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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
  • The plaintiff says the defendant is his ex-girlfriend and she owes him money for a trip they were supposed to take. He claims they got into an argument and she bit him and he bit her back. They never went on the trip, so he’s suing for the cost. The defendant says the plaintiff is a hothead who pushed her to the ground and then stuck his fist in her face, so she bit him. She ended up getting a restraining order and says she owes him nothing. She’s countersuing for pain and suffering.
    Case: 31-201

Komentáře • 729

  • @majesticalmya4627
    @majesticalmya4627 Před 2 lety +186

    Ladies and gentleman. After the first sign of physical abuse, please leave.

    • @versatileduplicity9313
      @versatileduplicity9313 Před 2 lety +1

      Yo you’re goofy. No real man will ever allow a female to put his hands on him. And not another man either.

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 Před 2 lety

      Blacks on here are always talking about how Doug should get hit by somebody.

    • @suraceryan
      @suraceryan Před 2 lety +5

      @@versatileduplicity9313 Not true at all. Tons of real man can take a little smack or whatever from a woman. Obviously if some stranger woman attacks you yeah a man will defend himself. Or if a woman he’s dating actually punches or seriously attacks him yeah defend yourself. A real man doesn’t abuse a woman. Don’t be stupid.

    • @pisto30
      @pisto30 Před 2 lety +1

      @@suraceryan The guy's a gamer nerd that hates women. It's not hard to figure that out.

    • @pisto30
      @pisto30 Před 2 lety +4

      @@versatileduplicity9313 Says the incel. Go back to your PS4, sweetie. The grown-ups are talking.

  • @disaffectednarcmagnet2305
    @disaffectednarcmagnet2305 Před 2 lety +136

    I think he's very dangerous, there's something not right about him.

  • @sjenkins9362
    @sjenkins9362 Před 2 lety +56

    This is the perfect example of there are two sides to a story. He had this ‘she attacked me’ story but after hearing her side I was like yea he definitely was holding her against her will. She was trying to protect herself. The nerve of this guy!!

  • @shabazbaptiste688
    @shabazbaptiste688 Před 2 lety +141

    To everyone out there dating or in relationships. LEAVE as soon as your partner raises a hand to you! It will only get worse from there. DONT ignore the red flags. They eventually turn into full alarm blazes.

    • @sophiepires792
      @sophiepires792 Před 2 lety +4

      There is a LOT MORE that happens before they ever lay a finger on you.

    • @jc6800
      @jc6800 Před 2 lety +5

      I was messaging with a guy for no more than 2 days, when he immediately went into a tangent about how horrible his ex was and when I asked him a question about his life he said I sounded exactly like his ex. Safe to say I blocked immediately.

    • @tawtam1
      @tawtam1 Před 2 lety

      Even thought he said she hit him first? WOW...That's forgotten. We just take her word for it? Typical female.

    • @ruthstluc1325
      @ruthstluc1325 Před 2 lety +1

      @@tawtam1 you can’t tell he was lying, if I hit him first. He needs to gives details. Where? When? How? He was suing me. If i really hit him first that is something he won’t forget and he should stand firm on. And he didn’t, I know the truth. that “typical female” comment says a lot about you. Birds of feather, flock together !

    • @tawtam1
      @tawtam1 Před 2 lety

      @@ruthstluc1325 Do some research. Men tend to forget about things of this nature all of the time when women remember them more. You may think he is lying but you can't be 100% sure. I can't either that's why I don't choose a side. He didn't forget, he stated she hit him first. And allot of people get real nervous in court and have problems being as detailed and it's typically men. Women even when lying typically keep their same story. You can also look up that data as well. Bird's of a father???? Now you really showing your ignorance. But, you mad because I called you out for being biased. I have never hit a women in my life. However, I have taught my daughters to never raise their hands to hit a man and don't expect him to him them back. Everyone should keep their hands to themselves especially when you are mad. I do when it comes to my wife. Put what is typical are people who don't do the research when it comes to people and their personalities yet they are quick to judge others without knowing the entire situation. Women typically stick with other women when it comes to abuse rather it is true or not. And you can also find that data easy to look up. I am face driven and I believe if you can't be 100% sure then leave that out of the equation. She wasn't thinking of suing him until he sued her. And now it's so important for her to get paid for his abuse? I call BS.

  • @latoyiab79
    @latoyiab79 Před 2 lety +330

    The nerve of this guy. To come on television knowing he put his hands on her is pathetic.

    • @_carbon
      @_carbon Před 2 lety +10

      Embarrassment for a Man!

    • @TheRarestJewel
      @TheRarestJewel Před 2 lety +2

      You got other bitches teaching them they can abuse us and disrespect us because “ we deserve it”

    • @getin3949
      @getin3949 Před 2 lety +11

      So how are you supposed to deal with someone that is getting loud and possibly the neighbors will call the police? Was he just supposed to stand there and hope she quieted down? Sometimes I think this pushing thing is stupid and shouldn't be punishable. He didn't push her down on the floor, he pushed her onto the soft bed. She sounded a bit like a wild cat and then she bit him. Is he just supposed to sit and take it???? Shite laws we have.

    • @mcjs8640
      @mcjs8640 Před 2 lety +26

      @@getin3949 You walk away. Can't believe your excuses for his violence.

    • @carlenethomas4400
      @carlenethomas4400 Před 2 lety +7

      He needs to take anger management classes. He has a lot of growing up to do. REAL MEN DO NOT ASSAULT WOMEN!!

  • @a.konadu4010
    @a.konadu4010 Před 2 lety +19

    Girllll...you dodged a BULLET . Guy is CRAZYYYYYYY

  • @grizzlyg4008
    @grizzlyg4008 Před 2 lety +121

    Raise your standard. The way he showed up to court says everything about him.

    • @ShugaAnnSpyce
      @ShugaAnnSpyce Před 2 lety +10

      And he needs to be a better person.

    • @payableondeath9091
      @payableondeath9091 Před 2 lety +2

      mmmmmmmmhmmmmmm

    • @mthompson0508
      @mthompson0508 Před 2 lety +9

      Men like that obviously don't reveal to a woman their true degenerate nature from the start or they would never have anyone. It was over after he attacked her a few months in. I'm glad she left him because his violence would've continued to escalate.

    • @DavidKen878
      @DavidKen878 Před 2 lety +4

      @@mthompson0508 Duh. You're not going to let someone know you're a bad person the first time you meet them. That applies to everyone. Not just men like the defendant.

    • @krystingrant6292
      @krystingrant6292 Před 2 lety +1

      Says alot

  • @ruthstluc1325
    @ruthstluc1325 Před 2 lety +176

    Hey guys, thanks for all the positive feedback and advices. Therapy is always something needed And I’m definitely open to therapy. And due time the day with a therapist will come to help with the trauma. My last statement is what I wish I could back. Even though counter-suing for 1000, like yea I was trying to make a quick buck. I barely do social media, or just being social with anyone. I’m trying to work on that. But the fact that he brought me the show (I know I had a choice, my support system told me I should do it) it what I was really suing for. I honestly didn’t want to do it. It’s embarrassing.

    • @granitemoss1451
      @granitemoss1451 Před 2 lety +47

      Maybe seeing you here will help someone else take care of themself and get away from a violent relationship. I wish you the best in the future!

    • @TheCaitypooh
      @TheCaitypooh Před 2 lety +29

      You're a sweet young lady....please get therapy...it will help tremendously!

    • @sosiddity98
      @sosiddity98 Před 2 lety +27

      We all make mistakes. So glad you were able to get away from your mistake safely, I wish you good luck!

    • @lisvetspencer2332
      @lisvetspencer2332 Před 2 lety +27

      Don’t be embarrassed, like you said you’re growing older.
      You will be a voice for others

    • @nichellenunya
      @nichellenunya Před 2 lety +10

      May the Creator bless you and all aspects of your life (personal, professional and spiritual)

  • @BriannaTshelle
    @BriannaTshelle Před 2 lety +87

    He definitely has prior convictions or has had prior DV incidents

  • @HighMaintenanceMinimalist
    @HighMaintenanceMinimalist Před 2 lety +30

    She was alledgedly being so loud and disruptive that he decided to "hold her down" in stead of let her leave?? Sure bud.

  • @bridgote
    @bridgote Před 2 lety +17

    So proud of all these individuals that were strong enough to leave their abusive relationships. It’s not easy. She’s beautiful, by the way. 💪❤️

  • @KPbouj
    @KPbouj Před 2 lety +102

    The whole disagreement in between him and the judge about his name on the ticket told me all I need to know about him 😒

    • @nakela2
      @nakela2 Před 2 lety +9

      Exactly he used to people doing for him and just sitting on his ass. Who doesn't know to call and cancel a flight to get your money back. Idiot!

    • @sensual2kizz613
      @sensual2kizz613 Před 2 lety +1

      Products of the inner city youths with no guidance

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety +2

      @@sensual2kizz613 He is from the suburbs of Chicago.

  • @neeshapitts972
    @neeshapitts972 Před 2 lety +63

    The fact he thinks that’s not assault is appalling

  • @rowielee245
    @rowielee245 Před 2 lety +11

    SHE ATTACKDED ME ! This man makes me sick !!
    HE STIL CANT SEE WHERE HE HAS DONE WRONG !! DANGEROUS LITTLE MAN !!

  • @kaykepop4084
    @kaykepop4084 Před 2 lety +28

    Some people seriously need to stay single! 🙄 And this guy is the perfect example. I just pray he NEVER hurts someone.

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety +5

      He couldn't even hide his devil side. He was still blathering about what she promised after he abused her. She was trying to survive.

  • @suraceryan
    @suraceryan Před 2 lety +96

    I feel bad for that woman. She needs some counseling. I hope she gets better and seeks some help.

    • @kyoto32001
      @kyoto32001 Před 2 lety +1

      she started it. sis needs to chip in. she got what she deserved.

    • @audrey8208
      @audrey8208 Před 2 lety +6

      @@kyoto32001 It was her sister's birthday, maybe it was her present. But anyways, she didn't deserves to be bitten or punched just for a disagree. This is crazy

    • @I.am.Mrs.Mathers
      @I.am.Mrs.Mathers Před 2 lety +5

      @@kyoto32001 what is really good with your values when you are more concerned with the younger sister who’s bday gift was supposed to
      A GIFT 🎁. VS. him physically assaulting his girlfriend over being a cheapskate!?

  • @dbabies82
    @dbabies82 Před 2 lety +35

    If someone asks if I have been convicted for domestic violence before, I know I never hit someone, so my answer would be 'no, of course not.' He said he didn't know because he has beaten women before, and is unsure if they pressed charges without him knowing.
    Ladies... he's a women beater. Stay far away. It's going to happen. Seems like he can't control his anger. Don't be his punching bag.

    • @melosidhe779
      @melosidhe779 Před 2 lety +3

      Couldn't have said it better myself

    • @krystingrant6292
      @krystingrant6292 Před 2 lety +3

      Exactly he hesitated

    • @wallacesteelersws
      @wallacesteelersws Před 2 lety

      He might just have spent a lot of time in prison and when a woman starts acting like a man he treats them as such. I don’t know dude, but I’m in Atlanta. There are alot of dudes dressed like women. They like to act like men. Don’t be mad when you get hit back🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @Maya.6868
      @Maya.6868 Před rokem

      The judge always prepares the cases before the trial, it's easy for a judge to check if someone did commit a crime before. She knew the answer before she even asked the question, if he doesn't tell the truth it is very bad for him 😉Here in Canada all criminal files are public, my neighbour left her boyfriend and he was harassing and stalking her for months I went to the court house with her to see if he has criminal files (all you need is the name of the guy and his birthday) We found out that he has 4 criminal files (drug trafficking and domestic violence)

  • @herbwheeler4470
    @herbwheeler4470 Před 2 lety +72

    He explained his side of the story like a 10-year-old kid.

    • @manthony777
      @manthony777 Před 2 lety +1

      What's an air b&b ?

    • @herbwheeler4470
      @herbwheeler4470 Před 2 lety +4

      @Michael Anthony a device that projects little round objects typically made copper or steel. Lmao 🤣

    • @manthony777
      @manthony777 Před 2 lety +1

      @@herbwheeler4470 , ajajajajaja

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety +1

      It's called lying your ass off.

    • @MrsBryant1024
      @MrsBryant1024 Před 2 lety

      He's slow 🐌 😒

  • @Marie34694
    @Marie34694 Před 2 lety +36

    Speaking to him is like speaking to an 8 year old child.

    • @momonie4
      @momonie4 Před 2 lety +1

      That's an insult to the 8 year old child....He's beyond pathetic.

    • @wallacesteelersws
      @wallacesteelersws Před 2 lety

      This is somewhat true , but didn’t she choose him?

  • @blackout9519
    @blackout9519 Před 2 lety +6

    You can tell he was a creep when he glossed over the entire FIGHT

  • @michellevaughn7568
    @michellevaughn7568 Před 2 lety +101

    She needs to stop thinking she has it together because she is getting older and needs to get some survivor domestic violence counseling or she will end up in another abusive relationship. Abuse is not always physical. Sometimes it’s emotional and monetary

    • @BloodNote
      @BloodNote Před 2 lety +2

      Yes! People don't even realize there are many forms of abüse.

    • @ruthstluc1325
      @ruthstluc1325 Před 2 lety +4

      It’s not just because I’m getting older, I’ve been through things I don’t ever want to go through again. Which makes me wiser, with the help of God

    • @sophiepires792
      @sophiepires792 Před 2 lety +3

      Getting older is irrelevant. Why even say that?

    • @journeysalkebulan
      @journeysalkebulan Před 2 lety

      @@sophiepires792 exactly that comment she said about getting older was useless and just filler words to mean absolutely nothing!

    • @krystingrant6292
      @krystingrant6292 Před 2 lety

      Facts trauma can cause tia and strokes

  • @CWYounger10
    @CWYounger10 Před 2 lety +22

    Obviously, this man wanted to go to court so he can see his ex again. Bye sir! You cancelled and assaulted her then sued her. She better watch out and be careful.

  • @andilynn892
    @andilynn892 Před 2 lety +4

    I can't believe he actually brought this case in the first place. Dude is delirious

  • @wellthatsboring437
    @wellthatsboring437 Před 2 lety +12

    Clearly this guy doesn't have all his marbles.

  • @stressfree27
    @stressfree27 Před 2 lety +36

    I definitely believe her

    • @Nevaeh1
      @Nevaeh1 Před 2 lety +6

      she sounded like she was holding back tears

    • @payableondeath9091
      @payableondeath9091 Před 2 lety +3

      FIRST SIGN OF ABUSE 💥LEAVE ASAP🤮

  • @nancyverite1564
    @nancyverite1564 Před 2 lety +18

    He knew what he did to her and tried to gloss over it and tried to sue her? He's ridiculous.

    • @vorpal22
      @vorpal22 Před 2 lety +3

      You'd be surprised. People can delude themselves into believing all sorts of things.
      I wouldn't be shocked at all to think that he genuinely believes that he did not abuse her and that his actions were justified, even though they clearly were not.

    • @melosidhe779
      @melosidhe779 Před 2 lety +1

      Pretty sure he's of the mindset that she made him do it because she made him angry. He'll blame her for his lack of control. Pathetic

  • @LadycookieK0304
    @LadycookieK0304 Před 2 lety +5

    This man is completely insane to believe he is innocent. It's shocking that he had the audacity to bring this case to court.

  • @KennuhWayne
    @KennuhWayne Před 2 lety +6

    4:52 "Fool, did you just admit on national TV to biting a woman?!" -Douglas

  • @bobbleheadmoe
    @bobbleheadmoe Před 2 lety +47

    If he was on judge Mathis , whew ! Judge Mathis would have dragged him to filth

    • @blakbutterfli75
      @blakbutterfli75 Před 2 lety +1

      Judge Mathis is a SIMP and this judge is a Nazi Feminist. I feel sorry for ANY MAN that litigates in their courts.

    • @vorpal22
      @vorpal22 Před 2 lety +1

      @@blakbutterfli75 LOL Marilyn Milian is not a Nazi. Feminist, yes, but here's a little tip for you: most men are feminists, myself included.
      Why are you watching this if you dislike Judge Milian so much?
      I do agree that Mathis is a joke of a judge whose court show is just based on emotional nonsense instead of anything to do with the law.

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety +3

      @@blakbutterfli75 Your doctor called.

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100 Před 2 lety +10

    Judge Mathis would’ve awarded her 5k in pain and suffering and would’ve awarded him the $720 if he had a text message of her saying she would pay back. She should’ve taken this to Mathis

  • @celinas6261
    @celinas6261 Před 2 lety +85

    Glad the judge ruled this way!

  • @raquelfrazier3241
    @raquelfrazier3241 Před 2 lety +76

    Didn’t even get pass the first 27 seconds and I’m already finding in favor of the defendant 😭‼️

    • @Sunshine134chick
      @Sunshine134chick Před 2 lety +7

      Right he’s a clown 🤡 😂

    • @Queen_7774
      @Queen_7774 Před 2 lety +4

      Same!!! No solid details whatsoever!

    • @pamiam903
      @pamiam903 Před 2 lety +2

      He can’t even give the details of what happen.
      Which makes me wonder what she saw in him.

    • @DavidKen878
      @DavidKen878 Před 2 lety +1

      That's because all you heard was he put his hands on her.

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety +1

      @@pamiam903 It's hard when you're making it up as you go.

  • @cocodiva0213
    @cocodiva0213 Před 2 lety +15

    Was I the only one watching Douglas (the bailiff) face👀👀👀???? He was not feeling the plaintiff BS.

    • @LeolaGlamour
      @LeolaGlamour Před 2 lety +1

      Douglas is the bailiff.

    • @cocodiva0213
      @cocodiva0213 Před 2 lety

      @@LeolaGlamour I know it’s Douglas, I couldn’t think of it at the time 🥴

  • @Kaegoldddd
    @Kaegoldddd Před 2 lety +95

    Anyone else bothered by that one cabinet the defendant has open in the kitchen? 😫 But I’m glad she won at least something, he definitely didn’t deserve a dime after putting hands on her.

    • @lashundavis156
      @lashundavis156 Před 2 lety +14

      Yea things like that bother me too😂😂

    • @jaredlhulum
      @jaredlhulum Před 2 lety +8

      nah, you got problems if that is distracting

    • @sheisme2
      @sheisme2 Před 2 lety +9

      @@jaredlhulum False. YOU have problems.

    • @Kaegoldddd
      @Kaegoldddd Před 2 lety +4

      @@jaredlhulum all your cabinets must be opened.

    • @Thismomcan
      @Thismomcan Před 2 lety +8

      It’s burning me up I keep swiping my screen 😂 my OCD is at an ALL TIME HIGHHHH

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100 Před 2 lety +7

    I absolutely hate this innocent, soft voice he’s using!!

  • @shannonbrice8012
    @shannonbrice8012 Před 2 lety +75

    Soon as someone says "not that I know of" usually means there is something on their record. Most people would be like No, I have never been arrested. Soon as he said he bit her on her back there is NO WAY he was on top of her "just restraining her". He said he never 'assaulted her, just pushed her down".....that's assault.

    • @kkhaze
      @kkhaze Před 2 lety +3

      STRAIGHT FACTS 👌🏾💪🏾🤦🏾‍♀️🤔💯💯💯

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety +1

      The judge knew he was lying. Judge Mathis would have nailed him.

    • @elvickRULES
      @elvickRULES Před rokem

      Maybe not on record but he’s definitely done it before

  • @BobBlumenfeld
    @BobBlumenfeld Před 2 lety +50

    Judge Milian: "Have you been convicted of domestic violence in the past?"
    Defendant: "Well, not that I know of."
    Yeah, don't you just hate it when you've been convicted of something and no one tells you?

  • @talexander2302
    @talexander2302 Před 2 lety +5

    Gurl what did you see in this little boy...smh....his affect is completely off 😳 I hope she figures out why she is allowing men to mistreat and abuse her

    • @sophiepires792
      @sophiepires792 Před 2 lety +2

      Stop it. We need to figure out why men abuse women, and make them pay the consequences when they do. It is the men who need to be re-educated, not the women who fall victims to the abuser. They don't start out as abusers, they slowly groom you into accepting increasingly violent and controlling behaviour. She got out after only a few months. Good for her! It takes the average woman seven attempts to leave an abusive relationship. While men abuse women everywhere and in all walks of life, we also have to recognize how prevalent this is in the black community.

    • @sophiepires792
      @sophiepires792 Před 2 lety +3

      Also, women face the most violence and risk when they leave. Look at this fool, he is trying to get revenge because she left him.

  • @tellyfuller-payne8395
    @tellyfuller-payne8395 Před 2 lety +5

    I can’t believe that this poor excuse for a man had the audacity to sue her.

  • @mickeypoo305
    @mickeypoo305 Před 2 lety +3

    Yea. My ex tried to do this to me. I choked the mess out of him and ran out the apartment to our friends house. While I was at work, I told him he needed to be gone before I got home or else I’d call the cops on him. He was gone and so was my money and some other stuff he didn’t buy.

  • @SRT_DRE
    @SRT_DRE Před 2 lety +29

    This dude got shark teeth and tryna bite somebody 😂😭

  • @keturahsmith9647
    @keturahsmith9647 Před 2 lety +7

    Doug cracks me up u 😂😂🎉attacked her,
    “I didn’t attack her”
    “U bit her, u did attack her”

    • @vorpal22
      @vorpal22 Před 2 lety +2

      Doug is my least favourite part of this show ("Did you learn something? What did you learn? You must have learned something. Tell us what you learned!"), but sometimes his directness cutting through litigant bull is refreshing.

    • @keturahsmith9647
      @keturahsmith9647 Před 2 lety

      @@vorpal22 that’s true sometimes he makes me mad the way he asks questions

    • @vorpal22
      @vorpal22 Před 2 lety

      @@keturahsmith9647 Yeah. I mean, he has his hits and misses. I love it what he really puts a lying, trashy litigant in their place, but when he asks, "What have you learned?" and the litigant responds, "To never trust anybody," it's kind if not only sad but a bit annoying.
      I liked Curt better, but Doug has been on the show for so long now.

  • @honestynolie9284
    @honestynolie9284 Před 2 lety +15

    She dodged a bullet! DV cases can get ugly!

  • @annsayger5842
    @annsayger5842 Před 2 lety +32

    Ladies 👁️ remember this guy...
    Domestic violence is not pleasant.
    Big grown man beating up on a woman.

  • @I.am.Mrs.Mathers
    @I.am.Mrs.Mathers Před 2 lety +6

    It’s never ok for abuse to happen. This poor excuse for a man is a bum and should be ashamed of himself. Disgusting 🤮
    Girl, you are too beautiful to be dealing with abusive lame scrubs like this. Blessings to you

  • @dorthymcbride3384
    @dorthymcbride3384 Před 2 lety +16

    Children with disabilities should only be taught and cared for by an administration that has these qualities: compassion, consideration, empathy and the love and joy of their position to help guide these kids to an independent life to join society and flourish! All of the teachers who accomplishes this will always be blessed!!! Pay them well!!

  • @wrmmachne82
    @wrmmachne82 Před 2 lety +3

    Even if he was angry he should’ve kept his hands to himself. That’s assault. PERIOD.

  • @dwelanesepelle6842
    @dwelanesepelle6842 Před 2 lety +7

    Wait he talks like judge I pushed her down , I bit her back because she was moving . is he serious this is not his first time . Ladies this is unacceptable

  • @Sunshine134chick
    @Sunshine134chick Před 2 lety +42

    I believe shawty she gave a way better description than he did

    • @patim5953
      @patim5953 Před 2 lety +11

      When you tell the truth it comes out easy. When you lie and make up things as you go you stumble on your words. That was a perfect example of that saying

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety

      Lying make you fumble with the truth

    • @robertphillips2642
      @robertphillips2642 Před 2 lety

      Not

    • @tchildress6339
      @tchildress6339 Před 2 lety

      Phone in kitchen on charger, yet you heading out the door to work with out the phone. Where's the lie.

    • @krystingrant6292
      @krystingrant6292 Před 2 lety

      Exactly

  • @trinilovely860
    @trinilovely860 Před 2 lety +3

    This brought tears to my eyes.

  • @tonyrichardson5955
    @tonyrichardson5955 Před 2 lety +20

    She should have received the entire $1000.

  • @lisajohnson521
    @lisajohnson521 Před 2 lety +5

    "It hurted" LOL

  • @ayefo7800
    @ayefo7800 Před 2 lety +5

    Ladies....you see this man and run in the opposite direction!!!! There's a special place in Hell for these kinds of dudes.

  • @tonyrichardson5955
    @tonyrichardson5955 Před 2 lety +14

    Such a beautiful young lady. Any Man or Woman who's in an abusive relationship get out quickly otherwise you will loose your life.

  • @randyholloway920
    @randyholloway920 Před 2 lety +7

    That POS should be in jail.

  • @chrstphrmtthw16
    @chrstphrmtthw16 Před 2 lety +8

    Glad she won. May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind be always on your back.

  • @SimplyNina1
    @SimplyNina1 Před 2 lety +28

    This dude is crazy. Girl run and never look back. He's a joke for bringing her to court 🤣 this girl needs to be educated on self worth. Goodness.

    • @amyt3949
      @amyt3949 Před 2 lety +6

      How bout for once we educate the attacker and punish them; and understand that abuse is a complex issue that does indeed take away survivors self esteem making it harder to change. There is nothing funny about this kind of situation, just saying. I understand that you aren't condoning this guy, I just think its important to note the complexity of situations such as this. 🙏

    • @_carbon
      @_carbon Před 2 lety

      @@amyt3949 Shut up Amy!

    • @SimplyNina1
      @SimplyNina1 Před 2 lety +3

      @@amyt3949 well the court system is sending him to batteres intervention for treatment. Most of the time you do not know if a man will abuse a woman until he does 🤷🏽 I said to educate her because it's clear she's not receiving any form of treatment as to why she is choosing these type of men. I laughed not at the situation but at him for being a clown to think he could actually win a court case with his reasons for bringing her to court. It was being sarcastic.

    • @amyt3949
      @amyt3949 Před 2 lety +2

      @@SimplyNina1 You're right apologies, I'd read some real gross comments prior to yours, so missed the nuance in your reply. You make good points.

  • @andred7415
    @andred7415 Před 2 lety +6

    "He had too much aggression i wasnt about to be reasonable!" This guy is something else tho

  • @lovemii3kids
    @lovemii3kids Před 2 lety +13

    My guy you need to take responsibility for your actions. You beat that girl up. This is so sad

  • @miriamkivlehan3498
    @miriamkivlehan3498 Před 2 lety +6

    So the plaintiff is undertaking a 6 month battery programme because he DIDN'T assault his partner? Heads up.....if that's his conclusion THE PROGRAMME IS NOT WORKING!!!

    • @sophiepires792
      @sophiepires792 Před 2 lety +3

      Excellent point. He has absolutely no remorse and even takes HER to court! Absolutely disgusting with a total lack of empathy, and to top it all off, he is so cheap!

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety +1

      He got 6 months, because clearly this isn't his first time, which is why the judge asked him, to which he claimed he didn't know.

  • @WesleyLindsey
    @WesleyLindsey Před 2 lety +4

    it took me about a good sentence to realize that this man is SLOWWWW. She's way out of his league.

  • @ruthstluc1325
    @ruthstluc1325 Před 2 lety +18

    My true last statement, I’m traumatized but not by him. My first relationship traumatized me for what I’m hoping not but what it seem like is for life. I’m proud of myself for taking that step to call authorities. I’ve never done that, I don’t ever call police. I always feel like I can handle my handles by myself. I think I’m tough, and I guess with me being tough on saying my sister would not pay is what got him mad or whatever he got mad at, who knows he’s weird. I’m proud of myself. If you know, you know. If you don’t feel lucky you’ve never had to go through anything like this. I’m kinda proud of myself for doing this. Like who cares what some of ya have to say, if it’s not sending positive vibrations towards me. I cast them out with the strength of God!

    • @projectfelicite941
      @projectfelicite941 Před 2 lety +3

      I'm proud of you for getting out of that house and going to the authorities to make that report. Know what you are beautiful and no one should ever put their hands on you. One time is too many. Anyone who makes you feel less than, unsafe, easily tempered, or disrespectful is unworthy of you. Love don't hurt. Take your time, forgive yourself, heal, seek therapy, and surround yourself with positive energy. There are great men in this world, just take your time sis.

    • @katymcginn4644
      @katymcginn4644 Před 2 lety +3

      💜 STAY SAFE, STAY BLESSED SWEET RUTH 😊🙏💜💜💜

    • @katymcginn4644
      @katymcginn4644 Před 2 lety +2

      @@projectfelicite941 💜 BEAUTIFULLY SAID GERI ☺️🙏💜

    • @honeyblikk
      @honeyblikk Před 2 lety +2

      I am proud of you as well. Best of luck to you Ruth. P.s Yeah he is weird!

    • @melosidhe779
      @melosidhe779 Před 2 lety +1

      I'm glad you went to the police. Far too many people don't report domestic violence. Be proud that you stood up for yourself.
      Don't ever think that you not giving in to his demands makes his attack your fault. If he had a problem with your 18 year old sister not paying for her birthday trip, he could have verbally stated it. There is no excuse for putting his hands on you and that will never be your fault. (He made that trip about himself when he was really just invited along so he didn't really have a leg to stand on anyway)

  • @latashadjefferson5465
    @latashadjefferson5465 Před 2 lety +29

    So if someone's abusing you, putting their hands on you and telling you to the "relax" you're going to relax. Clearly he is an abuser and she should be lucky that she got away.

  • @Nevaeh1
    @Nevaeh1 Před 2 lety +44

    The plaintiff seems like a liar and an abuser. He said all he did was push her because she got loud, which is not a justification.

    • @SRT_DRE
      @SRT_DRE Před 2 lety +18

      “Do you have a record of domestic violence?”
      “Uh, I don’t know?”
      😂😂😂

    • @Bepbo
      @Bepbo Před 2 lety +14

      @@SRT_DRE the instant he said I don't know made me thing he's just not sure if he's been caught yet for more warrants 🤔 He 100% has hurt someone else before, What an awful person

    • @ObeyDaqSwaqq
      @ObeyDaqSwaqq Před 2 lety +2

      He said he pushed her bc she hit him

    • @Bepbo
      @Bepbo Před 2 lety +6

      @@ObeyDaqSwaqq I'm not justifying hitting and pushing by any means, but if she hit him and he pushed her and that was that, then it would be a matter of "neither of you are allowed to put your hands on each other"
      The Psychopath BIT her to the point of visible teeth marks where her skin ripped. That is insane, that is BEYOND pushing someone away in self defence or anger. I audibly gasped when I saw the photos of her skin from the bite. Even if she "started it" by hitting him (which is still inexcusable, domestic violence against men is just as unacceptable), he went beyond what would be okay for 'self defence'. The man is a ticking time bomb of rage and a danger to any other woman he dates.

    • @kyoto32001
      @kyoto32001 Před 2 lety +2

      he was right though. the sister needs to chip in for the trip. she caused his anger, which was justified.

  • @Sofii86
    @Sofii86 Před 2 lety +3

    If it’s one thing men got, it’s nerve.

  • @vanessagarcia4559
    @vanessagarcia4559 Před 2 lety +10

    Is it just me but I’m so distracted with her open kitchen cabinet door…🥲

    • @lindaJaeNicole
      @lindaJaeNicole Před 2 lety +2

      It’s not just you! That was the first thing I noticed ☺️ I was like, damn, she couldn’t close the damn cabinet?! 😂 these zoom court cases are a mess!

    • @taylaKC
      @taylaKC Před 2 lety +1

      Me too

    • @tabithaedwards745
      @tabithaedwards745 Před 2 lety +1

      His shirt was driving me crazy. Wrinkly and too casual.

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety

      This is exactly how domestic violence is treated, as a distraction. You're so focused on a stupid cabinet rather than the abuse this women experienced at the hands of this baldface liar.

  • @mrsflemingg4lifee
    @mrsflemingg4lifee Před 2 lety +13

    That nicca is crazy 😱 she’s a doll. Hopefully she can find Mr. Right😩

  • @ellisisland4902
    @ellisisland4902 Před 2 lety +4

    I love with plaintiffs sue then the defendants come out winners.

  • @gingerleamcwow435
    @gingerleamcwow435 Před 2 lety +2

    "I bit her back cause it hurted." Spoken like a true child.

  • @renatechancellor6824
    @renatechancellor6824 Před 2 lety +3

    He sounds like he’s not wrapped too tight.

  • @kia4334
    @kia4334 Před 2 lety +2

    She bit him he bit him back😂🤣 rolling on the floor

  • @ReddyReader
    @ReddyReader Před 2 lety +3

    It's an age-old situation. Women Always deny to themselves that the red flag is as bright Red as it
    Is until it's real damaging .

  • @amandashay1975
    @amandashay1975 Před 2 lety +14

    My OCD can't handle her cabinet door open while I am trying to watch this episode.

    • @nikkibarnzable
      @nikkibarnzable Před 2 lety +6

      Girl I actually tapped on it as if it would close it 😂😂😂 don’t tell nobody

    • @tabithaedwards745
      @tabithaedwards745 Před 2 lety +1

      My ocd was tripping on his shirt.

    • @dataodokpa5431
      @dataodokpa5431 Před 2 lety

      I was sitting here, and finally saw it...and I could not focus...and to the other commenter his shirt was the biggest offender to me.

    • @danchamberlain6069
      @danchamberlain6069 Před 2 lety

      You women are really sad .

  • @kristenwilliams3632
    @kristenwilliams3632 Před 2 lety +4

    "Not that I know of" means "yes, but I don't want to admit it"... or, "yes, but I said I was sorry so it doesn't count" 🙄

  • @steelwheels327
    @steelwheels327 Před 2 lety +2

    Somethings just off with this guy besides being a abuser .He doesn't even think he did anything wrong in the least! not an inkling of any remorse! Ruth is cute as heck and should be treated right !

  • @cynthiacler9284
    @cynthiacler9284 Před 2 lety +1

    The defendant is gorgeous and that man definitely got lucky and dated up in that relationship. No one should be treated the way he treated this young lady. And no one should ever settle for a man that treats them badly. She is a smart intelligent woman who will find a good man 1 day to treat her like the queen she is.

  • @journeysalkebulan
    @journeysalkebulan Před 2 lety +2

    Ladies you better stay away from this guy! Ladies please stop getting into relationships with men who abuse you stop making choices like that!

  • @just_lemon
    @just_lemon Před 2 lety +6

    7:45 the bailiff’s face is full of concern

  • @SB-000
    @SB-000 Před 2 lety +16

    The best part of this show is the discussion with Marilyn and John. Especially when she lets him do some of the talking!!!!!

    • @vorpal22
      @vorpal22 Před 2 lety +1

      I also love that they added this... with the COVID measures, the show feels much less personal but this brings it back.

  • @uMADden
    @uMADden Před 2 lety +2

    To all women seeing this, stay away from this plaintiff, he will put his hands on you

  • @karondalittlejohn
    @karondalittlejohn Před 2 lety +3

    Stuck his fist in her mouth???? SMH she’s so beautiful, I hate she had to endure that from this milk dud 😳

  • @slickpatt7870
    @slickpatt7870 Před 2 lety +5

    As a domestic abuse savior i feel for her. The only I thing I wish the judge did ask is if she hit him.

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety +4

      Apparently, she didn't. He had a chance to say exactly what he thought transpired and he never said she hit him.

    • @krystingrant6292
      @krystingrant6292 Před 2 lety

      Yup it happened to me this fool bit the fawk out my finger. I had to get a tetanus shot and stitches

  • @CooknVibewithannmarielove

    Lmao I’m convinced they are zombies at this point 🧟‍♀️ 🧟‍♂️

  • @Zera223
    @Zera223 Před 2 lety +3

    He is an idiot for even sueing her knowing he assaulted her. And I feel like sane people already know this but it is terrifying for a woman to be overpowered and or held down by a man. Even if you're playing fellas you can get hurt because we're only left with fight when you take away our flight. Never put a violent hand on anyone.

  • @hihosilverlining
    @hihosilverlining Před rokem +1

    I had an ex that suddenly freaked out literally for no reason….raging incoherently….and he threw me down, frightened me to death as he was 3 times my size. (We’d been talking…just talking not arguing…talking …when he flipped)
    I got lucky he stormed out. I was so badly scared I ended up at the doctor’s. Three days later he turns up at the door expecting to go away for the weekend. I said no and shut the door on him. He was furious again.
    I was never in his presence again. The change from okay, normal to insane rage …nooo…not doing that !

  • @kanecierra8940
    @kanecierra8940 Před 2 lety +7

    Money make people act crazy! He should’ve been paying for everything anyway. I see it as a Blessing this happened so she can leave him alone before it got worse.

    • @nakela2
      @nakela2 Před 2 lety +3

      Well he was invited to go she said this was for her sister's birthday. However, the dummy didn't know to call and cancel his ticket which says even more about him.

    • @a.konadu4010
      @a.konadu4010 Před 2 lety +2

      You think his violence was about money. Youre a damn FOOL!!!

    • @vorpal22
      @vorpal22 Před 2 lety

      When you say that he should have been paying for everything anyway, what do you mean? It's not clear.

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety

      He's unbalanced anyway.

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety

      @@nakela2 Yet, he knew how to file a court case.

  • @crystalshaw8744
    @crystalshaw8744 Před 2 lety +1

    He had the blatant audacity to sue HER smh...

  • @tationna1974
    @tationna1974 Před 2 lety +2

    She Attacked Me 😂😂😂

  • @londynche8521
    @londynche8521 Před rokem

    Tht man said “she ATTACK-ED” me 🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂😂Lord!

  • @cyoohoos
    @cyoohoos Před 2 lety +2

    He’s WAY too vague in his retelling of the story. He’s a broke simp and she’s glad to be rid of him.
    Wait, he told you to pack and leave, but you left your phone on the charger while you were trying to go to work?
    Three sides to a story

  • @TheRarestJewel
    @TheRarestJewel Před 2 lety +3

    What a narcissist 😒

  • @jaynehogue2459
    @jaynehogue2459 Před 2 lety +2

    Where do women get the attitude they can do whatever they want to men say whatever they want and Men have to take it ????come on women we need to do better

  • @jazzycherokee869
    @jazzycherokee869 Před 2 lety +2

    As a domestic violence survivor myself... sometimes the women really lie and the judges believe you....

  • @Cristoolful
    @Cristoolful Před 2 lety +2

    Ugh men. Thats good he got arrested. Men and women need to learn you can't put your hands on anyone. Jail is an eye opener some times.

  • @antoinettetapper2785
    @antoinettetapper2785 Před 5 měsíci

    Ruth, please take time b4 you get into any relationship. Your name is a special name. You are a special woman

  • @elvickRULES
    @elvickRULES Před rokem +1

    I hope she finds happiness and peace

  • @Possumpat84
    @Possumpat84 Před 2 lety +7

    @13:50 he said this once before so I thought it was a accident so I let it slide. Then he does it again!! Lmfao!!

    • @PhenoMikally
      @PhenoMikally Před 2 lety +2

      Attacked-Ed 😒😒 stop using big words if u can’t pronounce or annunciate.

    • @myothernameisnana7188
      @myothernameisnana7188 Před 2 lety +4

      @@PhenoMikally also said Hurt-ed.

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety +1

      @@PhenoMikally Enunciate.

    • @PhenoMikally
      @PhenoMikally Před 2 lety

      @@traceytracey3756 darn idk how that happened 🥴 yes enunciate ☺️

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 Před 2 lety

      @@PhenoMikally Just ribbing you. It's all good.😊

  • @addybishop308
    @addybishop308 Před 2 lety +1

    She’s too beautiful to deal with him

  • @Kackley86
    @Kackley86 Před 2 lety +3

    The child needs a BIP behavior intervention plan!!

  • @missy4804
    @missy4804 Před 2 lety +6

    I'm so pleased with the outcome of this case. Nothing for him