10 Signs Someone Only Likes You as a Friend
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- čas přidán 10. 06. 2024
- Being friendzoned might feel like the end of the world, but here’s what you need to realize: how someone feels towards you is not a reflection of who you are. It doesn’t make you any less attractive, smart, talented, or kind. Instead of continuously chasing them, do yourself a favor and find someone who values you. It is possible, and you owe it to yourself to find true happiness, not validation. Here are 10 signs someone only likes you as a friend.
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0:36 most of your relationship is over text
1:07 the gaze - chest/hip if into, legs/feet if not into
1:32 they want to be your matchmaker
1:51 they come to you for relationship advice
2:13 they set boundaries - eg only want to see you at specific times
2:38 they never hint that they like you
2:57 they don't make you a priority
3:27 if they hang out with you, they prefer it to be as a group
3:51 they never make a move on you - never flirt etc
4:11 you already know but choose to ignore it - listen to your gut
Credit to Harry G for putting the timestamps. :)
Single gang, where u at? 😂
Pineapple Head I'm here !!
Here, brah. 😂
Here alone at my room ;-;
right here
Here
Me: I like you
My crush: I like you too
*wait that’s illegal*
Me: I like you
Her: I don't see you like that
*Much better*
“As a fRiEnd, EvEn a SiStEr”-Crush
“Okay, Yeah... Sure.”- Me
*actually, quantum physics forbid this*
Only happened in anime
@BitterSweet same!
If they like you, you'll know.
If they don't, you'll be confused.
Honestly the best piece of advice
Sort of but not 100% accurate. Past relationships also change how you view situations.
Erin Campbell true lol a guy will show me every sign of interest and I’m just like 🤔 “hm... that’s def not it”
@@marinacover8699 same here. I've had two really bad break ups and I'm only 20.
The first, I was 15 dated the guy for 3 months. When I ended things he threaten to kill himself, messaged me over every type of social media, getting new accounts when I blocked him. Getting his friends and family to contact me and also contacting my friends and family. His messages ranged from how I'm a b-word and easy to how he loves me and needs me. He is still trying to contact me 5 years later.
The second I was 16. I fell head over heels for the guy, we dated for a year and a half. By the end we started fighting a lot (all apparently my fault, for example: he said girls are gross when on their periods and I got upset. He told me I was too sensitive). One day he ignored me out of the blue for a few days and ended things by going "I don't love you anymore" then tried to kiss me a week later.
I finally pulled myself together from that heartbreak and met an amazing guy. He is always there for me, all the signs are there and everyone can see it but not my brain. I flip between the he loves me, he loves me not cycle.
Past experience change you
Erin Campbell I’m sorry you had such crappy experiences :( I know it’s natural to but try to be open to this new guy. There are some messed up manipulative dudes out there as you know but that means there’s the opposite as well. I’m trying to figure it out too but just try to be more open and friendly with him. Keep me updated. Idek what makes me retreat from guys but I met someone so “perfect” for me that it’s shocking and I pull away idk what to do
I love how everyone is here to suffer
Yo Lucifer my man wat chu doin here
Thanks, Satan
Jesus Christ is lord and savior
Amen bro, amen
Or to laugh as crazy as that sounds.
“Most conversations are over text”
Welp, everyone’s getting friendzoned now in quarantine lol
Can you just stop saying bullshit for a full day?
woah there...
i’m not lol i c them every week atleast twice
yea lol i see them 3 times a week they’re on my swim team 😂
Pretty much how I talk to my old friend once I had moved away 😂
If being 'friendzoned' is the end of the world to you, get a better world.
ok buddy
Unfortunately earth is still the only known planet which can support life, and even if we find one interstellar travel is still a feat that is impossible for mankind. So in short even though we want to find a better world present circumstances make us unable to do so.
I really hope people understand that this is just a sarcastic comment and not take it too seriously, have a good day.
@@markcastillo2622 i love this explanation
I hope you have a good day too, man. ♥
@@OhManAFatRabbit Glad to be a source of happiness :D
The gist:
1. Mostly only talk over text
2. "Wrong gaze"
3. Match Maker
4. Confiding to you about their relationship problems
5. They set boundaries
6. No hints of infatuation
7. They don't make you a priority
8. They prefer to hang out with you in groups
9. They don't make a move on you
10. Deep down you know but you still deny.
G I S T
In current times talking over text is the norm....but tbh I just feel like even before this quarantine shit people only felt like talking through text.
Addition to that if they are gay they probably don’t like you no matter how much they flirt with you and how funny they are and how much you talk about each other’s butts and how nice he is calling you his valentine but turns out he’s the second closed guy you had a crush on but you had this one for about a year and friend zoned a couple guys and your cousin who is friends with his brother thinks you like each other and won’t stop saying it but you can’t tell them because he’s not out YETtT
Well I can’t relate
11: They always call you a "good friend"
When none of them are true except for #10...
This should be renamed: "The hardest 10 pills to swallow about crushes and friendship."
That's all these videos
Yaz
Exactly right 💯👍💯👍
100% agreed. That video hurt.
@@thriftstorechicken3395. Amy wiillmas has a crush 😻 on. JoMurry 100% agreed 👍❤🌹
HOW T0 GET A FRIEND?
*-tell your crush that you like her/him and say do you like me too*
*-If she/he says no,were only friends*
*-BOOM YOU GOT A FRIEND*
...I once got, "No, we're enemies." It was an awkward time.
What if she remains silent?
@@muayyad4303 idk
I told her I liked her over text and she thought I was joking and with my friends when I said that... 😢 and I said it was not a joke and she just said. “Oh ok”
I feel bad for you guys some girls be cruel and then complain they never get confessions
*10 Signs Someone Only Likes you as a Friend:*
1. You defeat a villain with the Power of Friendship
Anime in a nutshell 😂😂
Because friendship is power- Cozy Glow, a villian😎
(My Little Pony theme plays)
I've seen people defeat vilians with the power of friendship from everyone around him and then proceeds to ask his crush out.
Hahahaha!!!
Me: *tells my crush I like her*
Her: *actually likes me back*
And 100 other hilarious jokes you can tell yourself
maximus milazzo me: tells crush I like her
Her: I like you too
Me: wakes up
r/woooooooooooosh
Alan Feril ummmm, I get the joke
My ⏰: HAHAHAHAHAHA
I died at this
"most of the relationship is over text"
me crushing on an online friend: welp, we're done here bois :')
I feel you.. and he already made the "friendzone" clearer..
Even if it’s an online friend, he’d want to call you and chat to you over Skype or something, if he was that interested in you.
that's me
@@xTwilightWolvesx not me I hate calls
I mean, maybe you can still meet up in real life some day right?
Me: I Like You
My Crush: I Like You To
Me: Impossible 🤔
That happened to me at the end of May
@@huelikduhimbecile1365 I discovered i have a straight best friend... but i needed 2 years to find out and accepted it... but it was a lot of work for me and him ^^
Ya got em
Is this an endgame meme?
i understood that reference
Crush: *Tries to kiss me*
Me: *VIrGin shIEld ACTIVATE*
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
100%
This is so me. My crush totally misunderstood why I didn't want her to touch my knee. My heart just couldn't take it.
can relate
Yes
U forgot it’s actually easier to look at a friend in the eye than a crush. If ur crush stares rightly u a good amount of time than they probably aren’t in love or they could be hella confident
Yea
But would a man that likes you look at you in the eyes on purpose to show you they like you or see your reaction?
For me it's way easier to look lengthily at a crush than at a friend. because to me looking into someone's eyes for a long time is my way of showing my special interests for them. I can't look at a friend for too long because I don't like them that way. But not a crush... I'll have to force myself to look away and not make it creepy. Also because my crushes have beautiful eyes it's pleasing to see anyway.
I can look at my friends’ eyes all day, but my crush’s?? Forget it, eye contact is too scary lol 😂
The ten signs:
1: most of ur relationship is over text
2: they look at u with wrong gaze (look at ur feet or legs)
3: wanna be ur matchmaker
4: go to u for relationship problems
5: they set boundaries
6: they never hint that they like u
7: they don’t make u a priority
8: they prefer to hang out with u in a group setting
9: they never make a move on u
10: deep down u know that they don’t
I fell on top of my crush, I didn’t realise it was him after like 30 seconds 😂
Um, h o w ?
You're living in anime.
i remember i almost fell on top of my ex crush lmao 😂 he's already ready to catch me but i didnt fall ssksksk 😂
Avacado, i dont know you. But, i ship it 😉😏
GACHA LOGIC ALERT XD
*#1 Relationship you can have - is with your own SELF*
Yes this is true
Left hand or right hand 😁😂
50/50...
I dOn'T cOnDonE sElFcEsT (This is a joke don't hurt me-)
@@milesinwyatteandcora LMFAO
11th sign : they use blue heart emojis when talking to u
I use green with my crush :((
Lol they do
Lmaoooooo
this hurt like a brick against my head....
What....a blue heart...
My friend shows 50% of the hints described inthe video but she uses a red heart instead of any other.......what does that mean..
Single bell
single bell
I confessed to my crush
Getting friendzoned all the way 😭
It’s all good
Me 🥲
Literally I say everyone to be friends with me not becuz I m friend zoning them just because I want to know them first but then I am the one who end up liking them and mostly they don't even friendzone me 🙄🙄😭😭😭 and then when someone actually likes me , I atleast friendzone them 😅
Army identified😂💜
@@nidhi8900 Reminds me of my "crush" she also kind of friendzoned me but also not really? It's rly confusing sometimes.
“People attracted to you stare at your chest and hip to waist area.”
Oh I just knew that the creepy guy in my neighborhood had a crush on me!
Sarah Goodman my crush is 6’2
Literally every girls I seen, I always check out the milk area and the peepee poopoo area. It's my instinct, don't hate.
When im attracted to someone i usually stare at their eyes
@@veloc.raptor9136 same
@@veloc.raptor9136 Is it normal to stare at eyes to assert dominance?
I have a girl that likes me
as a friend
*_The end._*
(Seinfeld theme plays)
Oof
I have a guy that likes me
As a friend
But idk
BECAUSE HE GIVES ME MIXED SIGNALS SOMETIMES, AND I JUST WANT TO *ACCKTOEOQODVOEOWJKDVKDOWJAGHDJFOW9Q9TBOFJWJDKVOFOWKSKJD* 😤
Did she have glasses?
@@duckyduckyducky209 UGH SAME
Lol
The moment you realised you’re worried about your crush sending you mixed signals that you weren’t aware that you have been sending mixed signals to them as well...
Who else is in the stage of “I’ll never find someone who is as perfect as they are” 😎
you will bro trust me
👀 Me-
I know this thread is a year old, but yeah. I've been in this stage for 4 1/2 years and counting. I hate loving her.
Me 😪
I don't know if he's perfect
*If your feelings/wishes/desires are not mutual - walk away and spare yourself a lot of heartache*
Thanks
i cnt walk away...we have to meet 2 times a day everyday....how can i ru away😳😳😳...only heartaches everyday😟
O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me ironic when you walk away, she comes back and wants you
No no, what if you feel fine as a friend and that someone you could help and Desire for their well being not necessarily something intimate.
Then I will hug you
"1, They only talk to you over text"
*That moment when it's an online friend*
Edit: I know it's quarantine now, I commented this before quarantine :D
SnowyDoggie
Y E P
YES
Exactly what I was thinking lol
Lol relatable
Yup
“They don’t show any sign of liking you”
Tsunderes: am I a joke to you?
Brown sus tho
@@maia_xx8757 true brown sus
Brown imp
@@scyther0194 nah fam
@@maia_xx8757 nah fam
I stare at my crushes feet when I'm talking to him because I'm too nervous to look up. MaYbE hE'S fEeLinG tHe sAme wAy💀💀
😂
Why do people say "its time to move on" as if it was a choice we could make
because ultimately it is a choice. Catching feelings isn't, but moving on is. You might find yourself slipping from time to time but you need to pull yourself up mentally if that makes any sense.
You can't be the only one to choose who will make your life happier. If the person doesn't like you, you can't force them to be your lover. It's not the only person in the world who can make you happy.
Vanessa Mamo right 😭
Moving on as in focusing attention on someone else that might be better for you, or just focusing on yourself and what you love.
Catching feelings most definitely is a choice. Get your head out of your own asshole and stop sniffing your bullshit.
"It's not going
To happen
Overnight
But eventually
Someone New
Will walk into
Your life and
You will forget
About them.."
I‘m still waiting...
Kinda needed to see this, reminders are helpful because sometimes I forget
NaturalDivineGoddess
“O
k
a
y
.”
Be Patient.. Good things come to those who wait 👊
The FORGET stage is the hardest of the growing pains.. like until *someone new walks in* you're stuck in a time zone?? Nevertheless take back your emotions and grab hold to possibility.. *Be Encouraged: LOVE YOURSELF*
10 Signs someone only like you as a friend: They dont make a move
Me: YoU doNt SAy
Some people assume that they're "playing hard to get", so yeah.
It hurts to see when all of these signs are true.
yea… it really hurts. :/
Anyone else in love with her voice? It's just so ... Lovely. IDK anyone else??
Yea plus she's also taken just in case you're curious but I still like her as a CZcamsr
@@christiansnaturestudio6599 not interested in her that way
Her voice is very calming
yeah, her voice is so relaxing
@@christiansnaturestudio6599 woah where did that come from
Here’s what I’ve learned; humans are confusing as hell.
Refuse Kid15 no, they are crazy as FU-
Women*
tornakasi no
*girls
yea wtf evolution
"most of your conversation is over text." Me, who's never gotten a text back "oh yay, he loves me!"
I came here after being friend zoned by my crush. We are kind of really close friends and I thought maybe he felt the same but nah. But I shot my shot and I don't regret it.
cant relate for the life of me
I was thinking about asking my crush out today........I feel like the world is trying to tell me something
Edit- THEY SAID YES
Thanks for the support or I definitely would’ve given up before I tried XD
You’ll never know for sure till you try, think of this message as a sign to go and ask her/him/they
Don't lose hope
you might as well do it soon. theres no telling if that special someone likes you now. if you arent quick enough, they might get over you. don't be afraid of rejection, it's an experience that'll help you understand life, and admitting your feelings will be one of the most liberating feelings of all time. and ya never know, you might enter a life-long happy relationship. go get em.
yeah... do it if none of us cant atleadt you can fufill it in us by getting your crush we support you
If you feel you should do it then do it it's no good to keep it in for to long
0:36 most of your relationship is over text
1:07 the gaze - chest/hip if into, legs/feet if not into
1:32 they want to be your matchmaker
1:51 they come to you for relationship advice
2:13 they set boundaries - eg only want to see you at specific times
2:38 they never hint that they like you
2:57 they don't make you a priority
3:27 if they hang out with you, they prefer it to be as a group
3:51 they never make a move on you - never flirt etc
4:11 you already know but choose to ignore it - listen to your gut
Thanks for doing this, my parents are in the same room as me, so I can't have the sound up, so this helps out a ton 👍
Thanks for putting this list together. We will add it to our video description and credit you :)
Yeah, that’s true or so they make you believe until they see you are happy with someone else and then they feel sad.
I got friendzoned for 3 years, as it turns out we actually both liked each other and were just both too afraid to say anything. Now that I finally I've got a girlfriend, and the last few days have been some of the happiest of my life.
The last days? Are you dead?? I mean if ur dead ig you can't answer lol but if you're alive...
????
I’m getting friend-zoned by her but she actually admitted that she’s shy often and yet, she still shows many many signs of interest.
I just told my best friend yesterday I have feelings for her and she said she only likes me as a friend :(
That’s so sad 😔
*_*Sounds a lot of shots and grenades_*
*MAN DOWN MAN DOWN*
I think that’s the answer every men expects
F
Brooo that happened to me too 💀 I confessed to her and she said she sees me as a close friend 😔
Looks like my crush fell in love with my best friend and she tried to push him away from me because she was secretly jealous of me.
And I oop..
That... Hurts...
Let her have him if that makes her happy, if she keeps doing this, she’s not a good “best friend”
That's a fucked up love triangle if I ever saw one. Opposites do attract though, this has a possibility of working out in your favor
She sounds like a twat.
Same
I'm so lonely that even darkness isn't my friend
yeah! i can confirm what "A" said!
Get yourself out there honey. Network, have day dates by yourself.. You don't know who you might run into on the street. Literally. Speaking from
experience & all the best x
Edit: try and enjoy the adventure (you can) and more importantly, discovering more about yourself as time goes on. A cliche, but for a reason.
@@princesssheogorath1979 I mean, how is 'get yourself out there' good advice? Someone has to want to get out there before they do. The advice should be 'rekindle your desire, do what you love, pour your heart into it, be happy, then get out there'.
This is so edgy but damned right.
Hey frd, don't be so discouraged. Y u talkin bout darkness when u worth all of the brighter side ha? Keep calm frd, everything will be fine 👍
The highest form of love according to Plato is platonic love. So if someone puts you in the friendzone, they are loving you in the highest form.
platonic love is not necessarily friendship
Plato's like "It's named after me, so it MUST be the best!" 🙄
@@jadegecko haha 😂
Firends zone is sooo much better then actual relashionships
Plato was for sure coping when he wrote that 😂😂😂
Do not end up feeling entitled and getting mad when you find out they don’t reciprocate your feelings. I’ve had people essentially treat me like I’ve wronged them. I do not owe you anything.
It's natural to feel some anger at anyone who hurts you, whether that's fair or not. Experiencing normal human emotions doesn't make someone 'entitled.' If being hurt by unrequited love makes one entitled, then almost every human being in world history is an entitled asshole.
@@DrCasey having a temper tantrum over it (which a lot of guys do) isn't normal. They don't have to be angry. Being upset or let down is fine but angry? That's kinda scary and they need to grow up. It's like when you get rejected by a job or school. Like that's just life 🤷🏻♀️ some things go your way and sometimes it doesn't. We as humans need to get more used to rejection so we aren't getting angry or throwing hissy fits or turn to yelling at the girl or throwing her into a dumpster (all real life experiences)
@@PGOuma Saying anything mean to the girl is obviously wrong or unjustified, of course (and going any further than that becomes progressively more wrong, as it goes without saying). I wouldn't say that feeling any kind of bitterness is bad or wrong in and of itself, though, so long as they don't express those feelings to the girl in question. Everyone's entitled to have whatever thoughts they want about any subject they want.
11: They honestly tell you directly straight up (but you think it's just a joke or playing hard to get).
wait a seconddddd .
Mine didn't. Strung me along for a couple months before she actually told me. Worst couple months of my life & when I finally had the strength to walk away she didn't let me.
The whole thing has mentally screwed me over soo much.
@@connorwest465 I'm sorry to hear that Connor, sounds like a terribly painful situation to be in. Thanks for sharing your feelings on the matter, that is a great start towards resolving matters and for wellbeing recovery.
@@BrotherTree1 thank you.
Past few months have felt like a living hell.
I only wish that it turned out differently. Regardless of whether how she felt about me, she should've be honest with me & expressed how she felt instead of flirting/giving me hope.
I can't stop blaming myself on how it turned out, even though deep down I know that I've done nothing wrong.
😂😂😂
psych2go’s videos are getting unbelievably relatable it’s scary
anicatm yeah...
LMAO
Me: Hello, my name is -
I HAVE A BOYFRIEND
Her: I want someone like you but not you!
What zone is that?
.
.
.
Me: FOR EXAMPLE ZONE. 😂
That's called the "Keith Urban zone"
🎵🎶🎶 *I wanna love somebody! Love somebody **_Like you!_* 🎵🎵🎵
Lmaooo
@@rosepetunia1829🤣🤣🤣 That's hilarious
Lol
"Instead of continuously chasing them, do yourself a favor and find someone who values you". It never happens. And when you're tired of being alone you're content with someone that doesn't deserve you
Who doesn't deserve you? You need to find things to do. Stop chasing people. Chase your dreams. If all you want is a man, then you're looking for all the wrong features at all the wrong places. You need to find someone who mirrors. Quit looking for a handsome boy to brew your infatuation. Look for someone who reflects you.
Ling Ling but “doing you” and not trying to find that person you will be left behind time doesn’t care rather your looking for love or not and if we didn’t need it we wouldn’t care
@@gabenewell3955 Honestly agreed. I agree in personal development, honoring ourselves, our moral values, and doing sufficient to know who we are & what our life needs etc, self-love... but there will be a point where we do need to be centered in love, and to yes, seek it. Otherwise, it's not just going to naturally set us up on its own lol. You made a true point.
Reverse this. Be worthy to yourself first, and when it comes to love, ask yourself, are They worthy of me? Or do they need to have their own worth/healing first? ♡ And do they align with your values? Or plans in your life? I.e pets or children/starting a family, views, etc. If all goes well, then go for it, especially once knowing one another well for a good amount of time, and it's mutual loving interests. :)
Stephanie TM exactly we have to be able to do both
1:23 - 1:30
Everyone with a foot fetish: *Peers through open space in a wall* "Are you sure about that?!"
hahaha made my day!
Literally me when I saw that part.
LMFAO I'm in the dark, laying in my room rn and I immediately thought about the hole in my wall behind my back. I immediately moved my blanket over me covering my back and burst out laughing. Thx dude
The priority one really hit hard. Sometimes I feel like I just do more for people no matter what even if they are my crush. I keep telling myself that if they come at me with the same energy then they like me. But it hasn't happened yet with my crush and I try so hard to believe she will, but I just have to accept its never happening.
The fact that I do pretty much all of these things as a defense mechanism to shield myself from possible rejection, so that if my crush doesn’t like me I won’t get hurt.
Come on. If they dont "feel comfortable" hanging out with you at night or if they set "boundaries" they are not even friends. Walk away
Completely agree. Also, a real friend prioritizes you ...if you are dead last in all things at all times, that’s not even a friendship. That’s being a doormat.
Oh, so when my friends get uncomfortably close to me i cant tell them to stop? Thats setting boundaries
In the context of the video the person doesn't feel comfortable IN A DATE with the other guy. Com'on, it's really easy to distinguish between a dine with a mate and a fucking date. I had a friend who was into me (I pretended not to notice) and she invited me to a fancy restaurant, and was flawless dressed and she tried to pay the full check. Only the roses missing 😂 Friends don't do that. Obviously, the next times I rejected to go for a dine again or I invited other people.
Agreed. Also, it’s not unheard of for people to set boundaries with people they are attracted to. It’s called putting your walls up because you are terrified of rejection. I did it for most of my adult life.
Anything on toxic/clingy friends?
I cant stand toxically clingy friends. They are draining, controlling and self-entitled.
they made a video on toxic relationships :)
same bruh
omg i need a video on that
@@abhilasha9608 like romantic relationships? Not really interested. I think incompatible relationships have been talked about to death by society generally. But not really toxic friendships or the idea of being bullied by your friends or having overly controlling overbearing friends. It's like society looks at romantic relationships through a microscope of criticism and portrays friendships as flawless places of comfort and safety. When the reality is sometimes far from it.
Another thing overlooked is toxic family relationships as an adult.
Always instead relationship this, relationship that. Yawn.
Stop talking to them it ain't that hard
Actually, I came here because a friend recently confessed, but in this situation, I'm the person that just sees him as a friend. I feel bad, but its for the best.
Crush: Does all of these to me
Me *starts sweating*
The guy I like: *shows some signs that he likes me and signs that he sees me as a friend*
Me: *These are confusing times*
Update: Oh wow okay I forgot I made this comment. I’m actually aroace now, and am only attracted to cheesy garlic bread and weaponry. The guy mentioned here is one of my friends now, and even though I still get teased with him occasionally, I lost all my feelings for him. Thanks for the replies though, seriously it helped me move on from that guy.
And i oop..
I feel you T^T I’m in a similar situation as well
Same over here, even if he knows i *LIKED* him before XD
Crush:*one inch away from my face*
Next day
Crush:*Bitch Slaps Me*
Next Day
Crush:*hugs me*
Next Day
Crush:* Ignores me*
Next Day
Crush:*plays video games w me*
Me: Wtf
Zaynah Lliam Bitanga just move on. Find a guy that makes it beyond super clear he likes/ loves you instead.
Also another thing I wanted to put on the table:
If you flirt with some and they don't flirt back, it may be because they don't know how to react to flirtatious comments or are just simply the oblivious type. It could also be that they just don't realize you're being serious and mistake it for a joke. Or, maybe they don't want to assume things in order to protect their own feelings so they don't take your flirty comments seriously. It all depends on what type of person your crush is, really.
For those who invite other people to the events you plan to do with them, such as watching the movies or just hanging out someplace, it's not always because they feel awkward because they don't like you. They may feel awkward because they don't want others to assume that something is going on between the two of you (anxiety may be taken into consideration for this), or because they don't want family members to get suspicious of you two. After all, parents and family in general can also be quick to jump into conclusions.
You're giving me hopes 😂😂
Adding onto your second one, I have a crush on a close friend of mine and I’m extremely nervous around him and I’m worried he may think I like him so I invite others along whenever we hang out. So yeah, if this stuff is happening I wouldn’t lose hope.
it all depends on how old are you. this video's advice are not for kids. this are for young adults.
but if you look carefully. if you follow her advice and keep yourself away from them he or she would notice it if they are into you and they would ask is there's something wrong. and if they do. you tell them. and that's when you realize they are into you too coz they noticed.
Me: Already have my heart broken
My Heart: Hey, i found a new one for you too get broken by, mate!
"If you're feeling BRAVE just tell them how you feel.." Recipe for Success
You make your own luck.
Sometimes, you're best play, is to go all in. Damn the consequences. If you want to always be left wondering "what if" then do nothing. I am speaking from experience.
Jared Fritsch it’s true....I told a girl how I really felt cuz I’ve never been in love before and she put me in the friendzone. I’ve been able to move on quicker knowing I’ve been able to say what I’ve wanted to say and I feel like a weight is lifted off my shoulders
I don't know what to do.
I like to call this the Standard "Reaper gets rejected for the umpteenth time" play :P
I've tried countless times over 30 years, and the times it has paid off is precisely 2 XD
Crush: Yeah I like you
Is she into me?
Really you cant tell, maybe she is from canada and was just being polite
I love that videos from casually explained
If she's from Canada she'll apologise.
Even if shes from Canada, us Canadians shouldn't lie like that-
Euna C It’s a joke 😔✊🏻
@@honeyfli332 Mine was a joke, too- 🙇♀️🙇♀️🙇♀️
So.. who's your secret admirer? Comment below ;)
nobody lol I'll always be a single pringle
I don't have one :/
No one that I know of
@Phych2Go Used to be my good friends. So sad one of my other friends decided to take ruin my friendship with her and keep them all to himself.
No one :(
"Unrequited love
Can make us
Unaware and
Obsessive
But it doesn't
Have to
Destroy us
Unles we let it.." Speak Up
I don’t know what to do anymore, we started texting for hours every night, it slowed down. Started up again. Now I get left on read occasionally and I am always starting the conversation. I want to ask but can’t bring myself to. I am afraid
Sorry to say but this happened to me, I told her how I felt and was rejected, funny thing was we did alot of flirting amoung other things before hand so yeah the rejection stung like a bitch, she probably grown uninterested
@@michaeljonesamvs it happens bro
Can next vid be:
“10 signs someone doesn’t like you at all”
It would help
I agree
Ye, please I need it.
Her: All 10 signs in this video
Me: She'll come around one day.
Orrr this:
"OhH, mArInEtTe? ShE's JuSt A fRiEnD!"
this is straight facts that i dont accept yet, the hope never leaves
When you like the same gender and they only see you as a friend.
"Deep you know, but it hurts"😭💔
H Yee F
Same bud, I can relate. I'm crushing on my girl best friend hard.
@@crystal_nymph1537 😭hurts more ain't it? *pats*
@@shinminhee6711 And to top it off, I live in a very ignorant country with little to no knowledge about any type of sexuality. (Although my best friend does know that I crush on a girl and she's okay with that, she just doesn't know that it's her.)
@@crystal_nymph1537 I want to know more of your story;-; that feels so painful I'm rooting for you I hope someday you'll find the right one
Sign that they only like you as a friend: “they don’t make a move.”
Me: I liked him for 4 years now-
my guts: GET UR ICE CREAM AND MOVE ON
:,)
Nah for me it’s been 11 years
12 years and counting :,)
@@SiulAlphonse Why are we like this :')
@@Learnmathwithv Maybe masochism? I just can't let her go and move on.
Ok guys Ima ask my crush to be his friend so wish me luck
what did he say
wedsarta he said no
@@jeonJungkookgirlfriend oof
*Ouch, being friend zoned is probably one of the worst things that can happen, IF you fell for that person BUT! You need to let go* 🙏
No its not lol
One of the worst things that could happen? Uh try again please.
Zaxor Von Skyler IF you fell for that person I mean
@@MindNow even then, if you actually care about them most people would rather still be friends than being absolutely hated by them.
Nah, it's okay. It's a life thing and definitely not as tragic as we make it out to be
wow... thats depressing for me then, but thx for all the info!
EDIT: am i just going crazy or do i have like 350 likes? wow thx u guys!
Welcome to the club mate.
Same here.
@@everydaygeek8715 haha thx
I used to have a relationship with my then girl best friend. I didn’t fall for her because of her looks, but the way she made me feel whenever she smiled and talked. When she broke up with me, i felt like i lost everything. She told me she could only see me as a friend. I began smoking and drinking frequently to stop thinking about her, but it never worked. I came over it from time to time, but it always came back to me. I only needed her. I just wish i could back and hold her tightly for the last time, before i completely forget about the life i had when i was with her.
I totally agree to that phrase "be thankful for this learning experience, and find someone else"
On the other hand, it's not that easy to move on to the one person you really liked 🙂....etc
If these are true then I’m getting hella mixed signals
Take a moment of silence for all the brothers in the friendzones...RIP
Lmfaoo try a girl who put herself there😭💀
And the sisters😢
And the sisters, and the sad gays who fell in love with their straight best friend😔✊
And 'Sisters'...
Friendzone Cemetery!!! Im kicking Fate's ass on judgement day!!!!
"Don't be discouraged. Instead be thankful for that learning experience and find someone else."
Yeah, I know that would be the best. But hey, that's not as easy as it sounds! You can't choose who you like. You're mind can't control your heart. So even if you know all these things and you like someone who doesn't like you back the way you do, you can't just stop feeling the things you feel when it comes to this person.
Or at least I can't.
“Most of your relationship is over text”
I don’t have a choice since quarantine-
What I learned is that you're not entitled to someone's romantic love (even though I've only been friendzoned once). That helped me. Didn't hurt that much though (so maybe I'm just different). I really felt that therapist part though.
i actually mistook my anxiety into my friend liking me, i fidget with my fingers and avoid eye contact, and the wrong gaze yes he was staring in my soul often and that made me uncomfortable but i thought i liked him so i texted him but then told him i liked him as a friend and i did tbh i didn't like him romantically at all but that just got into my head, but next time i would not analyse everything when not needed i am actually going to a new school so if i have a crush i would let him tell me his feelings first and if i do get a bf i want it to be unexpected, ill just focus on my studying and be there for him as a friend and talk about my interests and who knows what will happen.
"they gaze at your feet if they see you as a friend" What if they look into your eyes?
@Marī Beilschmidt well that could maybe depend on if he is shy or something. I like looking into the eyes but if I'm feeling shy or feeling not confident I would not do that. I don't know if it's the same to other men though.
Marī Beilschmidt I look into the eyes of my girlfriend for pretty Long. You are right!
It’s tricky because most girls naturally look at eyes when they’re only being friendly, like if they’re waitresses, cashiers, or with friends. If a girl really likes you, her pupils would be dilated if she looks at you.
What if he stands like a inch away from my face?
@@richerDiLefto *laughs in dark brown eyes*
I’m trying to be friends with my crush they aren’t ready to love I can tell but I understand that so regardless of my feelings I’m going to help them love again someday even if it’s someone else 🥰 they deserve happiness
What a nice guy
think i just lost *every* feeling and not just one.
I LOVE THIS!
it also feels horrible when you are the one who has to tell the friendzoned person that you don't love them
Agreed. I had to friend zone my best friend (who I still hang out with btw) and knowing what an awkward and selfcouncoius person she is, it was really hard to tell her I don't feel the same way without being scared of hurting her feelings since I really care about her (as a friend)
@@ssr8555 wow... I you still hang out with her? I'm glad for you it didn't end up in a worst case scenario. for me it was a little more difficult... she used to be like a big sister to me but it got awkward after she became touchy and threw hits everywhere, I didn't know how to adress this issue and talk to her about it, still thought there's a way to save the friendship... now she's entering the military and we will probably never see each other again
@@Ella-bh1dn I'm sorry to hear that it isn't going that great for you. I hear a lot of stories of how one-sided crushes have destroyed friendships and it's really awful... I hope everything goes well with you. Best of luck for the future!
@@ssr8555 thanks, it really means a lot. It bothers me that we never had the chance to talk it out, and that it all ended this kinda sudden way with her deciding to enter the military. I wish I could at least tell her in all honesty that I wish her the best but I don't dare to see her one last time again. The only thing that made me feel a bit better about this whole issue is that maybe we both learned and grew with it but that's just me protecting myself from getting even more introverted and insecure
Welp. I’m lesbian and my old friend knew this, and he told me he liked me. Basically he tries to act like we’re a couple even though he knows I don’t like him and that I’m a lesbian. So I don’t want to be friends with him anymore since it’s getting toxic.
I feel like the only one here who appreciates the friendship between me and my crush. Even if he doesn't nor ever see me the way that I see him, I still value him as a friend. Just being around him makes me happy.
" *Even the most reserve individuals will make it obvious* .. they like someone!!"
'Don't be discouraged. Instead be thankful for this learning experience and finding someone else'. Now in my eleventh year of trying to find someone else.
Haha you all are friendzoned
Cries in lonlyness
XD
Haha. *_He ain't even my friend._*
Now I need this:
10 signs someone see you as a close friend.
Or even
10 sings someone see you as a friend.
T_T
Yaaas. I need this😶
“10 sings”
Got friendzoned he was really nice about it.
"Most of your relationship is over text"
Me with my online class friends: 👁👄👁
Without *CONFESSION,* you’ll never know. Always tell your emotions.
Exactly !! The confession is a huge relief and after that, there's a time where you'll learn a lot about yourself regardless !! Go for it, you'll thank yourself for it on a later day. Good luck 🍀
Yorben D W love the message!
@@studyme-selftaughtlife4958 Thanks. I ❤️ love, but sadly that isn't always easy. Learning some things do hurt 😭 But maybe they will therefore be even more beautiful in the end 😘
@@yorbendw5035 Even if it hurts, it will eventually get better, and you can move on. Much better than suppressing your emotions indefinitely. Everyone says the worst thing is a no. I disagree. The worst thing, is a "maybe".
That's basically my situation. Trying to get closer with a friend of mine I see once a week in school rn. I'm not that optimistic after the classic friendzone-talk (like she only gets together with assholes and stuff), but I simply want to know for sure if there is a possibility. Even if my my blood pressure showes 187 to 108 just before asking her out
Awh, the "matchmaker" bit is so truly legit - thanks for this video dears x
And I oop-
This vid was really helpful thanks for making these vids you earned yourself a new sub
I guess there's no hurt in finding out that you can't be wrong, I mean dying alone can't be *_that_* bad....
Why are these videos always SUCH *MOODS??*
*WHY???*
“it feels like when you get friend zoned it feels like it’s the end of the world”
I’ve been friend zoned over 9 thousand times
A R E Y O U S U R E A B O U T T H A T
Damn its creepy that you crushed on over 9000 girls
Edit:yes ik its a joke but this is too
idkhello I am too don’t worry
Yeah my crushes rarely like me, I use to pretend that I have an intimidating personality, but the truth is they are just friend zoning, but it's okay; my time will come.
Best advice giver , one who supports her at time of needs , one who could read her mind easily even over the text.....still just her friend 😭
Aaaand this broke my heart, hopes and dreams...
You'll recover, keep going forward