Iyanla's Spiritual Spa - WHY DO FOOLS FALL IN LOVE?

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  • čas přidán 4. 03. 2020
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    A relationship results when two or more individuals come together in thought, word, or action, expressed or unexpressed, consciously or unconsciously, to give and receive from one another.
    The underlying spiritual implications of all relationships are personal growth and healing of mental and emotional imbalances.
    True healing is only possible when each individual assumes full responsibility for their experiences by making conscious choices that improve the quality of the relationship. And full responsibility can only be claimed when we are willing to be honest so we can do something differently.
    That is what we are going to talk about in our next Spiritual Spa.
    Together, we will:
    👉🏿Examine the stories that we bring into our relationships, and how habitual thoughts or behaviors cause toxic emotions that keep us stuck in broken patterns
    👉🏿Discover the characteristics of a meaningful relationship, and the roles that responsibility, accountability, and integrity play
    👉🏿Learn the difference between relationships and entanglement, so the process of healing, growth, evolution, and transformation can begin
    👉🏿Use what we learn to get in tune and aligned with the ways we need to think + what we need to practice to have a better relationship first with our selves, and then with others
    At the end of our time together, you will be equipped to examine the relationships in your life and take steps to heal the parts of them that are damaged and dying.
    You are the coroner-performing autopsy, and the work is yours to do; the findings are yours to heal. All relationships can be healed once you heal your perception, understanding and experience within yourself and about the relationship.
    So let's come together.
    Let's do the work.Because it's that time again - time to relax, recharge, and renew the energy that you bring into your relationships with your self and others by taking your Self to the Spa.

Komentáře • 220

  • @angelface14angel
    @angelface14angel Před 4 lety +77

    “I’m not looking for love. I am love.” So powerful!!!

  • @t.h.tessema930
    @t.h.tessema930 Před 4 lety +155

    "You don't get to tell people how to love you. You get to see how they love, and then choose whether or not to participate."
    This deeply resonates for me every time I hear Ms. Vanzant say this. #WISDOM.
    Thank you for sharing these pearls. Much love and stay blessed!

    • @derrickbarber9958
      @derrickbarber9958 Před 4 lety +2

      Me too boo!

    • @shameake4417
      @shameake4417 Před 4 lety +2

      We do get to tell/show people how to love us as well and they then choose to love us outside of how they may normally express love. It is a balance. You cannot however demand for someone to love you a certain way.

    • @deborahk7able
      @deborahk7able Před 4 lety

      I do get to tell them how to treat me... different thing.

    • @assitakone3846
      @assitakone3846 Před 3 lety

      Aaàa1aaààaaaaaaaàààaàaaààaààaaaaàaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa1aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

    • @jean-pierremiller7392
      @jean-pierremiller7392 Před 2 lety

      24:00

  • @GaminGawdess
    @GaminGawdess Před 4 lety +35

    Lord.... I need to clutch my entire jewelry box!!!!!!

  • @elegancewithalicemuhirwa9680

    You look gorgeous

  • @charlita25
    @charlita25 Před 4 lety +12

    I noticed I used to “fall in Love “ because I grew up Love starved.

    • @afletcher257
      @afletcher257 Před 4 lety +4

      WOW! What an observation.... true inner observation!!! That's really good! 💕💞💕

  • @tid8583
    @tid8583 Před 4 lety +42

    Your hair is beautiful! Looking amazing!

  • @pamellaphillips5437
    @pamellaphillips5437 Před 3 lety +4

    you don't get to tell people how to love you. you get to see how they love and then CHOOSE if I can accept that.

  • @iAM-cr8li
    @iAM-cr8li Před 4 lety +6

    I love that last part. We want to receive love from a broken place, but dont realise that we already are LOVE

  • @charlita25
    @charlita25 Před 4 lety +5

    Chemistry 🧪 + connection + compatibility = Healthy Relationship {I like this}

  • @robinbarber7714
    @robinbarber7714 Před 4 lety +14

    Sis! Those glasses are bomb! you look fabulous!

  • @lyndak3269
    @lyndak3269 Před 4 lety +20

    This was real! Learned and confirmed things about myself. Increasing my love vibrations. Yep, know I am loved by my first love my Creator who created me to love.

  • @cookiewoo2344
    @cookiewoo2344 Před 4 lety +15

    SHE SPEAKING TO ME...🌷...as much as I hate 2 admit

  • @JackyHapy
    @JackyHapy Před 4 lety +5

    0-5 years OMG, Yessss 👏👏👏👏 And thank you for the word concerning "nothing is permanent ". Such wisdom.

  • @hundroe
    @hundroe Před 4 lety +8

    We fall in love because it's an addiction, and we've all been a fool before.

  • @amiedacrazy1
    @amiedacrazy1 Před 4 lety +32

    I lové this woman! This is such a gem, and is as if the heavens sent this video as an answer to my prayer! Thank you 💕❤️💕

  • @cookiewoo2344
    @cookiewoo2344 Před 4 lety +15

    POWERFUL..U DONT GET 2 TELL PEOPLE HOW 2 LUV U ...🌷

  • @FyeNikka1
    @FyeNikka1 Před 4 lety +10

    The very End... Bought tears to my eyes. Years of abundant knowledge all within an hour. I truly believe this has helped augment the entirety of the rest of my life. Thank You so much Iyanla. I love you like an Aunt or God Mother..!

  • @Meggawoman
    @Meggawoman Před 4 lety +13

    Ms. Vanzant is so beautiful inside and out. She puts things so simple. Thank you for this experience. Ase

  • @sabinah8313
    @sabinah8313 Před 4 lety +8

    Ms Iyanla!!!!!! The POWER you hold!!!! the WISDOM!!!!! Wasn't ready to be called out like this on a friday morning lol god bless!!!! ❤

  • @AltoCroix
    @AltoCroix Před 4 lety +13

    Awesome awesome awesome..great birthday present for me!

  • @MA-rf4hk
    @MA-rf4hk Před 4 lety +12

    Beloved miss iyanla. Lot of love and admiration from morocco. And u re looking fabulous with those curls

  • @janica.4688
    @janica.4688 Před 3 lety +1

    My template is crapped up: chasing after being loved, seen and accepted. Now that you say it, I see it clearly. What a desaster.

  • @derrickbarber9958
    @derrickbarber9958 Před 4 lety +23

    Did you see them 10 paragraphs someone sent her as a question hell naw lmboooooo!!!!

    • @jazminegraves19
      @jazminegraves19 Před 4 lety +2

      derrick barber 😂😂😂😂

    • @Meggawoman
      @Meggawoman Před 4 lety +2

      A whole essay 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Justonevideoplease
      @Justonevideoplease Před 4 lety +2

      We really shouldn’t laugh lol that poor person is going throughhhhh it! Clearly wow poor Iyanla. Lol

    • @derrickbarber9958
      @derrickbarber9958 Před 4 lety +1

      @@Justonevideoplease you're right I would've done the same you are so right people can make life so difficult it's not really the circumstances as much as it is the ppl.

    • @changethestory2826
      @changethestory2826 Před 4 lety

      lol. that's what happens when people don't listen and follow instructions

  • @charlita25
    @charlita25 Před 4 lety +2

    “You do that and it doesn’t work for me and I’m out “ #lmbo 😂😂😆😂😆

  • @charlita25
    @charlita25 Před 4 lety +4

    God is Love ❤️ I am love. I can exude love by staying connected to my Heavenly Father. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @SharisaLee
    @SharisaLee Před 4 lety +5

    I will continue to love myself more and more...

  • @FUNKYJU1CE
    @FUNKYJU1CE Před 4 lety +4

    Iyanla is full of so much wisdom.....Love this look on you too

  • @a.emmadiallo5889
    @a.emmadiallo5889 Před 4 lety +15

    She is a blessing ❤️

  • @23e445
    @23e445 Před 4 lety +21

    This was deep and very good tho powerful!!!

  • @JozzyJah111
    @JozzyJah111 Před 4 lety +17

    I enjoyed every BIT of this! You are AMAZING!

  • @derrickbarber9958
    @derrickbarber9958 Před 4 lety +22

    The reason why we stay somewhere where we could possibly be harmed or with someone that can harm us is because we feel like everyone else is going to do the same thing to us so what's the use of going to someone new if other people are going to treat us that same way?

    • @timbawangu3038
      @timbawangu3038 Před 4 lety +2

      True. So much self healing needed.
      I am love... Ama do that exercise daily👏

    • @Obatala_Vibez
      @Obatala_Vibez Před 4 lety

      🤯🤝🏿

    • @imonmyway317
      @imonmyway317 Před 4 lety

      That's true but that's because we attract what we think we deserve. So when you do the work and know better you will do better. Therefore attracting people into your experience who will treat you better.

  • @skyzthalimit09
    @skyzthalimit09 Před 4 lety +7

    I needed this message and this lesson so I can get the blessings that are waiting for me on the other side of healing.

  • @ShannaM1
    @ShannaM1 Před 4 lety +11

    Love her wisdom. Always love yourself & take care of yourself first- the only way to love others & do for others without depleting ourselves is self love first. Thank u for teaching me this valuable lesson, I am in a happy, healthy relationship, going on 7 years now! 💜 #blessings

  • @nb5346
    @nb5346 Před 4 lety +4

    Thank you Iyanla. I saw this why do fools fall I love seminar, in divine timing and opened my consciousness. Why do I feel so paralyzed when a love relationship doesn’t reciprocate?

  • @audrineeyjohnson6016
    @audrineeyjohnson6016 Před 4 lety +7

    Girlie you are looking good!!! I’m so glad your back because I missed you and I’ve watch allll your shows over and over. Glad something new

  • @goddessceion
    @goddessceion Před 3 lety

    Thank You so much for this. 💚💚💚

  • @sherealbad
    @sherealbad Před 4 lety +4

    You could do wonders for Marriage Boot Camp

  • @caesarjay1665
    @caesarjay1665 Před 2 lety

    I loved this 🙌🏽

  • @vioricaneacsu3172
    @vioricaneacsu3172 Před 3 lety +1

    What an amazing women! When you trust in God and work to your best ability you become a humble human with integrity and high values

  • @marivelramos4640
    @marivelramos4640 Před 4 lety +3

    Bingo!! On time. On Target. Thanks Iyanla!!👍👍👍👌

  • @Rumraisin968
    @Rumraisin968 Před 4 lety +4

    Thank you so much for this! This was sooooo needed! 💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @lindahailstock2995
    @lindahailstock2995 Před 3 lety

    Ms Iyanla, the older you get, the younger you look. Always so beautiful. Thank you for your help.

  • @theresagazley3980
    @theresagazley3980 Před 3 lety

    your are so right.

  • @icimusic2182
    @icimusic2182 Před 3 lety

    i love this woman so much she is a blessing

  • @elizabethhd7895
    @elizabethhd7895 Před 4 lety +5

    Love your new look and energy.havn't listened to u in a while.Miss u Fantastic powerful woman!

  • @tiffanymorris2260
    @tiffanymorris2260 Před 3 lety

    Thank You God bless You

  • @harrietbosibori
    @harrietbosibori Před 4 lety +6

    Lol, you crazy in a good way. Thank you for the insights.

  • @angelamcwhorter44
    @angelamcwhorter44 Před 4 lety +13

    Thank You..

  • @joannadziokan3267
    @joannadziokan3267 Před 4 lety +1

    I love you Iyanla. This was very helpful. LOVE LOVE 💗💗

  • @vempath458
    @vempath458 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for your guidance Iyanla💙🦋

  • @thokondlovu3939
    @thokondlovu3939 Před 3 lety

    Thank you, powerful words .

  • @divinelyguided77
    @divinelyguided77 Před 4 lety +3

    Only 15 mins in and this has been so amazing, much needed. Thank you so much

  • @anneg3958
    @anneg3958 Před 3 lety

    Facts..sort out ur life in a way that it becomes welcoming to the compliment of your life.

  • @lisasmith1786
    @lisasmith1786 Před 4 lety +6

    This teaching is so on point!! Thank you 😊

  • @MW-gs8wz
    @MW-gs8wz Před 4 lety +5

    So good to see you

  • @natashataylor881
    @natashataylor881 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you Ms Iyanla for doing this - it was very helping, doing my homework.

  • @ulricka2131
    @ulricka2131 Před 4 lety +12

    Thank you Iyanla❤

  • @ShannaM1
    @ShannaM1 Před 4 lety +4

    THANK U SO MUCH. I LOVE U, IYANLA...HOW BOUT THAT! 💗💗💗

  • @deboraharchuleta9896
    @deboraharchuleta9896 Před 4 lety +1

    I really like your advice you give us women!! I needed your help years ago. Thank you so much ❤️💕

  • @lanac7974
    @lanac7974 Před 4 lety +3

    Lightworker...blessings and greetings to you...I love your work and everything that you do🙏🏾 keep sharing your gifts with people

  • @kasja344
    @kasja344 Před 4 lety +1

    This was so good💞

  • @cestmoi5702
    @cestmoi5702 Před 3 lety

    This was excellent. 🔥 🙏🏾💕✊🏾💕👏🏽💕🙌🏾🔥

  • @avisclay2874
    @avisclay2874 Před 4 lety +3

    Love you ❤️ Stay blessing the nation with your wisdom!

  • @elizabethr8174
    @elizabethr8174 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for today's message. I love your "true" face! : )

  • @godsgirl1977
    @godsgirl1977 Před 3 lety +1

    You have been such a blessing to my life......team Iylana forever

  • @sharonmardis4920
    @sharonmardis4920 Před 4 lety +2

    I am so intune with your spirituality and receive so much clarity. Thank you with love for the thoughtful love and advice you give

  • @waitiwaita6993
    @waitiwaita6993 Před 3 lety

    OML I love you, you Make sense. I love how you r words Of wisdom ‘I’m inspired’ every time

  • @zahranjie4516
    @zahranjie4516 Před 4 lety

    Thank you so much. ♥️

  • @ThepurrrBlog
    @ThepurrrBlog Před 3 lety

    THIS IS AMAZING! EVERY SINGLE WORD!

  • @jujubee90275
    @jujubee90275 Před 2 lety

    I am listening to this again. Queen Mother Iyanla thank you for your wisdom!!!

  • @ceesah32
    @ceesah32 Před 4 lety +3

    The Brilliant Lady Iyanla. Many thanks!

  • @zenla1032
    @zenla1032 Před 4 lety

    Thank You very much Ms. VanZant. You look so peaceful and beautiful. Thank You again for all you do my Sister.

  • @mindwrites3657
    @mindwrites3657 Před 4 lety +2

    Can’t believe I been missing these. ❤️

  • @thais1780
    @thais1780 Před 4 lety +1

    This was REALLY good!!!!

  • @aliciacarter2443
    @aliciacarter2443 Před 4 lety +7

    Love you Mama

  • @victoriaallen3753
    @victoriaallen3753 Před 4 lety

    You look so pretty Ms. Iyanla. Thanks for the message.

  • @focused0002
    @focused0002 Před 2 lety +1

    Love love love the curly styles on you...😇😍

  • @anna.rrrrrr
    @anna.rrrrrr Před 4 lety

    I loove these spas!!

  • @cherylturner7188
    @cherylturner7188 Před 4 lety

    Thank You!

  • @portiawebb533
    @portiawebb533 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you, Iyanla❣️
    Love you💛✨

  • @NBPlayz-eu2oh
    @NBPlayz-eu2oh Před 2 lety +1

    I was having a rough day and watch this and it made me feel so much better.God Bless you thank you so much you have no idea how much you have help me❤️

  • @kenyagrooves
    @kenyagrooves Před 4 lety +3

    I love that hairstyle on you Ms Vanzant! 😍🤩😍🤩

  • @franhough1044
    @franhough1044 Před 3 lety +1

    Awesome I enjoy listening to you so much, have helped me understand why my parent's couldn't show love and if they did they choose who to give there love to thank you for saving a part of ME.

  • @Greenman42241
    @Greenman42241 Před 4 lety +1

    I just Love live love her wisdom 😍❤️❤️❤️

  • @bethelmullugeta
    @bethelmullugeta Před 3 lety

    I love that hair style

  • @jenniferellen5766
    @jenniferellen5766 Před 3 lety

    You are a blessing 🙏🏻🌸💕

  • @cotton-xb1xp
    @cotton-xb1xp Před 2 měsíci

    You are our inspiration, our teacher about life and All That Is.
    May God bless you with abundance for everything.
    I love you❤

  • @janaeluis7031
    @janaeluis7031 Před 4 lety

    Beautiful Ochun energy 🌻💛

  • @tiffanymorris2260
    @tiffanymorris2260 Před 3 lety

    Thank you 🙏 God bless you Move on of the past move forward

  • @lionettenchari5881
    @lionettenchari5881 Před 4 lety

    wisdom this is thanks Iyanla.
    I am love, taking this with me

  • @rebeccawest516
    @rebeccawest516 Před rokem

    I love you so much...your so kind and sweet...and you make me want to look deep into myself... to find the love that I know is there...in me... thank you xxx

  • @sheilalove7667
    @sheilalove7667 Před 4 lety +2

    I brought all of this mess into my relationships. I knew i was mess up but try going to church for help but the church didn't want to hear it Lay hands on you and never come see about you.😩.I believe i always became involved with the wrong man to hide the hurt that happened to me when I was young. I was by myself for 16 years and got involved with a man just because i felt sympathy for him when his mother died. I wish i would have sent my condolences and ran.

  • @marilynlogan8994
    @marilynlogan8994 Před 4 lety +1

    Hello Iyanla, I really enjoyed the information and the relaxing experience in the beginning. Keep teaching. You are helping many of us . Thank you 😇

  • @sulviagania5665
    @sulviagania5665 Před 4 lety +2

    Mamacita you are amazing!!!!! I learn so much from you. Iove you 😘💖💜💕💋🦄🦄

  • @avitalushs9428
    @avitalushs9428 Před 4 lety +1

    God bless you, sending a lot of love from Israel

  • @rachelbrown3034
    @rachelbrown3034 Před 2 měsíci

    Your the best ❤

  • @RealtorDRFoster
    @RealtorDRFoster Před 4 lety +4

    First, you are absolutely beautiful!! Loved the video. I learned a lot. God bless you for sharing so much wisdom. "Nothing in this life is personal, perfect, or permanent.". Thank you sooo much!

  • @missma7879
    @missma7879 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you Iyanla 🥰🥰🥰

  • @Melli510
    @Melli510 Před 4 lety +2

    Thanks Ms. Iyanla I needed that just got my hear broken and ignored my someone I really liked. still hurting.

  • @stacymckenzie8999
    @stacymckenzie8999 Před 4 lety +1

    Ummm this is Exactly what I needed to hear! Yes! IAM LOVE! And I choose to Not participate w anyone that doesn't know how to love....