Trashing an Ex's Stuff
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- čas přidán 9. 03. 2022
- The plaintiff says she’s been friends with the defendant for 12 years, and they even dated on and off. She claims he has two large bins of arts and crafts items of hers and he’s refusing to return them, so she’s suing for the money for the items. The defendant says the plaintiff kept saying she would pick up the items but never did, so he tossed out the junk. He claims she’s only suing because he broke up with her.
Case: 31-220 - Zábava
Oh Chile when they say “TO MAKE A LONG STORY, Short” get ready for a long story 😂😂😂
Def me 😂😂😂😂 i say to make a long story short bout 3 times during the story
Chile? The country?
@@blynn2505 p
@@blynn2505 Don't torment yourself by watching this long story. Right ? Is that what you're saying?
Heck ya!
This is what happens when you let yourself be financially dependent on a relationship that you’ve been in for all of 5 seconds. I made the mistake of not being able to afford my living situation independently when divorce happened. Made that mistake yet again when I moved in with another person thinking the relationship was solid when it wasn’t. Never again. When my current husband and I had dated for almost 4 years before we moved in, I made sure I could afford the place and the utilities by myself because I wasn’t going to be in that situation ever again! We’ve been together going on 13 years and married almost 8. I still made sure our mortgage and bills in our house we bought would not be more than I could handle alone.
Smart!!
Smart
Congratulations
Shawna Kimberly Well I've been married for 20 years, been a stay at home mom for 17 years....I had to fight my husband to go back to work to help him with the bills...I can't afford this house by myself (this is our second house), but I'm not worried because I married the right person..... Perhaps it was the person you picked? I say that because men take pride in taking care of their women.....Just met a man who almost went bankrupt paying hundreds of thousands for his wife's cancer treatment, she was a stay at home wife...... Perhaps u chose wrong or perhaps the marriage failed because of you. We will never know because we don't have his side....All I know is, there is nothing wrong with depending on a man....if it's the right man for you.
Smart women! I experienced something somewhat similar. When I met my partner after 1 week of meeting we begin dating, we immediately clicked, things moved quite fast. After 2 weeks of us just dating he told me that he was in love. He asked me to move with him from my home state to N.C. He left first, 8 months later I followed. I left everything behind, and basically was dependent upon him financially. He told me that I didn't have to work and that he'd take care of me. He did exactly that! However, it came with a price. Things went from really good, to really bad. I literally became is housewife, tending to his every need, I had no identity anymore. I felt like my entire world begin to revolve only around him. He eventually started to mistreat me. We fought a lot. Instead of me leaving I still stayed but I begin making my own money and thriving. There was a shift in our relationship, which it took a lot of time for him to adjust To because he'd lost the control he'd previously had. We moved into another place together, And I did exactly what you did. Everything had to be affordable for me just in case we were to separate. I make my own money and can if anything fails independently succeed on my own. It's been 14 years and fortunately we are still together... No more fighting, no more issues, we are happy and he still pays all of the bills and takes care of home. I say that to say, no matter what always be in the position to financially support oneself because anything can happen.
“I started sleeping at my sister’s house, my best friend Amanda’s house, my name is Amanda too…”
Sis said she was gonna make a long story short, but gave us all the details! 😂
Lol right!? She made a long story even lomger😅
🤣🤣🤣 she appears very unstable
@@kirktaurean1616 YES, I BELIEVE SHE IS VERY UNSTABLE. I DON'T MEAN JUST IN HER HOUSING SITUATION EITHER. WOW, THIS WOMAN IS TRULY IN NEED OF MENTAL HEALTH HELP. FAST!
She seems like she lacks responsibility and accountability but she wont see it because of victim mentality...he uprooted us,he this and he that at some point you have to make decisions that is best for you and your child , don't depend on the good graces of others
So true
This is a perfect example of why friends should never decide to become lovers 💯
True.
She doesn’t pay rent and accuses him of making her child homeless. Uprooted her child for a man but it’s his fault. Poor kid.
THOUSANDS EXACTLY LIKE HER ARE ''RAISING'' KIDS, SCARY.
Who moves their daughter to another city for a man????
Someone looking for a free ride.
A tramp, that's who.
Right! I’m 50 and my mom would have whipped my behind. She wouldn’t let me shack with a man when I was in my 20s.
Right🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
They were grieving the loss of her brother and he was a close friend for years .
She seem very unstable. The daughter needs to live back with the older sister . yikes
She's unstable. Up and moved her and her child to where he lived, then sends daughter to aunt's house and then moved to help her child's father. Oweee!
She may be bi polar
How can she help anyone when she has no job or income & wasn't paying anything?
She thought she was gonna her a free ride with him
She’s from NJ so she actually moved back home
i feel TORTURED! listening to her rambling! he asked HER to help him?! she sounds like she needs help herself WOW!!
Me too. She was rambling and not saying anything. I was getting a headache thinking I would have to kick you out too
This case is upsetting. I can't tell which of the two is crazier, he gives off way more stable vibes but that facade isnt real! who turns off the power and heat on a 14 year old girl and her mother? that teen deserves better than the adults in her life.
The daughter moved out Jan 20 which was before the mother
Right!!
@@wong4fitz it doesn’t matter it still is inhumane to do someone like that lol
@@underworldchronicles11 it depends on the situation. Remember he wanted her out and turning off the power seemed like a last resort. I don't know the full story and may never know but there are some ppl that only respond to drastic measures.
Couldn't have said it better!!!
“Money is nothing.” Said the woman who thought she was going to get $3,000 for arts and crafts supplies. 🙄
Lmaoooooo
2 bins of stuff 😁😂!!!
When she talks about arts and crafts I can't help but think about a jar of macaroni she makes kids stuff from lol.
Sometimes I’m thankful I have a boring stable life
I agree 👍
Hilarious but true
Best comment & agreed! 😄
That's a fact 😹😹
99% boring with pops of non-dramatic fun is OK with me.
That's a tremendous loss to experience, but it seems as though she's always had poor judgment and been unwilling to take accountability for her choices placing that burden on others to ensure she's stable rather doing so herself
Agreed. So much for her "god" helping her out. This woman needs to get some serious professional help.
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@@vorpal22 what does her faith have to do with anything. People of all beliefs and moral standing make bad decisions 🙄
@@vorpal22God is going to deal with you!
That lady kept saying things about god. Vorpal22 was just repeating what the lady had said. I highly doubt vorpal22 meant any offense.
Everyone is talking about how crazy the mother is however no one knows how it is to lose a child. Be kind…
It’s tragic but that doesn’t give an excuse to being unstable for the other child that’s present
@@anayasdad81 people handle trauma differently nobody is perfect! Have you lost a child before?
@@anayasdad81 I have and I almost lost my life too! I wasn’t in the right frame of mind to be there 100% for my first child ! I was sick, angry , traumatized, in pain and depressed! I couldn’t take care of myself let alone take care of my child at that time. Until you been through it you can’t tell anyone how to do something.Some people can’t bounce back from it !
No one? Not a single person throughout human history but her? Girl bye
@@LoveHeatherHeadly not to be nosy & definitely not judging but what did you do with your other child when you weren’t able to care for that child at the time?
This lady needs therapy. Something is off. Wish her healing and light. 🙏
Chile a mess and you dragged a child into it.
The daughter is such acutie pie. I hope she can hold it together until she goes to college or is old enough to be on her own.
I thought the same thing. Learn from your mother’s mistakes. Never uproot your life for a man you are not married too.
@@merdynes I hope so too😢
The fact that this bastard would cut off all of the power is appalling particularly since there was a minor involved.
@@janetmccoy7945 exactly!
@@merdynes to*
Lessons in how to never answer the question. She really doesn't listen to what anyone else is saying at all, does she?
Poverty creates so much madness in folks lives.
Absolutely
💯😳
This is the comment!
When she was asked, why she didn’t call the police, her response broke my heart. IYKYK, that pain & trauma is very real for her and those in her community 💔
Which is dumb asf.. I'm never afraid to call the police
@N Frazier, The people in my community know how to call the police, wtf 🙄🤔
@@nikam4167 that great for you but clearly, you and I’s experience isn’t her experience.
@@manthony777 she didn’t say she didn’t know how to call the police.
Oh gimme a break!
"And she trippin if she thinks he's paying her 3 grand" 🤣🤣🤣 shiiiit I know that's right!
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Love when they post one at night 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
THIS LADY IS CLEARLY GOING THROUGH SOME SHIT
I hope she makes more art and is able to make a profit. Always keep your daughter safe! I wonder if she is getting counseling for the loss of her son😩
She was supposed to be there at 12:30-1:30, but supposedly called him after 1:30 to say she's on the way, a little late! 🤔👵🇺🇸
She hit every emotion. Happy, sad, angry. “Gods gonna get you Vinnie!”
The plaintive needs help she just goes wherever the wind blows. Her daughter sounds way more stable than her.
Lesson #1 don't pick up and move yourself with a child to a man's house that is not your husband. He would of had to put a ring on it first
Amen.
This is just stupid. Husbands do the exact same things to their wives and treat them even a lot worse than how this man treated her. Your perspective is very skewed in that regard!!
@@gongzilla527 your remark is even stupid sir. It doesn't matter the actions of a husband. A wife would be entitled to half of his belongings, spousal support, cars, house and even more dummy.
Girlfriend don't get shit but hard di#k and bubble gum. In her case she didn't get shit.
If she was his wife I can bet on your whole life she would of not left empty handed if the relationship ended. Now stop @ people if you don't know what the hell your talking about.
@@monicarichardson9895 or she would have ended up dead or missing or is it that I watch too much ID😐
It's funny how when they lose their case money no longer matters or they say it wasn't about the money... 🥴🥴
THE JUDGES HUSBAND SHOULD DO A CASE HE'S LIKEABLE
They said 12 years they had been friends. Seems more logical they were just acquaintances and through tragedy of loves one they thought the other could bring each other stability. Found out real quick compatibility needs to be work out before the other can. That’s why it’s important to date a person before moving in with them. Plus, never allow yourself at the mercy of someone else especially when you’re not only responsible for yourself but a young daughters. Her decision to leave what she knew to be with this guy in another state put her in this predicament. It was never made clear why he said he needed her so I’m wondering if her situation was the same in North Carolina and she never mentioned that. So I pass no judgments on these two. I just hope that both learned from this and they make better decisions from here in out. Especially for the plaintiff because she has a very beautiful daughter that has a long future ahead of her. Speaking from experience not from a place of judgement but since the day I learned I was pregnant with my daughter 17 years ago. Every decision I’ve made from that moment on has been for her betterment. Doing that and praying and following my heart things have always worked themselves out.
I do arts and crafts as well, and trust me it’s very soothing. Releases a lot of stress, and it did become a business I’m always making a bottle with matching wine glass set for someone’s occasion. Anyhow I feel for her because that stuff is very expensive, and I honestly feel like the judge is can be insensitive at times and nonchalant.
Yeah, not sure I agree with the ruling here. I didn't expect she'd get $3000, but I do believe she should have received something. Others have focused on her bad choices, which are certainly there, but I think he did make it difficult, if not impossible, for her to retrieve the items.
@@jaylee1012 definitely
She deserves 20 bucks for glitter she bought them liquor bottles to drink lol or found them lmaoo therapy is therapy being delusional is another lol
@@anayasdad81 unless you are an artist, you will never understand.
You may drink the contents of your eventual project, doesn't make it worthless
@@helenbutoyi3944 I am an artist. I have clients who pay me for commissions and I have work shown in galleries. I spent a ton of money on art supplies that are worth what they are worth, but unless she had gold in those two tubs, her arts and crafts supplies were not worth $3000. I have shelves and drawers full of clay, tools, armatures, etc., that I've collected over the years and 1) I wouldn't physically leave a house without taking it with me, and 2) I wouldn't ever try to claim that two bins' worth of it was worth $3000. Artist or not, that's ridiculous and unrealistic. Period. What a piece is worth to the artist is not what it is worth in actual money; otherwise, every piece I create would sell for a hundred grand because my pieces are priceless to me. Lol. The whole "unless you're an artist" thing doesn't fly here to justify her thinking two bins of craft supplies are worth that kind of money.
A U-Haul for a couple craft bins?!?!
Those eyes 👀
I wonder what kind of drugs the plaintiff was on?
“and she’s tripping if she thinks she’s gonna get him to pay”🥴🥴they hilarious with the intros !
"I don't deal with the cops" Well this is what not dealing with he cops gets you.....Then she crying, girl tears don't work on women! This lady is a hot mess, blaming everyone but herself.....and she stayed out all night and not paying any bills....I would have put her out too.
Girl that mess ain’t worth no 3k
That's WHAT I SAID 🤳💀🤣
Ahh her daughter is so beautiful ❤️
I hope this young lady does not continue her mother's cycle of instability....
No, you should hope that this young lady is not taken advantage of by a misogynistic narcissist
It's sad that it's always the children that suffer from their parents' instability.
@@hottuna2006 It doesn't strike me that the daughter is suffering. She appears very resilient. We obviously didn't get the whole story here
Never, ever, ever put yourself in a position where you are away from your home, and totally dependent on another person. This is the result.
“Then a miracle happened!” What a blessing! My mother in law got Alzheimer’s! My prayers were answered! 😃. - she sounds so happy about that woman’s misfortune…
Annoyed with plaintiff calling on God/Spirits to dish out revenge on this man!! 🙄
It speaks a lot to her character: pathetic.
Cognitive dissonance
Funny how everyone uses the same excuse. "The texts were on my other phone".
I still have my old phone
Her eyes are all over the place, like she spinning this as she goes! Her story is all over the place! 😕👵🇺🇸
No, you're all over the place
Must was trying to hold on to the lash
That’s what I said. She can’t even look in the camera.
Judge when am I getting my 5000 for emotional distress for listening to this mess!!!! she need...... help..... her daughter is pretty!
She hung out one night and he kicked her out, I’m willing to bet it was a lot more going on. If not he is a sad individual to do a mother and child like that.
He said that was all it took... staying out all night once. Seems like he's trash. He wanted things only done his way, and if you don't do it, he doesn't care anymore and you have to go. He threw a child and the mother out over 1 incident, which is screwed up.
Depends. I agree with him, IF she was going out for a bit and then just didn't come back until the next day. I wouldn't tolerate that either. But if it was planned ("My girls and I are going to the casino and staying the night, see you tomorrow"), that's something different, at least to me.
@@granitemoss1451 exactly , I think that he just knows what he'll tolerate. It only takes one time, there may have been other things adding to it but I'm sure that was the straw that broke the camel's back
@@dbabies82 Yes, that was heartless. How could you throw out someone over ONE time. It seems like he knew she had mental issues and took advantage. My wise WOMEN of my family ALWAYS told me do not put your stability in a man or anyone for that fact. My Dad not to discount him he was STRONGLY against shacking.
Praise God even though I did not listen to the advice above I shacked with my then boyfriend but soon turned in to my husband now of 22 years. All the houses we bought. You BET YOUR REAR END I AM ON THE DEED.
LADIES be present mentally and physically during business transactions.
@@dbabies82 nah he just not dealing with b.s. he don’t have to deal with that
Such a beautiful daughter
If a Cuckoo bird was a person 🥴
The plaintiff has tweeker tendencys... just my opinion. But her daughter is a doll and I hope for the next few teenage years she has stability!! 🙏
So, everyone in the comments is just going to gloss over the abuse/passive-aggressive actions of Defendant. Then, he blamed her for it. If he were serious, he would've evicted her properly. Instead, he forced her out using self-help. He's not innocent.
She's not a baby she's a grown ass woman she can and should take care of herself
Daughter is adorable!!!!😍😍😍
then a miracle happened, I got a place to live because someone else's life got worse. it's a miracle.
I feel bad for that child
She'll be fine.
This is why y’all don’t up and move for someone you hardly know or can’t get along with “against your better judgement” 🙄🙄
Hardly know? 12 years of friendship!
@@TreeABaby1 you don’t know someone till you live with them. And sometimes those we’ve known the longest also turn on us.
@@apoliticallevi 💯they should of made a contract or set the expectations of what is expected SMH🤦
@@payableondeath9091 most certainly!!!!
Why would she need to rent a U-Haul for a few tubs of crafts?
Whew 😬 I know he was happy to get rid of her 🤦🏿♀️ she has too much going on. He said he needed me so I moved my baby daddy said help with his mom so I moved. Lady get your own help yourself
I'll call the cops on anybody if I need too! She sounds unstable...hope she gets it together for her daughter's sake ....
To make a long story short my a$$. To make a long story even longer and tell you everything but what you asked to know. Adopted at six months, didn't match as lovers, duh fuq? This court not therapy.
....hehe - love your comment....I had to love that lady because she's so eccentric. She seemed harmless and the dude was butthurt because she cut off the intimacy....but then he told his side and I thought - yep, that's how it went down (she stayed out all night and he said - done!....and then she was sent to the living room so she vacuumed all night)
😂😂😂
This man reminds me of my uncle. They use women that are desperate. My uncle wears nice suits, goes to art galleries, even goes to the car shows. But uncle is broke and doesn’t even talk to his kids! He uses women that are older and ready to settle then use their cars and their money and then break up with them. The woman is crazy for bringing her child into something so quick but he’s just as wrong.
only women who allow themselves to be used are used by men
this woman wasnt used shes playing the victim card here
stop blaming men for bad decisions by dumb women
She is creative. Her art work with those bottles was beautiful. She sounds a little ADHD, or maybe bipolar. I hope she gets under a doctor's care.
Liquor bottles with glitter?! She sells crap like that?
Ms Gathers your summing up with Doug was 100%. You dodged a bullet. In his summoning up he kept referring to HIS house so clearly this patriarch intended you to be his conditional guest but not his partner. I hope you get back on your feet and can seed your art and craft business again. You have a beautiful daughter and you and her dad have done a great job of raising her. I wish you both every happiness in the future.
P.S. As a grown-up woman you stay out as late as you like and don't let any small nasty-minded man dare give you a curfew.
Ladies, make sure you have a little money of your own.....
and that’s not her dad😂
It was his house, she paid nothing towards it, she was a live in girlfriend. She can choose to stay out all night and he can choose to not have a girlfriend that stays out all night.
She cried out and tried to hit him with the okie doke, but exposed how she moves around. I'ma let that soak...
My next door neighbor owns an old school moving company - no contracts, no deposit, no insurance. And yet he is constantly breaking stuff!
$3000!!! for a few painted bottles with cheap lace and cheap beads on them, maybe she bought the bottles whilst they had alcohol in them so she's adding the cost of those to her arts and crafts lawsuit
Mama's a drama princess. 🙄🙄🙄
Caffeine is a drug too YALL 🤣💀
He scares me and I don’t know why…..
She seems to play the victim. ❤️ to all of you from Phoenix, Az
What
He seems like he has deep seated anger.
Mom daughter and little cousin lmaooooooo mannnnnn dismiss this now she horrible
Raggedy, raggedy, raggedy. Pray for the daughter.
This lady isn't dealing with a full deck.
BY LAW IF A PERSON STUFF IS IN THE PERSON HOUSE FOR 30 DAYS THEY HAVE THE RIGHT TO THROW IT OUT .
The way her eyes are wondering as if she’s lying 🤔
calling the cops wouldn't have meant he was going to get arrested (unless she got warrants)...you just needed an escort.
She's nuts.
14:47 - This is what got me though - People's Court folks cut to a bottle of wine.
Y’all see all those bugs crawling in the background?
Me either just thought it would be funny if so.
Who's out here taking Benzino to court over art supplies?
😂 Benzino
Glass bottles with junk on them ...lol
She has KRAYZEEE eyes
She needs to get her a job.
I feel sorry for the plaintiff's situation but I believe the defendant. Her excuses were all over the place. She could afford to go on a trip but not get her things that help make her income? She is too old to be dragging her child up and down the east coast. Why didn't her sister or older daughter take her in? I am sure they had a floor to sleep on. That said a lot for me.
Texas is fairly cheap, she could’ve been visiting family or friends and it could’ve been planned In advance, it isn’t completely out of left field as it seems she didn’t foresee this coming
@@lilpicnicattac9207 That may be the case. But like others pointed out, she does not make good decisions. Pre-planned or not, who chooses to go on a trip over finding a place to live? Trips can wait. Get your things and find a place for you and your child.
I believe her 100% . She might have issues however he yearned after her all those years. Once he got her out of his system and he couldn’t control her he showed his true colors. he knew she was attached to it tossed it to spite her.
Hand-crafted doesn't mean quality, and it doesn't mean it's valuable. She's a whole mess.
As are you
@Tiger Bandaid weirdo yourself bandaid. What kind of name is that
@Tiger Bandaid what a lame comment
@Tiger Bandaid 😂😂😂😂😂😂
This lady is bonkers and totally off her rocker
As are you
She's grieving and not in her right mind
@@myhunny2006 Thank you for your comment. Why are women so judgemental of other women? It's shameful
@Eirlys I will never understand it if we could just have empathy for one another
@@myhunny2006 ❤
😲😲okay wide eyes😲😲
I hope all live a healthy happy life.
lose to gain girllll💪🏽🎈 God got you just keep the faith!!
“To make a long story short” … damn episode is 20 mins long!!! 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
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"She was out all night." That's a good reason
It's so amusing when people unnecessarily bring religion into these cases.. especially when they lose
She CRAY.
She is so irresponsible. This whole thing was so avoidable. It's a shame. I know she can do better if she wanted.
3:55 While she's describing their relationship going downhill, he does this creepy smile and one of his tooth looks like it's loose and it could fall out any second.
I can't stress this enough. Guys, don't get involved with women who have kids, debt, no house, no car, no money and no job. Even better; if you have your ducks in a row; don't get involved with them at all. Concentrate on yourself and your hobbies
Y’all rather be with y’all homeboys then
@@dance4life1208 . Exactly; how do men ever benefit from paying off a woman's debt, paying her bills, looking after kids that are not his own, cavorting with damaged women who have slept with many men, have had many broken relationships, is from a broken home and is probably overweight with health problems and a bad attitude. This is what the vast majority nof women bring to the table. It is a waste of a good man's time.
He did do mean stuff To Her. He left the door open. He turned heat off. He deprived her of daily needs to make her move. Shame on him.
Her daughter is beautiful 😍
When you actually know the plaintiff in real life 🙀🙀🙀
Judge was wrong on that one because he clearly said he put her stuff in the hallway and wouldn’t let her in for the bins 🤔 he could’ve slid them out the door that same day
He didn't let he didn't let her in because she was acting irate.... She could have called the cops and problem solved yes she was afraid to call the cops but that was the solution to the problem and she didn't take it
@@Thebigdogg123 and he could’ve called the cops and slid her things outside the door. If she was being irate it’s probably because she wanted those things that were left inside … we don’t know if she was beating and kicking on the door or not … 🤷🏽♀️ my thing is that the judge didn’t take into account that she told him that same day about the two bins still inside. Maybe he was being a jerk and decided not to pass them out to her. 🤔
She cray lol