3 lety +7

      That happened with one who liked me. He switched gears so fast I that called him out on it.

    • @soulfulspec
      @soulfulspec Pƙed 3 lety +5

      It was very accurate

    • @fishnewt1331
      @fishnewt1331 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      @@tatendadune6305: Hell yeah! I personally feel that by doing so, it helps the person deal with the problem, which is healthier. Hope it went well.

    • @speaktruth9989
      @speaktruth9989 Pƙed 3 lety

      Yup

  • @user-dk8cy3uo2m
    @user-dk8cy3uo2m Pƙed rokem +4276

    As an INFP I can absolutely agree to the fact that we're daydreaming most of the time and don't even realize how time passes away and people talk to u-

    • @emimew
      @emimew Pƙed rokem +97

      So it’s normal getting lost, because your daydreaming in new locations to the point, that your loved ones search you while you stay in one spot having a entire movie in your head?

    • @GachaWolf81900
      @GachaWolf81900 Pƙed rokem +2

      Mmmmmm

    • @HolaSoyJuanes
      @HolaSoyJuanes Pƙed rokem +61

      Yeah the INFP part of the video was so relatable

    • @hammadshaikh4213
      @hammadshaikh4213 Pƙed rokem +48

      And sometime it sucks
      But sometimes it boosts my energy

    • @queenj1
      @queenj1 Pƙed rokem +14

      Literally 😭

  • @an_alley_kat
    @an_alley_kat Pƙed rokem +14

    1:43 As an ENTJ, *sigh* ppl are gonna judge me. I told my crush I wanted to kiss him and he said same (over text) and he said he’s wanted to multiple times and I told him AND I QUOTE “if you don’t kiss me next time u want to I’ll do it for u” so this was actually kinda accurate 💀

    • @zELDApaya1989
      @zELDApaya1989 Pƙed rokem +3

      Why aren’t you married already

    • @an_alley_kat
      @an_alley_kat Pƙed rokem +5

      @@zELDApaya1989 ikr?!?! 😭. I’m seeing him this weekend and I’ll update u if anything happens

    • @skyvioletstrawberry
      @skyvioletstrawberry Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci

      yasss yassss 😂

    • @technological1401
      @technological1401 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      @@an_alley_kat what happened?

  • @ashton5493
    @ashton5493 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +1

    I’m a ISTP, you are so on point!😅

  • @hvnnybee
    @hvnnybee Pƙed rokem +3996

    As an INFP it’s nice to know that we as a whole are embarrassing 💀💀💀

    • @Neoptolemos111
      @Neoptolemos111 Pƙed rokem +205

      I'm an INFJ dating an INFP and I always reassure my girlfriend that she's not embarrassing to me because she thinks she is :')

    • @ixchelssong
      @ixchelssong Pƙed rokem +73

      Yep. Probably most times that I'm with humans I'm embarrassing. 😅

    • @danagelfand5618
      @danagelfand5618 Pƙed rokem +34

      BAHAHAHAH true, as an INFP I confirm :')

    • @Ry9653
      @Ry9653 Pƙed rokem +29

      I'm an INFJ, but I relate much more to the INFP here 😆

    • @danagelfand5618
      @danagelfand5618 Pƙed rokem +20

      @@Ry9653 Hahah, in the end it's only one letter difference:)

  • @qualms9197
    @qualms9197 Pƙed 3 lety +849

    He’s so ecstatically stunned she’s talking to him that he doesn’t hear a word she’s saying! Yes!😾

    • @corygingras1030
      @corygingras1030 Pƙed 3 lety +20

      I’m an INFP, and I can confirm that this actually happens to us 😂😂😂

    • @matejmikoczi3455
      @matejmikoczi3455 Pƙed 3 lety +7

      way too often lmao

    • @sinclair8824
      @sinclair8824 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      I felt sooo called out

  • @astrallll6243
    @astrallll6243 Pƙed rokem +10

    As an ENFJ, this is so real. I end up talking about love and unnecessarily awkward topics even when I know it'll go down pretty awkward HAHA

  • @Quite_forest
    @Quite_forest Pƙed rokem +1

    like infj i really went through this 2 times already, i'm a bit surprised this video hit the spot :,)

  • @noramoosa9007
    @noramoosa9007 Pƙed 3 lety +577

    LOL I'm an INFJ and that was depressingly relatable. INFJs will pretty much find themselves playing fairy godmother n helping everyone else get their happy endings... including their crush's! 😭

    • @owdy3973
      @owdy3973 Pƙed 3 lety +17

      It's pretty depressing ngl
      Edit: so depressing

    • @elliezalick4985
      @elliezalick4985 Pƙed 3 lety +58

      I'm sure you INFJs will all eventually find someone who doesn't friend zone you. My boyfriend is an INFJ and when I told him I liked him he was like wait really? Like Like? Not as a friend like? And we had that conversation multiple times.

    • @owdy3973
      @owdy3973 Pƙed 3 lety +6

      @@elliezalick4985 thanks bro🙂, I really mean it! This is really really a good message

    • @senalilvanya
      @senalilvanya Pƙed 3 lety +4

      @@elliezalick4985 WowđŸ€©

    • @tatendadune6305
      @tatendadune6305 Pƙed 3 lety +4

      @@elliezalick4985 So what do you do when the INFJ friend zones you from the get go yet he's doing everything to show he likes you, but he won't admit it. I'm not the type to help a guy out. If you like me tell me. I'm not gonna pull it out of you.

  • @haiilxanaxx1380
    @haiilxanaxx1380 Pƙed 3 lety +1011

    INTJ: Am I making enough eye contact? - proceeds to make a death stare

    • @spoonman9584
      @spoonman9584 Pƙed 2 lety +72

      *crush evaporates under our gaze**

    • @erikapatricio7658
      @erikapatricio7658 Pƙed 2 lety +14

      😂😂😂😂

    • @13Rats
      @13Rats Pƙed 2 lety +67

      Internal monologue:
      Okay, so am I making too much eye contact? ... I have no clue
      Well, people get anxious when I stare them down so if I look for signs of anxiety and I find it then I'll know to manually change my facial expressions.
      But what if they are anxious for different reasons?
      No, people are scared of you there's no getting around that
      What if they can tell I'm not looking at their eyes, and trying to figure out their emotional state. Being stared down is probably better than analyzed...
      But how would I know if it's better for _them??_
      What if I just asked her if I'm staring her down...
      No, no that's not question people ask, and I should act like a person maybe.
      But I'm eccentric as fuck and I don't plan on changing that for anybody. So, would it better to come off that way now and not have that jarring change at sometime later.
      Well I've probably already come off as eccentric... *fuck it*
      "Yea, have I been staring you down this entire time? I've been told I do that, and if I have I'm sorry it just means you make interesting conversation"
      "Haha yea it's fine, I noticed it but didn't think much about it"
      My brain still fucking steeped in anxiety juice: *How do we know if they were just being polite or if that's fully honest*

    • @wandee2816
      @wandee2816 Pƙed 2 lety +15

      I just do that when people stare at me. They stop pretty fast.

    • @powerpenguin3361
      @powerpenguin3361 Pƙed 2 lety +21

      Everyone always tells me (an INTJ) I constantely look like I am going to kill someone😭

  • @christopherwalsh2368
    @christopherwalsh2368 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +29

    As an ISTJ with an ISFJ wife i can confirm how accurate this is and how utterly hopeless we both were at the start of our relationship... 😅😂

    • @asenat79
      @asenat79 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +2

      Any advice? 😂 I’m ISFJ woman

    • @pinkymermaid9967
      @pinkymermaid9967 Pƙed 15 hodinami

      istj x isfj " Perfect match! Simple couple.

  • @Luna-AKA-Arlecchino
    @Luna-AKA-Arlecchino Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +21

    Yep, that INFJ clip looks just about right! I am a friend, a guide, a caretaker, but nothing more. I'm just the support character! My fellow INFJs, we must stay strong!

    • @strawberryshortgirl2637
      @strawberryshortgirl2637 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +1

      It sucks people come to us for advice and help. But we have no one to do the same when we need help. The support character is helping everyone else move on in their life and we’re just here 😐

    • @Luna-AKA-Arlecchino
      @Luna-AKA-Arlecchino Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci

      I know this is ironic but whatever problems you may encounter, I hope a solution presents itself quickly so happiness can surround you!

    • @strawberryshortgirl2637
      @strawberryshortgirl2637 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +1

      @@Luna-AKA-Arlecchino thanks, you too. I try to be positive, just trying to share the reality of things

    • @sadiasadaf6788
      @sadiasadaf6788 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci

      😱

  • @auraliax1323
    @auraliax1323 Pƙed 3 lety +1671

    As an INTJ, if i continue acting like this i'll die single.

    • @efratcohen3429
      @efratcohen3429 Pƙed 3 lety +328

      I do the opposite. No eye contact and ignore them to the point where they think I hate them.

    • @auraliax1323
      @auraliax1323 Pƙed 3 lety +42

      @@efratcohen3429 yes same, i wrote this comment before even watching the video, i meant with acting like this as being too too distant

    • @KK-tw8hb
      @KK-tw8hb Pƙed 3 lety +4

      @@efratcohen3429 same

    • @WolfoxBR
      @WolfoxBR Pƙed 3 lety +56

      Hey, considering I was able to get married using exactly that, anyone can. ;)

    • @auraliax1323
      @auraliax1323 Pƙed 3 lety +11

      @@WolfoxBR đŸ„ș

  • @Me-ec9uz
    @Me-ec9uz Pƙed 3 lety +2788

    I wrote this for myself (isfp)
    0:01 ISTP
    0:11 ISFP
    0:17 ESTP
    0:25 INTJ
    0:33 ISTJ
    0:45 INTP
    1:05 ESFP
    1:19 ISFJ
    1:38 ENTJ
    1:47 ESFJ
    2:03 ENTP
    2:13 ENFJ
    2:27 ENFP
    2:41 INFP
    2:53 ESTJ
    3:00 INFJ

    • @Raviksingh09
      @Raviksingh09 Pƙed 3 lety +82

      Thanks and Regards,
      INFJ

    • @Me-ec9uz
      @Me-ec9uz Pƙed 3 lety +23

      @@Raviksingh09 yeah you're the last... I knew it is hard for you.. Lol

    • @Raviksingh09
      @Raviksingh09 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      @@Me-ec9uz haha true

    • @anniedrake3463
      @anniedrake3463 Pƙed 3 lety +10

      Stay cool, nugs not drugs -infj

    • @elizabethjones2643
      @elizabethjones2643 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      Thank you :) I didn’t feel like watching the whole thing to find mine

  • @beatricroft
    @beatricroft Pƙed rokem +4

    Omg the ISTJ one is so accurate it made me scream ! đŸ™†đŸ»â€â™€ïžđŸ˜‚ that same exact situation actually happened for real to me once đŸ€Ł

  • @xRiaah
    @xRiaah Pƙed rokem +7

    As an INFJ who has set up my friends with people I have a crush on to make my friends happy, I feel this lol

  • @coyeto_domino
    @coyeto_domino Pƙed 2 lety +4038

    As an INFJ, this is SO very true. I listen to others' problems and advise them and then I don't know how to deal with my own problems.
    Sometimes, being considerate towards others, I end up hurting myself.

    • @leaht4555
      @leaht4555 Pƙed 2 lety +30

      BRO SAME

    • @coyeto_domino
      @coyeto_domino Pƙed 2 lety +5

      @@leaht4555 :'')

    • @ikrammel8122
      @ikrammel8122 Pƙed rokem +14

      Exactly .... ❀How I am

    • @snicksss
      @snicksss Pƙed rokem +29

      Yep. Sometimes I spend too much time helping others deal with their problems, that they end up getting too dependent on me, so it ends up with me getting so stressed out, which in turn hurts us both. I have regrets because of this.

    • @ghinaarih8958
      @ghinaarih8958 Pƙed rokem

      So relatable đŸ„č

  • @chrisb9143
    @chrisb9143 Pƙed 3 lety +443

    INFJ is like : "Why am I here, just to suffer"

    • @breezymango4113
      @breezymango4113 Pƙed 3 lety +7

      Hahaha. Sad, but true.

    • @shawndarudeone
      @shawndarudeone Pƙed 3 lety +15

      LMBO!! I'm laughing because if I don't tears start rolling in, but also cause it true and funny.

    • @accidentalwarrior1017
      @accidentalwarrior1017 Pƙed 3 lety +9

      I’m an existentialist and every day is a new day to question why am I on this planet!

    • @kathleenlloyd4224
      @kathleenlloyd4224 Pƙed 3 lety +3

      @@shawndarudeone Yup. Laughing while those wet tears roll down. The music!

    • @GeorgideMarne
      @GeorgideMarne Pƙed 3 lety +4

      I think they're so used to it, they even imagine they're friend zoned when they'r3 not. Happened once. The INFJ guy was convinced I "played the field" when in fact I was waiting for him to get back on his feet and make a move.. đŸ€Šâ€â™€ïž

  • @ashwinmartin355
    @ashwinmartin355 Pƙed rokem +8

    Damn I took the personality test and I'm like 50% Introverted and 50% Extroverted so whenever I take the test my results vary between INFP and ENFP. And I think that both of these are a very accurate representation of my polarizing personality.

    • @amair5403
      @amair5403 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +1

      Damn it same!!!

  • @Knightmare2018
    @Knightmare2018 Pƙed rokem +5

    As an INTJ this is perfectly accurate. The INTP one is also super accurate to me.

  • @bethanytanner9346
    @bethanytanner9346 Pƙed 3 lety +2222

    That last one makes me want to laugh and weep.
    -helpless romantic INFJ
    P.S. Thanks for another fantastic video, FJ!

    • @rebeccagale2095
      @rebeccagale2095 Pƙed 3 lety +72

      I, too, laughed out loud for awhile. The piano was everything.

    • @TheKrissi2007
      @TheKrissi2007 Pƙed 3 lety +106

      As an INFJ myself, I wasn‘t sure if I should have laughed or cried! I‘m experiencing unrequited love myself at the moment! 😱

    • @fandeadvirus3816
      @fandeadvirus3816 Pƙed 3 lety +28

      Pain.

    • @vidyacantika571
      @vidyacantika571 Pƙed 3 lety +40

      It's quite funny and terrifying because I experience the exact same feelings right now. So yeah, my response ; laughing out loud while internally screaming frustratedly and miserably crying. Ahahahsjks

    • @catherinebeats7584
      @catherinebeats7584 Pƙed 3 lety +5

      @@rebeccagale2095 same😂😂😂😂

  • @this.is.autumnsky
    @this.is.autumnsky Pƙed 2 lety +3199

    INFJs are so good at breaking their own hearts. Because what really matters to us is seeing the people we care/we love be happy and content with their life even if we are out of the picture. I feel y'all! 👌

  • @anamikadatta8841
    @anamikadatta8841 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +1

    LIKED for ENTJ'S No Nonsense Direct to the point action oriented Spiel. Results!

  • @annasorkos
    @annasorkos Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

    Where have you been all my life!! These videos are incredible

  • @bethereorbesquare2287
    @bethereorbesquare2287 Pƙed 3 lety +1983

    Notice how we INFJs are the rarest but we’re the most loudest in every MBTI discussions, says a lot about our personality lol. We’re enthusiastic about the fact that we can meet the people we could most relate to. Because to be honest, as an INFJ, I think most of you will never get the way we feel except for our fellow INFJs. It’s nice to meet the people who understand you, especially in our case.

    • @farhaibtisam4053
      @farhaibtisam4053 Pƙed 3 lety +139

      Because, it's also rare to meet the people who understand us🙂

    • @finyx2543
      @finyx2543 Pƙed 3 lety +66

      Omg my life makes sense now 😱

    • @LegoMan-135
      @LegoMan-135 Pƙed 3 lety +38

      Yea that is kinda good but...is still need to overcome the needs for other's verification on how I do things because I really hates that. REALLY hated that

    • @trivialove2311
      @trivialove2311 Pƙed 3 lety +41

      Sadly, it's like we're misfits for life. 😔

    • @nyimdewan3353
      @nyimdewan3353 Pƙed 3 lety +6

      Yeah yeah!! I've tried a lot on the cmnt sec...Never found one...Most of them were lying about being INFJ...

  • @bernzZz
    @bernzZz Pƙed 2 lety +3873

    I can't believe how accurate this is! Friend zoned.
    INFJ's are good at breaking their own hearts. Pretending to be a supportive friend and whatnot.
    I can totally relate.

    • @gabrielparry210
      @gabrielparry210 Pƙed 2 lety +110

      I dont think they are pretending tho, is just natural to trynna help people emotionally.

    • @bernzZz
      @bernzZz Pƙed 2 lety +30

      @@gabrielparry210 didn't mean it that way. I should have said "trying"

    • @kaleb.nesciorek
      @kaleb.nesciorek Pƙed 2 lety +17

      @Bob Stone I was thinking the same because I'm also an INFJ

    • @purvagor3264
      @purvagor3264 Pƙed 2 lety +18

      duhh I totally agree with you, we just want our loved ones to be happy :)

    • @-x_moon_x-
      @-x_moon_x- Pƙed 2 lety +7

      @Bob Stone wh--- i was there like "don't you dare... this can't be..." HOW could we think the same thing lmaooo

  • @tbobbobs7606
    @tbobbobs7606 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +4

    Man, even as an INTJ I just want to give INFJ a hug when I see some of these videos.

  • @joannab.2221
    @joannab.2221 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

    Ahahahaha, I have to give you that, I guessed my type right (INFJ). Loved it!

  • @antologiaz
    @antologiaz Pƙed 3 lety +584

    as an infp i actually love daydreaming but it gets tiring cause i idealize people way too much and i end up getting disappointed really often lol the bar is set way too high and its all my brain's fault

    • @Trulyyaraa
      @Trulyyaraa Pƙed 2 lety +3

      Wait im enfp but why is this me ?

    • @Hypie582
      @Hypie582 Pƙed 2 lety +12

      @@Trulyyaraa ENFPs and INFPs aren't very different I guess.

    • @zetsu6538
      @zetsu6538 Pƙed 2 lety +22

      And that's how I haven't been interested in anyone for years. Also, being attracted to fictional characters doesn't help!!

    • @vxpidz
      @vxpidz Pƙed 2 lety +8

      its my brain and my over-attachment to fictional characters

    • @geniusjichu7558
      @geniusjichu7558 Pƙed 2 lety

      True

  • @raimavadhanam3275
    @raimavadhanam3275 Pƙed 3 lety +807

    I'm an ENFP, but I saw ISTP, and I've never felt so understood.

  • @AceBeeCee
    @AceBeeCee Pƙed rokem +6

    As an ENTP, this is SO true. I don't care whatever my crush said, I either tell them I have no quacking idea what they said, or I crack the lamest joke on earth 💀

  • @ayadarhrham1505
    @ayadarhrham1505 Pƙed rokem +4

    The INTJ one couldn’t be more accurate, I had the same thoughts around two of my crushes !

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle Pƙed 3 lety +587

    me when I have a crush, trying to send brain waves in their direction so they can read my mind and know that I have a crush on them

    • @Lorenzaccia
      @Lorenzaccia Pƙed 3 lety +26

      So, I'm not the only one ? 😅

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle Pƙed 3 lety +24

      @@Lorenzaccia HAHAH nope!!! unfortunately, none of my crushes have gotten my brain messages :(

    • @laziness852
      @laziness852 Pƙed 3 lety +7

      Same lol

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle Pƙed 3 lety +6

      @@laziness852 has it worked for you? LOOOL

    • @juliapedigo3518
      @juliapedigo3518 Pƙed 3 lety +7

      For me it worked😂😂👁👄👁

  • @quinn2836
    @quinn2836 Pƙed 3 lety +891

    As an INFP i often like to imagine relationships with random people i make up personalities for in my head bc my standards are impossibly high and i'd rather not date anyone than date someone who doesn't live up to those standards......

  • @kaishaman7144
    @kaishaman7144 Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci +1

    Two parts were relatable here for me: the one with worrying about eye contact (I, too, have no idea how to use it in an appropriate way) and the one with talking about the existential dread as a way to break the ice. Clearly, I am a very fun date

  • @Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf
    @Mysterious_Chaos_Wolf Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +2

    I’m ISTP and that was scarily accurate.