16 Personalities on a Date with Their Opposite Type
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The 16 Personalities of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator are INFJ, INTJ, INFP, ISFP, INTP, ISTP, ISFJ, ISTJ, ENFP, ENTP, ESTP, ESFP, ENTJ, ESTJ, ENFJ, ESFJ
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First? I am! How cool! Time to watch this.
Second?đ„łâ€ïž
I laughed out loud at "I'm an ESPN"!! đ€Ł
I already know my type, but took the type test for So Synced anyway. Exactly my MBTI. But why can't we get any single Frank James types on there? Can you get Guy Brandt to join it at least? đ
6:39 FJ was that plate sharing monologue out of your diary? Autobiographical? I remember that poll! Also loved that you matched to an ENTJ in the ad! Do you show ur wife all the cute Easter eggs and winks you leave for her? đ„°
As an INTJ, if I hear someone describe themselves as "spontaneous and energetic" it raises 50 different red flags in my mind. lol
Hahahaha, apparently my INTJ husband likes a challenge because he married me and I'm a chattery, sunshiney, and spontaneous INFP lol.
Lmao, that's so true àČĄâ Íâ â Êâ â àČĄ
@@bunny_0288 That's because you also use Fi and Te, but in the opposite order, so you balance each other out. I like INFPs a lot as an INTJ, even if y'all can be a *bit* much sometimes, haha. Few things freak an INTJ out more than constant Se and insistent Fi when our Te has explicitly stated our obvious disinterest.
As an ISTJ, I agree.
@@bunny_0288 So does that mean you do to both sides of the conversation? Cuz that would be awesome.
As an INFP the "working on a date? I don't even work when I'm at work" was so relatable, like I am supposed to do my work right know but I'm watching this instead HAHAHAHAHAH
and then the âi somehow missed this red flagâđđ
As an ISTP, same
Same with my school activities lmao
Same! I should be studying for my test tomorrow but here I am watching a video where I get called out đ
So damn relatable đđđđđ
As an ISFJ who dated an ENTP for 4 years, a large part of our relationship was me listening to him debating random stuff while pacing and using the same hand gestures while arguing each perspective đ he was mad cute though
As an ENTP, you sound really nice lol. I need someone like you in my life. đ
Respectful đđđ
Funnily enough, my grandfather is an ENTP and my grandmother is an ESFJ, but they got divorced and now he's married to an ISFJ, and I've seen something similar a few times, lol.
Why u not together now
As an ENTP dating an ISFJ for 4.5 years, i can conform it is mostly me debating random stuff while my boyfriend just admires "how cute i look" đ
INFJ running away was soooo realistic đđđđđ
Omg yes đ€Ł
frrr đ@@estefaniapalacioperez6996
Yes... 0_0
I was looking for this comment thank you! I literally had a conversation this morning with an INFP about how I run away if I feel theyâre too interested in me.đ€Łđ
ahoy fellow INFJs đ
Fun fact; I'm INFJ and my husband is ESTP! We did do an escape room once and we finished it so fast the staff was impressed and took our picture. I think opposites do the best team work because one will be thinking about things the other wouldn't be and vice versa
I disagree. I need someone who thinks like me. It's good that it works for you :)
Yup I agree with you. I'm an INFP with ESTJ boyfriend, I feel like I'm so grateful for having him because he does helps me a lot when it comes to dealing with deadline, he's so supportive to help my ambition going :))
@@afidas9325 My ESTJ ex was toxic and I m never going to date my opposite trait esp ESTJ. I want someone with same mindset , few different things definitely work. But i m happy that it is working for you guys. :)
I'm an infj with an estp husband too. He drives me crazy, but he keeps my life from being boring that's for sure. Idk what I was thinking đ
@@angelaroberts1054 ESTP, met INFJ once, I was absolutely stunned. I definetety need INFJ in my life.
Can we just take a moment and appreciate the new wigs and the fact that frank even put a little make up on for the women?đ Great video, as always!
The INFP looked nice đđđ
yes I was thinking the same thing :D
I agree đ
Our boy FJ steps up his costume game every time! So happy
Right?! It was almost uncanny! I noticed the new wigs right away, but I needed time to figure out the make-up. I was just looking at him like "he looks much different, but how?" It's truly movie magic
INFP was hilarious. âWork on a date? I donât even work at work.â đ lmao
Timestamps:
0:00 SoSyncd
1:13 Introduction
1:22 ESFP & INTJ
2:15 INFP & ESTJ
3:28 ENTJ & ISFP
4:26 ENFP & ISTJ
5:14 ISTP & ENFJ
6:14 ESFJ & INTP
7:24 ISFJ & ENTP
8:25 INFJ & ESTP
Hope this helps! đ
Love you, thanks for real âĄ
Yes very much so
TYSM I NEEDED THIS I WAS LOOKING FOR IT đđ
â€thanks so relieved to see
ESTJ My Mom & the younger me INFP. On Point!
As an INFJ who was pressured into a relationship with a guy who was over eager and a bit controlling, that last bit had me laughing so hard I was in tears. Absolutely relatable!
The exact same thing happened to me đ and I ran so fast đââïž
How could you be pressured to get into a relationship?
@@guciowitomski3825 by being an infj, but with bad boundaries
Agreed, the INFJ generally get on with most individuals, but if they're pressured too much, then even their patience will run thin!
@@guciowitomski3825 I didnât really want to, but he continued to make enough romantic gestures despite my telling him I was uninterested, that enough outsiders thought we were dating and kinda pushed us together more. We âgot togetherâ after the 6th nurse in a row asked if we were dating during my hospital stay.
I knew I had to get when not even a week into the relationship he dropped $200 on a piece of jewelry for me. It made me feel obligated and trapped, and I hated feeling that way, so I got him an expensive watch then broke up with him a couple days later for many more reasons.
Iâm not someone from a very wealthy family, so having someone I had barely known a month spend so much on me, with myself knowing I couldnât pay him back, made me wildly uncomfortable.
I think an escape room sounds like a really good idea for a first date, actually. That way I can easily asses my partner's levels of competence and intelligence, and if I get bored with them I can just concentrate on the puzzle.
Being locked in a room with a stranger sounds like a horrible date.
Ikr. I need to see this dude's level of intelligence before we decide to go to first base.
Entj?
I agree with both of you^^
That would only test their competence in an escape room-ish or physical problem solving situation, though. Intelligence has many forms.
6:09 "Best date ever. We don't even talk to each other" HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
I am ISTP and I identify with that. đ€Ł
As an INFP, this is so relatable. I loved the "Work on a date? I don't even work when I'm at work!" I think that's the most relatable thing someone has ever told me.đ
Lol, oddly enough, as an INFJ, Iâd probably be okay with being dragged along on random adventures. So long as we can relax after.
Agree, I really enjoy going into escape rooms with friends, but only if i'm in a good mood. Really love such kind of adventures, but I would feel extremely uncomfortable with a stranger, especially if they say something about "not escaping their charm"
@@renatakamalova2713 I'd feel uncomfortable as well if it was with a stranger I would escape the same way lol. I'd feel comfortable going on a random adventure as long as it's safe and I like the person to just hang around with them
I think by nature some the INFJ would have to be cool with that if they spend time around an ENTP. Adventure now. beer later... happiness.
Sure if we can plan the adventure.
@@reneecoons5057 I can live with INFJs planning. In general... They don't like events they control, and I don't like being bored. I don't care if they don't tell me what they are plotting, and if we are completely honest, they probably care more about what will amuse me than I would. Fun now... beer later.
I love the ESTJ / INFP misunderstanding about the back room , and the ENTJ / ISFP mishearing everything đđ it's amazing how you can turn awful to a Belgian waffles! đ€Łđ€Ł Oh my God that killed me.
Thank you, Frank, for this mini hilarious sitcom. This is really amazing and brilliant. Appreciate the effort you put in this one, from A to Z
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hahaha yeah the infp thought he wanted them to kill the pets in the backroom
My parents are ESTJ and INFP and I can personally vouch for this representation. Imagine Dwight Schrute dating Edward Scissorhands or like... Tina Belcher. That's literally what it's like
@@18937charlotte how on earth did your parents end up together. As an INFP, watching ESTJ part of the sketch always scares me. I just want to run away.
As a male INFP I wouldn't mind helping out at a shelter, provided I was working with someone else whom I like
No your not
No joke as an ISTP that exact outdoor-hike-date thing with an ENFJ actually happened to me once. Picked the 1000+ m elevation change and all that, but accidentally. Most quiet date ever. Good times.
That's amazing
I am an ENFJ and that couldn't happen to me, because I am German and your "hikes" are a walk in the park for us.
Whoa đ
I am an INTP so I literally raised my hands to the sky in affirmation when the INTP explained the rules of ordering food. Do not touch my fries when you could easily have ordered your own!
Same here and i đŻ agree
I hate it when people touch my food. As an INTP as well, you will have your hands broken if you touch and eat my food. The only person that can get away with that is my girlfriend, but otherwise, *get your own food*
And that remark about calories not counting! Kills me!! đđ« (INTJ here)
As an ENFJ if my partner is having trouble deciding between two dishes I usually offer to order one and split it. Otherwise I'll usually stick to my own dish other than a single bite to taste if I want to order it next time.
Same!!!
If you can't order, I'll do it (although I'll prefer not to)
But please don't do something without asking permission and listening to my reply (and obviously following what my reply says)
"Never touch a man's French Fries. In fact, never touch a man's anything." Duly noted, this is the new "Joey doesn't share food!" for the ages! đ
Yes!
I am a man and I enjoy having some things touched
That was the first thing I thought of! đ
@@Xoretre , I'm sure. đ Lolđ
You misquoted.
The Rock and Roll concert date made me laugh so hard, who'd have guessed that they're perfectly in sync with each other just because of loud noises! Truly, their romance will be long lasting! đžđ
2:46 " I don't even work when I'm at work."
Me neither...đ€Ł
I'm an INFJ and I LOVE escape rooms. I can see all the options and it finally feels useful!
âšTimestampsâš
0:00 Intro
0:25 Sponsor
1:12 Infatu8
1:22 ESFP and INTJ
2:13 INFP and ESTJ
3:26 ENTJ and ISFP
4:23 ENFP and ISTJ
5:11 ISTP and ENFJ
6:12 ESFJ and INTP
7:24 ENTP and ISFJ
8:23 INFJ and ESTP
-ENFP
Thanks so much for the time stamps, it's such a time saver!
@@trinaq yw đ
Sammeee Iâm an ENFP
@@poppins14 nice đ
WTF is Infatu8 !?
1:23 ESFP & INTJ
2:15 INFP & ESTJ
3:27 ENTJ & ISFP
4:29 ENFP & ISTJ
5:12 ISTP & ENFJ
6:12 ESFJ & INTP
7:23 ENTP & ISFJ THAT ONE WAS FIRE LMAO
8:23 INFJ & ESTP
As an INTJ, I actually enjoy dancing, itâs a fun sensory thing that also kind of ties into emotion and intuition, or gets me out of my head.
But only if it is your idea - INTJs don't want to be trapped in someone else's dance off.
While I don't enjoy dancing I do enjoy listening to music and staring off into space.
My way of getting out of my head usually involves subjecting my friends to D&D campaigns that I thought up while listening to music.
I also very much enjoy dancing, but on my own terms.
I'm an INTJ that dances all the time.
Iâm also INTJ and love dancing but I hate improvising- if I dance, it needs to be a set choreography for me to enjoy it.
The IxTJ/ExFP couples meshing surprisingly well is hilarious. Also I love how the ENTP & ISFJ was basically a match made in heaven.
This is fucking hilarious. I'm an ESFJ and my boyfriend is INTP. However we do always share our food and every meal ends up becoming family style.
Here's the thing, INTPs are massive romanticists. With literally anybody, the INTP will become the physical embodiment of OCD and will mentally throw up if you touch their food. But with their crush, they'd basically do anything in the limits of rational for them. After all, the INTP probably spent every day of their life dreaming about their crush, if they don't share the food with them... are they really together?
At least that's me lol
@@cerebrummaximus3762 It's sweet, he is such a romantic with me. He's been my best friend for years and I'm lucky to call him my boyfriend now.
@@cerebrummaximus3762
As an INTP your comment touches me on a spiritual level.. like damn, it's like you just described me exactly. especially when you mentioned OCD.. cuz I HAVE OCD!! And I am gonna be eating alone until one day I meet my girlfriend ,and then everything changesâ€â€
@@cerebrummaximus3762
Lol that would totally be me. I have my principals but I would absolutely throw a bunch of them overboard for a partner
@@cerebrummaximus3762 ENTP... If I wanted a salad... I would order a salad. If she made a habit of eating more of my fries than her salad I would order two fries then push one over to her on the next date and flat out admit that I know she wants fries anyways and if SHE won't admit what she actually wants I will. This tactic... has not actually worked well for me in the past, but an interesting argument is just as much fun to me as a good date so either way I win.
Only an ISTP can torment an ENFJ, and drive them to the point of giving up on people.
*laughs in ISTP*
100%
yeppppp - an enfj. we love you tho
We know exactly how to get rid of people. ;) * laughs in ISTP *
@@beanieful204 slight edit, infjs can do that too we either work really well or we just are a car crash
That's interesting how you had the ENFP and the ISTJ watch a movie together. My Mom (ENFP) and my Dad (ISTJ) have been married for 40 years now, and as different as they are, one of the things they bond over is watching movies and TV together. mom just has to remember to not spoil anything for dad if (when) she watches ahead, and Dad has to pause or wait for the end before asking his questions.
Omg I'm an ENFP and this sounds exactly like how my mom and I interact!!! (She's an ISTJ.) Although I cannot imagine dating or marrying an ISTJ given how vastly different we are and how much we constantly disagree bc we just don't see or experience the world the same way, but that's probably just bc I was raised by an ISTJ so it creates a bit of a different dynamic. When you are a certain MBTI raised by your complete opposite, it's hard to go out there and then get along with that opposite type later in life. It's probably why I am close w so few ISTJs besides my mom lol. Good for your parents tho! That sounds lovely :) And to be clear, I love my mom to death and we have an incredible relationship. But bc I was raised by that personality type and it caused a lot of friction growing up, it's hard for me to imagine marrying that type later in life, especially when we are exact opposites.
As a pink-haired INFP with one half-dead houseplant, I found this extremely relatable.
Don't worry FJ, I completely understood the Geologist and the Baker part who are rockin' and rollin' đ you're a genius đ
"I love personality types. You know, I'm an ESPN"
OMG this part just cracked me đ€Łđ€Ł
I laughed my heart out at this... I am an INTP and my roommate is an ESFJđ€ŁThat little date is our entire living situation for the past 2 months summarized in 1 minute
Iâm an ENFJ married to an ISTP for 28 years tomorrow:)
This video was spot on and am so grateful that I found your videos! They are my comic relief and helps us to laugh instead of kill each other đ
PS I have to force him to watch and he sometimes smirks đ€Łâ€ïž
Laughed way too hard at "ESPN." I imagine an ESFP not caring that they initially mixed up the letters because they didn't really care, and now it's their go-to joke XD
Personally, I'm a VPN
I was laughing before the skit truly started. Iâm an ESPN đđđ
HAHHAHAHAHAHA MEE TOOO
I'm an IFTP đ„
BruhâŠIâm a JPEG
Hey props to the ESTJ for taking a moment to realize why the INFP was reacting to their words that way! đ đ đ A lot of times people don't take the time to understand the reasons behind our reactions to certain things that often. At least from what I've experienced. INFP here. I will say the ESTJ and INFP date was hilarious, especially when the INFP fainted and the ESTJ just watched her fall on the floor with a deadpan look on his face. Makes it even more comedic. đđđ
As an ISTP I feel attacked- it's so accurate. I don't like much social interaction and I know a lot for stuff when I need to know it! Amazing work.
It doesn't surprise me that the ESTP found value in the INFJ. As an INFJ, I've learned that I'm good at support roles - whether I want them or not.
That last sentence is my entire life
As an INFJ who once dated an ESTP, that situation has occurred soo many times. It was extremely relatable, I couldn't believe how accurate it ended up being!
*"Never touch a man's french fries."* - Frank James
As an INFJ, who works as a councler for vulnerable people đ, I actually found this attractive. I was like âomg so thos is the group I was looking for!â Hahaha.
Honestly, I find it tiring being the one who notices all the small details and interprets them to help others. I would like to have someone to do it for me. And is a bit pushy, as I tend to run from responsibilities related to my private life hahaha
đŻ!
I'm an INFJ and I love escape rooms! I drag my INTJ husband and INFP children there whenever possible. We make a pretty good team, although I'm pretty sure it is because they are either competitive or just really want the hour to end faster. đ€
Oh my gosh I'd love to date an INTJ or have an INTJ friend I think we'd get along. Also ISFP maybe? I've met an ISFP and we're becoming real good friends.
@@youtubecommentergal4346 Me, an INTJ seeing this comment: Hmmm... interesting
Introvert intuitive families
INFJ and I'd love to do an escape room,wonder if they have any here in New Zealandđ€
The competition is real! My INTJ hubby and INFJ-self can't be on a team to save our lives. We are trying to show which intellect is better at all times, him with his facts and figures and me with perception and experience. Its 50/50 on wins to losses, but its a fun life.
INFP here, but that ENFP date was extremely relatable, lol. That's literally me with movies and tv shows đ đ đ đ
Also, the fact that INFP and ENFP had colored hair was freaking hilarious. *brushes her own blue hair out of her eyes*
Agreed xD
I felt very called out by the coloured hair xD I'm ENFP and I've had my hair all sorts of colours including pink and blue
@Steffi Siebe infp with boxes of pink and blue dye gathering dust for the past year. Seems blue is expected so...its definitely going to be pink first. Eventually. đ
I have an ISTP friend. You played it so well as if I could see his mimics, vibe and intonation. Body language was đŻ
INTP here. I can confirm. I don't mind sharing food, but I usually do not eat things I didn't order/don't want to eat. Also, I prefer to hand over my food to share. I personally don't like someone reaching for it instead cause uh, I ordered what I WANTED to eat. I don't mind you asking for more, but just let me hand it to you. It just feels odd to have someone suddenly invade my space on a date. Not used to that proximity.
Same bud. Iâll order the food I want (typically the same thing every time), Iâll eat it. Sometimes, I might have a bit of something else if it looks appetising or I never saw it on the menu, but I do not like people taking my food at all.
I was just at a dinner with a bunch of family friends. I had a basket of fries. I was sharing a couple with my stepdad. One woman was still waiting for her food, and her friend, next to me, reached over and gave her my fries. She ate a couple then the fries were handed back. Then the woman next to me decided to put a small handful on my steldads plate and then move my basket of fries to the middle of the table and offer them up to everyone! I tried to make a polite comment, and she sort of said, "well I left you some" indicating the 5 fries on the plate. Wtf?! đđ I don't mind sharing and will often offer, but this was way too much.
I'm a get more than I should be able to eat person when ordering in a group. So there is excess because I'm smart enough to know people like fries and will eye yours regardless of what they do about it. Logic. It is more expensive though, so sometimes rules must be set.
Iâm so glad you portrayed ENTP as a woman. Usually theyâre portrayed as men and I donât get to see myself in these fun little characters as often as an ENTP woman myself. Also I think ISFJs are kind of cute lol. I forget they exist until theyâre shown right in front of my face, and I think, âhaha ISFJs are so goofy. They just listen and donât get offended, all the while bringing me water so I donât die of exhaustion from running my mouth. I donât think they understand though that I would never be exhausted from talking.â
I just realized I went more off topic than I intended to in order to get my point across. Anyway, yay for female ENTP representation. Huzzah!
There are female ENTP's? Colour me surprised, but welcome to the team
Lol yeah female entps are a rarity in general, so that explains that
Also Iâm a male entp and my sister is an Isfj so thatâs interesting
Haha Female ENTP here too. I can be a walking podcast 12 hours at work, then go home gaming with my friends for 3 hours and continue to talk đ€Ł still, can't really stand ISFJ's, too emotional đł
@@TrishKapaSparda INFJ here...you put a new thought in my head...your talking does not stem from emotion then? Where does all the talking come from? How do you not run out of talking?
Do you maybe instantly vocalize all the things all the things that go through your brain?
(Itâs so interesting how all our different brains and personalities operate, isnât it?!! đ)
I love this one! Every date was hilarious! The 2 mile hike was great! He knew what he was doing.đ My favorite was INFJ escape room date. " I find hidden messages in everything. Why not the cover of a book?" Ain't that the truth! đđ€Łđ
YES we're genius in some way. Like the fact INFJ was finding clues and had no idea reminded me of classes where I'd guess an answer and be told that I'm correct and thought well. When in reality I hadn't thought about it, I just guessed? Or knew it? Lol.đ
@@youtubecommentergal4346 đ Exactly. I love your username btwđđâïž
@@StephanieJeanne , thank you. đđâđœ
As an infj, give me a piece of dirt and I will find something some life insight or something, and I just found one.... it's about how the soil we grow in affects us.... Yk what I'm iust going to shut my mouth -infj out
@@megan8932 same
"I was shocked" had me dying.
Anyway, an ISTP guy and an INTP gal could be such a good pair. Frank and honest.
Iâm an INFJ dating an ESTP and oddly enough, despite being complete opposites, we get along incredibly well and I love spending time with him đâ€
Iâm an ENTP and thatâs EXACTLY how my ISFJ husband looks at me when I talk at him. I also end up reading too much into what he just said when he leaves to fetch me my coffee. đ
ENTP myself, I like having people like that around when I need to think. Had a buddy of mine that when I REALLY needed to work things out quickly, I would talk to him. He was a bit dumb, and never knew what the hell I was talking about, but I got him to just keep eye contact and nod while I worked out most of the details. I don't think I would be able to handle that with a spouse. Friends sure... People also dislike when I start telling them their thoughts because I can read it off their face.
@@HerKnightable it can be very frustrating at times Iâll give you that. Especially when itâs a topic Iâm passionate about and want to hear his thoughts on it too and not just talk about mundane things. Thatâs been one of the toughest parts of our relationship but weâre learning how to communicate with each other finally. This is definitely how MBTI helps!
@@goldengirl8355 I bet. Me personally. Not quite mature enough to handle that one. I have found people who CAN overcome those kinds of differences are always stronger for it. I am happy tools like this could help the two of you out.
@@HerKnightable I have someone like that at work... I would talk to her and she just nods with the eyes wide open and she doesn't understand a thing I am telling her. Well she is quitting soon, good good, because I would be firing her as soon as I get the manager position đ€Ł ENTP female here btw đ€
@@TrishKapaSparda You know. Every time I have reached management the people who I would have fired have always quit. Wonderful how that works out... It always makes the "You are a good person and I do consider you a friend, but your work patterns are terrible..." talk go away. I can be heartless, but that one... that one lowers moral and makes all of my other friends trust me less.
Infj running away from someone's charm that comes out too strong couldn't be more accurate, but secretly deep down some of us love that haha. Thank you for another awesome video Frank, keep up the good work :)
We love it, but we donât trust it...đ
Lol. Everyone likes charming people, that's why they're described as charming.
INFJ know better and see past the facade.
Someone who's trying to butter you up is usually compensating for a lack in relational skills. They are superficial and do not know how to go deep- something the INFJ CRAVES
@@karenramnath9993 yes
@@karenramnath9993 exactly. which is why we runđđbetter get away sooner rather than later
Just remembered my older sister is an ESTP. I woukd definitely have fun in an escape room with her because we could go straight into problem solving mode. I couldn't date that type because she gives up NOTHING about her real feelings or opinions on deep subjects.
As an ENFP, I think that date with ISTJ was really not that bad, even quite enjoyable XD I would totally go on a second one
That's what I was thinking! Lol (Also ENFP đ)
Same here! Gotta love the back and forth questions about what's happening during a story xD
Same đ
"I don't even work when I am at work" as an INFP myself i relate to this a lot. I think it's a combination of accsually not working sometimes, but also haveing so much fun(or being so concentraded)when i accsually am working on something (when i want to ,that i want to do, and that i enjoy doing ... more or less) that i either don't realise i AM working or i don't see it AS working the other times.
I'm an INFJ, but I fricking love escape rooms. I would have acted like the guy in the situation. Yeah, the "won't be able to escape my charm" is really frightening and would have triggered my fight or flight reflexes, but apart from that I would be happy to be in a platonic mystery-solving partnership. đ
SAME
Yup haha
I was thinking the exact same thing!! I would roleplay :D But tbh I would never let anyone down, when they're hyped about something. Due to the hype of the other person, I hype myself up so it would just be the coolest day and the coolest date ever. So its the first video, where I find the INFJ representation not accurate sadly :(
@@nikalyn5398 Right! And like, when I'm already there, I would happily join in the fun. It only gets accurate again when he brings up PLANS TO MORE HANGOUTS. An INFJ would cancel them anyway if possible. That's where I would hop off the hype train even if I had a good time.đ
But yeah, I can't see a person who tries to decipher life on a daily basis not enjoy a nice puzzle game.
Right!! đđ
None of these have ever felt as exposing as this one (INTJ). All the time I get told that you can't know if you'll enjoy something without trying it first and I disprove with tons of examples of me predicting exactly how I'll feel and being right
Wow thatâs so fascinating! I wonder what that would feel like? I canât imagine knowing exactly how Iâd feel without trying something first (ENFP)
@@holleighlordel1575 Introverted intuition is really hard to explain, but generally I can naturally kind of group activities into what else they would be like based off of the concepts they use, and judge that based off of other experiences. For example my father does daytrading, and he wants me to get into it, and I know I would like it because I enjoy pattern recognition and judging risk vs reward. It's like judging a movie based off of its genre and its theme
@@holleighlordel1575 You know how you can look at a red hot stove and think "Wow, that's the last place I would want to stick my hand right now."? It's like that.
Sooo interesting! Thanks for the perspective. I guess I do know there are things I would hate to do without actually trying, like cave diving or going to jail đ Thanks for feeding my lifelong hunger to understand other people.
@@holleighlordel1575 Of course! It's really just like that but to an extreme
As an enfp, I can say that the date youve shown is the exact same date I had with my boyfriend who actually is the exact opposite of my type. And yes we're still together after 5 years and are going to marry next year.
So opposites can come along quite nicely.
Ps, the date was lovely and we ended up laughing so hard that everyone else hated us afterwards.
Ayyyy am curious how the date went..! Sounds fun!
The INTJ spontaneity joke hit hard. I tell friends I'm totally spontaneous, if I've planned for it first. Had a co-worker ask if I've planned my own death yet. Yes, yes I have, but I've also left room for spontaneity. If I die on a tuesday, I want to be buried in the red outfit, but if it's a wednesday, I want to be buried in the blue outfit. So my viewing at the funeral home could still be a total surprise to everyone!
I'm similar bit different (female INTP). I need to have events/outings/processes planned but I also need spontaneity regarding when they happen.
Kind of routine but not planned ig?
Yes! Need to plan to be spontaneous.
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On weekends i iron all the clothes and outfits i'm going to wear for the upcoming week for work
Lol. I (INTJ) too have planned my funeral! I told my adult son, just to make sure he does it! đ
As an ISTP who has had a crush on a lot and I mean a lot of ESTPs I would love to see the 16 personalities on a date with their Introvert/Extrovert type (Iâm not sure if that makes sense, hereâs a list so it makes more sense)
ISTP ESTP
INTP ENTP
ISTJ ESTJ
INTJ ENTJ
ISFP ESFP
INFP ENFP
ISFJ ESFJ
INFJ ENFJ
ENTP who has met a few INTP girls, and normally found them... meh. Pretty sure we would have to have a lot of interests the same for that to work. I think some of the times are better suited to date their own Introvert/Extrovert inverse. One of my friends is an INTJ and he dreams of dating a good ENTJ girl (told him it would not work, but damn he wants to try), and other types might view it differently.
@@HerKnightable INTP here. I know some ENTP/INTP couples. But personally I've never quite hit it off romantically with an ENTP. They seem more like sibling energy. Lol
ISTP(girl) + INTP(guy)...
@@BanjoBitty I am with you. You guys like to listen more (most of the time), but yeah.... sibling energy describes it quite well. If I am brain-storming your type and the INTJ are the top of my list to work with. And they can be great friends. Romantically? I like someone QUITE different from me.
Im an ESTJ and my husband is ISTJ :)
"You can't know you hate something until you give it a fair shot."
"That's not true, I literally do that all the time."
ahh, too true.
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I know what you you did there...
And I loved it!
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ââ@@xris671 I can feel my leg, even my fingers
Edit: 2:27 I think he kept us waiting, uh ?
This is so accurate. My friend is an ESTJ, and I am an INFP. She thinks of the stuff I can't think of, but I am usually the one getting her back on track lol.
The ISTP and ENFJ convo is me and my friend, it would be their nightmare to not be able to talk while hanging out while I'd be totally fine just walking silently lol
@@thecod2345 same to be honest although I'd try small talk and if it dosent work I'd shut up but if it did I'd try continue on the conversation and then on the way find something were both interested in. If I find a topic I'll talk about it for ages (INFJ)
@@thecod2345 yeah true but when you start dating someone or go on a first date you should do (in my opinion) something your both interested in wether physical stuff or something that you'll just do. Doing physical stuff does make overthinking better because your not as focused your just enjoying yourself. You are constantly moving and doing something and I think I'd prefer that rather then sit down somewhere I'm horribly awkward when trying to make conversation đ
@@thecod2345 true. I just hope someone talks to me. Well anyway have a good day, night đ
LOL
You should do 16 personalities in a pet store. I'm an INTJ and am obsessed with fish lol
As an ISTP, snek
I am also a INTJ, I don't really like animals to be honest. But he has done a "16 personalities as pet owners" video
Yes. Or at the zoo/safari/shelter.. đ Animal lover here. đ
What type of fish? I'm an INTJ too.
@@melissaclair1508 3 guppy's, 4 neon tetras, 2 albino corys, and 3 Bettas(2 baby females and 1 full-grown male but the male is in a separate tank)
I went on a date with an estp (I'm an infj) and she was pretty much exactly like this. She took me to a packed beer garden and found us seats. Paid for it while I was about to pull out my wallet and then she said "alright timmmeee forrrr some brewwwwwsssskkkiissss" and proceeded to have the opposite opinions on everything almost. She was great i miss her
lol you ending this with "she was great I miss her' was not how I expected that to go đ but im glad you had a fun date, she sounds like a trip!
@@frecklesandwine she was the bro of all bros. The type of chick u play wwe with and then cuddle after she grills some steaks. Was the best. She moved like hundreds of miles away for a job so she had to eventually break it off
As an INTJ, I've had great relationships with an ESTJ and an INTP (both ended amicably, interestingly), but one of my toughest relationships was with an ENTJ. So, sometimes similarities worked in our favors and sometimes they _really_ didn't! Never been in a relationship with someone truly opposite though, probably because I hear the word "spontaneous" and I do hear those alarm bells đ
"Spontaneous" = "chaos bringer, shatterer of worlds"
-INFJ
As a female Intp, I found it interesting how all the âTâ types were portrayed as the men and the âFâ types women. Iâd like to see it reversed toođ€·ââïž
ENTP is a woman in this one.
Well if you're a female INTP, that means that you're rare and special
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Edit : please stop talking about sexism, I meant no disrespect for her. All I was saying is that I don't usually see a lot of girls that are INTPs, and that to me, makes them special.
isfj was a man and entp a woman
I wish the INTJ were female...
@@kumirapau-chan9880 breathings, my fellow female intp :>
Iâm INFP and my mum is ESTJ. I know thatâs not romantic, but honestly youâve captured the essence of our relationship quite well. Iâm a dreamer who likes to take time to enjoy life, while my mum is basically always working, even when literally on holiday.
Mine too, It's draining whenever I ask her shall we eat, watch or do something she says she is busy. And immediately leaves the conversation but if something is needed to be done she is there to be a pressure on my chest.
I can definitely relate. My mom is so scary and sometimes always about work lol.
@SilverSerpent64 OMG that's my mom
@SilverSerpent64 Yes, as an INFP, ESTJ energy is exhausting for me and honestly i m scared from them
@@gurpreetkaur6939 same
I'm an INFP and it's funny how accurate the INFP is for me since I love animals and could just play with animals in a shelter all day đ
Also INFP and yet I had the exact opposite reaction to that one; like, sure, animals are cute, but do not take me to a place full of germs and expect me to be any amount of happy about, I barely touch my own animals. Just goes to show how personal experience can have people differ despite having the same personality type, I suppose.
If youâre unsure about a job path right now, maybe go work at an animal shelter. -INTP
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You are the best at awkward comedy FJ!
As a fellow INFJ, ENFP are my favorite personality type.
Also thought it was funny that one of the types worked as a technical writer - that's what I want to do!
As an INTP female, the only way I would share my food like that is if I was done with it and was handing the leftovers to someone. I had two guy friends in college and it was the best thing ever if I was done with a bag of chips and there was some left, that I could pretty much always ask them if they wanted it and they would just inhale it like humans garbage cans. But not for my date to randomly steal food from me. It would be very off-putting and I would be really creeped out and disgusted.
ENTP... once had a girl who did that, and always asked if I wanted to take a bite from her sandwiches. I used to give her strange looks, and she never seemed to notice how annoying it was. I even bought an extra fry one time and pushed it to her pointing out she ACTUALLY wanted it. Wouldn't admit it. Now she has it... She brought up her diet. I brought up my gym memberships would let me bring up to three people. We didn't get anywhere, but I had fun. As for friends who would eat everything... I know an ESFP who eats anything and is always hungry due to his freakish metabolism. He and my sister plan their meals letting them order everything they want. He takes the lion share, and she gets small portions of all of the food she wants letting him finish it off. Think that is just a thing people do with people close to them,
They would just inhale it like human garbage can đ€Łđ€Ł
Seriously though don't touch my plate - Intp
@@mugdham2811 Damn, find your description so apt. Some of the things he eats are vile... That trait has never made a strong relationship with me... just a good rule for life. Leave other people's food alone.
Intp female here. Today I went to dinner with my family and my sister asked if she could have a bite of my dessert (she ended up eating like half of it, lol) and of course I said yes cause she my sister and if she asks nicely I'll usually say yes. I say yes cause 1. She's my sister, I know her very well and 2. She asked nicely.
If I meet a stranger, on a first date, and they just assume they can touch my food: they will learn real quick that I'm the youngest of 5 and know how to defend my food against all potential threads since the age of 4.
All joking aside though: don't touch my food on a first date. And even if in a relationship: ask, accept nos, and don't just assume.
I mean like seriously, it's intimate and definitely not something I'd want on a first date and absolutely not on a blind date. You need to gain more XP before you try something like eating off another's plate
INTP is like my son he doesn't want to get a date but once he get one he just be a simp
Ahaha true !!!
Are you sure he doesn't and is not just too awkward to admit to you that he's been crushing on the same girl for three years, but too afraid to ask her out?
Don't confront him personally about it tho, it's awkward for anybody but especially INTPs
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Haha, INTPs are mysteries to many, they act aloof and logical most of the time, but when their inferior FE kicks in, they show their true feelings.
We all have been there, haven't we? As an INTP I think that he's going to mature out of it and be less of a simp and start showing his true feelings... ask me, I was like him when I had a crush on a girl.
INTP and I'm cracking up. "Don't touch my fries!" is probably one of the most accurate assessments you've done. đ
Surprisingly, my brother is an INTP, and he loves to eat food off other people's plates lol
That light pink hair color unironically looks good on him
Now i want a reality show with all these characters living together đ
You are in luck, it exists
@@nospecialmeaning2 Whatâs it called? Only similar thing I know of is MBTI Inside
Yassss
@@humanbeing7922 yes, that's it
The animal shelter for the INFP and ESTJ date is the exact animal shelter that I volunteer at đI knew it looked way too familiar đ
INTP and ENTP were so accurate. đ
You're not entitled to my food.
My Husband (ISTP, a Electrician) and I (ENFJ, a Kindergarten Teacher) are married for 12 years now. It's working out pretty good and this Video made me laugh my a$$ off. đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł to accurate.
My husband (estp) and I (infj) were on a team project together (thats how we met) and that is very accurate to how we interacted (except for the running away part) and we've been married 18 years.
Haha yeah this was accurate. My estp talks a lot and I just watched him in silence and then he turned to me and was like I think we have really great chemistry
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I eagerly wait for the day you put ISTP and ESTJ in a sketch together! Maybe a so-called "golden pair" video? I wanna see them stupid-zone each other while also getting along amazingly!
What is "stupid zone" ?
I'd say ISTP and ENTJ would be better.
I want to see that too.
i did it a month ago lol czcams.com/video/FbopQQTbqI8/video.html
@@FrankJames How about making one where they are dating?
ENFJ man: Except for the fact that I love hiking, this was spot on (yes, I'm currently interning as a therapist).
Iâm ENFP and I literally canât stop talking while watching the film if my girlfriend is with me. That happens all the time
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Oh yeah, and after film it's always a biiig talk about all the characters, plot and main ideas (I'm female enfp btw and my English sucks, yeah)
Me too and my mom gets tired of me
I feel like the ENFP and ISTJ might have the best odds of making it
i agree
Weird irony. Am an INFP, and I'm watching this while on a lunch break at my part time funeral home job lol
INFJ: "I mean I find hidden messages and everything." Felt that
3:05 This is so f***ing funny đ (ESTJ and INFP)
The way both INFP and ENFP have dyed their hair in such vibrant colors gives me the impression of manic pixie dream girls lol (which stereotypically, kinda fits their type)
That is who we are though.
INFPs are the quiet, poetic ones and ENFPs go raving all night but we're all dreamers
As an INFP I must say⊠Iâve always related o lot to Manic Pixie Dream Girls.
âŠAND they depressed boyfriends. đ
Those romances are almost a therapy to me when I see on screen one of my sides trying to cheer up the other đ
Iâd imagine itâs kinda different for guys like myself, but Iâve got no idea lol. Iâm an ENFP and am super spontaneous and all over the place, yet am also fairly forefront about my beliefs and what I want in a person.
infp here, soft purple, turquoise, pink i've tried a lot of hair colors on myself soo... đđ€Šđœââïž
@@Fernandanatac omg same. Iâve actually used that visual to help get myself out of funks after I heard this piece of life advice: âbe your own manic pixie dream girl and take yourself on wacky adventures.â
When I saw that the INFJ was the woman, I was absolutely convinced that it was gonna be super relatable, but to that extent? WOW đ
I'm INFP but that ESTJ? guy with the escape room and talking about wanting to do high octane adventures, that sounds SO SO much fun!
I would love to see an INFJ/ESTP chase, lol.
I'm convinced that they ended up together somehow lol!
@donnicat INFJ here, back off!
Love the ENFP and ISTJ relationship! It was portrayed so well! And as an ENFP who loves watching movies with her people, I thank you. đ
It was ENFP and ISTJ though
@@Laa3573 It was indeed. That's what I get for typing at 1 AM!
I'm ENFP happily married to ISTJ, it's never boring đđ
As an ENFP with an ISTJ mother this is exactly how half of my conversations with her go when discussing deep topics or watching a movie/tv show. I find everything complex and nuanced and multi-layered and love to discuss the symbolism, meanwhile all she wants to do is break it all down to categories of "good"/"bad" and analyse what happened w nothing open to interpretation. Like it's a math problem w a right or wrong answer. I find it so frustrating bc I know she's trying to understand what we're watching, in her own way, but we just see the world so differently, that it ends up sometimes ruining my viewing experience lol. Bc we can basically never agree.
She also always double checks who's who when I've already told her, meanwhile I'm just trying to enjoy a scene that I've watched a million times already đI get super excited describing little details and hypotheticals to her, meanwhile she's asking me "Who's that?" "Wait I thought he was already dead" "This isn't realistic, how would that even happen?" "I thought you said she was the bad guy" and I'm like ARGH MOM YOU DON'T GET IT. I truly sometimes feel like she sees the world in black and white, as very simple, matter of fact & scientific, and I see it as very complex, in color, and hard to grasp.
I didn't expect for the ENTP-ISFJ dynamic to go so well lol, cause usually in media, they're always fighting - take Steve Rogers and Tony Stark as an example. But you can see them both bond regardless, so it's nice to see a portrayal of a wholesome ENTP-ISFJ dynamic
ISTP here, in a relationship with an ENFJ. Our first date was a 3 hour ride on my motorcycle. We didn't even talk to each other :)
As an INTP, I can confirm that the way he reacted to having his fries stolen was 100% accurate. Except I would have said it in a slightly more aggressive way
This was so awesome! I'm an INFP married to an ESTJ and this sounds about right. He's all about getting things done, work and efficiency. Although I do have quite a practical side, I am much more about quality time and all the feels. But I really enjoyed all of the date pairings! As usual, well done. â€ïž
Ayy as a fellow INFP, you give me hope! Cz my love life is non existent currently đ
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I am an INFJ, my husband is an ESTP.
You perfectly captured our dating experience!
I find the INFJ/ESTP mix to be really amusing and adorable. -INTP
My mom is an ENTJ and that was so accurate lmao. Like she's completely frank and direct when it comes to expressing what she doesn't like no matter how the other person will feel, and yet people act like a masochist with her and they always wanna keep hanging out with her and hitting on her đđ
INFJ..."Usually I try to escape to a locked room!" đ perfect đ
Frank, your videos seriously are getting better and better. I mean, there are more and more puns and details to the stories. I really enjoy it!
Btw. I'm an INTJ who just loves to dance. I don't care about the date just play some good music! Haha
My in-laws are ENFJ/ISTP. This sketch is an accurate representation of their relationship. Example: once at a birthday party my mother in-law (ENFJ) was eagerly waiting for *every single person* at the party to make their way into the kitchen so she could cut the cake. People were dragging ass but she didn't want to start without them. After about 2 minutes my father in-law (ISTP) says "are we gonna cut this f***ing cake already?!" She begrudgingly cut the cake. He ate his piece and my piece since I didn't want any. A couple minutes later my husband and I said we had to leave. My father in-law enthusiastically says "I'LL GET THE DOOR FOR YA!" He then opens the door for us and follows us out, closes the door behind him, and proceeds to walk home. He just used us to sneak out.
As an ISTP, I adore your FIL, and am definitely using this technique to escape parties from now on.
@@chocolatefrenzieya As an INTP, I completely understand.
@@BanjoBitty My glorious ESTP daughter is dating an INTP, and sometimes he and I just look at each other in exhausted understanding haha!
@@chocolatefrenzieya I freaking love ESTPs. They drive me totally nuts but they definitely make life an experience.
@@BanjoBitty She's the love of my life, but I always need a nap after spending the day with her. lol
I am an INTP and that seems accurate- in my family, at restaurants, we just grab whatever off of other people's plates, and while it sometimes is logical (ordering less with a big party yet still trying more) its also like, I ordered what I wanted, and you ordered what you wanted. You do not need to take my food and I do not need to take yours.