why toxic people are attracted to high vibrational people
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- čas přidán 18. 06. 2024
- The more you raise your vibration, the more you will repel people that no longer resonates with the energy that your are embodying. The challenge becomes, are you attached to the old toxic dynamics that may have felt familiar since childhood? In this video, I want to show you how to make it easy to detach. Join the High Vibe Tribe: aarondoughty.com/highvibetribe
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happens to me all the time, as an empath most of the time I attract a lot of negative energy by simply being myself, I've been told I was strange, weird, or peculiar because of my introspective individuality and authentic uniqueness, another thing I should point out is that I give without expecting anything in return due to my self-sufficient and responsible nature, I've been told that I have really great listening skills and leadership qualities despite my preference of being on the sidelines and not the center of attention, I feel as though I can't handle loud environments or crowded spaces because the stimulation and chaotic activity can feel overwhelming and pressuring, but when I'm surrounded by quiet environments and small groups, specifically the people I know I feel calm and relaxed, I feel like my self-esteem is mid at best because I come off as a social butterfly and friendly to those around me but I'm actually quiet and avoid new faces, I'm not really great at being open-minded and verbally expressive either, but I am a excellent communicator and counselor friend to those around me, as a humble and individualistic person who's commitment is solitude and independence, empathetic and feel dutiful to serving others how does receiving what I'm representing and giving value to other people benefit myself in the long run?
Thank you, Aaron
5:55pm
Grateful for upper vibrations through higher versions of me🎉
Why are you attracting toxic people? I thought high vibration attract same
Such a great video. Can someone please like this comment? So I'll be notified and rewatch this video again. 😊
Aron do you know what Palestine is facing due to isrl? 🍓
YES let them sit with their emotions! Stop fixing them. Fix yourself. Trust your own good judgement instead of people pleasing /seeking validation. Thank you! 💛
They pretend to be kind or to do something kind for you and when you take the bait by believing good about them, they switch into abuse mode.
Getting past the rescuer/ fixer to staying in your frame is a big hurdle. Guilt is a lie.
Is it wrong for a rescuer/fixer to be resentful and blame their hurt on the person they were incorrectly trying to fix? This is not a jab, but something I genuinely want to know. Their hurt comes often from abandonment of the self in the process.
You nailed it in the last line!
@@scotteric8711 Exactly! When you betray yourself, you feel all kinds of ways, and none of them are good.
Yup, damn near burned up my life on helping fixing, gave it up and now I'm completely alone but actually happy and able to work, save, workout and focus on myself rather than people who only pretend to be active,strangest thing...people that want your help will pretend to start doing something with life and do just enough to trick you into giving, they do this over and over, future faking, gaslighting, it's all just to use u in the moment, it can happen for years if u don't wake up to it......
@@scotteric8711only hurting yourself, wasting resources
This is me. Thank you. I need to talk to my therapist to help me not respond to other peoples feelings and not be the peacemaker and learn to set boundaries ❤
Practice staying in your lane. Ask is this aligned. If not - keep moving lovingly.
So true. Thank you. Jesus gives me the courage and the strength I need to overcome any obstacles. As a single mom I’ve been struggling to support my children both are special needs. As I struggle to buy groceries and as I struggle to pay my bills Jesus has never left my side. There is always a miracle around the corner. I have faith that Jesus will continue to get me through this. Faith over fear.💕
Congrats on your 9 years youtube anniversary buddy❤❤🙏🙏
I’m so tired of listening to peoples problems non stop.
I’m not responsible for their emotions or feelings, nor have to tolerate it.
Thank you for sharing your story about having a narcissistic step mother. I also went through this after my biological mom passed and it has affected my behavior and choices my entire life. This helps others like me to not feel alone 💙✨
I needed to hear that since I am currently in this process of letting go toxic people, setting boundaries. I am so ready to do this! Amazing video! 💯❤
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I am with you in having a similar journey right now 💯 We will get through it.❤
@@afrochica05 ❤️❤️❤️
Never thought I would need to go thru this but lately I noticed I do attract people who come off as positive people but end up being a negative influence on me and I’m still having issues in only seeing the good in people but now my discernment and God have helped identify and get rid of fake positive people who only mean to serve themselves and hurt me in the process. It’s no coincidence we somehow end up not forming a bond for whatever reason. It’s kind of weird they just leave on their own. I know I’m elevating and I’m being protected by God!
Same ❤
As an Israeli, that’s so true! My family was so happy that after 8 years living overseas, I had an Israeli boyfriend for a change. Too bad that he has narcissistic behavior patterns which were detrimental to my well being. That’s why I am here. Learning to stand up for myself and learn about relationships dynamics. Your videos help me during my darkest time 🙏
And more deeply, one of your parents exhibited narcissism....we attract what we are used to
Are jews are narcissist?🤔
כייף לשמוע שיש עוד ישראלים כאן :) Shabbat shalom
@@jac1161 true! I was too much control in my childhood:/
@@Tom-jl9ir I don’t think it’s relevant where we are coming from lol it’s about humanity.
absolutely Aaron… as you live in the light, you give others permission to do the same there’s nothing egotistical about it. It’s just an exchange of energy and the way we can elevate others through being the best version of ourselves.
Yes Aaron!! They want to dim our light!Maybe not even our families always. But society! I feel like people think I’m too much because I’m so bubbly. But that is literally me and I’ve been that way my whole life. Except in my miserable childhood I was very shy. But I always felt I was born with this sparkle! ✨
I've felt all of this... 🔥💞❤🔥💞❤ you are awesome Aaron. I'm Leo and again I felt all of that. Fire is light energy. Yes you are right about all of this. And people are getting offended as I am healing myself. I've been a yes person my entire life and a people pleaser and can't do this anymore I do not want to be drained. I am the only spiritual person in my family.
Oh my gosh you really hit this one out the park. Nothing but facts! I don't think you are trying to be Jesus.😂 Toxic people always try to guilt you, stop trying to be a God in someone else's life. The second you don't give into their demands they will totally flip out on you. One of the main ways they do this guilt. Take your power back!
Yes I'm tired of hearing about narcissists.
I like the minimalist approach to the editing. Helps receive the message.
Aaron, thank you so much for making these videos. Each one reinforces the next and are more valuable than any session with a therapist. How empowering it is to recognize and understand the energy dynamics at play from childhood and beyond…🙏🏻
So authentic, you are a starchild that's for sure ❤ 😇
I enjoy your vibes, you’re a inspirational soul.
Omg!! I love you. ❤ you crack me up. I look forward to your messages. I'm healing and loving every moment 💪
It’s very detach from family members that are toxic to you. I was able to lately though with your help. Thank you 🙏
glad you forgave your step mom. It’s a gift to yourself.❤
The hard part nowadays is separating the spiritually superior egos from those whith real vibrational energy. Some cannot fathom the idea that another one has made a journey the same, lesser than, or more difficult than theirs without experiencing it as them. That is not truly open, and it is resistance on them.
dead...on...true (desperately trying to get from others what we didn't in childhood - maybe that's why nursing was my drug and my healing...my patients....well, appreciated me! I was never so humbled, brought to tears that I was ...well, I existed!). Once I had to lose my job, became disabled, I became empty, lost, and felt lack of worth./value....now I know this time has been for healing other things that is a trade off for a broken body Excellent views and I can tell immediately, your credentials, like mine, come from the passion and vulnerability to confront he hard, face truth and get to work. Thank you!
I am love flowing through time and space experiencing love itself
Perfect video that popped up that I needed to hear. Love and light, my friend.💜
Odore you and enjoy your content! Thanks for the light and laughter! ❤❤❤😊😊
Thank you so much. Not only have you informed me, and resonates with my projection, you yourself inspire me to move forward in my own creations. Thank you for meeting me in this timeline as we are. ❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😂
Speaking my language, dude. Co-dependent in recovery here! Elevating my vibration. First, one needs to change your environment and get space from those folks who drain you! Move out, move away, get space. This allows you to really see what's going on in your life. And you'll start to notice dynamics with friends, co-workers, etc. that no longer serve you well. Like Aaron says, re-played dynamics that need to stop! Protect your peace!
Thank you so much sending you highest love and light 🤍
I dont care about anything anymore
I am fed up with all these
Most of the people in my life just want to win they dont want to understand.
or, they don't want to work on, with or through anything any more.
Truth seeing,
A lot people take things to another of misunderstanding and handling one another for no reason at all but to be higher in nose raising status,
Just keep walking,
For real ain't no one rose this morning cause of their(high nosey ,side eye looking peeps) wish.
You are enough.
Never mind their high minded( nosed) selves.
You got this babe🌌🙏
This video speaks to me on so many things ways i cant thank you enough 🙏🏻
It’s called thought transmission. We are always creating 100% of our reality.
I discovered your channel by chance a week ago as I have started going through a 7 year relationship break up and your channel has honestly helped me a lot. I never realized that childhood trauma was the reason I stayed with the wrong person for so long and I just want to say thank you for the great content it has really helped me to start to move on and better my life. 🙏🏽
Me too! I am so grateful ❤
Some people dont fix out of guilt they genuinely try to fix because they have angelic qualities.
i found i was toxic one and people just dont want to deal with me because too much problems but now im good alone :D
But you don't have to accept yourself as toxic. We've all been that toxic person at some point. We all have the ability to transcend. :)
@@Masi.Capone looking in too my past i was toxic for sure asking for money etc. people helped me a lot but i still had addiction probmlems and i cannot be saved . now i realized nobody cares need to be responsible that being said i found peace
@@arch1q892 I care...Believe it or not, I care about every one in the universe and truly want every one to find peace. You say you have and that's wonderful. I forgive your past. Now forgive yourself. Forgiveness and humility go hand in hand. The way you speak is with pure humility, but don't make yourself too small. ;)
Your videos have changed so much in my life, forever grateful🙏 thank you💖
I can't believe it 😮 this is what happened to me right now, few minutes ago and I just have been trying to understand what was that.
You are totally a guru dude : ) and you rock your long hair.
If I didn’t believe in one thing you were saying, I would still listen just to hear your hilarious voices of the people that you trigger! Lol freaking love it especially the voices of the people who are triggered by the things in your refrigerator. I think it was the liquid death you were drinking. Please don’t ever stop doing the voices.
I am sorry
Please forgive me
Thank you
I love you ❤
I don’t have that guilt and conscience right now, I think😅 coz after I said no to a family that I used to have guilt every time I don’t send them money to help them, I meditate after I said it without any triggers. I slept really good. Coz I really tried my very best to be on this path and tried to help them too, to be on this journey but I don’t see any progress if they really want to learn. I always help help and help, I want them to value everything I did for them, but they’re used to it, just receive receive and receive and never learn learn and learn! I had enough and set boundaries, I don’t even care about their emotions. I want them to taste their own stuff. Im free from it❤ Practice is key to stay on this path!!☮️☮️☮️
Thank you for this video. It is so timely for me and countless others I'd wager. My social life is a ghost town yet at the same time I feel more vibrant than I ever have in my life. There is no going back. The langoliers have eaten the past. ;)
I just thought most people are toxic since I keep running into these types.. family, friends, bosses, co workers and partners.
I needed to hear this - close the loop and set boundaries around any toxic energy.
My high vibration tends to be like a lighthouse for toxic people. Unfortunately, I can’t repel them with my existential dread.
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Maybe your existential dread is attracting them and you think its your lighthouse.
@@FuchsiaFire444 Perhaps, but you know in the end, both the lighthouse and the darkness are just illusions, attracting those who see their own reflection in them.
Not really - like attracts like - vibrationally you attract those of similar vibration. That’s universal law. Perhaps you see yourself as a person who attracts toxic people.
Like moths to a flame 😁😁😁
I recognize that restaurant situation. Different settings but same thing. It's like "am I never gonna be able to break free from this cycle". And it's scary how people can read eachother so accurately (spelling?) without saying anything.
I realized now that I'm often attract healthy energy nowadays, a lot actually. But I'm only halfway through, because I'm often pleasing, which scare them away. Or feel as if something's missing, like as if it isn't challenging enough (that they're liking me too easily).
I had an experience where I've known someone for many years over facebook and only met once in person back in 2015. Had a nice time. I recently had a feeling from his posts that he was rather spiritual, and genuinely wanted to get to know him as a friend. No other interest beyond that. He ended up being very triggered, saying how he doesn't like my personality/thinks I'm all about rap. I do like rap from years ago, but pay little attention to it nowadays. And he had a condescending attitude about me being a "non-musician." I've become an entirely different person since 2015, but he had this perception of me. Because I've lost identification with anything in this world and every idea that I've ever thought was me, what he said couldn't provoke me at all. I was direct and told him how arrogant and judgemental he was behaving, and surprisingly he ended up calming down after that telling me all about his trauma. After he showed his true colors (at least, where he is now), it made no difference to me if he wanted to be a friend or not. A friendship is either gonna blossom from being authentic, or he'll be repelled because I'm authentic. I said what I could to trigger mental healing for him, but I can't beg for anyone's friendship.
We are all playing Bob the Builder and saying We will fix it 🤷♀️🤦♀️
I am humbled in so many ways and it’s true we think we are helping but it’s actually not empowering them to see how powerful they are- how did this not click in before 🤦♀️
Similar to the whole metamorphosis with the Butterfly- the cocoon phase - if we cut it open they won’t build their wings strong enough and it will not fly and die-
I need to stop cutting cocoons open and let them free themselves-
… so they can fly- and I can be there to listen and hear and give space but not take on the healing myself/
So be their safe place to land and listen/
be there with love and compassion while holding my own frame so I don’t become drained 🙏
Awesomeness- always learning-
Thank you 🙏
Peace love and Namaste 🙏
Excellent as usual and very fitting/timely for the particular life journey I am on right now! 😊❤
many times they are narcissistic .. if family I have learned you can deal with them through loving detachment… aka boundaries.
This happens to me exactly. It’s like the intensity of the toxicity comes in strong and then disappears as soon as I become conscious and deal with it.
"Your lesson maybe to let go of the energies that have been controlling you" You hit the nail.
I love how you get so deep about these topics. I feel it so strongly because its brought to light feelings we cant talk about.
That being said, Im the youngest of the 5 siblings. Im also an empath and Sensitive. Its interesting to see the older child's perspective about their parents vs the middle, young etc. I loved my older sibling - note LOVED. Past tense. I remember them to be abusive to me and sometimes my parents when they tried to help in a situation. They made me feel bad about myself because I was shy and quiet. And at times, I even got bullied. I guess not all that the same way but I no longer wish to have a relationship with them because I somehow unconsciously go back to the old pattern of me that I dont like. Its a weird thing. And then that energy attracts their energy that I dont like. So I stay away.
Just like the bible says( Jesus ) i have not given u the spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind❤
100 % around ( 10 min in) that you bring out in people what match the wound. Have experimented it so many times and when I shifted the relationship shifted.
Oh yes. This is so true… Thank you Aaron for your Work. It helps me a lot in my life 🙏♥️
I grew up with that “Jewish guilt” and while I’m in a relationship with someone who is Jewish, we aren’t married yet and I can tell there’s some disappointment in that. Settling down and having lots of money is as good as you can get to my family- both immediate and extended.
Thanks, Aaron. I needed this🦋
I have to isolate myself because it’s so high it attracts demonic power
Exactly 💯 protect your energy at all cost most come to destroy you
This was so needed ❤❤❤
Thankyou .
that's funny, how all latest videos on this channel, strongly resonate with me. I see a lot about shift i already made. Today (new version) vs past (old version). I feel those differences. I'm happy to be in this process :)
Spot on bro!!! Exactly what I’m going through 🤗also love the humor of yourself😆 your hair is high vibe 💜💜💜
Thanks Aaron for doing this video this is exactly what I needed at this time in my life please do more videos on this subject
Thankyou for this video aaron
Never again will I be a cameo in someone else's movie. They come with mutual energy or they kick rocks. If I have to dim my light for you to shine, it won't work.
Love your long hair Aaron so no worries...I feel u are one of the best forces on here so keep going
This video really hit home for me. Thank you! And I really appreciated the emphasis with captions on certain phrases.
Thank you for helping heal the world. Your awesome 😊
Aaron this is beautiful. Thank you 🙏🏻
Brother... You are incredible. Tons of gratitude I feel to learn from you.🎉
Needed this video today
This one is 🔥🔥🔥 exactly what I’m living right now and closing the loop ! Z🙏
Thank you for everything
You're like Ralph Smart on steroids. I'm feeling you're message
Wayyy better than Ralph Smart imho
I really appreciate this one brother 🙏 I understand what I was doing to my ex and it’s a major eye opener I’ve been healing and doing a lot of self reflection coming to terms with more and more everyday your videos have helped tremendously
“Screw this guy who’s trying to be Jesus” - 🤣🤣🤣 thanks for the chuckle Aaron
thank you for the free therapy session, Aaron 😘 blessings! ✨💓🙏💓🙏✨
This is so cool.
Thanx for being vulnerable ☺️and allowing yourself to express your feelings and experiences in life.
You are so down to earth and understandable
High vibe greetings from hairdresser from norway
Thanksss!!very interesting conversation Al dynamic powerful vid😮❤
You're amazing! I've learned so much from you, thank you so much! 🙏😇
I heard "thinks he's CHEEZ-ITS!" 😂😂😂 I was confused for a second
Learning this the hard way people definitely zap your energy
Love you videos, Aaron
Wow thank you for this
I love your content! And its so true.. I test it and everytime it works❤ thank you kindly!
This one was very good Aaron. Thanks man. You're definitely putting words on many things in my life I have not yet been able to articulate.
@Aaron: your story ex-girlfriend, restaurant, who pays the tip is so lovingly played in this movie: TRIANGLE OF SADNESS.😎
I think you are like Jesus of nowadays ! You teach similar things ! And we all here think you are amazing thank you 🙏 ❤
Thanks for sharing ❤
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You are right.
Sometimes its even just an illusion of what we really wanted and deserved from them.
Or in fact a man being close to us intimately,eg: like feeling protected,provided cared and looked after.
Knowing our true love is appreciated and that we are so grateful for our relationship,we really wish ( or at least I do( to meet a man on our frequency that we not only do great and beautiful things for the world with, but we as a unit feel like One.
So yes I agree with you
Finally a good video
Lol i was resonating as hell up until the purple t shirt bit cracked me ,couldnt stop laughing ..i ll come back later i suppose 😂
thank you for this
That's why Jesus is the answer❤
He looks identical to a set of twins I once knew..huh interesting
I agree 💯👍....
Vin Diesel & Paul Sinclair Vincent ???
No,set of twins young men.. Julian and Ashton
In Canada
Hahaha you’re more hilarious every time I love it !
So true Aaron, I’m the oldest of 3 siblings and I’ve always been so used to taking care of people and my family… and it has hurt me in my romantic relationships too
big respec for your knowlage thank you alot brother im working on myself alot on spirituality and you open new worlf of power and mind and thank you alot.Namaste
It's ok you can shine and call yourself a guru.😊🧡 I also love that lion's mane of yours🔥👌
I'll let it be baby...as you said!