Leading a Double Life
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- čas přidán 27. 08. 2024
- The plaintiff says she dated the plaintiff for years but then discovered he had been living a double life. She’s suing her ex for a cell phone bill. The defendant, who is now engaged to someone else, says the plaintiff is just jealous that he’s moved on, and she’s even keeping their children from him. #JudgeMathis #RealityTV #Court
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How is a grown woman accepting a promise ring from a man who doesn't work? These women are acting like this over him? Ladies, you can definitely do better than this 🗑
BECAUSE HE WHITE, AND SHE THINK HE DIFFERENT THAN BLACK MEN! ROFL!
@@GunPlay.Veteran
Yep....you nailed it!👈🏾
Exactly. Judge Mathis was right..he doesn't have that much game. These women were desperate and foolish.
@@mrshappilymarried1 BLACK FEMALES DESPERATE FOR A WHITE DUDE… 🤦♂️
@@GunPlay.Veteran sad but true ! Black people are God's chosen and black men were made in the image of God ! I'd rather date a black man who is trying rather than a broke white guy ! My preference!
Judge Mathis low-key trying to wake these sistas up to this
conniving devil
Parenting, or the lack there of
Thankkk youu
@LORD KHANAN AMUN Exactly. If he happens to begin doing better for himself, more than likely, he will no longer deal with the sistas. That is how it usually goes. Sad, but true. Just my opinion, though.
Right?! The defendant clearly has a “type” and these women fell for the okey-doke.
That part but the media try to portray minority as lazy unwilling to work be faithful etc foh. She a goofy
“He dont look like he got game” 😂😂😂
He obviously does...
Lowest selfesteem is clearly present
Why is the new woman smiling? You got this slimy, bummy dude.
Right! Bum cant even pay a phone bill..runs off on the mother of his kids and she's sitting there like she won a prize...smh..
@@Shellygrrl2573, so pathetic this is.
1,000,000,000%
I was thinking the same thing! Like why are you smiling when you’re being played at the current moment too???
@@Shellygrrl2573 she's probably taken care of him.
The more she spoke, the more red those flags started turning...a prior felon sitting at home,tryna finesse on POF to survive cuz he can't get a legit job with his record...AND NOW he thinks somebody jealous that he's bamboozled a new victim. 🤦🏾♀️😬
What an accurate summary...
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Yup
Sista girl say it again…
You look too young to even know this but excellent observation
The new woman should be very concerned
Facts, his character is trash. She should proceed with caution.
Of course she won’t be; she probably thinks she’s different and he won’t do her that way.
SERIOUSLY though.
Give other girl the same ring??
YO. It's HOT
Isn't it crazy how they never are though? They always think they won some great prize. If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you. /sigh No shortage of young, inexperienced, trusting women though...more's the pity...smh...
Yes. Very concerned. You know how the johnny come lately thinks they've struck gold and diamonds. He's not the grand prize.
When I was a teen there was a saying “A promise ring 💍 means I PROMISE I will never marry you”. I would never accept a promise ring as a grown azz woman.
I know thats right
Period
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4 23rd
Lol
His new fiancé should wise up, if he cheated on the mother of his kids, he will cheat on you too.
Girl you play silly games you win silly prizes. “I let him stay at home while I worked. “ He’s broke , cheats and is disrespectful?!? Pick a struggle! 😒
And don't forget the felonies!
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@@Kai-fl7jp 🤣
@@msknich0le 🤷🏾♀😂
Lol
The new one thinks she's winning too... nope... been there done that.
Men are always talking about how insecure or crazy a woman is but that same man has given them a reason to act in such ways by being unfaithful.. And to add insult to injury he strung her along with a promise ring...he knew she was "insecure" and would stay. ..smh so in other words he took advantage of her vulnerability...even though she allowed this man to do the things he did...and sad thing about it is the children being caught in the middle she needs to let go of that man clearly he has moved on and will do the same thing to the next woman she should consider this a blessing. .
YEP! 100%!!
TRUTH
I’d have to say she strung herself along. If it was marriage she wanted, then why accept to promise ring? Great points otherwise.
Don't necessarily have to get married, just be happy 😊
Low value woman attracts a low value man; then complains when he behaves like a low value man.
The old woman and the new woman look like sisters.
Some women are so desperate. I am single and go on dates if I want to but I love my peace of mind.
Amen
Same here😁🙏
Yes!! I tell ppl im single not b'cuz i wanna b, b'cuz i have 2 b! These fools out here aint about nothen. Really sad.. They will tear u down & dont care..And got the nerve 2 get mad when u dont wanna b bothered with their dumb foolish mess. Jesus is my Man! BOOM..💃
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It always surprises how some women easily date and fight over bums. No job, jail bird, cheater... let that 🗑go.
Absolutely 🗑
Facts!
They even pay their man's child support and fines ... Just to say "I got a man" more like a pair of britches. Desperate! Know your worth ladies
Exactly
@Jacki P possible
Example of a guy that’s looking for who he really wants, while taking up someone else’s time! Bum
He used the plaintiff as a stepping stone to be in a better position when someone he really wanted came along.
Sometimes people lead you on as a place holder.
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Yes
The plaintiff didn’t give me jealous, bitter vibes at all!
Right
More like dumbfounded
The plaintiff seems hip, fun and very attractive so she should just be grateful he didn’t take her youth with him cause ole dude looks like his days (and hairline) are numbered
Ahahahahaha WORD!!!!
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This case was disturbing on many levels 😳
No disrespect but a promise ring after four years? Sounds like she was a placeholder. I pray she has healed from this.
Lol. Promise rings are for high school kids. A good woman will make a man want to get his sh*t together. I know mine did and that’s why I put a ring on her finger. Guy is a straight bum.
@@jamescash887 thank you
I bet he doesn't pay child support. He seems like he wouldnt, only if the court made him. He's a sorry man!!!!!!
My thoughts as well; I’m sorry to say that but based upon on what the case shows, he has shown himself to be less than desirable. I’m wondering what kind of game he placed on both of them to be honest; he was with one woman for 4 years and engaged to fiancée within 3 months. Make it make sense 🤦🏾♀️.
@@ifym5455 He met them on dating sites where he could limit his search to black women seeking white men.
White men cant jump, but they sure can 🤳🏻
TRIFLING!
Even if he’s made to I don’t understand why someone thinks they can get visitation but not pay child support.
So many desperate women out there, a man should pay for where he lay his head.
Right
That part
Goes both ways
Facts true.
Goes both ways
"I took over the role of being the provider". That was a big mistake. If he can't provide, he has to 🗣📣 GO! When men can't provide, they start to resent the "providing" woman. They then cheat and/or leave to be with another woman that doesn't have that "image" of him. It's his way of not feeling like a bum anymore and soothing his ego. The cycle repeats until he helps HIMSELF, smh
I think that’s bs without context. Wonder where you got your phycology degree from? Bitter Woman University? Men go through crap just like women. Also he may be going to school getting a certification or having medical complications same crap women deal with. Now if he’s simply sitting at home with no ambition that’s a whole another story.
@@biggboi3932 did you watch the case? This guy obviously wasn't working on bettering himself. It's one thing if the guy is going to school to become a better provider for the family, and in a lot of households today both men and women have to work, but I would not allow a man to sit on his tail while I'm going out providing for the family. I am a traditional woman, not a feminist, and I don't buy the crap that I'm supposed to financially take care of a man.
@@serious7179 you made a general statement not specifically about him but men in general. Now you are directing at this guy. Two entirely different statements. You can’t say what you said without knowing the variables of a specific relationship.
@@serious7179 furthermore if one parent has to stay at home to take care of kids or say decides to law school or medical school why can’t it be the man or the woman. If one carrying the load for a time period stands to make the couple more financially set in the long run why not. But no adult should take care of any adult just so that adult can do nothing. Not just men
@@biggboi3932 well, I believe in biblical principles. If you don't, that's a whole another story, but if you do, then you know that per the scriptures, a man is supposed to financially take care of his household while a woman is supposed to take care of the household business affairs. They both work together, just differently. I did not use two statements to apply to this man. This guy is obviously a felon who is used to sitting around. Yes, he may take care of the children, but that role is way out of whack for a man traditionally, and it's bound to build up resentment like the original commenter stated, unless it's some type of new age man who doesn't care that a woman has control over him financially. Now if both parties work, of course both parties need to take care of the home and household responsibilities, but if that man is not trying to better himself through education or training or if he's not disabled, he should be trying to get a job.
His new woman earns a higher salary than his ex, I’d bet $ ! Foolish, desperate women on both ends smh
Are these women crazy? Look at this man...it's unreal they would BOTH allow this fool to play them. It must be real bad in these dating streets...
It is 😭😭😭 Lol, but I rather be single then sign-up for a headache.
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it is
Times are tough 😭😭
Ladies this is why you don't hold a man down. You build them for a woman they really want.
Imma remember that. Thank you.
He still isn’t built 😂 he just found his next victim that only applies when he’s doing something with himself & has something to offer
Lies, Lol
Why is the new woman with him? She don't see his pattern?? Desperation
Her ego is stoked.
Nor does any of them realize that they are a fetish to them. Any time a saltine gets with sista, after sista, and not one of their own, that is a sign that massa wants a bed warmer like his ancestors liked to have on the side.
Massage syndrome fantasy
True but he’s working with her
That man pursued her and that other women to straight up use them.
- hope his new fiance is taking notes ....
She doesn't care, she has her man.
@@k.m512 sure isnt. Trying to act like he cares about seeing his kids when the judge had to yell at him to stop talking about a phone and talk about his kids...smh.
@@dg1593 , Exactly! So desperate to have a man, some would take anything and anyone. So ridiculously sad.
@@k.m512 Touche
"40 hours a week"?...Sir, that's normal. You can tell lazy people with poor work habits.
40 hours a week is not working too much...😒
Judge Mathis and his love for calling someone a crackhead 😂😂😂😂
I feel bad for the new fiancee. He's nothing but trouble!
She's sitting there so smug.... run girl run!!!
she’s sitting there and knows this information, if she likes it I love it
I don’t. She’s got all the 🚩 and still being smug until it happens to her.
She's silly, I wouldn't even waste my time with that turkey...
@@londonblues7070 😂😂😂 I hadn’t seen/heard anyone get called a “turkey” in a long time. But you’re right
A promise ring??? After 4 years? Promise rings are for teenagers. After 19 we either engaged or not ain’t no half stepping.
Facts
She "considered herself his fiancé". Many 'fiancés' aren't really engaged to be married.
Even if she was withholding the children, if he really wanted to see them he would go get a court order. He just used that as an excuse smh
Tagged and plenty of fish ain't for everybody lol he pimpin these women
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Tried not to laugh at your comment but this do sound like some chat line bs lmao…. People be talking I found someone… hell naw
Ladies just don’t get it. A man KNOWS within the first few months if he wants to marry you. Stop wasting your good years being strung along by someone who merely sees you as a convenient time consumer🤷🏽♀️.
"He doesn't look like he got that type of game." 😂 How could the other woman married him knowing that he was cheating at the start of their relationship?
The way you get him will be the way you lose him
i’m a woman in my 50’s and i’m yet to meet a woman of any race that refuses to date a man based on his previous relationships or leave a man based on information someone told her about him. While it all sounds like everyone would do it, it typically doesn’t translate like that in reality. Just My observation…
The standards women except these days are weak. A man who is not self-sufficient reflects on the women's choice as well.
You picked him so you're as much to blame as he is. Shit is weak out here. If you can't stand on your own as a MAN then you shouldn't be in a relationship unless you're looking for someone to take care of you. Step up or step on! Both men and women! CHUUCH!
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Right
Why does the second woman looks just like the first one. All he did was replace her with her.
Right he has a type for sure!!
Lol
The ex must be a replacement of someone else too lmao
@@dbeloved02 his type is self hating black women
I'm sorry but these woman are what southerners called " simple". How the hell do you accept a proposal from a man you knew for 90 days? A person so quick to want access to you and your home usually doesn't have much on their own therfore has nothing to give you. And why the hell did you have children by an underemployed disabled cheating felon? The desperation is high. This kind of man will become your worse nightmare.
Some women out here will do anything to hold a man .they are so sorry! And they deserve whatever!! Bad example to the young ladies coming up out here!
The defendant is Mr a broke down Mr clean
It's her fault she played both roles and started to take care of him.
Don't take care of no man.
Some ppl need help at times...if you're in a relationship you help...my x lost his job to covid layoffs...I helped him...and he was my x...we were still platonic friends
@@imanjones3807 there is a different between helping a man and raising one.
Daily reminder Jesus loves you amen 🙏🏾
AMEN!
Thank you for the reminder...Amen🙏🏾
The most high only loves the children of Israel..
Amen
One ring, two ladies. That's the slickest game a dude ever played
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that new woman better run while she can, she probably found out what a loser he is in the court room
Let's hope so
She’s beautiful, this is sad.
Silly rabbits will never
learn.
She wanted a Zaddy and got played
"A person can hide a crack habit up to a year". lol...Judge Mathis on fire !
As a women who's been working since 14 now 40 wish I would let a man stay home... He can work any shift after I'm off
Sister's, the only "come up", comes from within. LOVE YOURSELF!🙏🏾🕊
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Very true
HE AINT EVEN GOOD LOOKING !!! Its giving desperate for a man vibes.
Yeah he should never have the choice between two women. He’s not cute and doesn’t work wth
Amen.
You're just jealous...
@@AnneOhn123 of what?
@@laranini9660 of the man doing what the old school women used to do.
Well why was he still trynna be on her phone line don’t matter if he was paying it 😒
He made a complete fool out of her for the longest. He gave the plaintiff a promise ring and didn't marry her. But yet he wants us to believe that he wasn't messing around with the new chick when he was engaged to her after 90 days. Dude was definitely messing around on the plaintiff for a while with her.
"Shes jealous, she's insecure" yet you didn't mind using her.. Ladies and gentlemen where's the prize🏆👀?
He not no prize
Judge Mathis doin good 😊 he ain’t mention crack til damn near 6 minutes in versus one 😂😂😂
He's got a type!
Lol me too only difference is I am in love with my “type” and she has a ring on her finger. Guy is a bum no matter who he is dating.
@@jamescash887 He may not be a bum. Maybe an opportunist. See these are women that may not be of value to men of their own race. Both of those women may have thought he was a come up. Both knew he was a felon, and they chose him anyway. He’s a prize to them so I’d have to disagree with you there.
@@tlr4974 or are just jaded on black men.
@@michellejohnson1298 not at all. I just see things a little differently.
Employed?
Saying that the gentleman has questionable judgement because he left his long-term relationship then quickly got engaged to someone else makes it sound like Judge Mathis is a heavy proponent of *loyalty.* I like that - me too!! I couldn't be so callous to someone who had my back the way she had his. No way! ⚖️
I think alot of people get in relationships just to say they have somebody. It's like the quality of their character doesn't matter. Repeat after me "It is ok to be alone".
Amen, to that statement, some people I think don't love themselves and hate being by themselves. They need to stop looking for love in all the wrong places, love self first.
When I was in Detroit, that was the norm. The workforce was pro-female. Women worked and guys were either looking for jobs or just agreed to stay home with the kids. That wasn't for me. I like working.
As a European this is crazy
It seems to be a black woman thing
@@pussygalore731 nah not a black women thing. We want working men out here .
He most Definitely got a type! 🧐
Yeah, seems to be women desperate for a man, ANY man no matter how much of a bum he is. The woman he with now got engaged to him after 3 months. That should tell you the type he seems to go for.
for all you people out there. if youre addicted on being in a relationship and think its ALWAYS gonna work and youll be happier. watch judge mathis show. Reality is gonna hit you hard lol. finding the "one" is like hitting the lottery. Once you find that "one" dont fk it up. be loyal and treat them the way you want to be treated. On top of that, that person is not gonna like 100 percent of the things you like so you have to respect thier hobbies and if thier hobbies are dangerous or things that will disrespect the relationship, then DIP!
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No one looks good in this case, new fiancé smiling wearing a ring he recycled. If the plaintiff was thinking she should have sued him for the ring, that was a gift and he took it.
Sued*
@@1don211 thank you
All these red flags. All these red flags!!
I stayed home while my wife worked and it was one of the hardest jobs I ever had. There was no "beer drinking and playing video games". For some reason there's a prejudice against a man running the household while the woman works. I heard it from my family, her family and now Judge Mathis!
people say women are equal until it's time to switch traditional roles in the home. The stay at home dad is generally looked on as being lazy, a bum, or a user.
Well, a lot of us Believe in traditional roles. Even though both partners may have to work since everything is getting so expensive, it is ideal if the husband provides and the wife is at home taking care of the home. It's ideal psychologically
Good for you. I was a stay at home mom for 3 years and will be again soon. It is the hardest but most rewarding jobs a person could do.
So you’re a beta.
Why I knew he was going to say she was jealous cuz she asked for her money
He's playing Sims. Yep, 2 girls with the same skin, with new physical attributes unlocked lol
Do you speak english?
@@AnneOhn123 Girl, get.
BECAUSE HE WHITE, AND THINK HE DIFFERENT THAN BLACK MEN! ROFL!
@@GunPlay.Veteran All men think the same...dosen't matter what colour.... fool!
Run from that caveman sista!
Right. I wish Black people would wake up and stop this interracial shit. I would never date outside my race as a Black Man Bae.
Run from any bum🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️
@@Poppa_Reed then start treating your women better and they won’t have to. This white guy didn’t get your women to 70% black babies born out of wedlock with no father in the home. The guy is a bum for sure but don’t be racist. Everyone has a choice on who they date.
@@jamescash887 My man. I treat my Wife like a Queen. And I respect every Black Woman i come in contact with. You can't blame me for the actions of others. You dont even know me kid. I can be racist all fuckin day. I dont approve of interracial relationships. What u gonna about it
@@Poppa_Reed lol internet tough guy I see 😂. Next, I never said you (you in a general sense) personally but I see you didn’t refute what I said. 70% of black kids are born out of wedlock with no father in the home. I have no problem with you disapproving of interracial relationships. I don’t care if you like my relationship or not. My point is, instead of worrying about mine and this guy’s relationship go focus on how to fix that 70% in your community. Again, people are adults and are free to do what they want. It’s 2021, better get used to seeing this because there is nothing you (and I mean you personally) can do to stop it. have a nice life. Btw, I treat my black “Queen” very well too…well her and my kids.
He don't look like he got that type of game 😂😂.
I can't with Judge Mathis he always find a way to bring crack into the subject lmbooo 😫😫😒🤣😂😂💀
He probably got some good stuff because AINT no way lmao
he's got white...
that's what got these two goofballs chasing over a loser
The moment a woman allows a healthy able-bodied man to stay home while she works....she becomes a clown 🤡 and he becomes a POS.
He definitely has a "type". 🤦🏾
Word
Employed?
When the swirl goes bad. He had her slaving at work, taking care of him, while he was sliding in other women. lol
It also happens with black love as well, the woman working and slaving while the man isn’t. And he continued to “swirl”
@@Price8903
Yeah, but the black man
learned it from the white man!
What is this swirl? It sounds stupid?
They can't blame the brothers on this one. LOL😂😂😂
HE WHITE, AND SHE THINK HE DIFFERENT THAN BLACK MEN! ROFL!
I hate when JM say don’t keep the kids away. What does this man have to offer his daughters. Look how they did their mother. He don’t work or have anything going on for himself. If he wanted them he would go to court. Keep him away.
No that’s bullsh*t. She should have thought about all that before she spread her thighs for this bum. Doesn’t matter if he is broke or not he still is their father. Unless he is abusing his kids he should be able to see them. I agree if she keeps using those kids as pawns then yes he should go to court. I am not going to excuse her bad behavior just because he is behaving badly.
@@jamescash887 or maybe he should’ve thought about her being crazy and jealous before he stuck his stuff in her. It’s called accountability. She opened her legs but the sperm came from him. He don’t want to be a dad. If he put as much effort into the kids as he do other women he might’ve been able to see them.
@@chitv0208 we have already established he is a bum. Lol. Who says he doesn’t want to be a dad? He said on national television he wants to see his kids and she won’t let him. She agreed with this statement so she is wrong for that. Cell phone bill, getting played, or a bad relationship has nothing to do with a man seeing his children. Using kids as pawns is low down. I agree with you he should go to court but it’s sad that people use their kids this way. This man could be a terrible boyfriend, husband, lover (whatever you want to call him) and still be a great dad. If he isn’t an abuser, rapist, or some other type of violent criminal there is no reasons she should be doing that. Seems to me she is doing it out of spite.
@@jamescash887 But he’s not a great dad. He said he want to see them. Not take care of them. He really happy she keeping them away so he don’t have to do anything and have an excuse. We see this time after time. All things could be handled by going to court
@@chitv0208 Thats what i said and this same man acted like my statement is crazy. The court is there to help ppl who wont let them see their kids. Sure it sucks to have the court in your business but if u get to see and take care of your children whats so wrong with that? Maybe its bc they dont want to have to pay child support? Thats what it really is..wanna have funtime but not pay for their clothes😶
She was doing too much for this man. And sit there so long without him marrying her.
Yeah I would been like ✌
Wow, she let him stay home while she went to work; that is a no-no Miss. Men are hunters, let him fend for himself because once they get on their feet, ground themselves, they move on to someone else, never save a man from hitting rock bottom. Never allow a man to come up off you ladies.
Chears: Sometimes you want to go where everybody knows your name. 😂
Judge Mathis always has to bring up crackheads in every case lol
She sound hurt and scornful
Ya think?
I must be missing something 👀 cuz I don’t see it with this guy.
That's okay, you aren't his type..
How does a man say she won't let me see "MY Kids"..thats a cop out
No disrespect but he don't even look that good. Maybe he's really nice or something we can't see. Just saying
He he he..You know that saying different strokes for different folks he he!!
He for sure got a type good for him no hate! And in the Solja Boi voice "Yearrrrr!!!!!!"
That's the only kind he can get lol. Agreed
@@amaj_lex I am lost but what “type” is that?
Brad turned out to be pookie😂
I'm tryna figure out what these women see in him🤔🥴
They will be back to see the judge to enforce the child support.
So they met on a dating site, he had felonies so she became the provider, had children by him and yet he still cheated 🤔 🤔🤔 oh boy! He had it made but sis got lucky because now he's someone else's headache.
And you can imagine what they both narrowed their searches to. White looking for black or black looking for white, that's the ONLY way he has ended up with 2 black women and they are both dumb for entertaining this bum.
I knew the crack was coming!!! Lmao love JM 🤣🤣
Me too I just didn't knew how he was gonna slip it in there 😆😆😆
It only took 6 minutes!!
'A person can hide their crack habit up to a year!' 😹😹😹😹 it's always about crack with the Judge😩😩
I love judge Mathis he such a comedian
I hate parents that brag about doing what she’s supposed to do as a parent 🤦🏽♂️🤡
Oh geesh!!! WTH would someone want with a man or a woman for that fact that doesn’t work and want to try and claim disability. A T-Total bummmmmm. And putting that other woman in her face. Smh please lady we have to do better!! That other woman sitting over there thinking she got a prize 🤣🤣🤣 the same way you get’em is the same way you lose’em🤣
He had time on his hands
Look at his new woman over there laughing when judge Mathis told the baby mama to be quiet she's such a nut🤣🤣
To be honest I couldn’t watch this after she confessed to work while he stayed home …… bye!
Ik like I would be left his wack ass
I see he likes chocolate.
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Who doesn't?
@@AnneOhn123 Right. I know I do
I haven't had a date since 2019.....I will sit home Friday nights watching reruns of "Rawhide" for the rest of my life before I put up with some foolishness like this. How desperate AREwomen????
Jesus Christ is the only way to heaven amen 🙏🏾
You said it! ❤️
Heaven or hell is right here on earth. We get to choose.
Nobody:
JM: are you a crackhead?