Iyanla Vanzant's Spiritual Spa : Freedom from Family Patterns

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 6. 05. 2020
  • In just a few days, we will be coming together once again for this month's Spiritual Spa!
    We are going live on Thursday, May 7 at 8pm EST, and the focus is:
    Freedom From Family Patterns
    This year has brought a level of disruption that was not anticipated.
    In the space that this disruption provided, we are being given the chance to consider the dysfunctional patterns that are built into the foundation of our being, create our own life disruption...and use this opportunity to build something new.
    Reserve your spot here👉🏿www.crowdcast.io/e/family-fre...

Komentáƙe • 242

  • @trinimom7686
    @trinimom7686 Pƙed 4 lety +58

    I listen to Ms Iyanla on my morning walk. Every ounce of my being received this message. I was so busy trying to not be like my mom that unconsciously I did the same. My mother so wanted to not be like her mother that she did the same. I never connected the generational pattern but now that I know I have some work to do to Fix my life

  • @labell5689
    @labell5689 Pƙed 4 lety +42

    This is my teacher I live this lady

    • @TonettaClay
      @TonettaClay Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Mine too sis.

    • @charlzwill495
      @charlzwill495 Pƙed 3 lety

      me too

    • @sharondavis3535
      @sharondavis3535 Pƙed 3 lety

      Me too

    • @kckc1294
      @kckc1294 Pƙed 3 lety

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  • @christinaw.4626
    @christinaw.4626 Pƙed 3 lety +7

    I LOVE this woman because of her wisdom and detachment from judging her old self/ways while also keeping it 💯 that as a 67 yr old BEAUTIFUL woman she still is a work in progress ‌ she inspires me all the time to be my authentic self 😁

  • @Dianathedivine
    @Dianathedivine Pƙed 4 lety +45

    I raised my hand for the entire spađŸ™‹đŸœâ€â™€ïž. You were talking about me... my family... my mama and my patterns.

    • @trinimom7686
      @trinimom7686 Pƙed 4 lety +5

      Me too sis..but we now know we can work to break these habits

    • @daphnepowell-cooper9858
      @daphnepowell-cooper9858 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Breakers Annoiting

    • @TonettaClay
      @TonettaClay Pƙed 3 lety +1

      You got this sis. Good luck on your journey. We all support you here.

  • @bw2579
    @bw2579 Pƙed 4 lety +85

    This is a MUST WATCH! I had my children to watch the broadcast with me - 20 and 19 years of age. What a word! What a word! We have been in a struggle on this very topic for years. We are ready to let go! It is time to let God take this burden and for us to move on. Thank you Ms. Iyanla for your obedience in allowing the Holy Spirit to usher in this topic through you. My daughter and I are still discussing and the broadcast ended over an hour ago. Thank you so much!

  • @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
    @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD Pƙed 2 lety +11

    “People will become afraid when you start changing who they THINK you are.”
    ~Iyanla Vanzant
    Whooooo! Do it to me one more time Miss Iyanla. I just stopped being the only one making the peace and keeping it. I just said no. All hell broke loose, I almost lost my mind, but guess what? Your girl is still HERE! Praise God, I’m still here, so I’m still blessed. đŸ™ŒđŸœ
    💡🕊📖 #LuxEtVeritas
    #spiritualspa
    #iyanlavanzant
    #womenofwisdom
    #thankyoumama
    #Iforgiveyoumama
    #whathappenedtoyou

  • @jenjenhenry
    @jenjenhenry Pƙed 2 lety +4

    It's impossible NOT to smile when she comes on 😁

  • @barnahappy3573
    @barnahappy3573 Pƙed 4 lety +18

    Hi! Black Spanish woman, first generation, and I can testify that the fight is real. I’m embracing the good heritage and consciously breaking with the bad patterns. The best think I have done for myself and my family is getting in therapy. By working on my issues, I have created the space to have difficult and necessary conversations that is bringing healing to all of us.
    Do the work. It’s not easy but our ancestors did their part so we can get here and I think that this is our responsibility.
    Thank you Ms Iyanla

  • @angelacampbell6499
    @angelacampbell6499 Pƙed 3 lety +9

    biological father was married didnt have nothing to do with me, I wanted to travel and became a flight attendant loved seeing more of the world and i travel online i started forgiving just quit a job i felt enslaved too felt good and freeing

  • @Sharedpath777
    @Sharedpath777 Pƙed 4 lety +57

    1. Read the book: Love Without Condition by Paul Ferrini. Get over it by Iyanla Vanzant.
    2. Own your own belief system. Invite the Holy Spirit to come into any situation that you want to change, as the Holy Spirit responds to our simplest invitation.
    3. Use 21 to 41 days to change patterns.

    • @WLNS4Life
      @WLNS4Life Pƙed 3 lety +3

      The Rules of Engagement For Overcoming Your Past Dr. Cindy Trimm

    • @TonettaClay
      @TonettaClay Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Thanks for putting this here!

    • @debervin9121
      @debervin9121 Pƙed rokem

      Thank you, I couldn't remember the name of the author she recommended.

  • @beverleyreid7572
    @beverleyreid7572 Pƙed 4 lety +43

    I have to watch this again. Thanks so much Iyanla. You’re so needed in all our lives. God bless you and keep you safe! OMG! I too experienced the “who do you think you are narrative” from both women and men in the family. I totally upset them.

    • @TonettaClay
      @TonettaClay Pƙed 3 lety

      I can identify with you Beverly. Me too. It's going to be ok and they'll be fine. Good luck on your journey.

  • @alexzandrite5018
    @alexzandrite5018 Pƙed 4 lety +34

    Thank you Iyanla for freely sharing your spiritual wisdom!

  • @briethomas3648
    @briethomas3648 Pƙed 4 lety +8

    I'm glad you said that I want to leave my children a positive legacy!!!! And break the chains that kept me captive!!!! I'm ready to Free and do the Work!!!!!

  • @happylindsay4475
    @happylindsay4475 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    Thank you.
    Thank you.
    Thank you.
    Thank you.
    Thank you.

  • @k.dstandard1836
    @k.dstandard1836 Pƙed 4 lety +13

    I am beauty personified !

  • @willierice1033
    @willierice1033 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Willie Mae ( Greenville SC) GOD I NEED THIS SO VERY MUCH. IM TIRED OF BEING SICK AND TIRED OF ME

  • @jennycadot3635
    @jennycadot3635 Pƙed rokem +2

    I watched it again and it was soooooo needed! Thank you sooooooo very much Iyanla! đŸ™đŸŸ

  • @lalakiwa4209
    @lalakiwa4209 Pƙed 4 lety +14

    There needs to be a part two of this.
    Thank you soooooooo much♄♄♄

  • @beverleyreid7572
    @beverleyreid7572 Pƙed 4 lety +11

    THIS IS MY SECOND TIME LISTENING. I WISH IYANLA WAS MY BEST FRIEND. I SWEAR TO GOD.

    • @mishavaughn873
      @mishavaughn873 Pƙed 3 lety

      I feel you! “Beverley Reid” Just having someone in your life with so much wisdom is so helpful! This women is powerful she is knowledgeable and I’m grateful that she is sharing this information!

  • @dyneshathomas
    @dyneshathomas Pƙed rokem

    I Break every unspiritual pattern inside of me! I call all of my Divine Esoteric Energy back to me!!!!

  • @Dianathedivine
    @Dianathedivine Pƙed 4 lety +5

    Iyanla!!!!! You hit the family nail on the head and I love you for it. Thank you thank Bless You... Bless me as I break these chains

  • @43cassy
    @43cassy Pƙed rokem +1

    I LOVE you Iyanla! Your gift is impeccable! Soo much healing will take place because of your presence on Earth! Thank you!❀✚

  • @hasioseel4807
    @hasioseel4807 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    A DEEP BOW TO YOU TO OUR BELOVED MRS. LYANLA VANZANT. WE LOVE YOU AND YOUR MESSAGES!!!

  • @ladyzeyez85
    @ladyzeyez85 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    “Hurt means you have an expectation that wasn’t met” such truth! Iyanla I love you! 💕 Always speaking to me.

  • @oluwadare12
    @oluwadare12 Pƙed 4 lety +4

    Iyanla Vanzant there is no one like you!! Your humor and wisdom is exactly what I needed to hear the hard truths that I am faced with the responsibility to overcome. With the principles you layed out, and God's help I'm confident I have brighter days ahead. I'm smiling with my whole heart. God bless you immensely with all that you require for your journey ahead!😊

  • @nwanyibuifeobiako162
    @nwanyibuifeobiako162 Pƙed 4 lety +12

    I learned so much about the transference of generational patterns from this video. Thank you so much Iyanla!

  • @keenafromphilly
    @keenafromphilly Pƙed 4 lety +1

    People NEED to understand the spiritual inherited traits...come through auntie!

  • @michelebcombs5016
    @michelebcombs5016 Pƙed 4 lety +5

    I too, am a result of an extra marital affair. I too, became a lover of married men. When I learned about generational curses, I prayed that this one be broken in the name of Jesus. My daughter told her friend that she has never seen me be with another man other than her father. I pray that it will not skip a generation but REALLY BROKEN IN FUTURE LINE.

  • @briannaspeezy4258
    @briannaspeezy4258 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Wow
    When I heard LOYAL to jobs we hate I screamed. FACTS

  • @michaelaponte6287
    @michaelaponte6287 Pƙed 4 lety +12

    Omg !!!!!!!!! This is so hard to hear, everything she is talking about hit home for me, I took three days to hear the whole thing..Thank You:) i started the process of working on myself a few years ago and this was the icing on the cake 🙏

  • @micheleholley1070
    @micheleholley1070 Pƙed 4 lety +8

    Madame Vanzant that was a powerful prayer, I had to listen it again to get those teachings.

  • @stephanieagselgado5312
    @stephanieagselgado5312 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    You are ENLIGHTENED on another level! I am so honored to be able to hear your teachings. You give me SUCH motivation to realize I am ENOUGH and I can grow and heal from ANYTHING that no longer serves me. I AM LIGHT....I AM ENOUGH...THANK YOU IYANLA

    • @jacklynjohnson9505
      @jacklynjohnson9505 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Help with my talk toxic relationship you say he love you then he bring up old stuff old pastor no I bet he been in jail and Warner did warned on everything

  • @slog4548
    @slog4548 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    I've been drawn to you and now I see why. My mother committed suicide when I was 18 mo old. She was a beautiful 27 year old woman with a career as a saleswoman and 2 beautiful children. She was a college graduate who marched in the 60's for civil rights and women's' rights. I was sold a sex slave and tortured for many years as a little girl. I never had love except from my brother who was kind of in the same boat as me. I have been on a spiritual journey ever since and felt the same as you, like I really was destined to break the pattern. But living past 27 is not enough. No, no. I want to learn to give more love. I want to achieve all my dreams and fulfill Jesus' vision for me. I want to fulfill my duty to God. So thank you, Miss Iyanla. You are a blessing.

  • @TheAuthenticEmpress
    @TheAuthenticEmpress Pƙed 4 lety +13

    I love you Goddess Iyanla đŸ§˜đŸœâ€â™€ïžđŸ™đŸŸđŸŒ•â˜€ïžđŸŒŠđŸ’—đŸ’«đŸŒŽđŸŒłđŸŒŹïžđŸ‘‘

  • @rozlewis9914
    @rozlewis9914 Pƙed 2 lety

    Love these moments with Iyanla.

  • @temz5605
    @temz5605 Pƙed 4 lety +8

    Ms. Iyanla is GOLDEN!! Thank you ❀❀❀❀

  • @boundsgarneff5157
    @boundsgarneff5157 Pƙed 4 lety +6

    I can't get enough of these juicy videos! I'm sending you a big Hug. Thank you for helping us to elevate as a community. 💜🙏May the Lord keep blessing you at all times.

  • @discoveringyourinnerlight
    @discoveringyourinnerlight Pƙed 4 lety +1

    Absolutely beautiful Ms Vanzant! You are heaven sent😇

  • @moneeauntie
    @moneeauntie Pƙed 4 lety +4

    Queen your humor is the best awakening. Ty for being honest in your teaching and sharing the love. You are courageous. It's real and I love it..Girrrrrrlllllll.

  • @mandyford7357
    @mandyford7357 Pƙed 3 lety

    oooh breakthrough is coming!!! thank you Iyanla!!!!!

  • @jamiengaddis8416
    @jamiengaddis8416 Pƙed 4 lety

    Awesomeness!!! All I can say!

  • @oliviajordan9611
    @oliviajordan9611 Pƙed 3 lety

    Thank you Iyanla for this message.

  • @nicolelee5867
    @nicolelee5867 Pƙed 3 lety

    I needed this message. Thank you so much.

  • @reineessindi5349
    @reineessindi5349 Pƙed 4 lety +1

    Amen my sister, preach please. alleuia. thank you so much

  • @abbyw9286
    @abbyw9286 Pƙed 4 lety

    Thank You Iyanla. Great courage boost for me.

  • @erikastevenson7142
    @erikastevenson7142 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    My God!! thank You My Sista this was awesome 💘

  • @faithi5873
    @faithi5873 Pƙed rokem

    Much Wisdom, Wise Woman!
    Respect!

  • @authornikkib2025
    @authornikkib2025 Pƙed 4 lety

    I wrote my first book entitled THEM DAMNED CHURCH FOLKS 2014 AND IT IS ALL ABOUT HOW I GREW UP IN THE CHURCH FOOLERY AROUND MY JUDGMENTAL FAMILY WHO WAS SO HEAVENLY BOUND THEY WERE NO EARTHLY GOOD. AS I WROTE THIS BOOK I REALIZED THAT I WAS JACKED UP. THEN I BEGIN TO REALLY LISTEN TO YOU AND PUT IN THE WORK IN ORDER TO BREAK THE PATTERNS!!! NOW EVERYONE IS LOOKING AT ME LIKE I AM CRAZY BUT OH NO I AM BREAKING THEM DAMNED CHURCH FOLKS PATTERS!!!

  • @successfranelle2580
    @successfranelle2580 Pƙed 4 lety +6

    Thanks you very much Beloved Iyanla
    For this teaching 🙏

  • @Winnermations
    @Winnermations Pƙed 4 lety +6

    Thank you for speaking to my heart today. It was like I was there asking you the questions.

  • @khristiannawashington120
    @khristiannawashington120 Pƙed 4 lety

    This blessed my soul! Thank you for sharing your gift with us and helping me heal! Bless!

  • @BeingBrandy
    @BeingBrandy Pƙed 4 lety +2

    I appreciate you and all that you do 🌟💐

  • @user-rc3hk9qs4t
    @user-rc3hk9qs4t Pƙed 4 lety +9

    Very important topic. Thank you!

    • @judythroupe6031
      @judythroupe6031 Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Shalom this was powerful...nice to see other Israelites listening

  • @otaxsugar5
    @otaxsugar5 Pƙed 4 lety +6

    I love you, your guidance, your videos are very healing. God Bless you 💖 from New Zealand 💖

  • @msjones015
    @msjones015 Pƙed 3 lety

    I love you! You have no idea how much you blessed my life and I am grateful for you ❀❀❀

  • @aliciaraquel9260
    @aliciaraquel9260 Pƙed 4 lety +2

    Very good and necessary! Always love to The Spiritual Mother

  • @krystalestrella9098
    @krystalestrella9098 Pƙed rokem

    This revelation fed my heart and spirt thank you so so much 🙏. So very thankful for you .

  • @sheilaslater6763
    @sheilaslater6763 Pƙed 4 lety +3

    This is truly life changing! The genius Iyanla so many ahas I love you!

  • @graceallovermae
    @graceallovermae Pƙed 3 lety

    Younger sister and I realized all of these things within our family and self and decided we WILL CHANGE!! in fact, we are the change for our future generations, we're like Angel's

  • @mslady8895
    @mslady8895 Pƙed 3 lety

    Walking into 2021 with a new mindset and found this. Thank you for blessing us

  • @shaylaforever9048
    @shaylaforever9048 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    Great episode...
    I can relate to the promiscuity due to longing for love. đŸ˜©. Lately I've been feeling guilty about my sexual dysfunction. So now I'm trying my best to forgive and understand why I was so lost. I actually think it was bad self esteem.

  • @rwariahe
    @rwariahe Pƙed 2 lety

    My all time powerhouse. Receive my love from Kenya

  • @debralynsimon3345
    @debralynsimon3345 Pƙed 4 lety +6

    Well this hit home for me today

  • @cd6741
    @cd6741 Pƙed 3 lety

    This was everything!!!!

  • @lindafaye2255
    @lindafaye2255 Pƙed 4 lety

    You helped me this day! Thank you!!

  • @shaintac6072
    @shaintac6072 Pƙed 4 lety

    Got ten more minutes that I'll have to finish tomorrow. Thanks Iyanla. I took notes

  • @kathysilva5391
    @kathysilva5391 Pƙed 3 lety

    Just seeing this 1st time đŸ„° thank you Ms. Iyanla sure is a lot self love

  • @dolliegaddis8041
    @dolliegaddis8041 Pƙed 4 lety +1

    This is great. I shared it with my 3 daughters. I love that you call it generations patterns and not curses. It give a new mindset on this subject. Very enlightening!!! Thank you.

  • @FK-nr1qp
    @FK-nr1qp Pƙed rokem

    Your profundity is amazing !!! Thanks Iyanla ! More than words can explain!!!!!!

  • @blisswkc3344
    @blisswkc3344 Pƙed 3 lety

    Thank y’all so much dearest đŸŒč
    Appreciate y’all from the bottom of my heart 💜
    Y’all such an inspiration đŸ„°
    Be Blissful Eternally 🙏😇🌈

  • @myrahj1482
    @myrahj1482 Pƙed 4 lety +9

    Ms. Iyanla. You have blessed my life. I'm just beginning to do the work. Any work and its because I'm tuning in to your message. More than half of tonight's message was directly my experience and I'm also sad be of recently loosing my sister. So many times I just want to give up & quit it all. But tonight I'm gonna drink some tea, write some feelings and know that you blessed me with some work to do. Thank youâ€đŸ™

  • @aliciamitre9977
    @aliciamitre9977 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    You have some fans here in Baja, Mexico, Te amamos Iyanla. Gracias por tanto!!

  • @micheleholley1070
    @micheleholley1070 Pƙed 4 lety +4

    Thank you so much Madame Vanzant, I see a lot of myself in the examples you expressed. Thank you so being so clear and precise.

  • @leticiasim8167
    @leticiasim8167 Pƙed 3 lety

    Love this woman

  • @mina9547
    @mina9547 Pƙed 4 lety +4

    Iyanla you are a blessing in this life with your authenticity and most of all because you speak the TRUTH that reach deeply our hearts and makes us say " Yes" that is exactly what my heart knows ! Let's put in practice those teachings!Thank you

  • @reneemills1089
    @reneemills1089 Pƙed 4 lety +1

    Thank you for giving birth to my destiny to being a Spiritual Warrior!

  • @rebeccacheney9566
    @rebeccacheney9566 Pƙed 2 lety

    Miss Iyanla- You give me so much comfort and inspiration. I am grateful for you đŸ™đŸŒ

  • @abimbolaaka4064
    @abimbolaaka4064 Pƙed 3 lety

    What an insightful eye opener, what a soul searching discovery! Thank Miss Iyanla!

  • @marianibrahim9857
    @marianibrahim9857 Pƙed 4 lety +1

    Thank you 🙏

  • @_Rondapoo
    @_Rondapoo Pƙed 3 lety +1

    I know nothing but God sent me to this! wow ! Very eye opening, thank you for continuing to be a blessing !!

  • @reikiwarrior8888
    @reikiwarrior8888 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    thanks you so much, 12 step fellowships are also very useful and helpful x

  • @afrodivasalonandspa1
    @afrodivasalonandspa1 Pƙed 2 lety

    Thank you Miss Iyanla. I love the information and the joy in your truth and delivery. You are such a rock star.

  • @bcdmovement6856
    @bcdmovement6856 Pƙed 4 lety +1

    Yes change !!!

  • @KA-yz2ld
    @KA-yz2ld Pƙed 4 lety +4

    Wow an amazing soul, I love you... Thank you blessing us with your wisdom... May God continue to bless you🙏🏿

  • @music4living26
    @music4living26 Pƙed 4 lety +9

    So informative!!! OMG

  • @SerayahB
    @SerayahB Pƙed rokem

    Just watching this in 2022 and it really hits home. Thank you so much for this.

  • @irepmw4689
    @irepmw4689 Pƙed 3 lety

    Thank you for this!

  • @lauracorral-flores3478
    @lauracorral-flores3478 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

    Love the Queen you help me be better. From Colton California.

  • @billiebillie678
    @billiebillie678 Pƙed 4 lety +1

    Thank you so much for your teachings, Mama Iyanla. May God continue to bless you.

  • @tomekamontegue5122
    @tomekamontegue5122 Pƙed 4 lety

    I just want to say I Love you Iyanla.

  • @BettyKobusingye
    @BettyKobusingye Pƙed 4 lety

    Thank you so much really amazing xxxx

  • @Tech81272
    @Tech81272 Pƙed 3 lety

    everyday i made it a point to watch your videos. even if i had to stop them and marinate in the thoughts. for the past year mym healing really accelerated. when i started watching your videos i was being bullied at work today i wake up grateful to be in a better position that allows me to be greater

  • @LeboLizMolaba
    @LeboLizMolaba Pƙed 3 lety +1

    This is a powerful teaching ❀thank you Iyanla đŸ™đŸŒ sending you Love all the way from South Africa 🇿🇩

  • @TonettaClay
    @TonettaClay Pƙed 3 lety

    I'm loving this spa treatment. I needed to be reminded of these things and to think about them in a different way. I'm doing a live video 31 Days of Forgiveness ❀ and these things I'm talking about as well. I love this!

  • @noreneharris9456
    @noreneharris9456 Pƙed 4 lety +8

    You are Beautiful, self awareness

  • @justsayit476
    @justsayit476 Pƙed 2 lety

    Thank you X

  • @Prettylmcb
    @Prettylmcb Pƙed 4 lety +1

    You are the best!

  • @haveuever4388
    @haveuever4388 Pƙed rokem

    This is beautiful

  • @maryssa2505
    @maryssa2505 Pƙed 4 lety

    Thank You for this it was a great Spa

  • @sacredspacesllc5260
    @sacredspacesllc5260 Pƙed 3 lety

    I needed to hear this today. I am going to break all these unhealthy generational patterns.