WE ELOPED! Find out why and reactions | Naomi and Jack

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  • čas přidán 8. 07. 2019
  • There is so much more to say than we could fit in this video we hope to cover it in more detail in the future. So a little bit of context, we started planning our elopement half way through planning our big wedding. We were finding the planning really stressful and it kept taking away from our time together. We had always played with the idea of eloping however I (Naomi) was the one that really pushed for it in the end. Marriage is meant to be about us coming together. Although we love our family and friends we are the people who will need to live together and be accountable to each other. It is easy to get side-tracked however always do what you want - people will get over it. If they don’t, did they really have your best interests at heart? Are they really the right people to be in your life? Elopements can be hard but at the end of the day you have to do what is right for you.
    Naomi is Zambian and Jack is British. We are newlyweds very much in love and we are excited to share our journey with you on youtube. We got married in June 2019 at the ages of 23 and 25.
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    Naomi and Jack
    xxx
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Komentáře • 69

  • @NaomiandJack
    @NaomiandJack  Před 4 lety +7

    Feeling nosey? 👀 Got a question you would like us to answer? 🤔 Reply below and we might answer it in a future Q&A video 👇🏼👇🏿

    • @laydydee
      @laydydee Před 4 lety +1

      Naomi and Jack Hey there, congrats! So which wedding day will you consider as your anniversary day?

    • @NaomiandJack
      @NaomiandJack  Před 4 lety +1

      so probably our elopement but shh don't tell anyone haha Thank your question. Sorry for the late response, sending you lots of love and peace❤️❤️

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 Před 3 lety

      What did you both study at Uni?

  • @lavernejackson1958
    @lavernejackson1958 Před 3 lety +43

    We had a baby and eloped in our living room two days after the birth of our baby. A year later we had a big wedding which was great. We’ve been married now for twenty nine years. Wishing you a long and happy life together.

  • @o.l.austin3642
    @o.l.austin3642 Před 3 lety +11

    My husband and I eloped, it was the way we preferred...we both have fairly large families, but, we just didn't want any negative vibes....it was just the sweetest day ever, my husband said he loved it.

  • @Ntjitube
    @Ntjitube Před 3 lety +20

    For the mere fact that I don’t want to dance for everyone at reception (I’m African) and have people give out speeches about me while I awkwardly sit there, eloping seems like the best option for me

  • @larrybelken7568
    @larrybelken7568 Před 3 lety +12

    That's what my wife and I did 34 years ago. A five-day process culminating in a 15-minute ceremony done by a judge and witnessed by his secretary. Followed by a two-night honeymoon. Good luck!

  • @xoyouaremysunshinexo
    @xoyouaremysunshinexo Před 3 lety +17

    I definitely want to elope! Honestly, just my husband and I somewhere surrounded by nature. I don't see the appeal of a wedding, and I have the kind of parents who would make it all about them, the people they want me to invite, what they think is best, and it would ruin the entire experience for me. There's really nobody I actually want there other than my husband (obviously lol)...I'd rather us have the moment to ourselves, untainted, and spend the money we would've used on a wedding on a honeymoon and a home.

  • @udawyma1682
    @udawyma1682 Před 3 lety +5

    Your wedding...your way...beautiful!

  • @tinachristine4573
    @tinachristine4573 Před 3 lety +4

    I love it when your Naija accent jumped out at the idea of fighting through zombies to get to their wedding 😆😆😆😆😆 I love Naomi.

  • @MulaloThavhana
    @MulaloThavhana Před 4 lety +30

    I'm here for all your 1000 accents Naomi😂😂. And you are so beautiful, melanin popping 🥰😍😍. I like you guys As a couple 🤗

    • @NaomiandJack
      @NaomiandJack  Před 4 lety +2

      😂😂Naomi's accents are brilliant. Thanks for your lovely comment Mulalo

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 Před 3 lety

      Naomi and Jack you had to have two Witnesses?

  • @Jill1228
    @Jill1228 Před 4 lety +16

    New subscriber. Fellow interracial couple. Love your videos. Congratulations xx
    I don’t blame you. Our motto was: OUR WEDDING OUR WAY. YOU want YOU PAY. We didn’t want a religious wedding. It was my first wedding and his second (AND LAST) 😂
    We were married in Las Vegas (no Elvis) 😝. Very beautiful intimate wedding. Next month we will be celebrating our 18th wedding anniversary

    • @NaomiandJack
      @NaomiandJack  Před 4 lety +1

      Welcome to our channel! Your wedding sounds beautiful, I love the intimacy and how it was just about both of you! we had the same moto really - our parents wanted us to have a big wedding badly ha we are very grateful! congratulations on 18 years that is incredible! any celebration plans? I hope you have life long happiness and I hope we too stay as committed to each other as you have! lots of love xxx

    • @KAIZORIANEMPIRE
      @KAIZORIANEMPIRE Před 4 lety +2

      what the hell is an interacial couple/ lol people are people

    • @NaomiandJack
      @NaomiandJack  Před 4 lety +2

      @@KAIZORIANEMPIRE funny you say that we are trying to prove that also with our channel! x

    • @KAIZORIANEMPIRE
      @KAIZORIANEMPIRE Před 4 lety +1

      @@NaomiandJack i love your dynamics, i pray hope send good blessings for success, i have seen other relationships where a black girl is inlove with a caucasian and i feel like the guy is always taking a back seat but your relationship sounds soo natural. he lets you be yourself and you let him be himself and be truly expressive. hAHa i said he sounds gay on another video :P then i sent that video to my girlfriend and she said your boyfriend reminds her of me like how we talk and manerisms hahaha that made me laugh

    • @DuubleD
      @DuubleD Před 4 lety +2

      KAIZO POLYMATH there is nothing wrong with acknowledging differences and accepting them vs pretending there is no difference. This beautiful couple was able to find love that included their different culture and race. That’s amazing ☺️

  • @GsoozEnt
    @GsoozEnt Před 3 lety +2

    I love how between her bun and jean outfit and Jacks white tee and hairstyle, as well as the wallpaper you guys have this classic/vintage 50's style happening. You guys look amazing together! 💞

  • @THTDCTR
    @THTDCTR Před 4 lety +11

    i subscibed immediately as soon as soon as you said "i dont want to be fighting zombies"

  • @thatgirljo2119
    @thatgirljo2119 Před 4 lety +8

    Eloping..all the way! I detest anxiety and planning a wedding will do that to me.so NOPE!

  • @thetad1242
    @thetad1242 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm bingewatching you guys.

  • @pamelagrosvenor-murray2684

    I’m now finding these videos am going through them one by one and in no order. Its like opening a pleasant present box! You guys are really married ... so happy that you and Jack got married !

  • @sherrywheaton4945
    @sherrywheaton4945 Před 4 lety

    Just joining Happy Anniversary you two are beautiful!! 🎉🌹🎊🌹🎉

  • @kendradartey
    @kendradartey Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this!!

  • @candlewax5234
    @candlewax5234 Před 3 lety +1

    Your channel is so addictive. Good to watch the truth, and the beautiful settings.

  • @abigailnachula1041
    @abigailnachula1041 Před 3 lety +1

    Really a blessing to have you my cute cousin 🙌🙌💕💕💞💞. I miss you and wished to see how wonderful and happy you were at your wedding day . may God always protect both of you with love and care for each other💞💞💔💖💖. Love you love you

  • @nosvee1903
    @nosvee1903 Před 4 lety +28

    Lmfao I love it when Naomi brings her African accent it's soon funny and just makes your content unique! Please don't change❤❤

    • @NaomiandJack
      @NaomiandJack  Před 4 lety +6

      Awh I am glad you liked our video, the accent just creeps out of me hehe. Despite living in London practically the accent still has life, I doubt it will die anytime soon ❤️

  • @izitmoi3036
    @izitmoi3036 Před 3 lety +1

    Congratulations 💚🧡 sounds perfect

  • @kendradartey
    @kendradartey Před rokem +1

    Congratulations as well!!

  • @serendipity8209
    @serendipity8209 Před 4 lety +5

    Very nice, as always. Really enjoy you guys.

    • @NaomiandJack
      @NaomiandJack  Před 4 lety

      Whoop we're glad you keep coming back to watch our videos 💃🏿

  • @sheilarioscosme308
    @sheilarioscosme308 Před rokem +1

    This video is great!! I needed to hear this...yes it feels like a trap talking to everyone about the wedding plan

    • @NaomiandJack
      @NaomiandJack  Před rokem

      could not recommend an elopement enough! best decision ever! good luck xx

  • @danielleblack4429
    @danielleblack4429 Před 4 lety +4

    New Subscriber, Thank you for this video, it made me not ashamed or feel bad about eloping because that intimacy is really important! I love watching the love you two share, and I love that you beautiful lovers chose to share that with us! ❤️

    • @NaomiandJack
      @NaomiandJack  Před 4 lety +1

      Welcome to the fam Danielle 🤗💕So glad the video spoke to you. You nailed it, the intimacy is so key. Also congrats on your marriage 🙂❤️

    • @danielleblack4429
      @danielleblack4429 Před 4 lety

      Naomi and Jack Thank you ❤️

  • @2wise4u2
    @2wise4u2 Před 9 měsíci +1

    My husband and I eloped in Hawaii without any family or friends because my husband’s dad didn’t approve. We had a great wedding and honeymoon and have been married for 15 years. His dad is still a challenge but I stopped trying to win him over and I’m happy with that decision.

  • @Drock34
    @Drock34 Před 3 lety +1

    Best way to do it 🥂

  • @eileenrivers3822
    @eileenrivers3822 Před 4 lety +3

    You guys are so funny and cute together! Congrats and here's to a long and happy marriage and forever life together!

  • @ashleyconraduk7320
    @ashleyconraduk7320 Před 4 lety +3

    Both you two look so cute with your hair like this! I love that you eloped !

    • @NaomiandJack
      @NaomiandJack  Před 4 lety

      Awh thank you! We were glad to be able to elope and have a big wedding to celebrate 😊

  • @AlexWilliams-qf3rp
    @AlexWilliams-qf3rp Před 3 lety +1

    The bottom line is that YOU BOTH ARE HAPPY......END OF DISCUSSION....Love y'all

  • @this_is_nyeleti
    @this_is_nyeleti Před 2 lety

    I have watched your journey to Sweden and I didn’t know this is how y’all got married. This is a sign for me😂

  • @Nokss87
    @Nokss87 Před 3 lety

    What a beautiful young couple 💑😍❤

  • @raymondf3670
    @raymondf3670 Před 4 lety +6

    O
    You guys are just so cute I'm. Just enjoying you channel...

  • @ednaabilio1334
    @ednaabilio1334 Před 4 lety +2

    Nadaaa 😂 Im starting loving you guys I’m black and my boyfriend Lawrence is British and ginger as yours congratulations I’m a big fan already ❤️

    • @NaomiandJack
      @NaomiandJack  Před 4 lety +1

      Glad you are enjoying our vids Edna. Wishing you and your partner the best 💕

  • @shecamt
    @shecamt Před 4 lety +8

    You two are such a cute couple. I can totally relate to your story. I could never picture myself having a big wedding either. My husband and I eloped in Maui. Even though my family and friends weren't able to make it to the wedding I wouldn't have changed a thing.
    I wanted our wedding day to be about us and not worrying if everyone that was at the wedding was ok, were they doing what they were supposed to do and making sure everything was running smoothly.
    My husband and I stayed in bed most of the day and then got up around 1pm or 2pm. We went our separate ways to get ready and met back up on the beach for the wedding around 5pm. I've always wanted to get married barefoot and that's what I got to do. I absolutely loved our day.
    Even though neither one of our parents said anything to us I believe they were unhappy about not being able to make it to our wedding.
    We plan to go back to Maui for our 10th anniversary in a couple of years and renew our vows.

    • @NaomiandJack
      @NaomiandJack  Před 4 lety +2

      Your wedding sounds so beautiful! I love how chilled it sounds. Big weddings really can be stressful! I think it's nice that you did something you and your husband could cherish forever! Thanks for sharing your story with us we loved reading it! 💕 I think even if they are happy in principle it's always going to be a little difficult for those close to you but it sounds like they respect your decision. Renewing your vows sounds perfect! Lots of love to you and your hubby ❤️❤️

    • @shecamt
      @shecamt Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you for sharing your story and your beautiful pictures.
      Congratulations!!!

  • @melmelinniss
    @melmelinniss Před 5 lety +5

    Wait! Am first🤗👐

  • @FlorasForte
    @FlorasForte Před 4 lety +2

    And I’m hear 😍

  • @shirlyseewai3677
    @shirlyseewai3677 Před rokem

    Where are you now?

  • @corneliusrichmond1629
    @corneliusrichmond1629 Před 4 lety +6

    Beautiful black queen look so good with your white man

  • @princessingrid6209
    @princessingrid6209 Před 4 lety +5

    Ginger Jesus

    • @NaomiandJack
      @NaomiandJack  Před 4 lety +5

      he is definitely a son of God, just not Jesus 😂