5 Confidence SECRETS that Make You Attractive AF
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Thanks for the video man, your videos have helped me personally and my channel.
Haha that is exactly what happened to me when filming my first video in 2014. I recently uploaded it to my channel.
When I started to write this comment, there were 22 likes (including mine) and 2 comments (before mine). 22 2 I will take that as a yes. This year is going to be powerful and transforming. 🎉🎈🌈 I already joined the challenge 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻 Can’t wait for January. I did the 21 day’s magnetic love challenge and it totally transformed my love life♥️♥️♥️ Thank you!!!
Can we meet fam??
Looling back at my love life....yes....this is so right. When you stop trying 2 make some 1 love you the same and you learn you have options....here they are again🤦♀️
Thankyou for sharing your wisdom. 🙏💗🦋
It's like when you fall in love and suddenly have all these people find you attractive and talk to you. It's because you emmanate the feeling and energy of "I'm happy, I'm good, I don't need others." I'd love to feel that more often without being in a relationship.
This is so truee. I'd love to feel that again too without the commitments hahaha. It was weird that people suddenly see us as attractive for some reason.
The best way to achieve this, is by doing more of the things you love! Whether it be hobbies, living outside your comfort zone and actually learning to fall in love with yourself. It’s absolutely exhilarating because daily I have options coming towards me, I’m flattered but I’m not interested because I’m so content with where I am in life.
Thank you I needed this.
I had the same happen to me! I am 8 months into a relationship and it still happens!
That REALLY happened after I got married 😂.
I’m not sure how old you are but the sooner you become comfortable alone in life the happier you will be ♥️
Everyone at some time in their lives WILL INEVITABLY be alone COMPLETELY ALONE it really is so freeing when you’re like meh I’m good, I got me. It was a hard lesson to learn after 17years of marriage to my high school sweetheart. Once I quit dating and focused on my kids and my career I found that I was actually really happy not being in a relationship.
*5 things to quit for all people:*
*1. Caring about what others think*
*2. Not believing in yourself*
*3. Not prioritizing your health*
*4. Wasting your precious time*
*5. Chasing meaningless relationships*
Not caring what others think? - - - So, I am not going to buy anything from you...
Well put. In the love and light.
@@tanyagoodpasture761 in love and light - creating success by totally NOT caring about what others think....THAT IS REALLY INTERESTING SOLUTION both of you are coming up with - You are part of the selfish problems instead of loving others.... So, you don T care a shit actually.( ha,ha,ha)
Ajmer - he is talking about energy.....Not about being a jerk like you are.....YOU ARE ONLY CARE for productivity....so, go to work please,cleaning the toilet for me/us...
This guy doesn't even go into life.....real life with real people....not helping solving real problems in the real reality..
I met my husband when I didn’t want anyone. It was crazy. He just appeared & was exactly what I wanted, but I rejected him because I didn’t want anyone. He didn’t accept the rejection & persisted, and it just happened and we got married a year later. Married 10 years.
Before him, I was super needy in my relationships. I was in the midst of becoming at peace with being alone. Isn’t that crazy how it happens?
This may be something I really needed to read today! 🙌🏻
I had this exact experience with my husband. It’s like reading my own story.
You had made peace with yourself and accepted yourself. You loved you and that's what made you attract.
Timing is a funny thing :) So happy for you!
It's happened to me!
1. Non- neediness
2. Open up your heart - have an open energy in public. Loosen up and have fun!
3. Feature your flaws - people feel what you feel
4. Being in your own frame. Be the star in your own movie.
5. Self - validation
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Well stated.
It sounds like that having a relationship is not worth it
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Lol..I hear ya😆
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That's why girls "like jerks," it's not cuz we actually like jerks, but because they don't act needy and they act like they have their own value, which makes them more appealing.
Alright, so I think I have cracked the code to what Aaron is talking about. In order to attract the opposite sex, you have to be in your own frame, meaning you can't always be "looking" or "trying" to find someone, because they will pick up on that in which you will repel. The key is that you have to let it all go. You have to be the main character in your story. The subconscious doesn't take years to undo negative beliefs about the opposite sex, it's based on "belief itself." In fact, you don't undo anything. Like when you have 3 files in a video game, you can hit "erase" at any time, but the key is you must believe. You must believe you are attractive, and that you can give light to the world.
Believing…. It’s a powerful tool
Great insight
I've been in my own frame my whole life, still haven't found anyone. This whole thing is just an esoteric bullshit.
@@24wallachian Are you sure though? What is your understanding of “being in your own frame?”
@@user-qe7bt9dz1l I've been doing my own thing, was not desperately trying to find someone.... I.e. I mean by that exactly what Gabriel says (how Gabriel describes being in one's own frame) in his post above.
@@24wallachian then theres probably some other factor. Are you a negative or cynical person in general?
Authenticity is extremely important.
*"The person who wins, is the person who wants it the most."*
This changed my life.
I don’t understand this. The video is about letting go of an outcome. Wanting implies you are waiting for an outcome
@@EdithIvhay It’s a paradox… it’s about finding the sweet spot where wanting is necessary and when it’s necessary to let go.. finding the balance is key,
@@EdithIvhay lol
@@EdithIvhay if you go deep inside into your guts and soul , you will realize for yourself that there is a fundamental difference between NEEDING something and only wanting something. You will realize the difference can be as large as the difference of hell and heaven…
Sounds like the river we travel on with all kinds of resistance and struggle as we had to beat the other sperms to get to the egg, I like your analogy it's an essential truth.
Everything you want is within you you don’t need validation from anyone else you are WHOLE ❤️
This is ever so true. When you're at your worst is when you begin to see and understand this. That is when the light comes in.
I noticed that practicing expression & speaking more has shifted my confidence & magnetism TENFOLD (e.g. as I make more youtube videos and building that skill), and I've noticed it in you too Aaron throughout the years as you continue to make more videos, your Authentic energy shines through MORE and MORE. I love seeing that shift in you, it's honestly awesome and inspiring. thank you.
thank you Kathryn:)
I am facing the same issue. Can you tell me from where did u prepare expression??? Any CZcams channel? Or book recommendation? Please help me..
@@anjalisharma1351 hey anjali I would honestly practice filming a video every day talking about your day, your insights, anything you're interested in/want to share. you don't have to upload it necessarily (altho that would be cool if you did!) but i found that this helps you practice lessening self-consciousness and getting into a confident flow. its so powerful.
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I noticed that too! It’s like a muscle you strengthen through practice but you don’t make the connection until you finally do it
I can relate to this in so many ways . The way we treat ourselves makes the biggest difference. I used to crave approval and validation from my parents which impacted my relationships as an adult. It's taken alot of work to believe I deserve to be loved.
Wonderful
To the *worthwhile person* seeing this, your dream is not dead. Don’t allow the past and current pains and hurts stop and define you. You’re more than a conqueror. Rise up and put yourself together. Keep pushing your future depends on it. I wish you all the best in life ❤.
I needed go read this, more than once 😭❤🌹
You surely got that right. The one who is less needy has the upper hand in the relationship. But in the long run, if someone is constantly acting detached, cold and uninterested. Like they are whole on their own and they don’t need anyone, although that is very attractive in the beginning, it becomes off putting later on. The Pursuer gets tired of pursuing.
Like if you expressed to your girlfriend that you were annoyed by the presence of those two dudes showing up uninvited, i’d Find that really manly. Not in a needy way but affirmative. Tell them to get on their way.
Well said I agree ☝️ 💯
People use healers and psychics too. I love my own company and I’ve been practicing detachment. I’ve had to learn to open my heart. Self love is the most important love 💕
“Everything should be made as simple as possible, but no simpler.” - Albert Einstein
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I found a secret that my language of love is unconditional care,kindness and being cute as F is my true nature. From that moment I started to feel and freely express my vibe without any mask to the right ppl ho speaks same language of love. Now I understand my vibe and vibe of my tribe
Dude, I can't believe I haven't listened to you before- you seem very genuine and wise!
The Neediness is the age old theme imbedded in us from birth of always having to Prove Ourselves Worthy!
💜🙏🏼💜
You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them but still move on without them.😇
Very true. You project how you feel. Other people can sense that, especially women. Projecting confidence while appearing friendly and outgoing is kryptonite to women.
“Let go of who you think you’re supposed to be; embrace who you are.”
-Brene Brown
Great video Aaron 🔥❤️
Bruh.. this is from THOR
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People often say open up your heart but nobody really explain how!
Good one...
In, order to Open Up I'd/We'd Need to:::
*Open, Up My Heart.
*Smile, MORE.
*LOOSEN, Up.
*Have, FUN.
Thank, you Aaron You Are 💙
We love the TMI, it makes me feel more connected to the people that I admire! I also love Leeor Alexandra 💜
I also couldnt say the letter R untill i was 6 yrs old, its my favorite letter now. I started crying when i tried the frame technique just now, for the first time. This video helped me a lot. Thank you for becoming even more vulnerable and open.
Confidence and wholeness make ppl more attractive. Thank you for your kind video arron ❤
The beautiful thing is that true ego-less confidence makes people truly ethical too. A sun person has no reason at all for being evil because everything is in him what he needs. He can be fair in every situation, TRULY every. So just ignore those people who associate assholeness with confidence…
So simple.. Being attractive is .. just Being nice and smile more, give your energy to others , open your heart and feel that confidence… open your heart and help others when you can …share that love of energy..so true
I adore this,thank you! Just what I needed to hear today what a great reminder! I love the part where you said shame grows in the dark don't bring awareness to it I love that... This is so true you are so right! 🔥💫🪶🤍🥕, Many blessings to all, stay light, stay bright & keep 🌟 &sharing your flame my friends!🔥
I was going to say my brother. I don’t “want” anyone. I don’t “need” anyone. The universe was the one I didn’t trust but I have softened after COVID. However since COVID I have relaxed quitting be so uptight and just let the day unravel, I realized you can make all the appointments and schedule with friends but if something is going to happen I quit resisting… I go to the gym and quite thinking about everything I needed to do at home. You are on point about being in your own frame. Minding my business. I mind my business and it’s changed my life.
Aaron, i ve been following you since the beginning of my spiritual awakening and you nail it everytime !👌keep it up !
Love your teachings ❤
OSHO does not BLINK!! hahahah This is awesome THANKS MAN really enjoyed this!! Blessings and Namaste
Dude you’re seriously intelligent. This helps me so much!
Loved "being in your own frame." that concept helped me tremendously. Awesome video. Your voice is easy to listen to.
Your videos have helped me so much !! Because of your videos I was able to peacefully and successfully move on from my abusive and toxic relationship . God knows how much I prayed for this peace and release . I couldn’t have done it without your guidance Aaron ❤️❤️❤️🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
What four words can completely destroy a man's confidence?
“Is it in yet?”
"You're done already?"
"My ex boyfriend was better"
“Can you go deeper?” 😞
Thank you Aaron, I have changed sooo much since helping myself and listening to your video’s. I was with a partner who I knew wasn’t right for me because I could feel it, it took me a long time to recognise that he was using my strengths and my past mistakes against me.. I recently met another guy and it was quite turbulent but being in my own frame has helped that relationship flourish, your videos help my anxiety, and I’m growing and getting there ❤️. X
The power of this video. I use to not like the fact that my facial hair is red but the hair on my head is black. While watching this. I got the sense of energy like, "I dont care anymore, its who the hell I am. I'm gonna flaunt it." Thanks for this video man.
Flaunt that, it sounds very Unique!!! 💝
I think that’s very unique and attractive “flaw”
TBH a lot of people I know find that attractive, just be yourself!!!
I'm praying you receive the highest form of love. You deserve the best.💗🙏
🎯in this episode Aaron. Thanks brother.😇
This is a God Deal! I appreciate your vulnerability Aaron! It's obvious your living your purpose and a redeeming life. 🤙🏾💙🙏🏽✝️
You always release these at the perfect time. I have a list and wondered why I had it
Thank you Aaron. Since my beloved husband passed 2 years ago, I have deliberately closed myself off, to protect my broken heart. Now, I must learn how to open my heart again.....
I appreciate your personal stories and candor! It was helpful.
Wow, eye opening information. Thank you very much! I do think that I sabotaged many relationships in the past. I will no longer live in fear!
I love this message its beautiful. being needing this all my life. Thank you so much.❤
“Congrats to Everyone who is early and found this comment”
So happy for you and Heather! Love you both!
Aaron, these videos are helping me heal & work through my shadow. Thank you so much. Namaste 🙏🏻 💗✨
Thank you so much for this i learned a lot from you more than anything else now i'll stop being needy lets go
OMG you are good Aaron, killing it and are so right to the point and the core of what is going on (at least with me for the last 40 pluss years ❤️).
I am 4’11 & proud 😉❤️ carrying myself as a Giant full of life,love & strength!
It’s amazing how much wisdom this guy has and how generous he is with it. Thank you.
My list is one word, laughter, okay and my dog better adore you!
You are AMAZING!Very inspiring. Thank you so much for this good pep talk I needed to remind myself of!
Keep doin' whatcha do, Aaron! You have inspired and helped millions on this earth! 👏
You are intelligent AF!!! Thanks for the awesome content!!
That’s tough! I need to work on my neediness
You are so cool! This journey has been transformative!💖🤯💖🤩
Traveling with a partner is a huge eye opener 🙃
This really helped thank youu! I feel like we all know this stuff deep down, but like I need constant reminders to start to cognitively re-program! Thanks Aaron! 🙏🏻
Needy energy makes people pull away I noticed this with my past relationship a couple months ago.
Proud of you and thank you for your message.
Fantastic as always Aaron!!!
Thank you 👏🏻♥️
Sooo I was once super insecure and super self conscious I am much more confident now after allowing myself to be free and honestly trusting myself. It’s weird looking back at myself because I cannot identify with a lot of stuff I did or said things are so different now. Thank you❤️✨
I love this guy ! I feel for him I think he is working all this out in this video!! For the first time I heard him say "it wasn't my fault my dad didn 't protect me" I can't wait to hear him say "it wasn't my fault I could not protecting myself"!!!
You nailedddddd it wow. All my empath stuff and insecurities and childhood trauma. This is such a huge help, thank you
Thanks for the tips.
SO MUCH resonated for me here, thanks as always
Super!! Thank you for your videos. They give me confort and tranquility.
Hi Aaron, I was browsing through your old videos, saw this one and have played it over 10 times since then! It felt as though I was having a one-on-one coaching with you. I could relate to every single thing you have said in it because I have felt it bone deep. Thank you for being there like a guiding light for millions like me. More power to you 🙌🏼😃 Sending you loads of love!
This is 110% true. Once we start focusing on us, our health, our hobbies our own happiness that's when we attract. We are not needy of anyone's attention or validation. Big thump up for your video. I'm gladly subscribing your page
I think having a checklist can be useful. Especially as you get older and know what you won't put up with anymore. Like for instance the next time I see red flags that indicate narcissism then I'm going to run the opposite direction. But I think there are a lot of good tips in this video. And you're easy on the eyes too!
I don’t think that this was tmi, thank you for opening up and being honest. Appreciate it a lot 🙏🏼
Aaron I just want you to know that your videos are essential to me! It has helped me soooo much thank you!
This is so helpful!! Thank you 🙏🏽
This video found me first thing morning! It was right on time. I needed to hear this right now
I just happened upon your video, and I really like what you have to say. I've always been self-conscious and it stems from being bullied about my looks. I'm going to try reframing my flaws and not let them affect me. I'm also going to try being comfortable in my own frame. Hell, I'm going to do all of these and see if this works for me. Thank you for making these kinds of videos
Hey Aaron, I just started listening to your videos here on CZcams and I love your messages, your energy and the way you explain things. It resonates with me all the way. Even though I know most of it we always need to hear it over and over again until it graves into our DNA on a cellular level and we able to get the shift. Thank you for sharing your knowledge on the subject and helping millions out there to be a better version of themselves. You are God’s gift! 🙏
Also I just joined your Vault, originally I wanted the 3 free meditation but I truly feel I want to support your work and I m sure I will also reap the benefits of all your meditations even though I haven’t been doing a lots of inner work in the past 5 years. I believe the inner work never ends until we die. Challenges always arise in our life and what makes it different is what state are we approaching them from. Namaste!
@Asiayei Cynthia Hi Cynthia, I m not sure How can He help me With that. Can You elaborate please?
I will trust my guides to help me on this new journey I am embarking on in my life at this time. I know that they will lead me to make the correct choices aligned with divine wisdom and my soul path.
so true. ~when i loved myself so much .. everyone saw my shining brightness . everyone girls n guys all loved me . when i was depressed i only attracted same leveld ppl
This was so good .. I haven’t been on CZcams watching these kind of videos in awhile and this was one of the first suggestions..so glad I listened to it🔥🔥🔥
Thanks Aaron. I really needed this!
Being clear about my intentions has always been a block with me, but admitting it on here feels good. I have no problem putting myself out there and asking women out, but I simply don't do it as much as I should. If I'm into someone, I don't always say it, which I believe it keeping me from having more dating options. Thank you for this video.
from much meditation, listing to a few podcasts, you included, clearly lol. And identifying my emotions, I have come to the realization that I find what is comfortable to me, what makes me feelnhine with a person as my partner. I need someone to be abusive to me in some form. since I was 4 I have had abuse of all types. so I need to find that familiar "love" in others. it's heart breaking yet liberating all at the same time. thank you for all the content you put out and continue to put out. thank you for sharing your gifts
This was so refreshing! Thanks Aaron!!
You are a game changer!🥰 Thanks!💙
Don’t be codependent don’t be attached to an outcome trust yourself love yourself believe you are worthy of love
Thank you, love. You are a blessing to me. I appreciate, and I love you dearly. I hope you have a blessed day.
In the love, and light.
Nameste '
You are a beautiful person and have changed my life... keep up the good work you are doing. The world 🌎 needs you.
Enlightenment! Thanks Aaron, I'm 65 and glad I clicked this video! Thank you Brother!🙌 Awesome content!
This is great advice! Thank you!!
Since a week I noticed a huge change within me when it comes to dating and wanting a relationship. Before I was afraid of going all in. I let the 3D effect me so hard and I got very insecure when something happened, I didn’t plan. Now nothing can trigger me anymore. Even it the opposite shows up in my 3D, I know it’s just a test of my subconscious mind. Wants to test me if I stick to my new belief system or not. I own myself and be completely myself. I am expressing who I am. I am speaking up and saying what I think and believe. I don’t care what others think and I am not afraid anymore of speaking the truth. Before I always tried to be liked and loved and pleased everyone. Now I am done with that. I don’t feel needy anymore and don’t need approval and validation. I give it to myself and feel confident. I really feel amazing and I am magnetic af. I stay in my own frame and focus on myself. 🥰🙏🏻✨ Since a week my lover and I have such an improvement in communication. I released the block within me and what was keeping us seperate. I am not afraid anymore being myself and I‘m not afraid that I get rejected or abandoned. I am happy and free! ❤️🔥
Blinking eye thing.....you had Me hahaha
You are so insightful! 💃🏻🕺🏻
Thank you so much for this video!
Love your honesty here Aaron, inspiring. I most definitely have a partner check list which it's mostly character focused. I think it's important to share your life with someone who shares your values and can meet you where you're at spiritually. Have you been on the dating scene lately?! - it's a crazy jungle out there full of wounded individuals so starved of love and hope. Most are looking to fill the void with multiple meaningless encounters, one after another, dragging themselves deeper into a spiritual and emotional abyss with no concern for self or others. It's extremely sad and leaves those of us who are emotionally stable wondering where to turn!
Could you please do another video on how to bring your attention and energy back to your own body in more detail. Definitely relate to the empath way of relating to others and abandoning myself to varying degrees, though since becoming aware of this have been practicing being present for myself.
Watching your videos from Switzerland 🙂🙂
You are describing the kind of person I have always been without effort. It must be my natural personality🙂
But then I really have to sort out whom I keep as friends since I attract a lot of people but many of them are Narcissists 😕
I don't show my emotional vulnerabilities as much as I used to. To avoid Narcissists.
Thank you Aaron for your valuable work.
Thanks for sharing, now you’ve moved forward with your life and life purpose and some people are still on their own level and is the universe sending you signals that you were worth more by staying in your own frame and independence 👌🏾 I also went to speech classes
what a pleasant chat you offered us here! Thanks Aaron :)
You look good Aaron🥰your confidence level is definitely amazing and you are magnificent💕