Let Her Go to the Library
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- čas přidán 10. 07. 2023
- The plaintiff is a home health aide and worked for the defendant. She claims the defendant treated her more like a servant, so she’s suing for unpaid wages. The defendant thinks the plaintiff is suing for more than she owes.
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Home health aids and cna’s go through a lot honestly. Gotta respect someone with that patience
Yes indeed, she has the patience of Job! That woman is old and cantankerous for no reason. She should beg the plaintiff to return. Her next care giver may be a thief, abusive, etc.
Fr and cause she's so nice and has a lot more patience than most; some patients will take advantage l! 🤷🏽♀️
@@gospel4303I agree. Then, she’ll be wishing that she had this sweet lady back.
Oh yes, Ms. Willard did all that. It takes a special person to work for the elderly. My hats off to the plaintiff.
Yes, it does.
Every bit of it!
@@sostrong123😅 she did, y’all.
So is mine. GOD bless the plaintiff.
Yes I have dealt with clients like her in past, if you don’t set them straight up front they’ll try and walk all over you
I commend plaintiff. She seems like a very pleasant person.
And she will be blessed.❤
Yeah, like she's the type of person you WANT as a caretaker. Professional. Because some of these people are not.
Her kids don’t fool with her! She’s mean!
I said the same thing.
Sadly... I was thinking the same thing
Even if her kids live in another state if you havent even spoke with your mothers health care worker on the phone that shows you her kids don't mess with her
I was thinking the same thing.. they aren’t around to know that she is still out here driving
I definitely believe everything the plaintiff said , Ms.Willard even looks mean 😂 glad she won her money 💰🤑
The defendant seem to be upscale and feel as if she can talk to ppl any kinda way...
Definitely snappy
She was an educator. Educators are used to telling others what to do, especially if she taught for 30-40 years. It’s not an excuse to be mean, but the defendant is definitely having a hard time with accepting that she needs to let go and let others help her now.
I agree!!
I agree
The elderly lady meet her match. Plaintiff was very respectful. Even though she was treated unfairly
There's a reason why the family ain't taking care of her.
Right and the children aren’t there in court to support her.
Most likely she doesn’t want them there.
Facts
Naw lol they don’t want to be there. I hope she tons it down, un less she in a home
Exactly 💯!!!
Old people like her it’s best to just leave alone. They know everything & they’re always right 😂
When the plaintiff impersonated her voice I fell out!!!😂😂😂
😂😂😂
That had me hollering 🤣🤣🤣🤣
No fr 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂yes!
I'm going to rewind it again..lol😂😂😂😂
I have worked and help the elderly and I absolutely could tell she was a piece of work when she started talking
Just because you're old doesn't give you the green light and the ok to do whatever you please. This is when your children should step in to take care of you if they care about your wellbeing. The defendant shouldn't be driving at all.
My mom will be 72 next month and getting to the point where she shouldn't be driving (as much). But any time we try to have this conversation with her, she raises holy hell. No one can reason with her...my dad, my grandma, my aunts (her mom and sisters), my sisters, me...she just makes excuses and gets downright combative. So I just bought my son a car for his senior year so he won't have to ask (her) for rides. I'll be getting my daughter a car next year for the same reason.
@@shainadfarringtonI hope she doesn’t end up killing someone one day on the road
@@nbd6213 me too 🤷🏾♀️.
What if they don't have children or out lived them.
Her kids weren’t even there to support her … that spoke volumes
The fact that she showed up to court ALONE speaks volumes! I wouldn’t let my mama be sued without me being present! She’s a lil meany!! Lol
She was not alone smh!
Maybe they didn’t let them come on camera
I agree with you. When they brought up her children, their response was everything. If you are responsible for taking care of my mother, I would have met you. I don't think that she has a good relationship with her kids.
@@antoniobrisco7068😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 you’re seeing invisible people
The way she imitating the lady is hilarious!!😂😂😂😂 That old lady is mean.
And the old lady didn’t rebuke her on that so I believe it’s true!
@@imissmayberry12
She was right on! 🤣
Soon as she imitated, I read your comment and LOL!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Unhealed trauma 😢
As the defendant described her employment and educational achievements, I got a clearer idea of what's really going on.
Being old is no excuse to be nasty. And it’s the mean ones that are always demanding respect and feeling disrespected when they are the ones that are disrespectful. Ms. Willa is mean and I believe she treated the plaintiff like she was beneath her. The plaintiff should’ve went ahead to law school like she started. She will never get paid enough to deal with this kind of mess.
Her family is not taking care of her.
The defendant lost a good, respectable HHA. She felt superior and treated the plaintiff with inferiority. Kudos to you for taking her to court.
Trust she meets her real match. I say no more.
I have a retired teacher friend, and she seems to feel superior over others. She is 84 . Very bossy
Judge is making all kinds of excuses fir this elderly woman. Old age ain’t a license to do whatever.
He was joking 🤔you should have heard him say to the plaintiff did you tell her children?❤️🖤💚😘
I think he was joking.
@@bludiva27 he was🥰❤️🖤💚
You are wrong. 😂. They have a license to GO MAD if they want to. 😂😂😂😂😂
She's very arrogant not a humble elderly person.
If that old lady is so independent she can take care of herself.
Hire a cleaning service. They show up, clean the house and leave.
Exactly
Defendant prob ran off her family with that attitude.. They didn’t want to deal. Prob why she needed an aide to assist her in the first place.
She definitely did, because I'm sure her kids would have been more involved.
She should have went to judge Judy because the way the older lady speaking you can tell she be cussing folks out 🤣🤣🤣🤣
JM is already a grumpy old man I can only imagine how how he would be at 83
😂 chile he gon be hell. Imagine listening to his ole, long ass stories about being a thug ten times a day, every day 😩😆
And calling you a crackhead for bringing his cereal lil late smh 🤣
@@selsi26🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@selsi26 your hilarious 😂
I agree.
So because you're old you can be rude and put others life at risk? Got it. But glad he actually let the plaintiff win cause I sure did think that she was gonna lose 😅
Not because she's old. Because she's been an arrogant narcissist since she was young.
JM be childish and silly to sometimes 😅
@@leelew.1462it was reverse psychology. I’d say the defendant fell for it but even if JM hadn’t said that I’m convinced she’d have given the same “I’m grown” speech.
Right, cause JM definitely be biased at times. And dont nobody be talking about it enough 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@alexisbee You might have missed the point on this one. But, I agree, JM can be biased.
Just because you're old doesn't mean you can be nasty and expect someone to care for you when you clearly can't care for yourself. But hey what do I know?!
You're correct. But really from my experience, many of these old grumpy people were always that way. PS I am an older woman. LOL
This is why her family doesn’t want to be bothered with her…she’s mean.
Judge Mathis shouldn't have joked with the Defendant about driving at age of 83,she should realize that elderly drivers are dangerous.
Eventhough the defendant said, she hadn't ever had an accident, their reactions are not as acute.
Their driving judgment ISNT always correct
The defendant should let the caregiver, drive het,then if the defendant, wants to drive on her own,do it by herself.
Its good that the caregiver left and showed that lady how she wanted to be treated. Old people are down right rude and don't listen.
Some
@@rosalindmize3919 Right. Sometimes they were rude when they were young. This is from an old woman (not as old as the defendant, but I have relatives her age and older and they ARE something else and they kinda always were.)
Judge Mathis really knows how to a wear a joke out. We get it judge, she's 83
I love my elderly and was raised to respect them...my parents are elderly now...but I'm with plaintiff, they can be a handful!!!!
I commend the plaintiff. She’s on point with her case and just because the defendant is mean as all get out she still stood her ground, respectfully as well as professionally!
The plantiff seems very respectful
This old lady needs to be careful, she will F around and find out that not everyone is nice and could fall victim of elderly abuse. Just saying
She's lucky she got this nice woman because a lot of CNAs do not care and will rob you blind. It happened to my uncle, stole his money and left him to die.
The defendant has no business driving. Her children would need to intervene based on her caregiver’s observations! We had to take the keys from our 89 year old Father. It wasn’t easy! But we had to do it! It was for his safety and everyone else ! When your parents began to age, the roles are reversed! You have to be prepared to take the responsibility. Prayers for the plaintiff and the defendant! 🙏🏽
That elder lady mean as ... , no disrespect. I salute the caretaker
I think the plaintiff is so pretty! Some people got a smile that will light up the room right along with their eyes 😊
Blessings to her and hers and to you all reading this. 😊🙏🏼
This is conflict of personality. The defendant has domineering attitude, it transpires when speaking. And the plaintiff looks like she respects her job and she should be doing it right. And she does all her best to avoid confrontation. Good for her.
Very wise elderly women, God bless her she set in her ways, she reminds me of my mother very strong minded. The Home health aid has a beautiful soul and a great deal of patience. Both wonderful people, glad the plaintiff was paid the defendant herself said she did a good job🙏.
Ms. Willard showed up for all the smoke 😂😂😂
Keep your head up Sis... that "Once a adult, twice a child" shii is real! It's never a dull moment with certain folks you come across in that business! There's always 1 who tries you!
I’m glad the Plaintiff handled this situation the way she did. I believe the defendant did everything the plaintiff said she did. She wanted an on call servant and maid. She didn’t want to get help bc she’s grown and can take care of herself
Plaintiff doing her impression of that smokers voice lol 😂
I couldn't help but be amused 😂
@@Hotwingzlover84 🤣🤣
Elderly, Senior Citizens, do become cantankerous, dictatorial, hateful ,spiteful and just nasty.
Some Elderly people can be sweet and kind
I don’t think JM pressured issue of her driving at 83 because for what? Y’all see that this old lady isn’t going to listen to anyone. I think he was just trying to keep the case from escalating by joking and being patient. Even when he joked with her, she snapped her head. Smh. There’s no reasoning with her.
She did not get the humour the judge was giving her, and thought he was mocking her at one point, which the judge explained to her.
I KNOW HOW SHE FEELS!!! It takes a special kind of heart to cater to the elderly, the abused, the sickly, and the homeless. So it is offensive, when you are being treated badly. We are simply trying to help you.
Now Judge Mathis. You know that the Defendant's Kids can't say anything to her. She's part of what's toxic about older People. The Plaintiff remained classy and sweet. I bet, that she's great at her Profession.
The Defendant thinks that being "Disrespectful", is having your own mind. And standing up for yourself, I've seen this too many times. And I Love older people as well. I actually prefer them, over people in my age range.
She is....her kids definitely don't deal with her...and the plantiff knows it...
When he asked her profession, I called it. Teacher. Because she reminds me of the direction my 72 year old mom is headed. They say doctors make the worst patients. Well teachers make the worst listeners 🥴🥴🥴. My dad is still around, so he'll take her to his jobs sometimes or drive her around to distract her from her getting behind the wheel and driving. But the fussing he has to put up with, cuz my mom is getting MEAN...whew! God bless his patience.
But if you outright tell my mom she doesn't need to be driving, get ready for a verbal assault. They're mentally competent enough to function, so you can't tell them ANYTHING. We've put a location tracker on her phone, though...smh...but telling her kids ain't gonna do anything because she's not going to listen to them, either!
I really hope that my dad is still vibrant once I get the last of my kids off to college in 2025. I want to buy him his dream car as a thank you for all he endures...ESPECIALLY now with my mom.
The plantiff was super nice and respectful. She truly has a gift that no everyone has
She was sweet but there's no way for the Defendant to get nasty with the plaintiff.
Age doesn't mean you can treat the people who take care of you mean its not enough money GET YOUR FAMILY TO DO IT
All job people are mean
I know quite a few people who are Home Health Aides. The clients so think they have a maid. Some of them are approved for assistance but wants the aid to to everything while their big grown children sit back and watch
Right!!!
I’m so grateful my grandmothers were so gentle to me and others. They were both ultra feminine, classy, educated home owners. I even had the opportunity to see them upset and they still didn’t lose their pose and regality! This defendant has a lot of masculine energy, she reminds me of my granny’s younger sister. My great aunt is very educated but very mean! She tries to be gentle with me like her sister was, but she has a very mean spirit. It scares me to be old and mean to people on the last leg of my life
First thing,Elderly people, do throw things at people and will immediately call others liars.
As a caregiver to the elderly………ppl take them keys from ur grandparents or parents when they get a certain age. Be involved with their care
In my caregiver group, people have found ways to take the car without keys. It's best to just get rid of the car.
That lady mean as heck! And ran everyone off, my granny the same way! Ran us all off and now sitting at home with nobody to take care of her! Won’t even let a health aide take care of her and our hands are tied because the doctors keep saying she’s in her right mind .. but she’s not and she’s over there just wasting away
Omg, I am side-eyeing my mom's doctors because they keep saying they can't find anything wrong. It's frustrating when you KNOW that isht ain't right!!
That's unfortunate. But, I understand.
I CAN IDENTIFY
Her 83 year old mean self. My grandma was so sweet all the way to 90 yo. 😮so sad … she could have had a sweet worker till the end of her life. If she caught what JM was saying “smoke all you want” means you on your way out of here 😮
The way she did her voice was like those tv shows where everybody tells their side of the story and portray the other person as exaggeratedly mean. LOL
The plaintiff is an incredible person to put up with a lady that no one wants to deal with. Salute.
The Defendant is an angry, cantankerous woman. It's no wonder her children are not her Caregivers.The Plaintiff is a beautiful, patient, and lovely woman.
Mrs. Willa showed her true character soon as she started her testimony.
I appreciated this case, it was quite enjoyable to watch, a stark contrast to all the ratchet traumatic interactions
She pretty sharp for almost 90! I only hope that I am as lucky
Ms. Willard reminds me of that little girl that was going off on her daycare provider saying " Listen linda, I can't wait to get away from you and these kiiids!" Lol
They look & sound alike, have the same mannerisms and attitude.
Thats alot of elder peoples problem, they think because they are older they can do and say whatever they want
You can tell the health aid is a nice lady, but Great G Ma ain't nobody to play with. Ever 😆.
Grandma ain’t haven’t it, you hear me🤣🤣🤣🤣
JM know he gonna be a mess when he gets older😂😂😂😂
He a mess now...dwl
Lol the defendant reminds me of Pearl from 227. I could see her bopping people on the head with a pillow 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
And probably nosy as hell
That old lady is mean..... jus go lay down somewhere
Not go lay down 😂
😂😂
The imitation smoker voice 😂
Ms. Willard seems amazing. Blessings to her! She navigates tough situations extremely well. She would be a great person to have on your team and she deserves respect!
I bet she was a great teacher.
Thank you for saying that because people are beating Ms. Willard up in the comments. I like her 🙂
I hate to admit it but my grandma kinda has some of Ms. Willa's ways😂...tough on the young or sensitive. I can only take it in doses!
Im not quite sure if it's HIS age or what but JM just goes on and on and talks WAY too much and goes overboard with the "having fun" with people during MOST of his cases...I truly hate that I can't watch him like I used to simply because of that😢🤦🏾♀️
Yea he’s getting older he talks a lot
I believe every word that the plaintiff said. I wasn’t a care taker but I tried to care for my elderly neighbor. Who I’d known since a child and coincidentally moved next door to her as an adult. . I quickly realized why her family didn’t come around. She was old a pain in the butt. Always complaining, smart mouth, bossy, rude, talk to me any kind of way, just I remembered as a kid
They were so cordial at the end. I wish they could have worked this out. 😊
Now Mrs. Willa…………you being real petty and difficult at yo big age. She’s a spicy one for sure.
😂
It seems both the plaintiff & defendant did the right thing. They just weren't a good caregiving match & that's okay.
Exactly
When she started working for me, she did nice work. I take care of myself, I am grown. Yeah defendant definitely a piece of work. That statement alone!
I agree with respecting our elders, BUT, because you are an elder, and have " paid your dues", does NOT give you the right to be disrespectful, mean and nasty.
The Plaintiff seems like a respectful, wonderful woman. Ms Russell missed out.
I wish the Plaintiff could of got a lot more money. She had to wait to get paid. And plus care providers don't get paid enough for all they have to do and deal with. Thats a hard Job.... Good Job Home Team ❤❤❤❤
Imagine how JM is gonna be if he reaches that age🤦🏾♀️😂😂
A hot mess!
They both are classic women and i like them both.
Ms. Willard knew she owed her $750. That’s why she mailed the check for $705 and then turned around and tried to make another payment of $45
Damn she a mean old lady smh. My mother's a hha and I've heard of plenty of elders like her. Like ma'am your age doesn't give you the right to be disrespectful
It is very obvious that the defendant probably does not need any assistance from her children, but there's absolutely no way my mother would have been in court without me sitting behind her just for support.
If my mom is a nasty, hell-raiser she might be by herself
@@urluvizmyluv1999 well, I didn't sense that from her. But we don't know these people, so I'm definitely not going to judge in that manner... Especially by being an elderly lady. The elderly people that came before us went through so much, it's understandable that they have some resentment and possibly a little bit of hatefulness in them. I am grateful for their Journey
The defendant thinks just because she has 40 acres that her help should be like mule
Our society is really plauged with some serious ageism. People leave jobs all their time due to an imperfect relationship with their employer. The plantiff leaving her job has nothing do with defendants age.
I can’t stand a show off and that’s what that old woman was doing. Showing off!
…it’s episodes like this is why we LOVE the ‘Judge Mathis’ show.
Definitely a mean, yet sophisticated old lady 😂😂😂
She's going to school "headed for law " and she becomes a home health aid? Something doesn't sound right.
Glad she's winning.
If defendant doesn’t drive responsibly, she needs to stop driving for the safety of other drivers and their family. Shame on you judge for promoting this. She may not have had an accident, but there is always a first one.
JM establishes a great rapport and takes the sting out of the situation for the defendant. Great work.
Some old folks are mean and nasty and the defendant fits the description
I don't agree. Just because you're 83 doesn't give her the right to endanger her passengers and act rude. I'm 60. I was taught to respect elders but these new old heads test your patience. If she's that independent to drive, she can take care of herself. Her kids would put her in a home. This plaintiff was kind and patient, education doesn't give you the right to talk down to people.
Problem is most care givers treat the elderly like children. Aunts and uncles treat my grandma like a child and catch hell for it, my pops treat her like she still has authority and is treated much differently
I have to disagree judge. I've seen plenty of nurses that do this type of work for the money and not because they like to serve the elderly. Maybe he hasn't seen the videos of nurses abusing the elderly.
JM a mess...😂 Volunteering Doyle's car like that 8:54
I just like to give a special shout-out to the elderly people that are kind. I don't know this senior citizens situation totally. I do know for a fact there are senior citizens that's when I feel that they are above the law and they don't feel the need to talk down to people. I can pray when I get older that I get better with time as far as trying to be positive. Whatever the case I'm glad that they were able to work it out.
I don’t understand how ppl are nasty to those who are literally trying to help them. Being older isn’t an excuse to be mean & nasty, idc what experience or success you’ve had in life.
It's not the age as long as you work for someone they gonna treat like crap
@@sarahrean7174 I agree, that’s very true. U see the proof in customer service jobs all the time
JM needs to stop it......83 is a blessing but don't give u the right to do whatever it's still limitations especially in traffic n treating ppl right.....I know exactly how the worker feel I've been in Healthcare for 13 years
Sweet plantiff.