16 Personalities on a Date with Their Own Type

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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  Před rokem +607

    Watch "16 Personalities React to 16 Personalities Memes" next! 👉 czcams.com/video/yIK9cj8EY6U/video.html

    • @josiahtaylor7967
      @josiahtaylor7967 Před rokem +4

      It'd be cool if one day you pinned a message like this but the link was actually a rickroll

    • @kaylahall1219
      @kaylahall1219 Před rokem +4

      Love you FJ!
      -love ENFP

    • @MayaraLotusWings
      @MayaraLotusWings Před rokem +4

      Frank James you should do if 16 personalities were spy’s or if they had theme songs
      Idk it’s just a suggestion 😁

    • @josiahtaylor7967
      @josiahtaylor7967 Před rokem +1

      @@MayaraLotusWings those are good ones

    • @infj-tguy6275
      @infj-tguy6275 Před rokem +1

      You look good in a blond wig, no homo 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

  • @TricksterWicked
    @TricksterWicked Před rokem +8742

    INTJ married to an INTJ. At the age of 16, he literally told me his 20-year plan for us, and when I argued that it didn't align with my plan, he pointed out that mine was merely a 5-year plan that could be suitably merged with his. We decided to see whose plan was ultimately superior, which resulted in us sticking together for the past several decades. His 20-year plan was admittedly the optimal route, but he's kidding himself if he thinks I'll be outmaneuvered.

  • @khushkhan4343
    @khushkhan4343 Před rokem +3609

    0:01 ISFJ
    0:20 ISTP
    0:35 ENTP
    0:59 ISTJ
    1:22 ESFJ
    1:59 ESTP
    2:26 ENTJ
    2:41 ESFP
    3:02 ISFP
    3:31 ESTJ
    3:59 INFP
    4:30 INTJ
    4:48 ENFJ
    5:08 ENFP
    5:27 INTP
    5:51 INFJ

  • @lobalee1873
    @lobalee1873 Před 8 měsíci +557

    INFJ married to an INFJ. We both knew we wanted to pursue each other after the first date DIDN'T leave us feeling emotionally drained. After about a minute of talking, we skipped small talk and started talking about the things that mattered most to us. I had never felt so comfortable or seen by another person as I did with him. Very happily married now. 😊

  • @beryllium4043
    @beryllium4043 Před rokem +493

    INTJ married to INTJ and Here’s our marriage proposal;
    M : I have been carefully and critically thinking about something for one week.
    F : Okay.
    M : In my opinion, we can get married.
    F : Yes, I agree with you.
    End of the story.

    • @garnettee
      @garnettee Před 6 měsíci +28

      I find that absolutely adorable.

    • @cellgrrl
      @cellgrrl Před 5 měsíci +18

      INTJ here. Congrats, no drama.

    • @AwakenedStarseed
      @AwakenedStarseed Před 3 měsíci +9

      That's sounds like how my INTJ husband proposed

    • @truepeace3
      @truepeace3 Před 13 dny

      INFJ here, but laughed out loud. That was incredibly sweet. 😄

  • @se92692
    @se92692 Před rokem +3139

    Can we just think about the effort that Frank had to go through just to make this 6 minute video? Writing the script for 32 parts, dressing and changing into different outfits for 32 people, acting each scene out separately and recording it, maybe a couple of takes each. Then editing all of the segments and backgrounds to look like the 2 people are having a face to face conversation. His skills are really remarkable.

    • @tinaperez7393
      @tinaperez7393 Před rokem +62

      I think he has SOME help in the form of a co writing partner and Editor Kevin (Kevin being recently introduced to us in some videos. One that spotlighted his great singing and dancing skills btw). 😁 So thank goodness for that.
      But yes, videos like these are the usual 16 times at least 2!!! Plus the writing and acting that capture these characters spot on per mbti type is amazing. He may be 16 personalities but slouch isn't one of them! So many things to appreciate. 🤗

    • @Leumar1990
      @Leumar1990 Před rokem +3

      @@tinaperez7393 where did you see that? Instagram?

    • @kauffrau6764
      @kauffrau6764 Před rokem +14

      Yes - he's very creative and excellent at writing and acting. Really appreciate him.

    • @tinaperez7393
      @tinaperez7393 Před rokem +8

      @@Leumar1990 no, I'm not on insta actually, so maybe there's some more info there. Kevin was featured and introduced in two of Frank's recent videos over the last few weeks - one of the Sunday ones and the Uber driver vid. And Frank I think mentioned his co writer in a comment recently. The buts with Kevin were very funny. It was nice to see him finally. Assuming he's been with Frank for a while. I don't know how long he's been around. I don't know if I'd be able to discern a difference in editing to tell.

    • @f.m.af.m.a1956
      @f.m.af.m.a1956 Před rokem +10

      I think about it every time I watch his videos.he works so hard.thank you frank💜

  • @wehopoutthecoupe825
    @wehopoutthecoupe825 Před rokem +4176

    this is cute, how about a date with their best pairs? hoping to watch one. :)

  • @captainsoi
    @captainsoi Před rokem +1896

    As an INFP with an INFP SO, I can confirm the online messages never stopped and it felt like I was talking to a mirror of myself by how similar we were. When we finally got to meet in person for the first time, he was v awkward and didn't wanna touch me. XD I powered through it bec I knew I was like this too so I had to make the stand and even though it felt awkward for me too, I just kept pushing and acting how I did online. After a few minutes of being together, his shell finally melted and he instantly became the clingiest person I've ever met XD He's one of the kindest souls I've met and he understands me in a level no other person has ever had.

    • @rubyb7252
      @rubyb7252 Před rokem +94

      pretty much my husband and I lolol although I don't know what his personality type is. we're both socially challenged but I've found that i have to be the braver of the two to get interactions going and my husband may jump in eventually from hiding behind me😅

    • @Zen.jz1
      @Zen.jz1 Před rokem +53

      that is so sweet omg

    • @rnrse9986
      @rnrse9986 Před rokem +28

      aww

    • @AwesomeCamera87_HD
      @AwesomeCamera87_HD Před rokem +63

      As an infp I can confirm that he is an infp because he wrote an entire passage because I'm also an infp and I also write entire passages and I try to write as small as possible so I think I can only type this much

    • @_sogar
      @_sogar Před rokem +39

      This is the sweetest thing I have ever read :D As an INFP, I try to break out of my shell to do certain things as well (when I know that's the right thing but no one else would do it) although it's very difficult and takes up so much time to gather up the courage to actually do it XD

  • @elizabethhall9334
    @elizabethhall9334 Před rokem +364

    INTJ was perfect. I wish dating was so simple, but nobody wants to discuss serious things on the first date.

    • @donnaanderson2846
      @donnaanderson2846 Před rokem +32

      That’s sounds like an app, or a feature to be added to an app.
      [*] Willing to discuss serious things on first date
      I’m an INFJ, I wouldn’t date someone, who I hadn’t heard speak on “serious things” previously. 🤣

    • @awetistic5295
      @awetistic5295 Před 11 měsíci +9

      So true. If only it was this easy.

    • @Carolina-cm6nu
      @Carolina-cm6nu Před 10 měsíci +11

      As an ENTJ I find this incredibly relatable

    • @miriamrobarts
      @miriamrobarts Před 22 dny

      I wonder if you might get a better reception to serious topics if you prepared them by asking if they are up for discussing serious things. If it comes out of nowhere it might throw people off more.

  • @zain2645
    @zain2645 Před rokem +718

    That INFP bit is shockingly accurate when speaking from a little experience

    • @ljkoch99
      @ljkoch99 Před rokem +9

      No fr 😭😭

    • @askme977
      @askme977 Před rokem +59

      I don't know, as an INFP I'm always comfortable with other INFPs. Sadly not same for some of them. I just enjoy silences when they happen, they don't feel awkward to me. (But they do with other types, since you can see they are uncomfortable)

    • @abigailarredondo6257
      @abigailarredondo6257 Před rokem +34

      haha not for me falling for another infp and we either have a ton of fun and lengthy conversations or juts very comfortable silence and im living for it

    • @sora_keychain5510
      @sora_keychain5510 Před rokem +20

      @@abigailarredondo6257 my boyfriend and I are INFPs and man, let me tell you, this stuff is very nice. It's a lot of fun hanging out together and though we have those moments of silence together, I love it

    • @AnthonyGrain--
      @AnthonyGrain-- Před rokem +4

      @@sora_keychain5510 How did you do to find a infp boyfriend as a infp? I'm infp too and it seems impossible for me unless i become a bit more extraverted

  • @mafumafuisakitty3498
    @mafumafuisakitty3498 Před rokem +2796

    That was really funny 🤣
    Suggestions:
    1- 16 personalities as therapists
    2- 16 personalities studying for a test
    3- 16 personalities babysitting
    4- 16 personalities if they only have 1 day left to live
    5- 16 personalities with animals
    6- 16 personalities as serial killers
    7- 16 personalities as models
    8- 16 personalities putting an educational system of their own
    9- 16 personalities dreaming (having a nightmare)
    10- 16 personalities in the army
    11- 16 personalities as martial arts professionals
    12- 16 personalities as tv hosts
    13- 16 personalities on graduation day
    14- 16 personalities last words
    15- 16 personalities first words
    16- 16 personalities ( introverts team vs extroverts team ) in a game
    17- 16 personalities adopting a child
    18- 16 personalities getting lost
    19- 16 personalities getting kidnapped
    20- FINALLY timmy's backstory

    • @bringbackmemesineurope1576
      @bringbackmemesineurope1576 Před rokem +56

      ooo he could assign each personality type a different martial arts style :oo

    • @kasra38s
      @kasra38s Před rokem +20

      Damn! Great suggestions!! :)

    • @fovarberma752
      @fovarberma752 Před rokem +42

      I'd be all over 4, 9, 10, 12, 19 AND ESPECIALLY 20.

    • @fovarberma752
      @fovarberma752 Před rokem +11

      Also. 4: ESXP won't survive that long.

    • @dazaiosamu3660
      @dazaiosamu3660 Před rokem +11

      One day to live is a good one actually.

  • @victoriam2399
    @victoriam2399 Před rokem +268

    INFJ is absolutely spot on, not just on dates but everyday encounters when I’m nervous to talk

    • @dinamita2870
      @dinamita2870 Před rokem +4

      Same here

    • @frogosplayer1
      @frogosplayer1 Před rokem +16

      Can't tell u how often I've wished ppl could just transmit thoughts without room for misunderstanding. Or how much I wish ppl didn't have to communicate at all honestly...

  • @BeinIan
    @BeinIan Před rokem +459

    As an INTP, I've decided to implement a rule about turning off my phone during dates. I really upset my last date (an ENFJ) because she thought I was bored and that's why I was texting other people occasionally.
    I wasn't even actually texting, I was just faking it because I was trying to find the right amount of eye contact that doesn't turn into staring like a psychopath.

    • @binitapandey5400
      @binitapandey5400 Před rokem +55

      😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣 my INTP coworker is my office crush and he's really good at making eye contact. I even complimented him and he was shy. Haha
      - enfp

    • @fatyaaaa
      @fatyaaaa Před 7 měsíci +16

      I am an enfj and i can assure you when i watch the intp frank being like “yea i been staring glances at memes” i was like “oh that would really offends me”

    • @kaydubsthekoifish
      @kaydubsthekoifish Před 4 měsíci +4

      I did that too!
      Not on the staring though, I just looked at people's hands for some reason.

  • @mariebabayan1553
    @mariebabayan1553 Před rokem +3213

    I love Frank’s evolution of female characters. so much diversity

    • @A_A_12_
      @A_A_12_ Před rokem +167

      The secret: do em as regular characters, but with a wig on.

    • @maaiker2977
      @maaiker2977 Před rokem +89

      Yeah compliments on the new wigs. They look natural.

    • @binitapandey5400
      @binitapandey5400 Před rokem +31

      I love the hairs. where did he get such cool wigs 😂

    • @alexjewett7455
      @alexjewett7455 Před rokem +14

      Now he has more than one wig.

    • @everydayvacaytaj
      @everydayvacaytaj Před rokem +6

      He looks so good in those wigs

  • @linnieesz
    @linnieesz Před rokem +1624

    as an INTP dating another INTP, I can confirm that all we do on our dates is spending hours looking memes and talking about them.

    • @corinnae.7877
      @corinnae.7877 Před rokem +115

      Couple goals! -fellow INTP

    • @danreyn
      @danreyn Před rokem +136

      When I dated another intp, we would engage in intellectual debates about anything and everything. It was great. Very stimulating.

    • @mow0118
      @mow0118 Před rokem +21

      Dude what is a hot take?
      H e l p

    • @theofreeman4300
      @theofreeman4300 Před rokem +7

      Sounds like fun. Hopefully not the kind that breeds listlessness and brainfuzz...

    • @somerandomcube
      @somerandomcube Před rokem +9

      Nice :3
      -an INTP

  • @awetistic5295
    @awetistic5295 Před 11 měsíci +147

    As an INTJ, watching my date gave me peace of mind. I will never understand why people keep on dating when they disagree about issues like having kids. My partner pretty much has the same everyday needs, life plans, important ideals, preferences for vacations and enough common interests for daily quality time. It's a good life.

    • @garnettee
      @garnettee Před 6 měsíci +6

      Over fourteen years of life and I still have not met another INTJ, but if I did, it would be immensely fun 😂

    • @ReigningWomban
      @ReigningWomban Před 2 měsíci

      Sweet!

  • @mendelynn
    @mendelynn Před rokem +725

    Two ambiverted INFPs I imagine dating like this:
    "Hey let's continue the conversation we had online."
    "Yes. I agree with you in so many points"
    "It's like we have the same opinion on people and the world. What a funny coincidence."
    "Has it really been five hours? It felt like five minutes."
    Yeah, how fun. It seems like we share one mind and one soul. You don't drain me. Let's get married."

    • @ozeald.7586
      @ozeald.7586 Před rokem +129

      INFP dream situation summed up in one paragraph... well done.

    • @kavinigunathilaka6768
      @kavinigunathilaka6768 Před rokem +21

      .......I am in this infp relationship except I am a 5 year old and he is constantly making sure I don't accidentally kill myself
      Update we broke up :(

    • @freyaliel3649
      @freyaliel3649 Před rokem +12

      Me and my bff infp be like

    • @nanyaverey
      @nanyaverey Před rokem +18

      Yes this is what happened. Some moments the magic was actually too intense on the first dates, and we weren’t trying that hard.

    • @redactedallvegemight8415
      @redactedallvegemight8415 Před rokem +4

      Anfp

  • @sunreignkim7580
    @sunreignkim7580 Před rokem +472

    Funny how the INFPs and the ENFJs care about each other's feelings but in totally different ways

    • @jackcolson4745
      @jackcolson4745 Před rokem +63

      More proof for the fact that they are the best for each other.

    • @allieoneal2033
      @allieoneal2033 Před rokem +60

      Watching this as an INFP, as soon as I heard, "I am if you are," I knew it was my husband's type. ENFJ for sure.

    • @beanieful204
      @beanieful204 Před rokem +28

      LMAO yes, I'm an ENFJ and my best friend is an INFP so yeah i felt that

    • @RD17043
      @RD17043 Před rokem +12

      Me and my bf we both r ENFJs .....
      And I can totally relate this ..

    • @sunreignkim7580
      @sunreignkim7580 Před rokem +14

      @WildChild just because INFPs leads with introverted feeling doesn't mean they don't care about others. In fact, their introspection causes them to empathize with others on a great level. Same with ENFJs, just because they're Fe doms doesn't mean they don't think about what they want

  • @kazw920
    @kazw920 Před rokem +1019

    I love how the INFJs are portrayed as 'psychics' with crippling anxiety. That's literally me when communicating with people in general. I zone out way too much while over-analysing things lmao (I'm an INFJ)

    • @tinaperez7393
      @tinaperez7393 Před rokem +45

      Within the INFJ are super powers. Just need to be aware of the strengths and weaknesses and develop both so the weaknesses don't have much bearing on things. 🙂

    • @randomfornow
      @randomfornow Před rokem +9

      😅same

    • @sarahrcurley
      @sarahrcurley Před rokem +10

      Your first sentence couldn't describe infjs any better 👏

    • @zakbrueckner615
      @zakbrueckner615 Před rokem +5

      Makes me think of Saiki K.

    • @sab3r103
      @sab3r103 Před rokem +12

      The best part being you always know when it's INFJ, even when you don't want it to be haha

  • @lovelightandmagicrose
    @lovelightandmagicrose Před rokem +649

    As ENFP dating another ENFP we change topics so much in the span of minutes and surprisingly we can keep up with each other pretty well. Everyone around us gets so confused. And yes sometimes I do have to remind him that he didn’t let me finish what I was saying. We’re constantly saying sorry all the time because of it.

    • @naowright9308
      @naowright9308 Před rokem +49

      Sounds wonderful!🥲-ENFP

    • @rachelk4805
      @rachelk4805 Před rokem +34

      Honestly the most satisfying relationships. You cover so much ground.

    • @chivonfortney1656
      @chivonfortney1656 Před rokem +20

      I would love that kind of partner in life.

    • @sealaryn
      @sealaryn Před rokem +18

      I'm an ENFP... but I've never dated another or even met another in person... I wonder if my being on autism spectrum affects me as an ENFP... *shrug*

    • @naowright9308
      @naowright9308 Před rokem +20

      @@sealaryn I think us ENFPs are all ADD/ADHD.🙃

  • @WynneL
    @WynneL Před rokem +840

    As an INFP with an INFJ, his cheerful neurotic adorable nervousness emboldened me, and the ease with which others talk to me helped draw him out of his own headspace. It was magic. :) There are such advantages to being very similar people.

    • @azylan
      @azylan Před rokem +24

      @Reality Is A Dream It's not that weird imo. When people are very different from each other, it can allow their personalities to bounce off of each other in unique ways, and even allow them to cover each other's faults or weaknesses.
      It could even be said that INFPs and INFJs are dissimilar types, since they don't share any of their first 4 cognitive functions. They're pretty different beneath the surface.
      - An INFJ

    • @azylan
      @azylan Před rokem +11

      Also, I feel called out by "cheerful neurotic adorable nervousness," that's actually just me when I open up to somebody

    • @ZNIR777
      @ZNIR777 Před rokem +3

      @Reality Is A Dream I've got a fre ISTP friends and we get along real well. Probably because of how honest and chill they are.

    • @emmastuck
      @emmastuck Před rokem +3

      ​@@azylan that exactly describes my INFJ friend 😂

    • @tripletflamesrainbowstarpeople
      @tripletflamesrainbowstarpeople Před 7 měsíci +1

      This sounds so cute! I find I’m super compatible with INFPs and ENFPs; want to guess my MBTI type?

  • @signalfire15
    @signalfire15 Před rokem +1107

    I’m an INTJ female and my bro is an INFJ male and the communicating telepathically thing is spot on. We don’t need words half the time and when we do communicate, it’s not in a language known to mankind. We just created our own language that no one else can understand but us lol.

    • @ibelieveinyou1696
      @ibelieveinyou1696 Před rokem +26

      That's so cool.

    • @francinelieto8899
      @francinelieto8899 Před rokem +14

      Yes, I do this with my INTP friend too

    • @AkitoR204
      @AkitoR204 Před rokem +4

      creepy

    • @alinleonhart8283
      @alinleonhart8283 Před rokem +51

      I had a conversation with an INFJ and INTJ in a group chat full of other people, we were discussing what i thought were quite a popular topic, i thought some others will join the talk, responding or anything, but no, no one did, some are even asking seriously what we were talking about, cus we sounded so really into it, but they dont know or understand what we were talking about..so we have to break it down and explain.. at first i was like "why wouldnt they understand and keep up with the conversation?" Then i guess it must be from the way we talk (INFJ INTJ and INFP)

    • @bellanotthorne5005
      @bellanotthorne5005 Před rokem +13

      bruh I'm infj and i literally do the same with my intj bf

  • @booktubereditor873
    @booktubereditor873 Před rokem +408

    The ENTPs date is an amazing chaos, arguing everything 😂😂. The perfect match! Right?!? 🤭

    • @Sweet_dybbuk
      @Sweet_dybbuk Před rokem +31

      I mean i always appreciate a fellow debater if they dont get upset and act so hurt every time I say sth ... i mean half of the time im not arguing im just giving them new ideas and the other half im just joking around or teasing them

    • @michelledoolan7741
      @michelledoolan7741 Před rokem +27

      As an ENTP married to an ENTP …. Yes

    • @malemon1
      @malemon1 Před rokem +25

      ENTP here, women who like actually debate are hotter than the sun

    • @Is30old
      @Is30old Před rokem +14

      @@michelledoolan7741 lucky!!! I'm 28 entp still looking for my entp girlfriend. People ask me what I'm looking for? " you know a smart girl who will challenges me to grow in my thoughts and ideas and enjoys discussing abstract concepts. They just stare at me and say no wonder you're single. Lol
      I hope you have a long and successful marriage with enough debate to fill two lifetimes!

    • @barb7124
      @barb7124 Před rokem +6

      My husband was ENTP and Im INFP...he yelled, I cried.

  • @SylviusTheMad
    @SylviusTheMad Před rokem +533

    Frank captures the INTP so well. We genuinely don't care about social norms, probably because it hasn't occurred to us they exist.

    • @blueninja012
      @blueninja012 Před rokem +66

      I am aware the concept of them exists, however am oblivious to what any of them are

    • @mido4you269
      @mido4you269 Před rokem +32

      I just get awkward around people sometimes because I often fail at greetings or don't do something that is normal for them or something.

    • @MrDoomDawg
      @MrDoomDawg Před rokem +15

      Schizophrenia???? Nah man I just got an INTP personality 🤪

    • @lYcronix
      @lYcronix Před rokem +17

      I mean there is a difference between being an INTP and a whole sociopath

    • @thek2despot426
      @thek2despot426 Před rokem +39

      @@lYcronix Exactly... because sociopaths are at least kinda socially competent sometimes.
      - Sincerely, an INTP

  • @Mae-hy9mh
    @Mae-hy9mh Před rokem +170

    As an ISTP that was totally correct😭😭 I would much rather be working on my own things than meeting with someone for a date 💀

    • @Salty_catz
      @Salty_catz Před rokem +26

      As a fellow ISTP I can verify this😭😭

    • @Fazo77400
      @Fazo77400 Před rokem +4

      Same as a ISTJ

    • @junlongkwan2519
      @junlongkwan2519 Před rokem +12

      It's painful tho afterward bc we seal our own lonely fate

    • @dbro1205
      @dbro1205 Před rokem +12

      For real, as an ISTP dating is the last thing I could care about

    • @Gabriel_JudgeofHell
      @Gabriel_JudgeofHell Před 8 měsíci

      @@junlongkwan2519same

  • @Tiffanyg21
    @Tiffanyg21 Před rokem +916

    As an INFJ, I can testify that when I was younger, I was 95% sure people could read my thoughts and I could read theirs... it gave me both curiosity and anxiety lol

    • @user-sb8yo6tv8r
      @user-sb8yo6tv8r Před rokem +59

      I still think they can

    • @ambraiezzi5037
      @ambraiezzi5037 Před rokem +50

      Of course we can.
      We do it all the time.
      It’s exausting.

    • @tanewworld7925
      @tanewworld7925 Před rokem +50

      2 Infjs can telepathically communicate because they both realize human thoughts aren't too complicated to understand and empathize then they have a stoke of their own heart and can be heard by the VERY attentive.

    • @subconsciousclarity1702
      @subconsciousclarity1702 Před rokem +14

      Wait! so can they hear the thoughts or no?!?!?!

    • @xiongrey19
      @xiongrey19 Před rokem +29

      When I was in school, I used to try to jumble my thoughts if I was suspicious of a coming car exile I walked home because I didn't want them reading my thoughts so I actively tried to emulate snow.
      I'd then watch out of the corner of my eye to see if they reacted.
      I was not aware that this was common among other infjs.

  • @myrninway8924
    @myrninway8924 Před rokem +470

    i met this person online who's a fellow infp and when we had our first date, i can confirm that happened to us 10000%.

  • @squeakybee42
    @squeakybee42 Před rokem +58

    That was exactly how my first date with another INTJ went. Plans didn't align, so we wished each other well and headed our separate ways.

  • @rocketpunchgo1
    @rocketpunchgo1 Před rokem +102

    INFJ... Frank James needs to stop spying on my dates!
    ...If I went on dates...

    • @Rodonq
      @Rodonq Před rokem +3

      Same like literally- That's too relatable

    • @katiegenreau
      @katiegenreau Před rokem +6

      INFJ here. Wanna go out on a telepathic date? You can read my thoughts, I'll read yours and then we can agree that online dating is much easier because it's text and not as complicated as RL?

    • @rocketpunchgo1
      @rocketpunchgo1 Před rokem +1

      @@katiegenreau now that's a great plan lol

    • @Rodonq
      @Rodonq Před rokem +2

      @@katiegenreau Sure! We don't have to talk right?

  • @LeannWebb61
    @LeannWebb61 Před rokem +574

    I can relate to INFP. I pretty much need an extravert to get the conversation going. I can banter all day, but starting things off is near impossible if the other person isn't willing to do so either.

    • @Frutty06
      @Frutty06 Před rokem +39

      So so so relatable 😭
      Why am I so awkward first steps lol
      I'm trying to improve but that stupid feeling is always there like "what if they don't want me to approach"

    • @christinamann3640
      @christinamann3640 Před rokem +11

      What I love about pets is the lack of spoken language.

    • @christinamann3640
      @christinamann3640 Před rokem +4

      What I love about pets is the lack of spoken language.

    • @MetalSStar196
      @MetalSStar196 Před rokem +9

      @@Frutty06 Stop asking yourself "what if" and read their body language to decide in the moment. It'll help you calm yourself down.

    • @ilaeoa
      @ilaeoa Před rokem +2

      Yeah! I can live off one inhale per hour chatting my ass off, but I can't start it.

  • @frankcarlson2900
    @frankcarlson2900 Před rokem +629

    I can concur, INFJ is correct. She told me she wasn’t ready for a relationship 3 days after the date but oh well, at least it happened 😎.

    • @ibelieveinyou1696
      @ibelieveinyou1696 Před rokem +10

      Are you an INFJ too? Did you two get together later then?

    • @Metchta
      @Metchta Před rokem +25

      BUT, they are INFJs who haven't worked on themselves yet 🙂 that's why it's awkward. They should watch more Frank James !

    • @frankcarlson2900
      @frankcarlson2900 Před rokem +11

      @@ibelieveinyou1696 Yeah, we are both INFJs. Can’t say what the future holds, but as of right now it’s looking like we won’t be getting together.

    • @borcsaster
      @borcsaster Před rokem +8

      :)) I was quicker even than that: I told him the same right after his first question on a dating app... He understood. Both INFJs.

    • @lolitadragon937
      @lolitadragon937 Před rokem +4

      Iam suprized it took them that long. I can tell if dating will be good just by observing for a few minutes with out saying anything. In person of course. But iam exstreamly picky.

  • @DrTem
    @DrTem Před rokem +40

    As an fellow ISTP, that "freakin weirdo" at the end was extremely accurate, it just hits different.

  • @Pope_of_the_Church_of_Tea

    That ENTJ one was so relatable. The woman I’ve been seeing recently is an extremely hardworking PhD student in biology, and I’m in medical school while doing more additional things than I should.
    At the end of our last date we excitedly planned the next one, which couldn’t happen for another month because of our schedule conflicts. Looking forward to two weeks from now! 🤣

  • @nourhashem9572
    @nourhashem9572 Před rokem +108

    Oh, "16 personalities dating their opposite type/most compatible type" should totally come next~~

  • @angelicafernandezcastro1882

    I loved the ENTP couple! Those two will be the end of society, agressively flirting until their final breath lmao

    • @ti20g
      @ti20g Před rokem +48

      it's not aggression, it's passion!

    • @Dontfucklewithdashuckle
      @Dontfucklewithdashuckle Před rokem +28

      Honestly as an ENTP man who has been single for his entire life, that is life goals right there I want to meet an ENTP girl so badly lol

    • @kingbearbee6118
      @kingbearbee6118 Před rokem +26

      ENTP gal, I've never met another ENTP in real life, but this is exactly how I imagine any interaction with someone of my own type would go.

    • @its_diddlydoo
      @its_diddlydoo Před rokem +5

      entp here lol, I would LOVE to date someone who keeps on proving my arguments wrong lmfaooooo....i need therapy

    • @aslak3475
      @aslak3475 Před rokem

      @@adriannaedwards7854 sounds amazing! happy for you both :) ~ENTP man here

  • @ginniegill1026
    @ginniegill1026 Před rokem +64

    "I get that dating can be hard when you're the only person in the room who has understood and transcended all human bias"
    Hit me like a truck

    • @blueninja012
      @blueninja012 Před rokem +13

      this is literally what that voice in the back of my head sounds like, and then I remind it that I'm not better than everyone else while feeling way better than everyone else

    • @ginniegill1026
      @ginniegill1026 Před rokem +6

      @@blueninja012 being self-aware is so hard

    • @blueninja012
      @blueninja012 Před rokem +6

      @@ginniegill1026 yeah, but thankfully unlike everyone else I'm completely self aware about all of my downsides and therefore am better than them

    • @zzzcocopepe
      @zzzcocopepe Před rokem +3

      I thought that one was INFJ. That's why I like INTP. But i think we mean slightly different things. INTP doesn't factor in that kindness is integral. At least, not when they say things like that.

    • @zzzcocopepe
      @zzzcocopepe Před rokem

      @@blueninja012 it's okay to be the best

  • @gongoozleriam9783
    @gongoozleriam9783 Před rokem +47

    The ENFJ one is extremely accurate, I'm ENFJ and I've dated my type and I can guarantee that was exactly what it was like in part.

    • @khamdydeklao3304
      @khamdydeklao3304 Před rokem +4

      Yep, that's awkward I know. I wish you all bests! Care from ENFJ here❤❤

    • @shematite
      @shematite Před rokem +10

      It's like that sound you get from facing two microphones into each other: an infinite loop of meaningless, painful feedback noise -ENFJ

    • @LC-fq4cv
      @LC-fq4cv Před 11 měsíci +5

      Everytime I talk to an ENFJ, I feel like I’m talking to my therapist.
      - INFP

    • @fatyaaaa
      @fatyaaaa Před 7 měsíci +6

      My crush is an enfj and we struggles to bring our conversation to a deeper level because we’re scared of brothering each other😂

  • @kanuos
    @kanuos Před rokem +180

    As an ISTP, I can confirm the "You freaking weirdo" at the end absolutely sealed the deal!

    • @noureldeheiri3110
      @noureldeheiri3110 Před 23 dny

      FR why are you the first ISTP I've encountered for the past 10 videos... Im beginning to think we're a rare deal

    • @abigailpalacios2267
      @abigailpalacios2267 Před 16 dny

      That's why when he said that I laughed out loud. Something that as an ISTP I would say hahaha

  • @Suha_Chakravorty
    @Suha_Chakravorty Před rokem +541

    I feel proud to be an ENFP! Our words just flow, we can even carry out a conversation with the dead! 😁😁😁😁😁😁

    • @lumizu2091
      @lumizu2091 Před rokem +14

      same haha

    • @All-Father8549
      @All-Father8549 Před rokem +32

      My eyes hurt reading this, as an ISTJ...

    • @carissahill3414
      @carissahill3414 Před rokem +22

      oh so that explains why the dead talk to me.

    • @AmberArtNYC
      @AmberArtNYC Před rokem +25

      🤣🤣🤣 That’s hilarious & terrible! So ENFPs just need a sounding board? ENFPs are more fun with the undead.

    • @synthiaangelica5469
      @synthiaangelica5469 Před rokem +56

      @@AmberArtNYC Yes!! We also hate when people interrupt us, even while we are interrupting them! 😏😏

  • @offline1265
    @offline1265 Před rokem +10

    6:10 INFJ: "Or is this all just some extended fantasy that I'm using to self-sooth in a moment of anxiety?" I did NOT need that call out

  • @TheSunshineghost
    @TheSunshineghost Před rokem +47

    As an ISFJ I literally cried on a date with my husband about a place from our childhood and how it held so many memories but it was gone now and that our kids wouldn’t be able to see it. In true ESTP fashion he laughed because of how cute he thought I was for crying about our past/ future.

  • @Musicalpiano88
    @Musicalpiano88 Před rokem +176

    As an ENFP, I have dated 2-3 other ENFP's and can confirm this is exactly what it's like 🤣

    • @joanaborrellsanchez9225
      @joanaborrellsanchez9225 Před rokem +26

      I'm also an ENFP but with other ENFPs I turn to INFP or even INTJ, it's like: "could you just be focused on one idea and go deeper?!"

    • @ros.an.
      @ros.an. Před rokem +11

      @@joanaborrellsanchez9225 ikr, i'm not close to anyone with high Ne and while i may love myself ahha i can imagine myself getting so drained with another enfp (or just highly extroverted person), i'm comfortable being the extrovert that adopts introverts,, plus conversations that dive deeply into one topic are the best :)

    • @dekuMusic
      @dekuMusic Před rokem +12

      Can confirm, is like that. Infinite dinamic conversatiosn where we start talking about our uni subjects and end up googling what whould have happened if dinousaurs had a religion. I mean, other types are cool AF but with the only people I got that level of conversations where either ENTP, ENFP or ESFP (yeah, believe it or not they are really good at that). Kinda miss it now that I'm dating an introvert (probably a INTP)

  • @numberVIII
    @numberVIII Před rokem +67

    I love the amount of difference there is between infp and enfp. The most talkative and quiet personalities.

  • @loba49
    @loba49 Před rokem +27

    The ENFP one was on point besides calling anyone on interrupting (because if they do it then they don’t usually mind when I do due to idea spontaneously falling out of my mouth. Interrupting is allowed in my friendships and I never mind it). But that insane weird building energy with ENFP-ENFP interractions is spot on.

  • @dreamofcoheed3388
    @dreamofcoheed3388 Před rokem +219

    As an ENFP, I would have liked to have seen the depth of conversation we crave represented, and not just our tendency to draw ideas and memories from several directions.

    • @IonTz.
      @IonTz. Před rokem +19

      Fellow ENFP here, totally agree

    • @TehEpicAsian715
      @TehEpicAsian715 Před rokem +44

      ENFPs are really much more emo than most people give them credit for; and I'm saying this as an ENFP myself...
      I would imagine dating another ENFP to be just very bipolar moments between hyper/random and super deep/philosophical; though that sounds fun

    • @dreamofcoheed3388
      @dreamofcoheed3388 Před rokem +17

      @@TehEpicAsian715 Correct. I am a unicorn filled with darkness.

    • @JanielleBrowne
      @JanielleBrowne Před rokem +7

      As an ENFP dating an ENFP you are 100% right and so is every reply under yours

    • @mandarinadreux9572
      @mandarinadreux9572 Před rokem +15

      O m g yes
      There is a lot of darkness and sadness under that bubbly surface that non-ENFPs don't really ever see. I'm an ENFP together with another ENFP and it's so true, we can be totally silent together or only talk about non-consequential stuff or randomly, we'll delve into super deep philosphical life questions. It's like we don't connect so much over language, more over our other senses, touch, looks, energy we give off. I just feel so confortable and content in his presence and it's been like that since we met.

  • @moonflower1729
    @moonflower1729 Před rokem +1046

    This was great! As an INFJ dating an INFP- the awkward levels of us opening up took a bit, in fact, it started out as a friendship that took us both by surprise when It developed into feelings XD
    So far, has been one of the greatest relationships I’ve had. You INFP’s can sit in meaningful silence and we can both geek out on things while also having deep emotional talks! Worth the effort I say!

  • @akariakamine4095
    @akariakamine4095 Před rokem +518

    The ENFP section is accurate lol, I can bounce off of what others say to go from one conversation topic to the next for hours, it's really fun and you learn so much about the other person that you can use when you're talking to them again, it's awesome >:)

    • @kellikakes81
      @kellikakes81 Před rokem +11

      Yes! Super fun! I miss having conversations like this.

    • @SpeedrunsMakkelijk
      @SpeedrunsMakkelijk Před rokem

      >:)

    • @venorika7146
      @venorika7146 Před rokem +42

      Yes but then some people think we are extremely talkative and extraverted and then expect us to talk like always. But then one time Fi hits hard and people are wondering where is this bubbly person?

    • @juanitaglenn9042
      @juanitaglenn9042 Před rokem +13

      @@venorika7146 oh my yes!!! It just switches off and there's nothing! I thought I was the only extroverted person to have this happen.

    • @melissalopez3823
      @melissalopez3823 Před rokem +6

      @@venorika7146 what is a Fi? I’m not familiar with those terms and would like to understand more about it! Every time I take the 16 personalities test, I always get ENFP but I always think I’m an INFP because I don’t talk a lot in groups. However, when it’s one on one, I’m always talkative lol 😭

  • @m.s.e.4192
    @m.s.e.4192 Před rokem +30

    Oh my God. My jaw dropped when I saw the INTJ one. It was spot on!!! I usually ask my dates what their plans are in the first date or two. If it doesn't align with mine, I just forget about it. I don't want to be wasting precious time and energy.

    • @awetistic5295
      @awetistic5295 Před 11 měsíci +4

      It's the reason I wish more INTJs were out there. Life can be so simple.

  • @Em-jj2hp
    @Em-jj2hp Před rokem +45

    The ENFP pair is the most entertaining one 😂😂 you would think they’re on drugs but nope

    • @margaritakleinman5701
      @margaritakleinman5701 Před rokem +7

      As an ENFP, I remember being told that "you don't need to smoke anything because you're naturally high". Yes we are very entertaining. You'll never be bored around an ENFP!

  • @JasonMoir
    @JasonMoir Před rokem +71

    The 10 year plan is the heart of any romantic relationship.

  • @kyurei4478
    @kyurei4478 Před rokem +380

    A date with two INFJs could be so interesting if they could communicate telepathically. For now it looks like the most boring, formulaic and unproductive date ever from the outside 😂.

    • @chriscampbell2679
      @chriscampbell2679 Před rokem +28

      I communicate telepathically with other INFJs. We can sit is quiet yet still communicate. It’s amazing.

    • @caddieohm7059
      @caddieohm7059 Před rokem +22

      I'm so desperate to meet one fellow infj

    • @helenwood8482
      @helenwood8482 Před rokem +5

      Nah, worst is two ENFJs, two mirror people who only care about how they seem to the other one. The entire conversational skill of an ENFJ can be summed up as, "But enough about me. Let's talk about you. What do you most adore about me?"

    • @jsjk4537
      @jsjk4537 Před rokem +3

      😂 I am pretty sure you can tho my bf and I do it all the time. Usually goes like some silence ....then follows with did you see the rat go behind the bar? Yes I did. You want to leave don't you? Yes I do. We both continue to gtfo because we don't like people anyway either so that rat just made our lives easier.

    • @kasseydye9501
      @kasseydye9501 Před rokem +5

      As an INFJ I kinda enjoy boring… so if the other person enjoys that too, even better!!

  • @kejewa
    @kejewa Před rokem +28

    I lost it at INFJ, and every one of my family members' was eerily accurate. I'm still wiping away tears.

  • @vivienkiss575
    @vivienkiss575 Před rokem +58

    "This is a literal nightmare" 😂 It was so funny
    Also, as an ENFP, having an ENFP formal crush, present time good friend, this was so accurate 😁 We usually hype up each other within 5 minutes and discuss about a hundred ideas in a minute.. 😂

    • @Strainj1
      @Strainj1 Před 9 měsíci +1

      as an ENFP who is 2nd in charge in a company run by an ENFP - this is the way conversations happen daily between my boss and I. Co-workers are constantly in a state of confusion when we're both in full swing. :P

  • @tiana_andherbooks
    @tiana_andherbooks Před rokem +157

    I never want to date, but as an INTP I can confirm if I ever did go on a date, it would be something like that.

    • @All-Father8549
      @All-Father8549 Před rokem +74

      ''If I ever did go on a date'' - That's the most INTP thing I've heard so far...

    • @ApplePi._.
      @ApplePi._. Před rokem +25

      probably more accurate if one of them didn't show up :(

    • @mercury9641
      @mercury9641 Před rokem +35

      @@ApplePi._. If they both didn't

    • @ahuman2398
      @ahuman2398 Před rokem +22

      @@ApplePi._. or if the date was virtual

    • @WritingsOfQuill
      @WritingsOfQuill Před rokem +17

      INTP dating an INTP here... everyone who has commented here so far is correct. XD

  • @alexisyanez3633
    @alexisyanez3633 Před rokem +14

    That ISFP convo was aggressively accurate

  • @ProfondeReflexion
    @ProfondeReflexion Před rokem +20

    You made this INFP laugh out loud, but of course I’m at home alone so nobody heard me. 😆

  • @Chigger
    @Chigger Před rokem +223

    INTJ in movies: *Criminal mastermind villain*
    INTJ in real life: "Understandable, have a great day."
    As an ENFP, I could guess my type from the rapid-fire ideas and the train of thought that's really more like a pinball of thought.

    • @CarterWills1
      @CarterWills1 Před rokem +39

      INTJs in real life lack the means to put our plans into action.

    • @talyahfeigenbaum9486
      @talyahfeigenbaum9486 Před rokem +3

      @@CarterWills1 haha yes. Exactly.

    • @ibelieveinyou1696
      @ibelieveinyou1696 Před rokem +2

      @@CarterWills1 good luck brother.

    • @dacksonflux
      @dacksonflux Před rokem

      @@CarterWills1 that's just not true. You're very likely mistyped.

    • @HandleDisliker
      @HandleDisliker Před rokem +6

      @Dackson Flux stereotypically, yes, though it isn't true. Every personality has the potential to thrive above and beyond everyone else. The problem lies in that every type also has their own pitfalls that counter them. For me, a potential INFJ, the pitfall is monotony. There's something inside it that's like a poison if I do enough of it. It drives me absolutely crazy. And I know others have their own pitfalls as well.

  • @oarfish1481
    @oarfish1481 Před rokem +45

    Lol I love the INFPs. That's so true; online chatting is sooo much easier then face2face

    • @loisrabies8713
      @loisrabies8713 Před rokem +7

      When I was looking for people to “date” I need to make sure the time between first contact and first meeting was as short as possible. Too long and then the idealization begins and more anxiety.

    • @oarfish1481
      @oarfish1481 Před rokem +2

      @@loisrabies8713 Good to know, I'll keep it in mind when I start dating

    • @paaglimonicat6307
      @paaglimonicat6307 Před rokem

      I actually feel like i would want to write what i have to say to people face to face

    • @Ali-MJ
      @Ali-MJ Před rokem +1

      Online chatting is easier for INFPs to communicate sensitively, but in face2face communication, we prefer intuitive talking, which usually seems wired, specialy in first steps of connection! 😄💔

  • @moomerz24
    @moomerz24 Před rokem +73

    I'm an INFP/Pisces married to an INTJ/Aries. We have a lot of the same taste in movies, music and TV shows. But our personalities are very different. I think I have helped him learn it is okay to show emotion and be vulnerable. And he helps me with setting realistic expectations and goals. We both can help the other see things from different perspectives. His is more logical and mine is more emotional. We've been together since 2005.

    • @euthanasiatbest
      @euthanasiatbest Před rokem +3

      Any advices you can give me as an INFP that has a mutual understanding and connection with an INTJ? I'd gladly appreciate it! :D

    • @moomerz24
      @moomerz24 Před rokem +7

      @i n f p I would say being patient with an INTJ is important. INFPs are more in our feelings and INTJs aren't very emotional creatures. I would try and try to get my husband to open up and express his feelings to me but I learned I had to let him do it at his own pace. I let him know I was here if he wanted to open up about things and overtime he has opened up more and more. He just hates feeling vulnerable.
      INTJs can also be unintentionally mean and insensitive I have found. And as an INFP, we can be pretty sensitive. So, I have tried not to take some things personally. But also kindly let him know what things I find hurtful so he is aware. Since there are things he wouldn't have thought would be hurtful but to me they are.
      Idk if any of that helps. Lol.

    • @euthanasiatbest
      @euthanasiatbest Před rokem +4

      @@moomerz24 it does help! :D thank you fellow INFP, I can totally relate to the things you've said as I have realized them from my experience with an INTJ as well. I'll take your advice to be as patient as I can with him about opening up his feelings and make him aware of the things he said or did that I find hurtful hehe

    • @NeroDefogger
      @NeroDefogger Před rokem

      yeah, I can get you are not a T, what I don't understand is how you married a T, unless he isn't a T or he isn't even real

    • @euthanasiatbest
      @euthanasiatbest Před rokem +1

      @@NeroDefogger why do you ask such thing? (I'm just genuinely curious) Can't a dominant introverted feeler marry a person that possess auxiliary extroverted thinking?

  • @lhtkid
    @lhtkid Před rokem +27

    Oh my gosh, the ENTJ one is so accurate. I recently started seeing a guy and was just thinking this morning how it would be so hard to get dates in next year bc 7 of the 12 months, I'll be away for work! But I'd still like to see him when I'm in back from those trips :D

  • @Mrs.Silversmith
    @Mrs.Silversmith Před rokem +275

    I can definitely vouch that my INTP husband uses sharing memes as a bonding activity. He's soo cute!

    • @LeeLeeBellePBJLee
      @LeeLeeBellePBJLee Před rokem +19

      INTP's are the cutest! INFP dating an INTP! I speak to him in memes, so we have great communication. 😆

    • @niiskuneitiBANAANI
      @niiskuneitiBANAANI Před rokem +8

      @@LeeLeeBellePBJLee intp and infp is a good match, unless one of them have big issues with mental health. then it's terrible. :D

    • @GabrielF430
      @GabrielF430 Před rokem +1

      @@niiskuneitiBANAANI been there, it really is

    • @tomniebuhr7723
      @tomniebuhr7723 Před rokem

      @@niiskuneitiBANAANI then what would be an intp with mental issues match?

    • @niiskuneitiBANAANI
      @niiskuneitiBANAANI Před rokem

      @@tomniebuhr7723 I am intp with mental issues. I think you have to find a partner you can trust, so you can talk about your feelings every time you get hurt, and they don't let you down. My partner was really unhealthy infp, making empty promises just to avoid conflict, unable to take critique, etc. His case he should just not date at all and heal. My case, I should really try to focus reading if the partner is trustworthy or not.

  • @KasketKat
    @KasketKat Před rokem +217

    This was adorably hilarious! Thank you for the laughs!
    I heartily agree, INFP's find it a bit easier to communicate though typing since overthinking into awkward silence is what we do best when face to face.
    But a dash of INTP with meme communication would definitely help break the anxious tension a bit lol

    • @allieoneal2033
      @allieoneal2033 Před rokem +11

      INFP whose favorite friend to text with is an INTP. The memes are always on point.

    • @LeeLeeBellePBJLee
      @LeeLeeBellePBJLee Před rokem +5

      INFP dating an INTP! I can assure you that I communicate with him through memes about 70% of the time. He calls me the meme-lord. 😆

    • @aprilbl00m
      @aprilbl00m Před rokem +5

      Ne types are prolific memesters. I don't even know how I would communicate without memes and references ~INFP

    • @allieoneal2033
      @allieoneal2033 Před rokem +2

      @@LeeLeeBellePBJLee yes, one of my friends remarked that I have a gif for every occasion.

  • @MaryVanRooy
    @MaryVanRooy Před rokem +46

    Great stuff! This is one of my favs. I had to laugh at the ENFP … because it actually is very accurate LOL 😂 but I also especially like the dialog/physical comedy of the ESFP.. “pretzel bites” lollllllll. Thank you for making these light-hearted, easy-to-digest, uplifting videos! Every so often I’ll end up watching LOTSSSSS of them. Thank you for your contribution/creations! They can add a sparkle of joy to this world

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  Před rokem +5

      thanks, Mary! Good to see you around. Hope you are doing well 🤗

  • @TheToneBender
    @TheToneBender Před rokem +15

    The ISTP one is pretty dang accurate. Don't get me wrong, I'd love to have a partner, get married, etc, but the whole dating thing seems way too time wasting to me if it's with someone that statistically I won't end up with anyway. I'd much rather do other things. If only I could magically find the person I will spend the rest of my life with so we can skip ahead to the good part.

    • @imaneelmouden6506
      @imaneelmouden6506 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Same like literally... what are you even gonna talk about in the date? Physics??

    • @Interestking
      @Interestking Před 2 měsíci

      @@imaneelmouden6506 I would LOVE to talk about physics on a date! :D
      -an INFP

  • @HeartlandHunny
    @HeartlandHunny Před rokem +135

    INTJ lady, here. Recently I heard about a girl who was upset that a guy she didn’t want to date had ghosted her, and she was going through all this effort to get him to contact her again. The whole time I was thinking “why do people waste so much time on relationships they know aren’t going anywhere?” So, your video? Accurate! 😂

    • @laststand6420
      @laststand6420 Před 8 měsíci +2

      I thought it was just me. I have ended so many relationships so soon because they were clearly suboptimal for my 200 year plan.

  • @Amanita._.Verosa._.
    @Amanita._.Verosa._. Před rokem +101

    INFJ is accurate.
    INTJ is so efficient. It's what's needed tbh to flatten the awkward wrinkles in dating.

    • @dacksonflux
      @dacksonflux Před rokem +10

      It's not good though. It actually robs us of valuable experience. Even if a relationship fails, it teaches you something. For me, I struggle to to see value in experience. Just doing something for the sake of having done it before seems extraneous and it is, but necessary. As I age, I'm understanding that better at least.

    • @tea.andagoodbook
      @tea.andagoodbook Před rokem +9

      INTJ. I once went out on a blind date and then asked the person who set us up how many more times I would have to see the guy in order to be polite. I was thrilled when she said I could stop seeing him.

  • @LunaHolmesLhbholmes
    @LunaHolmesLhbholmes Před rokem +12

    As an ENTP, i just screamed when I saw my type, is just so accurate, you and Kristy are the best mbti creators♡

  • @catwannabe506
    @catwannabe506 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I'm an INFP and i was just casually watching the video and when I saw the INFPs i didnt realize which type they were and backed up the video because they sounded like they would make great friends. I just boosted my own confidence.

  • @simeonthress5614
    @simeonthress5614 Před rokem +17

    The WIG GAME is out of the ball park..... I am so proud of who you've become.

  • @beshooyami4368
    @beshooyami4368 Před rokem +12

    "you came 45 minutes earlier as well, Sherlock!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Duper-Derp
    @Duper-Derp Před rokem +5

    As an INFJ who's friends with and has feelings for another INFJ friend of mine, that's literally our conversations, awkward silences but we both understand what we both mean. At least I think. Why is human communication so hard

  • @melero330
    @melero330 Před rokem +8

    I, as an INFJ who has meet with another INFJ to go out, can say that it's not that bad and we can talk very much. That is probably only the case or possible because we both didn't want some awkward silence to happen. Doing that we spend 1,5 hours without noticing it or so.
    So it really isn't that bad.

  • @smritirajeev6420
    @smritirajeev6420 Před rokem +307

    I gotta say man, the INTJ one was so damn accurate. I literally decided to end my crush on this person because he wasnt going in the same direction as me, i even listed our different approaches in life on a notepad. Prolly will end up single my entire life because of this too :)

    • @suzannezemp4479
      @suzannezemp4479 Před rokem +14

      ENTJ was accurate, too. I was recently asked out and said yes, but the date will happen in about two weeks. He was free any evening but my schedule was booked SOLID until that gap. Parties, appointments, meetings, he's got to wait his turn 🤣

    • @mctrustsnoone3781
      @mctrustsnoone3781 Před rokem +23

      INTJ and I completely relate. I have a string of relationships behind me; i’d say “failed” but the only failings has been when I’ve stayed in them after they went stale (or worse). The man I am currently interested in, we have spoken ad nauseam about our mental processes, methodologies, outlooks, value systems (internal and external), what we want out of life, what we want our environments to look like, and a whole host of other elements. I am cautiously optimistic, even though he lives 3000 miles away (literally). Meh, what’s a little distance when your brains are compatible and you operate harmoniously?

    • @yez9475
      @yez9475 Před rokem +7

      As an INTJ, I honestly would like to be single for some reason

    • @mctrustsnoone3781
      @mctrustsnoone3781 Před rokem +15

      @@yez9475 Probably because you find endless entertainment in your own company and don’t appreciate the stress and disruption that other people bring?

    • @yez9475
      @yez9475 Před rokem

      @@mctrustsnoone3781 That may be it.

  • @booklover2598
    @booklover2598 Před rokem +40

    The ENFP part was so accurate! I have an ENFP friend and our conversation just flows like that.

  • @LilyIglesias
    @LilyIglesias Před 5 měsíci +4

    I'm an INFP, but the ISFP conversation was totally relatable 🤣

  • @ericxu7155
    @ericxu7155 Před rokem +12

    As an intp “transcend all human bias” is perfect

    • @JonasAnandaKristiansson
      @JonasAnandaKristiansson Před rokem +1

      I too must admit that I love it. And reminds me of "non duality". Going beyond the human bias(es) and ignorance.

  • @user-mc5vy2vk5n
    @user-mc5vy2vk5n Před rokem +131

    Frank, that blue dress suits you! 😂
    Wouldn't expect that I'll even say something like this. 😂 And the wigs fit you, too!

    • @sheenworld4535
      @sheenworld4535 Před rokem +1

      was thinking the same!! the blue dress look so good on him hahaha

    • @StephanieJeanne
      @StephanieJeanne Před rokem +1

      That was good, and all the animal prints 😆

    • @HaHaHaLMFAOtv
      @HaHaHaLMFAOtv Před rokem

      and the Leo one too!

    • @centauria9122
      @centauria9122 Před rokem +3

      I wonder if he goes to the store to buy them, online, or has someone else shop for him to possibly save some embarrassment I guess... I don't know, but it sure does make him look really good on him. 😂

    • @user-mc5vy2vk5n
      @user-mc5vy2vk5n Před rokem +2

      @@centauria9122 omg, that's hilarious, as an introvert myself I just assumed he orders them online. 😅😂

  • @naginiriddle7091
    @naginiriddle7091 Před rokem +257

    Frank over here pulling off dresses and shirts I never could. 😭 You look good in anything, FJ, lol.
    Also, as an INFP, I can say this occasionally happens. The text conversation seems to go very smoothly, but in person, it seems to feel awkward. Trying to learn better social skills, but it's an uphill battle!

    • @Frutty06
      @Frutty06 Před rokem +13

      Relatable, but you can do it (hopefully me too)! - fellow infp 🤓
      Fortunately there are many amazing people out there who are willing to be patient for you to open up, I wish you find those people!

    • @axxloveslou
      @axxloveslou Před rokem +2

      that is so trueee

    • @sofycolt27
      @sofycolt27 Před rokem +1

      Yeah, that's so true.

  • @a..k..a
    @a..k..a Před 9 měsíci +8

    Timestamps:
    0:00 ISFJ
    0:21 ISTP
    0:36 ENTP
    1:01 ISTJ
    1:24 ESFJ
    2:00 ESTP
    2:26 ENTJ
    2:41 ESFP
    3:02 ISFP
    3:31 ESTJ
    3:59 INFP
    4:31 INTJ
    4:49 ENFJ
    5:09 ENFP
    5:28 INTP
    5:52 INFJ
    Hope this helps! 😊

  • @andreimircea2254
    @andreimircea2254 Před 11 měsíci +4

    The INFJ one is basically me on any social interaction where I have to talk to at least 2 people in a group.

  • @klutzytaz3551
    @klutzytaz3551 Před rokem +48

    ISTPs are so accurate every time. Love it lol

    • @loisrabies8713
      @loisrabies8713 Před rokem +2

      What are you talking about? There was no mention of power tools or fixing anything. Lol

    • @klutzytaz3551
      @klutzytaz3551 Před rokem +2

      @@loisrabies8713 Yeah but the cold personality is always spot on 👌

    • @askarufus7939
      @askarufus7939 Před rokem +3

      It's because the author and actor is INFJ and INFJs are, even if they don't seem to, very similar to ISTPs.
      It works with every type: ESFP actors play great ENTJs, ENFP actors play great ESTJs and so on...
      Watch Cate Blanchett (INFJ) playing ISTP character in Oceans 8

    • @isabellarose6514
      @isabellarose6514 Před rokem +4

      @@loisrabies8713 Thank God. -ISTP

  • @gemmasfantasyland
    @gemmasfantasyland Před rokem +327

    Yet another spot on video! Telepathic communication must exist because you captured the exact thoughts going through my head when I speak to people. I also love the costumes! :)

    • @swaggerness001
      @swaggerness001 Před rokem +4

      I would commit suicide from humiliation if telepathic communication existed

    • @ibelieveinyou1696
      @ibelieveinyou1696 Před rokem +7

      @@swaggerness001 well, telepathy with privacy I guess, but then speaking is no different. The only thing you can tell in telepathy is what the other person is speaking in their mind or imagining. But then again, reading images or hearing thoughts could be misinterpreted too unless that person is actually you, but then again it would be hard to discern reality and identity a lot. So, I guess communication is no different either when it comes to misinterpretation of thoughts and imaginations. And the idea of telepathy might not be the best. The only way to understand each other is to actually make an effort to get to know one another. Guess no different from real life. Plus, even if it's hard to lay our thoughts or imagination into reality(words or actions), it also helps us become more creative and push past our limits. An important thing to know too is that talking IS taking action, and taking an action makes a person feel powerful and believe in their strength.

    • @swaggerness001
      @swaggerness001 Před rokem

      @@ibelieveinyou1696 I agree thank you

  • @hanascake
    @hanascake Před rokem +6

    Whenever I want to spend time with someone, I always want to make everything about them and I always want to just sit there and listen so as an INFP this is incredibly relatable.

  • @quirogatnonerrat3214
    @quirogatnonerrat3214 Před rokem +1

    Omg Frank got a dozen of AWESOME NEW WIGS! I love them!!! 😍😍
    And the scenarios are brilliant!

  • @andhereismyspout
    @andhereismyspout Před rokem +29

    At first I guessed the silent daters would be INTPs but when one said about creating "an open, receptive space of empathy, so that you can share your soul with me" I related SO HARD as an INFP :P That's wonderful!

    • @a-s-greig
      @a-s-greig Před rokem +11

      I mean, the INTPs were headed that way from the moment they both agreed to just chill and look at memes together/separately.
      Sounds like a pretty good time, tbh.

    • @Catralasarguido
      @Catralasarguido Před rokem +8

      In fact, INTPs are almost as "controversial" as ENTPs and is very difficult to not end up "debating" with one of them

    • @louisejoel
      @louisejoel Před rokem +11

      @@Catralasarguido ENTPs just say the things we don't have the guts to say and throw something extra in

    • @Catralasarguido
      @Catralasarguido Před rokem +3

      @@louisejoel it's more lack of interest about others opinions than lack of guts
      Edit: when still "young", older INTPs are more receptive to others opinions (and a lot more proactive about expresing their own)

    • @ahuman2398
      @ahuman2398 Před rokem +8

      @@Catralasarguido INTP here and can confirm that i can be every bit as controversial and debating as a stereotypical ENTP lol

  • @aliannameier5100
    @aliannameier5100 Před rokem +16

    The Michael Jackson "Hee Hee" really made me laugh out loud for some reason 🤣

  • @vinclandestine5419
    @vinclandestine5419 Před rokem +11

    I recently changed to ISFP and I can relate to how they assertively expressed their opinions/personal taste HAHA. Also liked your ESFP girl here, find it pretty relatable too. ENFJ one made me laugh for real 😂

  • @Shawnasart76597
    @Shawnasart76597 Před rokem +6

    One of my best friends is an INFP (and I am as well) and often when we get together we will talk for a bit about our feelings and lives and then proceed to just watch TV shows together for hours. It's a very quiet and calm friendship, but half of the time we cancel our plans together because we aren't in a socializing mood lol.

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Před rokem +38

    Aww, ISFJ already made my heart melt with all the sweetness! 💖 They are clearly a perfect match.

  • @justacarat2638
    @justacarat2638 Před rokem +137

    The INFP part tho. I (infp) tried to become friends with another infp girl through a mutual friend once... we didn't become friends because none of us wanted to open up first 💀 I asked her questions about her life and she wanted to remain mysterious so I got mad silently and didn't tell anything important about myself either when she asked lol

    • @infinity8982
      @infinity8982 Před rokem +14

      😂😭 but it feels weird how we can relate everything with that other person but just can't open up, (btw you are Carat?)

    • @justacarat2638
      @justacarat2638 Před rokem +4

      @@infinity8982 heck yeah I'm a carat. I love Seventeen

    • @infinity8982
      @infinity8982 Před rokem +1

      @@justacarat2638 ohh same🙌 didn't expect any Carat here, but glad to see✨

    • @Ali-MJ
      @Ali-MJ Před rokem +6

      In my experience, never start with another INFP with feeling function, as you sayed they will keep them mysterious. You should start sensing talking, and I know it's difficult for us. While you are talking about sensing and thinking ideas, you can get emotional trust just by spending time and eye contact =)

    • @gingerconnoisseur7395
      @gingerconnoisseur7395 Před rokem +2

      I got together with an INFP merely by spending time together, doing things like boardgames, studying together and playing volleyball.

  • @sirenamonet1630
    @sirenamonet1630 Před rokem

    this has to be the best fj video I've ever seen. the quality is over the roof!

  • @febrianac9967
    @febrianac9967 Před rokem +4

    The INFP part is so true! We're like different person right? And often are misunderstood. But I think it's our nature.

  • @user-wr2uy9pj4m
    @user-wr2uy9pj4m Před rokem +98

    INFP and I relate to the ISFJ very much! Haven't dated yet, but I guess that's part of it (part of feeling forward or back)

    • @Lorenzaccia
      @Lorenzaccia Před rokem +7

      Sameeee

    • @augustsunflower771
      @augustsunflower771 Před rokem +4

      My goodness, me too I was just thinking about how I also relate to the Isfj-Infp here

  • @TT_3112
    @TT_3112 Před rokem +28

    I love how he portrayed the ISTP’s

  • @ressiesCoffeeBeans
    @ressiesCoffeeBeans Před 11 měsíci +5

    As an INFP I can confirm that my relationships would be fire if all that was required was texting and interacting online 🙂I'm cool like that

  • @richbabushka2752
    @richbabushka2752 Před rokem +2

    ooooh as an intp when it was their turn as the conversation progressed i felt so in my comfort zoneeee ♡
    i guess i feel calm when i get the same vibe with the interlocutor, it almost never happens, so hard to find a person who understands what s important for you through himself and so we can go do this that s important to us together :((
    and whats with memes, what it was when there were no memes? cuz their appearance s relatively recent

  • @aviralsinghal1274
    @aviralsinghal1274 Před rokem +14

    Being an INFP is tough.
    Really really really REALLY tough.

  • @StephanieJeanne
    @StephanieJeanne Před rokem +146

    Well, that was a lot to unpack😂 I love all the new wigs, the dark one with the bangs really suits you.😆 Was it the ISTJs wearing the same shirt? Lol. INFJs killed me💀 "If only we could communicate telepathically."🤣🤣🙌💜

    • @kyurei4478
      @kyurei4478 Před rokem +9

      I have a weakness for the long blonde wig with chestnut roots. He looks so natural with this one 😁.

    • @StephanieJeanne
      @StephanieJeanne Před rokem +8

      @@kyurei4478 😉 Let's face it. He looks good in all of them.🙌😹

    • @kyurei4478
      @kyurei4478 Před rokem +3

      @@StephanieJeanne Actually yeah 😂. That's impressive 😉🙌.

    • @michelas.
      @michelas. Před rokem +3

      He is gorgeous with the long blond wig!😬

  • @michiyaslana5974
    @michiyaslana5974 Před rokem +3

    This video reminds me of this one time I went out on a date and...
    Sincerely, an ENFP.

  • @outsideaglass
    @outsideaglass Před 9 měsíci +3

    As an ENTP who's (finally) matured out of my low-grade narcissism stage, I still appreciate the "ENTP's think they're best ever" jokes. We are pretty great. We love chaos so we make chaos, which is great when others make chaos too. My best long term relationship to date was with an ENFP who did fantastic at helping me not overthink things and just make chaos and talk about books. Then I realized that the reason we'd read a similar number of books was because he was a few years older and I read a LOT more, so after a couple years I'd surpassed him by quite a bit and talking about books became a bit boring, and we both realized his sarcasm didn't work for me long term and we had long-term goals that 100% opposed one another's. And he teased me about my run-on sentences. ;P So, too bad in the end, but great in the short to medium term. He was exactly what I needed, when I needed it. Chaos! But fun. Like these sketches.