I got my confidence back and this is exactly how i did it.
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- čas přidán 1. 08. 2024
- Let’s have a little chit-chat about confidence, how to be more confident, and how I got my confidence back (for me personally). Even though these things are personal to me, I’m sure these confidence tips can help so many others as well 💕
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CHAPTERS:
0:00 How I Got My Confidence Back
1:05 for the introverts
2:41 own it and embrace it
5:52 you can rewrite your story at any time
8:44 this is a choice
9:25 release these people
10:31 how i practice that inner knowing/confidence
12:51 just let them pass
13:57 the biggest realization i had
17:47 better health = better confidence
18:43 play pretend until it’s not
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Can you do A Day In Your Life video 🙏🏻🙏🏻😊
Yes please-include filming day, please
I’d love that too
Yes please!
Your videos are like free therapy for me 🥹💖 or as if I'm talking with a close friend. Your energy is so calming and encouraging. Thank you 🌸
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As someone, who worked on my confidence the past few years, I can confirm that owning who you are and trusting yourself /believing in yourself is the basis of confidence. You nailed it, Jillz.
I became confident by doing things that I wasn’t good at because things that came naturally to me weren’t challenging and I knew they gave me that false sense of confidence because as soon as I needed to do smth that I wasn’t so good at I started doubting myself. Challenging myself taught me how to have confidence in myself not because I am good at something but because I know I’ll handle whatever is coming up :)
Sounds interesting! Can you give some examples of things you have done?
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@@luisahydrangea3783 Sure, I have been doing in basically daily, because I like to overcome the fear that is connected with it. Starting with I moved to the Uk without speaking English, that was my first step...then Nl and Italy without speaking the languages. I've started mentoring women because I believed that I never could explain stuff to people to be able to teach them something since teaching was my weak spot...that's connected to my speech, I find it hard to express myself, so I started TIKTOK where I'm speaking about my knowledge. Then I do it in English because in my native language, it would be no challenge =) I started painting, even though I considered myself having no talent at all...the same with dancing =) and I could go on and on
I actually was very confident and bold in high school and now that I’m 25 I feel a lot more insecure
Oh my goodness- the thing about the fish climbing a tree. As my 'retirement job' I became a catering server. I love working with and teaching young people, I LOVE the job and am good at it. They asked me to work a few days a week in the office. I agreed to try, but found it frustrating and depressing and felt useless. I found a replacement who is office oriented and am back to doing what I love, working with my team of younger girls and seeing them flourish. My greatest reward is having them ask for advice and then take it.... I didn't have a normal upbringing and I love being able to help young people succeed :)
This is the pep talk I needed this morning! I've been struggling with this lately for different reasons in my personal life and as a watercolor artist. I like that you said to just keep showing up, try new things. I struggle in groups and crowds. I used to be very outgoing but in recent years have become pretty introverted. I'm trying to remind myself I'll be ok no matter what. I can count on me and trust myself to navigate whatever comes up : )
Yes!! Glad you liked it!!😘
You really are so thorough in every topic you speak about. You give great examples. You are a joy to watch and listen to. I'm so greatful I found you. Thank you for doing what you do.
Aww thank you!!🥰
Thank you, Jilz ❤ As always, your words resonated with me. I have been always a shy person, but, since my teens, I have been trying to fake an extroverted personality. It was a huge social disaster and a killer for my inner confidence. For the shy people out there: you will not be forgotten and not recognized because you are quiet, your shine is actually visible everywhere and everytime. ✨🎇
Your point about rewriting your story really resonates with me. When I did narrative therapy with my therapist a few years ago, it helped me to identify why I defined myself in certain ways and what I based my worth on, and build a new story for myself
I love the point you touched on about confidence being about inner trust and comfort. This is something I've always struggled with and the re-frame was so eye-opening for me. ♥️ It's the always measuring your self worth against externals that creates a lack of confidence.
This was so encouraging with easy to digest practices. I can actually see myself using these in my daily life without being overwhelmed by the list of "positive tasks" we tend to collect when we are trying to better ourselves. Thank you
So much of what you said feels genius to me. I really like the part about knowing you're good enough like you know your own name. I've never thought about things in that way before. Thank you! 💗
You are definitely in your passion. Your content and delivery is spot on! Plus your so grounded love your advice
Your videos have been so helpful, thank you for sharing!💗I love your last point about "how you show up vs your identity", it just makes sense now! 💖
Always love your advice! I especially liked the piece where you said you don’t have to be great or the best at something to do it or feel confident doing it 👏🏽 you just need to show up for yourself!
You are so good at explaining these type of things. I love it!❤ You can teach people so much.
Great timing! I literally woke up this morning trying to define confidence and had trouble doing it. No joke.
You’re a gem! And you have such a calm to you 🫶🏼
Thank you Jillz, wonderful as always! ❤
This was amazing & exactly what I needed to hear today, thank you! 💕✨
Oh my god, everything you said makes so much sense! I love the analogy with the dog. I think you might have just changed my life for the good forever. Thank you so so so much!
I love you Jills, pink suits your undertone so well, i always look forward to your videos, thanks for delivering everytime sis ❤
thanks jillz! love starting off sunday morning with your videos!
So glad you’re here! ❤️
This has been really helpful to me. Thank you Jillz x
I needed this video, THANK YOU!!!!
I just found you like two days ago and now I've been watching your videos all the time! You are just a magnetic personality and so wise. Thank you for a great content! 🥰
Aww thank you so much!! So glad you’re here! 🥰
I just found your channel and subscribed. I’m really resonating with your chill, nonjudgmental, and empowering vibe. Thank you!
This was a really good video. Thank you!
I just found you and you are already changing my life. Your videos are amazing ! I have a lot of knowledge but i don t share it cause i am really scared of being on social media but i think after this video i will give it a try. Thank you !
I’m thankful I discovered you! 🥹You’re the kind of friend I’d like to have. I’m and inspired by your content and you have such a welcoming energy that invites you to come along side, even though it’s self work.
this video is exactly what i needed. thank you so much. ❤
It’s all good. I’m glad you were doing ❤❤❤
Thank you as always your videos are spot on and authentic and accessible ❤
Ah so glad you think so! 🥰
So helpful video, thank you!
jillz please make more morning/nighttime affirmations!!
I love your videos thank you so much❤
Jillz this is really great advice! Got so much out of this. Thank you so much ❤
Ahh yay that makes me so happy!!🥰
I love this video! Thank you
Your videos actually helped me a lot ....I am an introvert and could relate to your thoughts .....thank you so much jillz for showing me a path❤
Thank you so so much Jillz for this video and this video is truly truly helpful to me in my life you're looking too pretty and I wish you have a beautiful weekend💫🤗💖
I love your videos, and this one is a major WOW! Such helpful thoughts and guidance! I so appreciate this video and you for sharing! 💛
Yay! Glad you liked it!!!🥰
Useful video. Seriously, the logic in this video is impeccable. Well done.
Apart from confident you are a very beautiful woman as well.
Thank you for your inspiring content🌹
This video was very helpful thank you ❤
OMG, I just want to thank you from my whole heart!❤❤❤ This video is right on time and actually all of your videos have helped me so so much. Thank you Jillz! Loved the confidence talk.
So glad you enjoyed it!💕
Incredible advice, and very applicable to real life situations. I will rewatch your vid again and again as therapy :D thank you, have a wonderful day🌻
Ahh glad it was helpful!! 😘😘
i am so grateful for you 💙🥺
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Love this ❤
love this!!
Love you in pink 🌸🌸🌸
Great message
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Thank you!!!💕
Thank you. SImply and totally thank you!
You’re so welcome!!🥰🥰
Beautiful video! Thanks ❣️❣️❣️
Girl thank you for being the best good influence in my life right now ! ✨
- Sara Anne
I usually don't write comments, but this is an exception. Truly the amazing video, one of the best that I've ever seen on the confidence topic. Thank you so much. 😍
Ahh so glad you think so!!!💜
Being an introvert surrounded by extroverts most of my life. Ur surroundings mostly influence our thought and so I felt that being extrovert is confidence and how I should be. I tried to act extrovert in my teens for few days or so, but it just drained my energy and never made me happy. Then growing up I realised being myself is more important and then I find many strong introvert personalities that I admired. Being myself and accepting it made me happier and more confident. Being introvert and extrovert have their own special characteristics and advantages. We should admire ourselves.
You are lovely
Jillz...
Thank you...😊😊
Thank you for the video ❤
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I really love your videos ! Could you please talk about maadaptive daydreaming and how to deal with it ?
Thank you! So beautiful you are! ❤
Thank you so much! I love this video it is really beneficial. 🥰🥰
So glad you liked it! 🥰
Thank you so much ❤
Love your channel ❤❤
Thank you!!❤️
Thank you!
Listening to your videos while I make lavender lemonade 💜🍋🌸
Amazing 💕
Thank you🙏❤
Go on 💗
I have been so loving these videos! What if you feel like your meant to be a stay at home mom but your husband wants you to work? I try and find something I could love for work but just feel like I’m going against who I really am
I Loooooooooove this video. Last night I was watching a video summarising "Miranda in, the Devil wears Prada" and one of the things I admire about her sooooooooo much and want is how quietly she speaks, I must admit I did not like how brutal she was but that quiet way of delivering, I want that so bad, they asked her in an interview how she achieved that and she said she mirrored it from Clint Eastwood on set because people always give him undivided attention when he speaks because that quiet personality makes him so Powerful on set. I know this personality could shoot my Confidence to the Moon. I would shift my personality to Miranda's personality because I seriously chat too much.
Thank you 🚀
Wow, this video was needed!
I really struggle with not being awkward with people; especially when i have to work with them for an entire day or so. I start off very strongly, but eventually, i just stop being able to make small talk, and I focus solely on work. Is there anything I can do about it?
I dont know if you have a light orange or pink light setup or if its just a reflection on your hair, its really pretty. :)
I think you're beautiful and smart!!!! Thank-you for the great content!!!!! xoxoxox
Wonderful Video🙂❤️
This came at a great time for me because I have been taking an acting class lol it’s terrifying but I realized I have been using some of these tips without even realizing it. I love the reminder that we can be trusting of ourselves without being the best
I have a question about being embarrassed:
Can this feeling tell you, that something just isn’t yours? How a person can differ this thing from stepping from comfort zone, for example? (Like you said, if I understood correctly).
Thank you!
You just ignite inner confidence
You make my day💜🥹
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Hi Jillz 💕 I’m curious as to what your zodiac sign is! I’m a Scorpio and I also feel confident when I embrace my own introvertedness and quiet mind which can make me seem mysterious! Love your videos 🫶🏻
I’m a cancer! 💕
do I see an underrated video?
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It's one of my strength my favorite thing to do is acting in front of a mirror as If I'm the new character in my favorite movie like the song rewrite the stars from the greatest showman movie
Hi Jillz, I'm a bit late to this video, so you might miss my comment, but this morning you just changed my life ... thank you ❤
Wow, so glad it was helpful! 🥰❤️
I am from kerala.I like to watch your channel 😊
If I could give this video a thousand+++ thumbs up I would.
Aww 🥰❤️❤️
11:10 I get a lot of these situations. My eyes are steel grey, but most people don't know this color exist, so they eaither tell me they are blue or green, but they are neither. And I have to argue about it, which is silly since it's sucha trivial thing, but if they are grey, they are grey, just like milk is white and nobody will convince me it is black.
I tried to study physics for 5 years and failed many exams and was never able to finish it.
When I took a step back, I realized that finishing that degree required a huge amount of masculine energy.
And while there are women who made contributions to science or mathematics as important as any man's, they went about it in a very different, much more feminine way. (Marie Curie, Emmy Noether, many early computer programmers, etc)
Math and science are not inherently masculine or feminine, just as writing is not inherently masculine or feminine, but I was trying to go about it in a way that was completely against my nature. Of course I was miserable!
Honestly, I kind of wish that all women's colleges still existed.
Embarrassment is a choice 🙌🏽
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I recently found you and have gone through and watched every video and I’m obsessed and in love! You’ve definitely gained a new loyal follower, but can I just be annoying for a second and let you know that “anyways” is improper and should be “anyway”. 😂 so sorry to be that person but I’ve noticed it in almost every video of yours.
Ahh glad you’re here! ❤️❤️ And yes I say a lot of words wrong haha I’ve been working at it but I also try not to overthink it too much
Hello!! Thanks for you videos they help to explain a lot ! I have a Q that anyone respond … I would like to know if being extrovert is being in my masculine energy ? And if being thoughtful is masculine too… sometimes I feel I need to be introvert to be feminine or not thoughtful because that’s the man thing or which is the right amount to deliver ? ☺️✨
No you can be extroverted and thoughtful and of course still be in your feminine 💕
From an astrological point of view, you being a Cancer sun means your moon placement is indicative of where you feel most content, confident and at ease. I already know you have a Libra moon, so peace and balance is already a huge theme, but the house that its placed in is going to be a huge tell tail where you feel most confident 🦀, since the crabbies need comfort to come out of their shell, look what house your moon is transiting both natally and in transits! ✨️🌛🌕🌜
Moon is in my 9th house so that kinda makes sense! Because higher learning is what makes me most comfortable! So interesting
@JillzGuerin Explains a lot why you love to read books about self help as well as being a teacher to others. Foreign places, foreign people and travel will be a great emotional reward for you too.
I have been wanting to travel internationally recently!
@JillzGuerin Well this upcoming new moon in Leo could be a fab time to manifest and jot down new ideas, goals, dreams etc regarding this since Leo/5th house also is involved travel, fun, exploration, adventure etc. 🌸🌤
I'm an ambivert so I can easily adapt to situations
Jill, how old are you?
but that's only possible if ur not depressed and anxious all the time
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Jillz I'm getting scorpio vibes from you... with a dash of Amber Heard :) but most importantly JILLZ!
Haha close! I’m a cancer!
I’m pretty sure you’re still young 😂
Great video. However, I get that we should get rid of ppl who are not treating us the way we want to be treated and that we shouldn't keep toxic people around. However, life is such that it's not easy or sometimes possible to do... Like for example if you are married with kids...and your husband is not the most loving, supportive person, but more of a big ego/constantly insulted/always-on-defense/chiseling away your self-esteem guy....Ugh. Sometimes life feels hopeless.
You do realise you help a lot of men too right?