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  • @herpcraft814
    @herpcraft814 Před rokem +6951

    Ain't nothing I love more than hearing Aba say THIS IS A SICKNESSSSS.

    • @tonyscott7072
      @tonyscott7072 Před rokem +327

      This is deviant and we do not want it 😂

    • @agarciabc
      @agarciabc Před rokem +175

      This and the knowledge has entered your cranium 😂

    • @chronicinokla
      @chronicinokla Před rokem +114

      We need merch

    • @dontbestupid6664
      @dontbestupid6664 Před rokem

      “Your mother wanted 2 chickens, instead she had you.”

    • @AB-yr2eo
      @AB-yr2eo Před rokem +7

      😂😂😂😂

  • @matisseguigard2796
    @matisseguigard2796 Před rokem +4385

    Some people don't know when to just walk away. All you need is a couple months out of your toxic relationship to really understand how bad it is.

    • @Dapryor
      @Dapryor Před rokem +58

      Well said.

    • @josequintero7250
      @josequintero7250 Před rokem +157

      Thank you! Most of these people have grown codependent to toxicity, there’s a healthy, beautiful world outside

    • @ONLYALEXISOMAR
      @ONLYALEXISOMAR Před rokem +93

      Yup I literally learned that this past summer then when you experience something different you realize the unnecessary bs you were settling for

    • @thehybridtheory7109
      @thehybridtheory7109 Před rokem +41

      Similar to how aba and preach have the "pin of shame", this should be "pin of appraisal." I had to learn this the hard way with the at-once love of my life. You gotta know when enough is enough. Well said friend

    • @GeekExtremist
      @GeekExtremist Před rokem +30

      100% I had to do the same to get away from the girl that we were both toxic for each other. Not in a way where we fought all the time, but we were both holding each other back in how we both wanted to grow in different directions. Finally broke up with her and held my ground. Purposely stayed single for like a year. Then a few months after I started dating again, I met the woman who would be my wife, been happily married for 13 years now.

  • @Saddles_N_Sauvignon
    @Saddles_N_Sauvignon Před rokem +460

    Anytime I get in a fight with my husband I watch one of these episodes and thank God for my life and apologize bc this is a SIIIIICKNEESSSSS

  • @ladyp3531
    @ladyp3531 Před rokem +430

    I’m convinced that today people cannot define the difference between loving romantically and loving a friend. For a bunch of people who scream about boundaries, they haven’t got any.

    • @JackieOwl94
      @JackieOwl94 Před rokem +7

      Yeah….it’s weird to see how friendship is considered more special than sex.

    • @thoticcusprime9309
      @thoticcusprime9309 Před rokem

      @@JackieOwl94 it is, sex is nothing special especially these days, and you can even pay for it from a thot

    • @thoticcusprime9309
      @thoticcusprime9309 Před rokem

      love is worthless

    • @ladyp3531
      @ladyp3531 Před rokem +13

      @@JackieOwl94
      Why is that weird? Friends are important sex is just sex.

    • @ferdtheterd3897
      @ferdtheterd3897 Před rokem

      @@ladyp3531 People who dont feel that sex is special are much more likely to cheat

  • @SuigaRou
    @SuigaRou Před rokem +5214

    It's crazy to me how people can sit there smiling and giggling about how they cheated like it's cute, and in front of the person they did it to. Have some shame, and to the person they cheated on, have some self respect and get them out of your life.
    Edit:. Some people are saying it's nervous laughter, and I get that. I laugh nervously in awkward situations too. The thing is that cheating is looked down upon because it hurts people, and you can tell the people in the video were hurt by what the cheaters did. So what gets me isn't just the laughter, it's the complete lack of remorse or empathy. Forget romance, these people aren't even worth being friends with. The people in the video who were cheated on should be ghosting these clowns.

    • @tony_5156
      @tony_5156 Před rokem

      Shame and dig in its does not exist in 2022 in western society

    • @MOthanMost
      @MOthanMost Před rokem +17

      🙌🏽

    • @sanban6766
      @sanban6766 Před rokem +90

      @Louis Kingsta well they did it to their faces and behind their back so why wouldn’t they do it again here?

    • @iridescentsea3730
      @iridescentsea3730 Před rokem +95

      I think this is a consequence of religion having no more place in a person's life.

    • @spike5499
      @spike5499 Před rokem +222

      @@iridescentsea3730 you're confusing morals with religion

  • @jamesr620
    @jamesr620 Před rokem +1830

    How people can do such awful things to each other and still describe their feelings as “love” pretty universally is wild

    • @wonderboytheartist
      @wonderboytheartist Před rokem +55

      its because of how the other partner just takes all that abuse on the chin and is jaded by their feelings for the person so the trash partner thinks they can get away with it.

    • @matoozxzo2026
      @matoozxzo2026 Před rokem +20

      And still sit in front of each other soo weird humans.

    • @shanellerosado63
      @shanellerosado63 Před rokem +11

      Loneliness

    • @PSNthr33staks
      @PSNthr33staks Před rokem +5

      You can love someone and sleep with someone else

    • @Killer_Turnip
      @Killer_Turnip Před rokem +56

      @@PSNthr33staks So you can "love" someone while not respecting them? Bc that's what cheating is 😅 When you love yourself and your selfish desires more than your partner.

  • @alion4574
    @alion4574 Před rokem +1013

    Notice how the one brown-haired girl had no reaction to finding out that the Ginger Dude's friends called her a "cheater" and that "She doesn't treat him right" but then pulled a face when she found out they called her "selfish". That should tell you a lot about what she values and her moral compass.

  • @alion4574
    @alion4574 Před rokem +163

    The craziest part to me about all of these CUT and JUBILEE videos is that these are all people that know they are being recorded and you would expect to be on their best behavior and the most conscious of how they come across. So when they act crazy I just sit there and am like "This is how you present yourself to the world? What in the world are you like behind closed doors?"

  • @ajtaylor8750
    @ajtaylor8750 Před rokem +2028

    Yeah, "friends with complications" is a way better way to describe these situations instead of friends with benefits. One has clear cut boundaries and stipulations while the other is filled with confusion, a bit of heartbreak, a to of jealousy, and EMOTIONAL DAMAGE!

    • @Jae_Soouull
      @Jae_Soouull Před rokem +15

      Damn 💀

    • @rumchata6569
      @rumchata6569 Před rokem +9

      Can verify :(

    • @tellmesomething2412
      @tellmesomething2412 Před rokem +14

      Well, usually, those in open relationships stem from either one or both (Sometimes multiple) individuals coming to a point of insecurity that they've accepted monogamy is unrealistic for their future relationships. And, they'll get theirs before, during & after their relationship(s) ends; regardless of how anyone feels, because they no longer trust anyone at that point.
      Hence, stemming from a place of insecurity. Like, I know there's compromise in a relationship, but if I'm in an open relationship, no woman is allowed to tell me I can't fuck this or that girl, because she feels insecure when she sees us together. Why? Simple... That's bullshit.
      It is what it is. 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @sfozardmccall8
      @sfozardmccall8 Před rokem +15

      Yeah I think some people got to accept the fact that they don't know how to be in a relationship. I understand when you are young and in your first relationship but you grow and learn how to be in a relationship with different people. That one couple as roommates, you can tell they have no boundaries and they are so numb of feelings that it cringey to watch.

    • @blz2109
      @blz2109 Před rokem +14

      EEEEEMOTIONAL DAAAAAAAMAGE!

  • @Bal_Naath
    @Bal_Naath Před rokem +854

    Once you take the trash out, don't go looking through the trash. It's in the trash for a reason. Trust yourself.

    • @waterotter3625
      @waterotter3625 Před rokem +48

      The cake slice is covered in cat piss. Don't put it back on your plate.

    • @zainabzolita8436
      @zainabzolita8436 Před rokem +6

      But sometimes you throw away something and realize you can use it in your art project and make it into something useful

    • @molifrobinson270
      @molifrobinson270 Před rokem +8

      [Me, poking my head out of the trashcan, wearing raccoon mask]

    • @TheRealJahan
      @TheRealJahan Před rokem +8

      No bullshit, I done thrown some shit out that I actually needed on accident, just ain’t seen it’s value at the time 🙂

    • @magnisky
      @magnisky Před rokem +1

      👏

  • @headacheimperial1999
    @headacheimperial1999 Před rokem +84

    As a half ugandan who was raised by older family who spoke like this abas impression is ON POINT😂😂😂😂

    • @kumikoloh9190
      @kumikoloh9190 Před 5 měsíci

      I'm hearing this in a cartoon where a shaman performs a cleansing ritual on a naive American tourist.

  • @MoustacheMedic
    @MoustacheMedic Před rokem +39

    I've tried the whole "friends with benefits" thing and yeah, friends with complications is %100 the right way to say it. I've had friends that did too and have NEVER met anyone that has had a FWB situation and it not end in drama or heartbreak for one of them. There will always be underlying feelings in sexual relationships, it's just how our brains work.

  • @hyrunnisa997
    @hyrunnisa997 Před rokem +1203

    The couple that lives together and the one that sleeps together will never move on. You can't have your ex in your life and think you can find someone

    • @c_es4138
      @c_es4138 Před rokem +154

      Seriously. Though the red-haired person is doing it to themselves, I feel like they're so emotionally damaged and dependent on their ex being there. They're fulfilled by the little nuggets of affection they're still receiving. The ex seems like the "taker" in the relationship, so it's convenient to keep her ex around. Very unfortunate!

    • @vilesyn
      @vilesyn Před rokem +28

      It’s a whole new level co-dependency

    • @solomia5037
      @solomia5037 Před rokem +12

      thats a lie a lot of people are just confused. ive been friends with multiple exes and still fully capable of finding new love without exes interfering. i moved on and had firm ideas and boundaries of what it was supposed to be

    • @OpiatesAndTits
      @OpiatesAndTits Před rokem +2

      I dunno I get why you say that but the dudes self awareness seems there.
      I just think he’s gay, maybe he hasn’t realized it yet or is still
      Coping or something. Like he lives with her and aside from some obvious codependency I wouldn’t see him as a threat.
      Maybe it’s like his innate strategy be so gay coded you can sneak in their like a ninja.

    • @beyondthesacrosanctbreeze
      @beyondthesacrosanctbreeze Před rokem +6

      ​@@OpiatesAndTitsI was thinking trans, but I could be wrong

  • @PhantomMite
    @PhantomMite Před rokem +3392

    NOTHING makes my day happier than Aba's new catchphrase

    • @paulcarmi8130
      @paulcarmi8130 Před rokem +72

      Hello, this is Martin ssempa and I have come to talk to you about what homosexuals do in the privacy of their own home

    • @Mooshanmut
      @Mooshanmut Před rokem +138

      This is a seekniiiiiiiiss

    • @viking_nephilim
      @viking_nephilim Před rokem +99

      Dis is a siiiiicccckneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssss

    • @lucasblanchard47
      @lucasblanchard47 Před rokem +27

      Dis is not new haha

    • @elkingnick
      @elkingnick Před rokem +39

      It's so good, I saw other youtubers use a 3 seconds clip of him saying it. It's on point.

  • @avv_ooo411
    @avv_ooo411 Před rokem +26

    I don’t understand how its so difficult for people to just. Be. Loyal. As a result makes you so insecure getting into relationships bc do you really want to commit to someone you can’t trust?

  • @christaisjoy
    @christaisjoy Před rokem +45

    These people are so peculiar to me. It's so sad to see the amount of bereft self esteem or accountability buried in a buttload of deflection.

  • @TheKingOfRuckus
    @TheKingOfRuckus Před rokem +546

    "The idea of dignity has left your abode" was perfect 😂

  • @xavier.1
    @xavier.1 Před rokem +707

    Cheating is like the worst shit and it hurts to see people do it with no remorse 😔

    • @mattlol163
      @mattlol163 Před rokem +11

      .....you dont understand humans very well im guessing
      People dont feel remorse for doing it...... they MIGHT feel bad after getting caught......
      Have you EVER dated someone??

    • @Farhan_049
      @Farhan_049 Před rokem +133

      @@mattlol163 How many snails finish crawling from point A to B before you understand the message being expressed here? Bet you don't even bother noticing.

    • @reinaldomartinez13
      @reinaldomartinez13 Před rokem +65

      @@Farhan_049 W response

    • @Lead1121
      @Lead1121 Před rokem

      @@mattlol163 bro have you ever dated someone? What the fuck are you on about?

    • @feitan8745
      @feitan8745 Před rokem +4

      @@Farhan_049 he's not that far from the OP comment tho, he expanded the part about him being irritated about some people doing that, or maybe the OP says that because he never had a chance himself, just saying.

  • @climbtheskyspine5748
    @climbtheskyspine5748 Před rokem +12

    "Friends with bene....bent moralities and buried hearts."

  • @localbod
    @localbod Před rokem +9

    That's what I came to hear.
    5:44 "This is a seeeknesssss."

  • @forbearingmotorhead
    @forbearingmotorhead Před rokem +947

    These weird ass relationships are actually related to SICKNESSES of the highest order. The way they shaped their lives around their past relationships are a clear indication that they need to see therapists.

    • @olorundareqowiyat1002
      @olorundareqowiyat1002 Před rokem +28

      It’s siiiiiiiiiickneeeeeeessssss.

    • @Danny_Deleto
      @Danny_Deleto Před rokem +34

      It's sad seeing so many people with little to no self-respect or self-esteem.

    • @dobertjowneyrunior3023
      @dobertjowneyrunior3023 Před rokem

      They need Jesus Christ. Therapy just normalizes the pathology

    • @blackjackjester
      @blackjackjester Před rokem +19

      They don't need therapy, they need a purpose.

    • @UltraGalacticSuperFantastic
      @UltraGalacticSuperFantastic Před rokem

      @@blackjackjester i dont think so. wealthy super rich CEOs still are full retards in relationships, so i don't think purpose is the issue.

  • @Antonio_4
    @Antonio_4 Před rokem +379

    "Where is Waldo at a LGBTQ march" LOOOOOOL!!! Ah man that one hit me hard!

  • @EdgarHernandez-uu4iw
    @EdgarHernandez-uu4iw Před rokem +42

    You know life is sad when people don’t want to commit in a serious relationship yet still want to live together like you are. Meaningful relationships are dead

    • @amorerobinson4140
      @amorerobinson4140 Před 11 měsíci

      They live as a married couple just without the ring/documents/commitment

  • @ivangorodokin7605
    @ivangorodokin7605 Před rokem +9

    I 100% had the same reaction as Preach by the end of the video. It's insane how much some of the people in this "relationships" don't see the flaws that are blatantly obvious to someone looking at it from the outside.

  • @raer5373
    @raer5373 Před rokem +366

    The weirdest thing for me was definitely the chick who giggled when called out for cheating like it's cute what she did, wtf is wrong with her?🤨

    • @njpme
      @njpme Před rokem +34

      It is a siccccknesss!

    • @Bitridamus
      @Bitridamus Před rokem +6

      Yeah. I agree. I would hit it a couple times though. Also, is her ex a man of a woman who transitioned? I couldn't tell.

    • @Joy.W.
      @Joy.W. Před rokem

      @@BitridamusA woman, they are lesbian. Some lesbians dress like a man. Looks are sometimes deceiving.

    • @leifa888
      @leifa888 Před rokem +23

      She can feel that way because she has a doormat of a partner who clearly rewards her sick behavior.
      If the closest people in their life don't push back significantly there's a lot of people without the self conscience to change course

    • @Saulgoodmane
      @Saulgoodmane Před rokem +18

      @@Bitridamus dude that’s a lesbian woman with short hair that’s not a man lol

  • @b.e.r.nnetwork8251
    @b.e.r.nnetwork8251 Před rokem +370

    That where's waldo LGBTQ joke was hilarious had to rewind🤣🤣🤣

  • @darkyoumemento5307
    @darkyoumemento5307 Před rokem +3

    "You messed everything up for me and our dynamic is entirely dysfunctional, but I love you because I don't really have anyone else."

  • @laela6289
    @laela6289 Před rokem +4

    We need to talk about the narcissism and low empathy in our culture rn

  • @decode3667
    @decode3667 Před rokem +1103

    This was beyond weird & the weirdest thing was that the least weird thing out there was the guy who was abused as a kid. The other relationships are on another level of weird.

    • @noseriouslyimserious4073
      @noseriouslyimserious4073 Před rokem +52

      They’re obviously Trans… so. Yeah. Makes sense.

    • @grinchiestgrinch7289
      @grinchiestgrinch7289 Před rokem +16

      The where's Waldo couple was the weirdest

    • @decode3667
      @decode3667 Před rokem +94

      @@grinchiestgrinch7289 My point was that the weirdest couple was not the weirdest in terms of interactions. You had the guy who came out that he was raped as a child... yet, the weirdest conversations was from the other couples who were cheaters & all over the place in terms of emotions.

    • @independentaquaman7424
      @independentaquaman7424 Před rokem

      All the white guys in this vid are either betas or omegas.
      No wonder their women cheated on them.

    • @Rockas360
      @Rockas360 Před rokem +1

      @No Seriously, I'm Serious being trans is not mutually exclusive to beige abused

  • @sasas2942
    @sasas2942 Před rokem +627

    I love it when Aba goes "This is a sickness!" Makes me happy. 😅😅

    • @davenunyabusiness4893
      @davenunyabusiness4893 Před rokem +10

      not sure how it isn't on any of their merch yet its a hell of a line. He stepped it up this video with "Friends with Complications"

    • @sasas2942
      @sasas2942 Před rokem +5

      @@davenunyabusiness4893 yes, both of those catchphrases need to be merch! He actually has a bunch more that are merch-worthy. I need a thread of all of those catchphrases. 😅

    • @GothamThotSlayer
      @GothamThotSlayer Před rokem +7

      AND IT IS DEVIANT!

  • @dameionarutogaming9728
    @dameionarutogaming9728 Před rokem +6

    12:20 home girl kept breaking eye contact everytime she said "i love you too" RIP

  • @adamriddle7425
    @adamriddle7425 Před rokem +3

    That redhead is in the worst type of friend zone. That can't be healthy long term

  • @Thunderlord_Tozn
    @Thunderlord_Tozn Před rokem +333

    8:58 notice how when they recite all the bad things people said about her, it wasn’t until they called her selfish that she was surprised.

    • @Realcordy
      @Realcordy Před rokem +15

      Case in point 💀

    • @jumpingcup7276
      @jumpingcup7276 Před rokem +3

      Sorry i did realise that but what does it mean/shows that she only reacted when was called selfish.

    • @phonesjuda7318
      @phonesjuda7318 Před rokem +25

      @@jumpingcup7276 that she is in fact, above all else, selfish, because her ego got hurt when called out about precisely what she mostly does, and that she cares more about her image rather than the actions/inactions she took with him.

    • @Killer_Turnip
      @Killer_Turnip Před rokem +4

      Sheesh, maybe she's a narcissist?

    • @matterking1
      @matterking1 Před 4 měsíci

      Maybe? ​@@Killer_Turnip

  • @MrMurked10
    @MrMurked10 Před rokem +123

    the lengths people go to not separate themselves from toxic relationships

  • @KyleBeatz
    @KyleBeatz Před rokem +4

    You guys killed this one. "This one is lost." 🤣🤣🤣😭

  • @thiagots85
    @thiagots85 Před rokem +468

    The therapist business grows exponencially. The amount of shit that would be red flags 10 years ago and is just " ah... is just the way that person is" is alarming.
    I'm far from perfect, but holy shit, some people's experience make me happy with my mistakes.

    • @clarie4497
      @clarie4497 Před rokem

      Nah, the psychiatrists are starving because these dumbasses to look for help.

    • @xtiphuny89
      @xtiphuny89 Před rokem +17

      Ten years ago, people constantly said, “that’s just the way that person is.” That is not a new phenomenon. And it was just as disturbing back then!

    • @leroyrodgers6089
      @leroyrodgers6089 Před rokem +13

      Shame existed 10-15 years ago.

    • @equinox1223
      @equinox1223 Před rokem +5

      @@leroyrodgers6089 now it's *shameless

    • @JYGtube
      @JYGtube Před rokem +16

      @@xtiphuny89 Yeah people said that but there weren’t as many things that were accepted as “the way someone is”. Nowadays you could label yourself a genderfluid carrot that’s sexually attracted to other root vegetables and socially it would be wrong to question your choice.

  • @leofobbs8949
    @leofobbs8949 Před rokem +311

    The thing I really appreciate about Aba and Preach's dynamic is that they are not afraid to give each other credit. I got people who can never admit when they homie did something good or note worthy

    • @theearlofmarch
      @theearlofmarch Před rokem +6

      For real my dude! These are two straight up guys; gotta respect the way they treat each other and work together 💙😎👊🏻

    • @misschin99
      @misschin99 Před rokem +23

      And they'll call each other out too. I respect that as well.

    • @nanaak8617
      @nanaak8617 Před rokem +7

      Guess it's time to unfriend those people.

    • @oldmanballer5088
      @oldmanballer5088 Před rokem +2

      You need to find better. You need people who will lift you up and hold you accountable! Those are the best to have

    • @sobersith1849
      @sobersith1849 Před rokem

      Sadly some people like what you have and not who you are.

  • @daotainvasion
    @daotainvasion Před rokem +1

    Telling someone that cheated on you and that laughs it off when you confront them that you love them gotta be the lowest lows

  • @mellar5864
    @mellar5864 Před rokem +2

    "Did you ever cheat."
    "I'll take a shot."
    Uh, i wonder what her answer would have been. I have no idea.

  • @iantaran2843
    @iantaran2843 Před rokem +231

    Omg I feel so bad for the red head boy 😞
    That "not feeling comfortable without clothes on because of what happened to me as a child"
    That shit is hard ... Just... I hope he finds someone who makes him feel comfortable.

    • @iantaran2843
      @iantaran2843 Před rokem +21

      @Bailie Spivey Well she certainly has quite the beard going.

    • @matoozxzo2026
      @matoozxzo2026 Před rokem +3

      It

    • @carrela1000
      @carrela1000 Před rokem +3

      Y'all need to move on from boys having long hair. Like seriously it's almost 2023. Get over it.

    • @OfficialDugu
      @OfficialDugu Před rokem +20

      @@carrela1000 nobody mentioned their long hair?????

    • @carrela1000
      @carrela1000 Před rokem +1

      @@OfficialDugu People think the boy is a girl which I assumed is from the long hair as there is literally nothing else that suggests the boy is a girl other than that. Or do beards mean boys are girls now too? 🤔

  • @myles7453
    @myles7453 Před rokem +657

    When they said at 6:19 "It feels like I'm kissing a family member." I was flabbergasted and disgusted.
    But then Aba's Ugadan commentary came in, and I was laughing hard.

    • @NAT-turners-Revenge
      @NAT-turners-Revenge Před rokem +12

      I thought he was eritrean or Ethiopian 🤔

    • @ux1-15
      @ux1-15 Před rokem +63

      @@NAT-turners-Revenge it's just the accent, not that he's Ugandan.

    • @TrafalgarWaterDLaw-dl5cm
      @TrafalgarWaterDLaw-dl5cm Před rokem +11

      But whea ar di diamonds?!

    • @lilahdog568
      @lilahdog568 Před rokem +42

      "We don't want it in Uganda. Keep it away."

    • @bleeem
      @bleeem Před rokem +30

      @@lilahdog568 it is deviant therefore we do not want it

  • @CrippledMerc
    @CrippledMerc Před rokem +2

    You mentioned those two that lived together not being friends with complications, but instead just complications. It reminded me of my neighbors at my last house.
    So get this, my neighbors at my last house was a guy and his wife, their two little kids, the wife’s ex-husband, and her and the exes son. All under the same roof. They all got along well together and they wanted her ex-husband to be there to raise their son under the same roof, and honestly they all seemed to make it work somehow. Didn’t make it any less weird, but it seemed to work. I don’t know how the situation was before they all moved in together, as they were already living there when I moved in. I never heard any arguing and the husband and ex-husband stayed in their own lanes as far as I could tell.
    Once the son was in high school his dad, the ex-husband, had a steady girlfriend and would stay at her place sometimes since their son was nearly an adult at that point. Then once the son graduated the ex-husband and his now fiancé got a place together, so then it was just the wife, her husband, and their two little kids in the house. Quite a unique, potentially complicated situation, but they made it work for the sake of their son until he went off to college.

  • @stevenedwards891
    @stevenedwards891 Před rokem +1

    The Where’s Waldo Reference for me good 😂😂

  • @OmnipotentSaiyan
    @OmnipotentSaiyan Před rokem +158

    The second I find out someone I’m dating is seeing someone else there is no friendship afterwards, because I give all women the option to just be friends in the beginning with no seggs.
    If you commit to a relationship with me and break my trust there will always be tension and hatred towards you.
    I live a stressful life already no need for unnecessary stress because of one person.

    • @Yash_Nilam.
      @Yash_Nilam. Před rokem

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    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill Před rokem +2

      Facts and bro that screen name is dope

    • @NomfundoV8
      @NomfundoV8 Před rokem +3

      I feel the same way, I agree with you wholeheartedly!

    • @HDGaminTutorials
      @HDGaminTutorials Před rokem +3

      Better to dump the whole person at that point it's almost impossible to forgive infidelity truly imo

    • @NomfundoV8
      @NomfundoV8 Před rokem +1

      @@HDGaminTutorials Absolutely

  • @saldiven2009
    @saldiven2009 Před rokem +398

    Every time I think I have messed up romantic issues and screwed up emotional problems, I watch one of these videos and realized that my problems really are bush league.

    • @pookie717
      @pookie717 Před rokem +12

      No doubt! I haven't even scraped the surface of what is possible apparently.

    • @blackjackjester
      @blackjackjester Před rokem +4

      Girl is a solid 7.5 and in a "romantic friendship" with a prepubescent 4. Homie you're not her friend, you're a doormat with a wallet.

    • @Killer_Turnip
      @Killer_Turnip Před rokem +4

      Damn, everyone in that room needs a therapist...and a reality check. 😶

    • @rasmachris94
      @rasmachris94 Před rokem +1

      Damn straight.
      I've had some bad relationships, there was some good moments there but mostly bad so it was worse to stay than it was to leave.
      Thank fuck I live by a policy of clean breaks because this shit is messy.

    • @datheamore6395
      @datheamore6395 Před rokem

      Facts.

  • @christopherlee6135
    @christopherlee6135 Před rokem +4

    This gave me all the motivation in the world to move on because hell the fuck no would I ever put myself through this amount of fuckery

  • @jvzish3239
    @jvzish3239 Před rokem +2

    This is proof that: People can just talk for the sake of it, without logical ethicality behind their actions.

  • @Rockas360
    @Rockas360 Před rokem +317

    I feel for the guy that was victim of childhood sexual abuse. Shit is hard to live with for the rest of your life. I have the same burden

    • @reikun86
      @reikun86 Před rokem +39

      I'm sorry you went through that. I hope you have people who love and support you.

    • @Rockas360
      @Rockas360 Před rokem +15

      @reikun86 thank you for your comment. I have some good folks around me that love me. I got him sentenced and now don't talk to him or some of my family because he was my brother. Those who decide to protect and forgive him I cut out of my life.

    • @reikun86
      @reikun86 Před rokem

      @@Rockas360 I’m sorry that your own blood did this. You were right to cut him and his enablers out of your life.

    • @Unlimited-D-Works
      @Unlimited-D-Works Před rokem +8

      Yah I’m wondering what the problem was when they were laughing at him. 😐

    • @reikun86
      @reikun86 Před rokem +9

      @@Unlimited-D-Works I couldn't tell if it was nervousness, or how stone faced the girl was when her ex told her that he was SA'd.

  • @hennypowers8319
    @hennypowers8319 Před rokem +119

    Friends with complications should be a new status for relationships. Big facts Aba.

  • @bumblebeeman2103
    @bumblebeeman2103 Před rokem +2

    7:15 Preach: "et commetted suacide" i fucking love these guys!

  • @reeceskinner2776
    @reeceskinner2776 Před 4 měsíci +1

    She’s finding ‘Where’s Wally’ set on easy mode.

  • @Officialalmate
    @Officialalmate Před rokem +176

    We need a compilation of Aba saying "dis isa siiiiickeeeesssss!"

  • @PuneetMhajan
    @PuneetMhajan Před rokem +209

    So let me summarise "We have a Friendly Romantic relationship" "When I kiss you, it feels like kissing a family member" Just let that Sink In SLOWLY!!!
    This is a Seeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeekness

    • @callofdoody21
      @callofdoody21 Před rokem

      bunch of young idiots who dont know wtf they want

    • @xxxmelissatacionxxx
      @xxxmelissatacionxxx Před rokem +3

      He's chatting sh*t. Clearly he still loves her romantically and is just saying whatever to keep that hope of them getting back together.

    • @JackieOwl94
      @JackieOwl94 Před rokem

      🤢

  • @anonymousqueen7179
    @anonymousqueen7179 Před rokem +4

    6:28 😭😭😭I’m weakk

  • @souleymanealiouane6420
    @souleymanealiouane6420 Před rokem +2

    The “tabarnak” at 9:33 was legendary 🤣🤣

  • @irksomecodger9667
    @irksomecodger9667 Před rokem +48

    Aba, don’t stop with Pastor Ssempa impressions that shit cracks me up every single time.

  • @Joshua_Uwadiae
    @Joshua_Uwadiae Před rokem +81

    How did I manage to watch this half way?
    Also, as a Nigerian, Preach going "WE SHALL OVERCOMEEEE" sent me 🤣😭

  • @sophietemple2728
    @sophietemple2728 Před rokem +2

    Some of these are really sad - like the ginger lady, it almost seems like she doesn’t think she deserves better than the other woman. Like she was literally cheated on and she’s still sat there saying she loves her and LIVES with her. No, she’s toxic, you said it yourself, she’s selfish - you can move on and find people who value and cherish you properly !!

  • @lambro3001
    @lambro3001 Před rokem +2

    If someone is telling you, "I love you too" but they keep finding ways to not look you directly in your eyes while saying it, they lying. All cap!

  • @chriswilliams2035
    @chriswilliams2035 Před rokem +43

    That where's waldo joke was 🔥

  • @Greedsmith
    @Greedsmith Před rokem +30

    “Friends with complications”
    **Chef’s kiss**

  • @hulda4ever
    @hulda4ever Před rokem +1

    Love when the accent let's itself in!

  • @Marko-ew3eu
    @Marko-ew3eu Před rokem +2

    6:50 we need that Ugandan Aba compilation

  • @HeidariReacts
    @HeidariReacts Před rokem +176

    THIS IS A SIIIICKNESSSSS!! It is DEVIANT, therefore we dont want IT!

  • @CaulkMongler
    @CaulkMongler Před rokem +257

    Seeing so many failed relationships and knowing all the relationships that just have the poorest communication skills makes me entirely want to opt out of relationships.

    • @nightfighter7452
      @nightfighter7452 Před rokem +45

      Makes me feel even more confident in my dating abilities despite never having a relationship tbh

    • @mafamac4069
      @mafamac4069 Před rokem +4

      Watch how your life expectancy increase.

    • @melodyabusa
      @melodyabusa Před rokem +12

      Why do they stay when they can't even talk about anything? (They as in people in those relationships that still try for those relationships)

    • @xXFUEGIxX
      @xXFUEGIxX Před rokem +5

      Honestly, I see the effects of watching these videos. It's best to change what you watch and hear

    • @MKULTRA_Victim_
      @MKULTRA_Victim_ Před rokem

      Same

  • @JadedJet
    @JadedJet Před rokem +1

    Relationships aren't worth the drama

  • @JohnSmith-pn2ts
    @JohnSmith-pn2ts Před rokem +1

    This is why I'm not friends with any of my exes, gotta burn them bridges

  • @amritashar9592
    @amritashar9592 Před rokem +148

    I feel incredibly sad for the guy in blue shirt who was SA.

    • @sworddomo1951
      @sworddomo1951 Před rokem +44

      Might be why they didn't date etc. He's holding onto it hard wherever he is, and its hurting his relationships. He should be in therapy and hope he can be better. Jordan petersons 'clean your room'

    • @reikun86
      @reikun86 Před rokem +19

      @Bla Bla I don't know what the right course is, but he might be exerting a misunderstood feeling of having control. Victims of SA are at their most vulnerable and powerless moment of their life, and this may be a way of overcorrecting or never feeling that way again.
      I do agree that whatever it is, it is hurting all his romantic relationships.

    • @danielandree3947
      @danielandree3947 Před rokem

      @Bla Bla wow…. Way to victim blame.
      He was SA’d one of the sickest crimes anyone can commit on another human being, it isn’t a simple “hang up”. You have no idea what he went through or is continuing to go through, and he can tell anyone and everyone if he feels like it, if that is something he feels will help him heal then let him be.
      If this was a female saying the same thing I guarantee your comment would have looked completely different, you trash

    • @rickd438
      @rickd438 Před rokem +3

      Noticed how they laughed. Male victims aren’t taken seriously.

    • @scerb100
      @scerb100 Před rokem +9

      @@blabla187it happened to him as a child so that experience is linked with his development. It will take a lot of therapy to get past something like that. He doesn’t need to keep it to himself. More men need to speak about SA amongst boys and men. That last Kendrick album has a track about that. Now I do agree that perhaps telling her for the first time on this CZcams channel was a little left field

  • @JusticeHall
    @JusticeHall Před rokem +5

    I just need a whole hour-long video of Aba speaking in his African accent... PLEASE, make that happen! 🤣😂🤣😂

  • @docwylee1891
    @docwylee1891 Před rokem

    “The idea of dignity has left your boat”

  • @psiga
    @psiga Před rokem +31

    11:22 "It definitely just taught me, like: If you need something, _say it._ Because as much as I like to tease you about the the fact that you never kissed me? That was something that I very much wanted, that I never told you."
    And then, the fact that Matthew wasn't willing to kiss Kay because he was keeping his childhood sxual abuse a secret, explains why he never kissed her.
    So they were both not communicating effectively.
    Both of them need a lot of therapy, even today. He is only just now starting to come out of his shell, and she is still very busy talking about herself.

  • @dali91188
    @dali91188 Před rokem +2

    and here i am getting unconfortable just by looking at someone i did wrong at some point in my life and these people just talk about cheating casually in front of the person who they cheated on
    the world lacks morality and decency

  • @AugustThor438
    @AugustThor438 Před rokem +51

    When the notification came I heard Aba’s african pastor voice in my head 😂

  • @michaelrendler3703
    @michaelrendler3703 Před rokem +1

    Unfortunately, too many people don't understand how damaging casual sex or FWB is to your growth and development. People are too inclined to form attachments and meaning in their relationships, and it rarely works out.

  • @RailsharkX
    @RailsharkX Před rokem +1

    That "Where's Waldo" joke was so killer hilarious.

  • @jermainebagnall657
    @jermainebagnall657 Před rokem +120

    You know it’s a serious/hilarious episode when Aba says “It is a sickness, and we don’t want it” and Preach makes a noise like R2D2 in danger!
    Thanks for all of your great content!

    • @Yash_Nilam.
      @Yash_Nilam. Před rokem

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    • @seektruth5750
      @seektruth5750 Před rokem +5

      It is deviant, therefore we do not want it

    • @equos5060
      @equos5060 Před rokem +1

      Staka fulayza!

    • @crazycjk
      @crazycjk Před rokem +2

      R2D2 in danger 😂😂😂

  • @psytron939
    @psytron939 Před rokem +60

    Aba's sickness character HAS to be in a sketch of some kind at some point.

    • @missqt48
      @missqt48 Před rokem +9

      It’s Pastor Sempa (Ugandan) check him out on YT!

  • @dragonflytempb8395
    @dragonflytempb8395 Před rokem

    I’m an affair baby accepted by my dad’s family AND his wife’s family. Like I called brothers, Uncle. I didn’t know how strange my sitch was to I was grown bc my friends fams were also not trad. The Xes living together made me think of my friend…. Her mom and stepdad were divorced and still living together as roommates. They had their own separate rooms. Her youngest sister was born 3yrs AFTER their divorce. It’s things like that that made it so I didn’t realize how odd my sitch was til early 20’s

  • @liimo487
    @liimo487 Před rokem +1

    7:58 the fatty tuna joke 😂 deserves recognition

  • @k1ll3rcombo25
    @k1ll3rcombo25 Před rokem +122

    guy decided to air out his trauma on a show for the entire internet to see, because an ex was sitting across from him.

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      @Yash_Nilam. Před rokem

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    • @legoapocalypse3073
      @legoapocalypse3073 Před rokem +4

      Maybe he is just making shit up to impress

    • @amaranthx3627
      @amaranthx3627 Před rokem +8

      I thought it was strange too, but maybe it was a way for them to take back their power from the abuser by airing it out in public

    • @matoozxzo2026
      @matoozxzo2026 Před rokem

      SICKNESSS

  • @RoseB45
    @RoseB45 Před rokem +24

    I don't know about the ginger guy, but I'd be very mad if someone I'm that close to ghosted me before calling it quits. Don't be nice to people that ghost you, they don't love you or care about you.

    • @vikingsfan2218
      @vikingsfan2218 Před rokem +18

      Are we sure that’s a guy? I thought it was a lesbian

    • @ogchocolate93
      @ogchocolate93 Před rokem +2

      @@vikingsfan2218I thought he was American

    • @pennyproud1621
      @pennyproud1621 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@vikingsfan2218the fat orange head thing is a female. She me tioned she was in the girls restroom when a friend told her that she didn't deserve her girlfriend kissing random ppl. And you can see it in the face the soft features. That's a chick.

  • @animaniax2479
    @animaniax2479 Před rokem +1

    Looks like these relationships are stemmed from the fear of being lonely...

  • @d3_bones411
    @d3_bones411 Před rokem +1

    I’m happy we have ppl that can’t keep to themselves

  • @linag7308
    @linag7308 Před rokem +100

    Me & my husband started as friends with benefits. I didn't care if he messed around but I 100% didn't. When I found out I was pregnant I told him he didn't have to stay. I could do it on my own. He stopped partying. Got serious at work and here we our. We've been together 26 years in February. In July we'll have been married 24 years Happily Married. It can work if your communication is on points.

    • @MKULTRA_Victim_
      @MKULTRA_Victim_ Před rokem +57

      Sounds like you got really, really lucky. Congrats!

    • @linag7308
      @linag7308 Před rokem +26

      @@MKULTRA_Victim_ yeah I did. He went from partying and doing all that to just stopping. I never tild.him he had to. I just told him I wanted to raise the baby right...no partying or drinking.

    • @calistafalcontail
      @calistafalcontail Před rokem

      Sounds like it only worked in the end because he had SOME of the morals that you lacked and stayed. Do you know how unhinged and gross you have to be, to sleep with a person you dont even really love and commit to and who has his D in other women while hes with you? People who are physically able to do this are dead inside or extremely primitive. Friends are not friends when they sleep with each other anyway. Women like you ruined it for women who are truly just friends with men. Now everyone thinks women and men who are friends all secretly mess around. I would never, holy crap. You didnt even care about, if your kid will have a father or not? Do you know how essential it is for a child to have a father and mother? Its proven by psychology and spirituality says this since the crack dawn of time. I cant with cheap and reckless people like that. This is what ruins society and creates more messed up people. I mean great that you married but if you feed the same kind of lack of values to your kid then my God.

    • @josephzsoka874
      @josephzsoka874 Před rokem +8

      A small untold part of that story was, the risk you took in hoping the strategy worked....you rolled the dice and won.
      However, the fact that he took the responsible route, without any prompting by you, reveals an important thing....men have more integrity then women.
      In the old days we use to call this ' indirect entrapment'...lol.

    • @kenji2342
      @kenji2342 Před rokem +2

      If you don't mind me asking, are ya'll in an open relatioship?

  • @Colechamdiceman
    @Colechamdiceman Před rokem +9

    This is why nobody in a relationship is allowed to be alone with an ex.. 'Cause they are friends with complications and will complicate a relationship

  • @cold4882
    @cold4882 Před rokem +1

    Preach:”we shall overcome!!
    Aba: no no no we need a stronger one

  • @A_Wild_Dyzzy
    @A_Wild_Dyzzy Před rokem

    “THIS ONE IS LOST”
    That’s going in the quote book.

  • @lesley5380
    @lesley5380 Před rokem +91

    Whenever I need a laugh, you guys pop up on my TL
    Love from London UK 🇬🇧

  • @rezahasani6547
    @rezahasani6547 Před rokem +17

    - Did u ever cheat?
    - I am just gonna take a shot.
    - Damn i guess i will never know.

  • @milton7763
    @milton7763 Před rokem +2

    3:35 Preach’s face!
    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    AhahahahahahaHAAAAA!!!
    I’M DEAD!!!!!!! 💀

  • @insomicraiddict
    @insomicraiddict Před rokem +3

    People so willing to give their trauma and dysfunction to the world, but never seek the help to actually heal, and they end up in the same cycles, it’s becoming difficult to garner sympathy for people.

  • @yoozkay
    @yoozkay Před rokem +29

    Also, Aba's Ugandan accent its the best long-running bit in the history of the channel. I wonder if he does it on stage.

  • @Fatty420
    @Fatty420 Před rokem +29

    Now whenever I see one of these videos with people sitting in folding chairs I immediately check for..well...you know.

  • @dionstewart7394
    @dionstewart7394 Před rokem +3

    This woman said that this man did all this positive stuff but se still cheated on him with a guy that's "just a friend". SICKNESS!

    • @oz_jones
      @oz_jones Před rokem

      I am Whorax and I speak for the streets, she belongs to me.

  • @ghost1284
    @ghost1284 Před rokem

    1:45 nuhhha nuhha that was a violation right , I am in tears

  • @zer0sinder
    @zer0sinder Před rokem +14

    I know how things can get complicated but to decide to move in together after a failed relationship... It truly is a sickness...

  • @SarcasticLee26
    @SarcasticLee26 Před rokem +49

    Well after years of hiding Waldo got tired of hiding because They/Them got bored for not being found and now we are here with this video 😂😂😂😂

    • @missqt48
      @missqt48 Před rokem +7

      They/Them Consumed by one body 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @dave93x
    @dave93x Před rokem +20

    My heart would drop and I'd feel disgusted in myself if I had cheated and was then asked that on camera. These people just laugh.
    People have no morality now.

  • @averyvanderlouw1193
    @averyvanderlouw1193 Před rokem +2

    People now more than ever are attracted to dramatic and overly complicated relationships, and in the end that means no one has friends. Just props and trophies

  • @therevanchist7066
    @therevanchist7066 Před rokem +26

    Ayy lets make 'Friends with complications' a thing cause it's more FACTS than 'friends with benefits'