Hopeless Romantic or Toxic Love Affair (and Bats!)
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- čas přidán 26. 06. 2024
- In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we dive into a length #ImSoSingle to discuss fight or flight then we offer our two cents on a situation that sounds like an episode of Empire.
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The other day I saw a lizard in my dad's living room. The lizard minded his business and I did as well.
I had the same issue at my grandmothers house year back- a mouse leisurely walked across the living room - not scurrying fast - to the kitchen. I just started back watching tv 🤷🏾♀️
NB in DC 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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😂😅😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
NB in DC 🤣🤣🤣 nawww a mouse is a different story lol
When she said, “I flighted.” 🤣🤣🤣
NAHHHH FAM. How the heck did the landlord KNOW it was a bat though. That ish must be regular 🏃🏾♀️😂
That wasn’t love. That was lust. She was in a soul tie. That’s why the constant back and forth. He was comfortable, familiar and convenient.
My thoughts exactly! Soul ties!!!
Played UNO last week and everytime I won I was like "it's chocolate baby story time..uh huh uh huh..." It made for a good victory song.
Awesome sauce!
I do find that I, randomly, sing Yvette’s part of the theme song to myself nowadays. Lol
That how single are you was hilarious. I feel you sis. 🤣🤣🤣 she’s a great story teller
“I thought this was a joke. Sorry.” 😂😂😂😂 rotfl
Im rooting for common sense AND the babies.
Glenn is out here giving story writing advice..
I low key agree though.
Y'all play with Naya Zai! 😂
See Glen...the dishwasher tutorial worked! 😂😂😂😂.. Yvette give the man an A+
35:14 This part! Exactly. This lady needs to sit back and reevealuate herself. She made alot of mistakes and went along for alot of rides along the way. She should be single for awhile cause cheating on people isn't cool. Can you refrain from sex? Can you be in a relationship without sex? Seems sex is driving the decisions in these relations which leave mock [not authentic or real] and deceptive emotions.
I love these podcasts! Honestly my faith in marriage is sloooooooowly growing.
I really hope you never get rid of the into!! It gets me so hyped 😂✨ now time to watch!
Already liked the video and I haven't even watched yet!
I can’t lie, I’ve come back to watch these after binge watching all of your episodes back in 2020, and honestly these conversations have such a feel good vibe!
Come through with the solo Yvette!!!
OMG that Calvin story was WILD!!! I was hollering....at work!
I live in Missouri. When I was younger, my family house was plagued by bats. The guy a couple doors down had this house he abandoned for years and then all of a sudden came and cleared it out so the bats found new homes. 🙃
I can tell ya the first time I saw one, it was the same kind of situation. I think I was like 17. There were like 10 ppl in the house. We all went running. 😂😂
hilarious---I thought she was apart of the family
GLEN!!!! You finally did the dish washer line up correctly!!!! Did y’all here that “Well done!!!” Beautiful
You guys!!! There was a bat in my house just last night. Woke me up at 2am.... SAN MARCOS CALIFORNIA mmmhhmmm....they are out here too!
Yikes! I hope its gone!
BRUH...that would have been the day a bat become a house owner..... I CANT! lol
I just said that. The bat can have the house! I’m good.💅🏾
Bats are in georgia too
This podcast title is the best 😂😂
Co-parent? Seems more like co-dependency... She and Calvin don't have children together do they?? I'm stumped on this one. I agree, she should take a break from relationships and maybe try celibacy for like a year... or more. Protect her heart for a bit.
Her voice when she talks is so beautiful to hear. His voice is great 👍 too !!
The bat story...I almost died listening to it! And the other relationship...that relationship is TOXIC. Glen made very valid points from the beginning dude was lying.
That's a perfect 1st date question and story.
Question: Are you behind the door or in front of the door?
Response: What?!
Insert explanation. Great laughs and banter should follow or you discover he's missing a sense of humor.
🤣🤣😭
I am with Glenn. I am concerned for the children (Little Calvin).
Yay FIVE more episodes till ONE HUNDRED!!! Yevette said "WOW THIS IS AMAZING." lol 😆 Yall are funny.
I had that happen to me before. A bat got into my house and flew past me as I was laying on the couch. At first I thought it was a bird, but when I realized it was a bat, I got the hell out of dodge. I ran upstairs to my room and closed the door so fast. I even cried and did the slow wall slide down to the floor. I was home alone and terrified! I’m in Indiana by the way and there was a bad storm the night before. Long story short, my neighbor heard me screaming and came over and rescued me. He got the bat out and all was well.
😂🤣😂🤣 @ slow wall slide!! So funny
Bats are like rats/mice with wings. A LOT of people end up with bats in their attic they don't know about it. And also not to alarm you but if you have forest behind you probably have random wildlife you don't know about it because bats can't be seen at night.
I'm with Glenn, he lied so that relationship should have never started.
You are right. Gotta have standards for your life. Intentional not happen stance.
I still laughing at how Yvette sprinted down the stairs in that prank.
I was just talking to my husband about how I get excitement and arousal from all these random things like paying off debt, staying on budget and chores being done.
Makes me light up the way Yvette did with the dishwasher! 😄🥰
I love the both of you and your children. I follow all your platforms and I am grateful for the gift of your ministry.
I am commenting for the first time because I felt like Calvin was being put on a pedestal that this lady is not being put on as well. They both have toxic traits.
Is she the kind of person she would want in her own life? She needs to get herself right for herself first, for her kid and then for whoever comes into her life eventually.
True cause Calvin did set a boundary mid way through this, shakey yes and she breached it. Didnt take much to breach it cause of their proximity but still... iunno
I don't understand why Calvin is being romanticized. There is nothing romantic about lying about having a child on the way.
@@tayanab9580 exactly! he's a liar all around. Because he had to have been lying to the woman he cheated on with her as well. He'll eventually lie to and cheat on her as well. Restarting the cycle. Why does she want him?
@@tayanab9580 my comment is in no way romanticizing Calvin. My point is that the lady is just as responsible as he is for the toxicity they are experiencing. The conversation kept making it sound like she was a Saint.
We are fond of making friends with the central character in a story even if they are evil/bad.
My momma did the same thing to me as a child. We got a bat in the house, my Dad went to get a net. The bat flew near my Mom and I, and she pushed pasted me to run away from the bat. Lol!! I roasted her for weeks about leaving me behind with the bat. My Dad got rid of it and saved the day.
Yeah naw. I feel for her. Calvin may be a nice person but he was unavailable and it was toxic from the beginning.
There is nothing nice about a man who denies his child. He had bad intentions from the beginning and that why he kept lying.
The glow you both had from the dishwasher story was great!!!
I completely understand. When i was younger and it was just me and my baby. One night i seen a mouse....my a** called the cops😂🤣
I knew my fiance was the one (ofcourse there are more reasons i knew he was the one besides this issue i had below. We've been married for 7 years and 11 months) when he drove to my house at an ungodly hour to throw away a mouse that was trapped on the sticky trap underneath my bed. I can't do rodents or any furry animal.
I agree Glen, that advice was on the money!
y'all bring me joy
Love, love, love the head wrap.
The hood movie line had me WEEEEAAAAKKKKK😂
I'm super late catching up on these videos, but I'm loving it! It helps me stay focused on the gym too because I like what I'm listening too.
And Bats 🦇😂
🤣😂I died laughed so hard listening to that story because that is totally me. I completely agree with Yvette. It’s URGENT!!! It needs to get out. I NEED it out😰. Glen, the real question is “How did the landlord know it was a bat right away, before getting to the house?” 🤔 WoW 😳 story #2 I’m with Glen here. He should have been honest from the beginning. Foundation built on distrust leads to a rocky home... the situations she’s in.
He live here now 😂🤣😂🤣😂
Great episode. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 And sound advice. 👌🏾
That first story was HILarious though, lol.
Great advice, Glen
Another great episode! 💗
🗣 I Can not with Calvin 😩😩😩🤣🤣 I’m tired! 🥴
Absolute fav. intro 😍
Bat story was great!!!!
Growth on so many levels & in so many ways y'all. Connecting the dots & having watched Glen's birthday episode on Patreon, please celebrate the big & small victories, you've made (more) room.
That girl is messy. Don’t get in a relationship when you’re not over the past one...
This was a great episode
Great episode ❤️🖤💚
I knew my fiance' was the one (I've been married for 7 yrs 11months) when he came to my house (wee hour of the morning) to throw away the mouse who was stuck on the mouse sticky trap underneath my bed. I can't do rodents or really any furry creature.
Bats are everywhere Glen. I've had one in a house in Michigan.
First off . .. flying Corona!!!!! 🦇 oh gosh that would be so scary!!
AWESOME!!!!
Hi It was nice seeing y'all in a Spectrum commercial. :-)
Yay Glenn!! You better load those dishes properly. 😅
Intro iz 🔥🔥🔥🔥
The first caller!
❤️😂
HEY HEY HEY!
Man was approached by a raccoon and its children likes Jehovahs witness....I"m dead out here!!!!
This comment is hilarious 🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣
Lmaooo Mrs. Mel totally brushed off that College Goof Ball card! Mannnnn Beleaf I feel it for you when you bringing these points! Man!!!!
I click so fast 😭🤗
Nice DBZ reference!🥰🥰
We got bats in Florida too...
And Louisiana.
Yvette your snort is so funny
But even if the guy got a full chance, she still said she settled. And we all know settling is a no go and a waste of your time. If it is for a marriage, it is for a relationship as well.
This was a quick show.
I got stories for days about bats. Typically an old home problem. IOWA 🌽
Lmao the dishwasher moment. Yooo you can tell she is genuinely happy. 😂 I get it though.
Lol well have bats in Maryland. Thank God I've never seen one in my house 😱
The chocolate baby story time 😂😂😂❤️
Hey y'all, just listening to the chocolate baby story time and I was just thinking. Maybe if the games Anaya wants to play are repetitive you could create a new game just for her and then you get to play a game that's not boring you as you play it. and because the game would be just for Anaya and mum or Anaya and dad that was made specially for her, she'd get into it and want to play it more often 😂😂😂 (disclaimer I ain't got no kids so don't mind me if it's bad advice, but I was just wondering about it xx all the love from London!)
s/o to the girl from CT! Yeah we have bats out here 😬
I wonder when women are on their death bed, will they wonder if they cleaned too much.
My wife is very similar.
There are definitely bats in SoCal. Maybe not in concentrations where they'd come in the house, but I've seen them in San Marcos and Encinitas.
I'm for sure flight, but now that I have kids I have supernatural bravery. 100% adrenaline lol
I'm so single and I dont know what else to do about it
I've had two bats in my house
But Calvin has been co-parenting soooo that's going to be like both kids loosing a parent YIKES...the kids are atleast 8years old. What's the best decision for the children's well-being???
I think this was bad advice. They are dismissing Calvin as a parent but he’s been there from day one. I think they should go to couples counseling to determine if they can finally get in a committed relationship leading up to marriage. For the kids and the mess they created they have to try.
I am exhausted.....listen to Calvin and co drama...
This whole thing was a NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO from the start! One of the most toxic situations I have ever heard! The fact that "Calvin" had the cheek to name another man's baby after himself makes it worse. "Calvin" took fulllllllll advantage of this whole situation. A woman he's attracted to, sex whenever he wants, a business partner, kid to hangout with that he is fond of...."Calvin" is a BIG NO! HE MUST GO!
Yvette...seriously....how are you "Team Calvin"??? I am genuinely confused 😂😂😂😂😂
Edit: Ok u later said she should leave him. Thank God!!!!!
My brother is 29 and tall and big and when he sees a spider he can scream like a child......
With all due respect, this young lady nor the man she wrote about are the standard for a “husband” or a “wife”. People always cut the man down to size and don’t hold women to the fire because they’re also a willing participant. What will cut all this out is if she stopped having sex outside of marriage and shacking up. This is a messy situation but she’s 28. I was very much so still unwise at this age, so I completely empathize with it. Sex outside of marriage will almost always produce a broken heart, a lot of wasted time that you can’t get back and a child out of wedlock!! Like Glen said, identify the standard you want for your children then BE THAT EXAMPLE. (1 year late and all, lol)
Story after the animal one was hotMess. Org😳 - #2MuchDrama
Lady, leave everything and everyone and be single... Ugh...
I'm team if you want to have premarital sex, wrap it up at least!