These habits will make you MAGNETIC
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- čas přidán 23. 07. 2023
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CHAPTERS
0:15 The art of not giving a F**
4:10 MINDSET baby
6:15 collect no's
8:15 Warrior mentality
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you dont find this video.this video finds you
Thank you 🥰
Very true
Yup!
Exactly! 🎯💯💫
Yup
Mindset is everything. Whoever reads this I want you to know that you are on the right track and never give up on yourself
Thank you baby
sending you love🤍
Thank you
❤❤❤thank you so much
1. Become uninterested
2. Change your Mind
3. Be indifferent to Rejection
Become uninterested in what people think about you*
Thankyou
thx
4. have a warrior mentality
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Eléonora Oxa please keep making videos like this!
A month ago my friend showed me the book womens magic truths on borlest, that book is the best thing I've read and it helped me a lot with my confidence, my huge recommendations!
Thank you
my notes: how to be magnetic
1. become uninterested of what they think about me.
2. change my mind. i can do anything i want, change your mindset. invest to yourself esp your mind and perpective of life. be so focused on improving yourself and yourself only.
3. don't be afraid of rejections. what they say about me is projection of them.
4. have a warrior mentality.
One of the things that will FLAT OUT make you the most attractive is:
Focusing on your purpose. If you focus on building yourself up, your physique, your career. your money, you knowledge, it is very hard to not be attracted to that.
Think about when someone you like texts you, we think "I shouldn't text them right away so I don't come off as too needy..." Well, the opposite of this, is when you're GENUINELY too busy building yourself that you cannot get back to them right away. THAT, is the secret.
This is such a wise thought ❤👌
Attractive. A ra t in a rat maze.
Isnt that all competition
And make u flat inside
I didn’t realize how insecure people were until I started to step in my own power. It truly is rare.
I was raised my whole life by my mother to care about what people think about me (especially as a female). She always said “omg what are people going to say about you if they hear about this or that” “go hear what people are talking about you”. There was a stage in my life where I listened to her, and everything I did was centered around worrying what people will say. I COULDNT LIVE MY LIFE! I developed anxiety from it. I became that sick of it that I said enough is enough, doesn’t matter what people have to say. I’m still learning to break out of the toxic mindset my mother has raised me with, but I have come such a long way. It feels like I have broken out of chains.
To those struggling with the same thing, you got this ❤️
My mother raised me like that and she still behaves like that. She’s like a slave to her own fears, but doesn’t want to change that.
@@PatrickDani my mother is still like this too. Yeah I know right, my mother lives in constant fear too and wants me to have the same mindset as her. My goal is to move out soon, I can’t handle the negativity from her end.
I do feel the same ,
Same
My mom and grandma are like that to me too. I’m just too stubborn to follow what they said and I’m not timid either. They resorted to saying ‘no man will find u desirable, u will be single forever’ hah my husband found me independent and challenging 😂
0:18 become uninterested but have control. Whenever someone says something about you, instead of just 'ignoring' it you should actually reply to it. reply to it and ask them why they said it, have a reality check conversation because remember sometimes you could also be wrong and misunderstandings could be solved.
moreover, standing up for yourself would make you a even happier and confident person. dont let them think that its okay to disrespect you in any aspect. Remember, if they said it once, they'll say it again and all the people around too will be influenced.
in a nutshell: dont let anyone disrespect you.
I used to have that same misconception, but I feel like while yes you can be wrong, you should develop the mind to self reflect on your behavior instead of inviting in other people's negativity because these people are only expressing their upset and dragging you down to feel their negative feelings (and even if you were in the wrong, it's still not your emotion to take on).
they are likely not genuinely wanting you to improve your life and reach your goals (only you can root for yourself genuinely) or they might not be on the same sel improvement journey you are and just want to drag out an argument; if you feel you did something wrong, simply apologize and move on.
Because when you are TRULY on a self improvement journey, you are in your own lane and not actually harming others because you are self focused, so if people have a problem, it's most of the time a them problem.
If you want to be a better person, self reflect. But if you don't want to be disrespected, don't allow people to think there is an opening for it, that they can make you feel sorry or can talk with you negatively at all. They don't have access to you, period.
Bad outcome, They’ll either keep going on saying the hurtful things because they couldn’t care less about your feelings or they’d say “it’s just a joke”
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@@jnsvx then you should drop the person from your life. don’t let people who bring you down continue to be in your life especially if it is a mutual friend, or tell them that the “joke” was disrespectful and that they shouldn’t speak to you like that ever again. it sounds really firm but you can say what works best for the situation you are in.
@@joannax9636 good advice, thank you:)
I just have to say I really love the fact she doesn't go off on side tangents and STRAIGHT to the point. You put everything so simply I didn't lose focus a second. The first part about not caring what others think is so important
It’s crazy how this video found me when I needed it the most
omg same
3:20 remember guys, dont fully isolate yourself as it can be dangerous on some unhealthy levels. now what i mean by that is, its okay if you want some time off people but remember to like do little things like 'walking in a park' or something as simple as 'painting' etc for a change.
i isolated myself 2 years ago and i still have effects from it. im still working on myself. hope u have a great day.
I isolated almost 6 years!!! I trained my brain well how to survive without anyone in this world!! I read lots of books watching CZcams and go to work!
@@Gain714 it depends from a person to person. if someone here is in their early 20's, creating new connections is a gateway to new opportunities.
She's the kind of energy I want to surround myself with all time. She's simply motivating !
Yes. I agree.
When a person is at a point where they are taking a leap of faith to transform any aspect of their life, sometimes it can feel like they're fooling themselves. It is content like this that make you feel supported and understood. Thank you queen❤ you're appreciated from this side😊
Thank you!!!♥
This! So well put my thoughts exactly, now subscribed
Yes Eleonora! This is great advice for the people!
Keep shining your light! 🥰🙏🏼❤️✨✨
she should heal her very very deep wounds shes not aware of!(im a healer)..
🥶🥶🥶Master's baddie material gworl character arc💯💯💯💯
The name itself is shining Eleanora
@@abrahamhadish2610 what??
@@magneticpraiseLMFAO
Since past few weeks I had been into transforming myself from being an overthinker and procrastinator and was literally amazed to get this video's recommendation as these habits are exactly what I have analyzed and indulged into myself and now life seems to be more productive and is giving me what i deserve..😊😊
literally happened to me
May I ask what did you do to get like this? Ik trying to develop those habits as well. What are your tips?"
Same thing for me I just applied for a new job because the one I have now is not good for me. So I'm about to send my two weeks notice. I'll sign up for the gym too and try to be healthier. I really want to feel more confident
🌺 “Don't follow the crowd, let the crowd follow you.” 🌺💐🌺
I really needed to hear these words. So grateful to have found this video!
girl you just killed all my insecurities .dont know why i was feeling so low today and your video popped into my suggestion from last three days but today i saw this video and really felt so confident.
love you from deepth of my heart❤❤❤❤
Congratulations love on reaching a bigger audience!
I started watching you towards the beginning of your videos, subscribed immediately because I resonated with your messages.
Thank you for this one!! 💓
You really put my thoughts into words perfectly!
It’s best to stay neutral in this world & grateful in my opinion.
Wow! I am going to listen to this again and again! In fact, I am going to turn her words into actions in my own life. Bravo! Powerful, direct, and well said! Thank you!
the getting used to saying no, and that everyone is insecure part is so true.
I used to look at these girls who seemed to be so confident and magnetic and observe them closely, observe what made them whom they are. I even became close to one of them, and one thing I realised that even the most confident-seeming people can be the most insecure ones, and I couldn't have realised this without becoming confident myself and then noticing the tells in others.
You are what I want to be . I resonate to what you are saying but can’t help but care and it breaks me so much thank you so much for making this video , I am going through a major breakdown right now and glad that someone is there strong enough to get pass through and thrive .
Life is abundant, without worry, God is giving situations for you to be stronger. Pray, visualise, work
The presence of this video on my homepage alone was magnetic, I wanted to scroll, I highlighted over the video with my mouse and I just felt so compelled to watch, which never happens with me lol. It's because of your natural energy. Thank you
I was actually feeling very low these days thinking that I haven't done enough, comparing myself to others, undermining myself, and feeling underconfident but all of a sudden I stumbled across this video and I could tell that my mindset has completely changed, I need to accept the reality and work on myself rather than just sitting and overthinking about the past occurrences, there's so much to do in life so we shouldn't just cage ourself just because we have a fear of what people might think about us, thank you so much for this video!
Thank you for sharing. I am not afraid of “no” of others of anything!!
Best video ever.. this reminds me I'm not the only one facing the same issues. Very needed video for myself. Thank YOU!! 😊
Good work Elenora. For sure, stay positive, detach from the negative, make good choices, and the rest will follow. Have a nice week.
This is exactly what I needed to hear. The way you spoke was like you were speaking directly to me
Stand guard at the door of your mind.” Whatever information you're feeding your mind on a daily basis, whatever you focus upon consistently, you're going to experience as real - Jim Rohn
What a great video, straight to the point, no unnecessary blabla. Love that! 😍
as a person who has anxiety this is going to be difficult but i will try my best. thank you so much
Hey, I make similar content, I would be very glad to see you on my channel, thank you🌸
Queen mindset 👑 thank you for sharing this valuable information with us💗💗💗💗
Why is this channel underrated?? i love what you are doing here i hope i can grow along with you and this little community that you are creating.
Thank you so so much for this 😊 i have definitely developed more self love than ever but it is also going to be a beautiful journey for me and everyone who's watched this
Advice from a sage 17-year-old. What she fails to tell you is that if you already are an asshat, then not caring and ignoring criticism will only make things worse.
Finding your videos was a total blessing
Thank you for this video! I feel exactly the same way.
This is amazing!! Such great information thank you🙌🏼 such a great flow in this video, very inspiring!
I really like her vibe she’s so calm and confident🤩
it takes me lots of years to thrive and reach this point. But i never give up. Start to read, listen to podcast, watch videos and now i understand every single thing of what you said!
Thankyou so much. I needed to hear this today.
you are so pretty! you have such a pretty energy, thank you for your words
been feeling low this week then had a gut to stopped by this video. my vision changed. this empowered me. Thank you!
Doing my best to ignore my toxic grandmother and other toxic family. And staying away and not letting them stop me. And constantly working on my mindset and working towards my goals and it’s so fun and you have good advice
it’s FUN !! i love that so much! it’s thrilling and exciting to be yourself and protect your peace
Proud of you
This video just ignited something in me, thank you for sharing your knowledge
You are so amazing, thank you from the bottom of my heart Eléonora ❤
you explained it so well that i was even taking notes. you are like a big sister to me from now on which i never had
Thank you my love
Same same
Those advices is exactly what I wanted to hear I mean just keep going I am sure u help so many ppl just like ur words do to me❤❤❤ much love ❤
This video is a masterpiece, first time here, and I already love it!!! The car background is such a vibe. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us
Thanks girl for making this type of content ❤
Damn this girl is so on point with her mindset, respect! Also very beautiful.
this was so good. love ur energy, thank u
You just created a breaktrough in my inner core. Thank you so much!
Omg Eleonora!!! I just came across your content and I feel so grateful ahhh I LOVE this video. Such inspiring habits here, definitely going to start incorporating them into my life :)) So much of what you're sharing here reminds me Superhuman meditations that I started using recently after a friend showed it to me. It's a really cool concept - multi tasking meditations helping you tap in to your ultimate self and manifest your future. Sooo applicable to magnetizing your energy. Can't help but share b/c I feel like you'd love it haha :)) it's been a game changer for me! So excited to explore all of your content x
I needed to hear this. Thank you.
Damn, honey. Mind blown 🤯 This has been on my watch later playlist for awhile. Happy I listened to you right before ‘24 starts. Keep up the good work, rockstar 🌟
Truly appreciate you for sharing this with us 🦋🌹
I must say, you are not only smart but beautiful too. Thank you for sharing.
Wow. This video somehow answered a lot of questions to things that have been bothering me. I honestly just got filled with confidence and relief. Thank you so much!
Love this message!
it felt like you told what i am going through and went through, it seems so relatable and i was feeling like i am the only one feels like this. thanks for showing up.
So glad it helped, thank you!
✨There’s nothing more peaceful than connecting with your own soul…it’s the most powerful relationship you will ever have
You're words really helped!! I appreciate your efforts
Your awesome girly, and you have a great mindset, keep up the good work, you’ll go far.❤💯🙏✨
lovely ❤
I never ever seen this type of confident videos.
Thank you very much
Your speech game absolutely smacks, 😂🎉❤
Always make your CZcams explore positive with these videos.
thank you so much, we all needed to hear this❤
okay wow. Thank you so much for the reminder
The instant urge to follow every time I see a channel like yours 💜
Thank you❤️ You video found me at the best time
I've been so used to being told no in life that now when someone says 'no, you can't do it' to me, it becomes a sort of challenge, and one that I'm winning more that I take it on.
Thank you Girl! ❤ Every word spoken in this vid is what I needed to hear
Hey, I make similar content, I would be very glad to see you on my channel, thank you🌸
Its si true, if i really think and focused about myself, there are so much things i need to work on
bae you are stunning! and your mindset is js everything!
Watching this I realized I already had this mentality but not the confidence. I was always doubting myself but this made me realize that I am already a good chunck of the way to where and who I wanna be
Same here, we know what is true and we got this ❤
I LOVE THIS . THANK YOU SO MUCH SISTER
OMG I love the msg!! Ur right on point. U r not only pretty but also intelligent, confident, and strong! U represent all the pretty girls with intelligence. Just subbed. Calling all the pretty, confident girls to help blow up this channel!
ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS!
Thankyou so much girll for this amazing video ❤
I love you too❤️
Thankyou🙏🏻
It was much needed.
Thank you Sis for inspiring us❤
Thank you Universe for gave me this video to watching❤
And I also thanking for myself for always choosing better things for me❤💫
Ooh I just found your video and I'm loving it already, also you're so pretty! 🌸
Thank you for this. It meant so much!
Thank you for this!
this reminds me of wizard liz so much like the exact same everything
I think what reminds you of something is her beauty and brain
THANKS FOR THIS AMAZING VIDEO! 😆✨💗🫶
i missed your videos!Love the advice u give!
"how can you be interested in what people are saying about you rn if you are already working on becoming the next version of yourself" this.
I like the idea of collecting rejections . That is powerful 🙌
Pop the frick off. You’re so strong. Thank you for the motivation, so much love!
CZcams plz recommend me more videos like this about how to be social magnetic, and confident!!
This is the confidence I want and hence I will get.
I clicked on this video because you are actually magnetic and i trust to take advice from you
I watch this video like 3 times a day i need it!
Im atcually doing a course about this things and I really appreciate ppl that talk about this things. tysm u are an inspiration to all of us❤
You are brilliant. Thank you for this video. You make a lot of sense.
Thank you i really need this ❤