All Downhill After Valentine’s Day
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- čas přidán 28. 02. 2022
- The plaintiff met the defendant on a dating website, and they began a relationship. The plaintiff says the defendant asked her for money to help pay for a trip he needed to take, but he has not paid her back. She also says she loaned him money to help pay for a down payment on a house. She’s suing for the cost of a flight, hotel room, and unpaid loans. He’s countersuing for the down payment on a car and car repairs.
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If a man can’t hold down his own financial issues, you don’t need him🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
💯💯💯💯💯RED FLAG🚩🚩🚩🚩
MMR
MMR, MESSAGE!👍
It goes both ways..
True. Also, a man without his finances in order should not be asking a woman for her hand in marriage. Husband equals a provider.
@@alexandrias8533 It goes both ways and that antiqued b.s is dead and it's mainly because of you all and your mammies collusion with the government..
If someone cheats, no additional conversation is needed. They already made a choice and you walk away 🤷🏾♂️ 😏
Maybe it’s that simple for you sir….😞
@@leir2005 I understand emotions are involved so it makes it harder. I’ve been there before and sticking around is a nightmare!
Amen to that.
Right!!!! What was the Valentines meeting for????? Forget that!!!
Facts!
Let this be a lesson to ALL women, if you meet a man and he needs you to fund his dream please know that’s not a man! Your man will come to you with his finances, heart, and mind in a positive place! STOP falling for this con because your lonely!
TALK IS CHEAP AND MONEY BUY LAND!
Amen
Amen
SAME WITH WOMAN IF SHE NEEDS YOUR MONEY RUN NIGGA RUN
Cut it out
I appreciate Judge Mathis throwing in some law education #thecrownact
I just told someone of this earlier. The craziest thing in the world. We shouldn't need such a law.
Same
Yes
It not only applies to places of work but private institutions and schools in Florida.
I was wondering what that was on her head
Imagine spending time collecting and compiling a pile of documents to share publicly that someone is dogging you out😅 whew. Couldn't be me.
😂😂😂😂exactly
Right....If I know that is all that matters. I don't understand all the detective work folks go through....even worse most of them stay after all that digging
Wasting more energy
right just leave
This right here!
So glad I'm single!! No drama..I love it.🥰
SAME 😂
💯
Amen
@@faithandhope7133 preach 🙌
@@Sarahadey I know that's right 💯
That first incident where she was told by the other woman that he had been intimate with her the week before , this plaintiff should have walked out ,and blocked his number for good . I just don’t understand why she kept going with him ….and now suing . It’s surprising how desperate some people are to be in a relationship .
Ikr 😂
Naw she was hurt and he never cheated with that girl Only reason there in court
@@robg775 He did cheat, the other woman admitted to having sexual relations a week before that day they met, the fiancé and the woman on the side.
She was hard up for a man, I mean look at him. 🤷🏾♀️😂
This case is pissing me off. Why is this fool funding this man’s life?? “I wanted the relationship with her.” Yea I bet he did ..she was an awesome sugar mama.
If we supposed to be equal she should take care of him
U seem to me to be alil bitter , can u relate to the plaintiff?
@@tiffanysmith9097 and you sound like you need something in your mouth
@@tiffanysmith9097 🤣💗🤣💯
Yeah because only you sisters are allowed to have sugar daddy's but if a brother wants a sugar momma it's baaaad.
Alright fellow Mississippian you knew better!! The quickest way a man can get me to run off besides the obvious reasons, is to ask me for some money! I’m out quick 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
Ok. Baaaby
That part, Sis!!
@@breyam16😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
When judge said “you still bothering with him” I hollered
😆😄 And that's the real reason why he ruled against her, he made it personal. He missed payments and it was in her name, so how was she wrong? He be trippin fr
@@mscece1900 I think he wanted to teach her a lesson about self respect and letting him use her after he had already shown her who he was.
@@HARRIS4276 yep👌🏿the Ol Judge Marilyn M-? SURE would🤔
Lmao same! I saw your comment just right before 😂😂😂😂-
So sad!! Ain't that much "relationship" in the world!!!
An old GF from YEARS ago, randomly shows up to your house AND is so jealous that she lies to the current girl/ fiance 😏
😅
Crazy women out in the world
This man is a liar but jealous ex's do exist.
@@tatianadaniel3569 Jealous exs exist but after a few months, they fly away/ get someone new. Years later is highly unlikely.
@@SamuelsReview If you read my last comment correctly,, you'd see where I stated that the defendant was lying and was sleeping with the lady. I was just adding that stalker exs (even years later) do exist and though it may be highly unlikely, it's probable nonetheless. 👍🏽
This is why my father taught his son and daughters to *ALWAYS* have our own sh*t. Have your own money, house, car, job, business, etc so you don't have to worry about owing somebody or somebody telling you what they did for you.
My mother taught me this valuable lesson. Never count on others, always have yours and be proud of what you have
Amen. That’s the only way. They shouldn’t even be doing all this financial transactions together any way your not married y’all barely know each other. He is a grown man why are you trying to have relationships and you can even get an house or car on your own. SMH. We gotta do butter
Y’all parents can teach you how to make gold from dirt doesn’t mean you gonna learn 😅😂😂
@@prettybrowngirl71 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@anayasdad81 Speak for yourself. I owe my parents good deal: they weren't perfect but they taught us well.
He's full of it. Girl, run!
I like the fact that he brought up the crown law 😊
Law
Love it
@@HouseJudges Thanks. Autocorrect
The fact that there needs to be a law for people to wear their hair how it grows out of your head is crazy.
Dread locks do not grow out of anyone's head. It is a style that takes manipulation to achieve.
"Dreadlocks" or "Locs" do not take manipulation to make. Locs would be THE most natural way hair will grow out of a melanated person's head. "Retwisting", "Crochet Locs", etc., are relatively new or modern ways to create and maintain a loc style or more correctly, way of life.
Yeah if you got thin balding hair. Ie no edges lmao
I was thinking the same thing. It is the TWILIGHT ZONE!!!! Babylon is in full effect
The fear
The moment the drama with the other woman kicked off I would've packed my things and left and never looked back. Instead she chose to continue dealing with him. She even got a joint bank account with him and continued loaning him money after the first loan wasn't paid. That shows a lack of common sense on her part! 🙄
Yeah what y’all need joint bank accounts for Lmaoooo silly
The guy behind the plaintiff is always on point with his facial expression’s lmao 🤣
Ole Handsome Self!!
right lol he be lookin so into it too lol I love it
Hes such a sad excuse for a human. She better flee from him and his poor credit self
Hi. HE'S FUNNY. THE FACE ON JUDGE MATHIS MAKES ME LAUGH. DAM THESE DUMB PEOPLE HE'S SAYING.. HE IS FUNNY. SEE,
She's a losee and desperate as well
If he's a poor excuse for a human being then how did he hook up with her to begin with?
I agree🤡🤛🏿
She’s desperate and can definitely do better.
u know if he canceled valentine's day he aint about shit
Exactly!
Dude can’t even get the lies out straight without choking 😬
That usually happens when someone is lying
This is so much to do for a relationship of only a few months.
Nothing like a daily dose of judge Mathis
I can’t believe she let that man waste her time
And her money👹🤛🏿
Welp.... I'm going on maternity leave next week so ima need the minimum of 7-8 episodes a day from this channel 🤣🤣🤣
Bless you
Congratulations 🎊🎉🎈!
Congratulations!!!
Congrats queen!
Congratulations! Welcome to the mommy club
“Mr. Uh your Honor” 😂😂😂
OMG GIRL, YOU GOT CONNED.
Sometimes, love is blind.
So is lust!!
sad but True🤦🏾😒😑🤡🤛🏿
It makes me laugh though, those discriminations were mainly against blacks; while there was/is definitely a lot of purple and pink hair being worn; along, with many tattoos and other things, without any problems. Just a shame how some things are.
Very true, when I was 18 i tried to get a job at a grocery store... they denied me because my hair was not "natural" I had locs at the time, they were braided back and neat. However, I seen other folks with different color hair, & someone else with "locs" working there. I got the message on why I wasn't hired.
Don’t forget the spikes of hair, wood and steel back in the 70s, 80s and 90s. People were annoyed, but not enough to discriminate against them folks. I wonder why? 🤔😒
It’s ok if their hair is purple or pink… because it’s unicorn 🦄 and mermaid 🧜♀️ inspired ….. smh 🤦🏾♀️
@@drayuh192 I’m sorry that happened to you! I hope you kept your hair the way, you see fit later…
@@curtiswhiteheadjr1322 exactly
“Mr., Uh…Your honor!” 🤣🤣🤣
That part took me out.
🤡🤛🏿
So he borrowed money and didn’t pay it back but you continued to lend him money 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
Tuhhh!! Right
Im giving this a thumbs up just because of the education about "Crown Law"!
FYI , Don't have a relationship with someone with bad credit!!!
I agree with you. Also I don’t date someone making less money either. We need to be on the same playing field 🤷🏾♂️
And cannot provide their own basics. I.e. apt and appliances.
I guess my husband hates me
@@scottrogue946 I know my husband is disgusted...
Your daddy had one wit your mother tho
22 minutes?!
Hold on I’m gonna need some popcorn. Who else wants some? 🍿
🙋🏾♀️Meeeeeeee
Extra butter please 😂🧈
🍿☕🧐
Once I developed the mind set ppl that you’re not married to have the right to do what they want…my heart has been at peace…
Yea
Exactly
Amen
Jm is a hot mess talking about he use to tell women he had to leave so he could sell the Detroit river🤦🏾♀️ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m done!!
I won’t lie, the way she has it styled makes it look so heavy.
Yeah she did it wrong.
😣v e r y
Surprisingly … When You Position Your CROWN Correctly !!!!!!!!! The Weight Is Not An Issue, Africans Can Carry Heavy Baskets 🧺 and Such On Top of Their Heads !!
❤️🖤💚👊🏾
#365
@@goodne3608 You right about that
Whew she too old for that!! She was just dishing out money on his cheating self. smh
Do you know how many men get used by females foh
Selling land to rent a house, bad credit, no bank account…get cha life!!!
“I’m driving it like its mine cuz its in my name” 😂😂
This guy looks just like droopy
Why do these women keep giving these men money???? 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
This was some BS. If the defendant missed payments, HE broke the contract, and put the plaintiff’s credit in jeopardy. Furthermore, anybody who claims to be sitting on $15,000,000 worth of property should need a co-signer anyway. Lying 🤬
She needs proof of mis payment the judge cant trust her words
Think he meant 1.4/1.5m and just misspoke. Idk man's even agreed how much he owes outside of about 500$ of what was in overdraft fees. Idk 🤔
I do realize I may be an exception but, about 15 yrs ago I was very foolish with my finances and my credit was crappy. Had I not already had a car, I probably would've needed a co-sign to finance one. I got a pretty sizable inheritance (not 15mil) which included some land. So I can see the plausibility in his story.
At some people people have to start taking accountability for their own actions. When you give up money Fifty Eleven times at some point you have to charge it to the game.
Ladies, struggle love is not ok
Girl!!!! I don’t see this!! It’s called significant other which means you need to come with some significance.. He ain’t got nothing but debt! Damn🤦🏽♀️
Judge Mathis be drinking that Crown Royal before his cases as of late
So a woman told you they was intimate LAST WEEK but you still want a conversation about working on the relationship 🤡🤡🤡
Low self esteem
😂😂😂😂😂😂 .
I'm sorry but I laughed because sis documented every move that man made.
I am EXTREMELY concerned that she holds a position that requires she remain in good financial standing, yet she’s gullible enough to fall for this foolishness! I hope she’s not in charge of other people’s livelihoods/finances!
How she conducts her personal life may not be a reflection of how she performs her duties at work. Humans are multifaceted, don’t be so dense.
@@N5Mystique Nah, that's not how it goes. I also work at an institution that requires that it's employees have good credit. They checked my credit before even offering me the job.
They look like an usher and deacon mad over the seating arraignments lol
This lady's hair or "crown" had nothing to do with the case. Judge Mathis just wanted to hear himself talk, lol.
You're kidding 🤣🤣
It didn’t , but that was his segue to mentioning the law and that it has passed…
@@deejai1173 I know! I'm just trying to be funny because it really had nothing to do with the case, lol. Caught me off guard at first but then again this is what he does from time to time. Lady just wanted to get into her case and he stopped her in her tracks, lol.
Rt. He can't help it, he's an Aries, they pride themselves on their intelligence and " know it all "personality. Lol
@@GREATEXPECTATION2023 Facts as a aries women.
Just a addicted fan who try and catch every JM that comes my way🙄
Same here lol
Lol
I'm a Mathis addict too😭
He d Ole tinder swindler..swindled all dis cash from her🙃🤣🙄
Her mother was right about him. Case closed! As my mother would say, ain't that much "P" in the world to do this!
I love her hair!!! I’d love to see the actual length. That dating timeline 😩 she should’ve walked away when the “fiancé” came over #mrwasteurtime
I dislike her hair, I apologize. The brown mound on her head looks like fecal matter to me.
@@wuncieadams1352 you like what you like no harm
@@wuncieadams1352 What point was there to counter her opinion 🤔
I have to agree! Her crown is simply beautiful!! Can't say I like the color but the actual crown is to be praised for! I'd like to see the actual length as well! I used to work with a Gentleman that had a crown and like a year later, he came in the office with it down and I instantly fell in love! Our hair is our glory!!
Peace and Blessings to you all!
I thought the top part was a hair piece or weave.
Mr.Your Honor..🤣🤣🤥😆😆💯
I'm glad I don't have to put up with cheating I have a stand up guy
Won’t sit down
Wow!!!!! Over a certain age this truly shouldn’t be a thing for women. I mean these women just be “loaning” men hundreds of thousands of dollars for some of EVERYTHING. He’s a full OLD grown a** man & should be able to take care of us own business. Co-signing for cars? Ridiculous. Her mom literally told her be careful. && Again like I said these women are too OLD to still be out here being in foolishness.
Thank You, I thought it was just me.
I agree 1000%.
I'll Never understand loaning a man a penny!!!!
I think a relationship is just that, a relationship. Finances are personal issues. It’s weird to me people don’t see it that way.
Really, So why are u saying that! Men have been spending money on women for centuries! , Now the tables have turned, and here you are complaining, what you fail to understand is that these women are lonely and need /want a man in there life,and THATS WHY THEY BE SPENDING THEIR MONEY LIKE CRAZY! she is NOT alone , NO WOMAN WANTS TO BE ALONE THESE DAYS! THEY WANT THE REAL WOOD in THEIR BELLY! So you better WAKE UP and get wth the times, WOMEN ARE NOW WELLING TO PAY FOR COMPANIONSHIP! They are willing to do watever it takes to get a man, as you can clearly see in this case!
Sassy, con artist ,bad credit and broke😢
Exactly!! Red flag , red flag, red flag, and red flag.. she should've ran !!!! 😂
I’m picking up gay tsss on dude.
@@quetta561 definitely
Sick of seeing these desperate women who take care of these sorry men.
Judge Mathis can we focus! 😂
Never loan money.
Or borrow
@@buttliq0ur869 I agree about not borrowing either. I do understand people fall on hard times but it seems so many borrow, never pay back, then get mad at the person who loaned it to them. I would never screw someone over who helped me. I guess I am sensitive because some family has taken advantage of our generosity. Many have lived with us. We never asked for rent so they could save and get their own. None followed the few rules we had. We have loaned money too.
Y'all women gone get enough of loaning these men money. Pathetic.
"1.2 for a whole riverrrrrr" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I appreciate you Judge Mathis for often stopping and giving some insight on certain subjects. Ive learned alot from you✨EachOneTeachOne
Hey Judge Mathis fam!! Enjoy y’alls lunch & day!
That was great information, Judge Mathis, regarding the Crown Laws.
Mr. Your Honor sent me 😂😂😂
Judge wasn’t fair. He has no evidence his payments weren’t late. If his payments were late she had a right to take the car back since it would affect her credit. It’s was her car, he was just driving it. She has a right to stop that whenever she wants.
The defendant sound like Joe from the Tyler Perry movies 🤣🤣
She needs to watch the Tinder Swindler.
What possesses women to get cars in they name for men??
I'm not sure of the official name but I call it desperation.
Ughghh...why did she bother with this fool in the first place? He is not even halfway convincing in his scatterbrained lies
I feel bad for her. I hope she heals and stays away from him.
She's so beautiful
Judge Mathis knows his wife and daughter don’t wear their hair like that 😂😂😂
😂🤣😅😆😄 I was thinkin the same damn thing!
🤣🤣🤣I knew it
I was thinking he meant his daughter and wife wore faux locs sometimes.
"After we returned from that July trip there were a number of, all of a sudden, James did a disappearing act almost on me.." Lol I love these shows! Her story is all over the place and she can't catch her breath.. Lol I'm here for it though fr fr... 🤣🤣🤣
No, it wasnt.
Yall peep dude in audience challenging the camera by not blinking lol
💀🤣
Is she listening to herself its ridiculous do she have girlfriends because her parents didn't know some sense into her. He milked the hell out of her. Ridiculous
He kept showing her who he really is but she never stopped pour out money to him. Crazy!
One thing about Judge is he will make a history lesson out of a piece of lint. He loves to hear himself talk and likes to be a know it all. How exciting his life must be.
Hol’ up! My Brotha! You too damn old to NOT have your thang together and need anybody, especially a Sista, to help you with any kind of payment or money issue! 🤨
If The Defendant Was TRYING So Hard To Get Back With The Plaintiff … Valentines Day Would’ve Been The BEST Day To Do It … and I Have Family In Valdosta, Georgia ❤️❤️❤️ and Lastly - If She’s SoooOoooo Gangsta ___ Then Why Was He Recently Trying To Rectify Their AWESOME Relationship ??!!!???!!
Valdosta, GA is my hometown ❤️❤️❤️
You been driving it like it’s yours🤣🤣🤣🤣
Moral of the story, don’t try to take care of a man like he’s a boy you gave birth to. He is not your responsibility. Ugh.
He’s a con, and JM irked by them both … so am I
I listened to judge Mathis because he give free game
Me too...he old school like a mf 🤣
Free game 😂😂
Yes he does I admire his intellect 😉
He's pretty good to listen to.
Don’t be out here using the selling land/river hustle on the ladies now! 🤣
Men really be playing with this Valentine's Day mess..
The defendant is slick. I am sorry she fell for him because she seems to have her life in order. Like so many of us girls, she has a broken picker and allowed him to keep using her.
1 min in and my boy already preaching 😂😩 gotta love Judge Mathis ❤️
All I can is WOW cuz girl you gotta be lil slow…..after the girl popping up at the house i woulda been done. Your mom already warned you smh
I am yet to understand why people think they know someone by talking to them on the phone and NEVER spending considerable in person time with them. You can talk with them for years on the phone or video but if you are unable to go out with them on a regular basis and spend time with and around them and see what they do, you don't really know them.
I swear Doyle is a Great Hype man to Judge Mathis ...Cross her off.😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Why cheat on a woman who had your back
That's what slackers do! I feel sorry for those who feel they aren't worth more than that.
She was insulted at first! I’m glad he elaborated.
Mathis didn’t have to say it like that, even the audience members were shook.
Doyle said my man’s had a check off list for his Valentine’s Day roses 🌹 🥀 😆😂😆
During after the verdict, look at dude behind the defendant, LOLOL! He is trying to get every word 🤣🤣🤣
HE DIDN'T DENY IT. HE TOLD HER "YOU KNOW WE'RE NOT TOGETHER". MEANING THEY WEREN'T "IN A RELATIONSHIP".
people who catch their significant others cheating should just leave them. what makes you think they wont do it again? these people are making a fool out of you by playing you. just makes no sense.
JM is really a nut 😭 he was over them towards the end.
A man that has no fridge or stove then he's not financially capable of being a bread winner. He can't provide for a family 🚩
Hate when people are half responsible you have half a promissory note but no full proof of the other things to support your whole case.
Did the judge let her finish the case? She had so many papers 36 pages I think she said. There wasn’t time to get through it I don’t think.
@@kathleencook7477 probably I am just thinking from a normal stand point she didn't need all of that . She needed a clear promissory note listing all items to be paid as a loan for rent and items. She needed a contract.for vehicle and the conditions of it before repo. She also needed one for the loan of the land with a end date Bec a person could oh I'm still trying to sell the.property and it can go on .
No gifts no loans and I would have directed him straight to a rent-a-center.
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