Not Allowed to Age With Grace On TikTok
Vložit
- čas přidán 22. 02. 2023
- In this video, we're talking about TikTok and why it's not allowed to age gracefully. We'll be discussing the app's new 'year-old' filter and how it's changing the way we see age on the app. TikTok is a fun app, but it's not allowed to age gracefully. Recently, the app added a new 'year-old' filter that removes all wrinkles and signs of aging. This has caused a lot of controversy on social media, with many users calling the filter ageist.
❤️ Subscribe: bit.ly/2Z2kQr5
► Styling Course: bit.ly/3QUfjZl
► Latest Videos: bit.ly/3ki1lVE
► Amazon Store: amzn.to/3lOiEyy
►Tiktok: / msfrederique
► Instagram: / msfrederique
#ageism #reaction #ageing #mature #reacts #tiktok #entertainment #influencer #socialmedia #news #politics #trends #women
Do you think we are allowed to age? Watch this The Skinny Body Is Back But Why We Should Care: czcams.com/video/kJLyFKxKHMU/video.html
Wishing you great travels my friend!! Be safe and enjoy❤️❤️😘🙏🙋♀️
You didn’t!
No matter what you do with the face, the neck & hands are going to give away your age faster than anything. As for social media, if you 'live on social media' & the opinions of people you will probably never meet is so important you that you're driving yourself crazy worrying about 'how you look', then honey, you're all worrying about all the wrong stuff.
You look fabulous. You looked great before, but your surgery came out really well.
Totally agree!! The results are fantastic.
True she's awsome and gorgeous 😉👍bises from France.
I agree. It looks great! You know it’s good when it doesn’t look like you had surgery. 😊
Looking amazing ❤
That's just silly. I looked like a young girl until I was maybe 43. The only "secret" is watch weight, avoid sun, smoking and alcohol and sleep well. Why would I ruin that baby look I still had back then with some injections? Now at 50 I can see signs of aging but still trying with serums, creams, face massages and keeping weight with exercise, avoid sun, smoking (even second hand) and trying to be happy with what I have.
It gets so confusing and complicated! I just do my best to feel good not so concerned about looking Oder.
I got carded for decades…I say choose your parents wisely…my parents are ninety, and don’t look it, just like all of their children look younger for their age. There are 6 of us and some are fat, some are slim…all look youthful…just dumb luck. Btw, only my youngest sister drinks wine, and the rest don’t drink or smoke…my younger sister looks the oldest of all of us…so don’t drink or smoke. But the. Again, my mom smoked for 40 years…quit at 60…still has smooth skin…go figure.
@@Katrn30 genes play a big role. My mom went grey very young, my sister and I as well. My mom has dry skin and that contributes to wrinkles, I seem to have that gene too, my mom is thin so less "baby fat" to fill in the wrinkles, I got that gene as well 🙄🙄🙄. I was at the dermatologist this morning and she just said, remember to use sunblock, moisturizer and lots of water. Ageing is natural and normal,as long as you are healthy that is the main goal.
So much of it is genetics. My mother died at 69 with no wrinkles.
How about we stop worrying how we look and start worrying how we treat each other.
For those worried about wrinkles and aging at 30, you better buckle up because aging is a rough ride and Mother Nature has a wicked sense of humour.
I hate mother nature. It was negletful with me in childhood, a horrible bully in puberty, and just my worst enemy in my adulthood. Eff you, "mother nature", too bad I can't just drop you in a horrible retirement home
No such thing as mother nature,God created all of us
My whole adult life I have always looked 10 years younger than my birth age. But when I got Covid three years ago, my aging speeded up literally overnight. But even before that, I know what you’re talking about. You get used to one thing and then a year later some thing else droops or whatever.
I'm 50 and definitely seeing the signs of aging. Some I'm sure could be altered with plastic surgery, and others I'm just going to embrace. Just have to remind ourselves to be comfortable with who we are. Most of the time we are our own harshest critics. We worry too much about what "WE THINK" others might be thinking about us. Truth is, most of the time, no one's paying attention to whatever we think our flaws are. They're worrying about their own stuff.
Your face is looking better and better every week. Your choice of surgeon was excellent and your results are superb! Loving your recent videos, they make one think.
thank you xxxx
I think so too! Gorgeous and very natural.
Love it❤ Too funny. I agree, when I was 30 even 40 I never worried about aging or wrinkles and yes 30 is not old.
With age comes wisdom, hopefully. Wisdom has it’s own beauty. ❤
That’s filters on top and computerized alterations!!!!! I don’t believe that’s what she looks like with just tape 😂
Yessssss
Exactly! But is she really older or is she young and making herself look older in her ‘before’..?
As my aunt says: the idea is not avoiding wrinkles, is more important to have them in the right place, smile girl
I can’t imagine living a life as vain as these influencers…life is to live, not obsess over wrinkles.
The skin on your face is delicate, I'd imagine this face tape would cause more stretching and sagging
Love this new format Frédérique ❤🎉 The struggle is real and pretty silly ( I’ve heard recently sleeping on the back causes Alzheimer’s..oh my) 😅
LoL
thank you lovely xxx
Without skincare commercials I wouldn't have noticed my eye wrinkles. Without social media I would not know English words like jaw line, frowning, sagging or neck banding.
LOL.. I had so much fun watching this video. Thank you for sharing!
Grandma at the end! She rocks! I always looked years younger than my age until my mid-50s; no botox or fillers, just decent sleep and good skincare and lots of water. I have a few wrinkles these days, particularly since I lost weight. As a young woman in my 20s or 30s I certainly wasn't obsessed with not aging as a lot of these girls are now. It's the pressure of social media - and the availability of filters - to stay forever young.
"Grandma" has the secret down pat. A healthy sense of humor and embracing where we find ourselves in life's journey. She looks great! No tape, or layers of contouring make up. A real natural beauty!
Like this new format! Thank you---especially for the grandma even older than me!
thank you xx
The obsession with aging is ridiculous in my opinion.
Genetics definitely impacts aging and I was blessed with good genes. I n addition, I know good skin care is imperative to maintaining healthy skin 😊
Grandma’s have the confidence and the joy. These were the most fun!
Аhahaha that Granny was the best part of the vid! I see myself being someone like her in some time, with lots of humor and jokes, and not giving a f*ck about what others think. The rest is just people, who have too much time on their hands for BS. Getting 60 this year, I don t really care anymore, I just dress nice, I am very clean and tidy, I make a lot of jokes with/about myself and aging, and my friends, who are younger then me, love it! My profile picture on YT is not recent, I was maybe 52 or something when it was taken at a live gig in a rock club, no filters used, so... 😛
That Gran at the end was my favourite, felt like the realist and most genuine. The rest was kind of tragic, so obsessed with daft fads (straw reminded me of all the young women in the gym with a body trainer/corset on to work out). The filters make me not believe anything anymore 😂
I love these new videos you are doing!
Folks, she is a young person using an app that ages you (before picture). The face tape is just a prop to sway you for some credibility. She has young hands. That was my giveaway.🤣🤣🤣
Frederique, I love hearing you laugh and your sense of humour!! We are all aging!
We LOVE you, Frederique ! You are so wise, insightful and funny ! Please keep making these videos because women around the world need to be inspired ! You look amazing, by the way ! 😺😺😺
merci!!!!!
Grandma was also born with high self esteem. 😄
Oh man, how I love grandma Droniak, she slays everyday😆💜
I love grandma droniak - isn't she fab! Some weird advice from some of the younger ones. Generally, a healthy lifestyle with good sleep, diet and exercise will keep you looking good longer.
I don't use filters either. 59 and filter free.
Dear Frédérique, you are fantastic. I had to laugh with you watching this video. I shall try to find the grandmother's video and start to follow her. Happy Easter.
Thank youuuuuuuu for your videos sweetheart.
Lots of love and respect and greetings from me in Amsterdam the Netherlands
BonjourFrédérique , That was a lot of fun. I love that grandmas are on social media.. Thank you for creating fun videos for us.
Some people are getting "preventative Botox" injections! I guess if you get it early it helps you not develop deep wrinkles (like in between the brows). A great anti-aging tip is to wear sunscreen! Wear it every day, especially on your face, neck, & hands. Our neck & hands really show age a lot, so you can use your face creams on your neck & hands too. Make sure you keep your skin moisturized and drink plenty of water, so it looks plump. Refraining from smoking helps you to not age so quickly as well.
Another tip is to not wear too much makeup, as it can date you or make you look older by settling into your lines & wrinkles. I moisturize, let it sink in, then apply a tinted moisturizer with SPF. I love an undereye cream that refracts light, like Ole Henrickson Banana Bright+ Eye Cream. My favorite tinted moisturizer is Dr. Jart+ BB Premium Beauty Balm (has 40 SPF). I also like Bite Beauty Changemaker Supercharged Micellar Foundation, which has no SPF, but some don't like the smell. I don't use powder anymore because it settles in my lines. I use a cream blush, highlighter & sometimes a contour. I also use a brow tint to fill in the brows for a more youthful appearance; my fave is Milk Makeup Kush Fiber Brow. I finish the look with a tinted lip balm & a setting spray to set the makeup. I'm in my late 30's but always hear that I look much younger!
Do you have time to enjoy life, after you re ready with all the beauty routines? 🤔
I'm in my 40's and use cream everything! Cream blush, cream eyeshadow...light, moisturizing BB cream. Less is more as we age!
I'm in my early 30s and apparently many girls are getting work done to keep looking young. I had no idea! I'm terrible at skin care for just looking young because I have other health challenges that affect my skin but geez I was thinking to at least get a micro current device because I'm just not comfortable with the Botox to accompany my decent genes for aging. I love your channel and watch because I live your fashion. I'm glad your surgery went well! 💜
The sense of humour is the best for this situations very good Frederique 😂
Yes! I seen that video SO much on CZcams Shorts, I finally just went to her account and found the video that she reveals it’s tape!
❤😂😉 excellent video! Keep up the great work!👌🏻❤🤸♀️
Frederique, the first ladys nose is longer no matter what angle she is shooting from. Also there is the dimpled chin and the ear lobes are different. There are a lot of these tik tok videos out and if you look carefully you will find a discrepancy.
True,their nostrils are completely different.
Great video. I love Grandma! More Grandma's, please!
THE AGEING PROCESS IS MORE THAN ACQUIRING A LINE. THE FACE JUST LOOKS OLDER; IT IS LIKE A FILM COVERING THE FACE..IF YOU DON'T WANT TO AGE DON'T LIVE. THERE IS BEAUTY IN AGEING WHEN YOUR PERSONALITY SHINES THROUGH AND YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL. YOU GET THE FACE YOU DESERVE
Oh, and Frederique you look fantastic. You look so fresh and rested, it makes you look years younger. You were beautiful in the first place and now you're the beautiful younger you.
That straw,I feel like grinding it under my heel. Pathetic.
We can all only speak for ourselves. I am a true “romantic” I see romance and beauty most places…. Because I look for it.
There seems to be a timelessness about this way of living your life.
I watch many of her. She gives good tips how to go fresher without PS.
My gosh, society is getting so stupid, I mean come on! Why are all these girls so afraid of getting old? We are definitely doing something very wrong as a society, we are not being smarter on this issue. Of course, social media doesn't help, too many dermatologists and plastic surgeons (trying to attract patients of course) talking about "anti-aging" procedures all the time, that's obsessing society with aging, that's so sad and toxic. Thanks for the video!!! ❤
The worst things for aging badly, is anything that destroys collagen. Sugar, smoking, sun are the worst. I looked a decade younger up until 50, then menopause really accelerated some aging signs, loss of fat in my face, under eyes, breast tissue softened and spread out flatter. From the front I look really busty as they are wider, but from the side they are flatter and don’t stand forward anymore. Weight gain almost overnight, and it took a while to find out that low carb and doing HIIT and weights exercise to tone muscle loss is best for older women.
@ bloochoob, kindly, what is HIIT ??
@@princebuster93 High Intensity Interval Training. Like, going all out on your cardio intensely for 1 minute, then going slow for 1 min, on and off, a short interval between bursts. You can do 30sec on/off, 1min on/off, 2min on/off and so on. Look it up on here, plenty of free examples and HIIT workouts here, but my favourite HIIT to do is dance to my favourite music for about 20mins, 1 min on/off
@@bloochoob ok, thanks a lot for sharing ❤️
Men still hold most control in this world and are such visual creatures that the power of women is always going to be in how they look. It's hard to give up that power and become invisible.
I never felt you needed a face lift. You have always been beautiful.
Everyone should do what makes them feel good. But I do think when influencers are recommending skin care products and swear by them then please don’t also have cosmetic work done because it really makes the rest of us, who can’t afford expensive procedures, feel like sh-. I take very good care of my skin, I’m 74, and people often tell me they thought I was was 54. I’ve had no work done. Just healthy living and good genes. I wish I could afford some other help but I can’t. So I will age ……sort of gracefully but kicking and screaming.
Love your videos
You look amazing Frederique!
Oh thank you!
I'm so happy I'm 41 and I didn't grow up with social media and this insane gerascophobia. They create a problem even with natural human features. I think social media could really affect negatively young girls. I'm OK with aging, it means you're a not dead or a robot!!!
omg Frederique..you look amazing
Waouh Frédérique whatever you did to your face good job🔥 100% supported. you look absolutely gorgeous. Even if you were also really beautiful before. ❤️
Thank you so much!!
That lady was so funny. OMG … that’s the kind of energy I like to be around.
I was at Target and saw 3 little girls behind me. I heard them say I think the serum section is over there. They could have been around 10-12 years old. ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?!?!? This is what these young children are doing? Worrying about their face! I was flabbergasted. Again I say, and have said, I’m so glad I wasn’t brought up in the digital age. Good grief! 😮
This is mind blowing.🤯
Years ago an age paranoid woman told me to never drink from a straw to prevent premature lip wrinkles....
Thank god I have ZERO social media. Insane! No wonder social media is toxic. I do love grandma TikTok. Now that's genuine beautiful & crazy hilarious!
I love her!!!
Yes drink from that side😂
Beautiful quality hair wigs can take 20 years off a woman’s appearance.
She is not only using face tape. She is using an filter that makes her older and another that makes her skin smoother.
Frédérique you look great!
OMG!!! It is s dreadfully sad in this era of botox and fillers that these products are being used by young girls (as soon as they turn legal)!!! They are so consumed with perfectionism and aging they will never ever be satisfied with their faces again through the years. When these injectables start to get absorbed they will start to not look like themselves to themselves in the mirror as they are so used to their altered faces. I am not referring to this woman with the tapes...but it just shows you the mindset in Social Media! I saw the first line in my forehead at 16 because I spoke possibly too expressively, raising my thick eyebrows! That line is still there! I am so grateful I did not grow up in a time of this nonsense...and obsess in my teens with needing to lift the corners of my eyes or lift my brows (as in Browlifts) Back in the day young women tweezed under the arch of the brow to give a little lift, if they thought their brows were too low or straight across. Young gals are naturally beautiful, but they no longer recognize this in themselves! Funny I was absolutely tormented for my full lips all through my growing up years and my thick brows. Now all these young girls on social media are "doing their lips" and tattooing their brows, lifting their eye corners! I think they are being lead around by all these celeb sisters (not naming names) who have altered every single feature, sometimes multiple times! And now "skinny is back"? What is going to happen when these young women start to age in reality... and not just in their heads...when all these doctors or aestheticians are feeding into their insecurities now at this age, every couple of months? Remember when the only procedure young girls (teens) ever considered was having their noses done? Back then ethical doctors had them wait.
Génial 👍 la grand mère est formidable🥰, chloé swchartz est incroyable et unique 😜 et la minette avec ses patchs est....🤷♀️🤦♀️🤣🤣🤣
Une super vidéo comme toujours et c'est top 👍💪😉
Des bises MAGNIFIQUE FRÉDÉRIQUE 🥰😘❤
merci cherie xx
The lady with the tape looks amazing when she puts it on... But on the other hand I would feel so depressed when I would take the tape off.
You look so good...amazing . I think this video of the older look is not the same person.
It never occurred to me to use face tape. When you are asleep you will move around a bit so cannot guarantee to sleep through the night on your back.
You look great as always.
Thank you so much
@@ms.frederique You are welcome my friend.
I think u look absolutely fabulous too....
Hydrate ladies. Drinking lots of water will help your skin a lot
We should stop criticizing ourselves. We are beautiful 😙😙
Actually, that’s not a Peter Thomas Roth face cream that’s kind of like a glue so it’s kind of like a facelift in a jar and Lucia wrinkles instantly and then she’s adding facial tape to put a space back like a facelift
Ur funny,made my day😅💯 btw., "At the age of forty everyone has the face they deserve"George Orwell
Research shows that married men live longer, and Single Women Live Longer! Now we know the answer. Men cause aging. (in this study, they were all heterosexual couples, so this is the meaning of married for this study, and has no bearing on gay couples) . P.S. Southern Frugal Momma has mushroom earrings, too. Since she's cooking, it works very well.
LOL, I studied in college that women do much better being single than men. Men need marriage for their well-being more than women do, and all my married friends are stressed out!
However, if you truly find the right person, then I think it’s probably the greatest gift on earth besides salvation from Jesus. 💝
Depends on the validity and integrity of “the research”. When married to the right person for you that is life affirming, healing, and miraculous.
Happily married here. ❤
@@Rositasparks ♥️♥️♥️
I find some of this funny, what kind of life would we have if we couldn't smile or laugh? I'm 44 and will be 45 in August. I am just now seeing the start of a few wrinkles, a dreaded frown line in-between my eyes which I hate and a few shallow ones around my eyes which I don't mind. I have always had a good skincare routine, and being very pale I had to wear sunscreen which has helped me. Why are people getting botox in their late 20s and 30s when they have no wrinkles? It's ridiculous and the botox industry should be regulated better. I think I may have to subscribe to Grandma she's great! I hate the filters people use, it doesn't fool anyone because we can all pick out the heavily edited pictures. It's making young people think there is something wrong with them if they have any texture on their skin! Where as those of us who are older and didn't grow up with all these filters know that everybody has texture and pores etc.. on their skin.
People DO have deep wrinkles in their 20s and 30s. The world has become a very stressful place. If you don't see the wrinkles, it's because of the Botox.
@@toebeanteam6259 deep wrinkles in their 20s? Nope I don't believe that, unless they have some genetic condition causing it, which would be very rare. I see some people around my age whose wrinkles started a bit before mine, but not until their late 30s at the earliest. Yes the world is stressful we all know that and I've gone through way more stress than most people I know so why do I not have deep wrinkles? In fact mine should be the worst of everyone I know if we're going by stress. Stress though actually has a bigger impact on your insides in terms of ageing. I don't personally know anyone who has had botox. If I had money to spare I would consider getting my frown line done but no more than that. Deep wrinkles don't arrive until your 50s/60s, even then some people still have great skin and some people will be unlucky and have their wrinkles be quite bad in their late 40s. It is largely genetic, you can do things to help yourself of course, but most of it is out of your control.
@@shendisackett you don't have to believe it but I had gnarly forehead lines at 24. Your opinion is merely an opinion.
@@toebeanteam6259 okay then I'm sorry, but that is genetic for you, same as adult acne is for other people, because I should look like a dried prune if it was all because of stress, as you suggest. I've been through so much in my life that it's hard for a stranger to grasp and it has had no impact on my skin. I maintained a decent skincare routine throughout as a means of calming myself and I never smoked or sunbathed, although I am guilty of consuming too much sugar. I'm certain the stress has impacted my insides because that is where stress really does it's damage.
Love this, if I put all that stuff on my face, head and a mask, would not be able to sleep. 😂😂❤❤
You look beautiful..love your channel 😍😍
I had to get a new tablet a bit back and apparently I missed a lot, just wanted to say I had to re subscribe to some people. I like the filter people (trying to pull one over on us). They are just to much.
We worry so much how we look but what we think and feel it's not that important.....
Definatelly she went thought FILTERS!!! No face types or any other types or makeup cannot do this. Only regular filters 😅 and puff...magic
we wish! but she built her tiktok account within few months with million of followers!
I tried to tell the age of some of these influences and I get it so wrong because a lot of them to look my age or a little bit younger and I’m 43
Aging is a natural thing and it’s beautiful I told three women today that they looked beautiful and they were all different ages
OMG!! TWO WORDS: FACIAL EXERCISES!! It's downright TRAGIC how this HIGHLY EFFECTIVE, HOLISTIC and CHEAP (or FREE) practice still remains a 'niche' topic! This video was fun and cute, but what saddens me profoundly are many of the comments--- how almost everyone continues harboring the completely ERRONEOUS belief that it's EITHER the "nip, lift, tuck and needle' route OR resign oneself to a visage sagging to your knees with the passage of years. There IS another option!!! And it's not just for the underlying face muscles---Did you know that wrinkles can actually be erased, 'rubbed out' over time with the proper moves? This is just one example of what can be accomplished NATURALLY. Both face exercises and face massage techniques require an investment of discipline and time---exactly like the time and discipline required to achieve a fit and toned body---but they ABSOLUTELY work!! I would recommend a starter routine by name to share for those who may be interested in exploring them, but when I did this in the Facelift Video's comments---to answer somebody's question---my comment was deleted. So, if only one person reads this; if just one person actually grasps the common sense mentality that our faces and necks can be firmed and toned naturally, just like any other muscle group in the body---then I'll feel like I've accomplished a Herculean Feat. And to beautiful Frederique---you look even more stunning since your recent facelift----but PLEASE know that EVERY single nip, lift and tuck for which you just spent THOUSANDS of $$$$$ could've been had BY yourself, FOR yourself, NATURALLY. Bet your plastic surgeon didn't mention this! Even bet he or she told you how the ONLY way to fix "this and that" was by going under the knife!!! Typical. And TRAGIC.
She is just promoting those face tapes but she is actually very young. Those before videos are old person filter which is very realistic 🧐
Wow... Frédérique you look fabulous 😍. Sweet 16. 🥂 to the face lift❤️
You look like a cross between Kim Kardashian and Sophia Loren, your surgery looks amazing. x
Sophia Loren; That’s it! I always thought she looked like a familiar celebrity.
thanks but i look like me :)
That's her, BUT WITH A FILTER. why doesn't she take off the makeup live if she is being truthful?
I miss your styling videos 😢
2:28 Are we sure it’s just the tape? Look how incredibly different her jawline looks. 🧐
Would face tape also work that well on her under eye bags?
Yes just tape I've watched all her videos she's incredible and she knows perfectly how to makeup 😉
No 😂 computer altered image on top of the tape & makeup 😂 is more like it
@@goldenparachute392
Yes!! I wondered if there was some computer alternation too!
Carol Burnett, a wonderfully funny comedian. One of her skits on her show was a middle age woman coming home from a date. She goes behind a screen and changes into a robe.gone was the enhanced bust and behind. She sits at a vanity (no mirror) that faces the audience. Off come the wig, face tape, false eyelashes and makeup. So funny! Look at Madonna who has gone so far she is scary with how she looks and acts now!!! One woman I heard said “I earned every wrinkle!
when you hit 50 the wrinkles and sagging start to accelerate. Good luck young ladies. The best is yet to come.
😂😂😂 I am just imagining if she was caught without the makeup tape, wig etc by an unsuspecting lover... might get a bit of a surprise. Amazing transformation though
Age 50 I started fast to age. No-one can avoid like me if on the cards arthritic fingers at 55😢
Grandma was fab!
for those 20 and 30 somethings...yeah, girl....your SKIN might be more beautiful, but your mind and attitude? yeah, no. those only develop as you age. THAT is when you are truly a beauty...like grandma droniak. lol. humor is the best beauty tool. better than botox, babes. keep up the great work, frederique...love you...
Sunscreen….best advice ever all year round.
Face tape was used during the golden age of Hollywood for actressses who couldn’t get a facelift for one reason or another. The late Lucille Ball admitted to using face tape because she couldn’t get a face lift.
I don’t see a problem with ladies who want to slow down the aging process. In today’s times, women in their 50s and 60s are still working professional jobs, and they want to look ageless so they can remain competitive. The good news is thanks to technology, we can do non-invasive treatments to maintain an ageless look.
I don’t believe it. Why is she not showing when she does the makeup? No way she can look like this. Another option would be that she use a filter.
sip happens LOL! That is the BEST comment.