Fighting Over a Fiancé
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- čas přidán 17. 07. 2021
- The plaintiff says the defendant is her cousin, who she claims doesn’t like her fiancé and even tried to stab him. She claims the defendant still has a lot of her old property and is withholding money, so she’s suing for property and rent. The defendant is countersuing for harassment. #JudgeMathis #RealityTV #Court
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How can you kick a toddler out the house? It doesn't matter if the child is yours or not, that is beyond low.
I agree!!
And she and her witness were speaking about it like it was justified to do so
She gave the child to his father, that wasn’t a kicking out. If the man does not want to communicate with the people who are Caring for his child, he needs to take his child with him. Had something happened to the child while the adults was on the outs, they would be in court saying she took revenge out on their child. So please see the bigger picture. It’s easy to let emotions get involved because we are talking about children but the reality is, better safe than sorry. I don’t want the responsibility of a child who’s parents are acting threatening towards me.
@@astrology4u Nah I disagree, they shouldn't treat the child bad all just because they have a problem with the parents. The way they put the child out in the cold was wrong and why on earth are grown people calling a toddler a backpack?
@@blackpowerpuff6155 exactly. It was the WAY it was done for me at 1 something in the morning. I see it from many different perspectives but at the end of the day, it was wrong in my eyes.
So let me get this straight.... sooooooo the adults have a conflict and you decide to go wake the baby up in the middle of the night and put him outside! Help me understand how that makes sense!!! 🙆🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Sad is what it is 😔
Point ✅ noted 🤔
It's heartless as hell.
@@kaeshalae1 😮😮😮😮😮
Right!!!!!
If you put my son out? In the cold? Yeah it’s up and we ain’t family after that‼️
Im surprised J. Mathis didn't say abt that BS.
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Being at 2 in the morning she low down for putting that baby out there
And when it’s Up it’s Stuck
@@feliciaberg528 Right! She probably woke up that little poor baby from his sleep and dragged him from his bed to put him out in order to take revenge on the father. Disgusting! What kind of family does that?
Moral of the story....Get ya own place when you got a Fiance and child together
That part. Does he work?
facts.
Exactly what I thinking. They got a whole family and living with her cousin. And the cousin said there's no place she ever lived in that she didn't live in.
Facts
You never know someone’s story don’t be so quick to judge
Throwing a child out is beyond low.
Yes that was nasty
Trashy & disgusting
That's so low. Leave the children out of the issues. Mistreating a child says a lot about her character.
Yeah, I Didn't Particularly DiG That, and Called Him a Backpack. What?!
very low
I can’t get past trying to justify calling the child a backpack and putting him outside at 1 am !?!? 🤭
Wait...what!
Right and lady got up and said what she said like it made it any better
She said it so casually
Point ✅ noted 🤔
Me either
The Fact That The Mother Put The Young Boy Out and Called Him a Backpack Was Foul and Left a Bad Stain on My Brain. 👿
Yeah my mind is not right. I think i would've followed her and gave her the straight business. Don't touch my children , especially if you're an adult. I'll loose it. I've very over protective of children and this really pisses me off.
Was the feeling the same after he pushed the older woman.
Or broken into the home.
@@zeebee972 No Matter What The Father Did, The Child Was Innocent, She Was Foul For Putting Him Out and Calling Him a Backpack. Period.
Yes me too. I'm angry about it
@@rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596 Agreed! The bih got issues. She would've been right there beside my "Backpack" but laid tf out on the ground. Wack old broad 🙄😒
Why'd she do that to the baby! She loses the suit automatically.
The MOTHER put the baby out..not the defendant. The defendant was at work...😶
Right! The fact they thought that was ok 😷
She ain’t do it….???
If they were all living together, why would the defendant feel she or her mom could put someone out? She illegally evicted them and didn't wanna give her the money and other belongings back smh!
She said the guy was living there and every where else she been since he got out of jail. Just because she put the alarm on doesn’t mean he broke in. How can you break into where your living? She was mad cause she was at work and couldn’t control when the boyfriend was going and coming
@Michele Jones she probably didn't trust him. She has all these people coming in and out around her child(ren) the whole situation is crazy. I can't wrap my head around this.
They speak so proudly about calling a child a backpack. Why are they dehumanizing this baby over an issue with the parents?! I wish the judge would have called them out on that because that was so disgusting. The plaintiff told it, the defendant admitted to it, and her witness co-signed it. Judge missed a great time to correct somebody because I’ve seen him correct for less
Its horrible, black lives font matter to black people either. We gotta do better
That why Judge Mathis demeanor changed with the defended.
That why Judge Mathis demeanor changed with the defended.
@@originaleverythingelseisca5977 you reaching
Yeah. I agree but I think he was so pissed he didn't even want to deal with it because he wasn't just pissed about the baby, he was also made she is calling the police on someone 7 times knowing how the system is. She showed she is just a heartlessness narcissist and there is no changing those kind of people.
Iont care what somebody do you NEVER put a little child out in the middle of the night. It’s to dangerous out here
I’m relieved to see all the comments about the baby being put out and calling him a backpack! Glad to see a lot of people disagree with her disgusting actions.
This whole living situation sounds odd, so the men aren't allowed to be there overnight while the women are at work, but the men live there? 🤔 And are the kids home alone over night, cause she mentioned the mother was a few seconds away. So if you don't trust the men to be there over night with the kids why have them around your kids at all?!?!? This whole thing makes no sense. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾
Ghetto!
Right! And what did him buying a car from the have face to do with it? She said that’s where it all started😂
I picked up they were allowed to stay overnight but defendant didn't like that they left the kids alone to go "buy a car" so she had her child lock the door and she set the alarm to prevent them from coming back in unless her mom was there. Boyfriends were irresponsible n negligent and defendant was on a power trip n wanted to control when they came back in. And since the mom had to come over and things got heated between plaintiff's fiance n mom, the mom put their baby out as well. Smh messy!!!!!! could've been handled or addressed after the plaintiff n defendant got home from work. I don't think they left to go buy a car lol
@@adonysha Forgive my raging comment, I deleted it because I thought you were defending those trifling men. I can admit my wrongs and errors and hope that you forgive my poor reaction. This entire case upset me, because of all of their poor decisions. This is the oddest case I have seen in a while, and I agree with you. 🙏🏾
@@thealphaandomega9348 no worries 😊 yes, this case was very odd! 😩
I can understand putting the 2 men out maybe, but Hell No when it comes to putting a child out at 1am in Detroit and on top of that, with no shoes, that is just plain dumb.
Joy Rd at that😒
Plain wicked**
How does someone who is a mother put another woman's baby outside at such hour?!
He was outside with his dad.
She’s the same mother who put her daughter out at 16 to care for her cousin in elementary school lmao their family is garbage bro
@Busy Bodies! you right yes 😂
@@kaeshalae1 Exactly neither cousin stood a chance. You can tell both of their mothers are toxic.
My mama would put my sisters out all the time and have the nerve to say "And ya AIN'T takin my grandbaby outta here either"! 😂😂😂😂
Facts them grands are gold to them !!
Girl yes, my mom stay kicking out my sister and keeping her kids
Exactly!!! My son can go wherever he wants if he gets mad and leave but I aint letting him take my grandsons nowhere.
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Facts my son n wife had 2 kid rock's but me n my gbabies was cool..ijs..some of y'all adult kids be doing too much and wanna pay 2 little with a bunch of disrespect to top it off✌🏿..I help people who want to help themselves!
So I guess we not going even to talk about her leaving an 11 year old in the house with two small children 🥴🥴
You will NEVER win having an attitude with the judge... she lost that countersuit QUICK
But she didn't have one
Yes he chewed her up 😂😂😂
Like why catch an attitude to the person that decides whether you get money or not 🤦🏾♂️
@@taurussho86 she did loss of wages
@@Durktoomany this was 5 months ago, but I think I was referring to her having an attitude.
It's best to love family from a far. If you miss them, you get to see everyone on holidays and special occasions. That's what I do and have total peace of mind and happiness.
I agree with you. When I see them on holidays I get my fill and I’m good.
Fact's.. and i got 5 kids they my besties..no stress from other family problems🎈🎈
The mission I'm on too
Good point!
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Wow, the baby being put out though, that upset my spirit😤🤦🏽♀
Now we see why the daughter moved out at 16. Her moms is trifling.
Terrible !!! ... no matter what you don't do a kid like that
Hateful and heartless🤦🏽♀️
2:57 that smirk... She's evil
I don’t care what the situation is you don’t put no child out no house let alone the a baby. He just so confused.
Can’t believe the plaintiff is younger than the defendant😳 but I think this was fair, her referring to their child as a backpack is ridiculous. I’d never throw a baby out regardless of how I feel about the parents.
The defendant didn't kick the child out, it was the mother. The defendant was still at work.
Oh and if the father is present, then the child can definitely go with him to his new home. That inmate felt entitled to be in a home he don't pay rent by breaking in and more than likely thought he ran things.
@@thealphaandomega9348 They paid $400 in rent. Even without paying, if someone lives in your house you can't just put them out; you must evict them through the courts.
@@jenniferchapman5173 You getting out my house when I say, get out, or you will learn a hard lesson, one that you may not recover from. 🤛🏾🤛🏾🤛🏾
@@thealphaandomega9348 EXACTLY
Defendant said the air conditioner was ruined when he broke in but said she didn’t throw it out until she got notice that she was being sued. She was still using it lol
Right
Her mom put a child outside wow 😲 the lady need to be in prison
Did this thing just try to justify putting a child outside in the cold ?🤨. Ugh some people are just disgusting
With all that furniture and appliances, why didn't she and her own boyfriend have their own apartment/home?
So glad she won. I wish the judge would addressed the fact of how they handled the little boy calling him a backpack.
"You don't get sued you get prosecuted" 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
11 year old shouldn't be home alone. That is too young. Her mother lives around the corner,why couldn't the kids be with her?;or her mom come to her home?🤔 Anything could happen with kids.
I was a latch-key kid at 8 years old in the late 80s and by 11/12 I was babysitting. How is 11 not old enough to be at home alone? They know how to use the microwave and should know right from wrong, what to do and what not to do.
What im trying to OVERSTAND IS WHY THE 11YEAR OLD GIRL IN THE HOUSE WITH TWO MEN THAT NEITHER OF THEM TRUST WITH THEMSELVES
What im trying to OVERSTAND IS WHY THE 11YEAR OLD GIRL IN THE HOUSE WITH TWO MEN THAT NEITHER OF THEM TRUST WITH THEMSELVES
Oh ok i commented before i finished listening she did right
11 yrs old is old enough to be left alone. I babysat my siblings, cooked, cleaned did hw at that age. Taught me a lot about responsibilities and independence. It’s not uncommon in some households to leave kids at home at a certain age.
throwing a child out is devious...and not accepting nor explaining the accountability at the end shows her exact character
She didn't disagree when the cousin said she took care of her since elementary. Then she added on a baby, and a fiance to that equation. Damn
Exactly...why dont she have her MAN get her a place..oh..thats right its bc she chose a jailbird bum with no job😶
@@Shellygrrl2573 Exactly,. They choose to create life with low life men, then want to feel entitled when others turn their back after they've had enough of dealing with or supporting a grown man with child and "fiancé" which I doubt he will stick with. As soon as he find the next free ride he bouncing. 👋🏾
People do what you allow, you think she wasn’t asking her to come along…..
@@sagthenaturalsiren5997 Probably so, but you could only take so much on your plate.
What does that have to do with her property and rent being withheld?
How the hell do you put a baby out in the cold?! That mother is a hot mess! Thank God for my environment.
Her and her boyfriend need to get and keep their own home. All problems solved.
Its amazing to me how when the plaintiff mentioned that the defendant thrown hot water onto her boyfriend and no one in the audience reacted or responded. Even the judge made an "Al Green" reference jokingly! So, its okay to invoke violence towards a man but if the roles where reversed, trust and believe there would have been noise/disgust in that courtroom!
@mymysharkable they definitely lived there. She said they were there for eight days. So if a mfkn lock my man out of course I’d be ready to go too. Cuz how tf you take these folks money but lock her man out? Make it make sense.
Y her momma put the baby out @ 1am?
That's totally messed up!!!
When it All Comes Down To it, Like The Young Man Said, "Truth Speaks For Itself." 👍🏾💪🏾
Yeah get U and your GF and your child a place to stay is the truth!!!
If he showed up 7 times harassing you, why you never let him take their items from the house?
Most of the time when you help family out, it doesn't end well
Putting a child out is grounds for the child’s mother to box you up!!!
You don’t do children like that.. Children should never be dragged into adult drama. PERIOD!!
This is a sad situation all the way around, and to allow those kids to witness all of this nonsense is simply trifling...
Yeah Cousin was petty. But Fiance was out of order you don't push nobody air conditioner in who the F are you to do that. Then they leaving that little girl home with them men. I'm sorry I don't trust nobody! I'm not leaving no boyfriends or play uncle's home with my daughters or sons.
Exactly! People are entirely too trusting. Nope 👎🏾
I absolutely agree! I'm not leaving my daughter with ANYBODY!!! I don't care who it is or how long I've known you. I'm taking NO chances! Too many kids are molested, raped, and sexually assaulted and in MOST cases it is a family member or a family friend, someone familiar to the child. Smh. I could NEVER understand how women do that and just leave their kids with their boyfriend's, etc.
It was literally there’s though. It wasn’t the cousins ac
I thought she said bologna hot water on him. 😅🤣
Plaintiff should’ve sued for more. For all the stuff that was damaged has to be more than that. Not to mention traumatizing the child😡
I knew the defendant wasn't going to win when Judge Mathis heard about the child. Her mother is rotten.
So these minor children were left at home alone….over night??
she can see them on the video through the cell phone and mamma live around the corner.
How can you put a baby out, disgusting
Let me get this right. The two “boyfriends” were joyriding while the women were out at work and not watching the kids. And the main woman works multiple jobs?
Huh 🤔 I MUST have missed something
I think they purposely waited until the women left to go out, and because they weren’t home watching the kids she locked them out
They might have jobs too 😂😂
Nah, you are completely accurate. I was like the women work overnight, and the men aren't allowed to be at home with the kids at night. That just seems sketchy. I wouldn't want to grown able body men lounging around while I'm working and hustling either. They need to ditch those men all together, don't seem like they are bringing anything to their "relationships" but 🍆 and stress.
@@grandpahouse lol I’m pretty sure they don’t. Unless it’s part time
@@kaeshalae1 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This case has ratched written all over it. I feel bad for the kid tho being in the middle of all of this 🤦♂️
First of all that's too many people in one house,and the plaintiff needs her OWN place for her and her kids,both of the men just sorry and need to go!! They wouldn't be up in my house lounging either while I'm at work!! Do better Ladies and gents.
Damn it’s not enough comments to determine if I should skip this case or not 😭
Ffrl lol
Watch it. It will get you mad about the toddler.
Keep watching chile 😂
Yeen a real fan if you out here skipping cases and shit smh
😂😂😂😂 this is the new age of commenting. Not useful at all.
She was getting smart with judge the whole time & I was wondering when he was going to get fed up lol
Leave the baby out of it.the mother is wrong and same with the cousin for letting that happen. The father was there but who knows what that baby was feeling and you know the mother was talking bad or saying shit
Its his child. No mam take your kid if you gonna talk stuff.
I completely agree. Everybody saying putting the child out was wrong but who was supposed to watch the child? The father!! I completely agree.
Exactly. The father probably was like I can stay in this house if my son in here. So they solved that real quick and gave him his child outside. So there would be no excuses for his grown butt to be in the house with the other children that late. If anything he shouldn't have been pacing the sidewalk with the baby unattended on the steps.
@@mzfancy4767 okay!! Say it louder for the people in the back!
@@samanthalewis5739 💯❤🖤💚
if you never let people live with you you don’t have to go thru this
Well she admitted the man was living there. She couldn’t kick him out unless she got an eviction notice and gave him 30 days anyways 😂 why would she come on here. He isn’t breaking into his own home where his child is
I like how judge addressed the racial profiling with police
ATTENTION: 36th district court is where Mathis sat as a judge !!!!!!!!!!!
I know he made that clear 😂😂😂😂😂
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Right lol
I'm from Detroit to so I already know this but I'd swear he says it every court case
Some women choose the biggest Dustys to breed with.
I don't feel sorry for ANY woman that struggles after she CHOOSES to breed with a Dusty ; a man that doesn't pay ALL or most of the bills in a house that his kids reside in.
Because they’re dusty too
These women not even trying to do better.
The defendant is a liar and her mother was evil to do what she did.
She tried to keep her belongings and the rent...JM was like NAH!
At least it wasn't hot grits.lol Those hot grits made AL Green become a Christian.
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Stop bringing these men and random people around your kids. Especially if you're not home.
I wish some of these women would be proactive instead of reactive when protecting their babies.
That cousin had always talked mad shit behind that girl back n was fed up with “helping her” to a point they kicked a child out in the cold n nobody is bothered by it! This is y it’s important to get to own shit so nobody do u dirty
No. We are NOT bringing hoops the size of our heads back. Absolutely not.
Really hope the defendant doesn’t have children because my goodness they may reap what their mother has sown. You never do a child like that, no matter what. My lord 😭
Judge Mathis is the most "no-one can afford their own place so I'll move in with a practical stranger or family member and won't pay rent and owe debt I consider a gift" show I've ever seen.
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And to see the comments people leave defending codependent folks is disgusting!!!
Please get your own place especially if u gonna have a child
Why the hell would you put a 3-year-old outside in the cold with NO clothes or shoes on? Because y’all got beef? She’s lucky that she didn’t get child endangerment or child abuse.
"You didn't have to come" 😂😂😂
Tha defendant thinks she cute and she gettin smart wit Judge Mathis 😕
Judge Mathis my favorite show 💯💯
The fact that both women have dead beat "boyfriends" are their children is beyond me.
The defendent has been taking care of the plaintiff since she was 16. The plaintiff never had to pay rent until she brought the boyfriend, the boyfriend is acting smart in someone's else house. Throwing the baby in the streets was out order but plaintiff needs to get her act together. Defended has had a hard life, living by herself at 16 with a pree-teen and baby 🤦. This case was a full mess.
I like how the Judge gets them to feel right at home then the gavel.
I love to watch Judge Mathis Cases nearly everyday he is the best Judge ever❤️💯😘 Africa Zambia🇿🇲
Mother was down right wrong for putting that baby outside like that
The defendant said that the plaintiff's boyfriend wasn't supposed to be there. The judge goes the reason the plaintiff's boyfriend stayed was because the he supposed to be there and the reason that the defendant's boyfriend left was because he wasn't supposed to be there. The defendant then agrees with JM but, moments earlier she said that he wasn't supposed to be there.
What?
@@AnneOhn123 glad I’m not the only one having a hard time understanding this comment
My head hurts 😂😂😂😂
@@AnneOhn123 In the beginning, the defendant said that the plaintiff's boyfriend wasn't supposed to be there. After the plaintiff's boyfriend broke into the house, the defendant's boyfriend left. JM made a comment that the reason why the defendant's boyfriend left and the plaintiff's boyfriend stayed was because the defendant's boyfriend wasn't supposed to be there, and the plaintiff's boyfriend was supposed to be there. The defendant agreed with JM, although she said earlier she stated that wasn't supposed to be there.
The two men should have just gotten a place together, I mean they out joyriding and who knows what else,go find a job and an apartment..Problem solved!!
Bro this ghettttoooo as hell
Two bedrooms with four adults and kids smh sad...
I heard her say 3. So all the kids may have shared a room and each couple had their own.
She said 3
Here we go again with two women fighting. Another unfortunate family rift with a man in between.
Most people family ain’t shit family is just a word for people with the same last name these days
Shameful how you can be close to family for the longest just for someone to come along and destroy it….
All of this could've been avoided if the plaintiff would've just found a place of her own but she didn't because her cousin is cheap rent. I'll bet any amount of money that the plaintiff has bad credit and can't do it on her own; otherwise, she wouldn't keep following her cousin around and trying to live rent free. The defendant sounds fed up with the living situation. These two are better off not living together.
The friend wanted to stand up and give the "here's your backpack..." line so bad. She looked as stupid as she sounded. Hot mess
How you working two jobs and your man is not? Shouldn't it be the other way around
They're very ignorant
What kinda triflin tomfoolery is this???!!! I don't care what kind of conflict is going on with adults the kids don't have anything to do with it. Let the babies sleep then pick them up in the morning!
Since truth speaks for itself .He should had been working two jobs to keep or put a roof over his children and woman's head.And they wouldn't been in court suing a cousin who has never done anything but help her.Makes sick women fall out with women over bum men in and out jail.He sitting there proud he stole cars before he brought one of his own.
Who was the adult in the home at 1am? Was the 11 year old supervising the other children? If the cousins were at work overnight, the boyfriends were "breaking in the house", and grandma was around the corner, where was the adult? Locking the door and setting the alarm is not adult supervision.
I understand not wanting a grown man alone with her 11 year old daughter, but there’s no excuse on putting a 3 year old out in the middle of the nite, I don’t think I would talk to either one after court
Lesson NEVER MARRY a man who can’t afford a home for you. Too many in that house
"BOILING HOT WATER"... HMMM... OKAYYYY 😐...
soon as he saw the toddler on the porch, her case was over.
You can't kick someone out of the house they live in. The defendant and her mom are nuts.
This Plaintiff is exactly why I stopped doing so much for people, I can’t stand ungratefulness 🤨
Right! Her and her so called man should've had their own place ,wouldn't have been an issue then!!
She paid rent
Never put a kid outside that’s out!!! Kids are off limits
Backpack tho?! 😠 That was wrong on so many levels!! That's a Child!!
Plaintiff & he boyfriend came respectfully!!!
The defendant and her mama would be exiled from my life after this. Just because you family doesn't mean you gotta have a relationship. Ilove all JM comments to her.
She puts kids out and has the damn nerve to have a group home??!!!
People don't even put dogs out. Why do that to an innocent child? Heartless.
Ain't a soul alive (romantically speaking) I care about enough fighting over UNLESS we married!!
Wow she put the baby out too😭