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6 Signs Someone is Not Into You (But Aren't Telling You)
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- čas přidán 19. 08. 2024
- Are you having trouble in the romance department? Maybe you’re really into someone but can’t tell if they’re into you. One minute it’s a yes with them, the next a “nah”. So, do they like you or not? Well, here are a few signs they’re not into you and aren’t telling you.
What about the signs someone IS interested in you, but they aren't telling you? Well, we've got that covered as well: • 6 Signs a Person Likes...
Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Fluffy Starlaxy
CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Taylor, K. (2020, June 19). 7 signs they're not that into you. Medium. Retrieved November 5, 2021, from psiloveyou.xyz/7-signs-theyre-not-that-into-you-89086cc37a31.
Brown, L. (2021, September 14). 14 signs he's lost feelings for you & he's not that into you anymore. Hack Spirit. Retrieved from hackspirit.com/signs-a-guy-isnt-interested-anymore/.
Kim, J. (2011). 6 signs that someone just isn't into you. Psychology Today. Retrieved from www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/valley-girl-brain/201109/6-signs-someone-just-isnt-you.
LoDolce, A. (2017, May 19). 15 signs he's just not into you (move on alert!). HuffPost. Retrieved from www.huffpost.com/entry/15-signs-hes-just-not-into-you-move-on-alert_b_591e6f5fe4b07617ae4cbae6.
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The best tip I have been given, date people who show a high interest in you, those people will make the dating process effortless. Do not try to convince someone into liking you, you could be using that time with someone who truly values you for who you are.
Facts
I should try that ;-;
"Only date people that show a high interest in you" Yeah but, what if you don't have anyone that shows a high interest in you?
@@VerisimilitudeFilms1 Raise your value by investing in yourself mental and physical level and put yourself out there, the more people you know the faster you will find those people that show high interest.
@@VerisimilitudeFilms1 then try to find people. I mean you could meet a friend let’s say next year and there your partner for life. Who knows though. I’d say try dating apps and see where that goes. Sometimes you gotta be patient and wait for that right moment
"I'm not ready for a relationship" 90% of the time just means "I don't want a relationship with YOU"
I've heard this a lot only to see them in a relationship with someone else a few weeks later. Can people just stop lying?
@@kezbane it's called a soft rejection it doesn't mean they're lying it just means you were not the one
Nah I really mean that. I need to work out my problems because they keep sabotaging my relationships (not only boyfriends, friends also)
@@PrincessOfSpace42 same, I also feel like I'm too young and not emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship
I don’t know, I really thought I wasn’t ready for a relationship when I started going out with my current s/o but I think I was just brainwashed by my family into thinking I was defective... Turns out I was actually ready for a pretty long time I just didn’t meet the right person before. It’s worth waiting for the right person ❤️
He took the initial rejection well which may have been my subconscious way of testing the waters because in the past I’ve had a lot of guys flip out when I reject them nicely... and I’m still doing the personal work and healing while I’m this relationship. For some reason I thought I couldn’t do both at the same time so it’s worth taking a look at 👀
The scariest relationships are with people who don’t want to let you go but aren’t really into you so every time you try to leave they fight for you and tell you you’re bugging when you point out their one sidedness in the relationship manipulating your love for them. They see how much you care and don’t want that to go. I’ve learned that there are people out there that like to KEEP people and you have to really watch out for them. Do you want to be kept or do you want to be LOVED?
Going through this myself right now. Frustrating.
It happens a lot. This sort of bond only benefits them.
It just happened to me as well. I asked to be away for a while because I was in love and this girl just wanted my friendship, but she really wanted. But is hurtful to be a friend only of the person you want and see her dating / wanting another guys. It took several weeks to make reality sink in her head, that I can't be her friend now, I need to fall out of love.
I never saw it that way, I really needed to hear this :)
i’m about to cry damn
Great !!
As someone who everyone ignores, I felt this because I deal with this on a daily. But just don't think about them because there's someone who thinks you deserve the world
Honestly I agree I ignore a lot of people and if I put effort in making friends I have no luck cause they don’t even put effort in it 😑
My cousins aré this way they ignore me all the Time i even fell in depression because of them
@@idiot_11 I don't make effort anymore because I always end up with fake friends
@@elizabethmarielunacordoba9956 oof I don’t even have a proper relationship ship with my cousins
@@keiron.4612 Same
1. they aren't engaged in your conversation 0:19
2. they don't communicate or text consistenly 0:57
3. you're the one always making plans 1:29
4. your relationship with them is one-sided 1:56
5. they're just hearing what you have to say, but not really listening 2:34
6. they told you they aren't ready for a relationship 3:05
I hope I could help!
tome reavele
time travler
Time traveler haha
You’re amazing thank you 💜
Thx :)
Man, I needed this. This happened to me back to back. I feel so disrespected after all the effort I put in but at least I know they don’t see me as worth their time now.😔
Update: Turns out the first person is bad at texting and was actually interested in spending alone time with me. Now we’re planning on hanging out and even going to a movie together!🙂
Double update: asked them out and they said no. At least it’s over though! No regrets😌
Third times a charm :)
I can relate because my relationship ended last week 😓
@@Psych2go I feel you though there is more to life then just relationships we all gotta focus on ourselves then we will find our perfect match in a relationship
@@Psych2go all these things you mentioned is so true life Is too short to worry about those who don't care about you.
Not necessarily. Maybe they just don’t feel ready or are not allowed to start a relationship. This doesn’t mean they don’t value you or see you as a friend, although the way this video portrays it seems to be talking about a more toxic version
I was starting to worry my friends weren’t putting in the effort to schedule things with me, so I decided to make a point not to always be the one to initiate. It's been 3 years and I don't have any friends anymore.
The hell with them. They weren’t your real friends to begin with. I’ve never in my life had any friends cause real friends don’t exist.
I'm sorry you went through that, I know how it feels as with my old friends I was always the person initiating plans, but you deserve better than them! I hope you can find some friends who wanna do things with you, im still looking for those friends too. We all deserve them :)
Yep
They dont deserve you
Time for some new friends!
Reasons to stay alive
I like your profile picture 😌
These all sound great and are definitely reasons to appreciate being alive for! But watching people fall?😂 wdym?? lol
Thank you for this comment!
@@kalinaaleksandrova8537 watching people fall can be amusing, depending on the person😂
Thank you for this!
7. You ask them out in person and they say yes but then ghost/block you. No apology, no explanation, no closure, no nothing. And then your mind is left in the abyss to wonder why and you start thinking you did something to piss them off.
Edit: And its not a nervous or uncomfortable yes. It's a confident one, like they really want too go
And you also ask them in a way that doesn't imply sex. You're not interested in their body. You genuinely like them and want to get to know them. You ask them out to the movies, or going out for coffee or lunch or something in the public.
How about being asked out only to be ghosted and were in our mid 30s. Some never mature.
That’s really messed up I’m sorry that happened to you.
I really feel you. Happened to me some weeks ago. I ask her out confidently says yes, then says she has things to do and ghosts me, asked her if everything was ok and says yes, then ghosts me again. It hurts because everyone deserves to be telled the truth or an answer.
@@zavot ikr...like seriously just say no thanks if you don't want to or do it over the phone if your unable to do it in person. Better and more respectful.
Needlessly to say this really shattered my self esteem and made me not want to talk to anyone and just be alone.
Thanks for making these ❤️
You’re welcome!
Wow
Thanks for watching these. Are there other topics you would like to see instead?
@sister x👙 get a life
@@sheepyleepy..2806 that's some kind of ad its probably a bot.
Thanks Dat Boi *TIMESTAMPS HERE* comment so they stay up!
1. They aren't engaged in your conversation 0:19
2. They don't communicate or text consistenly 0:57
3. You're the one always making plans 1:29
4. Your relationship with them is one-sided 1:56
5. They're just hearing what you have to say, but not really listening 2:34
6. They told you they aren't ready for a relationship 3:05
Thank you but it’s kind of spoils it no offense
Thanks for the timesaver.
Also... #6 seems self-explanitory.
Funnily enough.
@@avalynnplaysofficial7773 1... 2.. 3.... tuuuutuuruuruuuu tuuuutuuuu
Could u stop stealing/copying these posts from Dat Boi?
Yeet! (U said comment so that’s what I’m doing )
I absolutely agree. I’m not in the dating business myself but if I ever wanted to be I wouldn’t try to get someone to like me. I think nobody should do that, if they don’t like you back then there is always a chance of meeting somebody that does and will give you so much love and affection then the other person never did. Love is difficult to control sometimes but you gotta be patient with it. Love takes time and has steps to it.
I don't want to nitpick but that last one kinda breaks the whole (but aren't telling you) rule if they literally tell you "im not ready for a relationship" lol
@@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse well technically it doesn’t. Sorry it seemed that way but I was actually trying to talk separately from the toxic about someone not being ready and actually started to talk about what love really was when trying to find someone. I also meant the steps as in it takes awhile to find someone wanting to be with you and ready to take that extra step in love
@@Br00ke291 nothing to be sorry about, I piggy backed your comment it wasn't a comment about yours, but the video itself. I feel if I just left a regular comment it would quickly disappear among the rest.
It's good to look for someone who accepts you for who you are, but don't forget that when someone loves you, they will encourage you to be the person they know you're capable of being, not necessarily the one you are presently.
Remember the lion king? He runs off to live a life of no responsibility, and remains a child, only until a love interest comes into the scene does he have the ability to see that he can be more. Forgive the corniness, but the literal song goes, "Why won't he be the king I know he is, the king I see inside." That's when you know its love, not when they're complacently allowing you freedom to do whatever you want (cause that's not a relationship, that's a mom/maid)
So yes, find acceptance, but find someone with a capacity to grow and make you want to grow as well. someone slightly different. If they're too similar, it'll get boring, if they're too different you'll constantly fight.
@@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse I absolutely agree. And somebody shouldn’t waste there time forcing someone to notice them or love them when it’s most likely it wouldn’t ever work out. Love isn’t something you’ll find easily. I mean it will very likely take a few attempts to find someone worth being with.
I’m sorry you misunderstood my comment. I definitely should’ve worded it better, and mention I was changing the subject to better fit my comment. Also sorry for saying sorry like 20 times. A force of habit
@@Br00ke291 the problem with that is figuring out how "most likely" a situation actually is. The stronger we pursue something, traditionally, the likelier we obtain it, but relationships are extremely complex, and humans are very capricious. There's a reason why masculien and feminine make up our entire world of myth. Mother Nature, the creator and destroyer of life. Father country, order/protection and a tyrant.
Being sorry a lot might have its disadvantages but it has its positive elements. Those qualities, to a degree, are often largely sought after for relationships, especially among men looking for females because they are indicators of compassionate care givers who would likely make loving mothers. Obviously within reason. If given a choice between overly assertive, or overly submissive, the majority of males will choose submissive. Depends who you are, what you want. Our values shape our perceptions.
I would struggle with such a person, I need someone to remind me if I'm being an asshole. It's never easy doing it yourself. Guess that's why it takes two people to have children and a community to support one another.
me trying to see if harry styles is secretly in love with me:
He defintiely is. He told us.
Yeah he told everyone, right guys?
@@theOnlyTrippinOne I didn't hear anything 🤷♂️
😩😂😂
@@aPeachWhoLovesYeshua 😁
The thing is it REALLY HURTS when they say "They're not looking for a relationship" but they leave out "with you" that bit of honesty would be so helpful with letting someone go, cept people are cowards who still enjoy getting special attention. -shrug-
you said it bud.
I agree with you. However, some people don't handle rejection well and don't respect boundaries. I've turned down guys only for them to try harder to get with me or respond maliciously.
Just be sure to take a step backward in order to give room for your romantic interest to step forward towards you. Maybe they need some space so they can start doing some of these things. Sometimes people don’t give enough space for that person to step towards them. Lean back so someone can lean forward. Lean back and observe. 🤓
I agree. I was talking to a girl and I needed space to process all the information. She gave me that space and, suddenly, a day I get surprised by myself when I realised that I was missing her.
What if you gave them space for a whole month and got nothing?
…Just Kidding. I know for a fact that the person I’m crushing on doesn’t feel the same way. So, all I need to do is move on with my life and do my own thing. Not only out of respect for my crush, but also myself.
@@brainiac.computer That's too mature. You'll find your way.
@Sodiq Kokolet be careful. Sounds like he got tired of the new and just wanted to go back to the old.
Great advice!
I’ve learned a lot. I’ve been in a relationship with this guy and he’s been like everything in this video. I haven’t even realized he didn’t like me until now. Thank you for your videos Psyh2go. Your videos make me realize more things about my friends and even me.
@Sodiq Kokolet I don't understand why exes would wanna come back to their ex,like they don't love us when we are in the relationship and then when the relationship broke they wanted to come back like,what!?
Romance ain't for anybody,is there conversation,check your phone,is their text,who makes plans,are they available,do they make an effort,do you call it quits,if they don't listen ,if they cared about you,they would say so,maybe there not ready💲💥🚦❌✔️
Thank you for this reflection :)
summary: they definitely don’t like me
It’s all good homie 👍 we all suffer defeats in our life, it’s about how we get up from them
@@theplugcharlie7483 yas ty king
@@jordan1928 find a new one and move on. I am doing the same 🙂
same :((
Who knows?
Man I’ve needed this. All signs point to this, but they’ve only ever told me that these things are because they are going through a hard time. How can you tell whether your partner’s actions are due to a depressive episode or that they just aren’t interested in you anymore? the lines to me seemed blurred at first, but now it’s starting to hit me. I just wish people could be more honest.
Similar situation here. They tell me their bad anxiety makes things worse. But I'm unsure now if anxiety is the only thing.
yeah same thing for me…
Only time will tell you need to take care of yourself still have fun at the same time be there for them…. don’t take it personally your are not the cause and can not fix them but if it continues and they don’t try to help themselves it might be time to call it quits. It’s not easy what are your thoughts 💭
@@johnvangeli2379 it's hard to let go of someone when all you want is them
Nis Sen, in life you learn that most people are not honest, so you have to learn how to read people and learn Discernment. This is a gift from God, that we all have as humans. But most of the time we choose to ignore. That is when we get hurt. Listen to that still small voice within.
Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️
out there in the cold
ik
Thanks. ❤️ have a nice day too.
Thanks!😄 I really appreciate this
Thanks Nat!
Thank you for this. I always felt I was the only one with the feelings 😪 . I will move on and enjoy life and yes pasta is yummy
No worries! Glad it could provide some answers. I'm sure someone out there enjoys pasta as much as you!
Love how she gets distracted with pasta, relatable XD
Yeah it was cute.
i know right lol
Oops!
This goes for friendships and family too. My own sister does all of these to me (except for the not ready for a relationship part). We don’t have a good relationship with one another.
I have it also with my siblings, things gonna get better as we will grow up (:
Absolutely. I thought I had a little group of friends until it finally clicked that they were always hanging out with each other and they never invited me.
My life story, I was always the one intrested more. Rather if it was platonic or romantically.
Most of this resonated
People will show appreciation for your effort! But there are people out there willing to put in the effort for you too!
My first GF pretty much rarely engaged in convos.
I noticed that when I stopped giving fuel to it and the chat pretty much died.
But what was far worse was the time spend together... or rather, planned to spend together but there had to be just some friend come up around the corner and any and all plans the two of us made were thrown out of the window without even having told me.
She always apologized and promised to make up for it, coming to me about spending time together and doing stuff but that rarely ever happened.
I realised all of this a few days ago, so it feels good now to be out of this, living happily again : )
Right there’s someone for you who will appreciate you
how’d you do this? i’m struggling so bad😭😭
@@canttellyouprivacyyk i can understand, its normal. I started to spend more time with my friends and started to enjoy things. Just change your perspective of viewing things. It will be a struggle till a bit of time, but then you unknowingly just keep on enjoying yourself. Just try spending more time with your friends and family, it might help you : )
I’m going to send this video to my partner cos he does all of this
Yay!
Honestly, needed these comments.
Im taking a break from a close friend, that i happened to fall for, it was starting to deteoriate my mental health from always chasing them, so.
I decided what's best for me, and just decided to take a break.
I spend too much time on them, that i could use for someone else.
you have to do right by you. You are doing the right thing
Yes!! So glad you are all supportive of each other
me and boyfriend....
1- he is always watching videos on yt or playing games but i want to talk
2- He barely texts (usually i text first)
3- he just tells me to call whenever but he did tell me he liked me first
4- honestly we barely even "talk talk" anymore so i cant tell
5- whenever i talk about something that could be a long conversation he cuts it short
6- we're in a relationship, he says he want a long-term relationship
2:00 “Artist doesn’t ship DNF they just think it’s Hilarious”
I just realised i give off extreme unavailable vibes, probably cuz i get emotionally exhausted easily and just can't initiate convos/interactions a lot of the time :^
But the fact that you're expressing this here shows that you somewhat still have the emotional capacity to handle such conversations.
Same.
Dang I needed to hear this... maybe it was all in my head. I thought they liked me but some of those points seem to point at the situation I'm in
Remember that people are different. These videos are not everyone to 100% true. Sure it is mostly but it could be that it’s just the behaviour of the person you know.
You will know when it is for you in the meantime don't let the issue be rent free in your mind. Life is too short :)
Someone’s hungry for pasta.
6th point is the worst, especially if none of the first 5 points applied to you. Trust me, I've been there. After they've said they're not ready, you just stay in this confused state, wondering why they aren't ready despite of giving off all positive signs.
To anyone who's going through the same situation, i feel you bro (or sis) ❤️.
I'm in this scenario at the moment. They show literally every sign in all the crush videos but then they said that they don't have time for a relationship right now. They continously hinted at being single too and I thought that was them trying to hint at being available 😭
when they say they're comfortable around us and all but just to end up like this, yes it hurt a lot
and for some of y'all anxious ppl make sure to ask them about it if you're worried! sometimes its due to something going on in their life and they don't even notice they seem uninterested
update he was uninterested
I’ve been fighting getting over my unrequited feelings for my guy best friend who hasn’t even been treating me as a friend for the past year. I know this. This video just more bluntly points it out to me that I’m done being treated like an acquaintance but called a best friend. I’m done with his shenanigans. It’s time to move on. Thank you Psych2go, this helped me a lot. 💖
I love the inflection and delivery on this one. Even if it was totally scripted it felt so real like it mattered to her too not just the viewer listening to a dry bullet point fact list.
Thanks for making this😊
Wish you more success👍👍
1- They Are Not Engaged in Your Conversation 🌲0:20🌲
2- They Don't Communicate or Text Consistently 🌲0:58🌲
3- You're The One Always Making Plans 🌲1:30🌲
4- Your Relationship With Them is One-Sided 🌲1:57🌲
5- They're Just Hearing What You Have to Say, But Not Really Listening 🌲2:35🌲
6- They Told You, They Really Aren't Ready For a Relationship 🌲3:05🌲
Thanks for sharing
❤❤
TY!
Now, here’s my question. Say I’ve had these healthy conversations with the other person. Say they’ve still expressed interest in being friends, and you genuinely want to continue that relationship (as friends). You’ve given them space, you feel like you’re ready to sort things out… but they still exhibit all the signs in this video. Were they lying about wanting to be friends again? Do they need more space? Or are they just trying to be ‘friendly' while keeping me at arm's length?
Sometimes it's more about them and less about you, they might be figuring themselves out and need time for it.
Or that they do want your friendship but are scared of giving you any hopes that it can evolve into something further.
They probably don't want to let you go as you've said in the last sentence and want to find a way to maintain a healthy friendship where you're both aware of what the other is expecting and are comfortable with it.
I hope it helps ^~^
don't believe in words, believe in actions. Talking is really easy. I had healthy conversations with people that told me they weren't gonna hurt me again. And I believed in their words even though their actions were really clear.
Does anyone notice all the little dream Easter eggs especially at 0:22 where bad boy halo, george, and dream are there, and dream and George are on a date?!?
I love it when psych2go puts tons of references of things I‘m interested in into their videos (talking about the dnf, skephalo and wilbur with the mermaid)
Tommy was also there at 1:24 :)
Okay, so, my ex talked about her work anywhere from 15min-3h daily. She had a hard time separating work from home. She would even talk through shows or movies a few hours after work to talk about work stuff.
After 6 months of the same work issues and work stress conversations, she seemed unwilling to speak her mind to her co-workers and set boundaries. So she kept having the same issues over and over. After 6 months of the same stories and stresses, I asked her politely to please try to separate work from home and to try seeing a therapist about her issues. I suggested that because my advice might not be the best and she needs someone trained to listen to her, to help her sort out some issues she has. I played a few vids of nurses and doctors talking about how it can be bad for her performance and also damage relationships if she continues to take work home with her. I tried to enforce a 15 min, talk about work time every day. I tried to help her relax by baking goodies and having them ready and warm when she got home.....Yeah, pretty much a month of trying that, she broke up with me saying she didn't feel seen.
So yeah, that 6 straight months of me listening to her and comforting her, but she didn't feel seen. What's your take on that Psych2Go?
Real talk: Sounds like you dodged a bullet like Neo in The Matrix.
Sounds like she should have broken up with her job, and not you!
So...I guess I'll stay single and alone for the rest of my life...I mean,who would like me?
You? You could love yourself? :3
@@thomasviglione2362 but that's still me,which is singular
Me myself and I
@@thomasviglione2362 unless you’re aro ace most people just can’t survive off of self love, eventually that self love will go away if there’s no one there to love you
We love you!
The bits about pasta were super hilarious! 🤣
Skephalo and dnd in the background of they aren’t engaged in your conversation XDDD
I'm closing that book the same way I've open it, checking signs and talking to her ☺ I hope my next story gonna be the good ending one 😁
This is online dating in a nutshell just because you match doesn't mean smooth sailing i had dates go for a couple of months only to have it go downhill instantly phew this is more harder than a job interview
This is probably the "sign" from the universe lol. I literally got several videos about signs people are not into us. I think it's not limited in dating scene but socializing in general. I thought i've healed completely from my codependency but nope. I still have to work on this particular issue, to not be emotionally invested too soon when people talk to me. Because not all people who talks to me is interested in knowing me or even UNDERSTANDING me. Most people are just "curious" lol. I can't count how many times i got left on read, being responded once in a blue moon, being blocked, and one day i found all chats were deleted when i was going to reply. So far my relationship with human in general tastes bitter. It's really hard to find people at the same wavelength. At least i have my cat. 😅😸
Totally felt this! Especially the getting invested emotionally quickly part! Never again!
Well, I guess i can relate at some point... Wonderful person, stay who you are, because the higher your vibe, the less people vibe with you. Btw cats are better than humans, that's reality...
@@roset8098 ikr! 😔 idk if you're familiar with astrology but i have mars square neptune so i carry "delusional" energy lol but glad with the help of psychology i can dig deeper into my unconscious. my unhealed codependency issue was the reason why i was so quick to be emotionally invested. now not anymore!!!
@@weronikawajrak2761 happy to read your comment Weronika! i was thinking about that too! the more i raise my awareness and consciousness, the more people are fading away and idk why! i didn't make enemy but they just decided to not talking to me anymore.
edit : you're 💯 right. cats are better. i have some fur friends on the street! they love to see me.
The universe is looking out for you!
These tips and hints are really helping me especially to tell if my crush is interested in me. Thank you so much!
The last one… Its so hard to close that book but I am finally ready and looking forward to closing it for my well being.
Yep! A new year a new you.
@@Psych2go
“Author doesn’t ship DNF, they just think it’s hilarious” LMFAO
I always love hearing these ones with Amanda Silvera doing the voiceover. She has a soothing voice that's calming and pleasant as well as a good sense of humour. Keep it up, I've been learning more about myself though these videos and I love the different art styles :)
Yes we love Amanda!
they never really liked me once they started talking to that other person they've been head over heels for them and im the second option.
0:29 - dnf and skephalo
2:01 - cute dnf
2:30 - Wilbur and Sally!
Thank u for this video! It was really helpful
I loved all these references and I loved at 2:01 when it said “artist doesn’t ship dnf, they just think it’s hilarious” I had to pause the video just to laugh 😂
@@Emma_in_space LMAO yeah me too
Also at 1:19 there is Tommy on a chair in one of the photos
... I've been in a relationship for a long time and I've always found myself spacing out whenever my partner talks to me about what they liked. I've told them time and again that I'm just really sleepy and tired but I always feel guilty that I'm even like that in the first place. I have to remind myself that I shouldn't feel so guilty, cuz a lot of bad stuff has been happening and I just need to accept that if my partner can't be patient with me running everywhere and having no time for rest then I'll just have to remind them of it and go through an uncomfortable moment with them in order for there not to be a misunderstanding between us and continue the relationship.
@@leethestar6421 yaa
As someone who was once on the opposite side of this, you still need to make an effort to communicate with them and show them that the effort they're putting into this relationship matters. Partners should be patient with one another, certainly, but patience only goes so far when the other person is constantly withdrawn and removed from the situation. Of course, I don't know the exact details of your relationship, but if you have to tell your partner "time and time again" that you're just too sleepy/tired to engage with them on an emotional level... then I'd say there's some reevaluation that needs to be done here. If your personal problems ("bad stuff") are taking up your entire life, and you have no opportunity to rest, then that sounds like something YOU need to work on. Not to make you feel guilty, but everyone deserves someone who will be in the moment with them at least some of the time. I feel for your partner tbh, this sounds very uncomfortable for them.
Maybe their voice is soothing and makes you meditate 🧘♀️ when you hear it.
@@badweather4cast u r right
That's pretty selfish of you, if you ain't interested in his interests then dump him and let him find someone else whom will love him/her with all her heart. Stop stringing him around because he makes you feel loved.😤😤
Her voice is so relaxing
I just had this conversation with my bf. His hold up is past relationships and not wanting to put his heart out there. I had to straight up tell him “ I am done” not getting what I need from you. He looked dumbfounded. He really did not understand. Being in love with this man I explained. Found he really didn’t see what I was talking about so I explained it to him. Now he understands that I need a part of him no one else has. Guess what he started sharing himself with me immediately. Once I expressed my true true love to him he was more at ease. So don’t give up b4 talking to ur other. Might surprise you.
Dang, this hurts even more since today my crush straight up told me he liked someone else, even though I’m sure he knew I still liked him.
I’ve been feeling numb, queasy, and on the verge of crying all day. He’s still my friend, of course. I care about him too much to cut him from my life, and I idk if he thought I also fell out of love and moved his interests to someone else.
I’m so confused anymore and my brain is so muddled. So much to the point I might just force myself into my recluse state again and avoid any social interaction. It’s basically my coping mechanism when I’m damaged by someone I trust and love. :/
Sorry for my rant, I’m really out of it today :,)
P.S: Some of these signs, he did show, unfortunately :(
Edit: Fixed some very terrible sentence structure
There's gonna be another good person in your life. Let the pain flow within and without. Once done, you could start to love yourself first ^^ why not trying new things youve always wanted to do? ^^
don’t beat yourself up too much over it sometimes it’s not meant to be even when it feels like it should be
Man. This is the exact sign I needed thank you :)
😅legit gonna go make some pasta now....but I'm really glad i found this channel and this community when I did; my recent breakup has me in a bad place mentally and the cute animations and references and positive energy is starting to help me see the light of day somewhat again.
These scripts and VOs are more conversational based lately, instead of "point 1, 2, 3 etc." Really like this approach - keep at it!
My husband had a lot of these, eventually figured out that he was autistic. I learned that if I let him know that he needed to change his behavior or I would leave (it took a long time for him to realize that I wasn't just talking) and he started to behave better.
I think what mattered is that I told him that he wasn't meeting my needs and I let him know I would leave if things didn't change. We are doing better!
This really helped me break down what I was already thinking. Thank you!!
Thank you. I really needed this video
Glad this video can provide some answers.
The moment when you are watching the video to analyse about someone else but realise that you are the one who is not into them😶!!
The narrator made this so much easier to understand!
Let me count some refernces
0:25 Skephalo and DreamNotFound
1:14 Picture of Tommy
2:02 Dnf again
Thx for noticing!
@@Psych2go I love searching for references and details, especially if their references to things I love!
Dang, this can also apply to platonic friendships.
I'm just tired of always losing and never winning. I wish I stopped loving
"...Just kidding on the years part."
No, I've had multiple people do that to me more than once.
Don't even know why they bother to "stay in contact" if they're gonna pull that stuff.
LOVE THE VIDEO THO KEEP IT UP🙂🥰❤️
Thanks for the support!
I was dating a boy And I felt he is my soulmate ,I felt chemistry ,we Were talking about everything ,holding hands,kissing And then he started to act like this…really painful🥺
You did something that upset him
How I weed out the non interested ones from dating apps is if they do #2 and #3
If they bail on plans, just say 'reach out when you are ready to chat and we can organise something together' and leave it at that. They will show their true intentions. If they were really interested they will make an effort, if not then move on. Don't continue putting the effort into something the other person doesn't want to reciprocate.
He was into me but he lost feelings. But even then I think he never loved me. I was too in love with him to let him go. He broke up with me on new years and, since then I’ve been hurting a lot I know I should be glad after all he’s said and done to me.
I’m suddenly craving pasta after this video! 😂🤤 Great video as usual, thanks for the helpful advice.
Mine is number 5. Ever time I wanna talk to my ex about the drama he caused in 2018 (he blamed me just cuz he doesn't wanna lose his friends and boyfriend forever for lying to them), he just doesn't wanna talk about it and tries to change the subject. But, recently, I had one of my Twitter friends talk about it with him and he said that he wants to talk about it with me, but never said when he's gonna do that. My ex is also a really good liar, too 😓😓😓😓
Dunno if you'll see this, but i loved the script for this one guys! Especially the additional little tidbits(i.e. the pasta bits haha) added a bit of a zing and actually almost felt like Amanda was speaking directly to you! It didnt sound forced or overdone as well! Ms. Narrator did a good job of adding a bit of personality. Very nicely done💗
People, you know when it's not good. Compare when it's good vs not. You know damn well the contrast. You deserve better than even watching this video.
Thank you for explaining this to me.. This is what is happening to me now
Aye thanks i really needed this! I got a 3/6, and i asked my crush if she liked anyone on our fun date, but she said she wasn’t ready for a relationship because of her ex :/
Rip my guy, I’m not an expert but it probably means she doesn’t want to date you and is making it sound nicer. Or maybe she’s serious idk
@@theplugcharlie7483 I'm leaning towards it being serious.
@@roxassora2706 Yeah i think she’s serious because i was close friends with her ex and he was an a-hole who got pissed at her for the little things
2:12
😭😭 THE NOTE IN THE TOP RIGHT CORNER MAKES ME WANNA CRY
I just ended my talking stage with someone for 1 month whose 8hrs away from me just the day before Christmas Eve last week because I felt like I wasn't worth on his time. I apologized to him for making things hard & uneasy sometimes. But I chose my worth and same also to him. Sometimes I wondered if I wasn't being able too patient enough because he actually wanted to know me better but because of our timezones & the pandemic, we didn't hit the perfect timing getting to know closer together. We ended the relationship in a good way cause we know it's all for the best and we agreed to remain as friends.
Informative video. I went through this but with a friend that I had known for 7 years. I ended up getting close to her during the lockdown period March 2020. She started to ghost me and show signs of what was mentioned in the video. It was crazy because we were close friends. So I thought. I knew the friendship was one sided.
A lot of my friends did this too, but it wasn't anything personal just the pandemic destroying everyone's mental health 😔
@@didi85515 Yes I agree. However, I feel like the pandemic has brought out a side of people that you wouldn't normally see. People were behaving very differently I'd say. I feel like the pandemic is partly to blame, as well as her and myself.
It feels really bad doing all this to someone who obviously likes you, When you want them to know that you're not into them...Yet they keep trying
this hurts because i’m always on the receiving end of liking someone yet I keep trying
With all due respect why don't you just tell them youre not into them tho instead of stringing them along, as someone on the receiving end of that behaviour its a pretty crappy thing to do just because you don't have the balls to be honest about how you feel you push someone to the emotional brink of themselves until they finally can't take it anymore and walk out
@@kobiannan781 it is not that easy to reject people especially in real life it's not stringing them on if you can see the desperation or hope in their eyes and struggle to let them down. Especially when you know it'll hurt their feelings. And sometimes alot of people just can't take no for an answer. I feel it's hard for both parties also depending on who's asking you, like a close friend or a genuinely nice guy that you're just not into
@@luckisblacck yh it's hard for both parties but it's emotionally irresponsible and selfish to let the other person think that everything is fine and let it get to a point where they are really invested. I've been in both situations I've had someone who was interested in me and I didn't feel the same but a day after our date I cut things off with them, it was uncomfortable and sad but knowing how it feels having someone who you cared about and you trusted turn around and suddenly press the self destruct button on everything, I think it's an awful and inexcusable thing to do. All you're doing by not saying anything is just pulling the slingshot back and adding to the force when you eventually decide to let go and fire it. No matter what the other person dosnt deserve that and it was a result of you being too much of a coward to face up to your responsibility to be honest and careful with that persons emotions. I know it's a hard pill to swallow because noone wants to think that they are a bad person but making excuses for this sort of behaviour is never a good direction. At some point people need to acknowledge that what they're doing is wrong and damaging to others. I'm sure that you don't have the intent to hurt others in that way but you need to recognise that excusing yourself for it and taking the "I was just trying to be nice" stance to justify the pain you cause is a self sustaining and repeatable behaviour, I just don't want other people to go through what I've gone through and the only person who has the ability to stop it from becoming increasingly harmful is the person who knows they don't feel the same way.
@@kobiannan781 look man idk who hurt you but I don’t care.
Finally, now I understand why she put out those restraining orders on me
Ah I love your videos, they help me so much with my psychology studies and with my day to day life. Thank you 🙏🏻
Hello thank you for you insight regarding the mentioned above. Yup been dealing with it for the last two years, Too many conversations, and nothing changes. No more wasting time, she’s in complete denial and down plays my concerns. Not doing it anymore.
Can you maybe make some advices for distance relationships or something similar like this video? It would help a lot 🙏❤️ I really love your content ❤️
Sure! We can do something for LDR!
Yeah... that's also my case
@@Psych2go thank you so much! ❤
@@nanalyo3696 oh :(
This is my new favorite channel
I cant help but to notice the guy feeding a mermaid in 2:31 🤣🤣🤣
However, this is a good video and I really need to hear this cause I tend to ignore these signs and ended up getting broken 😭😭😭
My problem recently (past couple of months) was the person I was interested in showed me so much attention, yet I felt I wasn't good enough. I ended up costing myself the chance at something potentially special.
Love pasta! Your videos are warm each time.
Interesting and always helping
Thank you Psy2go team
Be aware of the facts that many have ADHD (like my self) and we struggle a lot with eye contact. Understandably people in general think we are not interested in having conversations, but we really are! I am embarrassed by this which causes anxiety, so i try harder to keep eye contact and a focus which in turn causes more anxiety. Not only am i embarrassed by this but when i fail (happens constantly) to stay focused i blame my self for it, which adds to the anxiety.
Oml, i saw a song Playlist saying "you can't have it all, right?" and got the notification 💀 that's a sign
Dsmp references
0:25 Dream on a date with George
0:25 Bad Boy Halo on a date with skeppy
2:00 George with his head on dream
2:28 Wilbur with Sally in the background (he probably just stopped eatting sand to talk to her/j)
I am so thankful for you Psych2Go!
Thankful for you too!
This is also applicable for one sided friendship. Except for the last sign!
I have this one friend, I always contact her first and making plans. Until the point i feel not appreciated enough, it feels like I'm the only one that want this friendship work. But no more, i'd rather waste my energy for anything else
THE DREAM AND THE GEROGE IN THE BACKROUND I NEVER THOUGHT MY FAVOURITE THINGS WOULD COMMECT YAYYYYY YES YES THIS IS THE BEST DAY
I feel like these videos might do a bit more harm than good if I ever manage to get out of my shell. I'll spend too much time trying to analyze the other person's behavior looking for stuff that's not there. Sabotaging relationships because of desiring something more.
I'm wondering why I'm watching this even when I already have someone lol
Should they see this comment lol?
@@Psych2go sure why not XD also hiiiii
@@PrismPupsickle yup ofc! And me too
Very helpful video.I love what you did with the pasta 😍
I love all the little refernces about dreamsmp 😊