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  • On this episode of Shady, our host, Lexy Lebsack travels to the Philippines to uncover the toxic reality of skin bleaching. This cultural trend is practicing world wide even with deadly side effects. Watch this week's Shady to understand the truth about skin bleaching!
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  • @refinery29
    @refinery29  Před rokem +31

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    • @PraiseTheLordyourGodJesus
      @PraiseTheLordyourGodJesus Před 7 měsíci

      😢Ephesians‬ ‭6:10‭-‬18‬ ‭Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might. Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness; and your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace; above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints. The bible is no old book. You have to really let Christ open your eyes; to see the world in shambles. Many people say it's a religion to lock up people in chains, and say it's a rule book.. why? Because people hate hearing the truth, it hurts their flesh, it's hurts their pride, it's exposes on what things have they done..people love this world so much, s*x, money, power, women, supercars.. things of this world. Still trying to find something that can fill that emptiness in your heart. You can't find that in this world.. only in Christ, the bible is no chains, it's a chainbreaker. Breaking your sins into pieces... Repent now, and turn back to the true Lord only.. God bless.😢

  • @D0V3-S4M4
    @D0V3-S4M4 Před 5 lety +53796

    Honestly, I just want clear skin not lighter skin 😭

  • @eurovision50
    @eurovision50 Před 3 lety +15931

    The luckiest people are those who don't care about how they look.

    • @kirandamodhare9358
      @kirandamodhare9358 Před 3 lety +463

      Yes i am a one of those who don't care how i look or duski skin ,i only care about how i make my heart,soul ,mind and smaile beautiful.

    • @heistydork8601
      @heistydork8601 Před 3 lety +66

      EXACTLY !!!

    • @blackpinkslawyer4595
      @blackpinkslawyer4595 Před 3 lety +258

      And the most financially stable.

    • @clurpslurp
      @clurpslurp Před 3 lety +300

      It’s not lucky, they learn how to love themselves

    • @cerilgracic3065
      @cerilgracic3065 Před 3 lety +198

      The statement is a bit misleading imo. Actually everyone must care about how they look I mean how they are naturally, it is their body after all, treat it nicely (with good diet and exercise) as it is a gift.

  • @gumii5051
    @gumii5051 Před rokem +478

    As a Filipina woman, I thank you so much Thony for your work. You deserve the recognition and amazing dedication to help the Filipinos.

    • @Bennahr_Fett
      @Bennahr_Fett Před rokem +2

      Help them with what

    • @PraiseTheLordyourGodJesus
      @PraiseTheLordyourGodJesus Před 7 měsíci

      😢Ephesians‬ ‭6:10‭-‬18‬ ‭Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might. Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness; and your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace; above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints. The bible is no old book. You have to really let Christ open your eyes; to see the world in shambles. Many people say it's a religion to lock up people in chains, and say it's a rule book.. why? Because people hate hearing the truth, it hurts their flesh, it's hurts their pride, it's exposes on what things have they done..people love this world so much, s*x, money, power, women, supercars.. things of this world. Still trying to find something that can fill that emptiness in your heart. You can't find that in this world.. only in Christ, the bible is no chains, it's a chainbreaker. Breaking your sins into pieces... Repent now, and turn back to the true Lord only.. God bless.😢

    • @Nick-dx2pt
      @Nick-dx2pt Před 4 měsíci +4

      ​@@Bennahr_Fettdid you not watch the video???

  • @rosie6
    @rosie6 Před rokem +1087

    I am love my skin colour, but I now realize my skin color is a huge privilege, yet I see girls whiter than me paying thousands to get tanned every month. Everyone wants what they can’t have!!! But y’all are beautiful. Black skin is angelic, brown skin is angelic, yellow skin is angelic and white skin is too.

    • @leeseung-hyunlove7446
      @leeseung-hyunlove7446 Před rokem +1

      BS. White women want to have "tanned white skin" They never want to have "dark skin of black/brown people" these are totally different two things.

    • @himanshu3103
      @himanshu3103 Před rokem +21

      Facts

    • @lola-to9om
      @lola-to9om Před rokem

      white skin isn't even good it doesn't protect from the sun if you are exposed to the sun a lot you can develop skin cancer but darker skin protects from an of things you can even disappear in the darkness 💀💀
      anyway my point is we look like this because of our evolution every skin color has its importance

    • @ahand82
      @ahand82 Před rokem +3

      Hii superb its all truth ya alright👍🏻👍🏻❣️👌🏻

    • @fuckonoff127
      @fuckonoff127 Před rokem +5

      AMEN.

  • @kookmymochi4331
    @kookmymochi4331 Před 4 lety +4156

    "If people one day woke up and became happy with themselves imagine how many industries would run out of business"

    • @m.mhn7535
      @m.mhn7535 Před 4 lety +49

      Underrated

    • @salmgeremew8793
      @salmgeremew8793 Před 4 lety +15

      I couldnt agree more

    • @africandaughter3110
      @africandaughter3110 Před 4 lety +13

      @@liz4885 they were reacting to it. That's why they put it in quotation marks.

    • @pyreworks5210
      @pyreworks5210 Před 4 lety +12

      @@liz4885 that quote is so old everyone who commented that here in youtube is not the original writer.

    • @valentinagelatina
      @valentinagelatina Před 4 lety +9

      the hairstyler, the gym, these all products for clean or lighter skin, the dentist, the surgery, ALL the people working on it. wow

  • @TalkAsSoftAsChalk
    @TalkAsSoftAsChalk Před 5 lety +12268

    "The grass is always greener on the other side". While people in Asia are risking their lives for getting lighter skin, those in the West are tanning themselves to the point of skin cancer.

    • @saritarodriguez8253
      @saritarodriguez8253 Před 5 lety +365

      Maliha Intikhab LOUDERRRR❗️❗️❗️

    • @criscuevas1225
      @criscuevas1225 Před 5 lety +1138

      Just think of the saying, "we always want what we do not have."

    • @halloweenallyearround4889
      @halloweenallyearround4889 Před 5 lety +373

      That hate and pain are the results of colonialism, white supremacy, pseudoscientific racism, genocides, eugenics, mass rape, concentration camps, war crimes, slavery, caste systems and methodic dehumanization. Nothing else. There is no inherent discomfort with personal looks amongst humans nor amongst other animals. Racism, hate and self hatred are poisonous seeds whose unrooting will take centuries, if not millenia, (if we have enough time left on the planet as a specie). Just as misogyny, ableism and other social schizophrenias and terrors. HATE SHOULD NEVER BE NORMAL. Violence and traumas are inherited when people don't try and break the cycle. Just as it happens with domestic violence, and transcidal and femicidal terrorism. When we see it as natural and shrug we assume our defeat and self-destruction, wheather we benefit from hate or are recipients of it and scapegoats. When we naturalize abuse, inequality and cruelty we support crimes and evil, wasting the time we have as individuals and as generations. Sanity, equality and compassion start with the decolonization of our own mindsets.
      Ese odio y ese dolor son resultados del colonialismo, la supremacía blanca, el racismo pseudocientífico, genocidios, eugenesia, violaciones masivas, campos de exterminio, crímenes de guerra, esclavitud, castismo y deshumanización metódicas. Nada más que eso. El auto odio étnico, por tono de piel y por cualidades físicas no es una característica inherente ni en nuestra especie ni en otras. El odio y el auto odio racistas son semillas venenosas que nos tomará siglos si no milenios arrancar (sólo si tenemos suficiente tiempo en el planeta como especie). Paralelo a la misoginia, el capacitismo y otras esquizofrenias sociales y terrorismos. EL ODIO NUNCA DEBE VOLVERSE NORMA NI COSA DE TODOS LOS DÍAS. Las violencias y los traumas se heredan hasta que alguien rompe el ciclo, como ocurre con la violencia intrafamiliar y los terrorismos feminicidas y transcidas. Cuando vemos al odio como algo "natural" y encogemos los hombros, es cuando asumimos nuestra derrota y nuestra auto destrucción, sea que nos beneficiemos del odio o seamos recipientes de este y chivos expiatorios. Cuando naturalizamos abusos, inequidades y crueldades es cuando defendemos crímenes y maldad, desperdiciando el tiempo que tenemos como individues y como generaciones. La cordura, la equidad y la compasión empiezan por la descolonización de nuestras mentalidades.

    • @MinttMeringue
      @MinttMeringue Před 5 lety +165

      You cant say the west though. In Africa, for example, in many parts this is just as much of a problem. As for Europe and North America, these are some of the few places tanning is a thing. Which is also stupid. Luckily, it's usually looked down upon and mocked by most. Some celebrities are still praised for it though:/

    • @ajlim6120
      @ajlim6120 Před 5 lety +90

      And people in the west make fun of those who are tanned skin 🤦🏻‍♀️ smh

  • @maskpedestrian3135
    @maskpedestrian3135 Před rokem +112

    literally in Asia, being seen as poor and low-class by ur neighbors and be neglected by your society on a daily basis because ur skin is dark is an unfair feeling, it's not about the racism or any xenophobia, it's literally classism and colorism

  • @natalietran1997
    @natalietran1997 Před rokem +871

    Beauty fades but dumb is forever.

    • @sisandangwadla4223
      @sisandangwadla4223 Před rokem +13

      Amen😘🍃

    • @kuhtoo9654
      @kuhtoo9654 Před rokem +48

      For real we eventually all get old and wrinkly one day no matter what😂

    • @defaultworkouts
      @defaultworkouts Před rokem +6

      dumb isn't forever. people wise up. beauty can last well into old age (physical beauty). look at tom cruise and so many leading men. yes women age like spoiled milk of course but still, some have been able to keep up like Jennifer Lopez. so you are entirely wrong Natalie

    • @employeeattheffc9874
      @employeeattheffc9874 Před rokem +24

      Calling people dumb for people feeling pressured to conform to beauty standards in order to be perceived in a more favorable light 🤔

    • @alittlebean.1284
      @alittlebean.1284 Před rokem +1

      Okay so, a lot of countries the standard is to be as light as possible, obviously they had a valid reason, they weren’t just following trends the culture in many Asian countries has been the way for centuries

  • @BeyondBalloonsNamibia
    @BeyondBalloonsNamibia Před 5 lety +33297

    Please don't stop this "Shady" episodes. They are very educational to people.

    • @armystayblink9865
      @armystayblink9865 Před 5 lety +69

      Lucia Katangolo true

    • @sy-zu4uz
      @sy-zu4uz Před 5 lety +51

      Preaaachhh

    • @MemoryOfTheRose
      @MemoryOfTheRose Před 5 lety +208

      Definitely. The stuff I’ve learned about in some of their videos is stuff I’ve never heard about from anywhere else

    • @BeyondBalloonsNamibia
      @BeyondBalloonsNamibia Před 5 lety +140

      @@MemoryOfTheRose So true, for me would be the Indian children who work in the mines for the "shimmer highlight or make-up" ingredient. I was shocked

    • @MemoryOfTheRose
      @MemoryOfTheRose Před 5 lety +23

      Lucia Katangolo that one was really disturbing

  • @andujsedjn4802
    @andujsedjn4802 Před 5 lety +20159

    “Treat it from the inside” hurts to hear people think that melanin is a some kind of disease

    • @blitzedblueberry
      @blitzedblueberry Před 5 lety +2026

      Right? And what's worse is that this stuff is taught. Babies aren't born wanting to be lighter.

    • @andujsedjn4802
      @andujsedjn4802 Před 5 lety +859

      jayoheye and these are medical professionals who are meant to strive for the wellbeing of their patients- guess ignorance overrides integrity 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @nissivitto3321
      @nissivitto3321 Před 5 lety +34

      😢😭

    • @yachishairclips2250
      @yachishairclips2250 Před 5 lety +292

      @@andujsedjn4802 .
      In medical ethics.. a doctor cannot convince his/her patient about one's principles or even sharing your principles (that is against of principle of autonomy)...
      when the patient goes to the dermatologist office, they knew what it is that they are wanting to be treated/getting done for because the patient sees the skin tone as a dilemma. The doctor just provide options for patients to choose (principle of informed consent). And the patient would decide.

    • @justbrowsing8162
      @justbrowsing8162 Před 5 lety +245

      I have a skin complexion that is " sun kissed" and I find it funny that people with light/pale skin, spend hundreds of dollars trying to get tanned, by way of tanning booths, tanning lotions and tanning sprays to get our skin color! what can I say? The Sun Loves me! lol :) BTW~ I don't think it is a disease, I think it's a preference!

  • @sophiaangeladizon3730
    @sophiaangeladizon3730 Před rokem +200

    We need people like these two, because us Filipino love to bargain when we cannot purchase the best, and this is what happens to a lot of us because we are so desperate to look classy. We need to accept what we are and who we are, nobody is ugly, we are all unique in our own way, and I hope we all learn that lesson, so nobody will get hurt!!!

    • @jamesmontana1881
      @jamesmontana1881 Před rokem +1

      Who hurt you 😬

    • @ScoobySnacksYum
      @ScoobySnacksYum Před rokem +3

      It's such a shame that classiness and beauty standards equate to lighter/whiter skin.

  • @rust44
    @rust44 Před 4 lety +12384

    “Pretty but dark” that woman is so light skinned though.

    • @MsTienna
      @MsTienna Před 4 lety +824

      40 lashes i think she lightened her skin but back then she hadn’t yet

    • @halimahmufidah8265
      @halimahmufidah8265 Před 4 lety +600

      you're not living in asia

    • @CherieDeDieu
      @CherieDeDieu Před 4 lety +434

      She was explaining why she bleached.

    • @FrizzleLamb
      @FrizzleLamb Před 4 lety +331

      She meant before. I was also always told that I was pretty but dark. It urged me to start whitening my skin, which shouldn't be a positive result -- we dark-skinned people (and fair-skinned too) need to be loved in order to love ourselves so that we won't have to change who we are.

    • @andinarizkia
      @andinarizkia Před 4 lety +152

      In asia that would be considered dark. The word dark is highly subjective too😊

  • @mangomargarita285
    @mangomargarita285 Před 4 lety +15277

    I don't see many comments talking about Thony. This man is literally out here dedicating his life to protecting the public from these harmful products! And did you see how happy he was when he walked out the meeting? Thank you for all your hard work Thony. Wish there were more people like you.

  • @saroshlevine1989
    @saroshlevine1989 Před rokem +220

    "but why do people take these risks at all"
    why because our society is messed up and thinks people are ugly with darker skin so people dont feel pretty and bleach their skin thats why...

    • @steviedub9370
      @steviedub9370 Před rokem

      In Asian culture , a Asian woman worship white people the women worship white men they have statues of white men they wouldn’t look at a black man there’s some Asian women that are different but in general that’s how they are raised white skin is superior 🤷🏼 , What ya gonna do? That’s there beliefs

    • @defaultworkouts
      @defaultworkouts Před rokem +10

      it has always been that way. dark skin is associated with low class/caste/slaves in Egypt

    • @lizmacleod8903
      @lizmacleod8903 Před rokem

      I think a lot of it is pressure from cosmetic and drug companies

    • @user-jq1ll3hm8x
      @user-jq1ll3hm8x Před 2 měsíci +6

      The "problem" isn't what society thinks, as "society" is just a collection of individuals who are entitled to their own opinions and u don't get to say otherwise.
      The real problem is the people who try to confirm with any standard. Those who don't like themselves. Make up your own mind and stop blaming others.

    • @ChakaKhanian
      @ChakaKhanian Před měsícem +3

      It's really interesting how people are so dumbfounded when they hear of someone lightening their skin/desiring light skin, only for that same dumbfounded person to treat those with darker skin harsher and those with lighter skin gentler.

  • @islandseth
    @islandseth Před rokem +318

    This doctor looks disfigured herself... scary

    • @tyronebonquaviusdaquan3562
      @tyronebonquaviusdaquan3562 Před rokem +5

      HAHAHAHA

    • @sonicyell
      @sonicyell Před rokem +3

      Ms Jekyll and Hyde actually

    • @shinji3603
      @shinji3603 Před rokem +15

      But she's still professional and thinks about other people's safety

    • @splshbckYT
      @splshbckYT Před rokem +17

      she's already at her 60's preserving her beauty, I think its normal for women at this age to look like that when they're trying to preserve their beauty.

    • @splshbckYT
      @splshbckYT Před rokem +3

      @@maybemints yeah but we don't know their story so it's up to them.

  • @TalkAsSoftAsChalk
    @TalkAsSoftAsChalk Před 5 lety +7420

    If your cosmetologist's face can't even move, it's indication you should run.

    • @miss_asio
      @miss_asio Před 5 lety +453

      Her nose was the worst part tbh lol

    • @locbui3571
      @locbui3571 Před 5 lety +75

      Maliha Intikhab
      Lol 😆
      Exactly what I was thinking

    • @lemondemon2195
      @lemondemon2195 Před 5 lety +33

      😂😂😂

    • @yachishairclips2250
      @yachishairclips2250 Před 5 lety +58

      There was no cosmetologist mentioned in the video

    • @stephsmanicshenanigans8017
      @stephsmanicshenanigans8017 Před 5 lety +247

      Miss Asio I thought the half asleep eyelid was pretty damn awful and would for sure have me running away. I didn’t even get my boobs done by one dr because he had super chapped lips, if you can’t take care of something so simple or you fuck up something so simple (the ladies face), don’t trust that “doctor” to take any better care of you than they do themselves. This whitening stuff is crazy though, considering here we have people obsessed with being tanned

  • @vickyg6182
    @vickyg6182 Před 4 lety +17476

    Curly hair: wants straight hair
    Straight hair: wants curly hair
    Light skin: wants tanner skin
    Brown skin: wants lighter skin
    Thin: wants to get curves
    Curvy: wants to be slimmer
    Suffice to say, I think the issue is that self-acceptance is a battle we all undertake

    • @tazhienunurbusinezz1703
      @tazhienunurbusinezz1703 Před 4 lety +524

      Well of course. How would the beauty industry operate & continue to be worth something over 1/2 a trillion dollars globally if they didn't convince everyone they needed these things to be accepted? Almost everything people are shown every day is to try get them to part with their money & make sure it gets to a corporation.
      Bad breath wasn't a thing people ever worried about until Listerine convinced people they had halitosis & that people wouldn't like them if they didn't take care of it. With what? ...why, Listerine, of course. It's been like that with almost every insecurity people now have. People weren't insecure until they were convinced they should be & they were only convinced because someone wanted to sell them a cure for that insecurity.

    • @luisphilipdioneda206
      @luisphilipdioneda206 Před 4 lety +210

      South korea Japan China they already have pale skin the women there want to look whiter

    • @ryanzhang701
      @ryanzhang701 Před 4 lety +145

      @@luisphilipdioneda206 To you, but to themselves they are not, it's all about subjective feelings towards themselves.

    • @flabbergastedbear2074
      @flabbergastedbear2074 Před 4 lety +75

      I understand totally, i carry a strong pale skin gene, I'm very white, I always want to tan up but I burn in the sun, my lack of melanin makes it hard to be in the sun..I always want tanner skin

    • @khaijajohnson2521
      @khaijajohnson2521 Před 4 lety +70

      I love everything about me and would never want to change my look. It makes me sad that people thing that they have to.

  • @IkaDiary
    @IkaDiary Před rokem +84

    Growing up my extension nickname was "Negra" due to my Morena/brown skin. It definitely took a toll of my confidence and I was having hard time during my teen-age years. Couldn't be grateful that as I get older I learn to love myself ,my skin colour , and my uniqueness. ❤️

    • @ScoobySnacksYum
      @ScoobySnacksYum Před rokem +5

      Brown skin is beautiful. There are many successful brown skinned women of many races/ethnicities. Screw the haters. Focus on what makes you happy.

    • @augustuslunasol10thapostle
      @augustuslunasol10thapostle Před měsícem

      Im fairly certain that nickname is a term of endearment but im not really sure

  • @rominalaudiaz8444
    @rominalaudiaz8444 Před 7 měsíci +9

    Tony we need more people like you! Thank you for your incredible work and hopefully more people realise that what is deemed 'attractive' is just a construct, make your own definition of beauty and screw anyone who doesn't agree!

  • @pinkscorpion3295
    @pinkscorpion3295 Před 3 lety +8659

    There are people who are bleaching their skin ,while others are risking skin cancer to become tan. Our society is all about vanity and nothing else . That’s pretty sad .

    • @racheal_04
      @racheal_04 Před 2 lety +118

      I was just looking this up because I was wondering how they do it but I couldn't finish the video because I was on the verge of crying

    • @dawnaf6750
      @dawnaf6750 Před 2 lety +202

      No matter what we look like, we are always told by marketing that it's not good enough or we need to be better/different somehow.

    • @myrnahall6168
      @myrnahall6168 Před 2 lety +91

      European and American men and women are dying to be brown..They envy my skin I am brown all year around,they asked,where tanning bedI went...I just laughed at them....

    • @angelusvastator1297
      @angelusvastator1297 Před 2 lety +200

      In the West, being tanned means being strong and athletic. In Asia, being pale means being rich and educated.

    • @shonggagaa7946
      @shonggagaa7946 Před 2 lety +12

      @@angelusvastator1297 yes yes

  • @ya__basic
    @ya__basic Před 4 lety +4347

    "In a society that profits from your self-doubt, loving yourself is a rebellious act."

    • @billiemiquelfrazier1312
      @billiemiquelfrazier1312 Před 4 lety +70

      Shruti that hits different.
      It’s so sad, I wanted to bleach my skin when I was younger and I’m glad my mom forced me out of it

    • @tommer5696
      @tommer5696 Před 4 lety +6

      Wow

    • @sutomuarashi
      @sutomuarashi Před 4 lety +8

      preach

    • @shrutis
      @shrutis Před 4 lety +19

      as much i hate this, you are right. i hope one day, humanity learns to accept people for who they are and not for what they are not

    • @perdykool
      @perdykool Před 4 lety +4

      Haha makes BTS rebellious. I love it

  • @avirah459
    @avirah459 Před rokem +36

    It's so shocking to know about this. Everyone says wisdom words like "BE YOURSELF AND ACCEPT THE WAY YOU ARE" still there are so many hidden things which are still under the surface due to society's insecurity and being unloving towards our bodies the way we are. This is an eye-opener for every human being. Thanks, Thony Kuya for taking a stand on something which is gonna cause a lot of problems that not everyone can understand or is less knowledgeable about it. Mahal din Kita from India to Phillipines! love and prayers to everyone reading this.❤

  • @AzulaIsTheBest
    @AzulaIsTheBest Před rokem +73

    I live in the Netherlands and my ancestry is Pakistani. One of the biggest issues about Pakistani people even here in the west is that they’re obsessed with having white skin. Some people are not able to get married if they’ve dark skin and some guys who have naturally tanned skin prefer having a wife who has fair skin. I absolutely hate it when someone uses “you’re gori chitti”(you’re as beautiful as a white girl) as a compliment.

    • @user-ye6ft4ly7r
      @user-ye6ft4ly7r Před rokem +4

      Damn that’s some weird words for compliment, we also praise fair skin in east asia, but I don’t think its a compliment to call someone looking like a white person. In fact in China alot of times it could be an insult.

    • @saikatsaha4122
      @saikatsaha4122 Před rokem

      Whole South Asia is wasted land

    • @apriljohnson1067
      @apriljohnson1067 Před 4 měsíci +8

      Yes, White girls have always been considered the most beautiful. There was a study done years ago cross culturally that asked thousands to pick out the most beautiful features and when they averaged up, they made a blond White woman

    • @kyrak.4143
      @kyrak.4143 Před 16 dny

      ​@@apriljohnson1067what about males? What kind of male is th most beautiful?

    • @apriljohnson1067
      @apriljohnson1067 Před 16 dny

      @@kyrak.4143 Didn’t see any studies on that. 😂

  • @ms.gregoria2249
    @ms.gregoria2249 Před 3 lety +9257

    In Asia, tanned skin is associated with labouring, outdoors in the fields.
    In the West, tanned skin is associated with exotic holidays and leisure activities 😨

    • @ms.gregoria2249
      @ms.gregoria2249 Před 3 lety +51

      😨

    • @kawaiiufocafe5399
      @kawaiiufocafe5399 Před 3 lety +598

      You are right, but there is a difference between sun tan and natural brown skin.

    • @stephenp1461
      @stephenp1461 Před 3 lety +493

      Let's not also forget that In the Philippines whitening was encouraged due to spain and america's colonialism which conditioned the population to aspire to western ideals of beauty

    • @imnotyouraveragecuteduck646
      @imnotyouraveragecuteduck646 Před 3 lety +340

      Yes and it’s so disgusting how white girls in North America tan darker then most blk ppl yet blk ppl still get treated like shit/ degraded

    • @lightylight7590
      @lightylight7590 Před 3 lety +173

      Exactly that's why not that long ago white skin was also a beauty standard for the Europeans. Only the rich could afford to have pale complexion. The women back then used even crazier things like lead and other poisonous chemicals to whiten their skin. This should absolutely stop happening in the 21 century.

  • @EmilyCanSwim
    @EmilyCanSwim Před 5 lety +3588

    Big shoutout to Tony for working hard to remove those harmful “products” from the street!

    • @candicecart9786
      @candicecart9786 Před 5 lety +15

      Unfortunately his work is like taking a drop of water out of a sinking boat... he’s trying to make a difference but it’s really hard to do so (also I find it laughable that there’s “controls” on mercury in products where in many Asian countries they dump tons upon tons of mercury into the waterways every day and clearly that’s going into their taps and bodies).. the change has to happen at the demand level, not the supply level (no demand = no supply)- but as they mentioned no price is too high for lightening to these ppl (so possible massive skin damage is a risk they’ll take)... it reminds me of the Ganges where scientists post water contamination results daily (including ridiculously high levels of fecal matter in the river and other frighteningly dangerous levels of other contaminants) and yet many ppl go into the river every day to bathe, do some sort of “religious” ceremony, wash clothes, and even drink straight from it! 🤮 it’s a mindset in which you have to have ppl who are open minded enough to listen to facts and reason (eg the risks from these low quality skin lightening products is not worth the possible rewards and is ridiculously dangerous)... but there aren’t- heck if ppl did things that were good for them, there wouldn’t be smokers - for centuries cigarettes have been known killers and yet ppl smoke all the time- even now in countries that have all sorts of graphic disturbing images and warnings about the effects of smoking have tons of smokers 🤮 how smoking isn’t illegal is beyond me (China even thought about banning smoking to reduce carbon emissions and estimated that doing so would have a significant reduction in their carbon emissions- but you got to give the poor slaves something, so they didn’t do so)

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Před 5 lety +12

      Emily Elizabeth Yes and it is great that there is at least someone like him who cares enough to do it instead of turning a blind eye to it all.

  • @MindinViolet
    @MindinViolet Před rokem +6

    A new mindset is needed. The skin colour you were born with is beautiful the way it is!

  • @lenilindvall8477
    @lenilindvall8477 Před rokem +22

    Many people do it because they are less informed or misinformed. No confidence or less confidence with themselves. In other countries, people pay money to get tanned skin or lay on the beach to get that tanned skin.

  • @Call_me_pweety
    @Call_me_pweety Před 3 lety +6984

    I'm half black and I live in the Philippines and i hate it so much when they say "you are pretty EVEN THOUGH you have dark skin" or "you are pretty for a dark skinned woman". C'mon! IF YOU ARE PRETTY YOU'RE PRETTY. PERIODT

  • @sirenenoire4091
    @sirenenoire4091 Před 3 lety +17267

    This world is trash. Skin is literally just an organ. We are mistreating each other over an *organ*
    Pathetic.

    • @taylordengfam3816
      @taylordengfam3816 Před 3 lety +230

      IKR!

    • @ILikesexalot
      @ILikesexalot Před 3 lety +244

      Its called evolution. World is fucked up, nothing has changed since the beginning of time.

    • @juratory8876
      @juratory8876 Před 3 lety +889

      @@ILikesexalot It's actually called colorism, a byproduct of racism. Evolution has nothing to do with it.

    • @ILikesexalot
      @ILikesexalot Před 3 lety +174

      ​@@juratory8876 Its not really racism, considering it has nothing to do with race. In history those in asia who have dark skin were considered working class(tans from working in sun), while those with light skin were the wealthy class. If you look there's almost no inter marriage between classes. The wealthy typically mate with those most fit(traits that are associated with beauty are those of fitness in evolution). You can look at western civilization similarity-- its almost impossible to find a blonde with a good face and body from a poor family(at least generations of poverty). These ideas are somewhat complex to write in less than a few pages, but trust me in that it is entirely due to evolution.

    • @ILikesexalot
      @ILikesexalot Před 3 lety +58

      @@juratory8876 like take an example. Think about if you were 1000 years ago. You see that all the workers are dark skinned, and you want a pale skinned person to marry because that's now the big new fashion. Well say that skin color at one time doesn't corelate with fitness. But now after the several generations have gone by the genetics of light skin have mixed with the high survival genes of the wealthy. Now you have transferred a phenotype that had 0 correlation with fitness, to a phenotype that is a direct correlation with fitness. Thus making this phenotype further attractive.

  • @takeiteasy544
    @takeiteasy544 Před rokem +28

    That ideology that white skin is associated with status (in philipines) came from spanish era because during those days, ladies with fair skin came from the prinicipalia or like elite families (and that status is usually achieved if you are mestiza or has spanish blood)

    • @wush7985
      @wush7985 Před rokem +2

      True it is a colonial thing not just because of wealth inequality

  • @jandinemahoney3134
    @jandinemahoney3134 Před rokem +8

    I have pigmentation on my face and I really really understand these woman's struggle.

  • @bryan1687
    @bryan1687 Před 4 lety +3773

    “Who taught you to hate the colour of your own skin?”- Malcolm x

    • @stxphaniee8255
      @stxphaniee8255 Před 4 lety +259

      Society... Jugment...Racism...

    • @yizzy.253
      @yizzy.253 Před 4 lety +164

      @@stxphaniee8255 colonization?....

    • @stxphaniee8255
      @stxphaniee8255 Před 3 lety +42

      Gamerz Rioting everthing I guess 😥

    • @purrrmeow5323
      @purrrmeow5323 Před 3 lety +17

      BøbaSteph racism? I think it was just because of Asia’s past with pale skin

    • @contactsynapsei325
      @contactsynapsei325 Před 3 lety +37

      @@purrrmeow5323 asians aren't the only one bleaching

  • @gracedalit3092
    @gracedalit3092 Před 3 lety +9298

    In the Asian country they like the “fair skin”
    America pays hundreds even thousands for a tan.

    • @saenznitfros5365
      @saenznitfros5365 Před 3 lety +5

      🔥🔥

    • @alxadoll
      @alxadoll Před 3 lety +14

      Very true

    • @ieatpancreas2005
      @ieatpancreas2005 Před 3 lety +193

      Thats the problem. The grass always seems greener on the other side

    • @mosya1409
      @mosya1409 Před 3 lety +35

      @Alex Akumei It is

    • @nathtimcina
      @nathtimcina Před 3 lety +37

      They are different things. Being lighter is different than a being pale white westerner.

  • @girliethoh8404
    @girliethoh8404 Před rokem +3

    More than seizing and banning, we should educate. So long as society equates fairness with beauty and employers hire based on looks, this problem will never go away.

  • @amberhaynes2482
    @amberhaynes2482 Před rokem +7

    In the US most people want to get a tan or the orange spray on tans. I have had family members that have had sun cancer spots removed because they wanted to be darker. I think we are all beautiful!

  • @daynademontagnac4694
    @daynademontagnac4694 Před 3 lety +3680

    I hate how she referred to darker skin as something that needs to be treated.

    • @sunflowerlovesbees
      @sunflowerlovesbees Před 3 lety +198

      It’s disgusting sis, like it’s some type of disease .. It’s tiring

    • @s._3560
      @s._3560 Před 3 lety +262

      People in Asian and non-Western countries have to stop accepting white western models to advertise the products in their countries. Stop applying these harmful Western beauty standards in your country! Promote your own local people whose color is most similar to majority of the population as models. That is way, people will learn to love and be proud of their own ethnic identity!

    • @seomi872
      @seomi872 Před 3 lety +121

      I really apologize for them. I’m Asian and the sad part is that if you have light stin you’re automatically attractive but yes, I still am disgusted.

    • @naomigates30
      @naomigates30 Před 3 lety +47

      I said the same thing! Like my melanin doesn't need treatment, but that mercury overdose will....LOL

    • @shannie3295
      @shannie3295 Před 3 lety +13

      Tbh that’s how the mindset of ppl here in philippines

  • @megkarr9954
    @megkarr9954 Před 4 lety +4719

    I hate that the doctor says “treat” as though having darker skin is a illness that she can cure ugh it’s sad and sick

    • @paulinogalias5067
      @paulinogalias5067 Před 4 lety +60

      omg she didin't mean to say that, look her up, she's a respectable derma here and she condone and a believer that color defines who you are. She just do that because the people wanted to. They could do what they like to the skin as long they don't pass judgement and thinks that the other color is bad.

    • @sollll3767
      @sollll3767 Před 4 lety +169

      @@paulinogalias5067 You are sick as her

    • @paulinogalias5067
      @paulinogalias5067 Před 4 lety +31

      @@sollll3767 woah i never had a reply for so long that was so dumb and they actually think they made a point :0

    • @humpydumpi
      @humpydumpi Před 3 lety +32

      She's doing her job people..stop hating on her

    • @humpydumpi
      @humpydumpi Před 3 lety +10

      And also she didn't meant using the word "treat" as though having dark skin is an illness

  • @shaealaashakl8644
    @shaealaashakl8644 Před rokem +2

    big thanks to sir Tony who never doubt make a move for a valuable eye opening, so great job

  • @angels-lb1jv
    @angels-lb1jv Před 2 měsíci +1

    What the heck? I didn't even know why I ended up here. My advice is to just love yourself. You are a beautiful human being.

  • @brittany7298
    @brittany7298 Před 3 lety +4603

    Why is no one talking about how someone did this to a baby 3:40. You wanna ruin your own skin, fine, but leave the children out of it. Truly sickening

    • @crogers3602
      @crogers3602 Před 3 lety +446

      The baby could have had skin contact with the mom after the mother applied it, babies have very sensitive skin. Either way it's irresponsible.

    • @sheli6948
      @sheli6948 Před 3 lety +39

      That actually what had happened

    • @panda24panda
      @panda24panda Před 3 lety +117

      Coz the mother still do breastfeeding for her baby..that time she doesnt know yet the allergy reaction from the whitening products that shes taken..

    • @justsomerandombananawithin3705
      @justsomerandombananawithin3705 Před 3 lety +10

      @@panda24panda what does breastfeeding have to do with anything?

    • @mateo_ferranco
      @mateo_ferranco Před 3 lety +25

      @@justsomerandombananawithin3705 perhaps she used the whitening thing on around her breasts idk🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @isabelleaguilar3331
    @isabelleaguilar3331 Před 3 lety +3902

    dark skin is beautiful, pale skin is beautiful, tan skin is beautiful we just live in a judgmental world

    • @jimmyfallon2484
      @jimmyfallon2484 Před 3 lety +72

      People are inherently judgmental. That is what has allowed our species to survive in such harsh conditions. But in this new world we should become aware of our judgement and then work to judge the things that truly need to be judged

    • @mpazinambao2938
      @mpazinambao2938 Před 3 lety +2

      Preach

    • @muhammadridho7680
      @muhammadridho7680 Před 3 lety +2

      @@jimmyfallon2484 but let's face it, the one who judge other people it's not the real problem, but the one who think they're being judges is the one who has a problem

    • @lordaimelord7848
      @lordaimelord7848 Před 3 lety +6

      Who's judging? People who want fairer skin simply find themselves more beautiful in fairer complexion...not the fear of being judged.

    • @deadpool99999
      @deadpool99999 Před 3 lety +2

      What about My skin?

  • @angelwingz892
    @angelwingz892 Před měsícem +4

    Singapore was the same. Tons of whitening products. Love the skin you're in. Your skin is beautiful, treat it well.

  • @amygalvin1799
    @amygalvin1799 Před rokem +1

    Good work making the world a more beautiful place Tony.

  • @flicksss09
    @flicksss09 Před 4 lety +2558

    Sooooooooo nobody's gonna talk about that lady who lightened her sons skin??

    • @ayloshmono
      @ayloshmono Před 4 lety +150

      I don't think she whitened his skin but maybe she was breastfeeding him so her condition transferred to the kid as well? I just don't want to think otherwise.

    • @rumblefish9
      @rumblefish9 Před 4 lety +251

      Refilwe Tsalaile That's not what happened. I'm Filipino and I saw this on the news. The woman tried the cream. She held her son for just a few minutes and that was enough to get the stuff on him. She and her son were diagnosed with a type of dermatitis.

    • @flicksss09
      @flicksss09 Před 4 lety +24

      @@rumblefish9 ooh OK. Thank you for telling me☺

    • @flicksss09
      @flicksss09 Před 4 lety +4

      @@ayloshmono OK thank you for telling me☺

    • @GoldenBoyDims
      @GoldenBoyDims Před 4 lety +14

      @@rumblefish9 that's still fucked up wtf

  • @aliseaskevas1556
    @aliseaskevas1556 Před 4 lety +2431

    Meanwhile, us light skinned people are tanning and buying $400 airbrush tan kits.

    • @EE-hk8iu
      @EE-hk8iu Před 4 lety +64

      so u have kits to tan? i tought all u needed was the sun.srry iam from Asia

    • @imogenknight3049
      @imogenknight3049 Před 4 lety +86

      @@EE-hk8iu yeah it's fake tan, you spray or rub it on skin like paint and it lasts quite a while

    • @HelloKitty-kb7ji
      @HelloKitty-kb7ji Před 4 lety +30

      Ahm, sorry but that was trendy a decade ago..

    • @shadows4419
      @shadows4419 Před 4 lety +54

      ALISEA SKEVAS we always want what we don’t have.

    • @deathlarsen7502
      @deathlarsen7502 Před 4 lety +31

      not all of us, but I see your fair point

  • @onnilcardenas2124
    @onnilcardenas2124 Před rokem

    Welcome here in Philippines...SHADY.. mabuhay..🤗❤️

  • @Imani7777
    @Imani7777 Před rokem +1

    Thank you Tony!!! ❤🎉

  • @koreanbigminion564
    @koreanbigminion564 Před 5 lety +1352

    If you were born with a specific skin tone , that is what suits you best .

    • @sheena333
      @sheena333 Před 5 lety +17

      rose water crystal true!!!!

    • @yasminecatalo6654
      @yasminecatalo6654 Před 5 lety +7

      true

    • @fatoumattacamara7569
      @fatoumattacamara7569 Před 5 lety +9

      Thank you for this comment

    • @AnNeachDorcha
      @AnNeachDorcha Před 5 lety +46

      @DaniLovesArt12 Dim That's a shame. Hopefully one day you will learn to love your skin.

    • @DeadKraken
      @DeadKraken Před 5 lety +22

      That is true, many darker skinned people that force themselves to be "lighter" don't look healthy at all, they look sickly and tired.
      Healthy skin is always the better option, if you don't like to tan is ok, but the moment you start to use products to bleach your skin to an unnatural tone, 99% of the times you look pretty bad.
      Pretty much all the people interviewed, aside from the model(who probably already had paler skin) look bad and not healthy at all.

  • @aqilafrh
    @aqilafrh Před 4 lety +1475

    For us brown skinned asian females. The words "It's ok I'm dark as long as I'm sweet" (Revering to chocolate) and "We're lucky to have this skin color, many foreigner sunbathed for hours to achieve this kinda look" has become a trend to counterattack tasteless bullies.

    • @bhav7539
      @bhav7539 Před 4 lety +13

      I swear this is so true

    • @dicksdrugsanddebutantes9305
      @dicksdrugsanddebutantes9305 Před 4 lety +43

      Also you're less likely to get skin cancer, and less likely to sunburn easily

    • @boredshrimp9425
      @boredshrimp9425 Před 4 lety +22

      It also makes your teeth/eyes seem whiter

    • @scaryguppy1071
      @scaryguppy1071 Před 4 lety +8

      And you age better than those of us with whiter skin!

    • @REINERX99
      @REINERX99 Před 4 lety

      Most of this bleachers are insecure mfers lol

  • @MelanieDilla
    @MelanieDilla Před 6 měsíci +7

    I am a filipina and I used to be so insecure with white fair skin but as years goes by I learned to appreciate my brown skin.

  • @neyashofficial1979
    @neyashofficial1979 Před rokem +1

    A SNAPPY SALUTE TO YOU SIR THONY.!!!🙏🏻👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 May you exist sir! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @chimdoll1750
    @chimdoll1750 Před 5 lety +721

    This is so normalized in the Philippines you forget it's even controversial

    • @erikabautista7072
      @erikabautista7072 Před 5 lety +10

      Right? It's sad

    • @sugahbabydoll1
      @sugahbabydoll1 Před 5 lety +7

      They where brainwashed

    • @iamisthebiggestyeetinthisp8520
      @iamisthebiggestyeetinthisp8520 Před 5 lety +10

      I was exposed to skin whitening since I was in 6th grade to the extent of me using a soap that burns my skin but skin bleaching is still normal here in our area in Mindanao

    • @-Secret
      @-Secret Před 5 lety +1

      chimdoll hating yourself to the point where you damage yourself completely shouldnt be normalized.

    • @meas.9739
      @meas.9739 Před 5 lety +5

      I remember going to my hometown 2 years ago and they immediately told me that my skin wasn't as 'flawless' and 'white' as it did before, they even told I was fat when all that happened to me was that I grew up. I have scars because I played a lot when I was young and I couldn't even see it now. It's just a sad fact that morena beauty isn't praised enough.

  • @_forg_3047
    @_forg_3047 Před 4 lety +1470

    I just don't want pimples on my face. I love my brown skin

  • @Ladybugpug1
    @Ladybugpug1 Před 9 měsíci +2

    We need more people like Tony!

  • @catarinasimoes1532
    @catarinasimoes1532 Před rokem +2

    Every beauty standard is a lot of money going on and is sick and dangerous for all society’s. Now is even worst with the social media. Fortunately in now days many brands are embracing the naturalism but we still have a long way to fight this issue

  • @odeiraoloap
    @odeiraoloap Před 5 lety +3229

    The dualism of being a Filipino:
    We are proud of being Filipino, but are ashamed of *looking like* a Filipino. There's no other way of saying it. It's absolutely disgusting.
    *Thank you for doing this.* Hopefully we can learn and appreciate what we have and improve how we are instead of changing how we look.

    • @JankaFitvlogs
      @JankaFitvlogs Před 5 lety +12

      Tama.

    • @kaye53431
      @kaye53431 Před 5 lety +8

      Paolo Ariedo I absolutely agree with this!

    • @sadmilkiwaves3400
      @sadmilkiwaves3400 Před 5 lety +2

      you look so cute just wanted to say

    • @shiro182
      @shiro182 Před 5 lety +8

      Edward Avila

    • @Madness20011
      @Madness20011 Před 5 lety +8

      I work with a lot of Filipino and u guys r always kind ,sweet and beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @filterrabail
    @filterrabail Před 4 lety +3551

    In Asian countries the whiter the skin the more high class. Being fair represents the less outdoor work you do. However darker skin represents more labour work you do. In western countries, the tanned skin shows you have the money and class to go on vacations at beaches. Skin whitening is a concept that is drilled into our minds since birth and most probably will never stop.

    • @gerihuginn2143
      @gerihuginn2143 Před 4 lety +143

      The same logic was present in the west before too , it changed just in recent history .

    • @TelzAll
      @TelzAll Před 4 lety +47

      Light means you're rich or well off being dark means you're a labourer of some sort

    • @lovehearts9710
      @lovehearts9710 Před 4 lety +5

      So true

    • @thiscanbeanyone9407
      @thiscanbeanyone9407 Před 4 lety +31

      I have extremely light skin and I don't understand why people want this,because it is so hard to maintain and doesn't change you

    • @angelinafianza8235
      @angelinafianza8235 Před 4 lety +2

      It is really a sad truth

  • @JaRule6
    @JaRule6 Před rokem +93

    As a woman of Irish descent I've always been made fun of for my pale skin. The irony is over the top. Fortunately for me I embraced my pale skin and I never tried to amend it thus damaging it. The funny thing is when I get a tattoo that has white parts in it, my tattooist never bothers using white ink. He says you're white enough

    • @freedomsong9747
      @freedomsong9747 Před rokem +1

      Still I'm trying to find out the fascination with place skin. Especially as they age

    • @shiningWiz4rd
      @shiningWiz4rd Před rokem +3

      Love pale skin!

    • @StevenSmith-mk5fg
      @StevenSmith-mk5fg Před rokem

      @@freedomsong9747 It's phycological. They may call white people white but they're not actually white ofc, they're more of a pinky kind of complexion and pink is associated with femininity. While it is true that white skin tends to age worse than darker skin (Irish white in particular), men are not interested in chasing 40 year-old + women so that prize is somewhat moot At 40 years-old, you're either set up or you're on your way to becoming a cat lady

    • @freedomsong9747
      @freedomsong9747 Před rokem

      @@userre85 then the man in the sun is really healthy

    • @sr969
      @sr969 Před rokem

      You will be worshipped in indonesia if you have skin that white lol.

  • @rockeymicky789
    @rockeymicky789 Před rokem +1

    Tony is an angel, saving a lots of Filipinos lifes

  • @Alejandra.p.6577
    @Alejandra.p.6577 Před 5 lety +1375

    I hope one day Tony's hard work will be appreciated.

  • @leelasmoochie
    @leelasmoochie Před 5 lety +1483

    Luv the mother who is teaching her daughter to love herself ❤

  • @rittahrabeson3059
    @rittahrabeson3059 Před rokem +8

    I am from Madagascar and we have the same issue related to skin tone, although I don't think that skin bleaching is that popular there. Madagascar has a very mixed population and a large part of our population looks like Filipinos and those are usually the beauty standard. I was the only one with a darker skin tone when I was in elementary school and one of my biggest dreams was to have straight hair and light skin. And I think it is one of the consequences of western colonialism and we tend to value lighter skin more and associate it with beauty. Now I love my skin and hair. Filipinos are beautiful, dark skin is beautiful. Learning to love yourself and change the beauty standards so dark skinned girls can grow up in

  • @rikokojima
    @rikokojima Před rokem +1

    We need more ppl like Thony and his team around

  • @kii-865
    @kii-865 Před 5 lety +3028

    Host: oh so it’s four times the legal limit
    “ *it’s more than. 42,000 times the legal limit* “
    Host: *_SHOOK_*

  • @areith2295
    @areith2295 Před 4 lety +1800

    *I just want no acne, not making my skin lighter.*

    • @sridevipavan
      @sridevipavan Před 4 lety +73

      Have home cooked food, stop having gluten, coffee, sugar and deep fried food. Have lots of fresh fruits and veggies. You acne will be gone. Also if possible do yoga . If it worked for me, it can work for anyone as I had really bad acne and had zero confidence levels. Trust in yourself and make small changes to your life style and you will have no acne at all.

    • @areith2295
      @areith2295 Před 4 lety +15

      Sri Kulkarni thank you! I’m going to try it out.

    • @florperaza7490
      @florperaza7490 Před 4 lety +7

      Army 💜

    • @vanhminglianitochhawng3209
      @vanhminglianitochhawng3209 Před 4 lety +5

      S T O L E D

    • @areith2295
      @areith2295 Před 4 lety +3

      Vanhmingliani Tochhawng H O W

  • @PoisonelleMisty4311
    @PoisonelleMisty4311 Před rokem +3

    It's important to recognize that beauty standards are often shaped by societal norms and can be oppressive to women of all races. Rather than placing the burden on individual women to have more confidence, we should work towards dismantling these harmful beauty standards altogether.

  • @modernmaharlikajanlee9356

    this is more like a self esteem thing than anything. and the culture of lighter skin is beauty. now that i’m in the U.S i realize my skin is beautiful the way it is. they just need education and awareness

  • @javan5938
    @javan5938 Před 4 lety +2218

    They don't need whitening creams but self-esteem boosters!

    • @smolboywithluv6669
      @smolboywithluv6669 Před 4 lety +13

      👏

    • @javan5938
      @javan5938 Před 4 lety +28

      @Hit That HateR They should whiten their vision

    • @nutanddash8552
      @nutanddash8552 Před 4 lety +20

      I live in an asia country it pisses me off when they say shit like "wow you'll be so beautiful if you have whiter skin!!!!!!!!!!!" or "they're so pretty even though they have dark skin!!" like shut the fuck up holy shit these people here are so dumb. Theres nothing wrong with having different skin color, you can still look beautiful and it shouldn't matter that much. I wish this beauty standards would be left to dead.

    • @idontknowmyname.9202
      @idontknowmyname.9202 Před 4 lety +13

      Talking is easier than doing tho 😩
      I mean, how can people being confident in the situation that he or she get bullied all the time because of their dark complexion?
      I am asian with pale skin but my sister have dark skin like my grandma and she was bullied since she studied in kindergarten to highschool.
      Moreover, people compared my sister and me like "why don't you look like siblings? One has very pale skin and one has dark skin like a coal" and laugh 😟
      nowadays, she still has low self esteem about her skin, her face, her weight, etc. My parents try to boost her confidence and it usually doesn't work.....
      P. S. I'm thai btw

    • @eddiew2325
      @eddiew2325 Před 4 lety +5

      Javan that’s easy for you to say white boy

  • @hadthisaccforyearssorryfor6274

    “Skin tone isn’t about skin tone it’s about class.”
    In a lot of Asian countries the idea is that pale skin is associated with wealth, while darker skin is associated with a poor lifestyle

    • @learningtime8544
      @learningtime8544 Před 3 lety +96

      That is the result of brainwashing.

    • @Maya-xx5jc
      @Maya-xx5jc Před 3 lety +6

      @Konan agreed...

    • @elainad6728
      @elainad6728 Před 3 lety +20

      Yeah they do. Usually pale white skin means wealth to some of them

    • @mintaellectual1149
      @mintaellectual1149 Před 3 lety +36

      @@learningtime8544 yeah , brainwashing that was brought by colonization

    • @rear5118
      @rear5118 Před 3 lety +125

      @@mintaellectual1149 This has nothing to do with colonization. Maybe instead of blaming Europeans for everything you should rather educate yourself. Lighter skin is desired in Asia because it has always been a sign of wealth. People who were poor had to work outside on the fields and had the sun shine on them their whole life which made their akin darker. People of higher status could stay inside more which led to their skin staying paler

  • @Pqj613
    @Pqj613 Před rokem

    That's great 👍 I m happy for them, cuz they know what is the real power.

  • @jenlisane
    @jenlisane Před 6 měsíci +1

    thony is doing good work!

  • @julicbo
    @julicbo Před 5 lety +690

    The work Tony is doing made me cry. Such a great human being

  • @ellainecabiles
    @ellainecabiles Před 5 lety +833

    From a filipino girl who has been bullied for having darker skin when i was younger, i want to thank Tony for all his hard work. He is fighting a fight that most people don't recognize is important, that is underappreciated. He is potentially saving thousands of girls and thousands of future offsprings from birth defects that come from exposure to these chemicals. Thank you, Tony.
    Edit: does he have an email where we can forward our thanks directly?

    • @nefarious69poopi
      @nefarious69poopi Před 5 lety +29

      Exactly. It's strange, because our pale asses also want to turn orange with fake tan.

    • @trba_biko
      @trba_biko Před 5 lety +2

      Yes, ate! Plus the skin is as much as an organ as the pancreas, the heart, the kidneys. He's exposing the products and industry for the health crisis that it is.

    • @anie7814
      @anie7814 Před 5 lety +2

      That’s so strange to hear that you were bullied for having tan skin. I experienced the exact opposite from my Filipino family, lol. I was ostracized by my cousins for being so pale that they still call me Casper to this day. Just goes to show regardless of what skin shade you are someone will always find a a way to criticize, lol.

    • @WDFTV
      @WDFTV Před 5 lety +1

      @@nefarious69poopi yes but you can wash off any fake tan to get the benefit of being light skin

    • @nefarious69poopi
      @nefarious69poopi Před 5 lety +2

      @@WDFTV I don't see being pale as a benefit, but I guess cultures really do differ.

  • @galacticcat4584
    @galacticcat4584 Před rokem

    I'm so glad that beauty standart is mostly subjective where I live

  • @davidcelestino5
    @davidcelestino5 Před rokem +38

    Im filipino and I would say im a little dark but I never got discriminated for the color of my skin or at least I've never noticed

  • @1zeldarulez
    @1zeldarulez Před 5 lety +2495

    it makes me so sad how they think having dark skin isnt beautiful:(

    • @JaneticsInk
      @JaneticsInk Před 5 lety +104

      1zeldarulez dark skin means you work in fields and lower on the socioeconomic scale.

    • @kanondillard1379
      @kanondillard1379 Před 5 lety +31

      Same and theres people out there that loves dark skin people and there ashamed of it

    • @sheena333
      @sheena333 Před 5 lety +6

      sarai silva that was rude. they were only saying what dark skin is seen as in asia. it’s sad and wrong though

    • @devinpeirce7152
      @devinpeirce7152 Před 5 lety +14

      1zeldarulez well it's not as beautiful as light skin

    • @kanondillard1379
      @kanondillard1379 Před 5 lety +80

      @@devinpeirce7152 thats why they are bleaching there skin cause of What you just said😡😡 re-read your comment

  • @mithrapandian169
    @mithrapandian169 Před 3 lety +2301

    I love my dark skin. I love my melanin poppin' 🙋🏿‍♀️

  • @onnilcardenas2124
    @onnilcardenas2124 Před rokem

    Now you know and understand what agresive to get white skin to achieve..no talking what expensive is that... SHADY...some kind to attitude in pilipino... mabuhay SHADY...🤗❤️

  • @brukujinbrokujin7802
    @brukujinbrokujin7802 Před rokem

    All skin tone are beautiful. Its better to practice manner, behavior, elegance, cloth choices, Hairstyle, or even simple thing like how you smile or talk. There is so much thing you can do to become more beautiful.

  • @samantagarduno-santana6607
    @samantagarduno-santana6607 Před 5 lety +1630

    I loved getting Educated by stuff around the world mostly in beauty it fascinates me

  • @findingnemo36
    @findingnemo36 Před 5 lety +1453

    Dark skin and light skin are beautiful. We still bleed the same color.

    • @aprilprado5800
      @aprilprado5800 Před 5 lety +9

      ABSOLUTELY AND ASSISTING IN THE REMOVAL OF SKIN CANCER, BELIEVE ME THE SUN DOES NOT DISCRIMINATE!!! Got SUNSCREEN?!?

    • @mikaelrinnstrom4329
      @mikaelrinnstrom4329 Před 5 lety +59

      we poop the same too

    • @SuperVendetta9
      @SuperVendetta9 Před 5 lety +20

      But we aren't treated the same or viewed the same. This video acknowledges this.

    • @burrito5673
      @burrito5673 Před 4 lety +5

      @@mikaelrinnstrom4329 yes. yes. we all poop the same. uhuh. (flashbacks to when my poop was green) yup.

    • @munginosal2135
      @munginosal2135 Před 4 lety +1

      Well, we actually bleed different shades of red but I get what you mean.

  • @amandasnider2644
    @amandasnider2644 Před rokem +1

    From what I understand (I can't recall where exactly I learned about this), the association with beauty and wealth with lighter skin was simply because the royalty and ultra rich rarely were outside and exposed to the sun compared to commoners who work in the fields and are darkened by sun exposure

  • @MrBilld75
    @MrBilld75 Před 2 měsíci

    I like Dr. Belo, at least she's safe and she seems very down to earth and honest.

  • @tweetyooo2856
    @tweetyooo2856 Před 5 lety +2223

    The doctor at the beginning says she "treats" dark skin, like it's a disease or something 🙄

    • @This_tub
      @This_tub Před 4 lety +11

      It is a diesease, dark skin is grossed

    • @Zara-vr3td
      @Zara-vr3td Před 4 lety +170

      Dude stfu you are racist dumbass

    • @konannicole
      @konannicole Před 4 lety +184

      @@This_tub its not, dark skin and pale skin are both beautiful, do not live only in your little world, humans are all diferent, seriously, grow up

    • @memelord9965
      @memelord9965 Před 4 lety +126

      @@This_tub Its not a disease, its a chemical found in our skin that protects against UV light, thats why in african countries people tend to have darker skin in order to resist the intensity of the sunlight over there, compared to Scandinavian countries where the sun intensity is greatly reduced resulting in people with less melanin which is why they are lighter skin

    • @grimchee3892
      @grimchee3892 Před 4 lety +71

      @Trump supporter
      If anything you’re the disease
      That’s right it’s spelled *disease*
      So yeah we can see you are uneducated
      *makes sense*

  • @user-vd7vw5xo1s
    @user-vd7vw5xo1s Před 5 lety +2183

    Its crazy because I would consider half the people they showed "light skinned"...

    • @ashleyphilip194
      @ashleyphilip194 Před 5 lety +7

      She didn’t put very many who lighten their skin

    • @shreya446
      @shreya446 Před 5 lety +10

      exactly -_-

    • @GenevaCat
      @GenevaCat Před 5 lety +51

      Well, the lighter your skin is, the further you get. So the lightest ones get the high paying jobs.

    • @medusawitchful
      @medusawitchful Před 5 lety +15

      here we prefer pale skin..it isnt just LIGHT skin

    • @ncooleym
      @ncooleym Před 5 lety +1

      my thoughts exactly

  • @lafemmesue7273
    @lafemmesue7273 Před rokem +1

    In Australia if you have a special event coming up it’s usual to have a spray tan so you can look browner (healthier) & more attractive- our Sun is often too harsh to get a real tan so we opt for sprays

  • @Dapper_Dean
    @Dapper_Dean Před rokem +1

    It's sad that discrimination is tied to the industry. The industry plays to the illusion with ads. And the poor who can't afford the treatments,
    are fighting for the crumbs. But I believe times are slowly changing. Especially with the influence of darker international celebrities.

  • @vidyabk1083
    @vidyabk1083 Před 5 lety +1882

    I don't understand why these doctors do so much of botox... she can't even smile... and her eye muscle are not even stretching... why do this to yourself 🤦‍♀️

    • @user-ly4wt9xp4i
      @user-ly4wt9xp4i Před 5 lety +180

      Insecurities... plastic surgery is addicting and you’ll never be satisfied.

    • @nightdiv
      @nightdiv Před 5 lety +164

      she def looked botched..was surprised to see that, usually people that are medical professionals don't look this bad tbh

    • @missmariahlove3512
      @missmariahlove3512 Před 5 lety +75

      Because that doctor that you guys are talking about is already 64 years old. She didnt get them when she was younger. Check other celebrities at her age who get botox regularly then do a comparison.

    • @missmariahlove3512
      @missmariahlove3512 Před 5 lety +7

      Because that doctor that you guys are talking about is already 64 years old. She didnt get them when she was younger. Check other celebrities at her age who get botox regularly then do a comparison.

    • @nightdiv
      @nightdiv Před 5 lety +41

      @@missmariahlove3512 she would have been a lot more beautiful if she didn't do any botox at all..it just looks wrong, doesn't matter the age :(

  • @DA-ug6ox
    @DA-ug6ox Před 5 lety +3257

    The doctor looks really scary. Her skin seems to be damaged and she looks super unnatural
    Update: skin bleaching just ruins the way ppl look lmaooo. We need melanin in our life

    • @Help22222
      @Help22222 Před 5 lety +131

      D Ari she’s just old

    • @sapphirefire291
      @sapphirefire291 Před 5 lety +336

      D Ari she just looks like she got bad plastic surgery

    • @atsuki18
      @atsuki18 Před 5 lety +128

      Cant deny tho that she's a really great doctor and her skills are impeccable

    • @charmori540
      @charmori540 Před 5 lety +202

      Her name is Dr.Vicky Belo.Shes 63 years old.Shes a good doctor & well known in the Philippines.Shes married to a 39 year old guy also a doctor.They have a daughter together. She was born out of surrogacy.If Im not mistaken shes 4 or 5 years old now.I think its too much surgery or fillers but I think She looks beautiful for her age to think Shes 63 years old.

    • @Madamefirstlady
      @Madamefirstlady Před 5 lety +77

      Shes the best doctor here in the country.... and the most expensive

  • @CrazyGaming-ig6qq
    @CrazyGaming-ig6qq Před rokem

    I have never heard of that before, that's insane and awful some people are compelled to do this to secure their future. On the other hand if you were actually already in a sound economic position there's absolutely no need to bleach your skin. It's so incredibly stupid, and these priorities are so twisted beyond meaning.

  • @jacobjochem
    @jacobjochem Před 2 měsíci

    Wow I feel so blessed to be happy with the skin God gave me.

  • @kyliek.9481
    @kyliek.9481 Před 5 lety +397

    I like how Lexy is not degrading these people with comments by expressing how she thinks it’s not right (skin whitening) but gets their point of view as well

  • @mercymveree3971
    @mercymveree3971 Před 3 lety +1371

    I dont mind being dark l just want clear skin with no acne ,

    • @ryfojuan7114
      @ryfojuan7114 Před 3 lety +58

      clear healthy bright skin plus no hyperpigmentation thats a must i think

    • @afreenfiroz8610
      @afreenfiroz8610 Před 3 lety +9

      I feel you

    • @adriena.samuels9726
      @adriena.samuels9726 Před 3 lety +13

      Yes nowadays. Deep color people are embracing the. Word. Dark. But. Deep. Folks have always liked how deep they look in color. They are more supeior more stronger more succesful. And could go all over the world and survive. So ur super smart and you must be young. Cause. U no ur power

    • @WhitneyDahlin
      @WhitneyDahlin Před 3 lety +9

      Just wanted to jump on this comment and mention how are 9:00 white people are so arrogant and stuck up sometimes. The world doesn't revolve around us. Lighter skin has been historically prized for at least 1,000 years in the Philippines. Light skin was prized because it meant your family was wealthy enough you didn't have to work outside. It was a sign of status that could instantly been seen by everyone. It doesn't have anything to do with the different people that ruled the philippines 600 years after that became the sought after stabdard. Literally the girl said that right before the narrator launch into her crazy tirade. She literally said how they don't want to look like a white person they just want their skin to be lighter because historically that's associated with wealth and privilege. And then refinery immediately ignored what she said and pasted their own narrative into it. They should really be ashamed of themselves they totally invalidated everything she just said and ignored her explaining her own culture in favor of them pasting their own narrative into a culture they aren't a part of and know nothing about.

    • @ryfojuan7114
      @ryfojuan7114 Před 3 lety +6

      @@WhitneyDahlin chill

  • @pandalover3556
    @pandalover3556 Před rokem +1

    Thomy is a hero actually. He’s doing a wonderful job, trying to ban a harmful chemical being consumed by people who are so vain. Having a dark tanned skin is the envy of white skinned people.
    I live in the USA but I was born in the Philippines, from the northern region. I have a fairly light skin (not white) but apparently, there’s a common perception that I should have darker skin because I come from that region.

  • @daniellejoens6920
    @daniellejoens6920 Před rokem +11

    It's so sad that people can't love themselves

    • @laurenwetzel6090
      @laurenwetzel6090 Před rokem +6

      Missing the point completely. “Skin tone isn’t just about skin, it’s about class”. This has nothing to do with loving yourself and everything to do with unrealistic and unachievable societal beauty expectations.

    • @allmovies1791
      @allmovies1791 Před rokem

      @@laurenwetzel6090 thank you, I like your point, I once had vitiligo last year but i came across Dr Iyhere on CZcams which i used his herbal medication and it cured me completely from white patches

  • @siennaxoxo329
    @siennaxoxo329 Před 4 lety +1441

    I'm upset the lady lightened her childs skin how sad just because u dis like your skin color don't mean u have to do that to your son ! You should teach him to love himself ....sad

    • @YessicaGypsy89
      @YessicaGypsy89 Před 4 lety +26

      Yes tht pissed me off too

    • @sinaholscher3431
      @sinaholscher3431 Před 4 lety +3

      Exactly

    • @p.r.9982
      @p.r.9982 Před 4 lety +27

      She can't teach what she hasn't mastered. It's sad.

    • @jigsM117
      @jigsM117 Před 4 lety +15

      She didnt lightened her son's skin... His skin was affected because of skin contact

    • @427skies
      @427skies Před 4 lety +3

      @@anttwo Not impossible. My niece was born with jet black straight hair. The hair curled and turned lighter brown. She is not mixed. I also knew a girl who was English and she was born with Black hair and it fell out and turned blonde.

  • @onlyonemitch5049
    @onlyonemitch5049 Před 4 lety +1929

    I'm dark skinned and honestly, i just want a flat stomach lololol

    • @orls9068
      @orls9068 Před 4 lety +51

      🤣 Me too

    • @yayaheyhey3746
      @yayaheyhey3746 Před 4 lety +15

      Sameee

    • @janetc4859
      @janetc4859 Před 4 lety +15

      Same cuz I’m bloated sometimes

    • @roxanneg4284
      @roxanneg4284 Před 4 lety +17

      Drink lots of water

    • @kioaen150
      @kioaen150 Před 4 lety +31

      I'm tall like really tall but really skinny, if you looked at me from far away you'd think I was a stick standing in grass.

  • @alfredconqueror4422
    @alfredconqueror4422 Před rokem +1

    Tbh I would do it too. The social advantages are clear whether we like it or not

  • @DixonDixon65
    @DixonDixon65 Před rokem +3

    SICK WORLD WE LIVE IN..SAD! SELF- HATES RUN DEEP!