Going to Prison Separated Me from My Kids - Assia's Story - Moms Behind Bars - Episode 4

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  • čas přidán 25. 08. 2024
  • Assia is serving an 18-year prison sentence for robbery. She went to jail when she was 3 months' pregnant and with a 7-month-old at home. She's fighting to be in her children's lives, even from behind bars and maintains a positive relationship with their father.
    Watch the full series here: • Moms Behind Bars
    From petty drug dealers to second-degree murderers, these women all have one thing in common: they're mothers. Moms Behind Bars takes you behind the barbed wire to meet incarcerated and recently-released moms, exploring how these women struggle to maintain relationships with their children from behind prison walls. These tales of suffering, regret and redemption range from a 28-year-old mother who is raising her baby in a prison cell, to a grandmother whose grown children are fighting for a better way of life for their kids.
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Komentáře • 23

  • @blossom3h
    @blossom3h Před 11 lety +3

    Wow, what a strong women. I cannot imagine giving my children up for a mistake that i had made. We ALL make mistakes, some worse than others, but we all are imperfect and are trying our best. I am a SAHM and I give her props!

  • @TheDanielleHunter
    @TheDanielleHunter Před 11 lety +2

    I think it's amazing that she is able to turn this experience around and use it to everyone's advantage. It is clear by the way her children interact with her that she has gained trust with them and that they are well balanced.
    I think it is fortunate that the prison system understands the importance of a mother's role in her child's life. And I hope that she finishes her punishment and comes out of this a better person than she would have been if she hadn't gotten caught.

  • @shelleyhobbslive
    @shelleyhobbslive Před 11 lety +2

    I'm sure that if she was not progressing enough they would not allow her children. I give her credit for taking an active role in their lives.

  • @makeapennycry
    @makeapennycry Před 11 lety +2

    I hope there are not more people like her in home health care, I'd hate for my parents to have to encounter someone who would steal from them in their old age.

  • @TheDanielleHunter
    @TheDanielleHunter Před 11 lety +2

    People laugh when they are nervous. She felt the need to explain why her sentence was so long. I wouldn't want to say it either.
    She was a struggling single mother who made a bad decision. She mentioned that.
    And education would be part of rehabilitation. If she were just caged and released at the end of 18 years I think she may be more likely to commit another crime. Don't you?
    I'm sure your son would rather be a free man with a clean conscience than this women.

  • @Anael101912
    @Anael101912 Před 11 lety +2

    The reason why the people you dont qualify for financial aid is because they probably make too much money or went to school for too many semesters. These inmates get the opportunity because colleges volunteer to help.Do your research before you comment

  • @Anael101912
    @Anael101912 Před 11 lety +4

    The federal government does not provide financial aid to people who are incarcerated. They withdrew their funding a long time age so No your son is not paying for a thing. There are colleges who devote their time and resources to help people who are incarcerated because they believe these people deserve an opportunity. Do your research before you comment

    • @syd2964
      @syd2964 Před 6 lety

      Anael Revil wow you really know your stuff! How do you know this info

  • @shelleyhobbslive
    @shelleyhobbslive Před 11 lety +3

    I don't even know where to start. First thing that comes to mind is it is really hard to see criminals get the opportunity to go to college, when many people I know cannot even afford college and don't qualify for student aid.

  • @makeapennycry
    @makeapennycry Před 11 lety +3

    I'm sorry, I'm having a hard time with this video. Yes, I feel for her having to be separated from her kids, but it sounds like she knew she had to care for them when she committed this serious crime in which someone was killed (why'd she laugh when she mentioned how long her sentence was?) Also, she got her degree in prison??? My hardworking son who hasn't committed any crime can't get financial aid for college! What the???! Wow!

    • @Gurl-5150
      @Gurl-5150 Před 3 lety

      I understand and do agree with what you're saying. I think the idea is to break the cycle so that her children have an educated, job ready, mother coming out of prison and also they want to keep her active in her kids' lives. Does that make sense?

    • @dawonfields7360
      @dawonfields7360 Před rokem

      @@Gurl-5150why she got pregnant again and she had a 29 week old baby witch is 7 months

  • @twingytwango6971
    @twingytwango6971 Před 10 lety +1

    18 years is a humane amount of time in a civilized world. When you make a mistake in your life, you too would be grateful and thankful for leiniency and the opportunity to rehabilitate yourselves. She will always have this burden on her shoulders and that alone is punishment, no matter how many educational degrees she attains whilst incarcerated. In reality, she will only be able to work for herself once she has served her time, so give civility a chance. It could happen to anyone...the slippery road is never far away.

  • @wdesign2010
    @wdesign2010 Před 11 lety +2

    Stay strong girlie god forgives and forgets

  • @TheDanielleHunter
    @TheDanielleHunter Před 11 lety

    I really don't see how she did not take accountability. She's in prison, doing her time. There is no praise inferred here. The point is that there are women, in all different situations, being MOTHERS.
    If you want father stories I'm sure there is a site for that.

  • @TheDanielleHunter
    @TheDanielleHunter Před 11 lety

    18 years is a slap on the wrists? Whew.

  • @malwilliams9274
    @malwilliams9274 Před 2 lety

    "Convicted of a robbery and someone died in the process " yea no you tortured a poor innocent woman and she died as a result of your horrible treatment. Worst part is you were paid to take care of her. Regardless you deserve everything you had coming.

  • @TheDanielleHunter
    @TheDanielleHunter Před 11 lety

    Isn't that rehabilitation? Isn't that the point of limited prison terms? So they come out and don't commit the same crimes again?

  • @shelleyhobbslive
    @shelleyhobbslive Před 11 lety +1

    Yes, it is great that she can create a relationship with her children and they receive her mothering ways, but......from prison? In many ways it feels wrong to send children to prison to interact like they are, on the other hand, I'm certain their lives are more enriched by having a relationship with their mother. They would be pretty angry when they get older if they did not have that opportunity and enrichment.

  • @makeapennycry
    @makeapennycry Před 11 lety +2

    not judging her ok, just saying. I see my son donate over 400 hours of his own time to community services (not court ordered, just out of himself) and there is no governmental reward by way of scholarship for that, meanwhile this woman steals, goes to prison and is rewarded with a college degree most likely paid for by the taxes from people like my son. We live in a backwards world sometimes.

  • @jjtiojohn12
    @jjtiojohn12 Před 11 lety

    @CafeMomStudios I don't see how you people can do stories like this! She is NO MOTHER! Shes a disgrace of a mother, she has a lack of disreguard for the crimes shes committed and the smirk on her stupid face shows shes not remourseful for what she has done. she put her childerns lives at risk by rasing them in that situation and for your organization to praise this type of behavior shows us what feminism has done to american women...